So throwaway account because my fiance follows my main reddit and I dont want to hurt feelings. I'm not really sure how to handle this situation. I've kinda developed a crush on a guy I work with (and even though google says this is normal and fine I feel so incredibly guilty I cant even put it into words) and he's becoming my fp. Meanwhile I think I'm hardcore splitting on my fiance to the point of almost breaking up with him on a whim. I love my fiance very very much, and realistically I would never act on these feelings I have towards the other guy, but that doesnt make the thoughts and feelings just stop. Have any of yall ever been in a similar situation where your SO isnt your FP and it caused you to split? Is there a way to reduce splitting in general? How do I not feel like garbage for being so attached to this other dude?