Question: i pushed someone i love away how do i let him know i want to be with him  is it to late.? i really care about him and miss his friendship

Answer: i pushed someone away that i really loved and cared about and i still do..but i realized that i cant be friends with someone i love and care about because i dont want to be his friend i want to be his girl..his everything..sometimes things arnt meant to be..there someone else for you..i know its harder said then done trust me for that...because i know i could never wake up tommorrow and just forget all about him and everything him &I did or went through together..everything i was doing i thought it was right at the time but in the end it was pushing him farther away when all i wanted to do was bring him closer.you shoudl re evaluate yourself and see all the things you did that made the relationship sour..WHEN A MANS MIND IS MADE UP A MANS MIND IS MADE UP..he can only make the decisions to be with you..to be your friend or to leave it alone..maybe what you need is space between the two and see how that unfolds..you could call him and let him know how you feel just like i did...just because i felt as though i needed some closure..i felt like i needed to tell him what was on my mind and after i got enough guts to let him know how i felt it felt soooo good to talk to him and tell him what i was thinking..just to hear his voice and have us laugh and talk again made me feel like the million bucks that i needed to feel like..but dont push too hard and dont sweat him too much just have that one phone call and thats it..let him know how you feel and then let him take it from there..just put it into the air..now what he does with that information is up to him..my ex knows how i feel and what he does with that information is up to him....you see what im saying? if he comes back he comes back? IF YOU LOVE HIM SET HIM FREE..IF HE COMES BACK HES YOURS FOREVER..just sit back..whats meant to be is meant to be..everybody is not meant for you..your time will come..good luck hope i helped!
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