oh i agree and commenting negatively on my singleparenthood might as well be showing me her tranny bits as far as killing any attraction i might have had but it doesnt make the bed warmer or the off weekends any easier but i fought for time for him and if i had to give that up in my life to give him his dad thats the price ill pay without hesitation and would again being a family man living alone sucks but dad leaving is a wound that never heals and i couldnt do that i know what its like and i wont do it