I went on a few dates with a guy in spring of this year. He was great and seemed very into me. I was living 2 hours away and he would drive to see me. We were supposed to go to the beach for a weekend and he stopped talking to me that week. Just never responded to a text or call again. It drove me insane and I had never been ghosted like that before. I texted him a few times that week begging him to just give me an explanation and that it was okay, but I needed some sort of closure. I texted him every couple of weeks for months just wanting an explanation. I never got one but was never aggressive towards him. It was just kind of pathetic. Probably overwhelming for him though and I am certain that he told his friends about it. I moved to his city recently and started seeing a guy that's in his military program. It's a pretty big program here and I would not expect that they would know each other. 

I've been on 3 dates with this guy and went out to a bar with him and his friends Saturday night. The guy that ghosted me all those months ago was there and hanging out with current guy's friends, but did not appear to notice me and I never saw him interact with my date. We separated from the group. I found out yesterday that my date was going to hang out with one of his friends from the night before. I have not heard from him since and I am pretty convinced the guy from months ago said something to that friend at the bar who told the guy I'm currently seeing. I had justified my excessive texting of the last guy because that's a shitty thing to do to anyone and I just wanted answers. However, I realize now how irrational it was and I am certain that the guy I'm currently seeing has been made aware of it. I'm pretty upset but it was completely my own fault