So I think I might have bpd but I'm a minor and can't rlly get a diagnoses. I easily get very obsessed over people/ attached rlly quickly and that's what's happened. Today I met a friend of a friend who I've been constantly thinking about ever since.

He has a bf and even if we did start dating it just wouldn't work out. We're already alright friends and have been borderline flirting a little. I don't wanna just ghost him but I know this already is unhealthy and anything more would be a bit toxic for the both of us. I've been checking our messages every 10 minutes then worrying I'm being annoying when there's nothing.

I don't wanna stop talking to him but it might be the best option. Idk, what do you guys think?