What do I do when I have a mom who is neglectful? Emotionally. She gives me all sorts of THINGS. I have a room, which I pay rent for (I live at home), I have a phone, which I partially pay for, I have a place to stay and food, and transportation (though poor, the car is falling apart, I can't even hit the accelerator too hard without it dying). She says she's always been "a parent" but she's never really been a mom... whenever I have a problem, she says it's my fault, I'm looking for excuses, it's just my mindset. When she was pregnant with me, she went skiing and fell on her stomach. I approached her about this and she said "what, you think cuz I fell on my stomach you have brain damage? You're just looking for excuses" as if I haven't been hurting my entire life. Whenever I'm sad, she always asks why I didn't just do "said thing" like it's always so easy and obvious. She even said I'm lying about being suicidal because I "said I was over it" which may have been true at the time, but it's come back and she just dismisses it like everything else... I'm sad, and I'm heartbroken... I don't know what to do. I am seeing a therapist tomorrow, and I'll tell her all this as well. But as for long term, I just don't know what to do... I don't think I can live around her any longer. But I can't just move... and I have a life here... does anyone have any advice or help they could possibly give me? I need help...