text: Cecilia: Trudy heard about our WhatsApp group. She wants to join.
  Trevor: Why not?
  Thomas: It's a family group and technically she's not family.
  Trevor: Your understanding of family is very narrow... 
  Thomas: For me family is either blood bonds or marriage
  Trevor: And if you had an adopted child it wouldn't be your family then
  Thomas: Trudy is not an adopted child. She's just a friend
  Cecilia: Should we add her or not?
  Trevor: Yes!
  Thomas: No.
  Thomas: We can make a different group if she wants to chat with us.
  Thomas: But family group is just that
  Cecilia: Maybe we should vote? 
target: Thomas doesn't want to add Trudy to their WhatsApp group because she doesn't belong to the family.