Context: Ex partner was being dishonest.
Speaker 1: A while back I caught my partner at the time being dishonest to me.
Speaker 2: That is to bad, is it someone you have been with a long time?
Speaker 1: We were together for a year and a half and we had a child together shortly before I found out!
Speaker 2: Wow, that is really messed up. Did you end up leaving them?