unnatural shape

I was really hopeful that this bra would fit well and be supportive. I wear a 30F so comfort and support are important to me and also hard to find. The original one that I ordered was tiny. It looked more like a DD, so I went up two cup sizes. The second one I received fit, I suppose. There was no side support and only two clasps in the back. It did not provide a very natural or flattering shape at all. More like a kinda pointy shape with some extra shoved under my arms. Just disappointing. I've had two children and nursed them both, and besides unless they're fake a 30F ain't standing at attention without some help. This bra just did not live up to the hype the other reviewers gave it and i really wanted it to because it is really pretty :(