from what i understand that doesnt make it better and its actually part of the problem for the people from where youre from the word might just mean a soft pansyass of a man but is this really so far removed from the stereotype of gays being well soft pansyass men to some the fact that youre not picturing a gay dude when you say faggot isnt innocent because of the source of the words meaning not my position but im sensitive to it