My (33f) boyfriend (37m) has anxiety and it’s killing our relationship and killing me inside. We have been together for 3 years. I’m not sure if he masked it in the beginning of our relationship or I was just oblivious. He would tell me his job gave him a lot of anxiety but now he changed jobs so I’m not sure why he still has so much pressing anxiety. I also think he might be depressed. When I try to talk about things he says he doesn’t want to talk about it and I don’t know what to do anymore. He doesn’t this me a way in to help and I’m scared this is going to effect our lives and our future children. He does have anxiety medication that he takes when he gets really anxious but it doesn’t help long term. Please any advice is appreciated. I feel stuck. I’m scared it’s going to get worst and our relationship will fall apart. Any experiences with this? It would be nice to hear thoughts on both ends.