We both think my partner of 8 years has BPD. She’s been suffering from depression since her early teens and has tried multiple medications (gave her rashes, suicidal thoughts among other things) she’s been to therapy and the psychologists/psychiatrists didn’t help her at all. I am there for her as much as I can be but I know I can’t cure her. 
She has been feeling completely empty and pointless recently and it’s only getting worse.
I am just after hearing which avenues have helped people or tactics people use to help regulate their emotions. I am willing to hear out anyone about anything because she does not deserve this. It’s just extremely hard to find good mental health help in QLD, Aus