I feel extremely secure about my orientation and expressing it in public. The thing is, I'm a bi man, which is complicated. I get both men and women showing disdain from time to time, most people don't care to be honest. It's the small details. Like, the "friends" I have still make jokes about me sucking dick. Or a straight woman concretely expressing me with words why being a bi man is bad.

I could just pretend to be "straight" or "gay" depending on my surroundings, and it would actually be easier. But I'm too prideful.