ENFJ raised by a happily married ENFJ/INFJ pair. Oldest of five children. Great Books college education in a Socratic method classroom setting.  10 years into a highly cooperative, happy marriage to a calm/assertive INTJ with the same rigorous, dialogue-based higher education. Four children 8 y/o and under: suspected INTJ male, ISTP male, ESFP female, youngest unsure - definitely a Fi dominant.