From  the group definitions ,I believe it's okay to post here. 

Let's start with, I am trying to learn.


So my question is, long term, let's say marriage,  do these relationships ever work out? 

I mean for both sides to be happy. 

Another question I have is: Are BPD and dissociative order a hand in hand thing? Violence with evil intent and then rewriting what happened is just stunning. Especially when you know that they believe that it didn't happen like that and the only thing that happened was the other person was being so bad and made them so angry.