For context she misunderstood something I had said a few days ago and she said a few offensive things like I wanna argue and I am always passive aggressive. I didn't wanna react in the moment so told her lets talk later later when we've cooled down. Some days later I brought up that i was really hurt by her comments and would like to talk about it. 

Me:  I'd rather do it as soon as possible, it's been causing me a lot of anxiety. I wasn't even able to sleep for days. Just say whatever's on your mind please, my brain can't handle ambiguity. It's not meant to be a confrontation by any means. I know you go through a lot on daily basis and I just wanna understand better because I would hate to be the person making things any difficult for you.  😭    😭    😭  

Her:  I’m really behind on my work, so can’t do it now. If you’re not able to cope with your anxiety, I would suggest seeking help.

Was this a fair response or was this meant to be hurtful by her?