aye well in that case cheers for making me clarify my reasoning a bit further to be more clear i consider sexual orientation and therefor the sex of your romantic partners to be completely trivial matters in the eyes of a normal society meaning that we should accept is as is and not make a fuss about it to be even more clear thats in the eyes of a society for an individual that is of course a big deal in life what matters is that there is love and that the people are good and kind with whom matters not