How long does it typically take to get over a breakup? And how do you know when you're over someone and ready to move on to a new person without the past relationship holding you back? For context i broke up with my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago. She blocked me on everything because I kept trying to get her back and after days of crushing despair and fear and anger i found someone new and i am completely and totally in love with her. Is this to soon? Is this real love, or BPD trying to find a new FP/deal with the pain of us breaking up? What are you're guys' experiences with how long it typically takes for you to move on? And any advice in general on trying to stop relying on an FP? I feel like I'm always clinging to one person or another and don't know if that's just love or what...