*TW: Possible Homophobia*

So I had a friend visiting last week, earns more than me and has no MH problems so to speak. She spent some of the time talking about how easy her job is for the amount she gets paid, and how she's just going to chill and coast along. 

Then we got to my place and she said she was trying to work out what was new in my house as I had more stuff, other friends that were there complimented the house whereas she didn't. The "stuff" thing felt like a bit of a dig.

Then I came downstairs in my new outfit for dinner and my friends said I looked gorgeous/really nice and she just smiled and didn't compliment me. I complimented her despite her wearing pretty much the same outfit as she always does.

Then in the night we were discussing a friend who had come out as Pansexual. I said I felt I identified with that too, to which she was saying she doesn't really get it, isn't it just, in her words "people who are hipsters who are like, well I just go for feelings and just like the soul and the personality" in a really condescending fake hippy voice.

After reflection I'm sat here annoyed. I don't really get her deal. Can anyone with or without BPD please provide some perspective on this for me please. Am I right to be annoyed.