my friend texted me to ask if i could ask my other friends for a favor on his behalf. after a few minutes he called me and asked if i saw his message to which i responded yes, and that i had just stepped out of the shower. i had seen it right before he called. he then asked if i could then ask my friends for the favor, and i’m pretty sure i sighed and then said back, “yes (his name,) but you’ll have to give me a second.” after that he hung up on me without even saying goodbye, not even waiting for me to finish my sentence.

after some time he called me again, and i can’t remember what he called me for, but he hung up on me once again. i called him back to try to set a boundary with him about continuously hanging up on me. it’s something i’ve told that i don’t like before and i asked him to communicate with me before he hangs up so that i’m not left hanging. instead of hearing me out he started talking over me. his voice started to raise and he tried blaming it on how he’s been working all day and he’s tired, so i offered for us to talk about it once he was home since he was at work. he said that no, he wasn’t going to talk about it later or at all because it was a petty and stupid conversation. that’s when i decided to hang up on him instead.

i know i shouldn’t have hung up on him. he ended going off on me very disrespectfully over text. he kept calling me over and over as well, which is also something i’ve asked him to please stop multiple times. i decided that i didn’t want to take it anymore. i typed out a paragraph explaining how i tried to set a boundary with him and he refused to cooperate, how he belittled my feelings, and that i didn’t want to hang out with him for the time being because of it. i told him that i was then going to block his number because i wanted space to myself which he wasn’t respecting.

now that his number is blocked, he posted on his instagram about me and how he wants to die. i just miss having good times with my friend, but it feels like there never are good moments anymore. trying to always do the right thing with him but still getting lashed out at is very draining.

TL;DR: my friend hung up on me in the middle of our conversation on me twice, and when i asked him to stop he lashed out at me. i ended up blocking his number, and now he’s posting about me and how he wants to die because he’s all alone.