My parents never taught me how to cook or clean the house or do laundry (mostly because they never did ANY of these things but once or twice a year) and I feel like I can’t handle life. My dad’s response to my inability to do anything is:

 “Well, you never asked how.”

So a child is supposed to approach you with questions on how to pay hospital bills and get a credit card and make down payments? It was my responsibility to ASK you to teach me? Are you kidding? 
Perfect storm for my feelings of inadequacy to be all my fault.