I'll get straight to the point, he's been depressed for about 6 years and was in counseling when he lived with his mom but was taken out when he moved in with his dad. He's been in a downward spiral of self harm and trying to kill himself since he moved in with his dad, and his dad doesn't want him to get counciling because he thinks that boys should be tough and not share their emotions. However, one of his best friends just killed herself. 

How do I help him, please. I don't know what to do anymore and I'm afraid I'm about to lose one of my friends.