My boyfriend struggles with clinical depression. He goes through bouts where it gets better or worse and right now it is particularly bad. I’ve never struggled with depression before so I’m unsure how to properly support my SO through this time. I love him but sometimes I struggle with finding the right words/reactions. I’ve tried to encourage him to reach out to his therapist, and take a break from school so he can focus on his mental health but I find myself getting frustrated with him for putting things off or not addressing them at all. Lately, he’s been a bit unreliable and I know it all stems from his depression so I’m working on having more patience. What are some helpful tips for someone dealing with an SO who has depression? How do I communicate my frustrations/ needs without piling it on even heavier? Am I allowed to address these issues at all? I could really use help in navigating this issue.