Lover of dark rooms filled with big screen cooperative video games or streaming scifi, superheroes, prosocial documentaries or NASA TV--often 420 enhanced, or natural light featuring coffee & creativity, or computer lit musings intended to illuminate a strong, soft heart, with a side of tough love, insightful life experience, and loads of laughs and authentic love for those able and willing to breach the surface. A champion of the downtrodden, who tries to demonstrate empathic critical thinking, patience, and unrelenting ethics in a world that sweeps home-bound people like me under the rug.  
Full disclosure: I consider my biggest flaws to be my on-going struggles with temporary, but recurring bouts of arrogance, the kind that often accompanies those with fiery brains, and how messy I've become in single life. 
Psych-nerd for life, because Psychology literally saved mine from the ravages of severe abuses experienced in the first 16 or so years of life. Foster homes, group home, decades of on/off therapy, and loads of unending soul searching and a mixed bag of good, bad, ugly relationships has taught me forgiveness / happiness over anger / resentment. Capable of speaking fairly freely of the lessons gleaned from life in the traumatized lane, primarily because I truly believe the more open, honest, and giving we are, the smarter, wiser, and happier we'll all be, so if you're easily triggered then big HUGS. Hell, even if you're not triggered / traumatized, BIG hugs, because we all need them, and I'm good at it. Personally I've dealt with recurring depression w/bouts of suicidal/homicidal thoughts, bulimia, panic attacks, anxiety disorder, PTSD, and self-defeating behaviors, as well as being friends with those dealing with multiple personality disorder, bipolar, BPD, suicide. I'm not a magnet for broken people, I'm an advocate for mental illness reform, and I gladly assist others on their journey as long as they work hard to help themselves. I can recognize liars / fakers / addicts with uncanny accuracy so I don't get sucked into other people's self-interested drama.
After an adulthood filled with serial monogamy and very little time between to be with just me, I'm finally single [FREE at last] and LOVING it. Not to diss love. I LOVE love, but I don't need (or want) a partner to feel complete. Here to hopefully meet new gaming buddies, and true friends, because I'm tired of most people just not getting me. If you're a true NF / INFP you know what I mean.
Pacific NW, U.S.