sure im an ace but cis identifying male my qualifier is my father i was the only something male in a group of to buear old women some of the ladies were even threatened by me being in the room as theyd suffered violence at the hands of their husbands and another male any male in proximity was a trigger luckily i had a kickarse sponsor who built that bridge she had the inspired thought that being as the meeting room was colocated with a catholic church shed invite the priest in to visit every couple of weeks