So I'm starting to fall for someone and keep panicking. Have been dating over a month, things going great, starting to get attached. Met on tinder, no exclusive talk yet but I don't see how he has time for anyone else. Texts me every day, hang out at least 2-3 times a week etc.

So today he is distant-ish (busy) and i noticed he has 3 new fb friends - all girls. He has a very small facebook and until this week the entire time i knew him i was the only new friend. Couple this with him suddenly being out for a few hours, and i have this whole story in his head of him meeting someone new right now as we speak on tinder and being over me.

I dont blow up, I shut down when I feel like this. But I dont want to spoil something that so far has been great.. I also dont want to ignore my gut feeling, which is usually right.

Please help how do I just chill out