Question: Why do people automaticaly assume things about me when they don't know me from Adam? I wish I could elaberate on this, but I can't think of an example right off the top of my head right now. For some reason nobody gives me a changes and wants to take the time to know all the facts first. Oh! Here is an example! - This subject comes up without fail no matter what I do: I'll say to the man or woman/friend/boyfriend or whoever that I do not drive and they'll ask me why and I'll say that it's because I am vissually impaired and they'll automatically say "well why can't you just get glasses or get lazer surgery". Well, my eyesite can not be corrected like magic. I have perminant eye damage. Take it or leave it. ...Oh shoot, sorry, I'm just frustrated and am wurried that I am doomed if tha is going to be the topic with everyone I mean. I perfer not to talk about it and try not to bring it up and dodge it etc, but nothing works. Any thoughts?...There are other things that I wish I could dodge around too. Not just my eyesite.

Answer: You know people do assume things about a person, when they\nfirst look at them. If they have time to get to know you\nthey will learn the real you. And you are worth getting to\nknow! I am sorry about your eye sight. I will have to have\nsurgery on my eye when a growth gets to a certain size and I am not looking forward to it. I will have faith that all\nwill be well.  I really think wading through is better than\ndodging problems. When that's done it is resolved instead of put off. The best of luck.
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