Question: what questions should i ask my mate before getting married? 

Answer: Let's see...Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with me? What is your view on divorce? Have you ever been convicted of a felony? Do you have twins in the family? Does anyone in your family have any major health problems? How do feel about children? How would you raise a child? Are you happy with your career? My list can go on! Sit down with your mate and talk about your ideas and concerns before you get married. It's a great way to see his/her point of view! Best of luck!
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