So the bg story is, I’m visiting my BF in another country, and I really want to get a working visa to stay and work legally in that city to build a life with my bf. 

His friend told a joke to me, said, “you can work here (while pointing a strip club) I’m sure you don’t need a visa”. At first I didn’t fully understand so I asked him “excuse me?”Then he explained that if I work as a stripper I don’t need a visa. I’m shocked, I don’t know what to say other than “oh my GOD”. Then he awkwardly walked away. The next thing I remembered is my bf turned around and found me about to cry so he asked me what happened. I told him what happened but he said “it’s just a joke”. Then I finally bursted into tears and I walked away from them. Now I’m still crying, feeling that no one value my worth and intelligence, not being respected, and also hating my bf not protecting me...

To be clear I’m not discriminated to strippers, but I’m quite sure he said that with a “naughty” intention. Before this joke, he already made some jokes about me being handy for my bf, because I helped my bf with some small things of his startup; and about I was “busy” playing video games all day but actually I did quite some houseworks and helped my bf with some personal paper works...