But I've tried Vraylor and I'm on lamotrgone (Lamicitl?) currently. Vraylor killed my libido completely and made it impossible for me to climax. For awhile, the Lamicitl was better, but it's still *very* hard for me to climax and I still don't have a very high libido. And it matters to me bc it's affecting my relationship; myan and I rarely have sex anymore. and idk what to do. Has anyone who's experienced side affects like that found any meds that don't do that? Also, the Lamicitl doesn't even always work. I still have days where I'm really depressed still sometimes fly off the handle in uncontrollable rage. Is there a medicine that dulls the negative emotions more/better that won't make me totally numb? I need to go back to therapy, but I don't even know how to talk about all this...I was only diagnosed like 2 years ago and I'm still trying to navigate it. Any of your advice and experiences with medication and side affects (specifically sexual ones in women) I'd really appreciate it.