So we all know that along with BPD come these *GREAT* (sarcasm) abandonment issues, but what do you do once that has already happened? I've gone through all the frantic attempts to get him back and all that shit, and I've listened to all the advice that people have given me, but I just can't get over this. Has anyone else been through a similar thing and had no one understand why you can't just move the fuck on already? I really don't know what to do at this point, the pain is eating me alive, I need to get rid of it.