Question: I am marriedIs it cheating if I have oral sex with a man, and wife doesn't know? I love my wife. But I find men more exciting sexually. I have been having oral sex with men since the week before my wedding. My wife caught me looking at gay porn online and she wants to leave me. I don't want to lose my family, wife and kids. But I can't seem to help myself around men.

Answer: I think it is cheating no matter what sex they are.  I think you might very well be gay and the love you have for your wife is genuine, but  you might be using your marriage as a front because your afraid of the truth being exposed due to peoples reaction in your life.That isnt fair to her or your children, better they know now than later , being gay in this day and age is no big deal at all.  What is a big deal is hurting the people you love.
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