So I've been seeing my SO for the past 8 months. Things have always been rather rocky, but have gotten better in the past few months as I've started with DBT therapy. 
        
He went away for about two weeks recently, and I thought I was handling it alright. Normally we spend a few days a week together, and talk on the phone or text on the days we aren't together. 
        
 I felt like he was ignoring me while he was away, as he didn't reach out to me and the only time I heard from him was when I initiated contact.  I had asked him if he could make an effort to talk to me during the day &amp; that I'm the type of person that likes to here from my SO everyday.  He made an effort to do this, and things were fine. I told him I really appreciated it.
        
Then we had a misunderstanding regarding a text I sent. He thought I was accusing him of something, but I was just asking him a question. and he said "well how should I know that when you are normally always accusing me??"  He was so angry, he yelled at me for a good 15 minutes. He said that he can't take the stress of worrying constantly if he's upsetting me etc. 
        
He said can't take the constant contact and insecurity. That he was only gone for two weeks and I should be able to handle that. 
        
I couldn't say anything back. I just cried until it was over. I feel terrible. I thought that we were working through our issues, and I was really trying my best not to push his boundaries. But I managed to anyway. 
        
 I feel like no matter what I do something like this ends up happening. I can't stand that I made him feel that way, I've been trying really hard to manage myself and it's just not working. 
        
We talked after he calmed down, and both acknowledged that we weren't communicating clearly. I told him that I just need to know his boundaries, otherwise I will push through them since I tend to be very clingy &amp; insecure. He even sent me a good morning text to make sure I was ok, since I was pretty upset last night.
        
**Should I end it now before this happens again? Or could there be hope seeing as we are able to talk through things?**
        
**I feel so guilty for pushing him to that, how do I deal with these feelings?** 