Question: Are my parents supposed to be my parents????? Sure ive known my parents since i was born 13 years ago, but ever since this summer ive been wondering if they were really supposed to e my parents, because I know this family and it seems like their the parents that im supposed to have, they didnt get married until i was 5, by any chance do you think hey were supposed to be my parents but they hadeny meyt yet so God gaveme to the parents I have now, this is no joke, im really curious.

Answer: You have a brilliant and enquiring mind.  There are many people who believe in exactly that sort of thing... but there are many other ideas, and who can say what is the right answer/ idea.  Reincarnation is well known, some folk believe in ghosts.  I knew a woman once who believed that walls (and other things) absorbed and recorded every sound, and she could make them play back!  I met a man who firmly believed that everyone fought evil/ death in their sleep each night (and that eventually everyone loses the battle).  Have you heard about prana, or breath?  The life force is breath -- it leaves you dead as a last breath (the soul), and prana yoga is a set of exercises that gets breath chi to  more places more efficiently so you feel better and live longer. Some people believe we are all one, so we can connect with things and with each other.  They can move things by thought (telekinesis) and levitate!  However, some people reckon this explains a fondness for a favourite chair or toy, a relationship with a quirky automobile, and affinity with other people -- friends and loved ones.\n\nSo yes, they might well be a better fit as your parents than your actual parents, and you may be right -- maybe they should have been your parents.  On the other hand, maybe they were your parents in a previous life.  Or what if you just knew them in a previous life?\n\nMaybe there's a cosmic law that stops you getting the same parents each reincarnation???  Who knows!\n\nMaybe God gave you the parents you have now as a lesson or even as a punishment lol! \n\nMaybe your parents don't suit you just now -- but who's to say that will always be the case.  maybe God knows that in the future, some years ahead, you will need THESE particular parents for some particular reason.\n\nIn the meantime, keep on thinking, inquiring and write up a diary -- maybe you will be a brilliant author one day!
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