My friend who has BPD, is at the lowest point in his life. He has been unemployed for 6 months and his symptoms are getting worse and he is struggling finding a medication that works. He recently just had a set back where he was offered a job but they changed their mind and went with someone else.

His mother sounds like she is fed up and called him disgusting. I feel so bad for him.

All I really can do is text him or leave a voicemail. I am wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what I could say or send to him to cheer him up? Maybe something funny?  I know he gets very depressed and sometimes goes to the hospital, and that could be what happened.