ok look im a feminist and all and i wan na agree with you because outside of the conversation on porn i agree id be disgusted by someone calling a trans person a tranny or shemale but at the same time as someone who identifies as a genderqueer femboy i know plenty of trans women who in the context of sex use words like ladyboy and trap and even shemale to describe themselves so is this really the right place to language police would anyone who is bigoted against trans people even be here