So, I started seeing someone. We spoke for days and then we had a date and it was amazing. they are so funny and can banter me back and we seem to like each other the same amount and we agree on everything and all the fundamentals of relationships and it feels really special. 

HOWEVER, I'm finding myself worrying about how I'm coming across. I'm being intense I think? they haven't said they have found me intense or anything but I need to chill. I'm replying too quickly and I want to do this one differently. I want to be slow and let it breathe and not be over the top and that but I'm smitten a bit and they are really nice and kind and they are pretty and ughhh. 

Why can I say to myself to be less intense but my body and actions don't do the same thing?