tell him to quit being such a faggot and find a man that he can fall in love with the language was for shock so downvote me if you like but my point is that i hate it that elder queers always pityparty about how hard it was for them to come out the fact is the stress is the worst part but being able to for the first time and for the rest of your life be the person who you were born to be makes up for it tenfold try to talk to him