pity pats
"guy 1: "so how'd your date with courtney go?"  guy 2: "she gave me the pity pats when i dropped her off"  guy 1: "ouch""
when a girl doesn't like you the way you like her, and she gives you a hug accompanied with sympathetic pats on the back or shoulder
""guy 1: "so how'd your date with courtney go?"  guy 2: "she gave me the pity pats when i dropped her off"  guy 1: "ouch""" What is the definition of "pity pats"?