I've been in weekly therapy for BPD for about 2.5 years now, and have done a few group therapy programs (not DBT based - ACT) but this is probably the one symptom I struggle the most with (maybe apart from feeling invalidated all the time). It's very frustrating to not really know what I really want out of life and to be able to just go for it and remain consistent in that passion. I watch other people with passions achieve goals through sheer perseverance and I'm jealous because my 'passions' change every so often. I feel as though I'm on a roulette wheel that gets spun every couple of weeks. I am aware of this change but feel powerless as to how to stop it. Anyone have any ideas?