let them talk if enough of them get angry they might just go away if you want to have a non feminist dominated gender discussion im all for it if you want to discuss the challenges of white people dealing with their own privileges and the loss of some of them go ahead if you want to challenge the assumptions made by both academic feminism and anti racism be my guest but you can do all those things without calling anyone a bitch a monkey a nigger and without using assumptions that are known to be flawed from the very beginning