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Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : My (22) boyfriend and I (22) have a games night with our friends on the weekends every once in a while, and I planned a Christmas dinner/games night with them all for this Sunday.  It’ll be at his dads place, which is new and fairly roomy. His dad is never there, so we take care of the house (2 story, basement, 3 bathroom, 4 bedroom) just us two. 

I planned to cook an entire meal for everyone (11 people including us) , being a couple of beef roasts, mashed potatoes, veggies, desserts..etc. We’ve yet to get groceries/decorations because we’ve both had a busy work week. I talked with him loosely about going out tonight to get groceries after he’s done helping a buddy with some body work on his car. Early today we talked about seeing eachother tonight still. 

He was seeing a different buddy (a long time friend, one who will be at the party on Sunday) tomorrow just to hangout for half the day, but not long ago today he asked if it was alright if he could sleepover at his place tonight.  It stressed me out (I have a serious anxiety disorder) because I was expecting one thing and he kind of surprised me by changing the plans around that I had set in my head. I told him we had a lot to do still to prepare for Sunday, and he said okay and that he had canceled the plans, but I knew I upset him by the way the tone of his messages changed. 
I got even more stressed and upset because I knew I upset him and I felt like an asshole for seemingly “making” him do this all with me. 
He was supposed to hangout with his friend for a bit tomorrow(Saturday), while I would bake cookies and start preparing. So, it’s hard for me to understand why I am such a bad guy here. I get that he sees this friend often during our game nights, but not just the two of them alone, so he was looking forward to that.. but why couldn’t he just see him tomorrow? Maybe when I was upset, it upset him, like the way I felt?.. I don’t know. He shuts down when we fight, and needs space while I just want to resolve things and feel better ASAP.  We are trying to work on our communication, because it’s not the best. 

I’m very stressed about doing all the preparing for myself now. I don’t have a car to get around places.  We ended up having a fight, and I feel horrible about it all. 

Maybe I can’t see what I’m doing wrong. AITA?

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yes


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : So, a lot of times over small things like being in mid game when foods gets done and i ask to finish the game she has fully screamed at me, got in my face and I've always tried to stay calm and have other than 2 times where I shouted back, but one time a year ago same situation as I stated at the start except she came in none stop screaming at me and going near my pc threatening to unplug it which she knows may break it since its happened in the past.

This time I lost all my cool and pushed her and she fell over, i just wanted to shove, not to push her over but even still i never felt bad and still dont even though every one was very mad at me for it.

So i wanted a few opinions on people's perspective on mine and her actions. 

Thanks for reading.
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yes


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CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : So basically on Sunday we went to my fiancé’s parents to celebrate his sister’s birthday. The whole time we were there she mocked me in various ways(my religion, the holidays I take and our car) and no one said a word to make her stop. 

I was very hurt by it but kept my cool until we got home where I explained to my fiancé exactly why I was hurt and he offered to talk to his parents to see what was wrong as she has never acted like this before(which I agreed was fair). 

He spoke to his mother and asked her what was up with his sister and was told basically in their church(different branch of the same tree to my religion) there had been some women who had celebrations happening soon and she hadn’t been invited to any of them and had felt left out. 

AITA for when I found out having no sympathy for it. I feel it wasn’t my fault they cut her out and it wasn’t fair for her to take her anger out on me? I feel like my fiancé wants to forget it but I feel I am owed an apology especially as this was nothing to do with me. 

Half of me thinks she may not have been invited as she doesn’t have a job that pays well and she may have not been invited as they knew she wouldn’t be able to afford it and they didn’t want to either make her feel bad (or more likely in my opinion) have to deal with her bile about things costing too much. (On Boxing Day she made many comments to her family about how people spending over £50 per person on a hen night was obscene and that when she goes to weddings she doesn’t buy them anything not even a card which I find disgusting as these people have paid money for you to come for you to not even buy a card to thank them) 

Am I the Asshole in this situation or are we both in the wrong? 
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Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
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yes


