I'll keep this post as short and sweet as possible, but here's basically what's going on lately:

I [M/25]was diagnosed with having BPD traits earlier this year. I have struggled with my identity for a long time. I don't really know who "I" am as a person and it makes me feel very insecure and uncertain about myself. In a lot of ways, it makes me feel very empty.

I recently got out of a long term relationship (3 years, F/24) and definitely displayed some borderline traits while with her but I didn't quite recognize them until later. After our breakup, I've hooked up with two women within two weeks of each other. One didn't lead to sex (almost did) but the other was a first date and we had sex that night. I don't tend to do this as I usually take things slower but is being sexually promiscuous/easily attached to others a part of BPD? I constantly crave attention from other women but once I get I, I tend to open up very easily and latch on to the person extremely easy, almost too easy. I hooked up with this recent girl once and then we hung out a second time. She stayed the night and once she left in the morning, I've texted her and haven't heard anything from her/she's completely icing me out. I fear that it's my lack of identity/being too forward that's pushing her and potential future dates/women away. I guess I just fear that I won't be able to be with someone unless they're just like me and latch on to me super easily. I sound desperate which makes me feel extremely lousy. I guess this is part of the borderline but does anyone relate?

TL;DR: BPD making me feel insecure, latch on to almost near strangers, and feel like I have no sense of identity. Can anyone else relate?