(I hope I labeled this correctly I don't know where to go for help or advice) 

This situation happened last night. (17 hrs ago maybe)


My SO of 6 years has BPD. And their symptoms are a lot more intense than normal since starting a new therapy. They have recently acted out against me for a mistake I accidentally made during a conversation and they have "broken up" with me. (Quotations because I am unsure) I'm walking on egg shells here and I'm hurt myself. I don't know if they truly broken up with me or not. I don't know how to approach them about any of it without them exploding again. I don't know how to get them to see that they're over seeing my own issues and that they are seeing only what they want to see, without them getting angry. They know I am on the HF Autism Spectrum, that I have trouble interacting like a normal person. But it's so awful because it feels different this time. They have had episodes in the past. But it feels different now. I'm afraid they're serious about us parting. If that's what they want then so be it. But I'm afraid and concerned, for them more specifically, and us as a couple. I have no idea how to bring this up to her without causing more harm. They're talking to me like normal somewhat now but. It feels so.. Awful.