BPD is killing my romantic life. I am constantly worrying. Constantly over-analyzing. Constantly thinking that my significant other is going to leave me/cheat on me/learn what is "wrong" with me. 

I am rapidly becoming convinced that I am not cut out for relationships. They cause me too much stress. When I am alone, I don't feel like this. I just live my life and shut out anything that could be a trigger. And I feel like no matter who I become involved with, they just don't GET IT. And I can't blame them. How do you describe BPD to someone who doesn't have it? I know I come across as paranoid, irrational, and jealous. I drive a wedge between myself and anyone I begin to care about.

Does anyone have success managing their BPD and a relationship? 