Please, please help me, I'm 13 years old and I think I have ADHD. I want to tell my mom but I’m scared. I have been thinking about this for 2 years or so. I believe I developed it around the age of 10-11 ( I’m not sure, since I have forgotten half of my memories) everyday life is getting harder and harder, I could manage it at first, but now it’s getting out of control. I make careless mistakes more often, I talk without thinking more often. I even lost my appetite for 2 weeks. And now I feel sick whenever I eat a bit too much. I lost 4kgs. I used to weigh 49kg now I weigh 46. I’m in my last year of middle school and everyone has big expectations of me (myself included). The exams haven’t even started and I feel like I already failed. I thought I could ignore it but it’s getting way worse and I very badly want to talk to my mom about it. But don’t know how, I don’t want to go up to her and say, I have ADHD! That would probably scare her. I’m so nervous on what’ll happen, like what if I go get to see a psychiatrist but I end up getting misdiagnosed? I know that girls get underdiagnosed more than boys. Ugh I’m overthinking. Please I’m begging someone to give me some advice!