im 20f so basically my bf (22) and i have been having issues for a while since hes been in college and long distance is hard, and my mental health has severely declined. basically a while ago we decided to talk about things and i told him how i was hurt that he doesnt compliment me, reassure me, or even facetime me and how unwanted i feel. i reminded him i literally had to beg him to come over during the summer and the whole time he was with me he was in a whole nother world. he told me its bc he feels disconnected from me. i feel disconnected from him too but not to the point where he is? he has his own mental health issues too and has depression but this is agonizing for me. nothing has changed since we talked and idk how we could fix it. what should i do? im literally restricting the love and affection i want to give him bc i know it wont be given back. i keep wanting to lash out on him and ask “why why why why dont you love me” you know stuff like that. im finding myself wanting to get attention in other ways bc im not getting any from him and i feel so unwanted.and every time we try to talk about stuff he just breaks down and tells me he can’t do this right now. i love this boy but this is absolutely excruciating, and im in DBT and trying to get better and its all i can think about. i have so much other stuff going on i cant focus on. i just dont know what to do. i have literally no clue what to do i could really use some advice