Maybe it’s because I’m horrible with relationships of any kind, but I’ve really been feeling annoyed or judgemental about a close relative’s troubles with her bf...almost to the point where I feel like it’s pathetic that she’s going through this hard time with him and feels like her life is over when I can’t even talk or even dream of being in a relationship. It makes me feel horrible because I love her and I’m basically her older sister so I’m always there to help her through these things but i don’t know i just can’t get this feeling out of me. What’s worse is that she self diagnoses herself with things like bdd and though I know she may have it and it must be difficult to go through, I always have a pang of annoyance or something because I feel like it’s not a clinical diagnosis but more of a way to label herself with something that is tangible rather than just dealing with it herself....I don’t know I feel like the worst sister ever but I’d like to hear some thoughts?