Just some context, my girlfriend and I are both 23, shes had mental problems before which led to her self harming and failed attempts before our relationship, were medium distance so we see each other maybe once a week and I'm sorry if my post is all over the place I'm not used to this.

So I've been with my girlfriend for just under 2 years and I've always known that she's had mental problems in the past and has dealt with it in an unhealthy way but she has gotten over a lot of that until recently.

Her parents seem to be the source of her problems. They used to abuse her when she was younger and bully her in awful ways. Their relationship has improved and a lot of what was said and done was forgiven and they promised to change after all that.

So now on to present day, lately the parents have been going back to the old ways and making her feel awful and bullying her and saying some of the worst things and even when she comes to them with problems they usually always make it about themselves so she has no support system other than me.They won't offer her anything in the way of help and are pretty much forcing her to go back on old medication which made her feel so numb which she came off of recently. I've never seen her smile so much since she's been off that medication.

The past few days communication has been really bad between my gf and her parents but it seems like she has given up on them but they seem to have made very little efforts, nothing substantial but just little things like offering food or at least trying to be civil which is a start. She turns down any effort coming from them out of pure pettiness now. They have been awful to her for the majority of her life but she can't even try to civil anymore.

I feel if she wants to make any improvements she should just try to be civil and not petty but honestly her parents are not the greatest people. I've offered to her to come live with me cause I feel shes unsafe with them but she refuses. All I want to do is help because I love her so much and she means everything to me but the last few weeks every conversation we have is all about how unwell she feels there and how awful her parents. There's no room for our relationship at the moment with all this going on and with the conversation being very depressing it's getting to me and I feel I'm starting to be unwell myself. 

I suppose I'm just asking for some advice on maybe helping someone with these kind of issues or even just for someone to tell me it'll be okay. Appreciate any response.