Hey guys, just curious if this is a feature of BPD.

I go through these moments which sometimes last only half an hour or at times they will last for a few days. I start to feel very angry and thAt turns into feeling destructive. 

Things that will happen in these scenarios are me wanting to break up with my boyfriend, cut off a close friend, wanting to quit my job, feeling extremely irritable, just an all around feeling of “fuck it”

I can snap back into normal thinking sometimes after I do something that is not healthy and come to my senses and apologize or take things back. But I realize this is not fair to do to other people. I want to get better and stop ruining things for myself but I feel out of control when it happens. My boyfriend thinks it may just be a facet of impulsiveness but I’m not sure how to proceed in making it better.