I'm in what I guess is a situationship. We literally started talking a week ago, met on Tinder. Have hung out twice, hooked up both times. The sex has been off the wall. We've been talking throughout the day every day but it feels like it's drying up a bit. He's said things like he'll teach me to roll w3ed or that we should go to the casino together which made me wonder if this is more than a fling. Idk why but today I started being super nervous. Stomach in knots all day waiting for his message. On the edge of tears. I've actually cried 3x and I'm not even sure why I'm crying. Haven't been able to eat. Can't focus on anything.

I told myself no catching feelings for anyone but now I can't get him out of my head. I feel so frustrated with myself. I'd told myself if we're still chilling in a month, to have the talk, ask what he's looking for. But realizing I'm interested in him, and the anxiety of the knowledge that he probably wants casual is all I can think about. The not knowing. I'm going crazy.

So I guess 2 questions.

When is the right time to bring up what he's looking for? And how can stop obsessing over him? I'm so sick of getting caught up over people so easily.