are you sure thats not just something you say to make yourself feel better about being bigoted i see absolutely no reason why a person would be opposed to gay marriage and yet be supportive of gay people the two are connected its like saying i dont hate that nigger but i dont want him going to school with my kid it just doesnt add up to me but since you pointed out how completely stupid i am when it comes to governement people vote whats that i live under a rock perhaps i am being stupid about this as well