 

So my original post is [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/ffoe20/jealousy_issues/)

I ended up talking to my boyfriend about it today. I basically said that this will most likely not be an isolated incident but that I'm working on it and will talk with my therapist about it next week when I see her.

He was super understanding and responsive and said that while he won't change who he is, he will be more sensitive to my needs. This was in regard to an incident I brought up from a while back. I thought he was hitting on a waitress but he was just joking around.

As for the Instagram stuff, I'm going to just have to get over it. He says he doesn't follow any Insta models and everyone on his Insta is basically people he knows so, yea. I'm not going to drive myself crazy looking through his Insta followers because it might make things worse (I say that now but who knows about the future lol).

So yea, that's all. Thanks for reading.

TL;DR: I talked with my bf about jealousy issues and he's cool with it and we're good.