im a panm and for real this is how i figured out i was pan and came to terms with it i realized i was pan when i developed a massive crush on tom holland and i said hey i might be bi so i looked into it decided i was pan not bi took a while and looked back at my life and said yeah ive never really considered gender as a factor in any kind of attraction welli guess im pan now and thats how i came to terms with it thank you for coming to my ted talk