Question: Whats that? Im in love with a very sweet guy, but i cant forget my love,who was from the net.? I have got a guy from net from a matrimonial site,and we were in deep love, it was from may 2005.But we havent never ever met in real life, but we knows all abt the each other.Im living in Europe, and he is in India.We planed to meet some day,but i think i was not too patient,bec after 9 months waiting i couldnt wait more and in jan 2006 i have met with a guy from my country,and we started to be in a great deep love! But i cant forget my prev love. I try ,but i cant.Every time when he calls me or click on me in messenger, we r sterting to talk like old lovers, but he always suggest me im not free yet.I really want my new love,he is perfect for me,but my old love also. Plz help, how can forget him,my old love,or what could i do, or give me plz a great advice what could i do.Thx!

Answer: In person is more likely to be "real" than online. I've met a enough people from online, that you only get a partial view of who they really are. YOu dont see how they really act until you sit across from them. You are in full fantasy mode. \n\nTake a step back and be realistic. Someone far away whom you never met offers only text, a person nearby offers their laughter, shoulder to lean on, their hand to hold. \n\nLove for yourself means letting go when things are not fully right for you.
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