I have worked on my BPD and it is time to give back. I learned a lot from reddit, Quora, many articles on internet, YouTube. I also did a lot of self contemplation, journaling everyday, writing out my emotions, thinking of the root of my problems. 

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Here is something I want to talk about today. I see a lot of people asking questions like how do I fix FP? How do I stop obsessing? How do I stop jealousy? How do I stop this? 

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There is no way to "fix the symptoms individually". You cannot fix your jealousy issue or envy issue or abandonment issue or emotional ups and downs or low self esteem individually. You have to fix the whole system. You have to dig deep into your soul and find out the real real real core of who you exactly are and work on that. 

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With time and work, your issues will fix themselves up on their own. For eg, my envy jealousy issues fixed when I finally developed a self identity, what makes me different from other women, what is my value, what is my skill, what is my natural capability and what is my spiritual significance. 

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I hope i am making sense.