So this isn't about me. This is about my boyfriend, obviously i wont be as good at saying this as he will but I want to try and suggest ways to make his quality of life increase beyond the basics. 

My boyfriend is 22 and says he doesn't feel anything and hasn't since he was a kid. A little background on his mental state, hes been diagnosed with OCD, Autism, GED, Social Anxiety, SAD, and Serve Depression. Hes been on a lot of medication and has been going to therapy for years, he tells me that therapy doesn't really help but I just don't know if its him or the therapy. Hes also transmasc ( transgender, male ), and while its been a few years now it was a struggle as a kid with his parents. His mother is good to him- his dad isn't but he has definitely gotten better. His parents also got divorced while he was a child, and hes told me this was a very critical point in his life. He also has a history of verbal abuse by family members, and some traumatic experiences as a child that for privacy reasons I don't want to discuss details. No medications seem to help him, and he isn't able to get up and do important things because he has executive dysfunction. His therapist has said that due to all his issues he might even be able to apply for disability. On multiple occasions hes told me about his lack of emotion, how numb he feels. How he wants to feel things again and he knows that his feelings and emotions arent pure because theyre not even similar to those he had a child. I've described being numb to him like "feeling emotions through a frosted screen door" and he agreed that it feels like that.

I'm concerned for him in the future as he is very suicidal and has physical issues along with his mental issues. He can't make himself get up for things no one forces him to do, and I'm just at a loss for what I can do for him, or as i should say, suggest i can do for him. I'm not going to force him to get help because thats not going to help him, he will just do it because I made him do it and not because he needs the help. He wont absorb it. I'm aware that there is a multitude of different types of therapies out there but I'm not sure what would be best for him, I'm also not sure what I can do/say to make him feel more comfortable telling medical professionals about his traumatic experiences. I would really appreciate help with this. And just a side note, I'm also mentally ill so I do understand the medical processes and a few therapeutic ones.