So I am in an almost two year relationship with my partner and a few months ago I found things on his phone that made me feel uncomfortable (p*orn and leaked photos were in his google search) ever since then i’ve been extremely paranoid about anything my partner is doing on his phone or on social media.  And please no comments on how p*rn isn’t a big deal it is one of the boundaries me and my partner set. Fast forward to now he swears he will never do that again and as far as I know he hasn’t but idk. I hate that having bpd is making me act like this because I keep questioning my partner every single day and he’s beginning to get extremely annoyed with me and has even called me insecure which really hurt even though that’s definitely how I’ve been acting because i’m scared he will break my boundaries again or worse. Any tips on how to get out of my head and not be so paranoid about what he’s doing on his phone? Or any jealousy tips in general because my bpd has been making it super hard when I think every time my partner is away from me he’s doing something sus.