I am hoping to hear from anyone who has been successful in life despite having BPD.

I'm having a pretty rough few weeks. I am 22, and I am lucky enough to be in graduate school pursuing my dreams. I'm single (and happy about it) now, but I also hope to find a non-abusive boyfriend and maybe start a family in the future.
I feel that I have recovered for the most part, but part of me doubts that I could ever have a "normal" life with this diagnosis. 
Primarily, I'm afraid that if I were to ever be in a relationship, have kids, or become a mental health counselor that I will hurt people inadvertently because of my BPD. (I hope to go into psychology research but I may possibly work with patients in the future as well).


I want to fight this thing and prove that we can be successful. I normally refuse to let this disease define me, but lately I have been doubting myself, and losing morale. I want to know that people have been able to have a full life with BPD.