idk if it's the lack of self but someone could say one thing about me, like a personality trait or something, and i'll have a crisis over it and make it who i am as a person. for example, someone could tell me my favourite color is green (it's not, my favourite colour is pink). but i would legit HATE myself for that, and obsess over it, like, "wow green is my favourite colour i guess. i'm a green person. green is me." and then CRY ABOUT IT. or i'll find a new hobby and make it ALL me. that's me now for the next few hours/days/weeks/months