Originally Posted by once_dreaded
Fingers, tongue, strap-ons, various vegetables....I could keep going but you get the idea. I believe any form of penetration conducted by another person counts as losing your virginity.
I concur. And I notice that a first girl kiss at 17 adds to my theory. I really do think gay people tend to have their first PROPER kiss (ie with someone of the same sex) when they're older, because of the social taboo. But then move from that into sex quicker because there's no danger of breeding, like Brad said. Intriguing theory...