Has anybody ever developed a FP who *wasn't* their SO?  I'm having this trouble now, and it is really messing with me.  Like, I want to get a divorce just so I can pursue this FP, but this always happens to me (get bored in a relationship, get a new FP, breakup and go with the FP).  My current relationship *does* have issues.  I just don't know what to do.  I think about my FP all the time.  They are a coworker so I see them almost every day.  They know how I feel and they want to keep things professional (also since I'm married).  But they *do* like me too.  Any advise or antidotes?