I've been in a relationship with one person for 8 years, but throughout the years I always find someone new that I would usually get so invested in that sometimes it irritates my partner because I wouldn't stop talking about my new FP with him. Sure, I love this person as my partner but my FP is important to me too, and not being able to talk about them with my partner upsets me a little. Having FP doesn't necessarily mean I have romantic feeling for that person but my partner doesn't seems to get that so I stopped telling my partner about my FP completely and he said it feels like we're drifting apart from each other and kind of asking if I met someone else. I did what he asked me to and now he's questioning me for it. Am I in the wrong here? Is having FP aside from the person you're in a relationship with is considered cheating? It's not like I constantly texts/calls my FP, in fact, when I found one I actually love to observe them from a distance rather than approach them straight up to express my feelings and all that? Is this wrong too?