the fact is that she told the child to not talk to him because of the color of his skin if she simply stated dont bother the man dont talk to him because he is a stranger etc then i would agree that she was in the right but i am a firm believer that it isnt the word itself but the meaning behind the word that really matters if the opposite was true and he told his white son to not talk to a nigger lady i think people would be up in arms and rightfully so it isnt the words it is the meaning behind them