as an admin for a tf server community in scenario ill silence the person after they drop that a few times not because im offended but rather because theyre an annoying kid lol but as for the original topicthe only time i take insults seriously whether or be faggot or any other shame word is when it comes from someone i care about whos seriously using it as a means of insult if its from some random person i dont know or dont particularly like then meh