Me and my s/o have been together for two weeks, and although i think ive very slightly mentioned it, i haven’t told her about it directly or anything that comes along with my bpd. Im just so worried im going to scare her away with any talk of what i can be like. I really really like her, but its a healthy kind of like. I dont obsess over her or her thoughts, and im doing really good so far to not let my temporary feelings control anything about our relationship, if that makes any sense. I just know i need to have the bpd talk with her eventually, but i don’t know how to address it or talk about it without panicking about her thinking im crazy. I know that in reality, she won’t think negative of me, shes not like that and im aware of that, i just cant help but worry about the “what ifs” which makes it so so hard to talk about.