Context: Ex's relapse.
Speaker 1: Recently, I received the news about my ex boyfriend's relapse.
Speaker 2: Oh no! :(   How are you taking it?
Speaker 1: It's definitely a hard situation to take in. He had stopped using when we started dating and was off it for 2 years until we broke up. It's very discouraging.
Speaker 2: Dang.  Please don't blame yourself.