Someone told me today that no one will love me unless I fix my issues. "Why would they willing put themselves in a difficult life when they can have an easier life with someone else" 

Though I realistically know they are wrong... this is what goes through my brain. Why would you subject yourself to someone who has a hard time managing their emotions properly? Why would you subject yourself to someone who self harms? Its too much to handle even for myself. So why should I think someone else can handle it?