Hello everybody, I'm in desperate need of some advice. 

Lately, after some changes in our relationship, I've realized that my fiancé has become my fp and it's... not good. I'll spare you most of the details, but basically the gist is that lately ALL of my time is spent trying either trying to please him and make him happy or being horrifically anxious and depressed when I can't see him-- to a debilitating extent. This is interfering a LOT with the other facets of my life (being hesitant about accepting a full time position because I couldn't see him as much, not wanting to spend time with anyone else, losing interest in my hobbies that used to be "me time"), and it really needs to stop before I ruin my own life. 

Does anyone have any tips for making my life "mine" again and taking some of the pressure off of both of us? 