Me and my partner of two years broke up. Two weeks ago and they're already dating someone new. I'm more or so angry with the fact they made all these big promises just to be empty promises. I hate them so much for that. And for them coming back and then leaving again. I should of been cautious especially since they were dating someone and then broke up with them to be with me again. Because they missed me and said they couldn't could live without me. Well this time it doesn't hurt as bad im more full of anger and hate from them. I did so much to make things work with us, but they didn't want to communicate with me and their boundaries. I always told them if they needed space from me or I was being too much for them at anytime to let me know. But they always said I wasn't and that they always love helping me. I would of been hurt a little if they told me the truth sooner or tried to communicate but I would of understood and tried to talk things out or give them space. But they didn't and just lied and manipulated me and then left. What hurt the most is them telling me that no matter what I'll always be attached to someone because of my bpd. I want to prove them wrong that I actually can do better for myself without them. Their friend told me that it hurts to see me doing so good without them. Well wtf you broke up with me and they said they wanted me to get better so we could be together again in the future. Did they think I wouldn't be okay without them? And that I NEEDED them, yeah maybe at some point but they weren't there for me. They left and came back and left again. If you can't handle someone with bpd don't make promises or date them. Know what you're getting yourself into before actually dating someone with bpd. And don't try and "fix" the person because you feel like you can. It doesn't work like that, you can be there and support and help the person you are dating but the person with bpd, but don't take advantage of them especially when you know that you're their fp. I tried so hard and they barely tried. Im not going to give up working on myself and I'm going to keep going to therapy. I know I can do this. I just hope that they don't hurt their current partner how they hurt me. I wish them both well but fuck them.