I haven’t been single for more than a month in maybe 7/8 years but over that time I’ve had several different long term relationships. I broke up with my partner not that long ago &amp; I jumped back into a serious relationship after maybe like two weeks. I also often try and sabotage the relationship at the beginning or try and find ways out but for whatever reason they stay and when they do I think yup that’s it we’re getting married??!?

People have told me to just be single or date casually for a while but I don’t even know what that looks like. Would be curious to see if others share the same experience and whether you think it’s benefitted you to be single for a while if you have or whether it makes no difference to how you feel