hes not going to tell them to leave and you cant have a private fight with seven extra people in the house so thats not going to happen you have a car you have a weekend you have motels in every direction but since you are afraid to adult in front of the grownups might as well smile and lie down learning to doormat can be fun i suppose you could pull up panties and decide to not only do what you want but to tell the consequences to jump in a lake backlash will be you a bad person so like the people backlashing at you have opinions worth anything