I wish he would delete her and not talk to her anymore. I have nightmares about her every day for months but now they've gotten worse, I wake up 5 times each night and after 3am I can't fall back asleep. I wake up crying, feeling paranoid, depressed and betrayed. what does she have that makes her so important that it's worth hurting your girlfriend over to this severity? it's not like I don't want him to talk to anyone but me. recently I saw him hang out with a large group of people, and I felt so happy inside. I know being in a group and having people around him makes him happy. I could've joined but didn't, I wanted this to be his moment. I want him to have lots of friends.

I'm just not comfortable with him having a close friendship(?) with this girl who has an obsessive crush on him, all while trying to keep it hidden and secret, but I see it everywhere. we've already talked about it, and he knows how it destroys me seeing he hangs out with her instead of me. he has deleted her before, but a few months later added her again and now they hang out again. it's ruining me.