Hey everyone! I'm looking for a little advice regarding my mom.

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My mother has BPD. This has caused a certain amount of strain on her relationships in and out of the family, but I'm specifically worried about her family relations at the moment. My siblings have all decided they don't want to see her at Christmas this year because they don't want to deal with her. It's true that holidays, particularly this one, can put a huge strain on her, and I understand that they feel they need to put up some boundaries, but for me, she's my mom and I want to be there for her, regardless of how she may act. We're family, and that's so important to me, but I'm afraid that my being there won't be enough for her.   


So here's my question: What can I do to fully support my mother during this difficult time? Is there anything that loved ones have done for you that helped you out when you were feeling really low or unloved/unlovable?