To summarize my dad is a very negative person who treated me like crap. I visited the family back home to get diagnosed with BPD and I did. But visiting my family I was having bpd episodes multiple times a day every day because the stress and such from my family. 

The reunion I didn't have a single episode! And I'm so proud I went from visiting my family and multiple. To go back to where I live now. I've had 1 episode 1. Since I visited last month.!