Question: Why do parents hate the children the have before their mariage? I'm a product of parents who hate me when they where in school(dad) in the university and mum(just out of college).Dad left before i was born and mum left when i was 7months.I grew up eith an Aunt an dmy grandmother.Knew my mother when i was 14yrs and looked for my Dad when i was 17yrs.They both have their various families and find me as a complete stranger and a child they never wanted.I now take the blame of both parent mistake.As much as i try to bridge the gap they really can't fit me into their life.\nI simply wonder why i have to take the blame for their mistake?\nThrough all in life after the death of my Aunt i had to pay my way through my university and i really crave for afamily of my own. I look forward to marriage.A husband and children.

Answer: You should feel absolutely no guilt for lame parents. It is not your fault in any way shape or form. I don't know why they are that way, we cannot explain why some pple are jerks. I would not try anymore and just go on with my life. It sounds to me like you have a wonderful parent. It just happens to be your aunt instead of your biological mother. It sounds like she loves you alot. You should just look at that in a positive aspect and move on with your life. It is their loss anyway, not yours. Good luck to you.
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