Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

[Q]: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I go to a boarding school and recently we had our annual school race. You can walk or run the race and a lot of people walk. My school is divided into separate boarding houses (roughly 50 people per house) and there's a competition on which house is the fastest in the race. I walk the race instead because I'm really bad at long distance runs and just really like walking in the countryside. 


Some people got annoyed at me when the house came second in the competition and said that I didn't have "house spirit" and that if I ran the race our house might have won. I told them that they shouldn't tell me that I don't have "house spirit" considering that in the house singing competition barely anyone took it seriously despite that it was optional to join so they should have been more committed than I was in the compulsory race. Also, in the singing competition I tried hard to teach them how to sing, I played the piano and did everything just to get us on stage, and none of them apologised to me afterwards for messing around.


AITA?
[A]: no


[Q]: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I DM for a group of 5 people: Will, Lorraine, Ben, Issac and Holly. I met the latter three at uni, while Will and Lorraine (a couple) are friends of a friend. I'm not am experienced DM but I really like this group as there's always a fun atmosphere around the table. As an additional advantage, the group doesn't have anyone that's a creep which is a real luxury. A while ago we were watching a bunch of YouTubers playing some D&amp;D who were dressed up as their characters. I can't remember who suggested it but somehow the idea that we should do the same got floated around and as it sounded like fun, so everyone agreed. Next session everyone had their costumes ready and everyone looked great considering that we didn't have much time/budget. The session went really well. All of the group seemed to be acting in character way more than usual and as we wrapped up I chalked it down as a really great night and got a lot of great feedback from people there.

A few days later though, Holly messaged me privately outside of the group chat, saying how the costumes Lorraine and Will were wearing had made her feel uncomfortable and that she didn't think they were appropriate, that they were unnecessarily showing off and made the rest of us look inadequate, even if it was unintentional. She also asked me to ask them to wear more next session. Now, I wouldn't say anyone at the table was unattractive or overweight, but Will and Lorraine are both highly physically active people and have the bodies to match, and their costumes didn't cover a lot.

Will's character is a monk, and his costume was basically Dhalsim off Street Fighter: shirtless and with warpaint covering his chest and face. Lorraine meanwhile plays a sorcerer and was wearing a woven bikini top, harem pants and African style body paint (apparently you can't get elf ears for black people). As a DM/DND player in general, I like to think I have a really low tolerance for creeps and the usual shittyness that can come with a hobby mostly populated by nerdy guys and take every complaint I get about someone's behaviour seriously, but I'm not sure I can with this. Like if they'd showed up wearing, say bondage gear I might've had a word but they made sense for them as characters, they weren't showing any more skin than you'd see at the beach, and the outfits themselves wouldn't be out of place at a music festival and the designs were inventive.

Everyone else sent messages saying how much they enjoyed the last session and the effort people went to for their outfits so it just seems like a shame to stop doing it because one of us is made uncomfortable by a bit of skin (as far as I know, Holly hasn't mentioned it to Will or Lorraine). So yeah, am I an arsehole for not taking this seriously? Like I get having body issues, but I'm not sure being intimidated by physically fit people and being uncomfortable around them is a good way to go in life and the session we had in-costume was one of the best we've ever had.

[A]: no


[Q]: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My best friend and his new girlfriend are excessively affectionate in public, so much so that many of our friends are uncomfortable with hanging out with them. One instance of their excessive PDA is when 9 of us were having brunch, and they were kissing (and really going at it) while we were waiting for food. In a smaller group, they are slightly more tolerable but still try and sneak in a few kisses when the rest of us aren't looking.

One of my other friends approached them about their PDA in public, and the girlfriend snapped back that it's not her fault that he doesn't know how to show affection to his girlfriend. I have brought the PDA issue up with my best friend casually, and he plays it off as not a big deal. I did not push the issue because he is well aware of the group's concern.

For my birthday in September, I want to go interstate with 2 other couples (not including them) for the weekend to celebrate. I don't really want them there. They would know about the trip, and they will probably be upset and think I'm the asshole for not inviting them.
[A]:

Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
user
yes


