my family member is getting gastric bypass. if anyone here has dealt with it before, i’d love some advice. my anxiety about it is through the roof. 
i’m wondering how everyone dealt with their families and adjusting to all the changes. with a supportive family, how long did it take for meals to feel “normal” again or when did you reach your new normal? 
what steps did you take to help each other get past the hurdles and make things not so focused around food?
as someone not going through the surgery but trying to support my family member, i’m struggling with feelings of guilt for being able to eat what i want but knowing they can’t do the same. how should i support them?