My brother said: "You have some superiority complex."

I - I...

I don't know what to say to be honest.

I'm fully questioning everything.

My brother wants to be in the army and all, he's very 'macho' and it can get annoying.

I just don't know if I do have a complex or not?

Bpd can have manipulative aspects, so I can see where he's coming from.

But superiority?

I'm just confused. my sanity is defiantly messed up right now.

After he said that to me, I walked away.

If you don't have anything nice to say...don't say it at all. But maybe he has a point?

I'm just wondering...

How do I find that complex and 'tune' it?

How do I build up my sanity?

I can tell my brother the stuff like: "You're gaslighting me." or "Stop being mean to me."

All of my life, he's been doing this to me. I can't tell if he's being kind, and brotherly, or patronising, or joking, or...something...? I must be missing something here?

Can someone please help me?

I don't know how to react...if you get me? I don't know how to feel about that comment...

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I feel like coming on here and asking for help could definitely be a superior complex, right?

I just TRULY don't know how to feel right now. 