Me and my boyfriend had a big argument and I kept putting my points across wrong and sounded really arrogant to what he was saying. It kind of ended with him saying if this is what it’s going to be like then he doesn’t want to do this. In my eyes the situation that caused the argument wasn’t a massive deal (ofc I didn’t say that to him) but I understand that bpd will make it a big deal. We haven’t spoken since, but I’m worried sick that he doesn’t love me anymore over things i cant particularly control with my own health. When it comes to the discussion to try and resolve things, I don’t know what to do to fix things or to help him understand my side or to just not abandon this relationship.