text: Janet: i don't want to stick my nose where it doesn't belong
  Janet: but after what you told me earlier, i think you should stay away from your cousin :-/
  Oscar: i know what you mean and where you come from
  Oscar: but he's family, i can't let him out to dry :-(
  Janet: you can do whatever you want, just don't say i didn't warn you
target: Janet thinks that Oscar should distance himself from his cousin.