I know that being touchy and physically affectionate is reserved mostly for lovers, but I have this urge to be very physical with almost everyone that I'm close to among my friends. I know I obviously can't make out with my friends as it would be highly inappropriate, but I don't really see such things as strictly romantic gestures, more like expressing my affection. I hold back and watch myself, but for some reason I crave to be physically close to everyone. I made two other friends who also suffer from BPD at a therapy program and we all went overboard with how touchy we were among ourselves and from their behavior it seemed that they love and seek physical affection just as much as I do. So I wonder if that's a common thing among people with BPD?