My lecturer just threatened to kick people without a webcam out of the seminar. 

I'm super self conscious about my looks, my boyfriend is the only person I can talk to on webcam, with other people I get so insecure. I can't face staring at my own face the whole time and have other people look at me and judge me. It's different from a normal classroom because I can't just sit at the back, everyone is constantly staring straight at me, the mere thought of it scares me 

He thinks that "you can only have a fruitful discussion if you can see each other" - excuse me have you ever heard of discord? Phone calls?? What's the issue and how am I being a disturbance just because I won't let him judge my face? This lack of understanding makes me genuinely angry