Not to be weirdly self-helpy, but does anyone else sort of have a set of goals for what they want to change about themselves? BPD obviously involves some useful or passionate traits, as well as the bad ones. When I look at my life, I can see a couple of problematic situations that I seriously wish had gone differently, and that were BPD-influenced. Situations around romantic relationships as well as I guess better self-care and developing confidence and "mastery" to use a very DBT term. Do you guys also think about this stuff? Like goals of what you actually want to change