it makes me feel so inadequate, and it makes me have a BPD spiral every-time.... i’ve been cheated on and my ex did things like this and it turns out he cheated on me during the entire relationship.  (Even though my current bf is nothing like my ex, and I know he loves me)

I don’t want to bring it up to him because I don’t want him to know i’m crazy and was stalking but it really bothers me ):