I(27f) have been with my partner(36m) for 7 months and most of that has been amazing. The last month or so I have been hit with a lot of stressful things that have taken a toll on my mental health. I'm in therapy and am on medications and have been for many years. 

He is now drained from taking care of me through all of this. I don't feel like he really likes me right now. Every attempt I make to get close to him again gets us further apart. I just don't know what to do anymore. I try to get close to him and he's annoyed and then I feel needy. I try to give him space and then he feels like he's fucking up and it stresses him out. He asks me if I want to come over and I try to make it clear that I'll be ok staying at my house alone if he needs space. He gets upset that I'm not just making a decision.

I feel like such a burden on him. He told me this is no longer a partnership and that he has become my caretaker. I feel awful about this. It's not fair to him. I want to make it all better. But I'm very anxious and I'm flailing and doing everything wrong. I just want to feel loved again by him. I want him to feel the love I have for him and for him to know that I so appreciate everything he has done for me. He's gone cold towards me and that scares me. I'm terrified of making this even worse. I feel defeated. Does anyone have advice about how to ease this situation? Do I just need to give him space? I'm at a loss.

Tldr: my mental health has taken a toll on my relationship and I'm lost with figuring out how to repair it.