"1) "dude, you know how you need that kidney?  well, you're looking at being a dead man's lover
1) when a problem is encured, this phrase is used to tell another person that the originator's needs are simply not possible/available and probably won't be in the near future
""1) "dude, you know how you need that kidney?  well, you're looking at being a dead man's lover" What is the definition of "dead man's lover"?