First of all: I don't know what flair to use I just want to tell this story.
I know that a lot of people with BPD have a problem when other people get mad or sad about small things (I have this problem as well). 
One day a friend of mine called me and "cried" about having a crush at someone. Than she said "damn, my life is shitty. I mean not as shitty as yours... you know what I mean... sorry...". I have so many mixed feelings.
I mean, how dare she but on the other hand, thanks for acknowledging that your struggles aren't that bad compared to mine...
But mostly I think it's funny