since re-defining their relationship years ago, mary had taken on the role of the dominant wife and tom and become the submissive husband
a husband who defers decision making to his wife, also one who submits to his wife's whims, wishes, orders, commands and requests
"since re-defining their relationship years ago, mary had taken on the role of the dominant wife and tom and become the submissive husband" What is the definition of "submissive husband"?