Question: i really messed up, should i try to fix it or give up? There is this girl who i am "talking" to. we have been kinda seeing each other for about a a 2 months. 2 weeks ago she made a new guy friend and she started to spend alot of time with him. i happened to know that he likes her ALOT but she says they are just friends. he takes her shopping, buys her lunch dinner takes her for ice cream, and she has even walked away from me to hang with him at the high school football games. i decided that if she could have aguy friend like this, i could have the same type of friend, but a girl. well, rumors got back to my girl that i was cheating on her and seeing another girl. i never did anything with sharon (new girl) but alyssa (orgnl girl) is hesitating on believing me. she says that things cant go back to normal. the guy spends like all of his time with her, he goes to her house yet she still claims that they are just friends. i am not sur if i should move on or fight for my rights.\n\npeace and love\n\njared

Answer: Sounds like she wants to have  her cake and eat it.\nExplain to her that it goe's both ways , if she can have a guy friend that she hangs out with all the time then why can't you also have a friend?\nAnother way is to just ask her point blank if she likes this new guy more than a friend ,tell her it also looks mighty suspicious to you that she spends all her time with him.\nTell her it upsets you that she spends all her time with this guy , and the only reason you went looking for another friend , is because SHE was the one that went off with someone else.\nAll you can do is lay it all out on the table , and discuss it honestly. Good luck with  everything =)
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