So recently I've started to go through the evaluation to be able to do DBT, and the way she described things it sounded like they're going to try to make me not idolize and adore my boyfriend (FP).

I see lots of peiple celebrating of not having an FP for x amount of time but, I don't want that? Neither me or my bf finds the FP aspect of our relationship as a problem and it's mainly a positive thing because I manage my obsession quite well and do everything I can to not ever be codependent.

I don't want to adore him any less. Is that really such a wrong thing?