I’m horrible at socializing and bad at conversations so I don’t have many friends but the ones that I do have I feel like I might care too much about. There’s a couple of childhood friends who I was neighbors with and I was pretty close to them. As these things tend to happen we all split up and they have their individual friend group and I have some friends but not many.

The issue is I think I care too much about them because I will do things like wish them a happy birthday and reminisce on good memories with them but they don’t care about me anymore. It’s like I haven’t moved on past them when they’ve moved on like 7 years ago.

Does anyone have any tips about how I can not care about these people? I feel like I’m an idiot for caring about them when they don’t care about me