Hi, I’m new here but have been lurking for a while haha. I was wondering how people here deal with relationships? I (f21) have never tried to hard to get into a relationship and now I don’t know where to start. (Dating apps have been wildly unsuccessful so please don’t recommend that). The whole fear of abandonment and fear of being vulnerable has kept me from being in a healthy relationship and I guess I’m trying to figure that stuff out. Diagnosed w bpd two years ago after being diagnosed with a bunch of other things two years prior (mdd, ptsd, gad, sad, etc.) and have been in intensive therapy ever since. I can keep a job and I have a few friends that I trust and maintain a relationship with but I feel so isolated when people ask me about my dating life because I’ve never wanted to go near the dating pool as I feel like it would be impossible to keep my crazy under wraps … anyways I would love to learn more abouthow you guys approach relationships and relationship stories and all that :)