     I have a big issue when it comes to other people venting to me. When someone randomly vents about a serious topic I get extremely awkward and it’s like i’m unable to handle it. It’s even worse when the help I am giving isn’t working immediately. I tense up and I either get really angry and ghost the person or get really sad and cry about it.
     The reason I’m bringing this up is because I saw a post about how people with BPD are forced into emotional situations often because they are seen as emotional people, so I thought, could this issue I have be a more specific thing that’s because of bpd, or is it just something I personally do and bpd only comes into play a little?