Question: help me plz this might scare me for life really complicated iam going to need alot of answers and advice help! ok  it was the night of our schools foot ball game my friend came over so we could go together she told me to wright a note to the boy i like and the guy i like has called me woah!\nlol...since 3rd grade ...just sayin...anyways i wrote a note to him telling him that i really like him..and he is in the marching band when they were on brake ...i told my friend to give it to him saying its from me and shes like ill hand it to him as long as u come with me i said no but she like pulled me over to him and she help the note out and i ran away....i was waiting for her to come bak and she said he said that "iam not taking anything from woah!!" and after that i ran behind the bleachers crying..then my friends put se.xual notes in his locker saying they were from me and now hes all weird and ppl r saying it wont work but he always stares at me and... my friends r always shouting that i love him in parking lots when i see it its soo embarasing ..iam losing my mind plz just help the pain go away.!

Answer: First of all, the people that are putting notes in his locker about you are not really your friends. If you want to nip this in the butt, you need to approach this guy yourself and clear the air. It'll be hard and nerve-wracking, but you'll feel better about it in the long run. It'll also show this guy that you've got courage and maturity and that speaks volumes. It's not fair to you to have to be a part of this cruelty and you need to stand up for yourself and let these people know that they can't treat you like that. Who knows? This guy might actually like you and he's too afraid to approach you and if you stand up to your "friends" you'll earn a ton of respect points in their eyes.
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