my bpd is ruining my relationship and i have no idea how to stop it or fix it. 
im so codependent, over emotional, overthink and overanalyze EVERYTHING. i mean literally EVERYTHING. if my spouse blinks in a way she never has before, i promise i will overthink it and stew on it for days. im obsessive and possessive, emotionally attached like honestly conjoined at this point. i can’t exist without her and i get offended when she says she’s capable of existing without me (like to be a person in her own time) i do things to and for her that i wish she would do to and for me and get mad at her when she doesn’t even when i dont say anything about it because i just assumed that me doing it means she will pick up on the fact i want it too. i trust her 100% and then lose my trust at the snap of a finger the second i start overthinking anything. but i KNOW i trust her. and i know my irrational fears are just that; irrational. i get upset about everything and push her away and then get upset when she doesn’t try to chase after me. her mood dictates my mood for the entire day which isnt fair to her because if she is upset, then im upset and then it becomes towards her even when she hasn’t done anything. she is my Favorite Person. literally and medically and im ruinging this more and more everyday. we have been together over two years and seven months and married for over one month. i cant lose her. i love her and i know she loves me. what do i do?? she knows my mind is like this but we both forget in the moment.