the fact you said to them they were bsing their support you might want to apologise for some of them may be closeted or genuinely passionate about these things ive said edgy memes about gay people as a bi person but i still care a lot about their rights i also think that we should be more open and accepting about peoples preferences in bdsm and such as long as its consensual that however does not mean youre an asshole but i wouldnt say they are so nah