last year i was explaining to my roommates friend my family background im congolese but because my dad worked for an international organization we traveled a lot after hearing him being surprised at how good my english was i made the mistake of telling him that my dad grew up in a village and then went to college in the city him so hes from a village me yea thats right him so did he take your mom out of the village like did he teach her about civilization and languages me nomy mom is from the city and went to college in canada with a full ride they met while working him oh my bad since you said village i just assumed i was about to lose my shit he said it so casually and although my roommate was pointing out his ignoranceracism he didnt seem to find anything wrong with what he just said