My name means something that I am not, and usually awkwardly makes people assume that I am. (My parents just liked the name and didn't think about the meaning.) I have been uncomfortable with it since childhood but now it's gotten to the point of hating having to say my name when meeting new people, not correcting people who mistakenly call me by any other name, and avoiding signing my name at the end of emails whenever possible. Shall I try to change it or at least ask everyone to call me something else? Or this increased anger/anxiety just means that I am unwell? (Any suggestions of names popular or at least pronounceable around the world, not strongly defining the bearer as belonging to some category, and without a bad meaning in any language, are very welcome. I am female but male names are also welcome in case I ever have a kid :) )