so there's this girl i met 6 months ago. I told her i only wanted to be friends and she agreed. shortly after she got a boyfriend. we still grew super close and did everything together. we have a serious bond. We are very kind/caring/supportive of eachother, opened up to eachother about deep person problems, hug a lot, say we love eachother, etc.

I ended up liking her but figured she only saw me as a friend, and i respected her relationship so i kept it to myself and never made a move or anything. 

We used to hang every other day, but the last 1.5 months she's been hanging less and less and more and more with her bf. 

something i find odd about this is everytime i was talking to a girl, she would say "You can do way better" + "you should block her she's a red flag" etc even tho i was supportive of her red flag boyfriend. but ever since she's gotten close to her bf and hung with me less, she's been supportive of the girl i've been talking to saying "you should look past the problems and give it a shot, see if you grow to like her" and is suddenly all supportive...

I also talked to her best friend roommate and her roommate said my best friend had said "i'm worried &lt;me&gt; might like me more than a friend." she said this was like 2 months ago.

what doesn't make sense about this is i've never made a move, we started hanging less, and she's in a relationship so idk why it'd worry her. she has said in the past she doesn't care if her friends like her as long as there's boundaries.

it almost seems like she threw it out there to see what her roommate would say since i've hung with her before. almost to like see if i had said anything to her but who knows.


another thing is when we do hang she talks to me about how in love she is with her bf and how they have sex and want to get married, but her female best friend roommate said "that's weird, she never talks to me about that stuff". doesn't that seem kinda messed up she'd purposely bring it up to me if she thought i had liked her?

It really does kind of feel like she's doing tests on me and wants to see if i like her. why might she be doing this?