So today is mine and my fiancé’s anniversary. He started a new job in a pub recently full time he’s basically only getting 1 day off a week. I asked him when he start if he could book our anniversary off but he forgot to ask (but he booked off a different day so he could help out some random stranger he’s an actor) anyways he finished at 12am today when he finally gets off work he calls to tell me he is gonna stay and have a pint. I’m very obviously annoyed but I don’t want to be the person who tells him what he can and can’t do I kinda just say okay and hang up pretty quickly. He gets home at 2am (we live 30mins away from the place) I’m upset cause to me he has prioritised them over me on our anniversary. He keeps telling me it was 1 pint and that I’m over reacting but he is missing the point of I don’t care any other day but our anniversary it matters to me a lot.

Since he got the job I’ve hardly seen him the days he’s had off he go gym for 4 hours. I’ve been really ill over the last week when I get ill I get emotional. And I’ve been feeling really distant and questioning the relationship after issues with his family (I can go in to them more but they are racial) I’ve been crying for the last hour am I over reacting