my partner and i are both in our late 20’s and have been together for years, we also have 2 children. i was diagnosed with BPD and have been trying to work on myself a lot since then. my partner is very well aware of this and my “problems” that comes along with it. i’ve been asking him a lot to be patient with me and understanding and to kindly stop doing things that trigger me. i’ve sat down and told him what triggers me, however it doesn’t seem like he listens. i love my partner to death but he does not seem interested or willing to hear me out. so often i feel like he thinks im this huge mean, crazy, miserable person who can’t control herself. what else can i do to try to make him understand?