First and foremost. He will REFUSE help. There’s no sitting and talking down calmly, zero. He will blow away all your advice and just bring up how his life sucks. There’s no therapy because he refuses it. His happy pills don’t work. He excludes himself from the world and refuses any possible help.

Little dad backstory. Grew up dirt poor in a racist family. All failures who blame Mexicans and blacks on their failures. He pretty much was a failure as well always having crappy jobs that make people crazy unhappy to work for.

He is slightly racist, complains a lot. He always does a poor me and thinks the world is against him. How everything in life is getting worse and worse

Crazy religious. But his sister drives him like that. His God however hates gays and job stealers.

So now an event that sparks insanity 

Lost my special needs sister died after finally hitting 18 years. Drove my dad mad cry for a year. 

Sister a failure sort of is knocked up twice by different guys. Dad blows up how it’s against religion to not wait until you’re fully divorced how god is mad etc.

Mom so so on the success. But she has gained fortune of winning big money. She is happier. She is more outgoing. He hates all of that. 

Dad makes up dozens of fake stories. One of which is my mom only wakes up early because she’s cheating. How he’s prepared to fight another man because he knows.

He always wants things to happen regarding my mom when it doesn’t. Mom did this because then he can complain. Dog did this because mom isn’t responsible. Trash taken out because she sees him as trash.

On and off moments of craziness where he yells at my mom. Tells her she doesn’t care. 

Hates everything, constant bashing his life, where we live, etc.

Now he’s reaching insanity levels where he constantly excludes himself from mom. Calls her fat, or names when she’s nearby him while he sits and watches tv

Insanity levels at max today come from him saying she caused part of the death. She didn’t, but he wants her to be seen as a culprit.

Constantly saying God is watching and he’s mad. How he’s covering my little sisters eyes. How she will burn.

Then he plays nice guy saying you might turn our son against us, that’s fine. A son always sticks up for his mother.

But he does that. He does that out of pity to try to get me to feel bad for him.

He’s turning this into a every week sometimes every day thing. 

Where he follows my mom and tells her off, goes in his bed room and tells her off, 1-3 hours of him just making comments or yelling 

So yea...going mad. 

I just don’t want insanity reaching killer level where he becomes...a killer.

I’m prepared for non emergency 911 if he reached a too far point.

He refuses to leave the house but screams that he wants to.

His new goal is to get my mom to give him money to leave.

He always has an excuse why he can’t leave. But he wants to.

I’m prepared to defend my mom if needed. My dad is older and weaker now, not in a bragging way at all but a punch would probly knock him out.