the title, i almost never initiate text because whenever i do i feel like it just falls flat on its face... so when someone texts me be a friend who i havent spoken to in a while or something else that i feel obligated to respond to i get super anxious thinking of all the ways i could reply and if what i respond is ridiculous or way too boring... a lot of the times i just end up not responding because of the anxiety, does anyone get this/any tips?