Hi, I have a theory that I would appreciate input on from others with BPD and suggestions where I might find more information on this. I have heard, and wonder, that loved ones of people with BPD crave their BPD lover/friend/acquaintance approval and validation on an intense level. Some people with BPD have a magnetic energy about them, and their loved ones deeply crave their approval and validation, almost in the sense that we would crave our favorite persons attention. I’m not talking about the initial stages of charm and love bombing. After this, when they’ve seen you at your worst and “who you really are”, do your loved ones excessively crave approval and validation from you? This has been verbally expressed to me by loved ones on several occasions, and I’m interested to hear other’s opinions. Thanks!