Im 43..  I made a decision at about 8 yrs old that I would not reproduce.  This world is unfathomably horrible.  A friend of mine recently had a baby..  It was a goal of hers to have a big family.  I'm vexed.  I want to wish her and her baby well, but I just see the sweet little baby and feel so sad for him.  I want to cuss her for bringing this unknowing soul in to a world of misery. ..  Any insight?