I have a great relationship, but my SO and I have been fighting a lot recently, and barely seeing each other with his new job. 

Is it me acting up because my abandonment issues are all flared up and raring to go since he's always at work and never at home anymore?

Is it because he's focused on enjoying his work and doesn't want to deal with my emotional intensity, so he's pushing me away?

Is it a series of random fights about trivial bullshit?

Is he right that I'm seeing this all wrong, or do I have some valid concerns and feelings that need to be addressed?

If I bring up my concerns again, will I realize later this made no sense, I was acting insane and deeply regret it?

Who f**king knows.