i was lucky when i went public as i was already friends with the oddballs for lack of a better word my being a tranny was pretty inconsequential to them while none of them really understood for the most part they were always there for me most supportive of all was my now fiancee who i believe comes as close as a cisgendered person can come to understanding what im going through i dont know how i did it really but i managed to find myself a very strong support network and if you want to talk hun message me ill be happy to help i know how it gets