So I’ve just been reading through /r/raisedbyBPD, and it’s honestly really upset me.
The things that their parents have done to them are things that I would never do to any future kids I have. I’ve always wanted children, but this makes me terrified that I’m going to be an awful mother and irreversibly fuck up my kids. 
Any reassurance or advice from BPD sufferers with kids, or those who were raised by BPD parents and came out fine in the end would be greatly appreciated because I’m pretty upset over this at the moment. 