My bf (34) is the FP of both me (39f) and another pwBPD (29f).  She asked to much time out of our lives it was unreal and both me and my bf are inveterate people pleasers. I told her I needed more time to ourselves and she started telling my bf lies about things she really did. My lies are more like, “I’m good. I’m fine.” They’re not about trying to wreck someone else’s life. 

I’m still trying to figure out what the fuck happened!