for asian american its pretty evenly split in preferences asian american women tend to prefer or seek a specific type of asian american guy the asian american women i know all tend to want this type of guy who they describe as a hot asian guy but because theyre more rare and highly in demand by women in general theyre hard to get its the equivalent of how african american women describe specific african american men that fit the mold they want as one of the good ones the phrase being used in african american films and mags