you dont get to just say the debate is over well i mean you can say it but that doesnt make it true i actually agree that its a slur but im gon na keep using it the same way i use any other slur to self refer if i feel like it telling trans people to not reclaim trap is fucked up imo self referring using words like trap fag dyke queer and even tranny are ways of not letting the things people call you be hurtful being condescending to trans people and telling them that its bad for them to stand up to the people attacking them is shitty i doubt thats your intent but youre coming off as condescending at best