Hi! I'm a 20F with a history of depression and anxiety. For my entire life, I have had abandonment issues, and I am gradually learning how to cope with my fear. However, I often feel like my SO of ~4 years is going to leave me, despite a complete lack of evidence and frequent reassurance. My fear can be so crippling that I obsess over this situation for days at a time, becoming depressed, irritable, and closed off. I usually go through this when he has been hanging out with other people or if I believe I have irritated/upset him in some way, which usually isn't the case. He's so supportive and always respects my feelings, but I could understand how this is a lot for him to handle. I want to hear your stories! Hopefully, I can work up the courage to speak to my therapist about my suspicions and work on the skills I need to maintain a healthy relationship with myself and my connections with others.