We're LDR and right now I'm giving him space. He broke it off because I didn't like how he treated our relationship compared to his friendship with his LDR ex who he says he 100% has no interest in going back to because of the age gap (11 years. She's 19). I'm not controlling at all and if it's healthy I support people who are friends with their ex. It was just an issue where if they were hanging out he couldn't acknowledge me in front of her because she still likes him and when we argued on this he used her upbringing as the reason for still being supportive in her life even though I had the same upbringing and know that she's super young and with how he treats our relationships in front of her she still believes their a chance even if he's telling her no to her face. In the argument he learned a lot about my fucked up background but said I was trying to trauma dump instead of showing that I know how she feels. That honestly hurt but I'm trying to move past that because he did say he would slowly push her to be friends with people her own age. Beyond that our relationship has been amazing and we were/are great motivators in each other's life.

After that argument he split me black forcing all feelings for me to be gone but he said me reaching out a week later and wanting us to heal from that argument did get to him. But it was a roller coaster where he went from saying he lost all feelings --&gt; telling me he know's he'll regret breaking up with me --&gt; telling me he will never get back together with me --&gt; being open to trying again after I reached out --&gt; shutting that down saying he only was going it to be nice --&gt; telling me he did feel something when we started talking again &gt; telling me he has no feelings, let's be friends, and for me to move on --&gt; popping up randomly in a group call TIPSY yesterday when I was spending time again (platonically) with a new guy and another friend acting very interested in what I was doing.

I thought we were on a text/call alone basis but I tested that water and we're not. When we're with friends he doesn't initiate any conversation with but never ignores me and even still repeats things I say right after or randomly later. I don't know what to do. Do I just need to wait and see if he comes back to me? I feel like an annoyance now if I try to reach out to him again.