Question: is it really love when i cant stop thinking about him? 

Answer: Infatuation:   \n1. A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction.\n2. An object of extravagant, short-lived passion.\n\nIt all depends on how long you've felt this way--if it lasts it's love.  If it's short-lived--it's not.
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