I had a new therapist today and she looked so young she looked like she just graduated undergrad. I still decided to give her a chance and thought it would be unfair to be critical about her age. She didnt seem to know what to do except to explain to me what my trauma means in an unemotional, lets fix the problem way. I just feel tired of this approach because its always been unhelpful, and I miss my last therapist who could get to the bottom of my every day issues by wanting to understand me instead of explaining to me why I feel the way I do. It's so hard to find a therapist that doesnt get confused about how I function and how to help me, and I dont even know how, so I feel like I cant help them help me.