there isnt anything wrong with being a feminine gay guy at all i wouldnt know since i fall under a masculine bisexual guy and to me heavy metal music falls above lady gaga still listen to her anyway but anyone who is calling you a faggot is nothing more than a hater just be you man dont change the comfortable world you live in for others around you if they dont like who you are fuck them youre happy being you and quite frankly thats all that matters stay strong my friend