How should i feel when its obvious that my partner from 10 months is burnt out from my bpd needs? Sometimes i ask for reassurance 3 or 4 times a day and he will never tell me when something’s wrong cause he probably is scared ill snap or lose my mind, he probably feels bad for me. I dont know what i need from him,but when i tell him how i feel and he doesn’t acknowledge me i feel like i hate him, like i wanna leave him before he leaves me. I sometimes feel like my only relief will be to be alone, im terrified, i feel dis functional i feel like he’s fed up with me but wont tell me, i rather he was honest and straight forward. I guess i dont know how to deal with my own expectations