Question: My co-worker asked me out....? I am the new girl at work.I conversated w/ a co-worker about our children one day, it turns out that we both had something in common he was a single parent at one point in time as I am somewhat now. The co-worker is about 45y.o  white male w/ 19 y.o daughter away at college, I am 29 african-american female with 3 kids 8-2.Long story short, he asked me out to dinner w/0 my kids. This guy has a vietnamese wife who just came to the U.S he talked about it briefly.He has asked me out, but didn't mention bringing his wife.I  have a boyfriend I live with and he doesn't know about this.I am leeary b/c the co-worker is white, older, & married. It makes me wonder why he went overseas to get a wife,is he looking for concubines and why is he asking me out?  I am nervous about seeing him out of work. I am not opposed to white guys but I wonder what does he want with me? Am I just being crazy? Maybe I just watch too much bad porn with old white guys and young black girls.What do you think?

Answer: he is married and u r in a relationship u don't want 2 mess that up turn him down and say that u r faithful 2 your man and if he keeps asking  u out after u have explained 2 him then i would get your bf in it
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