the thing is they seem to be more into the anal play and actual sex act from his description personally i can enjoy gay or tranny porn when it is somebody getting ass reamed however the thing that grosses me out is two guys kissing particularly if they have mustaches this guy is saying that he doesnt want to be or appear to be gay but kissing is a very intimate act more intimate than a hand job or blow job in my mind i would almost think him giving a hand job to somebody would be easier for him to accept than him kissing a guy at least for me it would be just another idea and i hope that whatever direction you go you both go willingly and enjoy the hell out of yourselves with no judgments or negative repercussions