[speaker001:] okay what type of things do you feel would invade your privacy everyday
[speaker002:] um hm well I don't like it when um people listen to my phone conversations like if they're outside my door while I'm talking in my room or when people like look through my things in my bedroom
[speaker001:] yeah that's right that is really an invasion of privacy
[speaker002:] yeah
[speaker001:] I find I find it very annoying when I've worked all day to come in and my phone to ring constantly with solicitors and the carpet cleaning companies and does that happen in your part of the country
[speaker002:] um-hum yes um-hum definitely
[speaker001:] I uh I come home and I'm trying to get a few things done and I can't do anything but answer the telephone
[speaker002:] right
[speaker001:] some evenings are worse than others but I wish I could put a stop to it but I don't know what to do to stop it
[speaker002:] right even uh we used to have a sign on our door that said no soliciting and they'd still come to our door and knock and
[speaker001:] um-hum they'll think it didn't mean them I guess everybody but me oh goodness
[speaker002:] I guess not no yeah
[speaker001:] are you still do you live at home with your parents
[speaker002:] yes um-hum
[speaker001:] um-hum so your privacy is invaded probably by other members of the family
[speaker002:] yeah yeah mostly yeah
[speaker001:] now what can you do to stop that
[speaker002:] oh I don't know well I'm used to it now but sometimes it still gets gets to me but there's not much I can really do no
[speaker001:] no just have to live with it I guess try to remember to respect their privacy and maybe they'll respect yours and
[speaker002:] you know it well I don't know I always um no yes I do but they don't live at home
[speaker001:] do you have brothers oh okay I was raised I had two younger brothers and they nearly drove me crazy listening to telephone conversations and
[speaker002:] oh I used to do that though because I was the youngest I'd pick up the phone and listen to theirs but I
[speaker001:] I would get in the bathroom and lock the door so maybe they couldn't hear me and then they'd go get on the other extension and I could hear them but I couldn't get them to hang up you know
[speaker002:] oh I yeah but I stopped doing that a long time ago and they still do it to me
[speaker001:] even it in the office I uh find that people walk up and and when you're on a conversation instead of walking off or just making themselves busy they'll stand there and listen to what you say until you hang up
[speaker002:] oh like say yeah this lady does that to me at work when I'm taking an order or something and she'll just sit there and listen and like I'm doing something wrong and she just started and she's nice but
[speaker001:] uh-huh
[speaker002:] okay but you know it gets annoying when they stand right over you and watching everything you do
[speaker001:] um yeah
[speaker002:] but I'm
[speaker001:] let's see I can't think of anything else I'd really consider an invasion of privacy other than the phone solicitors about the only thing that really bothers me I don't have that many people coming to my door
[speaker002:] no right well occasionally we'll have a person here or there but not not as many as the phone calls you know so
[speaker001:] uh-huh and I guess that's really the the thing that really bugs me the most I can't think
[speaker002:] but
[speaker001:] that her kids in our neighborhood used to bother me but they have all gotten grown up now and we live in a neighborhood where there's not any little kids to bother me since mine are all grown up but
[speaker002:] uh  yeah
[speaker001:] what else would be an annoyance well I guess traffic could be an annoyance
[speaker002:] oh yeah especially when you're in a hurry
[speaker001:] do you have a lot of traffic in your area
[speaker002:] um it can get busy yeah usually on the weekends it's the most bit but
[speaker001:] um-hum some days it's real real bad here and you would like to feel like it's an invasion of privacy because you can't even ride down the road without people all the way around you you know but
[speaker002:] yeah um-hum yeah I've traveled quite a bit and I've been through Dallas Texas it's pretty busy
[speaker001:] it really is and pretty noisy
[speaker002:] yeah
[speaker001:] it really is
[speaker002:] yeah
[speaker001:] I live right on a main thoroughfare so when I first moved here I probably did consider that an invasion of privacy because it at first you'd hear a lot of noise especially at night you know when you go to bed
[speaker002:] um-hum oh yeah
[speaker001:] and every time a a fire truck or anything went down the road I'd wake up but I guess I've gotten used to it because I don't even hear it anymore
[speaker002:] oh yeah I suppose you do
[speaker001:] and uh I just close it out I guess because I don't I don't remember waking up in several years at night when I'd hear a fire truck go by you know
[speaker002:] um-hum yeah
[speaker001:] I think they'd probably have to pull into my drive before it bothered me
[speaker002:] yeah I'm am a real sound sleeper though so that probably wouldn't bother me I'd sleep right through it
[speaker001:] they'd have to chop down the door and get you out I guess
[speaker002:] yeah it takes a lot
[speaker001:] let's see what else is an invasion
[speaker002:] I had an old boyfriend who looked through my notes one time I was mad because those are mine you know they're not
[speaker001:] ooh well did you have has name all over them
[speaker002:] no it was a a letter from a girlfriend of mine and I I just I was upset because those are mine and you know I thought he
[speaker001:] that was yours yeah
[speaker002:] right I thought he'd respect me more than that to look through my things and not trust me so that was upsetting I was mad about that my privacy there
[speaker001:] yeah yeah