I have read a lot about BPD and I think I have this. I visited a therapist yesterday but I didn't mention this because I thought it might be bad. I want to know if I should tell the therapist that I think I have it, or if I should let the therapist tell me I do (or not). I feel if I tell him then he could focus on showing I do and not see that it might not be why. But I don't want to not say it and be misdiagnosed. Hopefully someone who's been in this situation can help me. Thank you.