So, my girlfriend has recently went and shut down and won’t talk to anyone including her close’s friend, and I’m not sure what I should do.  She ran from me because she started to believe I was being controlling for calling her when she wouldn’t text me back during an episode of uncontrollable and no reason crying.   Which I was not,  I was only trying to get her to talk and to let me know she was okay.   Still wasn’t the right thing to do, because of whatever mentally she has going on, I just didn’t understand how serious this was.   She lives with her parents, so I’m sure everything is fine there and they would notice if she had hurt herself or disappeared.  She doesn’t want to open to her parents about things she has said in the past, so I’m trying my best not to reach out to them.   She’s 28 years old and is going through a rough time.  Has her two kids to take care of so I know she’s managing.  What should I do.  Give her space?  I mean I am actually already , but I’ve been sending her uplifting messages every day to let her know I’m here and I try not to spam her with it.    She won’t make an appointment to a psychiatrist because of anxiety.   Advice?