I am not sure if it's alright to post this here, but hey here's my story and a question;  
  
I have recently met someone who I kinda really like. We are both people who are very open about our mental health and we've shared a lot with each other. I am personally not diagnosed with BPD, but have other mental health issues.  
She has told me that she had been diagnosed with BPD and that I should know that relationships with people who suffer from BPD can be very difficult.  
  
I told her that I don't mind, since I am alright with that and for me, that is not what defines her. I am ready for that and I am ready for hard times because honestly, she is and will be worth going through everything her illness will throw at me. I know I can't look into the future and know for sure, but if I can be there for her and help her fight, I will.  
  
What I wanted to ask from you, is if there is anything I should look out for or can do for her to make her feel comfortable and safe around me. That she doesn't need to worry about me and that I know that things might not always be easy, but that I will be there for her the whole way.  
  
How can I be a good partner for her?  
  
I am sorry if this is gibberish or doesn't make all that much sense, but I am going through a wave of anxiety right now. Not because of her, but generally. I have days where my hands just shake and my thoughts don't make sense.  
  
I am sorry if I bothered anyone with this, she just means a great deal for me.