After the student got into the second year of high school with great problems, we started working in a certain company. I was in charge of them. We took turns every two days. In advance, of course, all students were even familiarized several times with the school rules and especially with the rules of the company in which we had the opportunity to practice. However, for some it was in vain. There was a problem right after the first day of practice. Honestly, I wasn't even surprised that the next problem would concern this particular student, but I hoped that there would be no inconvenience. After work, I let the students go to the shops to buy breakfast for the next day. They came back quite quickly and scattered around my rooms. Of course I checked to make sure everyone got back to me, but I didn't feel the need to search their shopping or visit them several times a night. I knew that everyone was in their places, or there was no movement, so I went to sleep. In the morning, I was approaching the company's main entrance, I noticed that the student was following me. However, I didn't turn around, I needed to deal with something with a colleague, so I continued to the gate. The doorman guarded the 'flashing system' near her. The system started to beep at any time and it was possible to check at any time whether the given worker had consumed any alcohol. After a short time, I realized that the student did not follow me and somehow got stuck near the gate. I was beginning to suspect. The lady shouted at me to call me. She described to me how she gave the young man a blow job. I don't remember exactly how much they measured, but I know it must have been more than one beer. The student tried to save the situation, so he made up something about the remnants of Listerine, which is the mouthwash. After ten minutes he repeated the test again and of course it was confirmed again. I explained to him that under no circumstances could he enter the establishment. I also couldn't leave him alone in the room if I gave him his own study.
The student belonged to a group with a generally negative reputation. It was a few years ago, but I remember that they were 'flashing' together and spreading fake excuses among themselves, even though he was supposed to be the author. He was regularly reprimanded by his homeroom teachers, and failing grades for behavior were also a matter of course. When their truancy was being dealt with among colleagues already in the first year, I remember that there was already some alcohol being dealt with there. The guy came from a certain city, from a divorced marriage. It seems to me that my mother had him at sixteen and after many years she had a child with another man. Of course, I don't want to denigrate the situation in any way, but it was simply obvious that the then sixteen-year-old was not given as much attention as might have been required.
Violation of classroom/school rules
In the school rules and the company rules that I mentioned, it said that they have a zero limit. That is, they cannot inflate even a tenth. If this happens, the following dismissal from the company occurs and, of course, problems at school. I took the student back to the dormitory, but before I dealt with his studies, of course, I had to deal with the situation somehow. I let my company director know what was going on and also the school director of course. He called his mother about how he had committed a serious offense, but I didn't deal with it further. I mean calling parents. I left that to the director, as I primarily had to deal with the situation in the company. In fact, we were supposed to stay there for one more day, so I arranged for him to come with us, that I couldn't leave him alone. I didn't want to tell him that he would probably get kicked out of school, so I had to act like nothing happened, yesterday was yesterday and today is today. I remember how he was still quiet, but not silent, that he was sorry, it didn't occur to me at all. More like arrogance, that he didn't even try to somehow justify his behavior, but that's how the poor guy tried for the next day. So he did like never before.
Consequences, Transfer of student, Interview
Unfortunately, after arriving at school, of course we had to deal with it. After coming home from practice, the boys went to play fifa and the student drank two two-liter bottles of beer until the morning. So he came to school in such a sleepless state and the principal immediately called him and therefore also his mother, and it was resolved very quickly by firing him not only from the company but also from the school. I could have sent him home after the first day at my own expense, but by coincidence, a similar tragedy happened in the same village a year ago. It's just that the fourth grader in high school had some problem with the teacher and threw himself under the train. So that nothing bad happens that I could blame myself for my whole life. So I took a cautious step without unnecessary reproaches and threats, we took him straight home with us the next day. I proposed a solution and the director agreed with me. However, I confess that I have no idea how the boy continued after being forcefully expelled from school. All I remember is that his mom was moaning that she couldn't handle him anymore. It's hard to say whether it should have turned out differently. We tried to guide the boy to a more correct path, but what a problem, it was initiated by him. It wasn't so much up to me, the school, as it was up to the parents.
16 , druhý ročník SŠ
Fotbal , počítačové hry
Lhaní,Záškoláctví,Podvody,Alkohol
Stredoškoslké- DPŠ
Po tom, ako sa žiak dostal s veľkými problémami do druhého ročníka strednej školy, sme začali praxovať v podniku. Ja som ich mal na starosti. Striedali sme sa každé dva dni. Vopred boli samozrejme všetci žiaci oboznámení dokonca niekoľko krát so školským poriadkom a hlavne s pravidlami podniku, v ktorom sme mali možnosť praxovať. Pre niekoho to však bolo márne. Už hneď po prvom odpraxovanom dni bol problém. Úprimne som sa ani nečudoval, že sa najbližší problém bude týkať tohto konkrétneho žiaka, ale dúfal som, že ku žiadnej nepríjemnosti nepríde. Žiakov som pustil po práci do obchodov na nákup raňajok na další deň. Prišli naspäť pomerne rýchlo a roztrúsili sa mi po izbách. Samozrejme, že som si skontroloval, či sa mi vrátili všetci, no necítil som potrebu im prehľadávať nákup alebo ich niekoľko krát v noci navštevovať. Vedel som, že všetci sú na svojich miestach, nebol žiadny ruch, tak som šiel spať. Ráno som sa blížil do podniku k hlavnému vchodu, všimol som si, že žiak ide za mnou. Ja som sa však neotáčal, potreboval som niečo riešiť s kolegom, tak som pokračoval ku bráne. Pri nej strážila 'blinkačkový systém' pani vrátnička. Systém hoci kedy začal pípať a hocikedy sa mohlo kontrolovať, či daný pracovník nepožil nejaký alkohol. Po krátkom čase som si uvedomil, že za mnou žiak nepokračoval a nejak sa zasekol pri bráne. Už som začínal tušiť. Pani na mňa zakričala, aby ma privolala. Opisovala mi, ako dala mladému fúkať. Nepamätám si koľko presne namerali, no viem, že to muselo byť viac než jedno pivo. Žiak sa snažil zachrániť situáciu a tak splietal niečo o zbytkoch z Listerinu, čo je tá ústna voda. Po desiatich minútach znova opakoval test a pochopiteľne sa to znovu potvrdilo. Vysvetlil som mu, že za žiadnych okolností nemôže vstúpiť do podniku. Na izbe som ho samotného taktiež nemohol nechať, ak som mu dal samoštúdium.
Žiak patril do celkovo negatívne známeho kolektívu. Bolo to síce pred pár rokmi, ale pamätám si, že spolu 'blicovali' a šírili si medzi sebou falšované ospravedlnenky, aj keď údajne mal byť autorom práve on. Pravidelne dostával pokarhania triednym učiteľom, a znížené známky zo správania boli taktiež ako keby už samozrejmosťou. Keď sa medzi kolegami riešilo ich záškoláctvo už v prvom ročníku, pamätám si, že už vtedy sa tam riešil nejaký alkohol. Chalan pochádzal z rozvedeného manželstva. Zdá sa mi, že ho mama mala v šestnástich a po dlhých rokoch mala dieťa s druhým mužom. Tým samozrejme nechcem nijako začierňovať situáciu, ale jednoducho bolo vidno, že sa vtedy šestnásťročnému mladíkovi toľko pozornosti nedávalo, ako by sa možno vyžadovalo.
V školskom poriadku a pravidlách podniku, ktoré som spomínal, stálo, že majú nulovú hranicu. Respektíve nemôžu nafúkať ani desatinu. Ak sa tak stane, nastáva nasledovný vyhadzov z podniku a samozrejme problémy v škole. Žiaka som zaviedol späť na ubytovňu, no predtým, než som s ním riešil samoštúdium, som samozrejme situáciu nejako riešiť musel. Svojmu riaditeľovi podniku som dal vedieť, čo je vo veci a taktiež aj riaditeľovi školy samozrejme. Ten volal jeho mame, akým spôsobom sa dopustil závažného priestupku, no ďalej som sa tým nezaoberal. To som nechal na pána riaditeľa, nakoľko som musel primárne riešiť situáciu v podniku. V skutočnosti sme tam mali ešte jeden deň zostať, tak som ešte vybavil, aby šiel s nami, že ho nemôžem nechať samého. Nechcel som mu povedať, že pravdepodobne bude vyrazený zo školy, tak som to musel zahrať, že sa ako keby nič nestalo, včera bolo včera a dnes je dnes. Pamätám si, ako bol stále ticho, nie však zamĺknuto, že by ho to mrzelo, to mi tak vôbec nedošlo. Skôr arogancia, že sa ani nesnažil nejak svoje správanie ospravedlniť, ale tak sa snažil chudák na ten ďalší deň. Tak robil ako nikdy predtým.
Bohužiaľ, teda po príchode do školy, sme to samozrejme museli riešiť. Po príchode z praxe si vraj chalani šli zahrať fifu a žiak si ulieval z dvoch dvojlitrových fľašiek piva do rána. Takže v takomto stave bez spánku prišiel do školy a hneď si ho riaditeľ zavolal a teda aj jeho mamu a veľmi rýchlo sa to vyriešilo vyhadzovom nie len z podniku, ale rovno aj zo školy. Ja som ho mohol poslať po tom prvom dni na vlastné náklady domov, ale zhodou okolností sa z tej istej dediny vtedy pred rokom stala taká tragédia. Jednoducho, že štvrták na strednej mal nejaký problém s učiteľkou a hodil sa pod vlak. Tak aby sa náhodou nič zlé nestalo, čo by som si mohol vyčítať celý život. Tak som učinil opatrný krok bez zbytočných výčitiek a vyhrážok, sme ho odviezli na ten ďalší deň s nami rovno domov. Ja som riešenie navrhoval a riaditeľ so mnou súhlasil. Priznám sa však, že vôbec netuším ako chlapec pokračoval po ráznom vylúčení zo školy. Pamätám si už len, že jeho mama nariekala ako to s ním už nezvláda. Ťažko povedať, či to malo dopadnúť inak. Snažili sme sa chlapca naviesť na správnejšiu cestu, no čo problém, ten bol iniciovaný ním. Už to ani nebolo tak na mne, škole ako na rodičoch.