sorry what not quite sure which part youre referring to hope you know i really am on your side on this what the girl did wasnt okay while its scary not knowing how others would react to our situation its also scary for the other party not knowing about the situation theyre not disclosing so while i agree and sympathize your feelings id merely suggest that she put that she is transgender up there maybe hey just letting you know that not everyone on here is judgmental and there are less reasons to be afraid than you might think you may have a lot more luck with dating by disclosing the fact that you are transgender than surprising someone that way she doesnt feel attacked and it seems like only a friendly suggestion rather than rarrrr fuckin tranny liar heh