they are both slurs about ones personhood they are slurs about a way we were born something that neither of us can control they make people feel bad when you say them slurs are slurs do you not like it when nonblack people use the nword about you or at you i dont like it when people call me tranny just the same its offensive are you going to be the kind of person that throws them around with disregard for others identities or are you going to man up and acknowledge that words can hurt people