My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago, and of course I started dating immediately to get over it (I am actually in an okay place where I don't necessarily need a relationship right now, but still crave validation) 

I have noticed a pattern where I'll match with a guy, he will be very very into me and text me all the time (a dream!) but once we meet and have sex, I no longer exist to him.

This is a huge problem for me because before I meet the guy I am usually not super interested, but once having hung out I become obsessed.  But it's like we switch places in regards to our mentality. 

I am really suffering because of it.  Sorry just needed to get it out there, and I can't talk to my friends about it because it just seems so pathetic.  