We all know that a lot of us have FPs who we hyper focus on and obsess over. But does anyone else also have LFP who you split on, hold resentment to, and obsess over in a negative way?

I've recently realized that I always have a FP, but I also always hate someone. There is always someone who I'm blaming my problems on, holding grudges against, and otherwise stressing over. Some days it's my mom. Some days it's my ex husband. But it's always there. I'm beginning to realize I always have someone in my life who I'm wildly in love with and wildly opposed to. I have both a FP and LFP.