Monster, psycho, sociopaths, crazy,  dangerous, etc

Truth is, I think it is a form of projection from those who are suffering the loss of someone unlike anyone they'll ever know. You guys set the gold standard for what it's like to feel love. 

I've done a ton of research and education about Cluster B in general following a breakup with my BPD ex and I can say I don't hate her at all. I still love her with the burning passion of a thousand suns. If anything I'm more sympathetic than I was prior to the breakup in coming to understand what it was really like for her.

You've been through stuff us on the other side can't fathom in most ways. 

You're not monsters, you make amazing friends. I'm sorry for the stigma you receive. 

I lost the best friend I ever had. Whether or not she never existed is a technicality. To me she did and even without being a part of my life she still lives and breathes and feels. I often wonder if based on what I have read,  she is hurting to a magnitude greater than my own ability to conceptualize.

I don't even know why I wrote this,  I guess to just say, not everyone thinks a person with a personality disorder should be burned at the stake. I honestly find myself wishing I had chose a different career path and could get into therapy as a profession because being so close to someone with BPD has made me nothing but a living empath and I just want to help everyone.