if anybody gives you shit because you are or once were attracted to men then these are not the kind of people you want in your life its a real shame if somebody you think cares about you would call you a faggot after learning you have been attracted to men if you do bring it up with your girlfriend dont say it as if its some big dark shameful secret because its not you could tell her you were attracted to men some time ago and that now youre attracted to women but more importantly that she is the woman youre attracted to