I’ve been obsessed/infatuated with my on/off bf for months and I thought that I would never be able to get over him. He has shown me time and time again that he knew he had influence over me and I would let him get away with anything but today I’ve had enough. You shouldn’t let someone treat you like an option because you feel like you need them in your life to feel loved and happy (which is only temporary to begin with) but tbh he was nothing but trouble to me, I would miss work and skip class to be with him, which led me to being poor and losing my scholarship, and having to depend on him. I can’t even get mad at him bc I knew he wasn’t good for me but kept him around because I was afraid of not finding Sb else. Never settle for less, it’s all or nothing