My husband and I have been having some financial difficulties. These last couple of months.  New ac, new transmission, credit card bill that keeps getting higher.  We just got news that his dad is in the hospital with Covid pneumonia and is not looking good. I want my husband to go up there and not have to worry about anything so I called his brother and asked him if he could lend us some money for the week so he could go up there.  His brother flipped out on me on the phone and said he has enough shit on his plate that he doesn’t need to be worrying about other peoples problems.  He so right.  I have never gone to anyone in the family and I really thought he would help. Now he’s just super angry at me and I am hoping he won’t tell my husband that I went to him.  When all I want is for my husband to go home and be with his dad during this time.  If anyone can give me any advice right now I would greatly appreciate it. I hate that I may have messed up my relationship with my brother in law over money