The fifteen year old does not choose her own husband ; instead , PERSON@1 sends PERSON@2 , his spirit servant , to fetch PERSON@3 while PERSON@4 is asleep , and arranges things so that the two will come to love one another .

Her father PERSON@1 sends PERSON@2 , his spirit servant , to fetch PERSON@3 and arranges things so that the two will come to love one another .
