I wanted to see how many people here want to have kids or do already have them. 

My boyfriend and I have chosen in the past year that we will be child free. We are in our late 20s and have been together for over 4 years and we both realized last year when we moved out together how much we do not ever want to have kids. Neither of us think that its a good idea. I have BPD and he has C-PTSD so we are both quite unstable at times. We both have a hard time taking care of ourselves like cooking every night and cleaning up the house regularly. We both have chronic health issues too like we both have sleep apnea and he has a pituitary gland tumour and I am very iron deficient so we both always feel awful. We also both have family trauma and drama so neither of us are keen on continuing our bloodline or whatever. He’s going to get a vasectomy when he turns 30. 

I’m just super curious as to what others with BPD think about being a parent.