My first post here, apologies if this isnt well formatted or not the proper way to ask this question.

I'm pretty sure in some way or form or another I have mental health problems, although I am not currently diagnosed with anything. My mom is diagnosed with bipolar (I dont remember which type), have heard that its likely passed down through family. I have been to therapy once before to address mental health problems when I was 16 bit haven't been able to afford to go back since, and was told I might show signs of maybe soemthing like bipolar but I was too young to diagnose so nothing really came of therapy then. As much as I know "somethings wrong", to find the motivation to find out for sure and what to do about it is lacking. I know I cant seek a diagnosis here, and I'm not, I'm pretty sure I fit a few if not most or all of the characteristics for bpd but I really wont know without a therapist. This particular line of thinking has been inescapable lately and am curious what others experiences are. 

Around 14-16 I really started to show signs of mental health deteriation that has somewhat plateaued into a vague numbness at 21. It's also when I started to question things like my sexuality and gender identity and it's a question I haven't been able to escape lately now more than ever. At 16 I came out as bisexual despite no evidence or hints of it until that point and was meet with disgust and disbelief, that it was because I was mentally ill and as result had symptoms of hypersexual behaviour that led to homosexual tendencies. Or at least that's how my somewhat underdiagnosed, religious centered mom felt then. At the time I didnt really have the terminology to express that I wasnt feeling too content with identifying with the gender I was assigned at birth. As much as I have these feelings I can't help but feel it's because I might have bpd, or some time of bipolar, or maybe I'm autistic, or I have some onslaught of mental health issues that are deemed socially normal therefore nonexistent, whatever it may be that is causing my to have a distorted self image to the point that I'm questioning things like my sexuality and gender. 

I've been lurking around queer subreddits for a while now. Somethings I have noticed personally that maybe I pick up solely because they resonate in some way is that a lot of people who feel similarly genderwise as myself also tend to have mental health issues along these lines. Maybe they are related, or one is kinda caused by the other. I in know way intend to be homophobic or transphobic in these remarks, if anything these feelings are mostly internalized towards myself and I have been quite an interested ally since I've been questioning. I dont really have access to much other than the internet and as much as I can read all day long I feel like being able to receive real time feedback is real nice.

TLDR: any one here who thinks they have or do have bpd, are you queer in any way? If so do you kind sharing how? Have you questioned your gender and sexuality before but later attributed it to your diagnosis? Are you still queer regardless? Do you also have other diagnoses other than bpd you dont mind sharing?