Hi all! I'm just wondering if anyone here considers themselves somewhat "recovered" (ex. much better at managing their emotions, anger, mood swings, insecurities, etc) and is in a successful, loving relationship with a partner? 

I'm really just wondering if it gets better. I'm in a loving relationship with a non-BPD, someone who has a very secure attachment style and we are very compatible with each other and have a lot of fun being together. When we're apart, all hell breaks loose on my part because I don't know how to control myself and my codependent tendencies (note: I am in therapy but not DBT yet).