I find him uncooperative to all suggestions I provide. I know its probably his MDD messing him up but I its very difficult to help him if he cant help himself. He lost his job already, and is now at the risk of losing his home, since he cant pay rent. He has kids depending on him. He is taking meds but not doing theraphy. Unfortunately, most therapists are fully booked where we are plus he also cannot afford it. He does not seem to want to do anything even clean up after himself. He can however, still stay up all day watching Netflix. I feel helpless because I think he can still turn things around if he would just be functional. 

Are there other ways to get out of this rut without professional help? What are the things I can say or offer to him to get him get started on his feet again?