Hey friends :)

Hope you're all doing great!

I have been talking to a girl for around 2 months from Tinder.. 

So far, I have enjoyed getting to know her (mostly through text), but I am now at a point where I'm overthinking things. After a bit of a chat with a friend of mine, he pointed out I kind of rejected her attempt to invite me to her place. And instead I suggested somewhere public..

Please don't be too harsh on me, I've not got a bunch of dating experience. But..I'm not sure why I did that looking back on it. Maybe just if the vibe wasn't right I didn't want to feel trapped, or have her feel like she had to get rid of me. 

But everything actually went quite well - to my surprise. It's been 2 weeks and she has asked to see me tomorrow (We both work full time and she has children) 

Now I'm kind of getting anxiety due to not really knowing what she's expecting. It's been 3 years since I got laid. And a few not so compatible dates. So safe to say my confidence in myself and OLD is quite low atm.

To add I think her ex was abusive so I'm also anxious about setting off any of her potential triggers.. like.. to the point where maybe I'm coming off as not interested

Would you find it weird if you wanted to sleep with a guy and he wanted to get to know you better first?

I'm a bit tipsy and it's 4am for me so I'm sorry for the rambling.