Hi, so just a quick question. I know BPD can manifest very differently in people. Yesterday I went to a psychiatrist and they scrapped my adhd diagnosis for bpd. I have been reading about it ever since. 


My question is, is it possible for me to have it when
a) I don't have the abandonment issues characterized in BPD
b) I have never experienced splitting before
c) I don't rollercoaster through emotions (intense or not) on a daily or hourly basis
d) I can control my reactions to things like 70% of the time (as in I don't have hypersensitivity, only when really stressed out)
e) I've never had a favorite person either