ok sice you still dont seem to get it chap if the word nigger meant hello in a country i was visiting or on a message baord with plenty of people from that country using it and i overheard someone say iti wouldnt confront them and inform them that its wrong for them to say nigger because people on some island in the middle of nowhere find it offensive im not the thought police so if its offensive by you great dont use it by you but in other places it may not be