gt i cant see how anyone could get mad at someone saying the word shemale when they go to work and let it fly then you arent thinking of it thoroughly is it any different when a domme calls a man a degrading name in femdom porn my girlfriend has asked me to calll her a great many things during sex that i would never call her in real life if you cant differentiate between calling somebody a tranny in a fantasy porn setting and calling them a tranny as a slur in real life then youre going to have a lot of other problems crop up