I just want her to get better and I'm trying my best to help her so it's hard to do that when she refuses to get any help.

She has severe trauma from an abusive childhood and still lives with the person who caused it (claims its stopped now but from what I've heard it just went down from physical to emotional.) 

Her last boyfriend sexually assaulted her and normally she is fine and we can do anything a normal couple can but then sometimes for weeks she doesn't even want to hug because it triggers an intense anxiety. I don't care so much that I don't get to do physical things with her sometimes because her happiness and comfort is way more important to me but it upsets me that she won't get help.

She also sometimes will dissociate for months at a time even and it's hard because I can tell she is not really there but I'm never gonna abandon her because that's her biggest fear and she means to much to me.

She even has an eating disorder which affects her happiness a lot and she says she feels so much better when she loses weight but I've managed to help her keep on track and stay at a healthy weight.
When she was with her ex last year and we were just friends it got to the point where she could hardly walk sometimes. She is now a healthy weight and always wears baggy hoodies because she thinks she looks bad, I hadn't seen her wear any normal clothes since she was extremely anorexic so it honestly surprised me how good she looked when I was with her alone. I tell her constantly that she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and I truly mean it and it seems to help but she still feels bad and I can tell.


She refuses therapy and just says "No, I won't" any time I ask her. She refuses to even consider it. I've tried everything I can think of, from sending her articles on how it can help, to making a PowerPoint where I researched and put in specific ways it will help her.

She is convinced that once she gets the right medication it's just gonna be make all her problems go away and It just hurts me so much seeing her try to do this alone.

Anyone know how I can convince her?