Question: my grandmother walked in on me and my boyfriend having sex 2 days ago. she refuses to talk to me. what do i do i am 22 years old. i work full time and go to school. my parents thought it would be cheaper if i lived at home.., well the day b4 yesterday nobody was home (or so i thought,) so my boyfriend and i decided to do a little quickie. i got a little vocal when he had me on all 4's (i was facing the door) suddenly my door flung open and there i was in this compromising position looking my grandma dead in the eyes.i cannot begin 2 xplain how embarrassed i am. my grandma adored me up until that moment. Today (sunday) we had easter dinner here at my parents house. my grandma did not even look at me. i tried to tell her that i am sorry and she wont listen. my parents are totally confused bcuz they have no idea what is going on... my boyfriend was invited to dinner but was too embarrassed to show up. how in the world do i get my grandma to adore me again? this is very serious. i really need advice!!!

Answer: Sounds like your grandmother is a very old-fashioned.  O.K. so that's not it at all.  She is probably upset because your not the innocent little girl you used to be. I can say this... You must reach her no matter what it takes. Tell her that you love her but, if she had knocked, this would not be an issue,   that it breaks your heart that she won't even talk to you about it.  This could cause her to worry, or stew, herself into a heart attack or a stroke. So do what ever it takes.  I'm feeling grandma's pain....I am one too.
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