I work in HR/recruiting and was laid off in April from my dream job that I loved. I was super lucky to get hired two weeks later by a huge hospital/healthcare system on the nurse recruiting team. I was so excited, and felt so incredibly thankful because so many people I knew had been laid off and couldn’t find work. Unfortunately, I realized quickly that the work was not something I enjoy and that the organization while huge and very well respected is an absolute shit show. My team has been through 3 managers since I started in May, I was given zero training or training schedule (thankfully had an amazing co worker that showed me the ropes), our benefits (compared to what I was used to) are terrible, and the recruitment style is just completely archaic and backwards and leaves both candidates and hiring leaders unhappy with the recruiters. The dissatisfaction from both sides leads to me feeling like a punching bag. It’s also a very very very old school organization to the point that I feel like a total fish out of water because I came from a progressive tech company. I have also been feeling borderline bullied by a woman that I work with... I have cried more since May about work related stress than I ever have in my life. I know this all sounds ungrateful given the circumstances and state of the world right now. About three weeks ago I started putting in applications at tech companies and ended up getting an offer for a manager level role at a really cool company for 20k more than what I make now plus amazing benefits. Outside of the comp, the work itself is exactly what I want to be doing and what I feel I do best. I interviewed with 6 people from the org and each of them was so incredibly kind and welcoming, I just got the best feeling from the whole experience. I accepted the offer and put in my notice the next day. I gave a full month of notice and am not the type to “check out” so I’m still putting in the work, but I get the sinking suspicion that my team is feeling betrayed and angry about the fact that I’m leaving. My manager hasn’t communicated with me at all since last Friday when I told her I was putting my notice in. My other co workers are either being super distant or they’re being snappy towards me. I know I’m quitting and likely never have to speak to them or see them again but I have so much anxiety thinking about them all hating me or viewing me as a flake/quitter.