what can we do? vicious volatile mood swings, projections, wholly unpleasant. narcissistic, non reflective, judgmental manipulative, devious. been dealing with my MIL 8+ years and she’s getting worse. Today she literally stormed out di house suitcase in hand walking to town (6 miles away) she refuses counseling or outside help. at this point complete separation is the only thing that feels safe for our family. help?