After 30+ years of experience on this planet I’m very gentle and cautious when I connect with friends. I had one friend with whom I’d love to talk about books and movies and stuff. Sometimes she didn’t text back for 2 days and I’d ignore. But recently I started splitting and I told her very nicely to at least address my texts at some point if not immediately. Meanwhile she said she’s reading about bpd and narcissism. She started calling random people narcissists suddenly. She kept ignoring my texts still,  so I got super tired and annoyed . I tried to tel her she should engage with conversations more and she told me weirdly that she will when she wants. My bpd ass gave up, and said ok, you do you.

I talked to her yesterday with no mention of what happened. I think she thinks I’m a narcissist and that she laid down boundaries between us. I put so much effort in letting people go, so feel extremely misunderstood, and angry and hurt. Just venting. Anyone else feel this?