the aids epidemic in sf caused many gay males to become monogamous i lived in sf during the gay bathhouse era it was a phuckfest and then it wasnt kaposis sarcomaurlssarcoma was rampant as the first sign of infection some of my best friends have been gay men im currently best friends with a year old gay man who is the best professor of languages ive ever known he even speak nahuatl the aztec language fyi im straight