Idk if this has been discussed here but how do you guys deal with idealization and devaluation? I know for a fact that I will get over a certain person but the period between idealization and devaluation is painful if the person isn't reciprocating the way I want. Its almost like I become obsessed with them and I want them to be around me all the time or tall to me all the time. A few days ago I legit cried because the person I am speaking to right now wasn't their usual self and hadn't returned my text.