So I recently saw a post on another sub about them suspecting their partner of having BPD and it made me think… when it comes to other subs on Reddit who talk about people with BPD or being in relationships with people with BPD it’s always in relation to the emotional abuse, physical abuse, manipulation etc they’ve suffered. But they automatically assume that BECAUSE of that abuse, the person must have BPD. And it’s just so frustrating because it paints us all out to be the exact same. What about the people who are in happy relationships while also dealing with BPD? Do we not get to exist?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and he said to me the other day ‘you’re the most stable person I’ve ever been with’. Nearly every person I know wouldn’t ever guess I suffer with this condition. I’m sick of seeing people scapegoat the diagnosis.

I just wanted to make this post to remind you all that we aren’t monsters, we’re just people and on days where all we see is people shitting on our condition just know that we’re going to be okay ❤️