For the record I am in love with this girl, but this is not what this post is about, for now I just want her to know I'm her friend and I'm always here if she needs anyone.

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So around 5 months ago I started working in a new place and  I met this girl with BPD, ofc at the time I had no idea. Mostly we just greeted each other when we passed by, until a mutual friend of ours introduced us. That was around 2 months ago.

From that point on we started talking a lot, she told me about her BPD in the very first few days, guess she was comfortable with me because we are close friends with the same person. 

Around 2 weeks ago I started realizing she was talking a lot less to me and giving a lot of dry answers, according to our mutual friend I have kinda annoying and did some stupid things. 

Been thinking a lot, but can't figure out what I've done wrong. Either way, I gave her space, have been talking less to her.

 She hasn't remove me from her life, if I don't text her for a day or 2 she will text me and still tells me about her troubles etc... Which is good I guess.

As I couldn't figure out what I've done wrong, I just told her straight forward to be honest with me and tell me when I do or say something that makes her uncomfortable. Right now I don't know if that was the right move or not, I'm just trying to do the right thing here.

I really like talking with her, but after knowing I was being annoying I feel so scared to start a conversation with her.

Sorry for the long text and how incoherent it might be, I not a frequent writer.

At this point I don't even know what was the purpose of this post. I guess I just want some advice on how to show her I want to be there for her and that she can rely on me if she ever needs someone.