Hi r/BPD! I am diagnosed BPD, and my boyfriend knows. He is very supportive and understanding. But sometimes.. too much i guess? He knows that I have a hard time paying attention to my basic needs like sleep or food. So he tries to make sure that i eat and sleep properly, and tries to give me a pat on the back by saying stuff like "I'm proud of you!" When i don't skip a meal. The thing is, this makes me feel like I'm so  hopeless and inadequate that i need praise when i complete a basic task like eating food. Makes me feel like a child and not in a good way. And i get really cranky, i can't help it. He is doing everything he can to be supportive as fuck and i throw tantrums in return. I really, really hate this, but like i said, can't help the way i feel. Any comments?