My ex told me to be open and honest about my symptoms, including paranoia. I always prefaced it with hey, I'm not sure if this is right or not. I had some thoughts revolving around a friend of mine, that I wasn't what he needed, things to that nature. My ex helped me through it and I moved on. We broke up 2 months ago. 

Today I got a message from that friend calling me selfish, manipulative, that I use my illness as an excuse, and abusive. My ex told him my symptom thoughts, and twisted it to sound like I thought HE wasn't enough. He won't listen to me, told me to stay out of his life all together. He said I spread things about him when the only person I ever told was my ex. He just...hates me. All I ever wanted to do was seek help, all I ever wanted to do was shake the thoughts off and go about my life. I respected his last message to me and let him go, I refuse to message him again, I have to respect boundaries. But it hurts so, so much.