I have just met a woman who also has bpd and we are hitting it off nicely.  When the bpd convo started up, and i learned she also had it, i backed my advancements down a touch, even though i felt like i was getting the go ahead.  

We are still going to see each other in a few days and all is well; i simply made a choice to not try to kiss her or anything that night, instead choosing to think it over a bit.  I feel like maybe another borderline might be the best choice for a mate, especially since we both are doing the work with therapy.

Anyway:  what does anybody think about that?