Hi I’m 16F and I’m not entirely sure if this is the right subreddit to post on but this is the best one I got. 

my favorite perosn is 16M recently broke up with his bf after the relationship became toxic and he has started coming to me when he’s upset or needs attention. At first I was over the moon because I was getting all the attention I had wanted but then I started to realize that the way I was thinking about him was starting to become unhealthy. If he took to long to respond To my text or canceled plans I would close myself off from everyone and freak out. But none of this was his fault it was entirely mine. I started to try and distance myself in order to try and fix this because i don’t want to loose him as a Freind until he started sending me long detailed texts about how much I mean to him and how much I affect his everyday life. He has started calling me in tears talking about how much he misses me and that he needs me and it’s just making me need him more. It’s causing me a lot of problems but I rely on him too much to leave and don’t know how to fix the situation. What should I do ????