i need  a very big surgery soon   ok im scared i need   **pharyngeal flap**  and cleft palate repair ok the surgery requires 5 days in hospital , on the day of surgery there using liquid versed in pre op area than anesthesia mask in or room which may be  strawberry  scented  and than iv,  surgery may take over 4 hours  i have autism and special needs  so  surgery might be done at    childrens   hospital  with one on one care ok  i may wear pajamas  i may also wear  a  diaper incase  not sure its needed but im ready incase i may bring  tablet stuffed animal maybe a cool blanket  any advice helps