Hi,

Power dynamics play an important role in BPD relationships.

In a typical scenario a woman with BPD idealizes and lovebombs a man with NPD. The dynamic is : submissive woman - dominant man.

Then the BPD splits, devalues, and discards the NPD. The relationship gets less sexual until it completely stops.

At the end the power dynamics have shifted, the woman is more narcissistic and in charge, and the man more borderline and dependent, sort of.

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Has anyone here had the experience of playing with that new dynamic : dominant women - submissive man ? Towards the end of a relationship, or as a way to start it anew.

After all if the BPD likes to submit at first and the NPD likes to dominate, wouldn't it make sense at the end that the reverse could be true, if the BPD has become more narcissistic and the NPD more borderline ? Maybe depending on the individuals and whether they can embrace those parts in them.

Could it actually restore some kind of harmony, make the sex new and fun ?

Would all hell break lose once more anyways, because of the chaos inherent to BPD NPD relationships ?