My partner and I have been having issues with sex for a while because of circumstances. It used to not bother me that he got off, but for some reason now it does. I can’t describe the feeling I get in my stomach when he says he’s gonna go do it or I know he’s doing it. It fills me with such anxiety and shame. Our sex life honestly sucks right now and I know I cant give him exactly what he wants. I’m so insecure about everything. How do I deal with this?? I’ve been having these feelings for probably 8 months now and I can’t handle it anymore. I know feeling threatened by something like that is wrong and I feel so guilty for feeling this way. I’m very self aware of my irrationality but that doesn’t stop my body from going into a mild panic attack. I try to remind myself that it’s irrational and doesn’t matter but it still does to me and I’m just so fucking tired. He knows I feel this way but that doesn’t matter because it’s not his job to fix what’s wrong with me. Please help me figure out a way to cope with this