Now there are few flairs that could’ve fit this but I chose to believe that this is a small triumph of mine.
The guy I’ve been seeing for bit over a year didn’t know about my BPD. Yesterday I decided to tell him and someone in general for the first time, and gosh was it awkward and scary I was shaking. But he reacted fine, better than I expected, said it’s all good. 

Yet today I am not hearing from him and I understand. It’s a lot to process. Tho I wish he would say something. But yeah it’s still a tiny victory for me! Wish y’all a nice day/night :)