once upon a time i worked for nasa in mississippi and during my short time there i heard the words nigger and dyke used fairly liberally at work and you know why those people can keep saying shit like that because no one tells them not to i couldnt imagine anyone saying anything like that at the workplace in california and not getting told off and reported to hr but the south turns a blind eye to this every day occurence which imo is consenting that it is ok it isnt and to make the claim that being silent about prejudice is the solution is ignorant