Is this a BPD thing? Or just a trauma thing? I’ve noticed that the past few years I’ve steadily had a person in my life that I hate. I mean HATE! Like they trigger my fight or flight, I ruminate on things regarding them and they just overall feel like a HUGE threat. I know there’s trauma that’s triggering it but I fear if I “solve” the issues with my current most hated person that I’m just going to move on to a new one