a lot of people forget black people can be just as racist towards other black people with different amounts of color or different looks my mother and uncle are mixed and kinda look like black people with white skin and light eyeshair they were too white for the black people but too black for the white people got a lot of shit for it from both sides ofcourse luckily despite me being mixed i havent had many bad experiences at all i have no issue in the slightest with jokingly using the word nigger i love offensive humor but it is true its really hard for others to understand what it feels like when someones genuinely racist to you ive felt it to a less extreme extent and its messed up