Throwaway account here. Newly diagnosed. 

I am looking for some tips/help/coping skills for finding an identity. 
I don't currently have insurance to go to DBT and every time 
I google search something like "bpd finding your identity" it gives me all the jargon of "people with bpd struggle finding their identity. . ." Yes, I know this, but I need help overcoming that. So anything you've got for starters would be much appreciated. 