I'm probably one of the rarer INFJs. I can communicate with people on a different level than the other personality types, much like other INFJs.  Unlike other INFJs, I can control my emotions completely when I choose. I can become dangerously manipulative when I want. But I choose to feel the pain of others. I choose to sympathize with everyone. I sacrifice my own emotional stability and well being so that I can help people. I have more self control than anyone else I have ever known. Don't be confused though, I often get in to trouble, and do things I shouldn't. But I do those things because I choose to. I don't do anything because I have to.
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