i’m not clinically diagnosed or am even able to get therapy or help but i have quiet bpd traits and dependant pd traits. pls give me advice bc my attatchment style is so anxious and insecure!!! i constant miss him and literally cry now and since my menstrual cycle somedays like this week im just easily triggered. but for example 3 minutes ago i was on call with him and he was in the kitchen w his sister and i couldn’t help but cry. i try to be normal and join in on conversation but i cant help feel inadequate or i just feel angry or sad that i’m not getting all the attention. i told him about but not directly about the situation w his sister just ab my attachment issues. i know he loves me but his sister is quite attached to him too and as weird as it sounds i feel like im competing for his attention with his sister??