I’m really sorry this is annoying or has been asked before. Im in a relationship that’s actually going pretty well. My partner is very healthy and gentle with me, it’s something I’m not used to. 
I mentioned in the beginning of dating that I have BPD. I’m not ashamed of it anymore and I always bring it up so someone can decide if they can handle it or not. I honestly just feel it’s fair at this point in my life. 

My partner and I recently were discussing our relationship, with how hard everything has been in life, my mental health has been slipping quite a lot. As a result, I’ve needed more reassurance and validation than ‘normal’. 

While they have done their own research and looked into BPD, I think we’re all aware of the misconceptions and misinformation that’s out there. Just the other night I googled BPD and a suggested search was “Can people with BPD truly love?”, and that was one of the more..kinder ones. 

That being said, my partner has been asking for articles or other material to help them understand the disorder. I’d really appreciate it if anyone could offer me healthy/unbiased material if possible! 

Videos, articles, even podcast episodes would work!

I’ve been looking myself but I find a lot of stuff demonizing folks who have it, sadly. 

I’m really happy my partner wants to learn and understand. I just want to help them. :) 
Much appreciated!