70% of messages answered with a few ongoing discussions.
Here are some conclusions about what happened so far:
- “You look sad” does not work and was deleted – probably hit a sensitive topic. Teasing does not work when what you say is actually true and the person can’t take it. It’s not an emotion she wanted to recall
- The humour side of the messages is not obvious enough. Right now, when they read messages, the challenging is obvious. The funny no so much. This must be worked on deeper so that the emotion generated is not just a defence mechanism but a desire to engage.
- The next step is to speed up the discussion rhythm. While the content, essence and energy is good, it still need to become more natural, like and ongoing thinking and emotional pattern.
- Compared with the original communication style: being kind and compliments and romantic (which got close to 0 responses… well 2 out of 10 messages with no follow up possibility) this communication style works of course much better. The shift in responses and the way it makes you feel is impressive!!!