Because of my BPD I used to be extremely insecure when it came to my s/o and other people, but I have improved so much. I can now watch movies with pretty girls in them without feeling unattractive. I can compliment girls in front of him, and show him pics of pretty girls and not feel insecure. Can I just say that is feels so good, and less stressful and even though it feels impossible to get over little things like that it really is possible! I just wanted a place I could talk about this and not be criticized because other people would probably think those are dumb things to be upset about, but they were such a huge obstacle for me.