I have recently entered a relationship with a man  who is Diagnosed with BPD. I dont exactly know what to ask for. But... in a relationship are there things that you would wish your partner did or things that they do that helps. I do not know all the terms yet but he recently has a sort of a breakdown I assume he was truly overwhelmed and just hearing his vocal tone was heartbreaking. He was aware of what was going on but couldn't stop it. he managed to relax but I just am seeking advice for the future. I have a couple friends with BPD and they are offering information but I feel this will give me more input as it has a wider reach. This relationship is extremely new in general and he is pushing and trying his best. From day one he was trying. so I will too.  Anything will help. Even if you think it is mundane or stupid I will see value in it. If anyone feels uncomfortable putting it in the comment section you can PM me. Thank ever so much.




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