So I’m at the very early days of a relationship and I can feel my unhealthy dependency / attachment and abandonment issues flaring up like fireworks on New Years Eve. 

My mood is entirely dependent on his responses and I am currently freaking the fuck out because over the last two days his WhatsApp has started only receiving my messages every few hours (as in just one tick instead of two). Which is causing me to spiral thinking he’s turning his phone on airplane intentionally just to avoid my messages. 

If the relationship was a bit more established - I would tell him. But it’s genuinely too early in the relationship to talk through my problems or for me to even be having this level of attachment, but it’s genuinely driving me up the freaking wall. 

I’ve never had a relationship where I like someone so much. Usually I fall into relationships because I want to feel loved or I’m bored, and I maintain the power at this early point (and then it implodes later!) but I’ve never liked a person as much as I do now at the early stages. 

My question to you guys is how to cope.