Hello! I need some advice on how to help my older sister. She is stuck in a deep hole she has dug and I just want to help. She avoids anything that is hard or difficult. She has multiple tickets or charges against her with the law for minor things like parking but she avoids taking care of them for so long that eventually she has a warrant out for her arrest and she has to show in court. Ultimately this is her 3rd time going through something like this and she eventually fails on following through on probation and or fines or drug tests after my parents have forced her through the entire process. She is super smart and super talented but I am not sure how to help her get things together. She puts on a really good front and my mom and I have tried to sit down and talk to her about getting help but she ultimately avoids anything that is difficult in life. She is on ADHD medication but her issues go way beyond ADHD. She gets to the point where we offer to help her pay for health insurance and to let us know but she can’t go through with signing up on the marketplace. She has a good support system but we can only help if we know how. We would help her pay her fines if she told us and didn’t avoid them at all costs. I have sat down and talked to her about going to see someone in the mental health field but she claims it doesn’t work for her or that she has had bad experiences. She can no longer drive a car because she doesn’t have a license. We started to refuse to give her rides anywhere because we don’t want to enable her to keep putting this off. Ultimately how can I help my sister realize she cannot keep avoiding her responsibilities in life and convince her to seek professional help for her mental health?