i have a very close friend who has expressed to me that they are at a high risk of attempting and they have been adamant that they dont want help or to get better and that its “just not realistic/they cant change/they dont want anything” even though they say they want to be happy they are convinced theres no happiness here and that things will just keep getting worse 

as the days pass i get more and more nervous that im going to wake up to a note and without them. i have a few paragraphs already written just in case i need to send it to their parents on facebook

their parents know about me but ive never spoken to them directly and im scared that theyre going to hate me for telling on them but im afraid that if they dont get checked into a ward or be under surveillance that they wont be safe

i would really like some advice on whether or not i should send their parents the messages or when i should or whatever else

im worried about them and i dont know where else to go or who to talk to