I’ve had this happen to me on a few occasions. I’m trying to evaluate that behavior because I don’t comprehend it. It makes me just not talk to that person anymore. Not talking causes a new problem though: that person will continue to speak to me. This will then cause me to not answer *anything* the person says to me because I want you to understand how I feel. Then I get labelled the “rude person”. 

What am I missing?