I have BPD and my ex has stuck it through for very hard years. But this year it was over. He continues to talk to me. It’s like he is trying to rebuild a connection. But says he can’t be hurt again and doesn’t want a romantic relationship. He originally started dating girls but stopped because his therapist advised him. He was a rollercoaster of emotions. I feel like I should go no contact to see if he actually does miss me. Also because I feel that he is using me to slowly disengage to not feel his feelings and I am reliving our breakup daily. But I also feel if I do NC then he will move on. I enjoy every second that I am talking to him. But am I setting myself up for failure? I don’t want to be there when he moves on. Everything in me wants him not to.