I  have have fallen in love, with another man, my feelings for him are extremely strong, I know it's unheathly but I can't control it, I tried to fall out of love but I just can't, I've never been so obsessed over someone before, the thing is some of my friends know and I'm scared of my fp somehow finding out about my feelings for him, he'd hate me to death and he'd never ever speak to me again.

so I was wondering if I should just tell him myself before he finds out, but even than, how can I be sure he won't just abandon me. What would you do in my place, please I need your opinion.