I recently lost my fp a few months ago and it was incredibly unhealthy.  

All my favorite people relationships seem to be unhealthy, and I have gone from fp to fp for as long as I can remember. 

I know that having one is a characteristic of bpd, but I was wondering if I should avoid it? I don't have an fp right now, and it feels terribly lonely but also I feel much saner. 

Is it wise for people with bpd to avoid having an fp? Is it beneficial?  

Thanks for any thoughts/advice! 

