i am super new to this thread so sorry if someone has posted something like this before. but it is usually with people i develop new crushes on. for example, whenever i am waiting on a text from said new crush, and a family member or long time friend messages me instead i get vehemently angry and start to loathe whatever they’re saying to me because it’s not who i want to hear from in the moment. i know it’s unfair to that loved one and whenever they need me to be there i am there for them. but unless the new person is giving me just as much attention, i don’t feel like speaking to anyone else. it’s so so shitty