I recently split on someone close to me. I luckily just festered in my own room and didn’t put it on them. My thoughts about it made a little bit of sense to me and I wanted to know if anyone else feels the same way or can relate.

Basically, I’ll let people do whatever to me, say whatever to me, if it hurts or is a low blow to me I’ll ignore it even if it stings. I’ll ignore it all for months or longer. Until it’s too much and they do something that really hurts bad. Then it’s like all those little things that upset me come to the front of my mind and all I can think of is how this person has always been so awful to me, despite all the good and normal situations we’ve been in, it’s like those little things I never mentioned to them and bushed off are no longer ok with being brushed off. Idk if I’m making any sense but I was thinking about this today when I’d catch myself splitting.