Hey there! I was curious who all feels needy for friendships often, even if it's people who may not be a great match. Sometimes I'm willing to be friends with a lot of different types of people and find most fascinating. Sometimes I waver between trying too hard and not trying at all. But there's this pressing need in the back of my head that it's never enough. It's not healthy. Self respect and self esteem are so important, but I get bored alone. 

I do see a therapist and practice DBT. I was not diagnosed but have traits of bpd. It seems like this might be a common trait!

Any advice or those who have "been there, done that" is really appreciated.










