it has become this mortal sin these days to say something that others dont want to hear i have taught my kids that in a situation where they are being insulted by others the only person who controls that situation is them they decide whether they value the word of the other person and if they dont they are but words as an example i dont value your opinion in the slightest your attempt to insult my parenting means squat it is however that you are defending the concept of people should mince their words to avoid offending others by attempting to offend others and you are worse because you intended to slur me to hurt my feelings where those who used tranny in the show meant nothing by it