no pressure pushing me either way the choice to stay home and be a mom is just one i want also because i want to have the freedom to expand a small business ive been dreaming of i just know that i hear a lot of extreme feminists talk negatively about women staying home to be domesticated thats all for the record i agree with you tony and men can most definitely be feminist i know plenty of women who know nothing at all about gender equality and equal pay for women for some reason they look at it as a negative thing