i understood your point and thank you for making it part of why as a younger man i felt i couldnt be a dad is becsue it didnt happen nuch at all years ago so growing up a family was one man one women adoption was done by straight couples who couldnt or didnt want to conceive natuaky gay people were never ralked avout as wanting to build families even fron within the comunity hopefully my childrens generation will be able to see same sex adoption in exactly the same way as straight adoption but for my generation thats not possible