Question: does he have the right to be mad? i am separated from my husband even though we still talk on the phone-we have kids together-we were married for 18 years.\n\nMy boyfriend of 13 months is pissed because when i was talking to my husband on the phone he said "i love you" when we were hanging up. i said "i know"-----it is very OVER between my husband and me. i love my bf only want him.  my husband was abusive. my boyfriend says i should have said you dont love me too much or you wouldnt drag me around by the hair,hit me,etc. etc.  \nwhere did i go wrong    or am i wrong?\n\nMy boyfriend is sure he is 100% right.  I feel im 100% right.  we are at the point of breaking up. my bf says how can you tell him you KNOW he loves you when you tell me you dont know if i love you.   He told me to write everyone for advice. can anyone help????????

Answer: Don't be talking to your ex hubby.  You may not think he can get to you that you are happy, but they have a way of getting to you.  I know because I have been there and I am now remarried to my ex because I let him back in, I regret it deeply.  So my advice the less you talk just as friends the better off.  He didn't change until you were happy and with some one else am I right.
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