because people are stupid and ignorant nigga is not nigger nigga is like white person saying dude and nigger is reference to what white slave owners used to call their spooks what really pisses me off that blacks and call you every name in the book and i am supposed to accept that but if i say the n word if front of a black person most likely ill get assaulted double standards and tell your friend to ignore them if he wants to call a black person a nigger he can do so and only expect a verbal assault anything more than that report to the police or use selfdefense tactics to put that fucking animal down its already getting to a point where you cant say a jew without being called antisemitic