I've had symptoms since I was like 11? I almost get manic sometimes, but it only lasts for a few minutes to a few hours (sometimes a few days). Anything minor can knock me out of the clouds (like getting told I miswrote a word or something). My depressive episodes are horrible, but they usually don't last very long (a few minutes to a day). But, here's the issues: I'm only thirteen (turning 14 in a month). Most doctors won't diagnose you with bpd (or even really consider it) until you're 18+. But, it's severely disrupting my life. Can't keep up any relationships and going from practically manic to depressed in seconds doesn't exactly help especially for someone going into high school. Is it worth it to tell her (my psych)? I like her a lot and she's not judgmental, but idk how to proceed. Help? 

Extra: my mom may have bpd, but never got diagnosed. my dad suspects bpd in me too. siblings \*may\* have bpd, but I'm not certain.