So my ex partner/ ex fp and I split up a couple months ago, after I realised he was making my mental condition a million times worse with his manipulation, rudeness, jealousy and what felt like pure hatred towards me.

Since then, he’s harassed me to the point where I’ve had to block all communication, assassinates my character to all our mutual friends, slates the guy I’m currently seeing to get a reaction from me, and tries to guilt trip me into being friends with him again/invalidates the fact that I’m mad at him in the first place. (I.E “how long are you gonna be mad at me this time Pix?”)

I can’t cut off all contact from him, as he’s part of my main friend group and we do D&amp;D every week which is one of the main things that I get release from, but now he’s moving the venue where it’s being run to his house and I just don’t feel comfortable because it was my home before we split and gives him more room to do power play against me.

He’s told me he has his own mental illness and can’t help the way he acts but I feel like it’s an excuse to act like an absolute asshole towards me and make my mental illness worse, and rely on him more as he’ll immediately do aftercare as soon as I break down.

I suppose my main question is, how do I make this easier for myself? Or how do I let him know that what he’s doing isn’t okay and healthy and that it’s just making my mental health 10x worse? 