We have been together for about a year and it’s been a rollercoaster. When he splits, he has major rage issues and has harmed me in different ways: tried to get me fired, (I did end up having to resign) broke my windshield, has done damage to an expensive car, breaks doors, has broken a few of my phones, throws drinks at me, has not hurt me, but the last time he did throw something hard at me and bruised me. All of this over illogical things, he thought I was ignoring him, he’s upset that I’m upset over how he’s treating me, I didn’t say goodnight before going to sleep, I’m not showing him enough affection, etc. A few months ago he started threatening suicide which is why I haven’t left him. He did have two recent failed attempts, and finally listened the last time and checked himself in. He was there for a 3 day hold and has been on meds and therapy since then (about 1.5 months). Recently he skipped his meds a couple of days and has been having rage episodes again. This is so exhausting, I have a 6 year old child and don’t want them around this. I’m afraid that if I break up with him,  not only will he do anything he can to hurt me, probably try to get me fired, damage more of my things, who knows probably even me, but also attempt suicide again. I don’t believe that he’s capable of having a normal relationship or love in general. I want out of this rollercoaster in the safest way possible. Some people have shared of how many with bpd have become indifferent and move on quickly to someone else. Any advice.