gtto you and me faggot is meaningless to my friend who just got beaten up for being gay its a pretty terrible word and if i dont know anyone in that position the worst use of it thats affected me or anyone i know is straight friends who used it because its offensiveness was funny on its own never bothered me even while it was directed at me im not sure why my life should be dictated by the suffering of people who i dont know well the reality is it isnt and it wont be any time soon other than downvotes on reddit