I (21F) am so tired of being branded as the not "fun" type of person. Honestly, I'm more of a listener than a speaker and I don't have a lot of crazy stories to talk about because I've spent most of my life in a very turbulent household and feel a little anxious around men because of that. Apart from that as well, I'm just not a very outgoing person and don't really have fun in large crowds. Idk if it's cause I don't have the right set of freinds or what. 

Anyways, I was hanging out with a group that I don't know very well (because I was trying to be outgoing and all) and I started to feel a little anxious because they were mostly boys and so I didn't speak much. One of then just asked if I'm this serious all the time, or if I even have fun in front of others. He said it in a nice way and I know it's a small comment but I felt so hurt and just started to feel more anxious. Idk I'm just once again disappointed with my inability to be as easygoing as others. 

I want to get better, I dk how to