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 ::Clarification:  
 ::*Rigby had both a wife and a girlfriend in the military.  
 ::*The child is the child of the wife, who is referred to ambiguously in one of the cited articles as ""partner"".  
 ::*Wife, not ""partner"" (as in girlfriend) lived with child. 
 ::*Wife has stated that she and Rigby were ""looking forward to continuing their lives together"".  This appears to indicate that the marriage was ""permanent"" and the ""separation"" due to circumstance.  
 ::Let me stress that discretion is needed.  
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