My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. My issues in this relationship are that he doesn’t make me feel special (compliment me without prompting, do special or thoughtful things for me). Is that on me? Cause I’ve told him so so so many times that I need more from him, given him examples but still nothing. He had these crushes on girls prior to meeting me and he would write them love letters about all this gooey stuff so he is capable of doing it but he refuses to be gooey or sentimental with or for me. Everything is a joke to him and I feel super insecure with him, like I’m not good enough for him but I feel that way in all aspects of my life. I don’t know if it’s just a guy thing or him or if he isn’t actually in love with me and is just with me to be with someone or am I just letting myself get to me?? any thoughts??