Apologies if this isn't the correct place or way to ask, but I just stumbled across this subreddit. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 2.5 years now and she is amazing, she is the yin to my yang, she cares for me like no one ever has. She tells me her emotions run rampant and she can't put the breaks on them, while I spent most of my abusive childhood teaching myself not to feel at all. Our twenties were tough for both of us, her losing her daughter and me losing my brother. Basically were two people who've gone through hell and decided we might as well walk together.

Recently I got some scary lab results, and the first thing she did was start doing some research on how she can best help me with my medical issues.  I want to do the same. I'd read into bpd a bit before me and her began dating and so I had a surface level knowledge of what it's like, but no real primary sources for everyday advice, that's what I'm looking for. Please help me support her as best as humanly possible. Thank you.