Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, identify who is wrong here. Classify each post into the following categories : AUTHOR (if the author of the post is wrong in the situation), OTHER (if any of the others mentioned in the paragraph is wrong), EVERYBODY (if everyone mentioned is wrong) and NOBODY (if no one is wrong in the situation).

Ex Input:
I met a girl at an event a few weeks ago, and we really hit it off right away. We exchanged numbers and continued chatting, and within a few days decided we'd go out sometime soon. Since she lives sort of far away, though, we decided to meet up whenever is next convenient.

However, over the next few weeks as we continue talking she began to become sort of clingy, saying things that I feel should only be said to someone in a relationship, such as "I really need you right now." I asked her if we could slow down, and she said yes and apologized.

A few days later, she mentioned that her last SO up and left her and she was worried I would too, especially since her and I don't live near each other. I told her I was sorry she felt that way but I wasn't comfortable talking hypotheticals about a relationship that doesn't even exist yet (as we haven't even gone on a first date), and that maybe it's better if we don't talk until a few days before we actually meet up (in a few weeks from now).

She seemed miffed but said yes and we left it at that. I know she feels like she messed up and made herself look like an idiot in front of me, and I like her a lot, but I just feel like she and I weren't moving at the same pace and I feel this is a way of getting her to slow down to my speed. Maybe I shouldn't have even been texting her before the first date, but we were speaking the entire event and it just seemed like a natural continuation of that event.

So, AITA for asking if we could not talk until we get closer to the date of our first date?

Ex Output:
NOBODY


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I (19M) have a friend the same age who I used to be inseperable with. We would do everything together and had a pretty good grouo of friends. We both had mutual crushes on each other and would go on trips together almost every week, and it would consist of getting really drunk and high, and having really funny or nice nights together. We literally never left each other’s sides.

Recently, he decided to quit college and move in with his boyfriend of a year or so. His boyfriend and I have both agreed that we don’t really like each other for whatever reason but I’ve always been civil and nice to him, since it’s none of my business who he dates.

The real problem started before his boyfriend anyway. My feiend attended college outside my city, so we didn’t talk often as we both don’t really text. We would still hang out when we were both free though, and it was fine. Until he stopped seeing or talking to me altogether. He just does not answer his texts or calls and whenever I or my friends message to ask him to hang, we always get ignored because he’s with his boyfriend and his friends.

This angered me so badly and I also pretty much gave up on him too, but we bumped into each other again recently. We decided to hang out (My friend, a mutual friend, and me) and the whole time he pretty much spoke about himself and would make our mutual friend the butt of all his jokes. This is something of a running joke and our mutual friend laughs it off and doesn’t think anything of it, but that night I could tell they were getting angry and uncomfortable. They left, and I stayed as I figured that maybe being alone with him would resolve my anger and we could go back to being good friends.

Then his boyfriend came home. He sat with us, which was okay since I’m good at being civil and don’t really care, but he began to get increasingly rude to my friend and I. He would make a joke, and when I would laugh he would ask what’s so funny and make things incredibly awkward. He also ignored or laughed obnoxiously at everything I said and after my friend noticing I was incredibly uncomfortable (I rarely leave my house because of my crippling anxiety and he is more than aware of this) but not defending me even slightly I just left. I haven’t messaged, phoned or even replied to his snapchats since, but I do feel really guilty about ghosting him since we were so close. Am I the asshole here?

TL;DR - My close friend doesn’t bother to contact me anymore and his friends make it clear they dislike me, to which he doesn’t care to defend me at all.

Ex Output:
OTHER


Ex Input:
So me and my gf have been dating for a little below 5 months and I love her dearly. She's supportive, caring, affectionate, pretty much everything I'd want in a girlfriend. 

We were having a discussion about her future with her company and it might have her relocate her job to an area that's around 1 1/2 hrs commute from me which is pretty far if she takes the job. She currently lives ~ 20 minutes away and we've had a little bumpy but eventually straightened relationship. I told her that there are a lot of things she could do such as her relocate to a place that's not so far from her, etc. but one of the things I mentioned is that long distance might not be the best thing for us. I really do like her and I want to stay grounded here but I know I come across as blunt sometimes and I don't know if this is something that I should have brought up.

She thought I was joking but I was serious, since we're only less than 5 months into the relationship. She got immediately upset and mad and said that "I don't love her enough to consider a LDR" and "How could I even say something like that". I went to end the conversation by saying "I love you" and she responded with "Apparently not". 

So reddit, am I the asshole here? Is there something I'm missing

Ex Output:

Show your work and conclude with the exact phrasing "Therefore, the final answer is [answer]." where [answer] is just the final number or expression that solves the problem.
user
OTHER


