I am currently 22 and was diagnosed with BPD over a year ago. Getting this diagnosis was one of the best and worst things of my life. Like everything makes sense but it sucks still. When I got diagnosed I told my one of my best friends about it as she was struggling with getting an ADHD diagnosis at the time. Ever since I ever let her know about my diagnosis she has repeatedly told me that she thinks she might have BPD now too. I immediately didn’t feel good and didn’t really reply because in my opinion I don’t think she has it. Part of me wants to believe her and feels like I’m just gatekeeping BPD. But I really do not believe she has it and she will send me bpd TikToks or just message me randomly about how she felt a certain feeling and that makes her think she has BPD even more, and it’s always never relatable for me, and never even sounds like BPD. Every time she ever says things to me about it I just do not reply. I have told her to go talk to her psychiatrist but she has not. It just feels like she’s copying me and I really don’t know what to do. When she sends me those things I get very upset and angry and do not answer her and she continues to do it, because I haven’t let her know I don’t like when she does it. She’s my best friend and I don’t want to invalidate her feelings but it just doesn’t sit right with me.