I've read that people with BPD tend to be drawn to psychopaths and narcissist and vice versa because they seem to give the other what they are looking for. Then I've read that our, those with BPD, mind is always playing tricks on us causing us to assume the worst in situations. This causes us to question our every thought but would a psychopath or narcissist not play on this and couldn't this just keep a BPD person in a destructive relationship, always feeling like it's them assuming the worst when in reality they are right. How would they know or trust their own instinct? Can anyone help make sense of this.