this is like the folks that argue that not all black folks are ni and therefore its not offensive do you want to be like those folks faggot is a derogatory term for queer folk and the only reason people use it as a catchall insult is because to many being called queer is seen as one of the worst insults even if you dont think that way you cant erase that history if you wan na call yourself a fag to try and reclaim it thats one thing but to try and continue using it as a slur term is inappropriate