Whenever I say something is so hard , he just says no it isn’t. For example we were going to a party tonight but during the day we had a bad fight and irrationally I told him I’m not going... ofc I wanted to go tho. Later I said I’m sorry and I still wanna go. He says he thinks it’s going to ruin his time if I go, he’s scared that I will drink and blow up and cause a scene. Fair enough for him to feel this way. I pleaded for ages saying please I wanna go it will be fine, but it’s his year 12 formal party and he says he dosent want me to ruin it. I get major FOMO. I said okay but it’s gonna be so fucking hard for me tonight missing it. He constantly tells me no, it’s not hard at all... he always acts like I’m so childish and that I have a choice. He’s right, but he dosent seem to accept the fact that I feel things so deeper and more painful than him. Instead he just thinks I’m childish,overreacting etc