when i was my grandma and her husband sent me an american flag birthday card with an american flag watch inside it the card read happy birthday nigger lover earlier that year i had got up and left a largeish family dinner in a public restaurant because they were making racist remarks and slurs about the staff i loudly told them both off and left later that night my parents told me i was disrespectful and had no tact they were very ashamed of me edit forgot the word told above