Okay, so me and person A, are going through a difficult time, we both have never understood why I behave the way I do with them. Until I started to try and understand relationships more through therapy. 

I stumbled across the “favourite person” and the more I am reading about it the more I come to realise I think that’s what’s happened and why it seems so toxic. 

Does anyone else have a favourite person and how have they dealt with it when it’s someone so close? Like to me, reading it. Seems so toxic and if that is what it turns out to be am I better off letting that person go, even though it’ll be hard?