So there’s at least one video on youtube that imo explains this thing well, Sam Vaknins ”borderline woman as dissociative secondary psychopath”. 

Basically there has been studies where BPD has been linked to psychopathy, and it looks like some of us are ”psychopaths with empathy”. And splitting is when we ”dissociate to the psychopathic part of ourselves” so to speak.

To me it would explain a lot actually. Many of us when can lack empathy, be cruel, emotionally or physically abusive, manipulative, aggressive, impulsive, etc when splitting.

Cluster B personality disorders overlap a lot, and i think some of us fit perfectly in the category of secondary psychopaths even if we have empathy when we are not splitting.

Thoughts about this? Triggering or interesting?