It seems like ppl i attract/attracted to all suffer from severe mental health and/or substance use …. No exaggeration either. It’s the point now i feel like i don’t even want ppl in my life who haven’t been through trauma bc how can they relate??? Or I’m always on guard that ppl are lying to me anyways and faking their persona… Am i bad for thinking this way? I do want someone who is innocent and understanding and hasn’t been through fucked up things so i kno they don’t have a fucked up mind, like myself. I’m so all over the place ugh