It is a wise love partner who is aware of the potential damage loose words can cause. Words spoken in anger inflict wounds that sometimes take a long time to heal. Think first, then speak.
It is one thing to speak what you feel and quite another to speak what you feel without regard to the consequences of the pain that might accompany your words when spoken hastily to your love partner.
The words we express allow us to predict the predicaments that will occur in our relationships. It is wise to be careful of the words we think. Thinking them becomes a dress rehearsal for what we can expect to happen. Speaking them activates the law of cause and effect.
On the other hand, the words of encouragement, of understanding, of love, or any words that echo good will always elevate us to their own level. That is most likely a higher place than where we began. As often as you can, speak only words of love.
Relationships don't die by themselves. We kill relationships with inappropriate words -- words from the head, not from the heart.
Those words can never be recalled. We must remember to think before we speak. We must carefully weigh the cost of speaking our thoughts randomly and without evaluating the possible outcome. Be considerate of your love partner.
Often our thoughts revert back to the "safe zone". . . the familiar. . . the way of being that we were before, and that didn't work.
When we insist upon thinking and speaking past thoughts as words, we find that they will dominate our attention and only keep us stuck. Mentally rehearsing what doesn't work, doesn't work, if you want your life to be great. It only more deeply internalizes what you don't want. Focus on what you want in your relationship!
In essence, we begin to believe that which we think is our very own new idea. In reality, most likely, those thoughts are from our past, and if concentrated upon, reoccur as our present and eventually as our future. Give it up! Make up some new and exciting ways of being. We must give up what we don't want in favor of what we would like to happen.
In the Bible, Job said, "The thing I feared has come upon me." Those words were an acknowledgment of the power of his negative thinking, spoken as his word, which eventually became his very own reality.
The power of the words we speak is proven daily in what shows up in our lives. The tendency is to place blame on the circumstances around us rather than accept responsibility that we authored the thoughts we spoke and that in speaking them as words, in truth, created our present condition.
Our outer results will never be any different unless we make internal changes in the way we think and take caution of the words we speak.
 If you would like to talk one-on-one with Larry James about relationship issues related to this article, you are invited to arrange for a private coaching session by telephone. Go to Personal Relationship Coaching for specific details.
Author Larry James is a professional speaker. He presents "Relationship Enrichment LoveShops" nationally for singles and couples. More About Larry James
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As she is slowly approaching 40, Kate Moss weight gain is getting more and more noticeable. This legendary English model started her career at the age 14, after the founder of Storm Model Management spotted the girl during her holiday in Bahamas. A couple of years later Moss became one of the most sensational young models in Britain, as her black-and-white photos, made by Corinne Day, were published in The Face magazine.
The photographs, describes as “grunge” and “dirty realism”, were nothing like the polished, glamorous pictures of Elle Macpherson, Naomi Campbell, Cindy Crawford and Claudia Schiffer. Everyone who has seen them knows that back then Kate Moss weight gain was not among her problems. In fact, her particularly skinny frame, waifish figure is what made this young British stand off from the other supermodels of the time. At first most of designers and fashion houses were not particularly impressed with Kate’s figure and showed preference towards curvier and more feminine models. However, soon Moss, who was often referred to as anti-supermodel, became more popular the any of her curvy colleagues. Over the 1990s she has worked with such British, American, Italian and French fashion houses as Dolce & Gabbana, Chanel, Rimmel, Gucci, Calvin Klein and Bulgari. Kate’s photos have also appeared in such influential fashion magazines as French Vogue, Another Man, Vanity Fair, etc.
Kate has successfully continued her modeling carrier into the 2000s, working with Topshopl, Agent Provocateur, Burberry, Calvin Klein Jeans and other world-famous companies. Through all those years the model was widely associated with zero size fashion trend and remained exceptionally skinny. During the first fifteen years of her career there was only one time when Kate Moss weight gain was really noticeable. This transformation took place in the early 2000s, when the beauty got pregnant with the child of Jefferson Hack. Her one and only daughter, Lila Grace Moss Hack, was born in 2002. However, even then Kate piled on just as many pounds as was absolutely necessary for the baby and got rid of them right after giving birth.
Due to her waifish figure Kate was often blamed for looking anorexic and thus setting the wrong example for thousands of teenagers who adored her and wanted to look like their diva. Numerous journalists have also claimed that the reason this model remains so fin is her drug addiction. These allegations were actually well grounded: on more than one occasion the beauty was photographed snoring something that looked like cocaine. The recent Kate Moss weight gain could be interpreted as a sign that the woman has finally pulled herself together and got clean of drugs. Her recent transformation could also be explained by age and slowing metabolism.
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