maybe i could almost believe it if it were the use of just one of either gay or faggot as an insult that people defended as nothing to do with homosexuality but both and maybe if those same people defending it didnt also tend to use words and phrases like cocksucking homo queer girly fruity sissy girly likes taking it in the ass etc to insult men well youd have a better chance of convincing me to go straight than believe that bullshit