Hi guys. I have been talking with someone everyday and we are essentially in a relationship without the title.The more we hung out and talked they became my fp. I am dependent on them, I can’t go without talking to them and my mood depends on our conversation for the day. 
I kinda brought it up to them, how much I adore them and they suggested I find other people to essentially be my fp. They just don’t see why they are my fp and think its unnecessary and they are undeserving. 
I can’t control who I make my fp, it just happens. I can’t force myself to make someone else my fp because it doesn’f work like that. I am not sure what to do about this and it is affecting me a lot. Any advice?