Question: Married but not interested in sex? I cant talk to my husband about sex  :(\nHe thinks he is the bomb lover but isnt.  I used to enjoy sex, lots of it, but now, nah..... I could go without but he cant.  When we do have sex , even oral, I dread it & I watch the clock, counting down the minutes.  I havent feel aroused by him in some time.  Last time I felt aroused and interested in sex was with my best friend a month ago.  We didnt have sex but her & I kissed and made up for lost time & I look forward to being with her again.  Please dont say that I am gay and this is why.  I love having sex with my girl but I love men (only a man now that I am married).  I used to be a very sexual person in the past with other relationships with men (my girl is my only female I have been with).  Dont know what to do.  Not divorcing over this but need to work thru somehow.

Answer: try telling your hus u need some time off ..maybe distance =will make the urge grow stronger
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