gt for the same reason i have no problem being referred to as a tranny so long as there is no ill intent if there is its really only the ill will i have a problem with this bit really rings with me ive been called all kinds of things related to sexuality ethnicity disabilities and so on and the intent behind them really matters my sister often makes jokes about me being a cripple they really dont matter if someone on the street were to call me a cripple that would piss me off