Question: For married people: What makes you more angry? The affair or the lies about it? 

Answer: The lies, the fact that someone I trusted didn't think they could or wanted to do the work needed to build a great marriage.\n\nI'd say it's either the lies or the death of the your dream of who your spouse was, or the hope that your marriage would get better.\n\nI was angry at myself for my mistakes, and angry at her for her lies, deception and manipulation.\n\nThe blame-shifting angers me too.\n\nSorry, I couldn't nail it down to just one ;)
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