So beside BPD, I have OCD which causes me to get super focused on one thing at a time (which could just be a symptom of the BPD itself) If I find a song I like I only listen to it over and over and nothing else and same with franchises and stuff like that, and so when I get attached to one person, I literally could not cheat on them if I wanted to because I get so focused and stuck on them. I met this guy (I'm a guy also) I feel like he has some BPD traits himself but one thing I see in him is that he just wants anybody paying attention to him, so as soon as I'm gone he is talking to other guys and says he doesn't want a phone bc he doesn't trust himself. Honestly makes me feel like shit, because if he's looking for just anyone to pay attention to him then I'm disposable and he only likes me for the attention. Where as with me, if anyone other than him pays attention to me it doesn't mean shit.

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I notice some people with BPD will go after literally anyone that pays attention to them where as with me I can only focus on one person at a time. Could mine just be from the OCD thing? I feel like that's where the favorite person comes into play tho, so is the seeking attention from anyone not not a bpd trait or is there just a variant?