and by allowing women to express their opinions without fear of having their opinions mansplained over they can rise up as for the use of a negatively gendered term the harm from slurs doesnt just come from the atomized word but from the social context it exists in it has to confirm a generally recognized perception of a group in a negative way for it to be harmful this is why nigger is harmful and cracker isnt and why cunt and slut are harmful when manwhore and player are not in summary i suggest learning some social theory so you arent just viewing things in the atomized liberal perspective