there are plenty of communities that exist with vastly different values from typical american values conservative jewish communities have lived in the us in their own communities with their own social customs for generations this conversation is also somewhat amusing to me considering the history of america anglosaxon immigrants certainly didnt conform they pushed the natives french and spanish out of the country i also think theres a big difference between pushing for something to be socially unacceptable and for it to be illegal plenty of people thought the word nigger shouldnt have been pushed out of acceptability