I love my husband. But... I know he’s getting tired of dealing with “me” centered mental health ALL the time. I don’t realize how much everything is about me until he breaks and lets me know how he feels, then comes the guilt. I do have a fear of abandonment. But again, I know he’s frustrated and tired. He feels like he can’t talk to me about his own stressors because I somehow eventually turn it back to me. How do you not emotionally dump or vent about your day, your mental health, be honest about your emotions, etc. while being cognizant of others emotional needs as well? I feel like I’m failing at empathy and sensitivity for my husband.