ok you all are really super helpful and encouraging i wish all of reddit could be as awesome as this subforum it really makes me feel good and like the world can be a better place i promise i wont let him get away with it again what can i do when he puts something on that we both enjoy but uses nigger a lot its usually media produced by young black people for instance modern war negro i love games and i think that the commentary can sometimes be smart but uses nigger and negative stereotypes waaaaay too much for my taste or the infamous chris rock sketch or some key and peele sketches or music