My foster daughter (age 14, been living with us for 3 years, i like to think we are pretty close) has had a depression episode for about a month(not wanting to go to school, poor hygiene, extreme mood swings, etc). 
She confessed to me she wanted to die and didn't want to live anymore. I felt like this was a cry for help. She didn't have any sort of plan except "nothing that involves blood" 

I took this as crisis mode and called all the help in our circle (therapists, doctors, psychiatrists, etc) and she's started medication, therapy bumped up to twice a week, and we were advised to lock up anything sharp or harmful. 

The problem is, now she is back tracking and says that there's a huge difference between "wanting to die" and "wanting to kill myself" and i broke her trust and she's never telling me anything again. 

So my question is, would you have done the same thing?