Do they teach you how to attract people who actually like you for who you are/want to be in your presence? I do the best I can to take care of myself and even honor myself. I try to do all I can to make myself feel good, take myself places, do things that fill my cup, and at the end of the day I am still alone. I have a magnetism to people who don't give a sh\*t about me. I have always done this, and in the past it was because I could be their therapist and give them my nurturing energy. Now, the more boundaries I put up, it's like it doesn't matter what I consciously do, I still feel like that's what I attract. It's almost worse because I have boundaries up AND I'm not attracting people, whereas before I had more friends if I could give myself away. How can you change this if you've done what you can consciously?