There is someone I really care about that I think has BPD, I don’t just throw that out there but this post would be three pages to explain. I can’t actually ask because it’s a professional relationship, still I’m smitten with with her. 

She apologized to me for being defensive earlier in our conversation ( I actually wasn’t up set about it) and said this to me. 

I’m trying to better understand stand her, she is extremely sensitive and will often feel criticized when in actuality It totally wasn’t meant that way.

When she catches her self she makes a bigger deal about apologizing then I feel necessary so it makes me feel it’s some sort of DBT skill she is using, to correct her perceived mistake.

Is it possible to be in a relationship with someone that has BPD, I know she really likes me too.

Any feedback would be great