Question: What are you views/opinions about coupls taking a break? It wasn't my descion but my boyfriends. He needs to try and figure something out, like why and all. It's the first time he suggested taking a break with someone and in my view, it's a way of showing that at least he wants to work something out in some shape of form. He wants to understand why every year, since 3 or 4 years, mostly during winter, he's all happy and the next day just like blank. It's not that he lost interest really, it's more complicating than that. Any opinions?

Answer: I'm not trying to be mean, but are you sure the take a break thing isn't just a reason for him to persue some flings with other people.  If I had some sort of psychological problem, or  any problem for that matter I'd rather have someone close to help me through it.  As a couple you need to sh*t or get off the pot.
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