the past few days i have been splitting on my boyfriend really hard and since he has some issues with communication, i get really frustrated trying to get him to answer me. my most persistent problems are splitting and irritability, and it would be fine if my boyfriend just saw it as my bpd acting up (not using it as an excuse, but i have explained that that might happen), but he is really sensitive so sometimes i snap at him and we end up both crying because i don't want to hurt him and i hate getting annoyed at him and he is afraid i get tired of him for being so sensitive. how the fuck do people make this work? can anyone share some coping skills with irritability?