I am a person without BPD, but am dating someone who does have it. Before I keep typing, let me preface this by saying that I love her immensely and   I will always do what I can to support her. Last night was the first time I’ve hit a point that I’m kinda holding on to. 

Her and I dated last year, broke up and are currently working on things. I had given her a ring on her birthday which she wore for months before the breakup. Obviously after, it came off and hasn’t been put back on since. Last night I was over visiting her and her parents when she made a comment saying she thinks her sister left an engagement ring from a long time ago because she knows it’s not hers and doesn’t know where it could have come from. She goes to her room to get it and it’s the ring I got her. I text her to tell her that’s HER ring and sent a picture of it on her hand. I was completely crushed. I felt like it meant nothing to her. She apologized and said she felt terrible, but I still can’t shake the feeling of that having no meaning to her when it meant so much to me. I don’t know if I’m in the wrong for this but I don’t have anyone to vent to who would understand and the other forum seems to not have any understanding people there. I apologize if this is triggering or comes off as attacking at all. I just needed to get it off my chest. 