Left Alabama to attend college in San Francisco & never looked back.  Straight career; anything but in private.  My wife died in 2016 before her 40th birthday.  Prior to her passing we lived a healthy loving D/s lifestyle that was on the S&M side of BDSM .  She was such a unique & inspiring person that in a million years I would meet a girl who needed that lifestyle to be happy; but I did a few months back & we're taking it one step at a time.  (Ohh yes, speaking of which I'm an AA success story today and we'll worry about tomorrow when it gets here.)
San Francisco Bay Area