I got a job, I met the most amazing man and he treated me better than anyone else has. But slowly, after a few months, I started to take my hurt out on him. All the pain collectively built up from rejection, childhood trauma, i would take it out on him. I would torment him to no end, but deep inside I wanted to change, deep inside I did love him. He had it with me, we have split up since then, I quit my job. Question: can a bad person become a good person?