Been having a few rough days lately and feel like I’m about to lose my shit. I do all the chores and make every meal for my kids every day, and I my wife stays at home while I go to work and she manages our bills (I’m terrible at keeping track of them). 

She tells me constantly that I don’t do anything when I know different and will say things constantly to me indicating she’s leaving or that she wants me to leave. 

I try to take over both the boys when I get home from work and I even come home on my lunch to take care of their dinner, but it seems like I don’t do enough when it comes to her. 

My youngest (4 months) wants her to comfort him at night instead of me, and I feel like she resents me for it. I will take him off her hands, but he just cries until he’s with her again. 

Am I doing something wrong? I know I’m not the best at being empathetic but i feel like I’m set up for failure everyday. Plus keeping my own emotions together when she talks about divorce and wanting me to leave the room all the time.

Guess I’m not really sure where I’m going with this, just feel lost cause I have nobody to talk to other than my therapist or people at work. And nobody wants to hear all this while at work..