So i got dumped a week ago. My boyfriend was my FP for sure… I’m trying to cope so I went and met my friend at some local bars. I had honestly forgotten he was on my Instagram and snap, he hardly uses them. I had deactivated my fb to keep space. The day after I did that he asked me if I blocked him and I simply replied I deactivated it… circling back he ended up watching my snap story and I had worn a very sexy white dress which shown a lot of cleavage. I feel so hot in it. Which is a bonus since I usually feel like I look like a dump truck. Some men looked at me but I didn’t entertain anything… shortly after I got home I got a passive aggressive text which led into him calling me a crack whore and a hooker for showing off my cleavage. I’m a well endowed woman. Everything shows my rack. He insulted me, then promptly said goodnight. I was instantly triggered and “in the blue” and we had some exchanges back and forth… he mid way changed the conversation to there being a firefly in his room. I fucking love fire flies…. He stated he unfollowed me and said what I did was wrong, “didn’t let the paint dry”. Overall just lots of mean things and I felt the immediate need to deeply apologize for wearing the dress out… he said the breakup wasn’t easy for him either even though he ended things so I simply asked why. He gave me the same reason as when he dumped me…. If he truly felt like we weren’t a good fit and such why did he feel the need to call me out on my clothes? Or regardless keep tabs on me? 

I’m just really confused. And conflicted. And as a side note I had posted a similar photo of myself in the dress. And his mother liked it on Instagram so it couldn’t have BEEN THAT BAD.