I got diagnosed with BPD traits in January this year and my parents (who I live with) just don’t understand why I behave a certain way and why my view points are so negative. My parents grew up in Latin America and experienced war and other trauma that I, growing up in California, have never experienced or can even imagine what that was like. I am in therapy and working on it but they don’t believe that they need to go themselves. They continue to treat me like the black sheep and project their issues onto me and then question me on why I havent change. I don’t like to blame my parents for me having BPD but they do have a part in it. It just feels like im doing all my the work for nothing. They’re set in their ways and I just don’t know what to do.