Question: Whats the chances of a 34 yr old woman,that is close to 250lbs,and 1 child,finding a good man? I want a man that will love me for me and be a provider for me and my kid. how hard is that. I want a man that makes me feel safe and is not ashamed of a full figured woman. Are they all takin?

Answer: it's a give and take situation.  Weight is usually not an issue, but for health issues you might want to consider losing at least 70 of that lbs.  Sometimes presentation counts a whole lot. \nI for one, look for a woman with a great attitude, and also present herself diligently in public. Someone who can hold out on her own, and not lean on others.  Looks is just 5% of my qualities i look for, compared to 50% for attitude and 20% for presentation.  Real men look for the qualities in a woman, not looks. \nBuild your confidence up first, then start from there.
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