I feel so dumb because apparently this isn’t a normal reaction? Whenever my SO and I argue it doesn’t take long until I’m hyperventilating in a corner thinking he’s going to leave me. Even with friends, family. Especially if it’s my FP, even if it’s a small disagreement I just think they hate me. I bought this up to my therapist and she said that people can disagree or even argue about something but that doesn’t change the way they feel about each other... Does it really not?? I just find that hard to believe.