Is it possible to get over cheating, lying and abuse as a BPD person? I love him so much I can’t leave. He’ll need to show me proof he can change but is it ever possible?? He was cruel but he is also young and self-destructive. He loves me but he hurt me in the worst ways possible. Let’s say he shows me proof of work plan I can respect, is it possible to forgive and move on? Not necessarily be together but possibly in the future. Or am I just a pain addict