my partner is going through a rough time and can’t give me the 1000% attention that i need every second. which should be okay but it’s not in my messed up head. i feel so guilty about feeling this way because i need to be there for her in the hard times like she is for me. i just keep having all these thoughts like she hates me (which is not true). 
basically i’m not sure how to put my feelings on the back burner and be the best partner for her right now