So this happened. 
I parked my car on the side of the road .. my dad and mom were shopping so I was just waiting for them ..... I was chilling and out of nowhere someone hit my parked car from behind.

This was the first time it ever happened to me.

 I didn't know how to react to this ... 

I got out of my car to talk to the person 

He was inside his car ... Mumbling something... 
And I legit thought that he was drunk... 

I started telling him that  u have to pay for this and stuff... 

But he was just mumbling... I freaked out ... I shouted at him ... For being drunk and being irresponsible. I asked him to pay upfront ... ( It was not a high amount ) 

But he kept mumbling "my insurance... My insurance will take care" ... I don't want to take this situation further cause it was not a high amount...  

Then I got to know that he was slightly paralysed... 

And that's why he was speaking like that ... 

I felt bad for him ... I just asked him that u can settle this by paying a small amount and u can just move from here ... But he insisted that he wanted to cover it with insurance...

I don't want that hassle ... 

Then the traffic policeman told him to move the car ....  He taught me how to start his automatic car ...( I drive gear one) and I parked it somewhere safe... 

He started talking about his life... He was an army veteran who got shot in spine or something... He was a high rank officer in army once ... And clearly he was educated, calm and composed. We were just talking but his phone kept on ringing.. probably his family.

I again asked him that he can pay and we can move on... But he wasn't in the right state of him...

But after some time he just paid me ... 

I felt guilty for taking the money but I needed it to fix the car... 

He then wanted to pee somewhere... So I helped him get out of his vehicle holding his leg and moving him out of the car ... 

He wasn't even able to stand on his own... So I helped him ... Get somewhere where he can relieve himself... 

I even helped him to zip and buckle up his pant ...

He kept saying I'm so sorry for ur disturbance .. god bless you ......

I then helped him to get inside his car by literally holding his leg and placing him inside the car...

. All this time his phone kept ringing... His daughter was calling him .. probably because he was not home yet...

I felt guilty about taking the money... So I just said I don't want it ... Please take it... 

And he refused... 

I kept saying "I'm sorry for shouting at u first cause I thought that u were a drunk irresponsible person... I don't want the money " 

But he kept refusing ... 

So then he told me to give it to the beggar who was watching all the drama ... 

I just gave it all to the beggar... 

He said God bless you and started his car and got away...

Now I'm feeling like an asshole for making him wait ... Even though I couldn't understand what he was saying... 

I should have let it go and seeing his condition I shouldn't have asked for the money.

Even though I didn't take his money... I just wasted his time and gave him more  problems... 

I feel like a dumbass... For making him suffer...

And I'm feeling low thinking about it over and over ... 

I didn't handle the situation carefully.

I'm feeling bad about it.