I had a horrible mental breakdown weekend so I binged a lot of movies to feel better. And I have come to the realization, like I am sure a lot of you have, that we are stigmatized as people but we sure are used a lot for "inspiration" in writing and films. 
Mostly, female characters. Need some spice and whitty unattainable female love interest? Slap some bpd on that. Now it's the white whale of love. 
Need some drama? Slap some bpd on that. Now it's an obstacle the characters overcome. 

We are so romanticized in literature and films. But only due to the fact that they only show the good sides of bpd and when the show the bad they just go "okay main character, break her of her spell with the power of TRUE LOVE." 

I don't know about you but I am tired of it. I want a real depiction of this crap. So when we arent all "mystical pixie girl with quirky hobbies who has some baggage that is swept up by neurotypical nerd guy" they don't call us demons. I want to see the ugly crying. I want to see the horrible things we can say and do. I want to see the self hatred that we all deal with on a daily basis. The isolation. The sudden mood swing while making dinner because you didnt say something right 6 hours prior and now we worry they hate us. 


That we are people with struggles, not just an enigma you can use for writing. 

Idk, just a morning rant I guess.