Do you ever feel like asking people if they have ever felt that you've manipulated them because that's a common symptom of BPD but, you worry that by asking them it may be interpreted that you are asking in order to manipulate the person who you are asking..... Which then indicates you "are" able to manipulate people "knowingly" and therefore you are a manipulative person even though you strive very hard to see everything from all possible angles/points of view.... But even this justification feels like I'm manipulating people's perception/understanding of this post.....

But then again, people will make up their own minds won't they? Won't they? Surely they will? Won't they????