Can someone with bpd please explain this. Sometimes my partner goes through phases he is so loving supportive kind and amazing for like a week.. he csnt get enough of me kisses me tells me how much he loves me. Then he will have an episode and then just be horrible for ages distant unloving say hurtful things. Feel like walking on eggshells constantly. Then when I feel like I've had enough he will go back to being extremely loving. It's so hard to deal with. Love him to bits but I hate him when hes horrible to me.