text: it is therefore of supreme importance that we consent to live not for ourselves but for others when we do this we will be able first of all to face and accept our own limitations as long as we secretly adore ourselves our own deficiencies will remain to torture us with an apparent defilement but if we live for others we will gradually discover that no expects us to be as gods we will see that we are human like everyone else that we all have weaknesses and deficiencies and that these limitations of ours play a most important part in all our lives it is because of them that we need others and others need us we are not all weak in the same spots and so we supplement and complete one another each one making up in himself for the lack in another