apparently im an asshole i just have no problem with people saying faggot if it isnt used in a manner intended to upset people if my friend calls me a fag as a joke making fun of the people who use fag as an actual insult im not going to get pissed off about it i also wouldnt get pissed off at a place like chan that uses fag as a general term for people in the community eg oldfag newfag drawfag etc