Sooo I told my boyfriend I’ve been feeling lonely and that it feels as if he no longer has an interest in me.. he says I’m pushing him away by saying negative things.. the conversation continued and he shut me down every time I tried to talk.. I asked him to not be disrespectful and he proceeded to hang up and text me that my version of disrespect is not what it actually is.. and then said that if I think he’s such a bad boyfriend and so disrespectful then I can leave him... advice? 
Well now he just said when I’m ready to accept him and love him then I can talk to him...
Now whattttt