Things like being in a dorm and realizing in a loner (I try to be nice and formal but I make others uncomfortable being a Loner). Also everything really makes me hate myself. What's there to like? I can't even give myself a break. Trying to mingle is useless and maybe even destructive. 

Can anyone relate? How do you deal with being a Loner if you are one? Things are 100x worse when I'm not a loner ( I go through phases.)