yes incredibly difficult most of the time i have no idea if they are queer so im just super nicepoliteprotective and i think they just assume im friendly cuz i present femme i would try to come out to them myself but im from a small community and thats risky also im way more awkward around girlslike i know the script for guys i know what the media says is sexy and i know what has worked in the past for girls i just have no idea