I'm currently a single mother of 4 and my love life isn't the greatest. I have no job, I'm depressed, and I'm temporarily staying at my mom's since I got evicted. Last night my mom was trying to tell my younger(F19) sister to humble herself and obey her or she'll end up like me. She stated "See if you don't listen to my advice that I tell you, you'll end up like your sister. Her bf is abusive, she's struggling to take care of the kids by herself, and she wanted to go to college, but now she can't. We told her not to get with him, but she didn't listen." It's all true, but hearing my mom tell my younger sister.. I'm embarrassed of myself and my situation. I was depressed, but now I feel like digging a hole and burying myself.