A close friend of many years abruptly ended our friendship stating they felt I was not giving them enough attention, which is not accurate or true. My friend is clearly upset that I have friends beyond our friendship (which they admitted bothered them) as they struggle with making and keeping new friends due to the severity of their opinions and mood swings. After some reading, it appears this behaviour can be referred to as splitting. Has anyone has this happen with a friend who has BPD? If so, did they come back and ask to be friends again? If so, how long did it take? If anyone with BPD wants to speak to this and if they have been in a similar situation- how it ended, would like to hear your story as well. Really having difficulty wrapping my head around the thought process and what happened here as I was completely oblivious there was an issue.