friend how cool is chicago me i love it you should come visit me this summer friend if i come will you be my ghetto pass me i then tried very every avenue possible to explain why this was a microaggression mind you he was very familiar with the term as we were in a graduate program that focused very heavily on race racism and microaggressions he told me i was over reacting and that eminem had said it so it was okay he then said hes said it to other black ppl and they were okay with it