im mixed coming from sweden so i can tell u something about swedes and that word everyone here knows that the word is offensive but a lot of swedes use it casually anyways ive had many friends use that word as any other curse word right infront of me its so bad that we even have an old standing debate about whether or not a chocalate ball should be called a nigger ball even heard my own mom call it a nigger ball casually even though her own son is mixed so as a swede i can tell you that while he probably isnt a racist he definitely uses that word often in his everyday life and he definitely knows how bad and how much offense people take hearing that word its just something a lot of white swedish people do