my husband has been going through a child custody battle for the last year and it still seems like there's no end in sight. ive been so supportive through the entire thing but im to the point that im worn so thin from working all the time and all of the court conflict and theres never anytime left in the day for my own relationship or my own needs and wants. im feeling invisible and being selfish i guess but i just want to move on with our lives at this point... i want to not be invisible or be unimportant anymore. we have spent our 2 years of marriage fighting his ex and talking about his ex... but when will it be our turn?