I recently got a job where I work away for up to 21 days. It's very hard on her and me. I took the job because it pays good and I'm familiar with the type of work. I have bills to pay, I have a mortgage and a car to pay off.

I talk to her as much as I can but I work 12 hour night shifts. I feel like it's driving a wedge in our relationship. I told her before leaving this time that I'd look for another job when I got back but couldn't promise that I would find one or get hired.

Tonight she is having an episode and I'm talking to her on FB messenger. She told me the usual, that no one cares about her and that she is worthless. I've tried to calm her down but now she's turned to me and is lashing out. She told me she is cutting herself tonight.

Can anybody give me some advice or point me in the direction of some?