This book does work if you work it
This book was awesome . I read it in a few days. It is well written and very practical. It has helped me immensely in stopping big arguements with my family. But I review and practice the principles. If someone says it does not work, they are not willing to make the effort to learn and practice the principles. Some people prefer to just say it is impossible and like books that attack their abuser so they can have a pity party for themselves.