My best friend and I, who mutually agree we are brothers, both have mental illness. He was diagnosed with bullimia (said its over now) and I have BPD. For two weeks in a row, he called/texted me daily (I was helping him out with stuff)- and then when I had a depresive episode, he said it concerned him and refused to let me come hangout with him- when I needed someone there- since I have no support. I have a therapist- and know thats not his job- and told him that. But yet- he said he wasnt feeling it and that triggered me. 

He bitches about communicating with me and my BPD so I offered to send him an article on good communication and his response was,"

"What’s up. That’s good you’re seeking alternative ways to work on communication. Thanks for offering, but I am not interested in reading either article. Hope you had a great weekend.

I then said, "I hope you have a great day, (name of person)

The main problem is I sent a lengthy message saying I was feeling less depressed and was excited to have fun- and he got mad because I had said that before and repeated myself. He started criticizing, etc.

However- he is a real friend. We had an argument- and i almost died after a surgical error- and he cried and stayed with me five days.

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Do I just let it go as I have with what I said? I wonder if he is actively bullimic- even though he said its over. He does have IBS. I don't 100% understand eating disorders, but told him I am there for him whenever.

He calls me "draining", yet when he has girlfriend issues or needs me, i always drop what i am doing to help him.

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How the hell do i fix this?