Hello I am not diagnosed with BPD (too young) but I do have similar traits. I don't really see much people talk about sensitivity towards wordings often so I just wanted to ask.

I'm sensitive to words relating to physical looks such beautiful, sexy, attractive and I tend to overthink about the word itself especially when someone I love (specifically love interest) says it to me. Like they say that to me but I don't like it because they say that about others too.

I feel like it's pretty selfish of me to think that way especially with my insecurities, it's kind of hard to like ignore the fact that people also have feelings and it isn't their fault for feeling an attraction by looks, but I am really not a fan of it due to my worries that they will fall for them instead of me, like I'm too lacking for them, thus making them feel this way.

I really need some advice and tips on how to move on from this to prevent more issues with my lover. Thank you for reading I really appreciate it :)