<human>: Hello, my husband and I are trying to conceive and I know we have to keep trying for at least a year but I just want to make sure we are doing it the right way. My question is this : everytime we have intercourse, right after, I always pee. i also wash my vagina with cold water, to remove the stickiness of the sperm which makes me uncomfortable. (I was the outside and a little on the inside with the tip of my finger) Do these 2 things minimize my chances of conceiving? (1) peeing (2) washing?
<bot>: Hi, Thanks for your question. I do understand your pain and discomfort. I have seen many cases with similar complaints. As per your history, Please find my advice below-:1)You can wash no problem at all which are outside of vagina.2)Use one app to calculate your ovulation date and try to do sex in that particular date only which you can feel by little practice.3)Remember Only one intercourse creates a baby. I hope I was able to ad Chat Doctor.  If you have any further questions, please do not hesitate to write to me. Wishing you all the best. Thanks,