Whether it be unintentional or malicious, it just seems like men get very little support in real life or this sub reddit.

I mean yesterday somebody said that men with BPD were violent and dangerous. That is a very broad brush to stroke across all the male sufferers.

I posted a question in hopes of figuring out why my FPs are always female. Some angry person kept down voting things without providing any input or critique. I mean I thought it was a valid question and much more productive than some of the other posts I see.

Men are less likely to be diagnosed with BPD because of gender bias so they get stuck with other labels like an anger disorder.

If you think about it, men are expected to suck it up and deal with it. Deal with things we don't quite understand. While it is socially acceptable for women to ask for help and for men to "save the day". 

I'm not saying women have it easy. We all have our own crosses to bear, but at the very least, ours don't appear to be important to anyone.

Go ahead and tear my argument apart, tell me how I'm wrong and downvote me into oblivion.
I'm expecting it... But I hope I'm wrong.