actually it wasnt even the tranny part i could get over that with a simple conversation however i will not be friends with the sort of person who would kick in my fucking door i did say gt but thats me meaning thats me personally only me as in not you or op i simply dont like being around let alone being best friends with people that get angry to the point that they would kick a door in especially over minutia like grams of fucking pot if that makes me a pussy then okay i can live with that