does anybody else go through phases with their loved ones? there's some days where i'm absolutely obsessed with them and i love them so much and i'm just happy. then i have other days where i think they hate me so i decide to hate them first and i distance myself and take it personally when they don't reach out. does anybody else experience this? i'd love to know.

i always feel like a horrible friend because i'll be so responsive for a couple days and then distant for a week. does anybody know the source of this?