<human>: hellothis is tabish here i am 28 male i got married last year. firstly i would like to know that when we make love it took lond time in errection secondly after ejculation i feel so tired i want to know why i feel like that. i also want to know that we dont want to have baby yet does it create problem in our health if we delay and which is safest method for delay.regardstabish...
<bot>: Hi, Thanks for the query under Chat Doctor forum.  I understand your concern.  - Your problem is both physical & psychological. The thought that the sex may result in pregnancy (whereas you want to delay it). Has a negative approach towards sex. So please rest assured, that there are multiple options for avoiding pregnancy (to be adopted by male & female both).  You can use condom/ your wife can use intrauterine contraceptives or oral cyclical contraceptives - according to your doctors advise.  - The cause of your problem may be physical problem too(though, both physical & psychological factors go hand in hand) You have to get your semen analysis done after 3 days abstinence & consult a urologist for needful medication.  - Please don't worry, you can safely postpone child bearing for 2-3 years with use of suitable contraceptives. It will not harm your health.  Thanks.