So I (17F) have serious attachment issues, I can get attached to someone within minutes of conversation and I will feel like they are the best person to walk this earth ever for months on end. It’s a horrible feeling and drains me and leaves me practically no time for myself because it’s so exhausting, but the worst part is that I cannot see past this person. It’s like I try to, but I genuinely feel as if this person is the most attractive person in all aspects to exist and if I lose them my life will be over. The belief that a person like this even exists is completely irrational, but I can’t seem to talk myself out of it. I usually end up self-sabotaging relationships where I see the person like this because I’m forcing the relationship so much. On top of that, my depression and anxiety are much, much worse and much harder to deal with when I get really attached to someone like this. How can I stop doing this or at least stop it before it gets too bad and I start to ruin the relationship?