bascially im on zoloft, latuda, and prazosin. ever since i started lithium when i was 15 and then got changed to latuda which works great for me and ive been on for years, ive had frequent urination. every job ive ever had complains i get up too often

recently my coworker asked why i got up all the time and i kind of flipped on her and told her i had a medical issue and it was none of her buisness. i had to talk with her and my boss and ect. well recently i got what i think is a uti (ive held off going to the doctor which is my fault) but i keep peeing like every 30 minutes.

anyways today at work my boss called my into her office and said i needed a note for this medical issue. i literally dont hsve disability accomidations despite adhd bc i dont want to go through that. for starters my psychiatrist is all the way in florida and im in pa in college. i go home for the summer, winter break, and a week each semester and get three months worth each visit. my doctor id great but the office sucks and they will hang up on me when i call, leave me on hold for 40 minutes, and lastly its just a fucking side effect. i dont want to send her my medical records and see it has bpd, im so ashamed of this disorder which i know i shouldnt be but i am

does anyone have any advice for dealing with this? i really dont want to get fired, and i understand why she does it but its still a hurtful and hard situation