Im a ugly ginger male. i want to date, but no girl would ever want me. My friends always ask me who I like but I just say I like no one. But the reality is I like the girl that my friend has a crush on and she likes him back. i have liked her for sometime but I’m afraid of failure. I don’t know if I just want to give up on her or not. I fell like even if she wasn't interested in my friend that she would never even consider me. I don’t know how to build up my confidence. I feel like I find comfort in crying. I need advice on how to find my comfort and confidence in being happy not sad. I just can’t let go on past events. I find my confidence on how others view me and that’s why I’m always crying and depressed.