I (24) have been dealing with identity and perception issues for as long as I can remember. I feel that I have no emotions or constant, discernible traits and they fluctuate around people. I also have a very deep fear of people perceiving my traits, actions, or other details about me. For example, if someone mentions that I enjoy a song a lot without me explicitly telling them, it gives me very intense anxiety. 

My therapist and psychiatrist currently have told me this is due to being diagnosed with bipolar. I don’t know how to explain it but this is a different feeling that is very distressing. My current psychiatrist says that he wants to “revisit” my BPD diagnosis from my past therapist because he thinks all of my issues are mostly bipolar.