  So I know this will probably end up being more of a rant into the interwebs but I need to get something off my chest, any advice or thoughts welcome.....

One of my best friends was recently diagnosed with anxiety and panic disorder as well as ADHD. It has become her entire life, its almost as if she doesnt have a personality aside from her illness now. She has also self-diagnosed executive dysfunction and uses it as an excuse to do nothing and screw up. If she has EF and it is a problem then ok im here to help but I dont think she does and even if she does she should be treating it not blaming it as why she hands in everything late. 

Every conversation we have is about her or school. Ive had maybe two conversation with her in the last 3 months where I was complaining/venting about stuff going on with me that didnt really involve her, and those only happened because I was obsessing over those issues. But she pretends to know whats going on with me and acts like she is supporting me. 

I was upset the other day and she tried to comfort me in front of everyone, just drawing more attention to me! But she couldnt be bothered to ask how my mom's cancer treatment is going. She unloads everything on me without a care for how it affects me and cant be bothered to check on me! Im currently going to therapy for depression or manic depression  diagnosis  (whole complicated thing) and I have severe social and generalized anxiety but everything has to be about how she spent 3 hours baking instead of studying last night!

I also have issues due to an undiagnosable (seriously ive seen 3 doctors so far) musclular problem in my hands/wrists but whenever I mention pain or discomfort she "suddenly" has a problem with these allergies in her hands that she now thinks is "a nerve problem" that she HAAAAAASSSSS to talk/complain about too

I just want to grab her and scream, THE WORLD DOESNT REVOLVE AROUND YOU, THERES SHIT GOING ON IN MY LIFE TOO! DONT PRETEND YOU KNOW WHATS HAPPENING IN MY LIFE WHEN YOU CANT BE BOTHERED TO STOP TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF FOR 5 MINUTES YOU SELFINVOLVED \*\*\*\*\*

Its a good thing winter break is coming up because i dont know how much longer I can stay calm when she acts like she knows me