gt ive never actually spoken to them since we work in different areas but ive seen one of them on grindr he seems to be a normal nice guy but at work no one gives a shit about that hes just a faggot hes a faggot before anything else personally i would send the one on grindr a short message of support and respect and ask him to discreetly pass it on to the other guy sometimes it helps to know that youre not alone