I have a "favourite person" as most people with BPD also do, I literally need them to survive. Being away from them got to a point where it physically hurts. I have been suggested to try and shift this to a favourite object that has a lot of meaning to me because it's healthier but for now I really need to cope with this. They have been my partner for some time now and they've recently told me they will be moving so we won't be able to see each other as much, they are one of the only people I hang out with since I started isolating myself to make sure I don't lose them and I am deathly scared. Just thinking about what I will do without them is almost impossible, I just freak out. I have no connection similar to this one, they are like a missing piece to me. I don't want to ache every time I think about them being away, I want to be able to handle the situation normally. I just don't know how.