the pervasive idea that pwBPD cant have longterm healthy relationships is so stigmatizing and so wrong. ive had plenty of chaotic relationships but ive also been dating my bf for a year, been friends with my bff for 20 years, and have a number of friends from elementary school. AND I ONLY JUST GOT DIAGNOSED.

you know what the key to healthy relationships is? honest and compassionate communication from both parties involved.

when i have a conflict with my bf or bff i tell them in a non accusitory way and then we work through it together.

shits rough sometimes but pwBPD also love and care for others in such an incredibly deep way, i wish people would stop disregarding that.