I am a 23 year old woman with borderline personality disorder. I've always been very close to her and ever since I moved out of the house and she divorced my dad. I've been trying to set boundries with her, particularly about my father. She isn't taking it well at all. I have been kind of an enabler for her by acting like her therapist. I have severe anxiety around her being upset because of numerous suicide attempts but I feel like I can't do this anymore. I love her more than anything and repeatedly tell her I love her and am not going to leave her but it doesn't seem to help. My therapist has been helping me but its been taking a huge toll on me. I don't know what to do to make this any easier for her or if I even can.