Hi everyone, I'm pretty much here because I don't know what to do about this anymore. Back in October I got into an argument with my friend. The reason I've come to this sub is because she is diagnosed with BPD. The argument was originally something very insignificant but it turned into her just cutting me out of her life. It really confused me because we had been friends for years, and very close. I don't understand how she could cut me off over something so shallow, and it hurts because I thought she cared about me more. The more I thought about it, the more I wondered if it was maybe something connected to how someone with BPD might think that I, as someone who doesn't struggle with it, would find hard to understand. She lives a couple hours away so I can't even meet her face to face about it, she's just gone. If anyone could help by giving me some advice or possible explanations I'd really appreciate it. If you would like more details you can message me. Thanks in advance.