So I'll start this right out and say I fucked up. Recently my FP broke up with me and I've been being an udiot and trying to reach out to them and spam them with messages because my impulse control is nonexistent. She is on reddit and has been posting on BODLO. She just posted screenshots of a small snippet of our conversation to the sub. She has BPD as well, and I've asked her multiple times and informed her how that sub functions. I understand seeking validation and honestly she has every right to be angry. I've been posting anonymously venting about things myself because in my eyes it's more complicated than what it is. It always is honestly. She has asked me to stop. I have asked her to stop. Now, let me be clear. I am not villainizing or invalidating at all. I'm just so..-idk I can't put a name on the teeling- that she would post screenshots.