i really am tired of guys just wanting useless hookups... i never EVER go for the guys that seem like all they want is a hookup. all of them seem super genuine, act incredibly interested. and then they just turn on you, wtf. 

most recently, this guy has been texting me all day every day, asking me my interests, etc. after three (long) dates i asked what this guys intentions were and he said he just wanted to hook up because he got out of a two year relationship four months ago.

another guy took a five hour flight to meet me after texting every day ALL day long for two months. in person, he was incredibly hesitant to be romantic at all, and when he got home he told me he didn't want a relationship. 

it fucking hurts so bad every time. makes me feel so ugly and dumb and the guys play it off like it's not a big deal. i'm so tired of it