\*\*i have not been diagnosed, but i'm talking to a therapist and i have a lot of symptoms so i thought this was the place to ask this 

  
I have been in a unstable relationship for 2 years, we broke up two times and we are not very similar and sometimes we don't understand each other, but in the last half year things were going better than in the past. I have always had doubts about every relationship i had with people and every person i liked romantically, but now they are stronger than other times (with him) and i just feel like i need to be w/o partner so i won't hurt him or myself, because i have to work on myself and my unstable identity, and i'm starting to think our relationship isn't ideal for us, cause i need a lot of attentions/presence and he needs a lot of alone time and other things that we don't agree on, but i can't see myself without him. I don't know what to do cause it's my only thought and i can't shake this out of my mind but i want to be more calm and in a better place mentally to make a decision. Help

I just can't trust my thoughts 'cause they always change, i'm afraid i will regret every decision i make.

My therapist told me i have to wait, try to do things to feel better with myself and talk to her before making a decision about this, but it's difficult and i need somebody who can understand this feelings.