Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

[Q]: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have recently been on a bit of a health kick, and as a result have been eating much healthier and trying not to buy unhealthy foods. My girlfriend (who does not live with me) asked me to pick up some doritos and various unhealthy snacks whilst I was buying ingredients for our dinner. I said I didn't want to buy them because I don't want the temptation of having them in my house. She is accusing me of being controlling and forcing my lifestyle choice on to her. AITA? 
[A]: no


[Q]: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : Bf and I allow full access to each other’s phones.  I saw his ex in his contacts and asked him why she was still in there.   He said he just hadn’t bothered to remove her yet, but had no intention of contacting her again.  So I deleted her.   He was surprised and asked me why I did that.  I just said if you’re not going to contact her why have her in there.   I can tell he’s bothered, but am I wrong?
[A]: yes


[Q]: Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : I have a good friend who is emotionally manipulative, and has just gone through a very hard breakup. The girl will be A, he’ll be L

L and a we’re together for 2-3 years, and L was thinking about getting engaged. A, however, found someone from a sports team L played for more attractive and ran off with him. 

Your probably wondering where this goes, but that will become important.

L is very very strange. He changes emotional state very quickly and uses this to his advantage. 

In the weeks that followed their breakup, i was repulsed with his behaviour: 

He deleted all her insta, snap and twitter posts, then denied it
He put up posters saying “have you seen this t*o*, s*** wanted, matching description of A, answers to Sl**ty McSl**face
He threatens her and in the end it took 4 of our friends to stop him attacking her, and another 2 ( and myself) to calm him down.

I knew none of what I am about to write, which is why I go so annoyed. 

He bought her a £250-£300 gift for her birthday, despite working part time minimum wage at a local restaurant- NOT fast food. They broke up 2 days after her birthday.
He’d payed all the bills when they moved in together despite her having a better job

But I went crazy at him, yelling, screaming, threatening to call the police, the whole shebang. And then he just disappeared. I don’t know where or how, but I know when and I guess his friend yelling at him is why. 

Then, he left the team him and A’s new bf were on, moved apartment and excommunicated all of his friends  and relatives. I later found him and gave his address to all his friends, and we helped him through.

But my question is, Am I the Asshole as he had trust issues and his friends were the only support he had, despite 2 sisters, a still living parents and grandparents. And I let him down.
[A]:

Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
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