Wow. Does anyone have any positive comments on long-term relationships. I am currently 23, in the best relationship I’ve ever been in my life, I don’t want to lose my person. But I feel with everyone I’m doing I am pushing him away. Today was the first time in months I felt harmed again, to cope. I feel more self aware than ever but this is so hard for me. What can I do to chnage how things are going. I’ve tried therapy and it doesn’t work for me. Maybe it does, but the amount of shirty “therapists” I’ve gotten have caused me to be done with that route, plus the meds route cus ssris haven’t done shit for me. Please help me. I am at my wits end. If I can’t make this work with this man, whom I love with my whole life, I don’t know what I’ll do. I’m done