I’ll try and keep it short, but basically my boyfriend and I are complete opposite’s with him being very go with the flow, and me liking to have more control over situations. We live in the same apartment building and he has a roomate/best friend that he lives with who I’m growing to resent. There’s a large group around 25-35 that like to hangout daily and do drugs/drink etc which I don’t really care about, except they’ve now all started coming over to my boyfriends place to party at least three nights a week and this doesn’t bother him. Last night there were over 20 people there. I’m really not sure why this bothers me, since the place is never completely trashed the next day. I can’t understand why I get so angry and why my boyfriend doesn’t. I feel like his roomate doesn’t respect him and he’s completely taken over their living situation and we couldn’t come over to his place if we even wanted to without running into the whole apartment. Please knock some sense into me because this is really upsetting me and I feel so wrong