For the past 6 months, my BPD has been pretty manageable. I've had a few fights with friends, but I did really well not making mountains out of molehills. I even stopped taking my medication and discovered it had been accentuating my BPD symptoms. So lately, things have been great. But then my boyfriend reconnected with an older friend of his on discord, and its been driving me nuts. He repeatedly stays up until 5am talking to this dude, and last night he literally didn't get any sleep at all because they were so busy talking. Rationally I know that this really shouldn't be an issue, I know he doesn't need to talk to me all the time, but the amount of time they talk just rubs me in all the wrong ways. He passed out today for three hours because of lack of sleep, and my brain has been telling me to ignore him as 'punishment' for what he's been 'unfairly' doing to me. I know that is irrational and stupid, but I really don't know how to handle the situation.