Hi guys. It’s not my first time posting on here in search of advice, because I am really at a loss with my gf. She has BPD, and she’s in a very awkward, inconvenient, and helpless situation right now, despite being an adult. I have tried suggesting EVERYTHING, but I can’t do ANYTHING because it’s a long-distance relationship. I don’t know if it’s healthy to be in a relationship with her right now. She’s receiving no treatment or medication, and her life at home is horrible: she depends entirely on her abusive parents. Our relationship has been gradually going downhill, and it feels weird being committed to something I, well.. barely enjoy anymore. I would still love to be her friend and support her, but I don’t think romance is a good idea right now. I’m constantly venting to my friend about our (currently) dysfunctional relationship, and please don’t tell me to confront her (I have a million times before).. She just doesn’t trust me even though I trust her, and I can’t stand it; like, I’m hurt. I can’t control how she feels, no matter how much reassurance I offer her! I’m not sure what to do, but my gut is telling me to break up with her. I know there’s no easy way going about a breakup, but should I even go for it?