this guy i’ve been seeing for about 2 months now hit me with a soft curve (he avoided a comment i made about cuddling) and it rubbed me the wrong way and now i reaaaaallly wanna fucking drop him but i think im being irrational. while i believe my concern is valid, i thought about it and i think my reaction is coming from a place of my fear of abandonment. my ex was bad at reciprocating and that relationship gave me a lot of anxiety so im really scared about being involved with anyone else...even though it’s gonna be 2 years lol i just don’t wanna feel that way ever again (i know it’s inevitable and relationships don’t always last blah blah but if i can avoid it for the sake of my mental health at this time then i will)

anywho, I think I feel like I should leave before I get left. If that makes sense. can anyone relate to this experience?