In this task you are given an anecdote, which recount a complex ethical situation. The question you are given is, has the author of the anecdote acted ethically? answer this question with "RIGHT" or "WRONG".

So this is how this story goes.

My father and mother had broken up from each other when I was 9. (Not the point of the story) Tho one of the times my father was bringing his girlfriend and me to hang out with his parents my fathers girlfriend was talking trash about one of my aunts on facebook while shes right infront of them. My aunt decides to get and say if you want to talk trash about someone at least do it to there face. This was during Easter. So they begin to fight on facebook. My father decides to go to my grandmother and tell her to stop my aunt. She said she didnt want to get involved. Now to the reason why I am so angry at him. You see my father decides to cut all ties to my grandmother and father and the whole family on his side my mother was the one that kept me in contact with them. So my grandmother was hit with a bad case of cancer and I my mom and everyone that could that wasnt his current friends were asking him to go talk to her. Or at least go to her funeral. He did neither. He then was taken out of the will of my grandfather who died not to long after and he didnt even get invited to the funeral....Its been a two months now from that event...and I just cant stop wondering.
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I have just started college this past year, and I have made some great friends (I am a girl, and my best friends here are all guys). All of us get along very well and I am very grateful to have made such great friends so quickly. 

One of my new friends has a girlfriend back home. I do not know much about her, and our group of friends does not often talk about our lives/friends back home. 

A few days after returning from winter break, my friend recieved some long paragraph text messages from his girlfriend. I did not mean to read his messages, but they came up on his computer as we were all looking at a game he was playing. I quickly looked away from the messages, but I saw that a few of them contained my name. My name is spelled in a unique way, and I am pretty positive that it was referring to me. As soon as the messages came up, my friend left and went home to call her. 

I believe that I seem to be causing tension in the relationship as a new friend - who just happens to be a girl - in my friend's life. 

I do not want to lose him as a friend - he is one of the best friends I have made, but I feel like my presence is causing friction in his relationship. AITA for being his friend?   
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Hello everyone, first time writing on here, so I hope you all can give me good advice. English isn’t my native language so I’m sorry if it’s not written grammarly correctly.

I live in The Netherlands and I have a friend who we’ll call Ava. She’s been my friend for over 6 years and we’ve met in school. Last year, I took a break from our friendship because she got a new boyfriend who we will call Callum.

Since January of 2019 we have started having contact again and we’ve been hanging out a lot. In the mean time she has got a new best friend named Jess who has a boyfriend named Tom.

Last week I got a text from Ava saying “She fucked up”. She told me that Jess and Tom
broke up and she had kissed Tom. Jess and Callum figured out and got so mad that Callum broke up with Ava. Jess threatened Ava through texts and they haven’t seen each other since at school since they’re avoiding each other.

She only said she’d kissed with Tom but Callum and Jess are saying they had slept in bed together. I hung out with Ava last thursday and we talked a bit about it and Ava said she’d planned to break up with Callum and that she’d want a relationship with Tom. 

Two days ago I talked to Callum to hear the full story and he send pictures of what he found (as evidence that Ava slept with Tom). I honestly don’t know who to believe and I feel like Ava only has me as her friend who supports her.
Everytime I tried to confront Ava about what she did, she tries to get out of it by changing the subject. 

But I honestly feel so bad for supporting her and I’m scared that Ava is lying to me and using me for her support at the moment.

Am I the asshole for supporting her even though she’s the one who fucked up?

TLDR; My friend Ava kissed (and maybe slept with) the ex boyfriend of her best friend and I’m basically supporting her because I pity her.

Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
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