I'm lost and don't really know what/how to handle this, My name ash, I'm  20 year old (uk) and have crohn's. Ive had this ever since I was 9. Cause I've was very young when i got ill, i missed out alot of school so, I learn stuff slower then the average kid and my mum hasn't helped either. she drinks and have been for a while. its getting annoying and i can't handle it. if she has no money she expect me or anyone that has money. i literally can't save cause she there. she try to take my card while i was half sleep or straight up wake me up asking for money. I feel like i have to cause if not she just have a mood and talk shit about me. cause she knows ain't fully able to complete tasks and knows i hate talking on the phone when it come to doctors, she uses that against me. I'm getting disability allowances and she getting in her account and im barely getting any. not even half oh cause she gone's on about me paid bills and stuff. I have two cats which i do my best and get as much as i can, not gonna lie she do 'helped' out. but with money money mostly. idk what to do, i wanna move or leave and tryin on my own but with my heath condition its hard. what should i do / what other people who in the same or similar situation.