How do I tell my friend that it is no longer possible for me to move into an apartment with her? I love my job, but with the hours I am getting I am making less than 400 a month. I currently live rent free with my dad and brother. I would have to work 2 jobs, on top of the college classes, in order to afford to move out and pay the 600+ month in rent and utilities. I am on the verge of breaking down right now anyways and the stress and sheer livable situation will throw me over the edge. I have less than 100 in my bank account. I have come at the situation from several angles and none work. I just feel horrible since I am screwing her over and know I am going to lose her as a friend with this but there is 0 chance of this working. I am just so depressed and I dont want to lose a 5 year old friendship because I had to back out. I tried to tell her before but she had plans and offered to help the first 3 months but said she cant do it without me and I am saving her in the long run, but in the short and long run it's going to ruin me financially and mentally.