i need answers full of integrity, i am very confused right now.

okay so in the past weeks and now i have been thinking about a bad thing i did, when i was 12 i put my finger on my sister's private area. it was a touch for less than a second and it was over the clothes..

i say this with integrity, i never did that again and i never touched anyone without their permission before or after that.

i asked my mom. she said it's kid curiosity. i asked reddit. more than half said it's ok, though there were some bad reactions.

what's bothering me is the existence of this man: josh duggar. he got cancelled from this society and is considered a molester.

he touched 5 girls, including 5 and 7 year olds, when he was 14-15. sounds like he did touching maybe more than 10 times.

yeah he touched a kid 10 years younger than him and he did it again even after he went to police

but i can't get off the idea that i am similar to him and i am a criminal too 

also in here my mom said i am different from him but she's my mom maybe she is reassuring me

and (selfish concern) if i become famous for singing as it's my dream i will get cancelled if what i did is at the same 'level' to what duggar did

is what i did very different from what duggar did? will i get cancelled like him?