My boyfriend has BPD and I'm not sure what to do. He isn't being treated at all and it feels to me like mental illness is completely controlling his life. He is constantly depressed, disassociates a lot, has been suicidal, ect. I just tried to talk to him about getting help, but I'm afraid I fucked up. He hasn't responded to my texts for about 2 hours now and I'm really afraid. I have other mental illnesses but I don't have any diagnosed personality disorders and I'm afraid that I don't understand. I'm afraid that I'm accidently hurting him instead of helping. I love him so much. I just want him to be happy, and in control of his life. I'm so fucking worried right now.