Question: Feeling of mixed signals- help?!? So here's the break down, basically me and this guy are in 2 of the same classes and are majoring in almost the same thing, Political Science. And we started hanging out about 6 weeks ago and it was great. He would visit me and I would go and visit him at his dorm because he is a Residence Assistant and just hang out and watch tv or do homework that we have in our class together. But lately, he has always had an exuse why he can't hang out with me or doesn't call me back, unless he needs something from me (not happy about that). It just seemed to me that it was ok for him to "use" me when he needed something and now he doesn't so Im let go. I dont get it. So I decided to play hard to get and Im not sure what is going on now. It's been a week and we haven't spoke to one another and Im not calling him. I thought (key word) he liked me because we've kissed (many of times)infront of his friends and other residence, but maybe Im reading too much in to it. So Im not sure what to do now. Help

Answer: First of all - NEVER FORGET - if you are going to play hard to get (or in poker it's called "bluffing") then BE PREPARED TO LOOSE ALL.\n\nOtherwise, maybe you are reading in too much.  I'd suggest that you decide in your heart what you want more... THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT - or - THE GUY NO MATTER THE TRUTH.\n\nHe may have enjoyed being with you while it lasted, but don't hold it against him that he's elsewhere unless you were perfectly clear with him about what you wanted from him.\n\nIf you do want him - then FUCK the hard to get attitude and go after him with full force.  The WORST thing that can happen is you don't get him - but that's what you are going to get anyway on your current course of action.\n\nPEACE
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