my boyfriend promised me we would do something this sunday because today is my only day off from work and school. he forgot about this family thing that he had to go to but still promised he would leave early enough so we could still do stuff together. he texted me at 12pm that he was leaving soon and i hadnt heard from him since then and it was now 2 pm even though i had texted him multiple times during that time asking him what was happening since it had been hours since he said he was leaving. i called him and texted him over and over just trying to get him to answer me cuz i was getting kinda nervous that he still hadn't answered. he finally texted me and asked me "whats up why are you calling me over and over?" uhhh i don't know maybe the fact that you said you were leaving HOURS ago. i also told him we werent gonna have time to do what we needed to do since it was on a time constraint and he still needed over an hour to drive back from where he was. he proceeded to tell me to "calm the fuck down, that he was trying to leave, and that we would still have time to do what we had planned". we really did not have time, and it was pissing me off that he lied to me. i would have rather him told me we could plan it for another day instead of making me get excited to do something and then be let down. he acted like there was nothing wrong about saying he was leaving soon hours ago and still had made no progress on leaving. i'm not sure how it takes that long to leave a giant event where you will not be missed. he said that i was getting crazy again and making a big deal out of nothing and that i need to cut the shit out and stop acting like a brat. he then would not respond to my texts again which really bothers me, and i started to self harm and say some things about how i hated him over text and how he needs to break free from his mother because i know she is the one forcing him to be there. please keep in mind i did not insult his mother at that point even though she is very overbearing and i knew she was the one keeping him there considering i know what she is like and him ranting about her regularly towards me. after he read that he texted me "dont talk about my mother when your mother is a fucking crackhead".its not true but it REALLY got me mad. so i came back 100x harder going into detail about his mother. I then blocked him and he blocked me. i am doing every thing i can not to break every item he owns since we live together. i dont do well with being let down and then having my family insulted. if he just told me he had to cancel our plans i would have been upset but been fine with it and he could have stayed there for as long as he wanted. he lied to me about when he was leaving and acted like im crazy for getting upset when he doesnt answer me for hours and still hadn't left, but he shouldn't have told me he was leaving when he did. i know i should not have harassed him over text and said shitty things, but then he actually insulted my mom which is too far, but i know i shouldnt have come back at his mom even harder. im trying everything i can to stay distracted and study. i cannot be around my best friend and family when im upset so i can't go see them, but im trying not to break everything he owns and lose my mind and hurt myself any more. im probably overreacting but im not sure. sorry if this made no sense im really disassociated right now. if anyone has any tips for me or has any comments i would appreciate it