I keep going to him for support but nothing her says helps. I don't know if it's my bpd or him. Emotional breakdowns end up in arguments and we end up telling each other we should break up. He comes around later on and says he's sorry and he'll try and be more understanding of my issues. But it keeps happening. He insists he's trying but I really can't see it. I feel like my bpd is at fault for that, but I really don't know. This time I'm sure it's done between us tho.