So... I'm not 100% sure I am borderline, but this makes me feel like I am. So I like this guy and we were walking down the street holding hands. He stops holding my hand. I go from "omg I love this guy, I want to be around him all the time" to "meh, he's not that great, I don't need him."

I'm trying to not be too clingy because he told me that is something he is afraid of. So, I try to stop. Its hard because I'm such a codependant person and my codependant person died a few months ago. 

what do you guys think?