Ughhhh I feel so bad. Whenever she asks me to hang I genuinely have something on the day that she suggests so I have to say I’m busy but it happens one time after the other I feel like it’s starting to sound like excuses even though I like her and I do want to hang out. When I had to say no twice in a row I said I felt bad and she said it was fine but sometimes if I try to suggest another day instead (her days off are random) she stops replying or will just be like “ok” and it makes me feel so bad and uncomfortable. But I feel like saying “oh I’m not making excuse I really am busy and I do want to hang out ” is just worse and she’s probably getting tired and thinks I d ikr her