do what makes you fun take the insults and the uses of faggot and other words as jokes i dont know how old they are but if theyre under theyre probably using it to sound cooler dont give in to them theyre only joking my friends always made gay jokes but i was just able to tune them out as jokes have you seen a therapist before or a psychiatrist theyre both helpful resources for mental health challenges i hope i can help you a little i try to be there for anyone on reddit whos struggling