Question: Did I do the right thing? I can't stand being upset!? Here it goes: My best friend (let's call her Jane) and I throw a party for her sister. One of the ladies offered to help pay for the cost. Jane E-mails this girl (Julie). Julie goes nuts and fowards the e-mail to Janes soon to be brother in law (Mike) . (Who Jane hates for good reasons.) Mike calls me and tells me everything, and tells me he's going to pay for Julies part, tells me not to tell Jane. Also tells me he will not tell Jane it's from him, but from Julie. Knowing that Jane would hate me for not telling her (if it all came about) I called Jane and was honest with her. (My loyalty is to Jane) She was mad at Julie. Now everyone hates Kate! (me) I don't know how to deal with the fact that everyone is mad at me. (Not Jane) Why the heck would Mike tell me anything? He knows Jane is my best friend and that we keep no secrets or anything from eachother. Should I feel as horrible as I do?

Answer: TAKE SOME DEEP BREATHS AND THEN LET IT OUT, OKAY NOW YOU CAN SCREAM, CAUSE NO MATTER WHAT YOU DID YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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