I have the same arguments with my husband and at the end of it he always blames my BPD and doesn’t take responsibility being part of the conflict. How do I deal with a partner that used me as a scapegoat every time I try to express myself. If he doesn’t agree with with what I say it’s always my fault, he accuses me of having a “split personality”. It’s so frustrating to try to reason with someone when they use your weakness against you.