disclaimer: i dont understand sociopathy or ASPD, despite my research. also, the term sociopathy in this context does NOT mean this kid is insane/violent/ a serial killer. i just wanna know what you all think, may it be him on the spectrum, anxiety, or just extreme introversion, or self esteem issues etc because for a lack of better words; he is fucking odd. its also 4 am as i type this. 

 So im i met this guy in one of my uni courses. he was quiet which is fine, it was an early class. he was cute so i asked for his snapchat. id reach out to him but he seemed uninterested, again, normal. he doesnt like going out at all, and we go to a party school so thats bizarre. he is into me sexually and i sound conceited saying this but theres clear proof of infatuation between us, but he doesnt persue it. he doesnt pursue anything with anyone relationship wise. yes again, normal for a introvert. heres where he gets weird:
the first time we hungout i didn’t wanna hookup. he tried really hard but i said can we please do it another day. he made up, or so i assume, the most bizzare excuses ive ever heard. he told me
he cant hookup during the week because he specifically has to take his sleeping pill at 8 pm and i said okay, well i never said it had to be at night. he said he is busy every other minute of the day. i said okay...well if it has to be at night why cant it be before you take your meds or cant you wait to take them. he responds with no i have to take it at 8 because my friend shot himself in the face from not taking his meds at the right time, and i am 99.99% sure that never happened, as i am friends with his friends, one of which his bff from kindergarten, and ive never heard of this incident. he also said he couldn’t do it the next day because he “will be on a lot of drugs and watching football” when he doesnt do drugs and rarely drinks, so this literally didnt happen. he could have like any normal guy say yea sure another time is fine even if he doesn’t mean it. or say something like a realistic lie as in i work everyday and i get too tired ro hangout during the week so this is a one time
opportunity etc. anyway, in person he is literally robotic. no personality, gets put off if i talk about anything regarding myself, any response to anything we speak about is just stale and on the ruder side. again for example, he brought up how his old professor was hitting him up. i said jokingly i wonder if its legal for an ex prof and student to have relationships, he said no it isnt allowed that isnt a thing, couldnt even joke about it, and in a super stern, monotonous manner. this is what i mean by weird responses. often ill say anything thats neutral or just a comment with no emotion attached to it, and he wont even respond or react. like conversations in person arent like that....? i could be totally crazy and just in denial this kid clearly is a normal human who is just showing signs he isn’t interested in me, but i don’t know man. i dont know how else to explain he just seems so off. i also forgot to mention he got
“cold” after i rejected the sex that first time. even though we literally still ended up having sex later on, and he got what he wanted, his whole demeanor changed permanently with me. still to this day, months after.