I don't understand why. I never have public meltdowns, I keep all my episodes private, I haven't even been drunk and annoying in 2 years since I stopped drinking in the company of others.  

When it's people in our friend groups birthday everyone  writes huge facebook posts with photos and tributes for the birthday person. When you log into Facebook it says whose birthday it is that day so there's no way they didn't know it was mine, they all just chose to ignore it and I'm really confused and hurt 🙃