It’s so irritating how it works isn’t it? There are many women out there that I know I’d probably never get with and I base it on the fact that we may not have things in common. I could have a girl that is very confident, and given how I’m not as confident we wouldn’t gel together all that well. But whenever I come across a girl that relates with alot on my various conditions like say bpd and others, I always feel like it’s a really great chance to be able to start something there. We can both relate with each other through that. I have a friend that I went out with to have some lunch today. It was really nice and I learnt alot about her. Turns out we share so many insecurities that are all the exact same stuff. It makes her seem like my dream girl. Like we would just be perfect for each other. And yet even though we have so much in common, she still said that she doesn’t see me like that. It’s hard enough that, I’d never find my dream girl (I mean honestly who ever winds up with their dream girl these days anyways right) but if I come across a girl that I share so much in common with, and then she’s still just not into me like that, it seems like something really good that could’ve happened between her and I, that now just won’t. Makes me feel so miserable beyond words. I just wanna give up