Throwaway just cuz I didn't want to attach this to my main as I'm a bit embarrassed. 

I (21 F) have been low-key anxious for as long as I can remember, and was officially diagnosed 2 years ago w/ GAD.

I've never been able to orgasm before, even through masturbation. I'm now in a long term relationship for the first time - I think the Anxiety is getting in my head, keeping me from fully enjoying sex. I think I get really tense when it comes to penetration, making that difficult, and even when receiving, I can't get myself in the moment. Now I'm nervous about sex because I feel bad for my partner (they have assured me we can ease into it ;-;) and, paradoxically, get anxious I can't orgasm.

Is this connected to my anxiety? I've recently connected to a therapist and psychiatrist, and haven't fully brought up this issue (always been kinda nervous/repressed about sex - don't seem to care about it as much as other people.)

However, they recommended I try meds in tandem with the therapy, and I've seen so many horror stories about becoming dependent on them and them killing sex drive/making it hard to orgasm. Considering I can already not orgasm, will this help by calming the anxiety, or make it that I straight up can never have that?

Any experiences with things like this?