Hi I wondered if anyone else felt the same our had advice for dealing with it. I've been seeing my GF for about 6 weeks now and she's having a hard time in her living circumstances. I find It hard but can get by when she's  not around, circumstance means we can't be together loads yet. But she also has mild Bi polar. So when things set her off she shuts down, this week for 5 days. Then I find out her ex got physical in an argument. But she won't let me get involved so It doesn't get worse. But I can't help but feel lost and hopless unable to help and with communication aminimal if at all. I understand things aren't gonna be happy but I wanna support in anyway I can. I can't even just turn up at her place else it might cause more trouble. I'm struggling to eat and drink and cutting myself off from the world myself. I mean I don't have friends so never was busy but nothing keeps my mind off her and I can't function properly mentally and physically I'm anxious and too depressed to eat or drink much. I keep thinking my gf will just turn around and break up because she can't maintain the life issues and a relationship. But im not here to pressure that I can wait I just more communication and everything is mostly over text.... im in vicious cycle. Any advice or thoughts on similar