I was only seeing this guy for a couple months and we were completely different people. He's pretty messed up, and with both of our personalities combined it was doomed to end. He's the type of person that has difficulty with showing affection and being emotional. He likes to be more on his own, other than his cat who he's crazy about. I'm the type of person that needs constant validation and kisses all the time. I get jealous easy and attached too quickly. I know it gets exhausting for most people. 

A few weeks ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. It was one of the rare times he was drinking, and one of my usual times blacking out. I don't remember too much of what he said but I know he put a lot of feeling into it and he said he talked it over with his friend and he was going to ask me the next day but he said he wanted to right then and there. I said I wasn't ready. I'd be moving soon and I wanted to see how things would go. 

I left almost two weeks ago to move to a different city for university. The night before I left we got in a fight because he got annoyed that I was being overly affectionate all day and I stormed out of his house. He texted me and apologized, and we talked a bit and kind of made up but I haven't seen him since. I was feeling super lonely after moving here and he told me I could call him whenever and he'd be there. So we talked and he listened to me complain and talk about school. 

Then last week I asked him to come see me over the weekend (3 hour drive), and I didn't really expect he'd say okay and that was fine, but instead he didn't reply for 8 hours and when he did he just said "sorry I can't. Helping at work." I never replied and he never texted me again. It's been almost a week that we haven't talked. 

Going from waking up next to him every morning to being in a strange city living alone and not knowing anyone, it's taking everything in me not to try and talk to him. Even though I know he doesn't care about me. It's pathetic. 

And I don't know if I'm overreacting and being too needy. Does he really not care? Am I expecting too much out of him? Did I scare him away? I don't know how to do this. All I know is I miss him more every day. 