Question: Am I wrong? or is HE? Okay, so my husband grabbed his wallet and gave it to me and asked me to get something out of it.. I saw that he had a pic of us, in there, So i was like aaww how cute ya know. Then I saw the same picture under his credit cards, i thought that was weird so I pulled it out.. and right behind it was a picture of his ex girlfriend. I FAREAKED!! Shit flew!! So i did what every other wife would do, and asked him about it.. He swears it was there, i told him that i bought him a new wallet in decemeber and he took everything out taht he wanted and put in the new wallet.. he said he just grabbed his flip book (with all his insurance papers and important papers) and put it in there without looking at him. I am so pissed at him I can't even talk to him or look at him or even sleep next to him. am I wrong?? Or should I say I am sorry? Plus we have been together for 2 years, married for one.

Answer: He is wrong,,,, give him a break,,, let him of the hook.,,, and let him know in no uncertain terms , that you really do not believe him, but you will give him another break, If you ever see another inappropriate picture in his wallet ever again!!!  Oh the 2nd break will be a part of his body ,,,, pick somewhere that hurts,,, \n                    Be nice,, really forgive him,,, do not torture him or anything or even bring it up,,but if it happens again,, time to go off!!!  \n           my husband tried this very same bs,, when we got married, he had pics of his exes behind my framed pics,,, then when i told him to get rid of them or put them away he tried to hide them, i finally ripped them up and threw them all out, because he did not let me keep any pics of my ex,,,\n            1st rule to survive marriage,,,Be loving, be sweet, be about business, take care of home, keep yourself on point,,,and do not be stupid!!!!
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