So I’ve been with my partner for almost two years, he’s taken care of my son as his own since he was about 7 months . Anyway I was manic for most of the first year together after diagnosed wrong as bipolar then finally found out it’s BPD last may. Anyways, trying to figure out meds and stuff to get me balanced is still an ongoing thing. I still have extremely intrusive thoughts, nightmares all of it. I feel like it’s ruining my relationship I don’t know what to do. I feel like I bring everyone down and I don’t know how to just say something is bothering me or I just fly off. I fucking hate this and ppl just don’t understand. Is it even possible to have BPD and a good relationship ship??