Am I expecting too much of people when I reach out to them for help?

I have really bad anxiety and sometimes I feel completely alone when I’m struggling. I think I might be asking for more than is necessary when I tell people how I feel. 

Let me explain. Basically I’ve been having a really rough week and I’m very stressed. I do have friends and family that I know care about me. But I feel like every time I reach out to my friends, I will be like ‘I’m really struggling’ and I get some variation of ‘it just be like that sometimes’ or ‘aw that sucks. Sorry:/ ‘. I have another friend I’m close with but there’s a bit of a sexual component to our friendship. I told him I was anxious that he’d get bored of me or get bored of getting nudes from me and he goes ‘lmao why would that boring’. And then when I expanded on that, he just left me on read. So I prodded him a bit and he’s like ‘didn’t I just explain?’. 

It just feels like no one really cares about me. Why is it so hard for someone to say, ‘hey I’m here for you’ or ‘it’ll be okay’ or some variation. I’ll put what I’m doing on hold for my friends when they feel down but the moment I need help, it’s like they just throw their hands up and go what do you want me to say to that? 

And also with the one friend, it feels extra awful because it feels like he’s just using me for sex when that happens. I’m not saying he has to have feelings or be in love with me, but fuck can’t you just say ‘hey I know you’re anxious but that’s not gonna happen/I’m here for you’ or something like that. 

I burst into tears when I got home last night be because I was so stressed and I just realized no matter who I reached out to, no one really was gonna talk to me about it or give two shits. 

Do I expect too much of people? I feel so lonely and isolated. And when I posted this in an other sub, the only response was basically 'get a therapist'. Like. I've had several therapists and worked through trauma and other anxiety issues. I'm not asking about therapy here. 


Tl;dr I feel like my friends don’t really care about me when I reach out for help. Am I expecting too much of them?

EDIT Me and my friends are all in our mid twenties. I’m currently single; my two best friends are married/in a long term relationship. Other guy I’ve been friends with for almost a year.