Been hanging out with a guy and talking to him every day for a little under a month now. He knows that I was just out of a relationship 3 months ago and I told him initially in conversation that I don't want another relationship any time soon. We have been sleeping together, I tried to revert it back to us just being friends but then we ended up sleeping together again. I care about him a lot and I want him to stay in my life, we've helped each other through so much in such a short space of time but I'm just worried that he wants more from me than what I can give him? We haven't had any proper discussions about feelings except on the phone tonight where he said "I care about you a lot" which freaked me out cos even though I care about him too, it's kinda in a platonic way where I enjoy his company and appreciate his friendship and I'm physically attracted to him but I just really don't want a relationship or commitment right now and I just don't feel strongly for him in a romantic way. I feel like a shitty person cos I don't wanna hit him with it out of the blue or give him the impression that I want to be more than good friends who have sex ?? I don't feel intensely in a romantic way but my abandonment does get activated when he doesn't message me back etc and it's confusing lol 