28F. I’ve been seriously seeing someone for 6 months and have not disclosed. I take my medicine, I go to therapy once a week, I have went through a full DBT program, and I rarely have issues with BPD behavior. I still have some struggles with BPD thoughts from time to time, but 15 years of therapy has allowed me to get a grip on it. 

I’m not interested in sharing this information because I feel it hasn’t been an issue, and the issues is being addressed. I don’t feel comfortable sharing that I have a Cluster B PD. He knows I have struggled with severe anxiety, depression, and addiction so he has an idea that I have a history of serious mental illness. 

Has anyone else felt like this?