Im a sensitive person, and yesterday was the first time I experienced the guy I like "split".
Untop of him turning on me he has been distant and cold the last month, so im not so sure it was splitting, but I can't really think of anything else that I might have done wrong. It was totally unprovoked.

I was in a very abusive relationship a couple years back, and hearing things like "shut the fuck up" and "youre so fucking annoying" really has me down. I thought I could handle it better but it really got me down. (even though i know he probably didnt mean it).

So, how do I as a non-bpd and sensitive person understand and distinguish between someone splitting and someone just being mean/disrespectful?

(i would just like to add and say that this guy loves me, and has said it many times).
Thank you.