public static MaplePacket sendGroomWishlist() {
        MaplePacketLittleEndianWriter mplew = new MaplePacketLittleEndianWriter();
        mplew.writeShort(SendPacketOpcode.FAMILY_ACTION); //<name> has requested engagement. Will you accept this proposal?
        mplew.write(9);
        return mplew.getPacket();
    }