I have quiet borderline wich means i just suffer in silence ebery time my girlfriend doesnt answer for days or she cancels every effort i make to try go to see her and i really dont know what to do. I have already told her that she hurts me every time she does something like that and she seems to understand and makes me feel better in the moment but then she does it again.
I have been with her 4 years now and i really love her (and sometimes hate, you know that fp feel) but more recently i cant feel anything but just doubt and the fact that she says something but acts completely diferent is killing me (like "i care for you" and then just dismisses me when i try to talk about my feelings), i know thet she having ADHD may have something to do with how she acts but i really dont know anymore.

How can i stop this or am i over reacting? I do t want to hurt her feelings and lso i dont want to lose her because i feel like anyone will ever love me if se leaves...