My boyfriend (20M) and I (19F) have been going through a really rough patch in our relationship. We’ve been together for about a year and a half, once we hit the year mark things started to get rocky. And about two months ago we actually “took a break” and he moved back in with his parents for a month, not knowing what he wanted or if he was happy. That was really hard for me. Because in my head all I do is try, I make dinner, work 7-6, we have sex pretty much everyday. But I have this problem where theres no good reason, but I just ALWAYS think he’s going to leave so I cry. A lot. I just ruin relationships by mourning the loss of it before it ends therefore causing it to end. He’s been patient but it feels like he’s pulling away, before he moved out he wouldn’t come to bed with me anymore and play video games til 3-4 in the morning and it would result in him being too tired to go to work so he would just stay home and play video games. i was growing frustrated and sad feeling he didn’t love me anymore and anytime id ask he’s just say “i wouldn’t be here if i didn’t want to be” so i started to trust that he was a grown man and would communicate with me if there was an issue but things were off… he wasn’t going to work but constantly complaining about not having money. he just wasn’t happy. so i reached out to his parents and just mentioned that maybe they should all talk… he seemed stressed and if he couldn’t speak to me maybe his parents had better resources. he went over there and when he came back he told me he was moving back home. He packed up all his stuff and left. He did come back so should that be a comforting sign? I don’t know, since he left once it feels like any argument now could result in him packing up his stuff, it was so easy… I understand I’m too sensitive and I’m working on it. I suppose i’m just asking from a partners perspective what could your partner with bpd do to be better to you?