I will be calling my child’s doctor tomorrow, but I’m wondering if she has anxiety. Here are a few things she just told me, feel free to ask questions. 
-she’s 14, has an older brother (15), has a good relationship with him. Not overly close/best friends, but they share friends a lot so hang out in groups and enjoy each others company
-her dad and I divorced when she was 6. Fairly amicable, but he displays traits that are definitely consistent with narcissism and she has to see him every other weekend.  
-she has a very difficult time falling asleep most nights. Drinks no caffeine, eats a mostly healthy diet, is a healthy weight and she plays a competitive sport. She said when she tries to fall asleep she sometimes has visual hallucinations that get more vivid when she closes her eyes, so she tries to keep her eyes open as long as possible. 
-sometimes has tactile hallucinations during the day, like someone is tapping on her arms. Not sure if this is on days that she is sleep deprived or not
-has feelings of certain areas of the house being more safe than other areas. We just moved to this house a month ago, and she seems to love the house, had a part in choosing the house and chose her bedroom. It’s in a very safe, quiet area, so “should” feel safe all around. The areas that feel more unsafe are the areas with the most visibility to the street, ie windows that don’t have blinds or curtains yet. 
- I read a few posts and someone mentioned sighing and taking deep breaths  a lot. She does this, some times more than others, and has for several years. 
-is in honors classes and gets A’s and B’s. Her sport is more for fun, she does not plan to play in college and may not next season, even. She told me this and I fully support her, and she has always known that she can choose not to do it the next year.