Looking back at the past I have realized that there have been so many times when I initiated sex with my partner/ex-partner simply because I was sad. Or they initiated it and even though I really wasn’t in the mood I went along with it just to be able to feel close to them. Whenever I feel hurt or upset I tend to have sex so that I can feel “wanted.” I tie sadness into sex. Even though I am in a relationship, I only do it when I feel sexually frustrated or when I am sad. Sex doesn’t make me happy. I know it’s probably unhealthy. Does anyone else relate to this?