hi im a nonbinary individual with bpd who developed a crush on another nonbinary person i met from grindr recently. while they're not my fp or close enough to reaching that point, i do have the abandonment issues. i met them and their other partner recently and we went to pride. i had been flirting with both of them and only their partner responds to me very little. the first person I brought up NEVER responds to me anymore and what concerns me is that they stopped talking to me right after we met in person. before we were flirting, lewding and talking about manga consistently for a few days. they told me they're just really busy and that they're cool with me.. but i keep seeing them on Grindr and i dont understand?? im really hurt and confused... im really scared that they stopped liking me and want nothing to do with me anymore.. T__T