yeah ive dated a sweet thoughtful girl only to find out her family had instilled a deep disgust of black people in her both sets of grandparents and both parents used the word nigger as a slur for uncleanlazyundesirable it was sickening i tried to not act shocked and make her feel i had lost respect for her i sort of had but i knew it was more her family than her but i did make it known i disagreed with those values her family kind of poked fun at me for that but as i gained her trust and respect over the next year her views started to soften and shed go quiet when her father said something racist we broke up for other reasons but i saw her last year and she is officially racially tolerant and moved out of home her family was lovely other than that by the way