Question: have u ever told someone u loved them and not really known it was true? 

Answer: Yes, and it was wrong to do so.  I've never told a girl I love them, to get sex -- never.  But I have responded to an I love your, by saying I love her back.  It still isn't right, as women are definitely more emotionally tied to a guy they are having sex with.  But life is a some of your experiences, and sometimes you make bad decisions, and if your smart, you learn from them.  So...girls, never tell a guy you love him during, or after sex, if it has not already been established that you both love each other.
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