I have not been diagnosed with BPD. Only posting here cause I relate to a lot of the common symptoms. Basically, when I’m not interacting with someone on a deeper level, I still act like a weirdo, (intense emotions, self-hatred, oversharing) but it’s not as bad. I’m wondering if anyone here experiences a decline in their symptoms when things are surface level. Asking because I’m currently questioning my choice in partners. Maybe I choose people who don’t make me feel safe and that’s why things get worse when I’m in a relationship or there’s a bigger issue here.