Today I saw a potential job opportunity (I am employed but severely underpaid) and while I was excited it was short lived as I found out it was an MLM scheme. I (39M) was discussing this with my gf (35F) and she told me I have to keep pressing on. I reminded her that I have to juggle my current job, a job search, my chronic migraines, my kids, and her, and although she is usually compassionate, I feel like she just didn't get it. We are very close and we want to move our relationship forward and be able to move in together, which I need a better job for, but pushing it like that just makes me so anxious. I already know I need a better job, but I literally can't think during a migraine episode, and they are very frequent. I am honestly at a loss for what to do, she has never done this before but it got so deep under my skin. I really needed to get this out and see what other people thought about it.