I started a new job recently. I know that I generally come across as a decent person so I know that I didn't make any major mistakes at first. But I have been doing pretty well so far, getting noticed by managers and getting assignments and training others. I feel like there's a shift in how my coworkers have been treating me now....I think you all know what I mean. Little things like responding to each other more than responding to me, responding to me with a little more coldness than they do each other, disagreeing with my ideas etc. It's hard to explain but I definitely don't think I'm just imagining it. 

The thing is this is a temporary job with the government and I really want to get a permanent position out of this experience. I know that we shouldn't care about others opinions and just focus on bettering our own lives, but it's really hurting my feelings. I know not everyone has to like me, but I only have 4 other people on my team and it really hurts. 

I have had this happen before at a previous job where I got along with everyone, but after I started getting a lot of managerial responsibilities and delegating authority, soooo many of the coworkers who I thought were my friends iced me out. 

I can accept that I'm not perfect and maybe I make mistakes in my communication. I am very careful to communicate clearly and respectfully with everyone. However maybe I come across as a goodie two shoes or something (I've volunteered to help with a few projects and ask people if they need more help: maybe this, within the group, looks like me trying too hard?). 

I know this isn't necessarily BPD related but I just think you guys might understand better. I'm trying to be realistic, industrious, and not let it get under my skin. But I'm failing at that. I just cried for half an hour because I'm so sad that I can't make work friends (I worked alone at my previous job before this one and desperately want to make friends with coworkers).