Question: Would you have been offended? Would you have been offended?\nWhen my partner (my girlfriend) and I started dating I weighed 134lbs. and was going to the gym regularly. During the first part of our relationship I lost ten more lbs. but she complained I looked too thin. I had minor surgery this summer and she has moved in therefore my gym time and my eating habits have sliped and I've put weight back on. I got up to 137 but now fluctunat between 134 and 136. I know even though I'm about the same weight when we met I don't look as good because I'm not as toned. Anyway I bought a sexy outfit last year for chirstmas and she has been asking me to try it on for her agian this year. I told her I was afraid it wouldn't fit but after lots of her asking i tried it on and it still fits. She is constantly telling me that I'm not fat but has agreed that I've slacked a bit and my stomach isn't as nice (which is fine it's honest and it helps encourgae me to get back in shape).Here's my complaint; when I put on the outfit and I was putting on the music she said \n\nAdditional Details\n\n7 hours ago\n"why is it when people get into realtionships they get comfortable and put on weight?". That statment REALLY got under my skin. I told her "ouch" and she said she didn't mean me she just thought of it because I was nervous to put on the outfit. But I'm still bothered... I had a skimpy outfit on in front of her and that's the first comment that came out of her mouth. Am I being over sensitive?\n\n7 hours ago\na little more FYI... She has lost weight. she is actually down to wear I was when she was complaining I was too thin. And she is taller than me. She often will flash her stomach (which has a pack now beacuse she's so thin) whenever she catches me looking at myself in the mirror. It's very weird to me...

Answer: OK, her timing was not good, but if she did not mean it with respect to you, let it go.
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