i am a bi man who didnt come to recognize and accept being bi until i was in my forties and married with kids i still havent sorted out what traits i am attracted to with other guys i only know that i am physically and sexually attracted to other men but not i the classic romantic ways yet i know that i would need to have know and trust someone before i could consider being physicalsexual with them it also doesnt help matters that i have no experience and i am in a monogamous relationship with my wonderful wife and i deeply love her