I am 36 and diagnosed with bpd. I work full-time from home, as a supervisor for a large company, and make good money. It’s much better than when I used to have to go in to the office daily, but it really flares up my bpd because I am in constant meetings all day and have a lot of interpersonal issues that I struggle with due to the nature of my job; I don’t like being in charge of a team or dealing with people constantly, even if it’s virtually.

However, I live in a very high cost of living area and have no other means of supporting myself and no feasible outside help. When I was younger I used to not be able to keep a job at all because my bpd was more severe then, but I was extremely poor and can’t go back to that.

Now that I’m older, I can keep a job outwardly, but am just so miserable and triggered all the time.

I could never survive here long-term on disability and don’t have a partner. Has anyone else found *good* paying careers or jobs that they can do part-time or that don’t exacerbate their bpd? Please share if so.