i dont think its so much not caring as it is busy working and putting food on the table and making sure their teenage daughter isnt sexting edit comma their daughter is not the one at the bar and drinking at the corner bar and questioning their sexuality and going home with some random tranny then regretting it later and getting a divorce because their wife wont accept who they are as a person then losing their job not paying alimony and ending up living in a van down by the river people care