I don’t know about you guys, but damn being in an LDR as someone with BPD is fucking excruciating. Not being able to see my favourite person for months is just too much pain to handle. My relationship ended this weekend after 7 months apart. I felt as though all my negative emotions were suffocating me and it was unbearable, yet I miss her so much and don’t want to let go of her.  I just don’t think I’m cut out for an LDR. I still love her so much and want to be with her though. Just so much pain. Anybody else here been in an LDR? What was your experience?