Question: How often are you expected to visit or stay in touch with in laws ? I have been w/ my second Husband 16 yr now. His family is Italian Catholic and they  do everything together. A 40 year old Sister, 42 year old sister w/ 2 married. I use to put alott of effort into all relationships to realize I don’t want to. The Mother is not happy I did not have babies. Then I have issues w/ food. I am a Veggie. The Italians right off the boat eat almost anything gross. The times I visited have been full of anxiety for me. They believe if you are visiting you stay for the day or even worse yet through late night. I think 3 hours is all I can take w/ anyone. So I asked for a compromise from the hubby. He was all for it so I hardly see them at all. I even stopped calling and inviting them here ( they never went home ). If I did call she crys and pushes for a visit.So I insisted that my hubby maintain a visit them with out me every three weeks. They are hurt that I am never there. Should I bite my feelings  and go back to the family. Or should I stay w/ my hiding

Answer: keep on hiding
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