Hey guys,

So there's this girl i know and she's said quite a few harsh stuff to me and it really got into my head and made me question my self-worth (it wasn't just what she said but a combination of what she and others said that did). She's said these stuff before to my face:

\- "XYZ is pretty, not you"

\- "XYZ can sing, you can't"

\- When someone was complimenting me saying that I looked good, the person who complimented me asked this girl whether she agreed and she didn't really agree with it and I was standing right there!!!

\- She neverrrr compliments me but compliments everyone else

\- She always laughs so hard and gets excited when people put me down and she adds to it - it's like she's waiting for that moment.

I for a fact know that (not bragging), I objectively do look better than her even though that doesn't mean much. But do you guys think she keeeeeeeeps putting me down because she is insecure of herself? It hurts me so much when someone outrightly says stuff like that to my face and i take it to heart even though im learning not to.

if all these comments are coming from a place of insecurity or jealousy, this is really pushing me harder to work on my appearance (like i feel motivated lol)

I think she likes me personality because we used to get on quite well until she started putting me down for my looks.

thanks!