Hey, so I have BPD but it's pretty well managed now but my main struggle is relationships. I have a huge fear of rejection or making things awkward. I met this guy a few months ago, we volunteer together once a week. Afterwards he drives me home (from where he lives to my home 20 minutes away). We get along really well, we have a similar sense of humour and seem to enjoy each others company. I lost a lot of weight in the last 3 years but I'm still kind of insecure about my looks and personality. 

We matched on a dating app but I'm not sure if it was just in a "friendly" way like OH A FRIEND ON A DATING APP GOTTA SWIPE" and we spoke for like 4 days on there. People we volunteer with say we would make a cute couple and joke about us dating. I don't know why it just kind of became a thing. I think he's really cute and love his personality from the jokes to the kindness. I mention he is autistic because he openly talks about that but I'm aware it can cause social issues, hence why I think he wouldn't ask me out if he liked me. I'm 27 I know I have the mentality of a teenager when it comes to dating because well besides online dating I don't know how to date. How to I take a chance and ask this guy if he'd like to go on a date or spend some time together and see how things go? I literally have no idea when it comes to this!