For context, I’m 19F. This may sound silly but I used to talk to a LOT of people from the internet, guys mostly towards the end of it all. I would have romantic relationships with a lot of them. I told one of them where I plan on going to university because it’s in a big city and I just have pride about it. I don’t remember if I ever told my ex. My ex happens to have family in that same city though. Now that I’ve cut ties with both of these people, I feel anxious about them knowing, not necessarily because of safety reasons but because I feel like I ruined it because things ended badly between us and like I said my ex even has family in that same city.   I regret ever bringing it up. I’ve even considered going to a different school. What do I do?