I find it’s probably the craziest match to be honest. He’s 29/M I’m 30/F It’s so hard to date him, intimacy moves so slow, he rarely opens up, we can only hang out in 4 hour intervals, he never sleeps over… sometimes we hang out for longer but he just won’t stay over unless he prepares for it mentally for like a week, it’s exhausting, he doesn’t realize but there are all this fuckin rules, no spontaneity. I keep hoping he’ll just say he’s staying over to surprise me but he doesn’t, he also keeps liking all the girls gym pictures on ig which I wouldn’t care! If my needs were being met, it’s like he keeps a very specific amount of distance between us but tries to give me what I want, but it doesn’t come easy. He likes me because I’m fun, funny, cute, bla bla but he doesn’t act like an adult boyfriend, we do not talk on the phone just texts during the week, if I’m feeling sad he won’t call to support me. He is only meeting a couple of my needs but my heart feels a bit empty with him, because I love him so much but I’m tired of waiting for him to fully be there and go with the flow with me and be more open minded and less rigid….. I don’t think he is considerate enough of me. We dated for two years, broke up for 5 months got back together and been together for 2 months and it’s back on the same old horse… idk I’m trying so hard to make it work, I rarely withdraw from him when I split, I communicate my needs, but it’s like he’s from another planet. Humour wise he is like my soulmate, we laugh so much and that is the main reason why it’s hard to let him go..