For a while this girl was my FP. She's hilarious, fun, and an artist, but I also found connection in her moodiness and willingness to dig deep in the darker parts of life. I felt like she understood me. I also see a lot is myself in her, like neediness and overwhelmingly powerful emotional reactions to everything. But lately I've been noticing more and more borderline behavior in her (she is not diagnosed, I am only talking about behavior) and we've been having more conflicts. Pretty much every time I'm with her now she jumps down my throat about something I say and, because I'm quiet borderline, I tend to just take it and feel shitty about myself. And then later she is texting me like everything is normal again, begging for attention. She does other things that make me wonder if she has it but I won't go into it here because that's not my point.  So, anyway I've been less willing to hang out with her and feed her attention since so much of our time is being spent with her starting things, and it just made me wonder if most BPDs are friends with other BPDs and how well that works - I feel like it would be a constant battle of chaos and neediness. Do any of you have friends with BPD? Are you close friends? Do you fight often or are you each other's FPs?