...I think I was too much for them too soon. Things started off fast and heavy but we both really liked eachother and then it’s like BOOM over night he was wayyy distant. My friends are saying I moved too fast, but he did too! He told me he really really liked me and even through the term boyfriend around.
I think maybe there’s an ex back in his life but I’m not totally sure. He seemed really distant and bailed on a bunch of plans we had so I basically just asked him what was going on and he said “he had a lot on his mind and wasn’t mentally ready to be with anyone right now.”

But of course, my BPD is not allowing that to be an acceptable answer and I want to know if it was something that I did specifically. Like it’s driving me insane. 

Should I ask? Or no? That looks crazy right? I genuinely want to know so I don’t do it again to the next potential person, but I also don’t want him to be like wtf why is she still asking about this.
Help I’m sad and confused 😔