I have been seeing a therapist and psychiatrist for some time now and know for sure I have severe depression/anxiety. There are some things I have not confided in my doctors but intend to on Monday. I have been thinking a lot lately about my emotions and realized they can be very erratic sometimes. I can be happy and go lucky then suddenly start crying and get very upset and mean within minutes. I have had mental and physical abuse from my step dad throughout elementary/middle/high school and in college. I learned from my doctor on campus that I might have coping problems or an adjustment disorder. I'm not really sure what's going on but I always feel really remorseful after I have a crazy moment and I tend to lock myself away and become very depressed and unattached to the world around me. 

When I see my doctor on Monday, what are some things I should ask? If she feels I do have BPD what are some medications that you might suggest?  