Question: Reflections? I have this friend named Shara and we have been friends since fourth grade(in seventh now). We both are friends with this guy Ryan and Shara doesen't know that I have a crush on him. Although Ryan thinks I like this guy named Robert(Robert and i are just  friends). Ryan and I walk to our classes together and there has even been a few rumors that we are dating. So everyone thinks we are together. Ryan has a lot of friends that are girls but I am the only one that pulls through for him. Since Shara and i dont have any classes together Ryan and I just found a deeper relationship.I really want to tell him how i feel about him but i just cant heres why:we might isolate Shara from she friend ship, we would be forming an interratial relationship(i dont have a problem about that part but his parents do)he still has a crush on that Erica girl. and he has too many friend that are girls adding more complications. Please tell me what I should do.

Answer: Leave Ryan alone.  You want him to show all those other girls that you are superior.  You are a shallow person for this.  You really do have a crush on Robert, and should try buttering him up a little.  Stay friends with Shara and stop gushing all over Ryan- everyone can tell you are a punk.  Take Shara out for dinner, or invite her over for a slumber party.  Don't ignore Ryan- treat him as you treat Shara.\nGood Luck and don't try to be superior- it gives everyone a better view of your rear end.
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