I have BPD and have temptations to be manipulative…usually when someone hurts me I want them to know how bad they hurt me and feel tempted to go the extreme to make sure this happens. But knowing this, I try to figure out how not to because in the end I don’t want anyone to feel as bad as I feel everyday. I do wish people had more compassion towards persons with BPD, or would at least hear persons with BPD out. We deserve that.