exactly and it just left me feeling like how dare you im not surprised that she deleted it after my comment because she claimed to want to know if she was being offensive but apparently only from a black man and its very telling that she sought out the black fellas sub to dump her emotional baggage on but wouldnt dare bring that to her engagement and other wedding planning subs i looked at her history lol and the bottom half of her post was basically a bunch of i see you black fellas racism is real blah blah oh and in a drunken stupor her dad called her brother a nigger and he tried to apologize but brother wasnt trying to hear it i was just really annoyed because it was so transparent that she just wanted to be patted on the back for seeing racism is real