Do you think it would be beneficial for me to have a friend with bpd (treated) talk/offer guidance to my other friend with bpd (untreated) .

I feel like her actually talking and being able to relate to someone about bpd would be beneficial and maybe help convince her to try therapy. 

Or for anyone that has entered treatment what are some things that helped make you realize it’s time ? 

I just want her to see there is hope for a better improved future for herself. She is stuck in the “it will be like this forever” mindset.