I got her several gifts and spent Christmas with her (I dont get along with my family and she doesnt get along with hers either) 

But for a few days shes been playing a sad romantic song, and then when I brought the gifts in today she said she hated Christmas. 

She specifically asked for some things and I got them for her. She got me nothing. 

I only asked for a shark themed item (I like sharks).
She said she was tired from work and couldnt get me anything.

She did make a trip to the liquor store to buy me some pistachios bc she knows I like them.

That's it.

So I bought her a 300 dollar pair of headphones and she got me... 1.99 bag of pistachios.

Kinda reminds me of why we are no longer married.

I do feel sad for her but it feels like shes made no effort on my gift.

Shes also upset bc a coworker gave her a card with money, she said it showed no effort.

Eh, so I made massive efforts (no car and took a bus one hour away to get her headphones, in the cold). And she ... didnt even stay awake to open her gift.

Just kinda bugs me as she made effort to get her coworker (for secret santa) a gift. I mean she got up early and went to pick out a gift for her.

But for me... theres no gift picking time and no effort to even pretend that my presence matters. Smh... just doesnt feel nice.