So I'm a bit of a weird case. I was born with an extra chromosome, which means that I've never produced enough hormones to be able to get horny. I've never initiated sex in my life, I've never pursued another person for sex, and I don't think about sex when I'm alone. It's just not in me. Despite all that, I've had a fairly active sex life. It's something that all of my partners have wanted, so I just kind of do it for them. While it's totally satisfying to know that I made my partner feel good, it ultimately feels a bit like a chore that I do for others.

Everything that I've read or heard from others with BPD, makes sex seem so central to the typical BPD narrative that I often wonder if I'm alone.