I am so sick of reading Reddit posts and comments where someone describes a person in the life who is ‘toxic’ or ‘terrible’ or just general bad behaviour and then they say ‘but then I found out their BPD and it all made sense’ or a commenter says ‘they sound like they have undiagnosed BPD’ or something to that effect. 

Like…fr…I know I’ve done questionable and maybe even terrible things which may or may not be due to BPD but that surely doesn’t mean if someone acts horrifically they *surely* are BPD.

Sometimes it feels like BPD is the reason people put their hat on for shitty behaviour and forget that actually BPD doesn’t mean we are shitty people.