I had a conversation with him on the phone he downplays my concerns or makes me feel guilty because he says how much he’s done for me and how I’m being selfish for bringing up my concern when he’s going through a hard time. I just feel like I’m making a big deal out of everything now but this person has hurt me a lot. Now I just feel anxious because I have to see him again all the time we have mutual friends and now I feel so guilty and bad about it too