i know that it’s possible but it feels so … wrong ? out of place perhaps … 
all i ever hear is that people with bpd are extremely insecure &amp; have a disorder imagine if themselves .. 
but i (and a lot of people) feel like i/we are too “narcissistic” &amp; to be put into that category despite the bpd diagnosis? 

(not to confuse narcissism with confidence)

i will admit, i am a “shit” human as some would describe me. i use people &amp; friends purely out of interest (excluding my fp) and usually don’t feel empathy for people that aren’t him. my therapist said that those are clear signs of narcissism 
(i find it kind of funny how both of my parents execute them 🤭) 

does anyone here also deal with this?