Of course going through the online dating thing now, with more effort now, but I still am insecure. Had trauma with males. I'm not super attractive, just maybe like a little above normal, if that makes sense? So like maybe cute but not beautiful or gorgeous.

But I don't want to be alone forever. And at this point, that's where my life is going. I'd love any and all advice you have, because ultimately, this is almost like a non-negotiable for me. Not even really for BPD reasons, but I just want companionship, and long term.

Help a single old woman?