for months i liked this guy at my work and when he finally made a move i said no because i was seeing someone??? i dont know why i did this. i made it all up in my head, that he was also totally into me, imagining us together and shit like that but when it finally happened i said no. i think im doing this with like.. 3 other people currently right now and i dont know how to stop. this other guy is going to ask me out soon (he’s told &amp; asked my friend about it) and i feel like im going to say no when it comes down to it. god i hate it so much. its like my obsession consumes me and then my paranoia about everything catches up when it all becomes real