Obviously you guys know this. But I’m just so sick of hearing it. I’m NOT manipulative. And the only time I lash out is because you trigger me and you know what my triggers are!!! So don’t trigger me and I won’t lash out it’s that simple.

The funny thing about all the “BPD abuse” stories is that 99 times out of 100 it’s just people assuming their ex has bpd and calling them abusive. Stop diagnosing people if you aren’t a psychiatrist!!! Stop giving us a bad name!! And most of the time in those stories they admit to being toxic themselves (but don’t see it as being toxic). Like okay so you can push someone around but when they fight back THEYRE the ones that are evil and abusive? Uh huh. Sure.

I hate when I tell someone I have bpd and they assume I’m evil and abusive because of it. And I hate when their source on why I’m abusive is because an asshole on Reddit self diagnosed their ex and posted about it and they assume it’s true.