im 20(F) have been seeing my bf, 22 for 8 months and dating for 3.  He’s kind, sweet, loving, patient, fun, motivated and so many other good things.  I am not.  I am moody, tired all the time, very insecure, and can be snappy.  We definitely get along and he’s my best friend but the more I get to know him the more I think he’s great for me but I’m not great for him.  He checks all of my boxes but I feel he deserves someone better and ‘softer’ I guess.  I’ve mentioned these feelings and he’s said he likes everything about he and he wants to be together for a very long time.  I’m writing this here because I struggle with depression, anxiety, and am healing from 18 years of mental trauma.  I feel those things have something to do with how I view myself.  I guess I just can’t rationalize why someone like him would want to be with me.  Any tips on chilling out/ accepting love would be great.