i met this person a month ago and almost immediately got attached to him. we met at a con and talked for a couple minutes. when we parted, i couldn’t stop thinking about him. i managed to keep my composure until we left but i messaged him after i got home because he had given me his socials. we talked for a bit and decided to hang out the next day. i found that i really enjoyed being around him and i got along with him easier than anyone i had met in a long while. i learned a lot about him, including that he has a partner he loves very much. we continued to hang out often and talked constantly. he treats me so kindly and respectfully that it’s jarring. i care about him so much and in such a short time he’s become on of my closest friends.

he almost immediately became my fp and it’s awful. i’m stupidly obsessed with him and i don’t want to be. he’s all i think about and my mood almost wholely depends on him. i feel like i’m annoying him but he assures me i’m not.

i feel like an awful person for liking him so much. he has a partner so i obviously don’t make any romantic advances, but the fact that i think about him in that way makes me sick to my stomach. i tried distracting myself and talking to him less, but i was left thinking about him more obsessively and feeling empty. i don’t know what to do. i hate feeling like this, i just want to have a healthy friendship with him.