she was distant all day today, and this last few week she has seemed drained from talking to me when usually we can talk for hours. we talked yesterday and she said sorry i’m too tired to talk. i feel like she’s being distant, i feel like she doesn’t like talking to me anymore like we used to. she told me she didn’t want to text but to message when i get home from work n i did and she hasn’t responded in two hours. i want to message her and say is it still like before ? do u get tired or drained from talking to me? why can’t we talk as long as before? is it me? why r u ignoring me and being distant? do u still feel the same? 
but i know that would be awful. how do i ask these things without being so bpd