'' You're crazy, go get help NOW ! , I can't believe you're allowed to be online get help psycho, You should not act like this it's mentally unstable talk to a therapist and don't ask for help online ''

 Sounds familiar, isn't it ? Well, let me tell you a secret ...

**No, not everyone can / is able to get help Brandon.**

There are millions of people like us, who cannot get help, who aren't supported by anyone, who are money-less and disabled, living in the middle of nowhere without transportation, without a trusty family to SuPpOrT uS, who doesn't even believe in mental illness to begin with, without any friends or people to talk to.

I feel that the *more* we cry for help, the *less* we are helped.

People who are able to get therapy, let alone having an official diagnosis, are INCREDIBLY privileged, and they tend to forget about that. Many of us will end up killing ourselves because we weren't mentally strong enough to support all that '' You're crazy go get help '' speeches daily. Oh darling, I wish I could get help... that's all that I ask for. After years of self-help, books, podcasts and DBT, nothing work, what do you do ? We are all different, there is no one size fits all. Stop telling me that '' it's all in my head '' If you aren't in a position like this, please, help us or stay silent. This is heavy stuff. STOP the division, we're all suffering and projecting our shit, but we need to get together and HEAL !