If I knew how to stop, I would have a year ago. I want to be a good wife who loves her husband as consistently and faithfully as he loves me, but instead I’m a bitch. He says I’m not, but I feel that I am. I love him and want to be with him, but I have so much resentment built up over shit that shouldn’t matter. He has forgiven me a million times over. Is this kind of resentment a BPD thing, or just a fucked up person thing?

I wish I could just let things go and not be like this. All I want is to be happy with my husband.

Please don’t tell me to leave. That’s not what either of us want, and such advice is unhelpful. We are in therapy, in case you’re wondering.