i moved across the country for my boyfriend and i feel stuck. i know he doesnt actually love me because he constantly lies and only cares about himself and his own needs at the end of the day. he thinks im angry all the time and resents me for it and if anything i am anxious all the time because that is how the relationship makes me feel and it presents itself as frustration/ anger. he has no interest in what i have to say / explaining myself because he just gets defensive. he hides things from me and lies to his friends about me ( who i havent even met yet btw) and he wonders why all of MY friends hate him. they even said that since being with him he has brought me down and i revolve my life around him. how do i finally just leave? i have a job down here.