I'm so sick of people acting supportive and understanding- and then when I split they lose their minds and literally start blaming me for "not trying hard enough" or saying I'm being dramatic. When I have a rough day because lifes hella stressful right now, they tell me to get over it. I cant get over it. If "getting over it" was an option I WOULD'VE ALREADY DONE IT. Been dating the same guy for FOUR YEARS and he STILL says it. I don't know what to do anymore. He's either supportive, or tearing me down and then blaming me for it. My struggle is only valid when it's convenient for him to care about it.
I havent seen my therapist because of all the crazy stuff going down right now, and I'm really struggling to stay sane.

Hope you guys are having a better nogwht than me. Stay safe out there.