How does it feel like when you don’t have an fp? I (25F) have my boyfriend (26M) but I don’t feel like he is my fp, I know that I am his fp (he is also diagnosed with BPD) based on his behaviors. I’ve had fp in the past and I know the feelings it comes with it, but I don’t have those feelings with him. What does this mean? Do I just not like him that much or do I just feel secure in the relationship?