wtf are you on about i am gay if my friends and i call each other fags that is on us whether its a slur or not just like you said reclaiming the word its the same as black people and the n word i can say fag and tranny all i want if thats how myself and my friends self identify and were all comfortable with it then thats on us im just saying that some other gays get their panties in a bunch because they dont see it as reclaiming the word i dont understand why everyones giving me shit about this if you think im an asshole for using slurs then i get that but some of these responses read like yall are missing the context of what im saying