Has anybody found something that enables them to accept the hand they’ve been dealt? Maybe a religion or philosophy? Spirituality? 

I feel like if I found something that enabled me to suffer gracefully and accept it I’d be able to be much more effective in my day to day life and I’d have the resolve to carry on. 

I wouldn’t be so surprised every time I’m in pain. I’d just know that it’s what I’m here to do, to suffer. 

I know in Buddhism there are probably concepts that describe this and coming to the acceptance of it. 

Maybe that is where I should look. But I’m interested in others perspectives.