I made another post [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/mentalhealth/comments/9k9uva/my_older_daughter_is_ruining_our_family_and_i/) which unfortunately was not well received, and the only semi-sane thing that I got from the responses was that maybe the best place for her is a boarding facility for delinquent teens. We are in Virginia in the USA, is anyone from around here that could recommend a good facility for us to put her in?