met an introversive, smart girl on a dating site. she had a drug addiction and some mental problems in the past. we got so much in common that level of understanding was astonishing. we met two times. first time was great and i felt something that i didn't feel since childhood. then she became more and more cold. then after several tries i invited her to second meeting. she was cold and disinterested. This coldness spread into our online communication. I understood what's going on but continued. Tried to gain her interest. And I succeed. But it only made her reveal her lie - she started to meet her old lover month ago and he was the reason of coldness. But she felt something to me. She didn't want to betray this old lover and wanted to dump me. I talked her to continue our communication. Then dialogue became unbearable to me and I blocked her everywhere. After this she shows up on a gig of my favourite band with this lousy lover. Starts to provoke me, spends whole gig making out with him near me. Touches me. Looks at me. At the end I'm going out, she's going in and stops for a second when we cross. I didn't even look. After couple of days sent her video art with our favourite reference and insulting song about her behaviour. It was couple of weeks ago. But I can't stop thinking about her, i never been so shure about anyone and want still to write her. Or should I wait until she writes first (but it's highly unlikely)?