imma fix a series of buffer food courses for tomorrow night's dinner party, and hoping like hell that people will focus on the [food] instead of pushing each other's buttons
a meal prepared in such a way that its presentation and/or appearance will generate its own conversation, thereby eliminating awkward communication among incompatible guests
"imma fix a series of buffer food courses for tomorrow night's dinner party, and hoping like hell that people will focus on the [food] instead of pushing each other's buttons" What is the definition of "buffer food"?