 I am in a discord server where this 13 year old person says they have DID and keep chatting in different personalities. They also change their system/personality every 4 minutes.

What is weird is that she calls/summons these personalities on command, whenever she wants to, like when you change clothes and take them off whenever you like. I want to ask if this is even possible to be able to be able to change on command.

They change their personalities every 2 minutes and seem to remember what the other personality said. She changes by herself. I don't know how to explain it but when she is in another personality she changes her username to that personality then after 5 minutes she changes her username back to another personality. This happens very often and within short spans of time.

Later, I asked if they have a doctors diagnosis and if we can trust a 13 year old diagnosing themselves and everyone attacked me and said I was being classist and ablelist.

Also she/they was written in the person's bio when I addressed the person as 'she'. Everyone got upset saying that it's not 'She' right now, it is 'They'. Basically her pronouns change every time her system/personalities changes.

There are like 2 thousand people in the server how must I remember all of this?

Can a 13 year old diagnose herself with DID? Can they call different personalities on command? I am so confused.

There were people in my server saying she is a troll and faking it and to kick her out but I don't want to be rash.