 

So my fiance and I are getting married in December. I absolutely *hate* Facebook, but I brought it back to look for wedding vendors, etc. Everything major has already been booked (DJ, wedding and reception venue, photographer, hair and makeup, etc). My mom is paying for everything minus the rehearsal dinner, which is fine. My mom asked me to look into videographers, so I did. (My fiance and I don't really care about having one, but I decided to look into it anyway, for my mom's sake.)

A family friend of my fiance's suggested her nephew, but he is waaaayyyy too expensive (his service is more than what our reception cost). She posted his page on my personal FB. So I politely told her that he is out of our budget...NBD. SO then some random lady (complete stranger) chimes in on the post and says "Quality is the most important. Flowers die, cake is eaten, your photos live forever to tell your story and family." Okay....and? I don't know you, why are you pushing this on me? Come to find out, it's the videographer's mom.

I commented back, "He is still out of our budget. The most important thing is that it is OUR day. We will be together, as one. I don't need a random stranger telling me how to run OUR wedding. But thanks."

I took it as "So if you choose someone else, your wedding will be shit. Who gives a fuck about flowers, cake, etc."

I am BEYOND tired of people I don't know (strangers, not family or close friends) putting their two cents in for our wedding. 

I know I overreact sometimes, but this shit just really gets under my skin.

**FYI: My FB** ***is*** **private. The family friend tagged me in a post about the videographers page, so my friends as well as hers can comment on it.**