Hi everyone.

I'm dating someone with BPD and I'm still trying to understand everything about this disorder. I've been doing some reading online on how to best help them.  I'm asking how to best be there for them and help when they have mood swings and don't want to be talked to. 

 I try to fix problems but I don't know if they understand that I'm trying to fix the problem and they think I'm blaming it on them.  I dont know if I'm explaining this right and I'm not trying to come off as mean spirited or as an ass.  I'm just trying to learn how to help them the best way I can.  I know they need a lot of love and support and reassurance and I give them all the love in the world and understanding but it feels like I'm not doing enough sometimes. 

Any advice would be great and im sorry if I broke a rule trying to explain what's going on.  Thank you for reading this.