me and my bf have been dating for almost 6 months now. at the beginning i didn’t really feel any sort of attachment to him aside from having a crush on him, and would get semi annoyed by him and his affection. until about 4 months in and i suddenly can not stop thinking about him and every single decision i make revolves around him. i want a hair cut? what if he hates it? i wanna buy some new clothes? what if he thinks i look ugly in them? i feel like i have to be around him 24/7. anytime other people are around him i automatically assume they want to fuck him (even when they obviously don’t) and i absolutely seethe. it scares me because i’ve had fps before in previous relationships and i’ve always ruined them by not knowing how to handle it and being extremely possessive and jealous. any advice on how to deal with it in a healthy way?