   Ever since, I been so much more stable. I still have bpd, but I don't get those crazy obsessive swings I used too. 

 I read alot of these post and thing....ehh was I that clingy at 21

.....hella cringe

 After the love of my life of 5 years broke my heart, anger settled in, then grieving, then ownership 

Ownership how I let a man ruin me for almost 2 years after.  

  Then, the important questions started popping up.  What do I want from Life?

 I finished college, I moved to California,  I did all the things I wanted, and none of that would have happened had I stayed chained and under his spell. 

 I still have FP outside myself 
 
My best friend 
My kitty

But when it comes to men, ain't no FP nomore. 
You gonna treat me how I want to be treated or im leaving asap!

 Make your FP you, and see how your life turns around 

In the infamous words of Ru Paul, 

"If you don't love yourself, how the hell you gonna love someone else! "