while i understand the reasoning behind it i personally find the term queer offensive queer implies something strange which i do not feel i am i however am not a fan of labels i dont introduce myself as gay or whatever i am a man who happens to have a husband that is all i find the need of every non genderspecific person to assign themselves a label obnoxious and pedantic people calling themselves queer are just as obnoxious as black people tossing around the term nigger in my opinion