I’m extreme in the sense that I like us knowing every little thing that’s going on in each other’s lives.

I like to be the primary person my partner runs to with situations and get extremely jealous when they don’t. It’s ruined my relationships before bc of the pressure and fights I put on my partner when I find out they haven’t told me something. 

Lately my boyfriend has been saying he needs to spend some time at his apartment and that he’s been spending too much time at mine. He has things at home he’s neglecting bc he’s rarely home. Ok fine no issue. 

Except he let slip when he reminded me he was going home last night that his roommates where actually the ones saying they want him to spend some time with them too. 

This really upset and bothered me. That someone alluded to the fact that he was spending too much time with me at my place and he didn’t tell me. All I said was “oh I didn’t know they had said something to you” and he kind of shrugged off with no explanation for why he didn’t tell me. I’m fighting the urge to tell him that he needs to tell me EVERYTHING including when someone says something, even indirectly, about our relationship. I feel like a crazy person and super insecure. 

Is anyone else like this? Where they want to know every little detail?