i dont think someone can talk about being situation appropriate while also writing tips for tranny dressing in a fucking holiday card and honestly those are just shitty fashion tips they should have nothing to do with whether or not youre trans but the reason she points that out is because she doesnt think youll ever be able to understand fashion or clothes because she doesnt think youre a real woman but if her ideas on fashion are anything to go by it should be obvious that being cis doesnt mean youre gon na be better at fashion