Been seeing someone for a couple months. Very beginning I sent him some articles about BPD and told him some of my triggers. Namely, don’t fucking not text me for a day, and understand that I can be real insecure and weird if that happens. Now he’s been acting distant and weird because we fight every time we don’t talk for a couple days... like... yeah, I get I’m annoying. But I thought you at least understood my basic needs. Like is it so much to ask to just check in once every 24 hours? Is it weird to ask you not to fucking mess with my head by being so loving when we’re together and then disappearing for two days??? Am I fucking crazy? Please, I need some guidance here. 