Like ... I'm not particularly attractive and while I do have Hella self esteem issues I know I'm not super ugly


I'm not the brightest but I'm also not so dumb people wonder how I'm still alive


I don't have any talents or skills that make me stand out, but I'm okay at a few different things that people who don't know how to do it at all compliment me


Nothing really calls out to me as something for me that makes me unique or special or even my own person. I know it's the BPD that causes some of the identity issues but it sucks to live with because I don't know who I am or what to do, and the BPD coupled with the fact that my upbringing was contradictory causes even more issues.

Does anyone else feel this way ? Or maybe have some advice ?