For you to be successful in online dating especially if you’re at the initial stage of online dating, you will need to know how you can send that perfect opening email to your would be lover. Apart from creating a very good profile and a nice photo to show your face, you will have to take a step ahead by sending your first opening email, you don’t have to sit down there expecting others to just view your profile and photos and begin to interact with you just like that, even if it work for some people, I’m sure they are very few.
You need on your part to be proactive in your online dating life, being proactive does not mean to just click on a button that let you poke, wink or probably giving someone a virtual rose flower of different colours to show the person that you’re really interested in him or her. Doing any of them above is like making eye contact with someone that interest you and then refusing to say something that will draw their interest or at least call on their attention.
What you need to do is to sit down and create that perfect email and then send it to the person that tickles your virtual fancy. If he/she does not response, it doesn’t matter as it does happen, just move ahead and send to others who will be interesting, there are so many fish in the sea, someone will surely response to your mail and there you begin to build your online dating life before it can be transformed to a real life dating.
The Techniques to use
1.Style your email in such a way that a potential date partner will love it, don’t just do a common copy and paste way, for example, something like “Hello, I saw your profile and it look wonderful, I want to be your date, just a little about me, I like swimming and racing with my Ferrari sport car and I love taking people out for adventure without any spending on their part”.’ It shows no sign that you’ve read their profile, and no-one likes to feel that they’re just one of hundreds of potentials being spammed with the same non-specific email. Write something unique and personal. I know that it takes more times to do all this but you’re going to get a positive response because it shows that you’ve paid attention. It doesn’t have to be a missive of epic proportions; a couple of well-chosen common points are more than enough to boost your chances of a reply.
2.Do not give too much information on your first email for dating; it is never a good idea to turn your first email into a mammoth autobiography. Nobody wants to read your entire life story at first glance, dating someone is a gradual learning process, don’t rush it. A few personal details are just fine, and vary them from what you’ve written on your. The point here is that, don’t divulge too much information and don’t get caught out by churning out the same old information.
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