this stuff still happens and it pisses me of when people deny it i had a black friend in portland or and he would get harassed at the strangest moments he was on a bus one day and an old lady called him nigger out of nowhere i was engaged to a black woman and had to learn to get over people having problems with a white dude with a black girl she explained to me that she had been dealing with it her whole life and my new experiences were founded but my reactions needed to be tempered and controlled and didnt help like i thought they did i am so impressed that so many black people have controlled their anger and emotions keep on my friend