And at what point , like how severe, were you? I have someone in my life..who needs an official diagnosis, I am concerned they might become more suicidal if they get it right now. Someone unofficially diagnosed, and told me, not them. They hit the DSM criterior and are like comorbid adhd.

 I am just concerned about them..They are in benzo withdrawal as well, and in their mid 40s..so. They are really severe right now. I did get them to purchase a dbt book but they are refusing to go through it with psychiatrist. Bc I am the FP, they sometimes flip out on me. It can be a little scary as I am a petite woman, I am just trying to be strategic for both myself and them. I am .. at the end of my rope, and extremely concerned.