I know this is a bit of a weird post. Whenever I go on a forum of people who have dated BPDs, beyond the shit talking, there is usually this constant: 

1. their ex is hot 
2. their ex is the best sex they've ever had 

Do you find this to be true at all? Personally I have heard this a lot in my life but I feel as though it is more of a romanticism than anything else, and I do not understand why someone would want to hold onto something like that.
