Question: how do I let a girl go gentle? I have a girl but we arnt really going out (thats what she says) and i dont think i want to be with her any more

Answer: just be honest and let her know that you just want her to be happy and that you feel that you're not the one to make her happy.  have her acknowledge that she could see that the relationship isn't working out.  make it a mutual decision as much as possible.
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