Question: I am 54 with two kids son 20 and daughter 17 and have fallen in love with a girl of 23. Now are details.? I am 54 year old and married with two children-son 19 and daughter 17. I had a loveless marriage but becsuse of kids we continued. Now  my son a year back stopped talking to me at all. I was deeply hurt. I gave him all my love and in fact stayed with my wife because of children. I was waiting for the day when I children will be grown up and I will have happy life with them. But dream got shattered. I was left with my daughter who love me very much. With my marriage and conduct of my wife I got isolated from my family. My mother whom I love so much do not come to my home. I had no sex with my wife for over 7 years and at times do have desire for it. Under these circumstances  young girl of 23 got in touch with me and started giving all love and I immediately fell in love with her. Now both of us are in deep love though I have avoided to  make love(sex) as not sure how to move. I will be meeting her next week when we will be together. I am totally confused how to go about it.

Answer: Follow your heart. Don't do things cos you want to please other people.You sacrificed once don't do it again. Always remember age is nothing but a number!! At first you will hear alot of nasty things but it will past. People will have to except it. You have to be happy...If you are getting the love you waited for take it now and also return it as-well..Her about the past..just come clean..good luck..
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