damnnnnnnnn im so torn on this one on one hand i applaud you for standing behind your rules and making her learn that her actions have consequences ive seen people whos parents didnt teach them this and honestly it can screw up the kids lives if they dont know this on the other handyou gave her no warning at all the contract you made with her was years ago the severity of it has probably faded from her mind i think you should have warned her and then when she did it again which she probably would have then you couldve sold the car tldr gon na go with esh but only barely