i got a job offer which is good! and the pay is better! and it lets me work from home unlike my current!

i am terrified of:
- bad work culture or more stressful workload! i would be the only woman in this tech startup team
- having less vacation days! its unlimited pto but will they pressure me??
- bad work life balance! they have an oncall rotation and im scared itll be bad ive never done oncall before

please if you have gone through these things just tell me it’ll be fine and worth risking or that it turned out okay for you or whatever thank you