This isn’t really a recent development, however I am beginning to feel worn thin when I spend time with this specific friend. 

Anytime she calls me, texts me, or we are together in person the conversation always has to come back to her. Especially when there is a new crush is in her life. That crush is the only thing she talks about, and then suddenly she wants to make all these changes about her appearance, interests, etc. to fit the perfect mold for this crush. 

I am at the point where my impatience and judgement can’t be hidden from my face or responses, but I still don’t think she has gotten the hint that I am tired of talking about her and her toxic love life. 

I have offered all of the positive and loving advice humanly possible, but she just keeps bringing up the same stuff on repeat. I think it is sad to watch her want to change all these things about herself just to make sure she is the perfect fit for this new guy. She is always talking about stalking his social media, watching his every move, and non stop talking about how obsessed she is with him. 

This boy is the only thing that is on her mind. She will call me just to talk about how badly she wants to see him, and how busy he is and how he barely has time to spend with her. Her frustration continues to grow, the longer she goes without seeing him, thus she leans on me as an outlet. 

I am at the point where I need to tell her that I cannot continue talking about this topic with her. It makes me want to rip my hair out. She is very prone to intense and harsh reactions and I just need some advice on how to approach this situation? Any help or suggestions are greatly appreciated. TYIA