hi everyone! Something I see discussed on here a good bit is pwBPD cutting people off impulsively and regretting it later. However, does anyone know when it would actually be a good decision? I’ve cut off some friends of mine recently due to some conflicts about my partner and generally not feeling like a good person around them, but it was something weighing on my mind for a while. I’ve felt happier and more content lately since I’ve cut them off. I guess I feel like it’s probably the right decision if I still feel confident and happy about the lack of them in my life. It’s been weeks, so I feel like if it was a bad impulsive decision I would know it by now. Idk exactly what I’m asking or wanting in posting this, I think I just needed the say that sometimes cutting people off may be the right thing to do. 

Does anyone else feel like some people are negative influences, and while they haven’t done anything abusive or drastic like that, that you feel like a worse version of yourself?