im probably in the minority for this but my roommates call me faggot or queer all the time we all have a very aggressive blunt and assholey sense of humor so we just say whatever the hell we want to each other i dont care and honestly most of the time its pretty funny because i know theyre doing it to be funny and not to hurt me or put me down theres no malicious intent its just our personalities and i give as good as i get with them too