So as a person who is not diagnosed with BPD but who is recovering from a breakup with someone who is, I've noticed a lot of people online talking about the transition from one relationship to another for the person suffering from BPD. In my relationship, my ex "moved on" almost immediately. I saw her in person about a month and a half after our breakup so that she could apologize in person (she lied about being abused, she cheated quite a bit) and when I asked her how she was able to just move on she just said she couldn't be alone. I know she doesn't speak for everyone, not even close, but I wonder, has anyone out there experienced something similar? And if so, what does it feel like to you as it's happening? It's hard for me to imagine myself being able to move on quickly.