why do women have this particular fetish why is it that women tend to enjoy rape fetishes in particular when youre attracted to something fantasy or not that says quite a lot about what you actually desire sexually if a black woman enjoyed slave play and being called a subhuman nigger ape and whipped then brutally fucked by her boyfriend dressed in a slave owners costume you would consider her a self hating weirdo with internalized racism why dont you feel the same about consensual rough sex and degradation in other contexts