Now let me preface this by saying I understand what splitting is and how it impacts my life but I was wondering if The following would be considered splitting as well.

Long story short I have a friend who I'm going to be seeing next month because of her health complications. I.. tend to question myself ALOT. I was conflicted on whether or not that was really going to see her because I actually have an attraction for her or because I care about her.

My therapist said that I do care about her and the reason why I care about her is because I'm attracted to her and that's okay basically she combined my two conflictions into one. 

I had not considered the possibility of what my therapist said and it made sense afterwards. 

So my question here is, before I spoke to my therapist was my confliction considered splitting.