ill be toning down the vulgarity of our banter for sure just to be clear both of us have used gay and faggot in our insults which is why this information came as such a surprise to me so hes either been covering up his true feelings and using it to keep our shit talk in the status quo which i would feel awful for making him do or he might not see the word as offensively as many others do regardless ill be removing it from my vernacular