I know some of us like myself sometimes use sex as a way to feeel loved and my FP and I have always had the best sex but things have slowly just become unfeeling not on my end of course I'm feeling everything most of which is rejection and unloved/uncared for like just something to fuck because we've gotten so comfortable in our sex life and we're not "together" all of the affection is withheld from me and now I just get fucked not kissed or hugged or cuddled it started becoming infrequent and now it's just ceased all together it hurts and I just feel more and more detached and empty I've honestly gotten more affection care and comfort from fucking a relative stranger recently than the man I've known and loved for years it sucks but I'm starting to feel done like I have no hope to be seeen anymore like I have no fight left in me. (Also this has been a gradual process of loss of affection when I brought up my feelings on this previously his response is always "see that's why we shouldn't do this, you can't handle it." Like it's so difficult to show me affection that it's easier to just stop everything all together is such a shitty feeling... I'm pretty sure that was our last time I'm no secretly crying and just wish he would just hold me)