I’ve always thought that i was a very nice, positive person who had very welcoming &amp; kind energy. today at work, co-workers were calling me passive aggressive &amp; blunt. ik they didn’t mean it in a harmful way bc were at friends and we were laughing at it together, and it doesn’t hurt my feelings at all, but it made me realize that i am a COMPLETELY different person than i think i am. what if people think i have a mean/draining personality? it’s sad. i wanna be a good &amp; lovable person