This might be a bit long but I’m desperate for answers. We’ve been dating for about a month, but I had a crush on them for at least half a year. I’m very happy that we are finally dating, but I have a problem. I found that I’m completely obsessed with them, to the point that when they went on a ten-day trip far away from my home I just have this crushing feeling of loneliness. It is so bad that I’m literally considering suicide because the pain is just too much to handle. It is also the case when they’re talking to someone they like (even completely platonically) I just feel nothing but envy. I definitely am more susceptible to obsession because I’m on the Asperger’s spectrum which means my brain just functions differently than to most other people. I think that it is literally ruining my life at this point. I hate myself for this kind of feelings, I know it’s also mentally strenuous for them. And I really want them to be happy. I am very desperate for advice as nothing I tried even came close to working. What to do, to be less obsessed with somebody?