my roommate is extremely extroverted and recently had been video chatting with a few people every day which is good bc i know she needs to socialize. however, she says the same things to each of them almost like she’s reading a script. whenever she talks to someone she doesn’t know that well she gives them a rundown of her life story and trauma. our walls are thin so i hear basically everything she says, and for some reason it has been stressing me out a lot recently.

i keep reminding myself that it’s not my problem and has nothing to do with me, but for some reason it bugs me. i always have to watch something so i can’t hear her talking in the background. 

i’m just struggling with this a lot because idk how to be a good friend to her but the thing is i think a “good friend” to her is someone who passively listens and she can just word vomit whatever she wants and it doesn’t matter who she is talking to. i’m also kind of bitter bc she wasn’t there for me when my brother died, and didn’t listen to me when i told her i was paranoid and about to panic, she instead left to go talk to someone she recognized (while i was in the middle of a sentence)

anyway idk i’m just stressed af being stuck at home with her