DAE feel like they get involved so much in their SO’s life and neglect their own likes/dislikes/routines, and feel like it’s never reciprocal like nobody gives a crap? I’ve felt like that my whole life. I hate always being a follower and feeling like people are never interested in what makes me me.

I go through life becoming addicted to my SO’s interests and helping them along with what makes them happy and just completely getting ignored about what makes me who I am. I feel like nobody cares about my hobbies or what makes me happy and I’m just there to be their follower sometimes and I’m not enough of a person for them to have the same desire to k ow about my life and hobbies etc :(