What's splitting? What's an FP? Why am I the way I am and what are the terms for things and what does it mean I am so confused. My therapist isn't a BPD therapist, so while she's fantastic in other ways this just isn't her area, and I was only just diagnosed with this. Ugh, I'm so overwhelmed and confused. I added the baby borderline flare because I'm new to all this I guess?