I've (32f) been dating my boyfriend (33m) for two months now, we were sleeping together for half a year before we became official, friends for three. During that time he was pretty suicidal, but he got therapy and became medicated and I've noticed a significant improvement in his overall mental health. Obviously, he's still depressed, but he said he hasn't felt like he wanted to kill himself in maybe three months and that he feels himself improving beyond that mountain every week. 

I'm super proud of him for just having the mental strength to get help and take strides in his own daily activities to heal. We both have ADD and he's allowed me to help organize some areas of his life. I was once depressed and spiraling with disorganization, so I know how defeated you can feel when it gets to a certain point.

I just don't want to seem pushy or guilt him by helping. With my depression, I had someone at that time help me like I want to help him and sometimes I would feel guilty. If I stay over for days at his place, I'm obviously contributing to making the place a mess. I go beyond the mess I make though. Do the dishes fully, pick up his room completely, etc. Mind you, his place is always pretty clean, so when it does get into a state of messy, I know he's just having a bad mental health day.

If your partner did these things, would this be helpful or would it do more harm than good? And if me doing these things is not helpful, what CAN I do?