So for context, my best friend and I have been friends for 5/6 years and we grew quite close quickly. About 13 months ago we decided to move out ( I F 22 and she F23). 

We’ve been through thick and thin together including me helping her through though break ups that often affected me as she involved me a lot. After the last breakup she saw how I was affecting me and told me she doesn’t want to include me with that stuff anymore ( that hurt a lot) 

Her current partner (who I think is great ) moved in with us 5 months ago. He and she are extremely close and very reliant on each other, which is understandable cause they plan to spend their lives together. 

She has a lot on her plate and I often feel bad that I might just be a another burden on her. And by a lot on her plate it’s some very heavy dark stuff she’s dealing with her family. 

But since him moving in I have felt like an outcast. I’m not including in much and she has become very closed off to me. She doesn’t tell me what’s going on often and if so it’s weeks after it’s happened. And we rarely spend quality time together.

I feel like she doesn’t want me in her life (although that might be my bpd ugh). When I feeling this way I feel absolutely horrible. 

I personally don’t have many close friends (1 or 2 and my bf) so we have always been there for each other. 

Moving out isn’t an option as I suffer chronic pain (I manage ok ish) and other mental health issues, so I’m unable to work and am on government money (luckily). 

So really I don’t know what to do or even speak to her about it without her telling me she has too much to deal with right now :/ 

Sorry for the long post