Hello, I'm in a really tricky spot right now. Currently I am in highschool and I live with my parents and my 3 year old brother. For the first 6-7 years of my parents being married, my mom's mental health has declined severely. Then we moved to Canada but by then my mother had depression and I was only 6 years old. Now 12 years later their mental health hasn't improved a lot. Before we moved to Canada my mother did not have a lot after the marriage and my father did not do a lot to help because its their nature/genetic I guess. From the oldest thing I remember, my parents got into fights a lot because of it. Now my father's brothers wife has everything that we didn't because my father never said anything back then. This is one of the reason that my mom's mental health isn't good. I really wish I could change how my father thinks because everything bad that happens could be fixed. My mothers mental health also has effected their physical health, everyday for several years something in their body hurts. They have don't so many tests, went to the hospital so many times but doctors say there is nothing wrong with them. Since my little brother was born, my mother has taken care of him 90% of the time. My dad goes to work for 10-15 hours a day so he doesn't help us a lot. From before my brother was born, my moms mother was here helping us but now she went back to her home country a couple months ago. When she was here, she would do most thing in the kitchen so my mother could take care of my brother. Since she left, my mom was to do both and its difficult for her. I don't know why my father doesn't help us a lot, its not he doesn't want to because he doesn't care so I don't know the actual reason. One thing is that his mindset is "old fashioned", the wife does all the house work while he goes to work but my mother also goes to work because its the only way we can afford to live. Today my parents got into an argument again which seems to happen every 2 weeks or less. My mother just said something simple to my father but he always makes a big situation out of it. Because of this everything goes wrong. Now my mother says she cant do all this anymore and want my father and little brother to live either in the basement or upstairs, separate of us. My father doesnt really know how to raise a child on his own and he also goes to work for a lot of the day. He doesnt help us as much as he could and I dont know how to explain it to him. I dont know what to do because I know this will never work out. Something similar happened in the start of april and I dont know what will happen because of this.