got a cat recently and its been hard since i cant spend as much tome with my bf anymore. he called me on the way to her vet appointment and i kinda broke down about how im scarwd im not ready for her and that i feel pathetic because ive almost thought of rehoming her because im so sad me and him dont get to spend as muxh time together. he comforted me for a few minutes then hung up bc he said his mom was calling. he just got off work for context and he said on the phone i cojld come over and i was like maybe and we talked about it because i dont like leaving the cat by herself too long(my familys there but i dont want to make them take care of her either) and he was like while maybe dont come tonight but tomorrow and i was loke ok.  when he hung up i was still crying and he didnt text me for loke 20-30 minures and was like im with x u can still come if u want hope the appointment goes good and it sent me in a spiral bc i feel like he just ignored my breakdown on the phone. i know im being a little irrational  but the way i see it is if he called me and was obviously really upset about something i wouldnt take 30 minutes to answer and go hang out with someone i would make sure hes ok first and i dont know if its fair to hold hom to the same standard but my first thought was breaking up with him because i dont feel supported enough. am i being irrational?