Question: Is five years too long? My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years. We have a baby boy together. To this day he has never spoken about marriage but when I bring it up he says "one of these days". I have decided to wait until we've been together five years then if he still has not proposed then I'll end the relationship. Is five years enough time for a man to make up his mind?

Answer: Don't just end it!  You have a kid!  You should be mature enough to talk through this and have a dicussion with your future husband.  If he can't handle a serious conversation then maybe you do need someone that is ready for a serious relationship and ready to grow beyond the age of 19.
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