Hello,

I am not a sufferer of BPD but my girlfriend is. Yesterday we had a big fight that almost lead to a break up. She said that she didn’t know what she wants at all and she feels the need to run away to a place where no one knows she has bpd. 

We have been together for 4 years now and i have heard this from time to time. She says she feels like shes not a “real” person.

I just need some perspective. I love her but it hurts me when she says things like this. I want to comfort and support her but i feel like i don’t know the right way to do that.

Thanks