I have a friend who I’ve been very close with for two years. We have the same hobbies and similar personalities. We also both share similar mental health journeys with anxiety and depression. When she is struggling with these issues she withdraws sometimes. It’s never been longer than 2–3 weeks and she always apologizes. A couple months ago she was in a bad place with anxiety in depression and I heard nothing for a couple months. This was so unlike her and really triggered my anxiety. I also have past trauma with being forgotten or left behind, which made it worse. Sometimes I would reach out once a day once or twice a day. She got back to me a month ago ( after a couple months) and apologized for not keeping in touch. Also that I overwhelmed her with reaching out often. I felt horrible and have given her space for almost two months. I haven’t heard anything and fear our friendship is over .