**im sure its good, but i really want this to be just the right thing to say, this is massive for him and its ontop of everything else he has to struggle with. please feel free to give any feedback or suggestions** 

i don’t know if you remember much of what i said last night but i just want to reaffirm that i don’t see you as your diagnosis or your diagnosis as you, i know you are so much more than that and this will never define you as the amazing human you are. secondly never apologise for being upset, i never ever expect you to put a brave face on around me, im here for you and ill always be by your side because i WANT to be. im your friend and nothing changes that, please do not ever consider yourself a pain or a nuance to me because of your bipolar, you are so far from it, and i accept you for you, im not cherry picking your attributers or moods, i accept all of you. i want to be there with you through the highs and lows and im not afraid to sit and be there, holding your hand with you when your in the middle of a storm. im gonna be holding hope when you can’t yourself and even though i will never know what its like to actually go through what you have to deal with, i will certainly be there for you, offering everything i can and understanding every aspect i grasp and if I can do anything to help, I will. im never going to hold this over you and im going to understand when you can't be there for me

i love you, i care about you, you are important to me, im sure as hell not going to leave you.