So, I'm new to this subreddit and reddit in general. I couldn't get help in my FB group, so I'm hoping you guys can help. Me and the wife have BPD, she has quiet bpd. She considers me her FP but my FP is a mutual female friend I've known over a decade. My wife is struggling with the relationship i share with my fp. so im just curious if anyone has been in a similar situation. How did you overcome it?