I am 20f dating 23m for almost 2 years now. We are best friends and I want to be with him forever and I know he feels the same way. Theres just one thing, i feel bad almost all the time. For the most part he understands, but i feel like sometimes he thinks im just making it up or being dramatic. Especially when I cant describe it as any more than "i feel bad". He says that doesnt make any sense. 
And if i tell him to go easy on me bc i dont feel well he will be gentle for a few mins but then will still ask me why i didnt finish my chores or something in a dissappointed tone and I get really upset. Sometimes i try to explain myself and he just stays silent or says ok and thats all so im not sure if he understands or not. When i said i need him to talk more he says im trying or what do u want me to say. And if i just be quiet and give him space to talk he will just stop thinking about it. This makes me more upset than u can imagine bc this is the only thing he does that really hurts my feelings. He goes out of his way for me in so many other ways except for this! I dont know what to do but I feel like when I start to feel depressed or sad or upset with him then im pretty much all by myself in a different world and hes on his own, but sometimes i need him to talk to me or something. Am I just annoying him by being upset all the time so he doesnt feel sorry for me?