Just recently found out my partner of 6 months has BPD. Which makes so much sense now that I've educated myself on the subject. The problem is that I am an emotional, communicative, open person. When there are problems I need to discuss them and understand. I don't argue, I'm calm, but I do need to talk about things. He is the least emotional person I know, he doesn't like talking about feelings, and he does have a hard time understanding my point of view sometimes. He's recently gone through one of his "episodes" and is kind of on the tail end of it. Warming back up again and somewhat talking to me how he regularly does. The thing is I'm currently an emotional wreck due to the arguments we've had over the last two weeks. I'm not looking to argue with him anymore, we are on good terms in that regard, but I need to know how can I approach him (via text because he's working out of town) about how I'm not doing okay? That I need him, and I need him to make me feel a little more secure after what we just dealt with. Any kind of advice would be extremely appreciated.