I could use some input. I think I’m stuck in the I hate you don’t leave me cycle. Everyday I’m annoyed or angry at my partner/fp then we fight and then he claims he wants to leave or says break up and I come up with ways to make us keep trying. We have a lot of baggage from the past seven years, and I feel like I can’t be close until we rebuild from those traumas together. So I am always feeling like when we have these breakdowns it’s for the best and for us to learn from and grow. But at this point I am unsure if it’s just I hate you don’t leave me, or if I’m right and it is just more growth growth