ive always spoken up when this happens i dont pick a fight or retaliate in kind i simply make it clear that im not okay with talk like that and explain why its inappropriate a few weeks ago i was with a few guys and one of them out of the blue goes oh i learned what hofoot is the other day i had never heard of such a thing but rolled my eyes and played along yeah its when a girl or a tranny or whatever is wearing those like huge strappy shoes and one of them is loose and it kind of flops around and they walk kind of like this demonstrates a velociraptor with ms i responded with oh wow thats so great ive been needing another disparaging name for women lately and the subject was dropped