''I have BPD I know exactly what it's like here are **my** symptoms''

Good for you but not everyone presents exactly like you do and there's 256 symptom combinations before even taking into account a potential second personality disorder

I hate ''I have bpd so I can speak for everyone with it'' No you can't you can't speak for me and how I experience it. 

Then they list shit I don't have like bpd rage or the way people usually cope with abandonment by trying to get the person to stay(I run first so I don't have to deal with the pain of abandonment and hurt again) so if I open my mouth I'm open for attack because people think this disorder is ironically, black and white and not complex and you have to have all 9 criteria instead of 5 and can't fathom how 2 people with bpd aren't exactly the same person.

I don't know of it's bpd making this 5x more triggering or if this shit is actually invalidating. I just really need to vent because if I see one more person say ''I have BPD so I can give a good example of everyone with it'' instead of ''I have BPD, I can give my own personal experience with it and know not everyone is just like me''. Is it so hard to understand that omg. I try to tell myself they're probably not meaning it in a bad way but it's still so UGHHHH