I’m just curious what goes on in a “normal” persons brain. I understand that most people are basically like “what the hell goes on in your brain!?” To me and others with BPD. As someone w/ BPD I can totally understand BPD thoughts and actions, but how do you think “normal” people think?

Like I am incredibly surprised when I talk to friends and they say that suicidal thoughts rarely cross their mind. I can’t think of the last day I have not had one. How do these thoughts not ever cross an average persons mind? Why don’t they? Why don’t they think everyone hates them when they embarrass themselves? 

I don’t mean this to judge the way they think, but I’m curious as to why they think the way they do and how they do. I guess reframing a common question towards us, at them.