Have a grown son and am married. I love animals especially cats. Into learning how to live in my higher self mode and I like to document personal growth which is why the long Bio. Sorry! 
Current Reading List: 
Getting along with almost anybody : the complete personality book / Littauer, Florence
The enneagram : understanding yourself and the others in your life / Palmer, Helen. 
Who's pulling your strings? : how to break the cycle of manipulation and regain control of your life / Braiker, Harriet B.
The silent language of leaders : how body language can help-or hurt-how you lead / Goman, Carol Kinsey. 
Since strangling isn't an option-- : dealing with difficult people-- common problems and uncommon solutions / Crowe, Sandra A. 
Future Reading Plan: 
 Conversationally speaking Garner, Alan,
The likeability factor : how to boost your L-factor & achieve your life's dreams Sanders, Tim
The Game of Life.  
Recent Past Reading List:
People Smart
Shades of Gray Trilogy
The Grovont Series and anything Tim Sandlin  
I'm an INFJ on Myers Briggs and a  Two with a Three-Wing on the Enneagram.
My BIG FIVE RESULTS: Extroversion 52% 
Orderliness 58% 
Emotional Stability 54% 
AccommodatioN 60% 
Inquisitiveness 26% 
My Global5/SLOAN type is SCOAN
My Primary type is Noncurious 
The Two's traits and those of the Three-wing tend to reinforce each other: both types relate easily to people.  
Healthy people of this subtype are charming, friendly, and outgoing. They enjoy the attention of others, are self-assured, and exude an aura of well-being and wholesome self-enjoyment. There is genuine warmth in people of this subtype, and the ability to communicate that warmth to others. They also tend to be more physically attractive than Twos with a One-wing. Social qualities are valued more than moral or intellectual ones. 
In average persons of this subtype, we see elements of competitiveness and the desire of success and prestige mixed with the traits of the Two. Twos use others to validate their goodness, Threes to validate their desirability, particularly their sexual desirability. Hence, we find a calculating self-consciousness in persons of the subtype. They are also highly aware of what others think of them and how they come across to others. Having the right friends, dropping names, and cultivating people is typical. We also find the tendency to be self-important and narcissistic, although the Three's calculation of his or her image and the Two's self-sacrificial persona will mask this to some degree. Persons of this subtype fear being humiliated and losing status rather than feeling guilty over the violation of moral ideals. 
If people of this subtype become unhealthy, they can be emotionally devastating to others since they become both manipulative and exploitative, deceptive and self-deceptive, opportunistic and neurotically entitled to get whatever they want from others. Hostility toward others can be extremely strong and all-consuming: beneath their apparent charm lies viciousness. They are potentially psychopathic in the destructiveness they are capable of wreaking on others. In them we find elements of malice and the tendency to ruin what they cannot have, especially relationships. Twos with a Three-wing are capable of pathological jealousy and violent crimes of passion.
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