
We've been dating for 7 months. And  I realized that I'm indirectly pressuring him in our relationship which made him feel that he's a shitty boyfriend because of his mistakes and inability to showcase his love that made me question whether he is being genuine.

I've been crying for days, regretting my actions which resulted into him spiralling into sadness.

I didn't know that his depression was severe until I kept on questioning him for days if he was doing okay.
And I am thankful that he became honest with me despite being reluctant at first because he didn't want to dump his emotions at me.

According to what he said:
-He feels like he doesn't deserve me and I will leave him for good. (We've been having talks before about separating due to our misunderstandings) 

-He feels like he is a burden to his family because he doesn't have any major contributions since he is still studying at college.

-He thinks he is a hopeless case because he is a lazy person ever since he was young and he doesn't do anything to change himself especially knowing the fact that he's struggling with his body image.

-I tried asking him if he considered undergoing into a therapy and he said that it won't work on him (useless) and its just a waste of money since he's just a nobody.

-He has the urge and is ready to die/attempt suicide again but he's holding on.


And so I really want to do my part by helping him even though I know that his depression is slowly eating me emotionally especially when I'm also struggling with my personal problems. What should I do? I really want him to feel better and I don't want to leave him all alone. I'm sad that my reassurances for him are not working.

Do you think I should tell his sister? I think someone from his family should know especially when he is at risk for suicide. He respects and trusts his older sister a lot. Plus, his sister is a Registered Nurse so I know she will understand if I tell her. 

Thank you so much! Your replies would help so much right now.
Please help me and my boyfriend.