i like patton i like this bit i acknowledge that you should at least attempt to listen to the actual intent of the person speaking instead of immediately kneejerking a response because someone called a transgender person a trap or whatever that said i think modifying language to be the most inoffensive to minority targets should happen just not in the way some people do it not every person saying tranny or trap or shit is transphobic or an enemy but attacking them as though they are tends to make an enemy or transphobe out of them