Seriously, if you go out of your comfort zone socially and make a mistake, it's not that huge a deal. It's embarrassing  and will feel awful for the moment, but that's about it. Your life most likely will not fall apart or anything. 

Make a big mistake at work and get fired, bam, your whole life is fucked. Say you're living paycheck to paycheck like me. I could lose my car, my apartment, my ability to feed myself, all within a few weeks unless I find a new job. 

In case you haven't guessed, I'm having a rough day 😮‍💨