The following is an email that I sent to my real estate rental agent; "I'm sorry it's taken me so long to respond. I've worked roughly 20 hours over the last 2 days between NAME_1 and my cleaning business.

I appreciate your understanding, but also wish to clarify that if I am causing you undue stress or being a nuisance that I am more than happy to take a few steps back.

I am on the autism spectrum, so my responses to particular situations can confuse some people because I process information differently.

This is what got the last guy so upset, and possibly why NAME_2 is so upset with me... If I make a mistake or do something that bothers someone else, I'll just outright admit to it, and offer a solution instead of getting upset.

When you encounter someone who is just looking for a fight with that kind of mentality, they don't know how to respond or react and their flight or fight response kicks in. 

I'm sure you've experienced this many times in your career, so you'll know what I'm referring too.

My main concerns at this juncture are to keep the property in as good or better condition than when I moved in, and to make your job as easy as possible. 🙂"