I’m in the process of possibly getting diagnosed with bpd after talking to my psychiatrist about symptoms that I didn’t feel like fit with anxiety or depression. I have 6/9 symptoms and uncontrollable anger was not one of them. I’ve been trying to read up on bpd from different sources and everything I find talks about dealing with the anger. I’m not an angry person and it almost feels disheartening to see the entire diagnosis be whittled down to one symptom. Is there anyone else who doesn’t have anger as one of their symptoms or feels upset over the sources on bpd? 

I feel so alone and I don’t know anyone else with bpd, I just need healthy resources and more information.