My sibling passed away this week, and my FP got pissed I bothered them while on holiday. It was something very unexpected, and she was young.  My FP has been quite and has not reached out once. I took the hint and backed off. 
I will respect their choice. At the same time I also I have a right to make my own. I'm just going to cut this off with no  explanation. Trying to have a discussion will get me nowhere, and honestly it's  manipulative to try to force someone to care. I'm also tired of being used. I know it's the right thing to do even if it means I'm going to be only for a little while. It just feels so awful rn. Can anyone relate ?