Can anyone not stand bitter people? Recently I’ve had a lot of motivation to improve myself and this resulted in me making some more money than usual and stepping up my fitness level (I’m a senior in college). I worked hard and I’m proud but I’ve definitely noticed some changes in how I’m treated now. 

For example, my family members and close friends are usually my biggest supporters but as of recently, they’ve all been very bitter towards me (I assume due to the money and fitness). It just bothers me so much because I personally look up to people who make more money and are more fit than me. I’ve noticed a lot of “underhand” comments and overall passive aggressiveness. 

The worst part about all this though in my opinion is that I immediately notice the change. For example, let’s say I have a week where I don’t make as much money as usual. I notice that the bitterness goes away temporarily until I start earning again. I just can’t stand people like this. It’s always the ones who don’t work hard and are lazy. They walk around shitting on accomplished people just because they’re too lazy to do it themselves. Sometimes it makes me want to move out to be honest. 

Anyone else have similar experiences? How do you deal with it?