Question: How to work things out? Been with this guy for a year and been having major problems lately. We have been doing long distnace (and this is like across the world long distance), for over 2 months now but even before I left, things were beginning to get rocky. We love eachother a lot and although most couples have trust issues long distance, ours is communication. I totally know I am at fault most of the time, because he really is a great bf. But whenever I get angry, I take it out on him and then realize it and apologize and its become a trend, set by comfort. However, this last month apart has gotten really bad and now he doesn't want to keep trying although I now know I will back with him in 2 months. Unfortunately till then, I don't want us to not talk but don't know how 2 make him understand.Seems he has convinced himself it will never work out, although now,I finally understand my mistakes but cannot show it to him if he doesn't let me. I have said sorry a dozen times and tried everything, what now?

Answer: Seems like you are blaming everything on yourself girl, and you have gotten into a pattern of apologising everytime, if he thinks you are going to keep doing this he will keep pushing itto see how far he can go with it.  If your away and you are going to be back in two months have fun for yourself, tell him you will see him when you get back and see where it will go from there.  maybe he will realise after no communication for a while just how much he wants you.  I know you love him and it will be hard but give it a go.
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