A co worker/friend asked me (f24)to come over to his place to hangout with 3-4 other people that we work with. I consider him to be a friend but we aren’t super close or hang out often outside of work. They have invited me out sometimes before but I am in university so finding time is really hard. They one guy that is coming has teased me before about how I never come out with them (exaggeration) and how I always study and am busy. 

The co worker/friend that is hosting invited me and I was taken off guard and said yes without thinking. I have a midterm coming up in 4 days (2 days of which I work all day) and I am so underprepared I feel anxious. 

I feel even more anxious because I am a people pleaser and now feel bad about saying I can’t go anymore. I feel bad because a mix of that I already agreed and that I feel they will give me a hard time for not going. 

Thank you everyone!