My little brother who is now 16 has been self mutilating and doing drugs besides weed. This kid has more responsibility than a 16 year old should on top of our families generational trauma and has been self mutilating and doing percs , he smokes a lot of week but I don’t give him shit for that because he needs something to get thru. But he’s been documenting his self mutilating on his phone and taking pictures of himself all blitzed and we are getting worried that the next step is gonna be him taking his life. I want to pay for him to go to therapy once a week but he doesn’t wanna go. How do you help a kid that needs it but doesn’t want it. I try to calmly lovingly talk to him about it but he just gets short and it doesn’t go anywhere. Whoever has some advice it would be very appreciated