This topic is new to me but my friend who has BPD recently connected me with the idea that my girlfriend may be borderline. It's a touchy topic as I don't want to assume anything but I will say all the things I'm reading sound like my relationship.  
  
My question is: how can I introduce this topic to my girlfriend and have her sincerely consider getting evaluated?  
  
Here's what I know:  
1. She has a therapist  
2. She hasn't seen one for awhile and freaked out two months ago about being late and missing her appointment    
3. She has a bottle of meds in her purse but that's not for me to know about - I have not looked or tried to read the label  
4. When we are calmly talking, she describes this as "her problem" and that she wants to fix it but never concludes that therapy is the solution . 