i think the downvotes are just residual downvotes because you are in part agreeing with what darthendr said shes getting downvoted because what she said is the equivalent of saying typing this is making me very uncomfortable but im trying to make a point as a nigger myself i kinda take offense at you taking offense for being called a nigger insert any derogatory term there no matter how much women try to reclaim slut it will always have the hugely negative connotation attached to it also it is wrong to try to force your values on someone else what darthendr said was entirely rude and condescending to the op ps i had a slutty year many years ago and it was fun ive since found that monogamy suits me better but it was a wild time