Question: Relationship in trouble!?! Oh the drama I have to deal with! I hate drama!!? When I get frustrated or upset at my fiance he gets pushy and tells me to stop whenever I try to explain to him how I feel. He's an OTR truck driver it makes it difficult as I see very little of him. He told me that he'll come home once a mo. For 1-2 days. I miss him a great deal. When I tell him that once a month isn't enough he says well I'm sry I'm a trk drvr. Then he makes me out to be the bad person and asks me if I want him to quit driving. No, but he says he doesn't want to be around me 24hrs a day I'm ok with that. He claims he's tired of me but says he still loves me. I decided to finish my CRJ Degree online. Now I'm stuck at home with no car to go any where because his mom is using it & cant afford one. He told me there's nothing he can do or the fact that I've got cabin fever from being home alot. I can't help how I feel. How do I handle this reasonably to make him understand? Is he inconsiderate of my feelings or is it me? Plz help me! I'm angry and confused! What do I do?

Answer: You have a right to be angry.  He is saying he doesn't want to be around you for 24 hours and I understand that but being around you 1-2 days out of the month is just not right or fair. He also said that he is tired of you. Doesn't sound good for a man to say to a woman he's about to marry. Does he plan to keep this up even when you all are married? I applaud him for  working but he needs to balance it out (work and family). Honestly, I think there is something wrong with this picture. He only comes around you 1-2 days out of the month and his mom has your car! That is not your problem that his mom doesn't have a car. Since he is working so much, he should help her get a car and his mom appears to be inconsiderate. Get your car back and maybe work out something where you can take her to where ever she has to go whenever you can. His mom will probably never get a car because she has yours.  If she is going to use your car, she should only use it for places she HAS to go only.  I suggest you seriously think about your plans to marry this guy. I understand you love him and all, but marriage is a lot of work and if he's never around, how do you all plan to spend any time together which is a big part of marriage. I believe I have answered your questions, but yes he (and his mom) is being very inconsiderate and you all need to really talk and figure out if you 2 should marry. Good Luck.
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