I have borderline pd and I have been thinking about my family and my pattern of relationships and I think I have some form of enmeshment issues which are affecting my current relationship. I absolutely adore the person I'm with but I become so entangled with them I almost BECOME them and as a result even a small thing they do has an amplified affect on me and my mood, causing hurdles in the relationship because then I feel like distancing myself to protect both of us. Has anyone had a similar experience? How did you deal/how do you suggest I deal?