For me, it’s lack of a self identity. This one is very extreme.  I’m a chameleon who changes and takes the form of whoever I talk to. Hence why I keep people at a distance because I’m scared they’ll find out I don’t know what to talk about or that I have truly few (to none) stable opinions...

The sign of BPD I show least is actually unstable relationships. My relationships are very stable and long lasting with practically no arguments. However, it’s only because I let so few people in. I (nicely) push out anyone who doesn’t match my strict standards.

What about you? 


