at a local meetup he so what you do you me i work as a programmer he oh wow youre so lucky me umok goes on explaining why its so special that i am woman and a programmer and not just one of those girls who study computer sciences and go straight into management me he have you ever thought about why youre not like everybody else made me angry because i have been told all my life that i am not like everybody else also that was the first time i ever met that guy