theres a guy at my job that has no problem casually gay bashing uses the word faggot in a derogatory manor and is constantly trying to get the gay workers to convert back to straight he says no i cant be homophobic my brother is gay he lets me say faggot all the time and it doesnt bother him he got pretty upset when i told him that he was in fact extremely homophobic and having a gay brother doesnt give him a free pass on it