
I(25m) have been reconsidering my friendship with a f(28)riend. So here’s me I’ve been trying to get over the same girl for like 5 years but now I’m tryna deal with my issues with this new girl. She mentioned maybe a month in that it just wasn’t right for her to get into a relationship and she can’t offer much. So at first it was kinda ok, but it hit me harder as time passed. I ended up telling her how I feel and didn’t think we should be friends. Instead she kinda made me feel like shit and got pretty upset with me. I just really didnt like the fact she was pretty involved with other guys. Also I don’t really want any friends while I’m just working on my self so being her friend is just like .-….  

Anyway I’ve been trying my best to accept it and be ok but it’s just really bothering me. Is it wrong for me to be jealous and sad that she hooks up with other guys and what not. 

I’m going over tomorrow but I kinda just feel like I wanna tell her I can’t be her friend anymore. I prefer doing it over text cause I’m pretty sure she’s gonna get all mad and sad at the same time but then also I rather do it in person because it’s just more adult. Idk being sad over someone already sucks and having another person pile on that is just worse especially cause I do care about her, and do a lot for her. Sex is cool but I mean not when you’re also interested in more and when the person you like is going around and flaunting for other guys.


So to put that on top of life and it’s issue and a previous heartbreak it’s  getting overwhelming