public static MaplePacket sendEngagementRequest(String name) {
        MaplePacketLittleEndianWriter mplew = new MaplePacketLittleEndianWriter();
        mplew.writeShort(SendPacketOpcode.FAMILY_ACTION); //<name> has requested engagement. Will you accept this proposal?
        mplew.write(0);
        mplew.writeMapleAsciiString(name); // name
        mplew.writeInt(10); // playerid
        return mplew.getPacket();
    }