I got insulted tonight on the phone with the guy I had been seeing for the past two months. We're supposed to be going to my college ball tomorrow as friends as I got the tickets weeks ago and even when we agreed to just be friends for now, he said he'd still love to go with me as my date for the ball.

But tonight on the phone he didn't seem very excited/enthusiastic then after I was telling a little story that happened to me, I waited for him to reply but he didn't and I asked why and he said 'I just didn't find it very interesting'. I asked him why he had to be rude, he said it wasn't rude, but come on.... who would say that to someone? Even if it was true, why bother saying it? Why not be polite especially as we're supposed to be going to the ball tomorrow together.

So what's the best way to deal with an actual insult that makes you feel not good enough/rejected/upset? 