Unrelated to BPD but I just got bad news. We just found out that my grandma has stage 4 cancer and that she only has 6 months left to live. I’m worried about how her death will affect us. My mom is a paranoid person. When the owner of our old house died, my mom had us stay over at uncles and aunties house because she was afraid. I am certain that my mom will be paranoid again because my grandma will most likely die in our house. I’m worried that I’ll end up getting paranoid as well since it is a symptom of BPD. My grandma doesn’t know she has cancer because my mom won’t tell her for fear that my grandma will get depressed. I’ve never had experienced loss before and I’m deeply afraid...