I recently sabotaged a friendship with my fp in my frantic attempts to avoid an imagined abandonment. What’s done is done though. This friend ended up actually abandoning after what happened. He told my partner he’s interested in continuing once he feels he can set healthy boundaries, but unfortunately I believe the trust to be broken on both ends and I am not interested in repair at this time. However my mind and heart will not get on the same page! I miss him and wake up feeling sooo alone and sad. My mind wants to move on, but I still cannot stop obsessing. What are some ways to break my emotional bond with this person? I know it will be better for me in the long run if I can move on.