Question: who do i need to email about vulgar language being used on the internet? 

Answer: That's a great question.. I would start with the website manager of the site you're visiting, I would then go to your ISP(Internet Service Provider)to complain about the site if they didn't respond then ultimately I would end up at the FCC (Federal Communications Commission)
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