I started dating again after ending things with my husband of 14 years (still hurts but that's beyond the point.) I'm really happy with how things are going but I hate that I don't have a personality of my own. I feel like the guy I'm with is dating my ex husband, not me. Though I don't even know who I am, so.

I texted him and after re-reading the text it felt like I was reading a text my ex had sent me. It read exactly like he would text me. Same kind of wording, mannerisms, everything. I don't know who I am and it annoys me. It's like I'm just an amalgam of my previous FPs. Who am I even?