Hi people. Was wondering if anyone could reassure me or even just tell me I’m in the wrong here? This seems like it would be better to hear from people who are also suffering and may have a similar issue as me. 
So me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, we’ve also been living together for over 2 of them years. Throughout pretty much the entire relationship he has answered doors for us if we’ve had groceries delivered or pizza or it’s out landlady or something. I get super nervous to answer doors and always worry that the worst will happen etc, you know the drill. I get especially nervous if I don’t know who it is at the door. The whole thing just frightens me, so I usually ask my boyfriend to answer the door, and he does. But I’m usually met with “Why can’t you answer the door for once” or “I don’t see why you can’t answer the door”. He gets fed up with it. Even after me explaining to him why I struggle to do it. I just feel a little upset with him because he doesn’t understand why I don’t answer doors. 
He had to do it this morning for us as we had groceries delivered and he asked the same thing yet again. He also said “But you’ve done it before” and yes, he’s right, I’ve tried to push myself to answer it on a rare occasion because I want to push myself to do it, but it does make me stress and panic and worry and sometimes experience a panic attack over it. I just don’t know, I feel like I’ve done something wrong?