I ended things with my FP, who I've been talking to romantically for nearly 6 months. He also has BPD, which might make it messed up of me to do what I did (unfollowed him on instagram, told him I was removing myself from the situation because he clearly doesn't like or want to talk to me). 

He barely even talks to me normally, but he's been ignoring me for a week because I asked if we could voice chat and watch his favorite movie together. The only time we've ever video chatted was for sex, but he's "too shy" for anything else... even though he streams on twitch and instagram. It's driving my BPD and mental health up the fucking wall. 

Through out this whole thing, I've been the one starting conversations and putting an effort into things. He's never once asked me how I am doing. 

I don't want to cut ties with him. I really, really like him. But... I know this isn't good for me and literally all of my friends are telling me the same thing. 

Was this the right move?