Hello I started talking with a gril friend online a few days ago. We are from different countries. We got along really well since the first day, and I honestly think I am falling in love with her, I haven’t told her this though. But… yesterday she had a break down, it was the first time I saw her like this, she sent me videos crying and she self harmed and also wrote some notes… to farewell from her relatives and sent them to me, they were brlurred so I couldn’t read them. I didn’t knon how to react to this, she is the first person I know with BPD that is this close to me. I told her she meant a lot to me and that It hurt me to see her like this, but now I don’t think it was the right reaction. I am worried about her, she had this breakdown because of family problems. I don’t know what to do. She stopped talking to me for that day (Yesterday) today when she woke up I talked to her as usual but she was distant. She said she doesn’t want to talk anymore, but I told her I wont leave her and that I am here for her, she just said ‘ok’. I have ASD and Depression, I guess we are not the best combination, but I don’t want to loose her. Any advice is welcomed.