Grieving is loving. It lasts your lifetime. Someone says to get over it…get past it. Lovingly ignore them. They mean well, but it’s not their grief…it’s yours.
Part of grieving is remembering moments…birthdays, anniversaries, etc. Each year…each moment, we remember. Tomorrow is the 3rd anniversary of Jon’s death (our son). We recently visited the place where his ashes are spread.
For each of us, there are moments when the separation from a loved one seems harder than at other times. For me, tomorrow is one of those moments.