My family thinks I am such a spoiled brat. They say I have everything I need, my family helps me with my rent and education and that’s so much. I am so grateful. I have so much more than so many people and i have so much privilege for that. But in reality I am so poor. I have -85 dollars in my account at this moment and can’t even afford gas. My grandparents have everything, and my male brothers live in luxury, no expenses, they have millions. And I just suffer, my husband and I have nothing, we would be homeless if we didn’t have help with rent. My brothers get so much. They still live at my parents 2.5 million house and they have no jobs, one is young, only 17 so I totally understand. But my older brother is 24 years old, my grandfather adores him and pays for whatever he wants. He has no job and just goes to school after four years off after just playing video games. I have to work a physically demanding job that cuts me to my bone while also having a full school work load. I am exhausted and feel like I can barely do this anymore. I have no money but everyone says I have so much and I should not complain. But in reality I have nothing that is actually mine, I walk other peoples dogs and scoop their shit for a living. I literally have a shit bucket in my car that I put dog poop in, the funniest thing is that my family makes fun of it. I enjoy it but it is humiliating, people make fun of me for scooping yards and having to put the poop in the back of my car. I love working with dogs but it is so exhausting in Florida heat that I am barely alive after my shift. I make less than 1000 a month, which at this point, is nothing. My family is rich but my husband and I are scraping by. But everyone says since you’re family is rich so are you, so you have no sympathy. And my family says you have to work for your money, while both of my brothers are coddled and showered with money. While my sister and I have to work physically demanding jobs for a living. I’m so sorry to say in the face of white men, but people only care about you if you are a white man. Including your family members. My grandfather only cares about my white make brothers, my sisters and I are afterthoughts.