Hi there, i'm a guy who just cant get over my ex.
We where together for 7 years and the paradox is that i asked HER to move out, thinking i wanted to move on.

We moved to a new town together 6 months in to the 7 year relationship and it was only us for all of the years, and our cat.

Now a year after we moved apart i'm still cramping up in tears and crying my heart out over her.

Any good advice on how to move on and make new friends? Except getting blind drunk when alone, wich is what i have been doing since the breakup.

We have tried the "friend zone", but it only fucks me up more, but given that she does not have anyone else or i dont have anyone else, we end up talking to eachother after a short period of time anyway.
 The story is of course more complicated but thats the baseline.