He confessed a few hours ago over the phone. We’ve been together almost 9 months. I’ve envisioned my life with him, starting a family. The person who has treated me like a queen until today. 

I’m absolutely devastated.

He has been in an inpatient facility since late November. Started having flirtatious interactions with a girl there. Turned into hand holding, cuddling, etc.

He confessed today. Told me he has stopped speaking to her altogether but has doubts about our relationship now. He says this place has made him rethink his entire life, personality, us, etc.

He initially went to this inpatient in hopes of building a life and family with me, but clearly his priorities have changed since being there.


I’m absolutely devastated. Emotional cheating is just as bad as sexual cheating, if not worse.