Idk how to explain it …. 
My therapist is a good person in general and It’s  not a extremely recurring thing but certain times my therapist focuses on being more scientifically rational than emotionally ration ( again idk how to explain it ) 

Sooo …. Like there are certain words/things I use as coping mechanism, I just feel she sometimes disregards those mechanisms, maybe she wants me to instil  better methods but again I feel she goes into the more scientific rational around it than emotionally validating my experience 

Idk I just want to know your insights on therapy and what actually happens with your therapist .. because this is my first experience with therapy and idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ what the norm is