I’m only posting on here to get advice for the sake of privacy. I got diagnosed w/ BPD last year and have been in intensive therapy and have been doing a lot of work on myself. My therapist and I believe that I am moving off the spectrum. A few days ago my husband did something to me while we were on vacation. He was drinking and It was not consensual and essentially what happened is not something I want to talk about here. I’ve been recovering for years now from things of this nature and I am horrified. I confronted him about it several times and even called my parents because I did not know what to do. I am 23 almost 24 and live in a foreign country with this guy and I am trying really hard to process this but I cannot. I cannot be in the same room as him despite his “efforts” to apologize. I feel like all of the progress I’ve made in therapy has been shot out of the sky and I’m feeling so trapped and lost and I never know when enough is enough. If someone who has been in this situation especially married, I could really use some advice and some clarity on the situation because it’s very hard for me to do things without validation but I’m working on it, just not successful at the moment