My girlfriend which I love with all my heart for a month now is haveing bpd episodes of hopelessness every week where she feels I don't and no one cares about her.

She feels evrything I do is an obligation but I can't ever get throught to her besides seeing everything I do, think and feel etc isn't an obligation or to get anything out of her or a game I am playing to fuck with her.

I have cried tears over this girl cause I feel the way she looks at me and the bond we have but I feel this mental illness and the demon she has inside of her puts weight on us every week it seems.

Is their anyway I could help or do anything more then just comfort and reassure her? I try my best and reading and understanding bpd and all the triggers, problems and etc but it feels that I am helpless.