I was wondering if this is a facet of BPD or something else entirely. My psychiatrist has told me that I have OCD tendencies but we both agreed that I'm not "full-fledged" OCD as my compulsions don't severely or negatively impact my day-to-day life or relationships. However, I almost always have to have some semblance of control in my life. Things need to be in a specific place or people need to react in a specific way. If not, BPD brain takes over and I basically have a meltdown.

Literally, I had a screaming/sobbing fit on New Year's day over my SO not texting me back in time (I'm a pos I know). So, do you think this is a common characteristic of BPD or do you suspect this is a product of comorbidity? Do you have the same reactions?