Hi, so we have a friend group of which I was the first female to be in. Few years ago I encouraged her to join us and she slowly tries to take over my friend group and keep them all to herself? Like, I would be playing games with them without her because she isn't available at that time. And while we're playing she doesn't ask the group to join, she asks the males individually if they want to do something else with her. She never asks me to join whatever she wants to play. The guys then ask me, cause we're already playing, if I want to do something else because she wants to do that with them. ???? It feels like I'm fighting to keep my spot in the group and it's a competition I don't want to be in. Feels like I'm slowly drowning tbh. Little backstory: she has a boyfriend. I dated him before she did and got him into a hobby. They then met via that hobby. She has told me in the past she felt threatened by me whenever I still talked to him and that she was very insecure. But we became friends over time. Good friends I thought. But she's trying to steal my friend group now and I am not a fan of that.