ah passing as in passing as my brain went straight to passing by and i was wondering why to celebrate a relationship thats almost over facepalm thanks a lot and i kind of relate to how you feel im not percent sure what kind of queer i am i know that im not straight and thats important to me but i feel like i cant come out properly because i havent quite figured out my label yet i too am a bit afraid people will think im just drawing attention to myself when i cant say if im bi or a lesbian thanks for explaining and sharing