Question: i fall in love with a boy,bu i do not know what he is thinking of me .how should i get along with him? we met by chance and just contacted each other 1 month ago.he is a shy guy.we are studying in different majors so it is hard to meet often but he sometimes invites me to meal and even buy something for me.we make a appointment to study together at every weekend.he said he will treat me dinner  with his scholaship last time.what we usually talk about is study and school.Totally,we have met 5 times so far.however,what is strange that he seldom send text message to me which is the only way that we can communciate with each other!what is more,we are both preparing for future study.i know i should spend time studying but i can not helping thinking of him which have affected my study now .what is his true intention?i have no that courage to ask him and i don't want to be the first one to send text message or is it a little early to ask his feeling?i really want to get rid of such a feeling that i am suffering !

Answer: It's always good to get things out in the open, just ask him what his feelings are, whats the worst that could happen he says he only wants to be friends, yes that will hurt if you have feelings for him, but at least then you will be able to move on knowing you can't be with him!
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