put simply the proper terminology is to call someone what they preferred to be called as a general guide when referring to us in general okay to use transgender manwomanpersonetc trans manwomanpersonetc trans manwomanpersonetc agendergenderqueerbigendergender fluidetc manwomanpersonetc edit or ya know just the persons name as ufuckyoubullshitter pointed out not okay a transgender or multiple transgenders not a noun transgendered not an verbadverb tranny shemale heshe it etc