So I’m in my first real relationship and it’s been so much more difficult for me than I’d ever have imagined. 

I was curious if anyone had any advice for dealing with your BPD while in something serious?

Therapy helped but it’s expensive. When I talked to my therapist about all my concerns we came to the same conclusion - that he wasn’t doing anything wrong. 

I don’t want to drive him away and I’ve already put him through so much shit I feel like eventually he will have the final straw and I’ll have caused the whole thing to sink via making my own worst fears come true.

How do you find clarity? How do you hold back your anger? How do you have successful talks with your partner when you’re not feeling loved without seeming needy all the time?

