Idk what exactly they found in my bathroom because i have a number of weed things in various hiding places but i think they found my grinder if anything bc it was the most in plain sight? Anyway it doesn't matter because 1. I'm not in trouble today as long as it's gone by the end of the day bc they're doing another room check tomorrow while I'm at work 2. It wasn't a lot to begin with, whatever they found so it's fine. 3. My roommate didn't say anything to me about it and we did talk briefly before he came too? And she obviously knew bc he implied it when he rang my doorbell 4. Me and my roommate have been friends since we were 13, we're about to turn 21 together in June. She doesn't smoke weed anymore but she used to. I don't know how mad she is and I don't know what to tell her. She clearly heard me tell the RA that it wasn't supposed to be here anyway and that i already had plans to move it. Which was probably obviously a lie, but it is what is now, right? Anyway idk what to do. I mean like the whole weed thing is fine i can work around it. But idk what to do about my friend. She probably won't want to live with me anymore once our lease is up. Idk what to do. Idk what to say to her, I don't have anything to apologise for and knowing the type of person she is, she probably made up her mind about it. Which also makes me feel worse because she probably trusts me less for keeping her in the dark in the first place.. i don't feel good. How am i supposed to cope with this?