I’m diagnosed with BPD and have a generally stable romantic relationship right now (hella rocky for a while though). My psych said most people with BPD struggle with romance. However, I cannot maintain a friendship whatsoever. There’s always some type of jealousy or something gets lost in communication. I can’t name a friend that I don’t talk to anymore that doesn’t hate me, which isn’t really common. I’m not sure if it’s my friends or me. With my BPD brain, the details get really foggy. Does anyone wanna share any similar experiences with friendships if they’re comfortable. I’m just trying to wrap my head around if this is a BPD thing or I’m just a shitty friend. It’s impossible not to get into some kind of defense mode around friends after a while for me