Before my therapist brought it up, I didn’t even realize it was an option for me. I’m so used to everyone leaving me that I didn’t realize I could leave too. I’ll push away, but I never am the one to end things. The only relationship I’ve ever ended was cutting my dad out of my life. I’m at a crossroads. I gave my boyfriend an ultimatum. Not the manipulation kind, the “these are my boundaries and limitations” kind. I’ve been having anxiety for days hoping he chooses me, If he doesn’t, I’m not sure if I’m capable of ending things. He hasn’t said, but I think he believes that also. I gave him an ultimatum once before, and it didn’t go my way. He said it wasn’t fair to me that he couldn’t give me what I wanted and we should end it. I cried and begged for him not to leave. I’m worried the same will happen again.