Question: My wife treats everybody else in the damn world like royalty but I get the abusive side? How do I shut her up? My wife can treat an ant better than she treats me. I try my hardest to love her with all I've got. I can't be her perfect man but I can try to do my best. She's still cold as an iceberg and manipulative with her mouth. How do I control this woman before I crack?

Answer: Well Smooooooooth (why exactly are you using that name and then bashing your wife publicly...I don't know that I would consider that particularly "Smooth") - looks like she's frustrated, and if I were you, I would concentrate on doing those little things she's been askin' you to do. \n\nRemember the one most important rule of a happy marriage:  A happy wife equals a happy life!\n\nMost likely she's not asking for much, but it's just enough to inconvenience you - so you ignore it, and put it off until you just can't avoid it anymore.  That in turn pisses her off and causes a crappy attitude.  It's called give and take.  If she does things for you - you should be doing things for her.\n\nDon't ignore her or try to beat her down- maybe you should listen to why she's so angry.  Maybe you can find a way to HELP her - not "Shut her up!"\n\nShame on you - stop being to selfish!
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