Inb4, yes, my husband and I will be going to marriage counseling and he will be seeing a therapist+ psychologist in max. A week.

I'm trying to get an inkling of what he is suffering from so it helps me understand him in the mean time. I'm not searching for a solid dygnosis from reddit, I am searching for educated guesses or any informative personal insights. I'm at a total loss at what these behaviors I see in him stem from or what direction they point in.

His behaviors:

•Follows people around the house screaming and arguing. •Constantly insit's someone is lying or being manipulative, etc. •Constantly enters specific thought process loops where he can only think of one negative topic, (something I have done in the past even though we have addressed it 10000x times.) He can't break out of the thought loop and ends up livid.

•"Trying to put all of the pieces into the puzzle in my head."

• Hits, shoves, throws things, screams in your face, dumps luggage onto the floor, steals my phone and digs through it, runs outside and throughout the house with it.

•He deprives me of sleep shaking me awake if he is upset with me.

•"Why CAN'T I know -?" something.

•He apparently has done these things to all of his family members since childhood.

•He has admitted to fantasising about cheating on me and has used dating apps to match with other women.

•He admitted to downloading loads of porn in spite of me even when we weren't fighting and things were great. Sometimes even beside me.

•He believes he may have moderate OCD tendencies. Counting steps, actions in 4''s or 16's.

•He has a subtle tic that gets more apparent and he develops new ones when he is under a lot of stress and anxiety.

•He talks in much slower drawn out sentences trying to find the "perfect words".

Does any of these behaviors at all point to something?