So I'm in an LDR and my gf shows a LOT of symptoms of BPD. One of them getting jealous TOO quickly. She gets jealous if I talk to someone, even if I'm talking to them for as little as few minutes. She gets so mad that she starts screaming that she hates me and how I'm a horrible person. She does this everytime and keeps spamming me. Once I got hurt from her mean comments and said that I'll get out of her life if she really wants that, she gave me self harm and suicide threats. I really really have no plans to let her go. She doesn't want me to talk to others but doesn't want me to "not-talk" to them either cuz it will make her look toxic even tho she can talk to whoever she wants. A similar episode happened just now and I srsly need help. She can't go to a therapist or something, please help me treat her right. I have already apologised multiple times to her but she thinks that I just don't understand.