Last few days I was thinking how l almost only dated, was attracted to or was friends with guys who have aspd or ASPD traits. Sometimes I already knew about it before dating them and sometimes Id figure out that might be the case by the life story and in some cases obvious traits and behaviours. With some I got along very well with others it turned out deadly. Is it a common thing for BPD or is it just me being raised by a similar kind of parent so its attractive cause its familiar  (althought my parent is more NPD than ASPD) ?