I have some questions that would be really helpful if answered. 


Is it appropiate to talk about feelings in a friendship? What about a relationship? I want to be a better person and create new, non-toxic friendships so this is important. I’m not saying full on trauma dumping, but just day to day stuff - like “oh I’m passionate about ecology”, “I hate my teacher”, “I love this dog”. Is it appropiate to share emotion like that? 


My ex best friend told me he didn’t give a f about our friendship anymore because he “was expecting me to be like that”, talking about how I was depressed on a terrible drug comedown. It really affected me and man I want to be better. I just want to know if it’s socially acceptable to talk about stuff.


Second question. Is it normal to want to age regress? Or actually do it? Does any BPD person consciously age regress? Buying old pc games you used to have as a child, plushies, etc. and keeping them close for when you need it? I kind lf want to allow myself to do it but I don’t want to be crazy.



Third question. Did drugs help you? I saw people do assisted ketamine treatments. I couldn’t have the courage for that but weed, shrooms, LSD, has anyone tried them and got helped by them? 



4th question. Has anyone cut ties with abusive families? I am not in a position to do it rn but if I do, how do I make sure to always have someone to trust in my life, that isn’t my family? How do I stay friends with friends for a long time and not self isolate? 


Thank you if you take your time answering.