Question: How can I save my relationship, My boyfriend has 5 children and no rules for them Please help? 

Answer: Get out.  He's going to resist any attempts at you advising him about how to raise his kids and if you discipline them he will undermine your authority.  It will eventually end your relationship.  So get out now before you go through all the heartache and fights.
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