degage detached uninvolved
degage%5:00:00:unconcerned:00 detached%5:00:00:unconcerned:00 uninvolved%5:00:00:unconcerned:00
showing lack of emotional involvement
adopted a degage pose on the arm of the easy chair (J.S.Perelman) she may be detached or even unfeeling but at least she's not hypocritically effusive an uninvolved bystander