when my daughter was in first grade she came home with some questions in advance of black history month well amongst all of these questions was what does the word nigger mean dad rather than addressing where she ard it i explained that it is the queenmother of dont you dare ever say that its meant to make peopl feel worthless its mean and stupid i tried to stress the whole racial aspect of it but she didnt quite get it well some black kid at my daughters school told my daughter she was stupid and worthless not even kidding like those exact words so of course my daughter says you are the only the only nigger i see around here yeah that was an interesting conversation with the principle that day