Question: I hurt my mothers feelings..but i dont feel bad at all? Earlier this morning my mother yelled at me and said some really mean things and my sister was in on it too and i just got home for Thanksgiving break from college she called me a liar and a bunch of some things that hurt my feelings but i didnt say anything back to her for the first time cuz i was in shock that she would say all those things to me.. so i went on facebook like i always do and i updated my status..and my status said that "Dominique is realizing the EXACT reason she wanted to get away from her family in the 1st place..forget a Thanksgiving dinner i'll rather eat alone back at Illinois State." My sister went on her facebook account and my ma wanted to see my page for the first time and thats what she read...and she asked me about it and i said yep i'll rather eat alone than with yall and she was like that hurt my feelings and i was like thats nothing compared to how u made me feel earlier...for some reason she always fail to realize that i have feelings too..am i wrong?

Answer: Parents sometimes say things that they really don't mean. I use to yell at my mom because i felt like at times she didnt' care for me. Long story short I just lost my mom this year. I'm the only child and both of my parents are deceased. Just love your parents and talk to them. Let them know how you really feel and just be open with them. NO harsh feelings, be humble and respectful, but caring and understanding. I wish my mom was still here. Just be greatful for your blessings.
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