i’m not diagnosed with BPD but for years i’ve been unsure what else could explain why i am how i am. the most present thing that i struggle with is idealizing people, especially in relationships. i can only have one person i focus on at a time, and usually it causes problems with other friends i have. i feel like this person is a godsend and can do no wrong, but the second that they hurt me it’s like i feel so much resentment and see them as if they’re a horrible person. i go completely black &amp; white and i have had a problem with putting people on pedestals before but it’s so hard for me to keep friends nowadays because of this!!! is anyone else like this?