i dated someone for about a month who quickly became my fp because he treated me so well, he broke up with me cause he figured out he was aro but i became obsessive as one does, i felt horrible everytime i felt those obsessive thoughts i would text him on his other accounts i was gross and i’ve apologized to everyone who was affected by it, but sometimes wheb him and his bf are not in a good place he’ll unblock me and text me pretty much as soon as he’s not my fp again, causing me to be reeled back into his manipulation, he’ll apologize he’ll act like we are friends again then he will block me. so anyway recently i’ve been missing him a lot i thought he wasn’t my fp anymore because we broke up in OCTOBER but i was wrong and i just want to get over him i want these thoughts to be gone i don’t want to care about or love someone who hurt me so much but i don’t know how to stop.. does anyone have any advice