Question: I got fixed my marriage. Now the boy s parents rejected to get marry. Iam so worried depressed.What to do now? now iam feeling worried because already we announced my marage around? My main worry is about my parents? They rejected just because  i weared western dress. The boy dont have job so i told them if he comes to hyd i will help him to get job. recently we learnt that the boy already got engagement with another girl and after few days they rejected that match saying that the girl character is not good. Now my parents approache caste eleders and taking their help. they given 3 options1. if you want we will bring him& we wil force him to get mary. 2. If you want we will give police complaint 3. If u feel need some compensation that also we will arrange. Iam well educated and working for social sector earning sufficient money. Now i have to take decision. but last few days i am feeling very upset & worried. not eable to concentate on work. the boys mother is not respetble. She always quarells with my parents.  My family members & myself came from very remote village. we respect traditions

Answer: Bleh! Im glad tht I am an Indian girl AND NOT living in INDIA! Its disgusting how Indian people claim to be so righteous yet squabble over stupid and insignificant things. \nWhy can't you marry someone you love and who will love you back? Arranged marriages are where the parents just help you out to meet a suitable match. But it looks like all the parents in your so called viillage act like village idiots. If you claim to be educated, go out there and make something of yourself. Dont rely on your or other parents advice. They only seem to be making you more miserable.
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