"If you’re selling apples, why do you expect women to buy pears?’"

But why force women to choose just apples or pears? They're both tasty. I wouldn't want to make a lifelong choice - 'til death will I eat only apples'.

It seems worse to follow the common cuckold stories: "I chose an apple but it's pathetic and unsatisfying so I have pears on the side that are so amazing!"

Now we do find a little teasing and humiliation very hot and play with that. I've wondered what it would be like to actually have a small cock and I do think it would be hot, if difficult for her to legitimately love me but also really need a big one. For better worse we don't have that option, but we do enjoy teasing about me being locked up with my little "clit" poking out of my cage, me not getting her pussy or getting to cum, etc.

I'd like to invent a new term!

Cuckold has so much historical baggage and is so associated with the failings of the NAME_1 that it just doesn't fit.

Stag and Vixen is more mild than we are. Denial and BDSM devotion is a big part of our combination of fun.

Hotwife is fun but leaves off any role of the NAME_1.

What should we call it?