So I'm 42 and starting a new relationship it's mostly through text as she lives 2.5 hours away we met once but up till now we text everyday multiple times a day but last few days not much of anything. In the past this is the point where women pull away don't text much then it's your sweet but I'm not feeling it . I know I tend to jump both feet and don't hold back. I'm not the controling type or anything encourage them to have a life beyond texting with me but I don't have much going on my life consists of work( it's labour intensive and stressful) and being a couch potato I'm also pretty poor so can't afford to do much.

 it's at this point I start to crap my pants. Am I too boring? Are they getting sick of me? Do I text too much not enough? Do I come on too strong?(not sexually I'm very respectful of that and don't push). But it's around this time I have had around 5 or 6 women kinda drop kick me into the Friend zone and then disappear all together. 

I did send her a text and just said that I had been more honest with her than anyone and I was sure she was just busy but just wanted to make sure we were ok that she didn't need to change anything. That it was just my anxiety and that this has happened to me before and I just wanted to make sure it was just all in my head. 

It's just I hate feeling like this waiting for that text of "someone will love you but that someone isn't me" just knots in the stomach can feel it in every fiber something is coming and it's not good. Am I the only one that gets this ? Is this common do I just need a snack up side the head and a gear down big rig relax ? Any help would be good but don't sugar coat it be respectful but I want the truth .