Sizing is just stupid

There are various sizes when it comes to these garter belt. When I ordered I was a size 16, and I think I bought the 5x. In any other product a FIVE X would be falling off, and just way way to big. This damm thing was way small,and not sexy. No woman wants to feel that 5X is too small, like she's a massive cow.Not sexy. Also, the garters kept coming off the stocking tops. I have heard others complain about this. I'd say pass, unless you find a shop that carries them, so you can see and try them on first. Also shipping took a few weeks.I am so disappointed. Still looking for a sexy garter belt with tummy control. So far years of digging, nothing has come up. I will probably have to hire someone to make something like this for me.:-(