I met this amazing girl (I'm also a girl) a few months back. At some point I started falling for her but she rejected me and we remained friends. Recently, we met again, we kissed, and I asked her if we would be dating from now on. She answered that she couldn't say yes or no and to just know each other. Of course, I was already head over heels for her. Today, two weeks later, I couldn't anymore and asked her if she could give me an answer. I don't deal well with uncertainty and I am sure 100% that I was in love with her (the feelings never truly went away). I did ny best to give her space while still making it clear what I felt, but...I guess that was too much too because she said ahe felt pressured into reciprocating. She then explained that for her it took a lot of time to develop feelings, which I honestly did not figure out until she outright said it.

I don't know. I feel like I did the wrong thing. I am still in love with her, and feel like I ruined things. I don't know what to do, I miss her and I want to backtrack and ask for another chance. But I don't know if that would be healthy. 

Has anything like this happened to you? What can I do? I want to be with her, but also I don't want to insert myself into anybody's life or push her even further away.