i live in a very white state my daughter and i go to a group every thursday about talking to kids about race and racism im also part of a reparations group and regularly donate what i can afford to women and men of color who are struggling financially especially trans people and women of color i have participated in several matches and volunteered at our local black lives matter cafe i could do more though and i still have to unpack a lot of stuff but i want to be an ally who actually does something and shows up