We are able to make friends very easily actually. I can make friends with the clerk at the grocery store. Whenever I go to check out she remembers my name what I bought the time before and what we spoke about. People with BPD are extremely charismatic and friendly.

We don’t want anyone to hate us because we just want to be loved. We go out of our way to help and be there for someone else even if it’s draining us of or energy. Sometimes we even get upset by our inability to not be there for someone.

We attract all sorts of people and the majority of them like to use our big hearts and good intentions for their own gain and once they use us up they release us back into the world for us to find a way to pick ourselves up from the huddled ball in the corner we find ourselves in.


We are friends with everyone. We just realize that the likelihood of a person being in our lives for very long is slim so we don’t invest very much of ourselves into a person who tells us they will be around for awhile because we have learned that actions speak volumes and words are just smoke and mirrors. Peoples actions tell us that most people if not all people leave