I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months. Everything has been good but recently I feel like things are getting comfortable and less exciting. If we spend a few days together sometimes we need to try a bit harder with conversation but generally we both still have a good time. Also now we have been together a while we don’t have sex every time we see eachother. When we don’t have sex we are still very close and show affection in other ways 

We still make time to do nice things, have dates and walks, and he has introduced me to his friends and family.

I have anxious attachment and I think it is causing me to worry excessively about what is ultimately, the normal transition in a relationship to something more comfortable. 

My question is, is this just a common thing that happens when the relationship passes the initial exciting stage?
Is there a way for me to feel more secure in this relationship?