i also very much feel like this and the fact that i know somea lotthe community lesbians and gay men dont really think that i amwe are valid makes it much more difficult to make myself go i dont feel like i allowed to be there or celebrate my sexuality and im worried that if i do go ill just get shit on the whole time fun fact this is also the reason im terrified of trying to date women especially not having done that before yay noninclusion by the inclusive