Last week my girl friend with BPD went on a date to which she spent the entire time telling me how mean I am to her, how she thinks I am just using her etc. It got to the point, and I was super wasted, I just threw her drink in her face and left the bar and walked to a friends house. We didn't talk that Sunday, that Monday she gets home from dropping her kid off at school and come to the kitchen, where I am. She demands to hold my daughter, she was nursing so I said when she's done. I got up and left the room, she followed behind me into another room while Im carrying my one year old and nursing her. She takes out her phone to start recording the conversation. She starts by saying " You've been keeping my child from me" because the day prior my pwBPD laid in bed all day and the baby and I were in the living room but we were in the house together all day.

After her chasing me out of two rooms I just grabbed my keys to take my daughter to the park. When I walked out the door and closed it I realized that she had taken my house key off of the ring. Instead of engaging with her I just called the police and they got my key back and I left with my kid and went to the park, came back home not knowing that the officer told her I wouldn't come home at all that day. She acted super freaked out and scared of me. She printed out the paperwork for a restraining order (this happens a lot)  and when I left to go to a friends house for the rest of the day because I don't want her to not be this triggered, she left to fill them, well she left with it in her hand. She walks around the house making passive aggressive comments, slamming doors or if I say no to something she gets pissy as if I owe her it. Apparently she broke up with me but because she won't talk to me, I'm just supposed to assume this.

Fast forward to today, Ive tried talking to her several time but she just goes "Im scared of you leave me alone" and I asked if she wants me to leave she says "i have to deal with you to spend time with my daughter." Because I don't like her talking to me and her acting afraid of me, I don't want my kiddo to start to think I'm this scary person so since my kid was nursing I walked to another room.    


Im just trying to understand her right now