Pretty much self explanatory. My (28f) bf (28m) of nearly three years said he feels out of sorts in our relationship and while he says he wants to work on it, he isn’t doing anything. 

I spent the last few days feeling terrible, doing anything to make him feel better - hating myself for causing this. 

But this evening I’ve completely swapped into pure, poisonous rage. How dare he do this to me, to send me into such chaos. He is the one who has triggered all three of our fights in the last few weeks. I am so fed up and I feel my heart shutting down, ready to break up with him before he hurts me. I feel my soul weaponising everything he’s done wrong and all I want to do is get in a screaming match with him - to tear him apart and hurt him like he has hurt me. 

I am venting. I just want to get this venom out of me. 

Why should I cry over a stupid boy?