bpd gf and i planned a valentines day trip. had sex. we cuddled and she said she feels like shes at home.

next day, not even 12 hours later:
bpd gf randomly texts me deciding she "needs space" because she felt like we "moved to fast" and couldnt get the "sick feeling" out of feeling "trapped" with me. we agreed to take a step back, hit reset and act like we've been dating for 2 months, not 3 years.

this is day 1 of absolutely no contact as she takes her needed space to think about all of this, apparently.

could someone on this subreddit help me understand this bpd thought process? will she ever come back? shes moving down the street from me next weekend. hoping she really regrets this decision and realizes what went wrong was really, unfortunately, her fault.
