I’ve been dating this guy for almost a month and I feel like I want to end things with him but I don’t know how. 

Every person I’ve dated has become my FP and that emotional intimacy is all I know and all I feel safe with (I’m fucked). And things started so well with him, he used to talk to me on ig/snap/text throughout the entire day and call me at night and now our text conversations have gotten so shallow and dull and I’m scared. I let myself get close to him in the beginning but then he started withdrawing and I feel like I need to end it now before I’m so attached to him and he ends it. I’m not even sure if I’ll get that emotional connection with him tbh.

Anyways, I feel sad thinking about not talking to him every day but I’m also sad talking to him bc I feel like he’s always uninterested. We also haven’t talked on the phone in almost 2 weeks and I haven’t brought it up bc I feel like he doesn’t want to. We talked yesterday about past relationships and he just got out of a serious one where he was hurt and so we’re not really looking for the same thing. We also live on two different sides of the country and times zones are fucking me up. 

I feel like I don’t have a legitimate reason to end things (I know I don’t need one but my brain is saying I do). I don’t want to hurt him but I’m scared of getting hurt. 

If anyone even reads this, thank u.