Hello, I need a little advice.

I have this friend of mine I’ve known for a few months.
I think she’s amazing, and is just my type.
I’ve been trying to educate myself and understand, about BPD and ED, ever since she told me.

However a lot of the times I find myself intimidated,
When she talks about extreme moods and feelings or how she prefers lack of intimacy, even no hugs or touch, etc.

I would love to try my best to make this work, but can I?
Is it possible having something serious &amp; really long term?
Or should I just quit it because of my fears?

Thanks for any advice, and I apologize if this was offensive in any way!