I’m aware of this cycle, so whenever I enter into a relationship I ask myself, “is this what you really want? Do you really like them? Are you genuinely, LEGITIMATELY attracted to them?” But it doesn’t matter if I say yes to all of that in the beginning, eventually I will HATE whoever I’m dating. I feel as though I overdose on them, realize their flaws, and don’t want to deal with them anymore. They become ugly in every way. Can anyone ever have a normal relationship with bpd??