Im going to be pasding away in a few months,and ive been getting affairs in order. My BPD ex girlfriend split me black last year and hated me since. I havent seen or spoke to her since then. She has nothing to do with my passing,and i dont want her to blame herself just in case. 


Since im painted black,it shouldnt bother her right? Should i leave a note to her or shouldi just leave her be?