He bothered me for the longest time to get a job, and I did, and I found a job that I really really like. So I scheduled myself for as much work as I could (which at this point only weekends because of school)
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So he told me yesterday that there's some type of senior day at church on Sunday May 2nd. He knows I don't like going to church, which is one of the reasons why I schedule work on Sundays. So I told him I'd put in a shift change request and if someone took it I'd go. Well now he decided to tell the preacher that I'm gonna be there, then he told me that I'll be kn trouble if I don't make it. He didn't tell the guy, "he's gonna try to make it but it'll be hard" or "he has to talk with his manager first" or anything else. He said "he's gonna be there"
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Which even if I wasn't working would make me mad, but now if nobody takes this shift trade I'm in a gigantic bind. And he doesn't care. He volunteered my time for me without talking to me and now he's saying he's gonna get mad if I'm not there.
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So now if I don't get this shift trade I either have to get fired from my job or not show up for this thing, which I'm assuming they're gonna call my name and have me walk across the stage since he had to tell the guy whether I'm gonna be there or not. I already know that I'm gonna go to work if those are my options, which will be dissapointing for the people at the church but it's not my fault.
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All of this could have been avoided if he just had an ounce of respect for me or my time. Adults should have conversations about stuff like this. Not just "you need to be at this place I volunteered you for or you're in trouble"
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I know I shouldn't feel bad about missing the church thing, but it will bother me forever if people are expecting me to be there and I can't get there