ex-patriot -RRB- There 's nothing better than getting to know a place by hanging out with people who can tell you more than a guidebook about the area 's culture and hidden gems . Have a glass of wine and chat up the bartender -LRB- or the person with the best English if you 're abroad -RRB- or find out about an area of town where the ex-patriots live . Especially if you 've been away from home for a long time , an American omelet or bagel can keep you smiling . Make friends Just because your hotel mates are using the vacation as a romantic getaway does n't mean that they are not open to meeting others on their travels . There 's a chance you 'll end up chatting with a couple who bores you with the details of their wedding , but you might luck out and make a few friends -LRB- who perhaps will save you seats at the breakfast buffet the next morning -RRB- . Plan activities Jet skiing , para-gliding , R.V. treks -- take advantage of all the offerings , that way you 'll have fun and burn some of the calories
-LRB- The Frisky -RRB- -- Even if you 're not going to Fiji or the Maldives , accidentally ending up in a popular honeymooning spot while not actually on your honeymoon is easier than you think , especially with the abundance of all-inclusive deals online . Just because your hotel mates are on a romantic getaway does n't mean they 're not open to company . If watching smooching couples while chilling out with your friends makes you want to puke , no worries . You can still have a blast , even if you 're not traveling with your newly committed soul mate . Relax You probably chose the fantastic place because you found a great deal to an amazing destination -LRB- much like your cuddling neighbors -RRB- , so take advantage . Hit the spa , do some yoga , swim or make time for the mellow activities that are tough to fit in back home . While you probably wo n't meet the guy of your dreams lying motionless in a mud wrap , you 'll be Zen enough to have a new outlook once your return home . Do n't underestimate the locals -LRB- or the