Hi everyone! 

Have a friend I suspect has BPD. She's 20 or so, and if you can imagine a traumatic experience, chances are she's been through it. Extremely abusive upbringing. Anyway. I have no clue how to help her or be a resource to her. She tried counseling for a while, and that helped but ultimately was way too triggering and she stopped. She's also on anti-anxiety meds, and works for a healthcare company that has really incredible benefits for wellness/mental health support. So there's some support. She's also in a long-term (1-2 years) mutually abusive relationship that she blames herself for, and struggles frequently with suicidal ideation and anxiety, and probably lots more that she hasn't told me about. 

Help, ideas, suggestions, thoughts, etc are all appreciated. Just stuck and unsure what to do at this point.