My wife (with bpd) and I (without bpd) have been together for 20 years and have five children. She was diagnosed with bpd about a year ago. She has slowly been brought down out of her meds that had her numbed for so long to where she is on hardly any now. She has been in dbt for over a year. She has just recently accepted the fact she's has bpd. Further she has been using trees to cope with recent issues and her docs are also aware of it. As of the last month I have seen changes in her that are very characteristic of bpd and seem to be increasing. Our relationship has struggled. We were in marriage counseling before and I think we need to go back. She wants to throw in the towel and wants to split up/divorce. Knowing the issues she faces I want to try to work on us. Also to note she is on disability due to mental health issues and physical issues due to a bad back. So working full time to support her self is kind of out also. Any responses for either of us would be great.as she is not a redditor I will share them with her give her response as well. Thanks!