I've been in a relationship with someone with quiet BPD for about 5 months. 

In terms of out relationship, I think things have been pretty good. She tells me that she's so happy around me, finds me attractive, loves talking, spending time with me, could see a future with me.. it's all going really well. I feel the same way. 

Recently, it's been a little rocky. She said lately she can't shake this feeling that she should end things - despite how happy she is with me as a partner. She isn't sure if that feeling is "right" or if she is self sabotaging the relationship. She says she wants to make things work but her brain "won't shut up"

We talked about things a bit. Agreed to stop thinking about the future and what could or couldn't happen, and try to focus on enjoying the relationship now. We agreed to take a break, as in, spend a few days apart to talk to other people and reflect. She's taken the first step in seeking treatment (DBT) so im proud of her for doing that. 

I really want this to work. I wish I did more research about quiet BPD early in the relationship. 

I was wondering if anyone with quiet BPD or dating someone with quiet BPD has any advice. I've been doing some reading, but I would love some input from the community here. 

Thank you