I'm putting a trigger warning just in case it dredges this up for anyone here

It's been 6 months since my partner of 4 years and I broke it off and I find myself sifting through key moments and the day to day while we were together,

They would often yell at me if they were frustrated ect and talk over me or answer questions directed at me 

They also had this ability where if they were in a bad mood or I had upset them or not answered them correctly, their emotions would be like 2X gravity could feel it emanating from them, especially if i rejected there advances for sex and then would Start a tally of days since we last had sex

Just from this was I technically is an abusive relationship?
 I can't really figure out whether I was or im just over reacting?

Thanks ❤