a friend was listing the reasons she misses us in a group chat, you know, X is crazy talented and always makes me laugh, Y is smart and amazing to talk to, etc  
  
and then she mentioned me with "i miss seeing your transition progress"  

like... that's it? that's not about my personality, that's not something that makes me fun to hang out with or important to anyone. 

im literally a one dimensional background character 🙃 i wish i'd never read that