Question: 

Your FP suddenly stops talking and interacting with you the way they used too, without giving you a reason as to why. They seem distant and like they're trying to drift away or "ghost". What do you do? How do you react to this kind of situation? What do you feel? Do you have an outburst? What happens with you? I'm curious what other FP's experience in this regard. I've never had an FP actually leave me...it's always been me in the past that leaves or detaches first in fear of losing them but i'm curious..what happens on the flip side? 

Ive been romantically rejected once by a best friend i had in the past and that made me 20 times more obsessive and stalkerish back then, but i finally calmed down when they talked to me again but i was very spice and bitter towards them for a good 2 weeks because they decided on their own to "just go silent" in order to give me space...space i didn't ask for.. and i perceived that as them leaving...

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I'd love to hear thoughts and experiences as well.. i'm curious about this... even though i have bpd, i honestly don't know how i would react or how well i would take the situation. 

if im told by the person "i'm leaving", generally i can comprehend that and be okay with it eventually, although i will be cold and say something like "fine, then go, but don't ever come back". Its when people don't say anything and then leave you hanging..is what im curious about..that's a whole different ballgame to me.