My ex who has BPD is doing really good and i'm really happy for her. shes getting better and she realizes this and is receiving professional help. I'm going to be honest when i say i used to have  a negative outlook on BPD and i didn't think it could get better but let me tell you i was so so wrong. Things can get better and the belief that people with BPD cant is toxic and completely narrow minded. There are so many beautiful factors about people with BPD and my ex is an example of that. You are a good person who   deserves to be loved, happy, and experience everything that life has to offer. I wish you all the best and my ex all the happiness. (im sorry if i offended anyone in any way and if i did please tell me) 