[speaker001:] going to talk about clothing and how we dress for work
[speaker002:] yes I must admit I'm pretty boring I just wear some uh you know old dress pants and a button down shirt just about every single day
[speaker001:] uh-huh  well I'm sure that you select different colors everyday and your shoes probably you you have you rotate your shoes around
[speaker002:] oh the shoes are just about the only thing that doesn't get rotated
[speaker001:] okay like brown with um if you wear black with brown pants
[speaker002:] yeah well I just wear blue gray and black blue gray and
[speaker001:] oh okay you just
[speaker002:] what else is there there's another color dark gray that's it
[speaker001:] they're gray okay so you don't have to worry about the shoes then
[speaker002:] I do once in a while I wear brown but
[speaker001:] uh-huh
[speaker002:] what can you do right
[speaker001:] well I mean I think men look very nice I I think that they're much better off than women are as far as their clothes go because I think um I think um uh and it's true that uh you know men are attracted by what they see and of course the women always um either she's pleasing her boyfriend or she's pleasing her mate or she is looking for a a husband and she of course in the work field if she's single she dresses you know I don't dress for um I dress for myself I always like to look nice I want to look uh professional and so I I make an a big effort to do that
[speaker002:] okay you that that that that agrees with what most women tell me is that they dress to please themselves and you know who cares what these other people think and you know they have their own idea of what looks good
[speaker001:] uh-huh well and there's some that really are on target and then there's some that are kind of way out in left field I don't appreciate the real short dresses and uh and then to sit sprawl legged I think that's very offensive and um I don't know how they feel about it but it surely doesn't uh I think I think even the men uh men are offended by that too if it's not you know if you're out in public and you're you don't watch how you sit I think that's very um inappropriate for uh a lady to act like that
[speaker002:] where what sort of a do you work in an office or
[speaker001:] yes I do yes I do I work in an office
[speaker002:] and is it pretty well integrated as far as are you know positions of power or you know where I work just about every woman is a secretary
[speaker001:] uh-huh
[speaker002:] except for two
[speaker001:] and uh yeah it's pretty
[speaker002:] there are no male secretaries so
[speaker001:] there it's pretty much like that where I work I was very offended by one of the young ladies who is a secretary and plus she's a mother by what she wore and it looked like she just had and she's she's very lean you know it's a very lean girl but she really offended me by her dress I mean it was like she forgot to dress it was like she was wearing uh um  golly how do I want to phrase that it looked
[speaker002:] like sweat suits or something
[speaker001:] yes a wet suit you know I thought that is not the appropriate attire for an office environment
[speaker002:] you think it was distracting
[speaker001:] I yeah because everybody was turning their heads sure enough everybody you know everybody you know you just take a double look and they'll say is that really what she's wearing yeah that's really what she's wearing
[speaker002:] okay well okay so so she wasn't just floppy and like put on some loose floppy stuff you know cotton uh weave thing not knit something
[speaker001:] oh oh no no no she yeah  something that you'd wear doing doing the garden maybe uh no it was
[speaker002:] yeah
[speaker001:] I thought what is this now
[speaker002:] definitely designed to catch the eye
[speaker001:] yes it was it was definitely designed if you could see almost every fold of her body
[speaker002:] so
[speaker001:] I thought that was very offensive and I I made a loud remark about it in fact I complained to my supervisor about it and he agreed and she has never worn it since
[speaker002:] hey
[speaker001:] but I think you have to take some action like that maybe she didn't realize you know how she came across some people are oblivious as to what kind of reactions they can cause
[speaker002:] yeah well right or perhaps