My husband whose a physician knew I had BPD and kept insisting he could help me but with his anger issues and my emotions it became super toxic. He didn’t give me a chance to get DBT and when he filed I immediately put myself through DBT and wow. What. A. Difference this has made in my life. I am super regretful I didn’t get help earlier and how much it would’ve saved our marriage. How do I cope with the guilt and regret