no in no context does sex equal gender they may be congruous often but the fact that separate words exist for both is kinda indicative that they are not the same thing but beyond that by insisting that you should be able to call someone whatever you like without social approbation youre basically rejecting the concept of polite society i know that you prefer not to be called nigger but nigger is really just another word for black person therefore how you feel about being called a nigger is invalid and i am right