to coons daddies are these magical figures that give everyone but them lots of free stuff and take care of important things their moms sure as fuck arent doing it so everyone elses good fortune must be due to this daddy figure i like the way you handled it but i disagree with the idea of playing up the i had no help angle thats the bullshit nigger metric for deciding whether or not youre real theres no shame in having parents who were devoted enough to give you a good life and having that support doesnt make any of your achievements less noteworthy that kind of thinking is for jealous dindus looking for excuses for their own failings and to tear down anyone whos done well