Let a woman tell how, in order to remain a virgin, she offered her boyfriend to take her anally instead. Let her describe in as much detail as possible how nervous she was. She really only wanted to do it for his sake and let it happen without letting on how it actually felt. Have her describe in equal detail the physical sensations she experienced and the physical reactions they caused. Let her report how it felt that only the mixture of a little spit and his drops of pleasure acted as a lubricant.