Given the task definition and input, reply with output. Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'

CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Background:

We moved abroad. Supposedly, I already had a job contract. We sold everything in our home country and moved. When we got here, the contract had irregularities that made it impossible for me to get a work visa and, therefore, my wife was unable to get a residence card.

We had no way of going back, not atleast without being literally homeless and jobless. Since my mother in law was living here, she took us in while we figured out a way of fixing this.

We have 3 kids.

About 2 months passed and I managed to get some freelancing gigs. Moved out of my MIL after 6 months of being taken in. Ever since I've been doing freelancing work from home: 2 part-time jobs + translation + ocassinal full-time jobs (all this simultaneously and for the past 2 years). My wife, however, without her residence card can't work anywhere -- literally no-one will take her. She was forced to being a housewife, which I know she dreads.

Given my insane daily workload, I work on and off for about 10-11 hours a day.  
\- I wake up at 7am, prepare breakfast for the 3 kids, and lunches for 2 of them (the 3rd has her lunch provided by the school)  
\- At 8.30am I take the eldest 2 to their school. We don't have a car, yet, so we ride our bikes to school (900m ride, not bad).  
\- I then come back and pick up the youngest who has to be at school by 9am, also on my bike. I scavenger the job boards for freelancing gigs for 10-15 minutes before taking off.  
\- I come back and make breakfast for me and my wife, we have breakfast, watch a little TV in one of the few moments we have alone, chat a bit and by 10am I have to check in to my morning job.  
\- At 11.45am I go and pick up my youngest kid.  
\- At 1pm my wife picks up the eldest 2 (sometimes we switch with the one above)  
\- I take a small break to have lunch with the family and by 1.30pm ish I'm back at work  
\- I then make another break around 3pm to take the 3 kids to school again.  
\- I then come back and around 4pm I switch to my afternoon job  
\- 3 days a week I have to go pick the kids at 4.30pm and I'm back by 5pm  
\- I then work as non-stop as possible until 8pm (kids need attention and come chat with me, show me their drawings, I make afternoon snacks, put a movie, etc.)  
\- Most days I put the youngest to sleep at around 9pm  
\- If I have a freelancing gig I tend to go back to work as soon as the youngest falls asleep, up until 11pm or even 12 or 1am depending on the workload.

I know. I work too much. But the thing is, I kind of need to since my wife can't work and we need to re-build our life here (we were literally sleeping on the floor the first month after we moved and have ever since purchased the stuff we need little by little) while we pay rent, utilities, food, clothes, extracurricular activities for my kids, etc., etc.

Ever since the very beginning of this situation, my wife has felt like shite for having to be a housewife (she used to work and even earn more than me, she had a good job and didn't foresee this situation). She still does most of the stuff at home.

She's always getting mad because I don't help her with the house as much as she would like. I understand she has a HUGE load on her end. But I have an equally big and stressful load on my end too.

This time, 50 minutes ago, she was triggered because she was playing games on my work PC (she has a laptop of her own but isn't as powerful as mine and games are unplayable) and I needed to call a customer. Even though I have been reminding her that I had this call schedule, when it was 5 minutes before the call, I reminded her again, and she gave me this look like "here you come again being annoying". I told her "I know it sucks but I have to work" and she looked at the clock and since it wasn't o'clock (the time of the call) she kept on playing. I told her, with an unfriendly tone "Are you giving me a minute to prepare for the call or no?". She flipped and started saying I was being an asshole and that I took the chance to treat her badly and whatnot. To which I replied "I HAVE TO WORK because you can't" in a shitty effort of trying to make her see my point... which failed miserably.

She got ultra mad, and to be honest, the fact that she is not capable of understanding that I DREAD having to work this much to make ends meet, drives me fucking insane, to the point in which I just tell her she can fuck off, and she tells me to fuck off back. To sum up, a completely and utterly shit situation.  


AITA for thinking and telling her that even though the situation is far from ideal, she needs to come to terms with me being the only one who can work for now, while she takes care of most of the house stuff? This will end in about a year when we both can get our residence cards and she can finally work again.

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I know I am an asshole for getting mad and arguing about it, but I need to know if my thinking is wrong.  


Thanks.

Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
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no