So I have a friend (22) that was kicked out of the house a few months ago along with her sister (19) and now they live together in an apartment. Their mother is a total narcissistic nutjob so no help there. Dad's out of the picture. Lately, I'm scared they're drowning in their problems.

Not only did they suddenly need to move to a new apartment but they also have to work full-time jobs just to pay the rent. Considering their age, this has all been very stressful. I'm sensing they're both having more and more bouts of rage and are becoming more and more depressed.

They both have a therapist but I don't know if they're getting the help they need. But I also don't know how to help them. The biggest issue is their fits of rage. They hate it themselves and always cry after having them because they can't control it. Lastly, they only have one vice and it's a big one tho: weed. Everyday after work they smoke like crazy, just because they tell me they really need it. I know so much weed is never good...but I wouldn't want to see what happens if they would have to give weed up.

How do I help these girls Reddit?