i dont really get gay or allies using faggot there are so many swear and derogatory words why perpetrating the use of one that is directly and unequivocally aimed at ridiculing us gt and she uses the words like gay to describe things and uses faggot alot shes not homophobic though see this is called casual homophobia its the type that you pick up on because its not in your face its much more passive and is considered mild words are very powerful never underestimate the use of a word in your repertoire