Something that drives me crazy is that when i get into arguments with people (mainly my boyfriend in my case) it starts with one issue and then the fight turns into things that we said throughout that argument and so on the inception and then its just a bubble of misunderstandings and “u literally just said” and “no i said this because u said that” and it all builds up into a weird pointless mess of a fight. I get so frustrated because i start feeling like he isn’t making sense and there are contradictions, (which could be him or could be me because im just frustrated and all over the place so i take things too personally and misread them) and then i think the reason he’s contradicting himself is just so he doesnt piss me off which pisses me off even more and throughout this whole fight at the back of my head is the belief that he’s a SOCIOPATH (even though i know he’s the sweetest purest thing on the planet) so to me everything he’s saying is basically sociopathic contradictions and lies 
and i start wondering whether it’s me who’s wrong or whether he is and omgggg

Does this happen to anyone else or is it just me 🤕😅