I'm new to all this so even realizing I'm splitting is a big thing. But now that I'm seeing myself split my so black and 100% feeling the NEED to break up with them but knowing I'm splitting I'm trying to suppress it and its so hard. I usually just flip out then break up then we get back together but this is a new relationship that I want to work out and I'm trying not to. How do you deal with not breaking up w someone when they're split black to you?