I feel crazy though my loving, healthy bf says I'm not. However, working in child care for over 10yrs, I've been able to pick out kids who show slight abnormalities in behavior and later be observed by psychologists to confirm my hunch. I, also, can see those red flags on people around me to later find out themselves that they're on the autistic spectrum. Just to be clear I have no training or study in psychology. I gravitate towards people with the same kind of energy/personality type and I can match them up with other personality types they can click with. Is this the BPD super power of heightened sense of observation?