Hi.  I'd like to say I don't have BPD nor do I have *any* experience with anyone with BP romantically (that I know of).

Basically starting dating this woman (about 34 years old) and when I say dating what I really mean is, getting too drunk and having casual sex. This has happened for the last 2 months and neither of us know *what* we are. Fwb? Dating? Exclusive? Not exclusive? Anyway..

Few things Ive already noticed 

- Her being madly sensitive to me making seemingly innocuous facial expessions. 

- Her being extremely affectionate and at times thinking everything I say is hilarious. 

- When drunk, her being all over me. 

- But also when drunk, a few times, I've went to the toilet, came out, and she's chatting to some random person at the bar. Last month she accepted a shot of some random tall guy. While I was sat there like 'uhhh'. (I let her know a week later this was not okay).

A little up and down and a little closed when it comes to discussing what she thinks of me, what she wants, etc.

I just want a few heads up about what should I look out for (if indeed this goes any further). I cant seem to work her out at all. One minute I think she could be incredibly loyal and relationship material, the next minute I'm like hell no.

Any advice