My bf very likely has BPD. He checks most of the boxes. I'm scared cause I know if left untreated it doesn't have a good outlook. He keeps saying "I'm not crazy" and I keep telling him that it's not about that, that he just needs help and that I have been to a therapist myself.  


He stopped taking some meds (auto medicated - Diazepam/Vallium) and he has been very irritable, even saying some even worse things than he used to and saying he doesn't want to live. It makes me so sad cause I know this is the one thing holding him back and he refuses to see a professional. That's why they exist... If he committed to good therapy his life would improve so much :(