my housemate what are you guys doing can i watch me studying housemate wellcan i watch you study i just want to watch me female and my girlfriend were in the living room of the house i share with several people it was just before finals of her senior year in college and she was incredibly stressed i was trying to help her sort through her work and get everything finished but of course even that is a sexy context when we are both women i made my girlfriend feel unsafe made me feel sad and angry that somebody could so casually make my own living room an unsafe space for my loved ones