
I’m trying not to repeat past mistakes. 

It’s been 3 years since my FP ended the relationship because I pushed her away in classic BPD fashion. The pain of her leaving cuts so deep. I still miss her every single day. 

Now, there is a person in my life that is starting to become my FP and I am terrified. I’m worried that I will sabotage our friendship. Is there any good that can come out of having a FP? Or, is it only a set up to push others away?