I live in a house with 4 other people, and I always keep the common areas very tidy. I dont leave anything of mine in common areas and I wash my dishes immediately after using them as well as wipe everything down after I make food. However, my personal room is quite messy and I dont mind. Id rather focus on school and getting through the semester, as my program is quite difficult. I  also have adhd and depression which makes me have to work a little bit harder than other people at school. I am embarrassed about how my room looks and recently one of my housemates came down and knocked on my door, when i answered she obviously saw how cluttered my room currently is. She didn't say anything and I doubt she even cared but I still can't help but feel bad about myself for it.