my boyfriend now ex tells me a lot feminism has made you so unhappy i think your problem is that you are too fixated on these grand issues of humanity these huge human problems and you need to get over it and get on with your every day life i dont get why you care so much i just want you to be happy doesnt make me angry because i know he means well and is just ignorant but very sad because it was in those moments that i realized he would never understand and i couldnt be with him