honestly title explains the basis of this. i've started talking to someone new/heading towards a relationship with someone new and while i like them a lot and am very happy... i guess lately i've become convinced they aren't interested ? which is ridiculous, because logically everything points to them being into me. but we had to cancel plans the other day due to things coming up and then i started splitting (which occurred due to reasons that were not them) last night and now i'm absolutely convinced they don't like me/am in a spot where i need reassurance but i'm unsure how to explain or ask, since we haven't discussed me having bpd yet. what should i do? they're quite busy, and i appreciate them making even a tad bit of time for me every day, i am just so shitty with grasping that and hate becoming attached romantically for this reason. :/