text: Kelly: I'm going to Paul tomorrow and again i feel I don't know what is expecting me there
  Ann: We never know what expects us tomorrow
  Kelly: But maybe it's how it should be
  Jenny: Yes
  Jenny: a partner is not a dog
  Jenny: They are free to go away any minute
  Ann: Or a Disney princess (I am watching sleeping beauty now on TV)
  Kelly: 😂😂😂 Yes, so they have the right to leave us and we should be able to see life after them always
  Ann: Yes, this is the biggest problem of the ideology of love. The idea that love is life. Love has been equated with life. Especially for women, but not only, also for men. People can't imagine life without it
  Kelly: Yes, but we love this dream of life that is love and love that is life
  Ann: And this creates dependency, jealousy, frustrations, drama
  Ann: It's not even a very beautiful dream to be with someone all your life. The promise of no change. Stability forever. It is what capitalism needs from us - 40 years of mortgage and marriage
  Kelly: Ahaha, yes and that somebody will take care of us when we are sick. 
  Ann: Love is beautiful, intense, crazy and brief. And it was transformed in a long lasting good, a house. Something like this.
  Kelly: But i think, or I suppose that we should be able to love for life potentially. We cannot approach love with a plan
  Ann: Yes, sure, but a substantial group of people, not one. But the problem is that love is mostly approached with one plan. Being together, get married, etc
  Ann: Or now, under the new regime of supposed sexual freedom, with the opposite plan: nothings lasts and love doesn't matter. But this is substituting an ideology with another, when we should just let it be.
  Ann: Simply 😅
  Kelly: Yes, I agree
  Jenny: and most of all this myth of love as life is a disappointing lie that makes people suffer a lot
  Ann: Yes, the dependency that it creates is horrible
  Ann: I see it with my friends, it breaks my heart
  Kelly: sounds sad
target: Kelly is going to Paul tomorrow and doesn't know what to expect. Ann and Jenny share their views on the ideology of love. 