
I recently discovered that my wife could have bpd. When I stumbled upon this community and read more about the disorder it's like all of my life and the experiences got validated. I felt so validated what I was experiencing was really true. Unfortunately I realized this too late. Now I have a child with my wife and it has become an order of magnitude difficult to deal with just every day life situations. I am in such deep regret that I didn't come across bpd much before. I keep feeling that I would have taken a completely different decision (quit this abusive marriage). Now that the kid is in this mix, I am feeling more and more trapped. I feel like I can't quit now for the sake of kid. I am adult and I feel so much knowing what I know. How would my kid grow up without a semblance of normalcy if I quit? 

What do you guys advise? 

Since we are not in US, the custody battle will be a whole different biased game altogether! I feel like I am stuck without ability to influence any of this