My partner has some sort of dissociative disorder(not DID). They're basically dissociating all the time and I just don't know how to deal with it.  
  
Obviously, like, I don't try to fix their dissociation but it just makes me feel so lonely and distant. I'll want to hang out with them during our limited time together during the week and they'll instead be playing a video game on the TV with a reality show blaring on their phone so they can fully dissociate.   
  
It's just exhausting, especially when I want to go into the living room but have to wait for them to finish their game to pause or mute their fucking show because if they get distracted during the game it immediately sends them into a panicking overstimulation. The same fucking overstimulation I get it I exist in the same house.  
  
And it also means that I basically can't talk to them, I get barely any replies all day and have to wait forever to get any words in. So I'm basically just existing next to them after having barely talked to them all day, and having not seen them since we did the exact same thing the night before, except maybe we smoked a joint and I got a few minutes of direct conversation.   
  
I'm sorry if this is rambling but I have no idea how to talk to them about how it affects me without putting any pressure on them, because theyre under so much stress and can already barely function.