This fear has made my life miserable more so than any other fear. I cant work, I've only recently started going outside. I try to communicate my fears to my mom but she doesn't care. I dread the future so much because of this thinking I'll get disease, I worry about my future thinking how am I gonna get friends, a girlfriend, how am I gonna work or own a home if I'm so anxious.

 I want to get rid of this fear but it feels like such a real thing to be afraid of.
Getting asbestos related disease, especially if it's something that could've been avoided if my parents/the people around me took more care. Truth be told I think it has something to do with the passing of my father and uncle, they had both passed in their 50s my father was killed after suffering a crippling stroke when I was nine, my uncle had weak lungs and spent the last few months of his life fighting Bronchitis passing when I was 14. 

I want to live a long life and be there for my family, I want to be a good husband who can life a long happy life with his wife, I want to be a good father who can live a long life watching and helping his children grow, I want to be a good grandfather who can watch and help his grandchildren grow. I'm 18 right now, I don't want to die when I'm in the middle of my life, just because I worked in the wrong building or because my mom couldn't be asked to be more careful