I'm so tired of my partner invalidating me...which he has literally admitted to me he does do sometimes. Mostly it happens if I express and emotion, opinion, a thought he doesn't like or agree with or somehow maybe feels I'm not entitled to feel or think, anyway he often will say things like "I'm not listening to you because you're splitting" etc in response to me having a feeling. 

It's really upsetting feeling like I can't express myself and my human emotions without it being dismissed and blamed on just me being a crazy bitch with BPD whose splitting and has ONLY erratic and OTT emotions.

And it just isn't accurate at all. I don't know what to do its hard when you love someone and you're addicted to them to feel so invalidated. 

I can't find any videos online about this anytime I search bpd and invalidation it's always about how pwBPD invalidate their partners (cos ofc we're the bad guys right?!)...

Anyway just wanted to vent and see if anyone relates.