So I have a sort of "friends-with-benefits" relationship with this guy. It has helped him a lot with intimacy issues and I tend to keep sex and romantic love separated, so everything well. The last year I fell hard for him, but I got over it and now we are really good friends.

Thing is, my mother and sister insist that we are going to end up together. And those comments trigger strong feelings of attraction. I don't normally feel them, but their insisting sends me spiraling down into a strong...I dunno, infatuation?

Note, he has stated that he doesn't want a relationship, because he doesn't want to end bad and stop talking to each other.