I was diagnosed with BPD, and I know I have that. But these are the systoms of NPD, and I have 5 of them and now that I'm readng about npd it sounds a lot like me...

* Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)

* Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

* Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)

* Requires excessive admiration

* Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations

* Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends

* Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of othersIs often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her

* Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

I have no desier to change this, I'm not sure if I should tell my therapist about this or what?