So, I've been in this relationship with her (on and off) for almost three years know. But this time, we have been able to achieve some level of stability. I feel that she's trying really hard to keep things nice, to the point of pushing me away most of the time. She can manage texting all day long and discord calls every few days, but I'm getting to see her less and less since she always seems to be in a depressive mood. I'm really dedicated to supporting her, but I'm not sure if the best thing to do would be to stay put and let her come to me or continuously try to be present. Last month, she had an anxiety attack, and we haven't met since, even though she still wants me to be there for her. I love her and understand how hard she tries to cope with her triggers, but I would appreciate seeing her a little bit more often.