i’ve had a crush on a girl at my work for a while and we recently started talking and hanging out outside of work. it’s been going really well and we get along great. the problem is i can already feel her turning into my new favorite person and i’m scared. i don’t want to possibly ruin the friendship i have with this person and wreck the chances of being with them. i want to have a healthy relationship for once and this would be off to a bad start. i guess what i’m asking is how could i process my emotions surrounding her in a more rational way as they come?