I've done thorough research on borderline and I'm convinced I have it. My old therapist said she could see it and my new one is going through the chcklist with me and I'm pretty sure she'll agree. However my therapist can't diagnose so I went to a psychiatrist who diagnosed me as bipolar nos. I just don't feel like that fits but I want meds to help stabilize my moods and i'm not really sure what to do. Also the nurse seems to think my anger outbursts are panic attacks.

I can't really afford to go anywhere else but some advice on what to say to get the proper help would be appreciated.