I am an asexual/questioning-the-romantic-part (I don’t like guys but I’m not sure I like any other genders either) woman and if I ever decide to have children, it will be through adoption. Both of these are firmly held identities/beliefs I’ve had for a long time, from before I was mentally ill. I have told my psychiatrist this on multiple occasions, but she seems to treat this as a symptom of my depression/anxiety and keeps saying I should be willing to open my heart to love and I’ll find a man and to make sure to tell her when I’m pregnant so she can change my meds so as not to harm the baby and blah blah blah. I won’t be seeing her for much longer, she’s a part of my university’s health program, but I’d like to know how to deal with this going forward. What is the nicest way I can tell her to drop the subject, that this isn’t something I want to discuss?

Tl;dr: My psych thinks my asexuality and not wanting to birth kids is a symptom rather than an identity/belief, how do I tell her to quit bringing this up nicely?