Few weeks ago i told my bf that i have a feeling that he is cheating on me. He has cheated in the past and i never accuse him of anything, and this was the first time ever that i decided to tell him that im feeling paranoid.

He was weird for a while and the next day he told me that he made out with someone, twice. Like two days in a row. And then she was his client so they spent like 5-6 hours together. And then they also texted.

I asked him if he will still be seeing / talking to her and he said no.

So now we were going out and he told me we shouldnt go somewhere because that woman is there so it could be akward for me. I asked how he knows where she is on friday night and he told me ”well we text sometimes”. 

He said that because we trust each other it’s okay for him to talk to her.

Im feeling angry and hurt. However i usually just ignore these types of feelings because people often tell me that im ”just overreacting” and im afraid of doing so.

Am i overreacting? Do i have the right to be upset? I believe i do have a right to be mad about this but he keeps acting like it’s no big deal so im a bit confused.