ok but isnt that very much outside of the public zeitgeist compared to something like racism i would never use racist slurs carelessly because its so easy to offend someone but i have female friends who identify as feminists and use itdont care who else uses it if thats the case havent we at least on a small scattered kind of way reached a point where the word can be reclaimed and the sexism forgotten obviously it shouldnt be used liberally but saying it with my friends isnt the same as saying nigger around my friends