Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

[Q]: I was falsely accused of rape in high school. While she never filed a police report, she did tell everyone. She did this because I live in a really religious community, and having sex before marriage is a big no no. (Mormon)

Well, we had sex in high school (consensual sex) and when her parents found out about us having sex, she pulled the rape card, so she wouldn’t get in trouble.

Rumors spread that we had sex, and she told everyone I raped her. Obviously this ruined the rest of my high school years. I had no friends. My life was ruined. 

After high school I left and moved 4 hours away. I deleted all social media, made new accounts with no high school followers, and started over. 

All of my new friends know nothing about this. When asked about how high school was or if I have any high school friends I simply just say “I was weird in high school, kind of lonely. Didn’t talk to anyone” and end it at that.

It’s been a couple years, and I’m in college. I recently had a girlfriend (we just broke up) for several months and I never told her anything about it. She wonders why I am so secretive about my past, made new social media, etc. 


So WIBTA if I never told my future girlfriends about this? I don’t want to risk it. I think they’ll have a thought in their head that I was lying about it, and I really raped her, etc etc. 


On another note, what should I do? 


[A]: never telling my future girlfriends about being falsely accused of rape in high school


[Q]: My girlfriend and I are both college students.  She lives in an apartment on her own and I live with my parents.

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On Sunday, my girlfriend made homemade lasagna for our date night. She made everything from scratch, including the noodles. It was really good so after we finished I asked if I could take lasagna home for my family to try. She said yes.  When I left that night, I took the tray of lasagna with me. My girlfriend didn't walk me out so she didn't see me take the tray.

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On Monday, I got a text from my girlfriend asking where her lasagna was. I told her I had taken it home for my family.  She said "I thought you were going to take SOME... not the whole thing. I spent most of my food budget for the week on it with the intention to eat leftovers for the rest of the week. Now I don't know what I'm going to eat."  I felt bad and apologized but pointed out that I had asked her if I could take it home and she didn't tell me that I couldn't take the whole tray.  She said it should have been obvious that I shouldn't take the whole thing since the tray was so big.  To be fair to her, it was a really big tray (my family of 5 only just finished the tray yesterday after eating it for dinner both nights) but I don't think the size of the tray makes it obvious that I shouldn't take it.  

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Monday night and last night, my girlfriend complained that she had to eat instant noodles for dinner so that she wouldn't blow her food budget. Today, she is asking me if I can buy her a sandwich since I took her leftovers for the week. It sucks that she spent her food budget on the lasagna but I think this is her fault for not being clear that I shouldn't take the whole thing. I don't think she is justified in asking me to buy her lunch because of it. She called me an asshole for not being willing to help her out. AITA? 
[A]: taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could


[Q]: Need some brutal honesty about what I consider to be a morally grey area. 

My boyfriend is really good friends with John (26m), and has been for years. They've been roommates for a long time, during which time John started dating Jane (25f). They became pretty serious and Jane moved in with them about two years ago. I also moved in about a year later and have lived there since. Long story short, the four of us all live in the same house and usually get along. 

I became friends with both John and Jane, but wouldn't consider us close. Jane likes to party a lot, loves attention, and always has her friends over -- this is her first time living away from her parents and it shows. John, on the other hand, is super mellow and easy-going. He’d rather spend all his free time smoking, playing Runescape and mostly keeping to himself, but he’s become pretty tight-knit with Jane’s group of friends lately. 

It’s a relationship, so obviously there’s more nuance than that and they work surprisingly well together. I honestly thought everything was fine up until last weekend. Jane and I end up in the bathroom together, drunkenly chatting about exes for some reason when she started randomly crying about how she cheated. I assumed she was referring to something that happened in the past – she apparently hooked up with an ex while she was seeing John. This was a couple years ago, and I was under the assumption that John had already forgiven her for it and that they moved on, but she started crying that “it’s not just in my past, but it’s my present, too”. I didn’t get any details because I didn’t want any, but she was so upset and begged me not to tell anyone, especially John, because she hadn’t figured things out yet.

I wish she didn’t tell me, and I don’t even know why she did. I ended up deciding to tell my bf because he and John are such good friends, but of course now that just puts my bf in the same shitty situation that I’m in. My bf wants to tell John, but we also know that John is so anti-confrontational, that a) he might not even believe us and b) even if he did, there’s a pretty massive chance that he would forgive Jane again. In either case, we look like the complete assholes and I guarantee that the living situation would crumble into something miserable for all of us. 

So, reddit: do we keep the peace and hope that the cheating makes itself known organically, or do we risk making the living situation hell by trying to be a good friend to John? I’m torn between minding my own damn business and letting them do them, or informing John before they get even more serious. 

For clarity, my boyfriend and I are both 27 and are saving up to move out, but that looks like it’s going to be a ways away.
TL;DR – my bf’s close friend John is being cheated on by his long-term girlfriend Jane. I’m afraid to say anything because the four of us live together. WIBTA if I told John?
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Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
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telling my roommate that his long-term gf is cheating on him


