Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Input: Consider Input: I’ve been friends with this guy (let’s call him Q) for a couple years. There has always been times where we have gotten in arguments and it seems like the friendship is over but we end up pretending it never happened. Which I’m not sure if that’s healthy.

I’ll be fair, it feels like I might be overreacting but that’s why I’m asking. But It feels like he is trying to one up me in everything. For example, we both were looking for jobs. I got an interview and never got a call back. So he decides to go for the same job,  then gets it. Then he would just never shut up about said job and how great it is. 

Then he tells me his plans to graduate and I told him I was planning on joining collegiate. I take my tests and pass and submit it in the lottery(it’s random if you make it or not). He saw that I passed it then he goes to take the test the next day and also passes. 

Well everyone  who submitted their scores have been emailed about if they made it or not. I didn’t make it, but he did. He has since made a joke about how he has taken my spot,  And my job.

He also saw that I bought this jacket from Dicks, then he invites me to church the next week and I get into his car and he has the exact same jacket on. He said “I thought I’ve seen it before. I liked it so I got it”.  And now one of our friends in our friend group bought a new pair of shoes, and Q is trying to buy them. He doesn’t realize how it is rude to buy the same shoes his friend just bought.

Finally, at times Q would be hanging with me and some other friends in the group, and he would get texts or calls from our other friends, and I’ve noticed Q always has something bad to say about one of our friends. It’s almost like he tries to belittle one friend, in front of everyone else except said friend he is talking about, to make himself look better.

It only makes me wonder what he says behind my back? WIBTA if I approached him about it or am I overreacting? 

I don’t doubt that I could be a bad friend at times, but this seems worse than a couple mistakes.

Output: being upset with my friend because of how he treats people, including me


Input: Consider Input: I am a talkitive person who loves to hear other peoples ideas/opinions and to share my own. My boyfriend is more reserved in the communication department. 

When we watch YouTube/TV together  I often comment on things that are happening in the show - I despise talking over the TV so sometimes I will pause it to ask for his opinion on what we are watching and to share mine...this infuriates him. He gets agitated with me and feels like I am being disruptive like "why the f××× do you keep pausing the show...I just want to relax...you are ruining my night..just shut up!"...and I am always agitated feeling like he is lacking in depth like "I just want us to connect and share our thoughts..sorry for wanting to be heard and have some kind of human interaction"...

If we are in the middle of a really good show ESPESSIALLY if it is during an intense part (like Game of Thrones) I do not talk or pause it to talk.....it is just when we are watching youtube videos or less interesting/intense stuff......his biggest issue seems to be when I pause it ...there have been times he will start talking during a really good intense show about dinner or something unrelated and I will pause it - this also pisses him off ---he just hates it when I pause shows but I cant stand talking over the TV...his solution is to stop talking which I find very difficult. 

As minor and silly as it sounds this is actually creating a problem in our relationship because we watch TV together everynight and  when we are relaxing together I am in a good mood and trying to have a connection with him and he is getting angry with me which is making me feel like we have no connection and making me want to withdraw ...it is leaving him feeling disrespected and annoyed...it is leaving me feeling unheard and irritated ...

AITA? 

Output: pausing the tv or trying to share opinions about stuff on tv


Input: Consider Input: Hi all!

Using an alt account. My GF and I have been together for the better part of two years. I adore her with all I am, and love her from top to toe. Except for when she is out drinking. I am 24 and she is 23, and we're both from Norway. Before proceeding to read this, understand that Norwegian drinking culture is a little different from many other countries, and we tend to drink only on weekends, but many go out with the goal in mind of getting completely wasted.

Now, my GF isn't necessarily out with a goal of becoming as drunk as possible, but her body seems to be extremely susceptible to mixing alcohol. What is the sweetest person alive becomes this absolute messwhen she drinks, and it is insanely tiring for me. It's usually one of two scenarios: We go out together with friends, and I can't enjoy myself or the people around me at all, because I feel chained to her in case she pops into toddler mode and starts doing irrational stuff, or I am home (not a huge fan of going out), and she ends up calling me, making me come and get her, if she even is at the place she told me she'd be.  
Right now it's 4:30 am, and I'm losing my shit. She went out today for a birthday, leaving with the promise of "Yes, I'll take it easy tonight", only to still be out there somewhere. Luckily I have Snapchat, and I can check the map if I'm scared she's somewhere she shouldn't be, and to look at mystories. She's recently become "friends" with a gang I absolutely despise. They drink what seems like 3-4 days a week, and do loads of coke. She hasn't tried that yet, as she explains that she doesn't want anything to do with that. She is there right now at an after party. Went there once myself, never going back. Absolutely putrid place.

Anyway, this Friday, she also went out. That evening some of my friends came over to our new apartment, to hang out, drink a few beers, and play some Smash Bros. Of course, around 1 am I receive a call from her, where she has no idea where she is, and I tell her that it's probably better if she comes home. She then proceeds to get in a taxi, call me on facetime by accident, hang up, and call again a few minutes later. She says that she's here. I go out to look, and she is nowhere to be found. Apparently, she'd given the cab driver the general area rather than the address, and she is 500 meters down the road, I scurry down to find her, and I carry her home while she's half asleep on my shoulders. I'm slightly irritated now, as she's pulled me away from my friends yet again (this has happened numerous times before). When we get back to our place, I'm just a little down, cause she keeps doing this, and my friends probably noticed too.

Like, some nights she's fine, and comes home okay, usually when she hasn't mixed wine, beer, Jägermeister, Fireball and vodka, and that's completely fine. I want her to have fun, but not on my expense. I'm a very busy guy too. I have work, studies, and a very demanding position in our student union, so I really can't get enough down time, and she knows this all too well. She also keeps saying things like "I don't know how I got so drunk" and "It's not my fault", and the such. It's not like she becomes aggressive or anything, but she has gotten into serious trouble whilst drunk before. It's more like you try your hardest to communicate with her, but it's like she's a demented three year old. In other words: Absolutely impossible. I don't think she'll ever do anything drastic or life threatening, but I just still can't shake this subsisting feeling of unease. Like a constant heart rate of 120.

Bottom line is, am I the asshole here for wanting her to drink more responsibly? I feel like this feeling of responsibility from my side is eating me up. I hate that she hangs out with loud assholes that does cocaine, and won't give a second thought to their studies or ambitions, and I hate that I can't sleep or relax because I know that my phone is doomed to ring any second and I'll need to come and rescue her. On the other hand I feel like this is controlling of me, and has something to do with jealousy. I want her to live her life the way she sees fit, but at the same time, I need her to understand that I can't keep sitting around being worried. It's 4:30 am, and I'm leaving for a flight to a neighboring city at 08:25 tomorrow, and I am not getting any sleep tonight. I'm just so tired of all this, and I'm nearing despair. I'm really conflicted, and would love some advice.

Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
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Output: asking my so to drink more responsibly


