youre right so let me put it this way while its possible ive never known someone to use racial slurs in frustration when they dont also use them in common language even if that is maybe only online i would guess if mr rodgers stepped on a nail his reaction would be darn or ow or maybe even fuck but god damned nigger nail isnt going to be his reaction to be fair im not specifically thinking of actual jokes which can have context but rather those moments of painshockangerwhatever where people unexpectedly let their guard down in that moment no one starts dropping words they never say otherwise just like i wouldnt expect a longshoreman to step on a nail and drop the first oh fiddlesticks of his life