It’s not that I don’t speak to my friends or FP or family about my issues, but I very rarely take advice from others. I will LISTEN to their advice, but I almost always end up doing what I want anyway. Even if I know it’s probably the worse decision, I can’t help myself. People are constantly telling me what’s good for me, and I’m like “yeah, I know”, but I just carry on with my own self-destructive behaviours anyway because it’s what I’m comfortable with. It’s very different if I have issues I can completely offload to people and they can handle for me, then I will let them take their own course of action. I feel like it’s hampering my life pretty badly. For example, I just went through a break up due to long distance but my ex and I still talk all the time as we are still in love.my friends tell me I shouldn’t speak to he so much because I won’t move in but I don’t care at all even if part of me knows they are right. I crave speaking to her, so I speak to her. I imagine a lot of this has to do with poor impulse control. Anybody else experience this? And does anybody have advice? I won’t take it lol