Here's the story time then I'll go on about my thoughts and feelings about it: so My boyfriend's friend invites us to an amusement park with his girlfriend and her other friend who's a girl.  My boyfriend says we're both down to go and last minute his friends girlfriend says "Actually, never mind i don't want to drive a random girl to the amusement park anymore." so my boyfriend, his friend and I all like ok that's weird. After confused some back and forth between my boyfriend and his friend, they hang up with the understanding that my boyfriend and i are no longer going. The friend, 15 minutes later calls back and asks "My girlfriend is wondering what (OPs) sign is." and I tell my boyfriend to just say no we aren't going. It really irked me that she'd base my character off of my astrological sign, and didn't want to meet me prior to knowing. 

I'm convinced she was trying to set her friend and my boyfriend up and I got such a bad vibe from her because of the whole situation. My boyfriend is still hoping she and i will want to meet at some point, to which I don't see me doing. If she didn't want to drive strangers I would understand, but she didn't know my boyfriend either, just met him in passing once. The fact that it was her and her boyfriend and a third friend really makes me question her motives. I really have no interest in meeting her now but she's one of my boyfriend's best friend's gf. Any advice, stories, or words of encouragement are welcome. Am I wrong for feeling this type of way or is this a weird situation?? 

A couple of hours after the phone calls my boyfriend had asked me
if I was still feeling "some type of way" about the situation and I said yes. I said I'm still hurt and confused by her actions and it feels like she already hates me yet she doesn't even know me. Boyfriend tried using words of encouragement but doesn't quite understand the bpd brain. He suggested we all (his friend and gf, and us two) get ice cream tomorrow to clear the air and I told him I had no interest in meeting her for at least another week or so. 

I guess I'm looking for validation or advice from fellow pwBPD. This situation sucks and I feel awful for being so mad and upset about it.