Its also a bit weird. I told my friends last night and i have a friend who has a lot of mental struggles with  adhd and autism and they project onto me a lot.  I told them and my other friends yesterday  and its not like life changing for me i knew for a long time and i finally got diagnosed yesterday and the psychiatrist  told me that i was very right in my thought that it is very much bpd. And my boyfriend was there with me and we asked if i could also have adhd but the psych said that maybe but its more borderline than adhd beacuse for me it all emotion based. Anyways i told my friends last night and one of my friends practically dismissed it but then tried to save it but they pretty much made it about themselves in a sense. I said i officially have  bpd and then the first thing they said was i think its still adhd because you can have emotional disregulation there and then went on a 5 min defense rant before i could even speak.  They said thats their opinion based on what theyve experienced with me socially. I dont really have my breakdowns infront of anyone except my boyfriend so i dont think their opinion is valid. I could also have adhd but thats besides the point. I just dont like it when people project onto me because of their own shit. And it didnt bother me that much yesterday but now that the day has passed i feel a bit more about it. Its not like they did it to unvalidate my experience but even on their rant they lliterally started talking about their diagnosis but in a bit covered sense but it was onviously about them and not me. Anyone experience this type of things when they say they have it?