I am very proud of my little accomplishment.  Normally when my husband rejects me (or I perceive he rejects me) I get really bitchy.  Yesterday I was in a really good mood and decided to surprise him in lingerie when he came home from work.  He was very happy and excited but obviously had a lot on his mind.  He said he really liked/enjoyed my surprise but could we please pick this up later.  Now normally I would have been very upset.  But I said sure and we went about our evening (dinner, taking care of pets etc).  Ended up having a very nice evening together