I recently broke up with my girlfriend due to me feeling extremely anxious around her. She has always been a great partner and I cannot identify a single source of what is causing me the anxiety. I have some ideas but cannot come to a great conclusion.

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Whenever I would see her name pop up on my phone I felt anxious and hanging out with her made me anxious.

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Now that we are broken up I still want to be with her, but am still very anxious all the time and it seems as if nothing changes now that we are broken up. 

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Has anyone gone through something similar or been able to modify their anxiety to support their partner giving you anxiety?