"boyfriend: "the ex told my new chick i was visiting the rub and tug" ,  boyfriend's friend:  "dude, serious man code violation
when an ex-boyfriend/husband learns that new boyfriend has employed prostitutes in the past, then frantically texts and/or calls the ex to notify her of said past activities
""boyfriend: "the ex told my new chick i was visiting the rub and tug" ,  boyfriend's friend:  "dude, serious man code violation" What is the definition of "man code violation"?