my partners don't coddle my bpd, they don't know how to console me and that has worked in favor of sending my symptoms mostly into remission just on the fact that for as long as I've been with them, I've known venting and asking for reassurance from them does nothing for me. I try not to hold it against them, I know it's for the best that they don't indulge my drama, but I've been spiraling particularly bad for the last few days and the fact that my b&amp;w thinking is condemning them as "unsupportive" despite knowing their support would do nothing for me is just making it worse. I feel like they're tired of me and my emotional needs. I feel annoying and like a burden and that they're ghosting me. I don't know what the truth is and I'm afraid to ask. how do you guys usually deal with this sort of thing?