Anyone else here a parent with bpd or maybe your spouse has bpd? I feel like I'm just set up to ruin my kids forever even though I try so hard to be my best for them. I'm working on myself for them. I don't want them to end up like every other child that psychologist talks about: a child emotionally abused by a bpd parent. 
You Google search and that's all that comes up. It's like they don't believe we can be amazing parents and we will do nothing but harm them. 
I do have moments where I explode but all parents do. I don't hurt my children. I try to talk things out with them as much as possible. I teach that we need to voice our feelings and why we feel that way without being mean or hitting. I even explain to them that I am not always in control and my mind works differently than most and they are not the reason for my reactions, and apologize. 
I'd just like to see more positive bpd parenting out there. Cause we can do it. It's tough, but possible. 