someone who looks like a male in a dress is a lot more likely to be called a freak and a tranny than they are to be gendered as female and since when is it easier for trans women to get hormones its easier to get them illegally but historically at least trans women have been subjected to much harsher gatekeeping edit thats not to say that trans men cant and dont get stuck in gatekeeping hell but being held to absurd standards of masculinity isnt something that gets applied to trans men the way absurd standards of femininity have for trans women