Question: How can I survive such a long distant relationship ? I met this guy twice and we totally fell over heels for each other when he came for vacation. I will go to his country in the next 3 months and he asked me if I would go out with him over there.We talked a lot over phone for the first month and consider both in a BF/GF relationship. I dont think it will work but he keeps being positive about it. After the first month, we start to talk less and I start to feel insecure about keeping this relationship. Especially I feel that I am falling deeper and deeper for him.He never says he loves me but just like me a lot and want to be around me,so should I stop before things go broken since he doesnot sound as sweet as begining to me. Is that my fault to show him so much affection? What should I do now? I tried to stop calling him or receiving his calls several times but then it didnt work cos I miss him more. Please help me. Please...I am scared of being heartbroken later on.

Answer: You need to look at the future. Would you move to his country? would he move to your country? If it is no to both of these questions then you are seriously wasting your time. If the answer is yes, then go with the flow. Enjoy the romance, if it is nothing more that a holiday romance that carries on for a while then enjoy it, don't expect to much from it. If it develops then you will both know what to do when the time is right. But for now be happy and maintain the type of relationship you feel comfortable with, distance is only a number.
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