So I met a girl who has bpd and we were really getting along. She was in an already dead relationship with a guy who just didn't care. We started dating, slept together and she finally broke up with him and moved out alone. This process took about 2-3 months. We were chatting and dating throughout and she said she wants to be with me etc. Looked like she was enjoying it. She told me she missed me and all that. Now the moving out was 2 weeks ago. Everything was fine until then but once she moved she started ignoring me. The breakup hit her hard out of nowhere. She said she doesn't want anything from anyone now and ignores me 100%. Doesn't even check my messages anymore. I saw her once at work (we work close to each other) and she looked awful. Really sad and tired. Her birthday is coming up and now I don't know whether I should still message her or even give her a little something so she might feel better. I don't even know if she is interested in me anymore but while we were dating it really looked like that. What do you think? What should I do? I really don't know if ignoring her is better or being there for her. I don't know much about bpd yet so I am asking you guys. Thank you!