With BPD are we more likely to stay in toxic relationships, I see alot of blame towards the partner with the BPD but looking back at my history there's always something that sets me off and then makes me paranoid, like I don't take stuff from previous relationships, it's when the trust is broken within the current relationship that things take a sour turn, and I ruminate and worry and have meltdowns I blame myself alot but at the same time I wonder if I blame myself too much, and breaking up is just so hard to do because I try and then I can't take it so we get back together and it's just a continuous cycle. I want to make it work but can it really work when you have BPD and trust has been broken and you have a partner that just doesn't understand or communicate well.