Watch the above video to hear from the man who started Neuro Linguistic Programming.
I like to be transparent in how I work with some of my clients. Often my clients attribute their subsequent positive states, feelings, and behavior to their own natural change. It is important to know how the mind works and how dialogue unveils subconscious solutions to incongruence and discord. The clients should feel that they do it themselves because they allow their own deep knowledge and even their meta-knowledge to provide the answers. Clients are empowered to be their best individual selves. You are the answer you are looking for.