sorry but what youve said is not ok youre not merely insulting a single person youre using a stereotype as an insult and describing a whole group of people in derogatory terms in order to put someone down when you say who cares what some fat dyke etc thinks you are imply that those things are inherently bad and that she is an awful person because of those qualities it is frankly disgusting its no better than the endless uses of gay as an insult and your ignorance is nearly giving me a nosebleed would it be ok to dismiss you by saying who cares what some lumbering oaf of a sweaty tranny in gogo boots and a tartan mini skirt with oclock shadow and a bad wig thinks or are dehumanizing stereotypes only ok to use against people we dont like