yeah I get it, because it's just mental, you think that I can just get over it, no not at all actually when moving on to something traumatic, it takes time to build up the neural pathways not to care so much or to let go of certain thing's. At the end of the day yes, we all do have to eventually toughen it out and get over it, but when you try your best to move on every day exerting excruciating amount of effort. it just gets me mad because that's not how it works at all, if you can then that's good but for me, I've tried to and it doesn't work that easily for me.

mental illness is real, you cant toughen out everything just like in one go in a day, pain doesn't subside like that, when you've experienced trauma. It just really makes me mad when people say that its really insensitive when I'm trying my best, I know that's what I have to do. its like people don't think that you have to move on but I do, I try to "get over it" everyday adopting new mindset's and being excited about the future and working on myself constantly every day to the point where its my main priority no work just working on my mental health. SO believe me when I say its a lot harder than just getting over it, there are ups and down's but remaining up all the time, while inst the midst of recovery is really hard.