Hello,

I've briefly dated a number of guys with anxiety and they all seem to be very different with how they handle it and the symptoms. Recently, I went on two dates with another guy that was very nice and courteous. He mentioned he was going to therapy for anxiety. He did not go into the specifics, but he said they're more like follow up sessions now so I thought that meant he is doing well with it. He, also, tends to go to the bathroom abruptly for issues relating to an upset stomach, but I suspect it might be related to his anxiety. 

So this weekend, we were messaging each other and for his last message, I didn't see any questions so I figured I can respond in the morning and we have only been on two dates so I did not want to overwhelm him with too many texts. The next day I messaged him and in response, he texted back saying that he experienced anxiety because he thought we were texting consistently throughout the day, but when I didn't message him back in the evening, he felt anxious. He cancelled seeing me this week and apologized; said it's not my fault that he is still experiencing anxiety. I offered to help in any way I can since I felt so bad. 

Can someone please explain this to me?