Question: just met a great guy that moved into my condo complex,but lied to me about his gf? His condo is right next to mine and we had been running into each other for the last 4 weeks and making small talk.Im single and he is going thru a divorce.We have alot in common including our interest in movies but i saw him alot with anouther women so never pursued him.He invited me over one night to see a movie we both wanted to see.We spent half the night just talking then out of the blue he said i really want to kiss u.I was taken back and said u have a gf i have seen u with her.He went on to tell me he was free to date other people and they were just really freinds and it was none of her business if he dated other people. Here it is 4 weeks later and she still does not know about me and yes they are more than just freinds.He will not anwser my calls when she is there and he will not anwser her calls when im over.I feel like i'm just convenient for him and she is the real gf.He takes her to the movies,dinner,shopping i get to sleep over.He he really loves her why does he need me?

Answer: guys like having more than one gf , you should not be selfish - you should be his gf and not get in the way with his other gfs - i hope this helps you
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