i bet they still come up in your head for a split second when youre looking for an insult i know they do in mine my point is using the words doesnt make you a bad person most of us have used words we learned to mean something negative as kids and it becomes something ingrained in our minds calling someone who grew up in the s a racist because theyve said the word nigger is unfair saying those people are mostly racists is probably the most offensive thing in this thread of replies