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Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
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Context: I have a full time job during the day, and when I'm not working that job I have a side job I do with art. My husband's the main reason I started my side business, he kept encouraging me to do it, and it worked out for the best, because I can get commissions and help keep our finances in check. However, at times he can be very selfish (I feel). Like, he will be sad that I will never do art for HIM. He's never angry by it, just sad and whiny. So, I've drawn pictures for him in the past and even gone as far as to make reference sheets for both characters of ours and do a monthly poll that was just our characters, etc. The thing is, with my full time job and this side job, I don't have much time to spend doing free art. Hell, I can't even draw the things I want to draw anymore. But I can't say that he doesn't do anything either; he makes dinner everyday for us and does all of the laundry while I"m working. He brought that up last night during the problem we're currently dealing with. This time it's a bit different. A couple months ago I got a custom daki (Google for reference, dakimakura) and was so happy cause I got custom art of my favorite character and it was unique (only I had this daki with the particular images on it) because I told the artist I would prefer them not to post it and even offered to pay them extra (they didn't want extra, but I think I threw in a tip anyway). It feels special to me. So NOW my husband wants me to do the same for him, to draw him two images for a daki AND to not post anywhere. I tried to explain to him that that's how I get more business, through exposure, but he seems to think that if I post it, then it won't be special to him anymore? And I tried telling him I wouldn't post the full res, but it didn't seem to matter. He thinks I don't care about doing anything special for him, and that he tries to contribute as much as he can by doing dinner every night (it is literally every weeknight, not going to deny that) and laundry and feeding our dog, etc. and he is upset that I won't do the same??
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not wanting to draw things for my husband


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So, I've only known this guy for a few days and we found each other through an app. We talk on Snapchat a bunch but haven't met yet. Problem is, I've never met anyone in person through these apps before and I'm a very anxious person.

He'd mentioned that he lost his duvet at a relatives and won't ever be getting it back (they lost it too apparently). His living situation isn't great, he sleeps on an airbed that deflated and caused him to get no sleep last night and has a single blanket (to be fair it's a cute blanket).

So I thought I'd be nice and offer to buy him a duvet set, but first (and in hindsight I realise this must've been weird) I asked for a verification pic because all others I'd seen looked pretty much the same. 

He tells me he is not going to do that nor should he and after telling him its because i wanted to get him a new duvet he proceeds to tell me the usual "I don't accept things from guys I hardly know" "I can make it on my own" stuff which is understandable. 

So, am I the asshole for wanting a verification pic and wanting to get a guy I hardly know yet a duvet? Also we were talking about meeting up sometime soon just to chill. Now though, I think I just killed what was going to be a good friendship.

Am I the asshole? Are either of us even the asshole?

Tldr: Guy I've known for a few days through Snapchat sleeps on an airbed with a blanket because duvet was lost. I ask for verification pic to settle my own anxiety and offer to buy him a duvet. He declines. 
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offering to buy someone I only recently met a duvet set


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For some context, my family and I were at a hotel in a hot tub. A man came and sat down in the hot tub with a glass beer bottle wrapped in a towel. The pool had signs clearly stating that glass was prohibited in the pool area. 

A few months prior I had been at a hotel specifically to use the pool, and right after we checked in, the pool was closed to clean up glass from a broken beer bottle. So this time, I felt compelled to say something.

I moved over next to him and asked if he could take his beer somewhere else. To which he replied, "Its is ok, I come here every weekend. I have been here since 8 AM (it's 11:30 AM). This is  my twelfth beer and I have this towel wrapped around it (implying this was to keep it from slipping)." We conversed a little more uncomfortably, and he made it clear he thought this towel solved everything. I responded with, "Because accidents never happen." We talked a little longer, the conversation warmed up, and I let it go. 

So AITA?


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Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
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asking someone not to drink from a glass bottle in the hot tub


