Am feeling really overwhelmed because i work full time and do a lot in our shared household. He says i don’t appreciate what he does in the household because i didn’t complimented him twice when he did a part of the laundry. 
Instead of talking about it in person, he will wait a couple days and starts texting me about it while i’m at work when i can’t talk about bc i’m working.
I was a bit harsh with him bc i feel overwhelmed and now everything stupid between us.

I feel more like a care taker then his gf if i don’t wake him up he will be late if dont make his lunch he wont make any.

I can keep going i just feel lonely and hopeless i love him dearly but i i don’t know how to keep going forward i feel stuck.