Okay , so I’ve been thinking about this for a while. I take full responsibility for my age regression in stressful situations but I feel as if my BPD and Bipolar 2 diagnoses has made the people around me treat me like I’m incompetent. Emotional immaturity, absolutely. However, I feel as if my loved ones think they need to coach me with everyday things such as booking appointments and etc..This isn’t just them trying to help regulate my emotions, it’s as if I need to counsel them before making small decisions. I am 23 years old and I will admit I could be further in life for my age. However, i think their constant scrutiny reaffirms the idea that people with BPD will always have chaotic lives.