my boyfriend and i constantly argue about him not giving me enough attention, and him needing his own space. for the last few days, we went on trip where we were obviously around other people and we didn't have any alone time.

yesterday we finally had the house to ourselves, and i asked him for sex. he wasn't in the mood, so he told me no. my brain started telling me i'm not pretty and not valuable. it turned into an argument. he's beginning not to be able to stand me. i don't want to lose him.