, shop elsewhere ! Choose carefully It 's bad enough that you 're `` dating '' a married guy , but when you start sleeping with someone who 's in a position of authority over you , you 're screwing yourself twice . Every good grade will be chalked up to your romance with the professor and every promotion , credited to time served on your back . Do n't kid yourself that nobody in your class or office knows , because people are n't blind and you 're not that slick . Do n't go home with him Maybe he 's too cheap to pay for a hotel room , could be he secretly wants to get caught ... then again , maybe he 's just a sociopath , but I ca n't even tell you how many times I 've heard about a marriage dude bringing his girlfriend back to the house he shares with his wife and kids -- usually when everyone 's out of town , but not always . Letterman even took his mistress on vacation with his family ! Whatever his motivation , resist . You 're already hurting this woman by having sex
-LRB- The Frisky -RRB- -- Like the David Letterman Debacle was n't bad enough , now we have the story of Steve Phillips , the ESPN analyst , who had an affair with a 22-year-old coworker . Unfortunately for the 46-year-old sports dude and married father of four , his latest dalliance -LRB- and apparently there 've been others before her -RRB- turned bunny boiler when he broke it off with her . Brooke Hundley , the jilted junior , allegedly went ballistic ; repeatedly emailing and calling Phillips ' long-suffering wife , tricking their 16-year-old son into an online flirtation , and then finally showing up at the family home , scaring the crap out of everyone . Lucky for Hundley , the Phillips 's declined to press charges , but her reputation , both professionally and personally , is shot . -LRB- His too . He 's since been fired from ESPN and has entered a treatment facility . -RRB- Obviously , being some cad 's side action is always a sucker 's game , but if you 're going to do it , do it right . The Frisky : If he 's not on the market