The mentions of his ex has built up and I went from thinking he was such a wonderful nice guy that I’d love to be with and now I think that even if he’s saying negative things, it still feels like he’s speaking of her too much and that’s he’s no longer worthy to put effort into and I’ve been giving him very short polite responses because I’m trying not to be rude or come off like a complete bitch. How can I work on this and get myself to go back to the other way? This splitting just started today and I don’t really care if he responds or not when yesterday I was anxious and upset because he took 4 hours to respond.