damn man one of my best friends is white and if he turned into a nazi id be pretty fucked up in the head over it thanks for sharing because its a pretty fascinating scenario ultimately i think you can reckon with your principles and find a place to still accept his parents on the other side the second you feel compromised by the association you dont owe them shit as for him its likely he will reform his ways maybe never a productive nonracist but to the degree he might want to actually apologize and fuck him forever and ever always as big a man as you were to actually meet him the first time hes that low to apologize and then call you a nigger to your face that is a degree of ingrained terminal bitchassness that can never be absolved