I have a lovely partner. He is sweet and kind. He takes care of me when I’m sick. If I’m having a bad day he comes home with flowers and candy or canvases (I like to paint) or makes tea and watches my favorite movies. 

But for some reason I always find that something is falling short. He doesn’t ask me for sex enough. I express this to him, but he’s just got a lower libido than me I suppose. He compliments me, but then some days he doesn’t. He doesn’t kiss me often enough. He doesn’t ask me to cuddle with him enough. 


He does do these things, just not as often as I need. I’m beginning to think maybe I’m the problem? Does anyone else struggle with this?? How do I fix it? 

Part of me wants to just run away for a while and maybe that will make him miss me.