Context. My wife was diagnosed with BPD years ago she never really seeked treatment and to be honest I dont think she fully understands her diagnoses. I genuinely feel like she has no control over her emotions and I know that isn't her fault. But I want to be able to sit down and talk to her about it without it turning into a fight. Because anything that goes against what she thinks or feels angers her. I love her and I'm terrified that its going to push us apart.  So please what is the best way I can approach the conversation with her.