Question: i still love my ex, and i think she still loves me....what do you think? my ex gf and i broke up last feb, it was kinda mutual but hella confusing as there was no true reason we should have parted. im close with her mom and her sister, and theyve told me they know she still loves me, but she has closed up emotionally and has started drinking too much...i dunno, i love her more than she'll ever know, and i have tried contacting her before but to no avail.  the only time she contacted me was thru a message on myspace on my bday in apr saying "i just had to tell you happy birthday, hope you had a great day".....it is so frustrating for me because i love her so much and i think she still loves me, yet she wont communicate with me at all! its really confusing, i know shes always had father issues that she never really dealt with, and she's not very good at expressing her feelings or letting down her wall....i guess there are trust issues at the root of all this, but i knew i believed her when she told me she loved me and wanted to be with me...what do you think?

Answer: Ask her mum and sister if you think she wants to talk to you.  Ask the sister to ask her to call you.\n\nDo something really big and nice for her.  Like organise a romantic night out.  buy her flowers.  \n\nWrite her a letter that tells her how you feel.  Take your time and think about what you want to say. \n\nGood luck
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