without getting into every single point i think what goodwolf is ultimately arguing is that this isnt a blackwhite issue language is a very very complicated and nuanced thing its just not as simple as faggot always totally wildly inappropriate forever thats the point i would emphasize even if it leans strongly in the direction of being badharmful even something like faggot has nuance and is not completely black and white i hope we can all agree on that point at least