no em hasnt thats true but louis ck did and i felt like it was an appropriate use of the word without being racist what im saying is that a hateful words usage doesnt necessarily indicate a hateful person especially in art on the flip side white folk arent called that word in hate but straight men are called faggot in hate in addition to homosexualbiqueeretc theres differences between the words you are still entitled to feel however you feel but i think its a more nuanced discussion about ems behavior