I'm almost 40 and just got my diagnosis approximately 1.5 years ago. I did a year of DBT before I was ever diagnosed. My mental health professionals all tell me how self aware I am. I find the whole "FP" concept to be creepy and unrelateable. And that no one GAF what I post in here. 


Also, it's like my help almost never helps. It feels like people ask questions but they actually want validation, not the help they are asking for. Anyone else feel similar in any way? 


Kinda thinking about making a self aware BPDs sub, for people who take responsibility for their behaviour, and are committed to self improvement.