With my insanely unpredictable mood swings, irritability, intrusive thoughts, and occasional apathy, my boyfriend is kind of feeling the pressure of having a BPD SO. Since I can go from happy and carefree to sobbing and panicking in the blink of an eye, he says I seem like two different people sometimes. It hurts to hear that. I'm working on myself and trying to be productive and more organized and etc., but I'm still... Unstable. I don't know what to do. He's so distressed and I want to help (or find him supports) but I know the BPD SO subs aren't the best. What can I do?