Hi, i just joined here. I think i may have bpd i’ve done some research and it seems to be the missing piece in my diagnoses. 

So i’m just wondering, if it’s possible to have more than one “favourite person”. Like to have a main one, and then others around that i’ve noticed the “splitting” happens with, however not as intense and not as often. 

In this case it’s 2 people. My S/O as the main, my parent as second. 

I’m guessing it could be a normal thing with teens/parents but i also experience paranoia with my said parent occasionally. Thinking they’re lying and whatnot. It just doesn’t happen as often as with my S/O. 

As i said i’m not diagnosed however i have a strong feeling that i may have this and am going to call a professional tomorrow.