Me and my teen stepdaughter had the perfect relationship. She moved in just over a year ago after neglect at home. We spent hours chatting about anything and everything, we'd snuggle on the couch and watch films with popcorn and we'd go on days out together etc. I was also her emotional crutch which slowly became suffocating. She was out of school for a long time due to personal issues and I had a breakdown so we'd spend all our days with each other. I've recently gone back to work and she's going back to school which has resulted in more clinginess. I don't know why but I've split and now I can't work out how to bond with her again or let her back into my life. I know it's my fault and I feel like I'm letting her down but just don't know how to change it. Tried looking for support online but just came up with a ton of articles about how being in a relationship with us is the worst 🤦‍♀️😔
Any help would be appreciated, thanks