agree early in transition i met an eccentric gay man who said honey you a drag queen thats all right that wasnt bothersome at all because i have no problem with drag but shortly after that i went to a rave in oakland as is common i exchanged beaded bracelets with people someone gave me one that said lt tranny lt and i didnt notice it until the next morning for days just thinking about it would make me cry knowing that i danced around for hours advertising myself and our entire class as a derogatory slur literally on my sleeve