i know im gon na get downvoted however i dont think saying nigger is a big deal i mean cmon sticks and stones and all that if black people cant accept a word how can they possibly turn the other cheek when something bigger happens like someone cheating them on a paycheck ive seen black people jump an old man for calling someone he was arguing with a nigger i agree that racism is terrible but some girl saying nigger does not represent the entire usa and they know this once black people stop flipping out over a word the faster people will stop saying it