I should start off by saying, I'm not looking for a diagnosis on here. I just heard it's not uncommon for psychologists to withhold a BPD diagnosis. The only reason I suspect it is what it is, is because she wrote me a letter for taking time off college. 
She listed that I has issues with "unstable sense of self, intense changeable emotionality, self harm/ suicidal ideations and gestures, longstanding problems with unstable and intense interpersonal relationships and impulsive behaviours" there were some things I asked her to take out because I didn't think it was relevant for the college to know because it didn't relate to how it effects my daily functioning. I'm very aware that this is the criteria for a diagnosis like BPD, however I could be wrong and I'm still pursuing an answer with my psychologist. 

So I asked my psychologist whether she thought I just had an anxiety and depression or she has suspected a different diagnosis and she completely side stepped the question. She started talking about DBT (which I've been sent to) and how each category in that can be used to describe different emotions or whatever. I was quite annoyed that she didn't just flat out tell me. Heck id have preferred her saying she doesn't know if she doesn't. Has anyone else dealt with that before pursuing answers and eventually reaching a diagnosis of BPD?

I am aware that other people experiencing a psychologist/psychiatrist withholding that info doesn't mean I definitely have BPD either. I just need to get this question out so I can stop fixating on it. 
Sorry if this isn't allowed, I'll remove if it isn't. If I've said or done anything wrong, please let me know and I'll change it.