I remember one problematic situation in the 8th grade, where I was a class teacher. One of my students started talking in class that she found a friend on the social network Facebook. The student bragged about the team in front of everyone and allegedly corresponded with her internet boyfriend for two months. I heard that she sent him various intimate photos and videos of her private life. She told him her secrets, which later began to spread around the class. The student finally found out that the boy she was dating wasn't real and someone had tricked her. It was clear that it was someone from the class, as her classmates knew things she didn't tell anyone but her imaginary boyfriend.
The student confided in me her whole story from the beginning and asked me for help because she was very ashamed of the things she wrote to him and the photos she sent him. She was afraid that it would get out of her class and the whole school would know. His father also came to the school to complain, and he also asked me for help in finding the culprit.
Violation of classroom/school rules, Bullying
During class, I asked the students if they knew anything about it and if they did, to confess otherwise there would be serious consequences. One of the students came to tell me after the lesson who was behind the whole team. Allegedly, the culprit in question bragged about the team many times and showed their joint administrations to the boys in the class and they had a lot of fun together. So I called the student in question and confronted him with this serious problem, which could have had much worse consequences than it did in the end. The bully is an 8th grader. He has an average benefit. He is an extrovert, has many friends and is popular in the group. However, he likes to make fun of some of his classmates and gossip behind their backs. To solve this problem, which can also be called cyberbullying, I had to inform the student's parents, who had absolutely no idea about it. I explained to them that their son had committed a crime and was impersonating someone else. They were very disappointed and ordered their son to delete his fake profile and gave him a proper punishment.
Disrespectful communication, Interview
also had to inform the parents of the student who was so badly deceived, and fortunately the father of the bullied did not want to deal with the situation any further, he was only happy that we found the culprit and deleted all their shared messages on Facebook. The parents of both students finally agreed together that it would not be resolved in a more serious way than by agreement between the two parties involved in the conflict. The bullied student was at least educated about the dangers of social networks.
13 rokov, žiak druhého stupňa 8.trieda
Žiak rád športuje, hrá futbal.
Vulgární vyjadřování,Zesměšňování,Šikana
Vysokoškolské vzdelanie, titul Mgr., aprobácia dejepis, občianska náuka
Spomínam si na jednu problémovú situáciu v 8.A, kde som bola triednou učiteľkou. Jedna moja žiačka začala v triede rozprávať, že si našla priateľa na sociálnej sieti Facebook. Žiačka sa s tým pred všetkými chválila a so svojím internetovým priateľom si písala údajne dva mesiace. Dopočula som sa, že mu posielala rôzne intímne fotky a videá zo svojho súkromia. Zdeľovala mu svoje tajomstvá, ktoré sa neskôr začali šíriť po triede. Žiačka napokon zistila, že chlapec, s ktorým si vypisovala nebol reálny a niekto ju oklamal. Bolo jasné, že to bol niekto z triedy, keďže jej spolužiaci vedeli veci, ktoré nepovedala nikomu inému len svojemu imaginárnemu frajerovi.
Žiačka sa mi zverila s celým jej príbehom od začiatku a žiadala ma o pomoc, pretože sa veľmi hanbila za veci, ktoré mu písala a fotky, ktoré mu posielala. Bála sa, že sa to dostane aj mimo jej triedu a bude to vedieť celá škola. Taktiež sa do školy prišiel sťažovať aj jej otec, ktorý ma tiež žiadal o pomoc s nájdením vinníka.
Počas triednickej hodiny som sa teda spýtala žiakov či o tom niečo nevedia a ak áno aby sa priznali inak z toho budú vážne následky. Jeden zo žiakov mi prišiel po hodine povedať, kto za tým celým stojí. Údajne sa s tým dotyčný vinník veľakrát chválil a ukazoval ich spoločné správy chlapcom v triede a spolu sa na tom pekne zabávali. Tak som si teda dotyčného žiaka zavolala a konfrontovala ho s týmto vážnym problémom, ktorý mohol mať oveľa horšie následky ako nakoniec mal. Šikanátor je žiak 8.triedy. Má priemerný prospech. Je extrovert, má veľa kamarátov a v kolektíve je obľúbený. Rád však zosmiešňuje niektorých svojich spolužiakov a ohovára ich za chrbtom. Na vyriešenie tohoto problému, ktorý sa dá nazvať aj kyberšikanou, som musela informovať rodičov žiaka, ktorí absolútne o ničom netušili. Vysvetlila som im, že sa ich syn dopustil trestného činu a vydával sa za niekoho iného. Boli veľmi sklamaní a svojmu synovi prikázali vymazať svoj falošný profil a udelili mu náležitý trest.
Musela som taktiež informovať rodičov žiačky, ktorá bola takto nepekne podvedená a našťastie otec šikanovanej nechcel danú situáciu ďalej riešiť, bol len rád, že sme našli vinníka a zmazali všetky ich spoločné správy na Facebooku. Rodičia obidvoch žiakov sa nakoniec spoločne dohodli, že sa to nebude riešiť vážnejším spôsobom ako dohovorom obidvom zúčastneným konfliktu. Šikanovaná žiačka bola aspoň poučená o nebezpečenstvách sociálnych sietí.