So hello, I have not been yet diagnosed with bpd although I'm seeking help, trying my best with the help of my boyfriend.

Theres an issue I have surrounding this illness. My boyfriend is the best human being I've met in my life, he loves me so much and is trying his best to help with my mental problems. But he can't really fully do that these days because his parents found out I may have this disorder and now they are saying I'm the worse thing to happen to him, how I'm ruining his life even though it's not true at all, he's happy with me and he chose to help me and be with me. They are not letting him spend time with me. He can't date me so now he has to lie to his own parents which I understand is not good but they don't even let me get help and prove I'm not so bad after all.
It honestly just makes me so tired and unhappy that he has such parents. We are yet too young to live on our own. We are graduating high school next year so technically in June we could move out but that 8 months away. I thought of letting him go but he wouldn't let me go anyway so there's no point in that so we decided to fight for our love. He decided to stood up for me. I'm so grateful.

I'm just asking you guys if you have any idea what we could possibly do to make them believe I am not just my illness and that we could live a normal life which I belive with the right treatment and help is very real.

Thank you for every reply I get (if any, haha)