
I‘m currently being treated in an psychiatric hospital - for BPD and atypical Anorexia. The treatment will probably take 8 weeks. 

My boyfriend would love to visit me here, but I want to concentrate on my therapy and don’t need any distractions. 

Seeing him will only make me homesick to the point where I’ll consider ending the therapy  to go home and spend time with him. 

How do I explain to him that I don’t want so see him right now? Am i an asshole for wanting to be alone for 8 weeks?