just gon na say the use of faggot perpetuates the view of being gay is considered a bad thing the same goes for saying thats gay refering to anything that you dont like or bad its use of these words in everyday speech that is subconsciously perpetuating us as second hand citizens it took me a few years after i came out to realize how huge of an impact simple speech has in our life young gay one one day youll evolve to the next level