man they cant tell you the location because your wife will probably end up there man haha no im the one wholl need to go there man yeah thats true two rich older white men during a fundraiser for a domestic violence shelter for women and children we told them the location of the shelter could not be released for safety reasons after they asked made us two girls one of whom is a survivor of abuse feel hopeless powerless and frustrated we didnt know how to tell them that jokes about domestic violence are inappropriate especially at a fundraiser for a shelter