She’s ghosting me after 2 year relationship since we fought last night. I assume texting her and asking her to be reasonable and talk won’t work since she hates talking and gets mad at me when I attempt communication. She’s discarding me again and making me feel worthless. After 2 freaking years. What’s the best tactic to make her want me again? Ignoring her also and we both just ignore each other? Last time she discarded me it took 1 month to hear from her again. I know she loves me she just can’t get past her defense mechanisms and trauma. If I want her back how do I get her back the fastest?