you didnt offend at all not me anyway and your culture sounds like an awesome progressive one i totally agree with what you said i honestly wish we could just give shemale to drag queens it makes more sense for them anyway i kinda get why some other trans people dont think others should use shemale as it originated specifically about trans women in the porn industry i have no idea what makes us think tranny is just about us though like someone else here said tranny describes not only trans women but crossdressers drag queens etc