hm words mean what people want them to mean if you are talking to someone then what you intend is just as important as what the person actually understands so both parties should give and take its not very nice to call something stupid gay because gay was a neutral term for homosexual then people made it bad but its not the worst thing in the worlddefinitions change but faggot started out as an insult anyway so i dont see how it matters if you continue to use it as an insult