I have hit rock bottom in life and planning to seek help as a last resort. I'm not covered under any government funding so paying out of pocket which is very expensive so I'm trying to pick out a person without trialing too many. 

I am depressed and also probably have other mental illnesses, or so my friends therapist thinks off of what she has heard of me.

However in my experience with people, when I say anything re my situation they give me the ol "just don't do it ez" or "we're not in Asia so those rules and expectations don't apply" which I find incredibly frustrating since if you come from a traditional family, you damn well know, traditions travel wherever you do lol.

One of my main issues that has caused my massive spiral is family related and any western friend I've told has been completely baffled and speechless while most of my Asian friends are more able to relate so now I'm wondering if I should look for an Asian therapist..

Also are there therapists that are not lgbtq friendly? I'm a bit worried as I wish to speak about other things related to that and don't wanna be judged or ridiculed for it. Like yes in theory, therapist are 'no judgement' but it's not like they would've quit being a therapist just coz they're not lgbtq friendly..