Question: Ok here is my story, i'm dating a guy for six month now and he is not showing that much attention and caring ! You know he was nice may be the first couple weeks , flowers ,chocolate , kissing my hand and phone calls...... Now, i dont see any of that. he calls me once every week , and we wouldn't talk more than 15 minuts sometimes 40 minutes if he is doing grocery shopping!! because he is claiming that his career is very important and it's taking all his time. we meet once or twice by weekly!! when we meet all we do is hanging out in his house for his pleasur or going out for  dinner. I like the guy and feel that he needs alot of care and love that he missed all his life( divorced parents),but at the same time i dont feel he cares that much about me so I dont want to put my feeling on the table. should i continue with him , cuz he might change or should i forget all about him he dosnt seem serious!! thanks for reading .

Answer: This sounds like a completely one-sided relationship.  You're always there when he calls.  If he wants to have sex, you're in the mood too.  If he wants to see you, you're available.  What about your needs and desires?  You give him everything he wants and in return you get _________?  If he wanted to see you more often, he'd find a way.  I say, stop being so available to him all the time.  Miss a phone call or two- and be too busy when he finally wants to go to dinner, and see if he fights for your attention.  If he doesn't, it's clear he's not into you any more, and it's time for you to stop wasting your time.  I mean really.  Don't you feel like a babysitter sometimes?  Don't your legs get tired, running after this guy?  Certainly, there is another man out there who will give you the affection you deserve.
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