I’m sorry if this has been asked before. But I’m not what you’d call traditionally pretty nor do I act feminine. I come across as blunt and as a bro. So guys treat me like I’m one. 
Like at my now workplace, I always find myself envious of my colleague who gets our friends’ attention. They pull her legs, pay more attention to her and treat her like a girl while I’m just “there”. That makes me want these guys more even though I don’t really like them. It’s about being wanted. I never felt wanted, ever in my life. 
I’ve only ever had flings with guys from tinder and it’s gone about as well as you’d think. 
I don’t know I guess I’m just saying it would be nice to be wanted? 
One guy said that he doesn’t see me that way. He said that I was a strong woman who is sensitive and he couldn’t understand that but ultimately he just saw me as a bro. (Something j get a lot)