I'm the friend of someone with BPD. I got very close to them very rapidly, which seems to be a thing for yall. So for context, I'm someone who know's their complicated situation more than most. I also happen to have ADHD (shout out r/ADHD) and have a little bit of experience working with the suicidal and majorly mentally ill. I know enough to be dangerous no pun intended. lol.

Anyway, what have your friends done that's helped. The things intentional, unintentional, big, or small that help you out. 



Everyone has told me I'm not responsible for their life, and I'm coming around to accept that. You guys can be pretty shitty friends sometimes, and it can hurt a lot... But there's a reason we became friends, I like them, they're really a good person, and because of that choose to keep them around.



