Question: Fast Response Needed - Confusing situation - Is she really interested? Question,  been out of the dating scene for a while.\n\nI went on a trip last weekend. with some friends who brought dates with them for the weekend.  Fri night, one of the dates was really flirting with me.  Asked the male date, if they were together.  He said no, friends, and to go ahead and hit on her.  He also told me that she thought I was adorable.  Flirted more and she gave me a kiss on cheek before going to bed.  Sat night, asked her story and she said "kind of dating dates best friend".  Sun asked for her number and a date in two weeks.  Said yes and gave me her number.\n\nI called Tuesday and LM.  No call back yet.  Want to see this chick but not sure what to do.  Could call again today and set up business in town that she lives in (150 miles away) for tomorrow and have dinner tomorrow night or should I wait to call Sun?  Or sometime next week to try to schedule something for when we were supposed to do something.\n\nNot sure what to read into this one.

Answer: You probably should play it cool because calling her too much might boost her ego, and then she'll probably will begin to think that you are sprung on her, and that you might be a scrub. If she said two weeks, maybe that goes better with her schedule. She might not have anything open until two weeks, unless she plans on seeing other guys through the week and then kicking with you in the next week like she said. She gave you the number on Sun. You called Tuesday. That was like only two days, too soon. Maybe you can call her Friday or Saturday. Then set up to go on a date within the two week time period. At least you will have let a week go by, so that you still seem interested but not obsessive interested. Also don't leave too many messages, that's like stalking. But honestly, she seems like a quite busy lady, so if you are looking for someone who is fast paced, she fits the profile. But if you aren't, then maybe you might want to go out at least once to see if she is really for you or not, and then you'll have your decision to pursue her or not.
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