
Hii everyone. I’m going through a devaluing phase with a friend I’ve had for a couple months. I used to really enjoy spending time with them, and for the first time in my life I found a friend who was similar to me! I always told myself, “well the reason I don’t end up truly liking my friends is because I can’t find someone with similar interests”….. well … I did find someone. And I still don’t care to put in the effort to maintain the friendship. And ugh!! He texts me wayyy to much which has caused this devaluing to worsen. 

I feel like I have all I need with my family and bf and typical coworker friendships. It satisfies all my social needs. 

I want to distance myself but I don’t know how. I have ghosted him for four days and still don’t want to answer. I just want to be let free from this chore of prioritizing friends!

I only knew him for a couple months. Should I just slowly not respond? It wasn’t a lifelong friendship