okay so i saw this tiktok  “ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8XsHtVS/ “. and now it has be re evaluating my life. i honestly domy think i am an emotional abusive person towards my partner, but i saw this tiktok and now i’m like, “wait since i have bpd does that mean i’m emotionally abusive?”. i don’t think i am tho? me and my partner are very open, we both have jealousy issues but we try to work through them. him also having jealousy issues makes me feel less crazy. bc it’s not like i’m the only jealous one. i can be very extra at times, but i feel like my extra ness is not emotional abuse at all. i feel like if i have a super emotional response to something that he did, it’s usually justified. 

does anyone feel like this? does anyone feel like they are secretly emotionally abusive but can’t come to terms with it? i really don’t think i am but now i’m overthinking.