Imagine being a gay student (named A) who would not like to make a big deal about being gay but wanting to find some queer friends to know people who he can relate to. He found classmate (named B) on an online platform for gay people but did not dare to tell him, since they only talked a few times before, which B might have seen but without identifying A surely. B could possibly also have forgotten about it in the meantime. Should A tell B about that, when he comes out to B, or should he wait if A asks for it?