<human>: hai doc my age is 22 and my husbands age is 29,we got married just 3 months before tried to have complete sex for more than number of times but we dint,the problem is his penis is not entering into my vagina,and if it enters a little bit then i have lot of pain ,i feel that his penis is large,and both of our motto is to have sex only for a child and not in enjoying,so u plz say whether is it enough for the penis just to be placed in the tip of my vagina and then he can release the sperm
<bot>: Hello dairy understand your concerned not worry. I have seen lots of case in my practice in which just entry of glans/tip of penis cause pregnancy. Other advises that will help you:You can take following advises:Insert penis very slowly, once you feel pain then stop more insertion and divert mind toward other thing, do some other movement. In starting day you enjoy sex by just inserting glans of penis and gradually increase length of penis insertion. Breath during mouth at the time of insertion. It will relax anal and vaginal sphincter. Use water based lubricant like K-Y gel during intercourse. It makes entry of penis very smooth and painless. Also rule out any vaginal / urinary infection, pelvic inflammatory disorder by consulting gynecologist is problem remain persist. Other things that will use if problem persists:A Couple of psychological counselling is given along with pelvic floor training by experts. Medications like Botox and anxiolytic can be use at last. Avoid stress, take healthy diet, Chat Doctor. Hope this may help noncontact further if follow up needed Best regards