Hey everyone. I'll cut to the chase. At the beginning of December, me and a big group of my friends made a lot of plans to do all these different things together as my LDR boyfriend is here over Christmas and we wanted to show him around. Stuff like going to the movies, bowling, lasertag etc. We planned it to fit around everyone's schedules and stuff and they all seemed really excited. 

When the actual events came around almost everyone ignored me or gave me really loose excuses, only four of about twenty people turned up to each event. I was upset at that because even the main people I planned it with hadn't been letting me know they weren't going to come. 

Then last night I found out that ALL of my friends got together for New Years without even telling me, and when I asked why I wasn't invited, I was told I "wouldnt have liked it" because it was a bit more relaxed. I have no idea what that means because I really enjoyed hanging out with them, even when we weren't doing much. 

Tl;Dr my friends ignored me and cancelled our plans for a month and then all got together for new years without me. Have I actually been abandoned or am I overreacting? I feel like I've lost the majority of my friends in the space of a few weeks