I'm 20[Nonbinary] and I until a few months ago thought I was bisexual. I have dated guys I genuinely thought I was in love with, but recently I've discovered I'm actually a lesbian?? I'm not attracted to men at all but my FPs tend to be men because of my need for male validation.

And yet! Sometimes I'll still be like "no no I think I actually do like men" in moments of insecurity. Or I'll know a guy friend likes me and I'll convince myself I like him too because I know he'll give me more attention. But I'm not into men? At all?

Anyone else feel this? Am I the only one?