i second this if cis people were on the whole insufferable doucheskates then there would be few cis people worth knowing or befriending there are certainly plenty of crazy fucking douches who are cis but because cis people are the de facto dominant body of people the negotiated consensus is that most cis people arent like that with trans people however there are so few to begin with relative to cis people and many trans people are not visibly trans leaving visible trans people and separately crazy fucking douches who are trans as being the broadstroked cis idea of what most or all trans people must be or are like in turn this doesnt really help trans people who arent visibly such to want to come out and be that tranny with a smile on their face