My (24F) borderline friend (23F) just sent me a slough of texts last night when I went to another friend’s house instead (I hangout with borderline every single day, so I really just wanted some space)
I kinda knew what was going to happen, because whenever I make plans with anyone else she always does this. And I understand why she feels this way, because I struggle too. But I have tamed my habits so I don’t freak out on those around me.

She turreted me with texts and calls last night. She always does this. The last time, she said that she hoped I kill myself. This time, she admitted that she slept with a guy I was seeing in the past and told me that it’s no wonder my parents don’t talk to me.

I am not too upset because I ended things with said guy and my parents do talk to me, but I’m more annoyed and tired of how toxic she is. She is always trying to prove that she’s better than me by sleeping with guys I’m interested in. I don’t know why, because if she’s interested in a guy I don’t show a shred of interest in them.

I know we should support eachother, but this is too far. I do not want her in my life anymore.