Every time my husband and I fight he always brings it back to his point that I'm "so angsty and traumatized from every traumatic event that's happened in my life". I yelled "I'm glad you finally understand that". He always does this thing where he tries to hug me and make me hug him back by physically holding me and forcing me to stay there so I pushed his hand away and he started yelling at me again. I finally said it "I want you to say it. I want you to say what you're implying by saying I act this way or that. I want you to say I'm crazy and there's something wrong with me".

He talks to me like having a mental health issue is the problem for everything wrong in my life. There's enough stigma with this disorder. I don't need to feel it from my husband too.