So I have had two fp for the last few years. I've recently realised that they don't really care about me. They both have their own issues which I fully understand and always help, but I feel like I'm forever taking on their problems, they seem to appreciate it but whenever I am going through my own shit they disappear. One of them never invites me to do anything they do with their other friends but complains when I don't invite them to do whatever I'm doing. And the other owes me money but hasn't contacted me.. I messaged this person but their phone was "broken" but they have contacted people I know. Am I just being used as a doormat? Or am I being dramatic and over thinking all of it?