i have autism and special needs im going need a big surgery soon  its for a soft cleft palate  ok  i also need  pharyngeal flap surgery too it a very long surgery most likely over 5 hour surgery  it would be done at childens hospital  my surgeon  is pediatric  and special needs trained  but does surgery's on all ages too  , on the day of sugary im  going get the  liquid versed and anesthesia mask in or room  which i hope smells like cherry's , than iv  i may wear pajamas and a diaper  im dry diaper is just in case   on the surgery day,  and bring tablet and  stuffed animal  the surgery requires  5 days in hospital  ,  i know it may be scary i might have ivs  oxygen ng tubes maybe more  any kind advice helps .........?