I'm in love (polyamorous), and I'm about to drop everything to run to someone (lives 10+ hrs away) who I've had to cut out of my life for abusive and manipulative behavior. He's been through childhood, adolescent, and adult trauma. He understands me and loves me so well, but his mental illnesses go largely unchecked, and it hurts me beyond what I can bear.

I just want to go to him and start fresh. Get him help so he can work on these things. Everyone says Stockholm syndrome.... I feel so alone.

I am a mess. How to cope? My current partner is supportive of whatever I need but I feel like I can't talk to him about it. Therapist says turn off social media and email, so I will start there. 

And ideas welcome. I feel so lost without my love.