this is a argument between two people find out who is factually correct: Person Number 1:They can want it all they want. (talking about vaginoplasty) All they can have is a chronically uncomfortable/painful open wound that has no functionality or appeal of the real thing and requires daily lifelong medications and creams and specialized (non-gyn) healthcare. Person number 2:I don't know where you got this information but it is astoundingly inaccurate.
Vaginoplaty creates a vagina that is not a painful, open wound but an actual vagina. Trans women can urinate and have sex just like a cis woman. And no. You can not tell the difference by looking and you wouldn't know if you fucked one