my girl is a nigger and im a cracker i feel your pain at the same time her parents are feeling more of the pain than you guys are they lost a daughter and probably a good son in law because of their short mindedness remember that you guys are happy and that is really all you need i am glad the family that i have excepts my girl for who she is and probably likes her more than me but thats another story stay strong homes keep in mind her parents are probably destroyed maybe you should go over there and have a heart to heart whatcha think