I'm in the UK, diagnosed BPD with depression and anxiety, and I'm having problems at my job. A few people have complained about my "behaviour" saying that I'm confrontational and rude. I have tried to explain that I'm a blunt person and can often be misinterpreted as being rude when I'm not being but this has fallen on deaf ears. Instead of putting any support in place management seem to just be set on punishing me and trying to get me to quit since they can't just fire me from a discrimination POV. This is unfortunately the second time this has had happened in my life.

I'm starting to believe that I deserve all that I'm going through and that I brought this on myself. I feel like I can no longer speak to any of my colleagues and my anxiety is overwhelming. 

My question is: has anyone else been through something similar and how did you get through it? Will I ever be able to hold down and job and be supported?