but isnt it sonehow similar to nigger let me explain nigger in switzerland where i am from was usued for either vile derogatory comments or to describe a black man from africa so the dilemma one faces when using nigger there will always be this racistdiscriminating assosiation using faces the same problematic but on a lower levellower form of discrimination being aware of this helps gays to feel more accepted and normal in society afterall gays are normal people and not just a lable