here is the very obvious difference males oppress women as a class and hold power and dominance over them obviously what men and women do under patriarchy happens in entirely different contexts you cant equate one to the other a male calling a woman a cunt is reinforcing the imposed sex roles that males force on us through violence subjugation and oppression it is not that hard to understand why it is not the same thing as a woman calling a trans male tranny likely a trans male who preaches the rape of lesbians as well as the invasion of womens spaces and destruction of our rights in no scenario are women in position of power over the males big big difference