I’ve posted my problems with my aspie bf a lot on Aspergers, but maybe the people here are nicer. I wanted to know if this makes sense to you. My Aspie bf says he never found this girl attractive when he dated her, but he lied to her and said he loved her body, etc. He tells me the same thing and I think “how do I know you’re not lying to me?”. Like look at him. He told her to her face he loved her body, she believed him, he never gave her a reason to think he’s a liar. She breaks up with him. He’s hurt and tries to get her back (he tells me the reason why he tried is because he was desperate and didn’t want to be alone - not because he loved her). He’s with me now. It’s been a year since they broke up. He tells me she was fat and ugly and never found her attractive. But is he lying to me so I won’t be hurt or leave him? He says I’m his first love, and he HAS done things for me that he never did for her...but I can’t help but wonder, yknow? What do you think? Why would he lie to her but swears he wouldn’t lie to me? Do you think that’s a lie? Do you think he’s convinced himself he didn’t like her?

Also : I have Borderline Personality Disorder. I have a hard time myself and might not see things the way others do. So please educate me. Thanks!