My husband ie always says “dont you get tired of being depressed?” or “dont you get tired of crying?” “arent you thirsty?” “just stop” mid anxiety, making it worse and worse and its like a never ending cycle. I need hugs and love, and for it to be consistent, not for 20 sec then he gets annoyed it hasnt stopped already, making my head spin even more

YES i am dying for it to stop, i need help, i dont get any and this being said certainly only makes it worse. I dont know what to tell him? Ive said what i need but he doesnt do it, he cant see it. Does he think i like feeling like this? That i enjoy crying..? I dont understand, how can i make him stop saying that, i am so sad i feel its dying