So this guy I've been texting with who I'm about to meet the next days, we click sexually and that's how we got to know each other (Grindr), made me cry. He stepped out of the usual Daddy role, and said that my drug use and stuff was alarming, and that after our last sexting session he felt bad, because he was all about sex, and he could tell I was looking for security and tried to re-experience a safe childhood, and that he likes me, and that I have to find my way. And that he wants us to be "buddies", not "just" the CG/LL thing or fuck buddies, and that I should text him when I'm feeling down and shit.

So my question is.

What is his ulterior motive.

He could have fucked me without all that cheesy talk, so it has to be something else.