for me its not so much that i want to say nigger as i resent being told im not allowed to say it honestly it probably wouldnt even be thought of if people didnt make such a big deal about it how many other racial slurs are out there that people just give no shits about or dont know because they fell out of use i would be willing to bet that if people chose not to be offended by the word it would fall out of use entirely pretty fast pointing out how to offend yourself to assholes is a sure fire way to get offended and i cant see this as anything other than that