This happens to me a lot and makes me spiral. I've also seen it happen just recently in Selena's new documentary. Which triggered me. It triggered her too, she had to leave the room. If you're interested when it was at about 42:00 mins in. People will basically insult you but do it under the guise of it not being about you. It makes me feel psychotic and hurts so badly. You can't really know it was about you, so to question them they can basically lie and make you feel crazy. When it's obvious they're talking shit about you, in-front of you to other people. This keeps happening to me. I have decided I'm going to kill myself because I can't deal with it. Seriously makes me feel so broken.