I think I might have BPD but I'm not sure. 

I've had severe anxiety and depression since high school. My psychiatrist ruled out Bipolar because my mood would drastically change several times a day. 
I don't know if I'd call it attachment anxiety, but I have obsession with being accepted. I'm addicted to my phone and with how many likes I get on every post because I see it as self worth. I have trouble with my identity as well and I'm not even sure what my sexuality is. Very small things can set me off and I get quickly angered. With my friends I'm able to bottle it up, but with my family I have more trouble. 

However, I've never had dissociative episodes or have taken extreme measures for attention. I'm also the opposite of a risk-taker and I never over-spend or even drink alcohol (even though I'm 23 years old). Does anyone have BPD and also not have these symptoms?