Just venting. I’ve been looking for a room for a little while and finally found something promising. The place already has 2 people and they’re looking to fill the 3rd room. We decided to video chat to get to know each other before me moving forward with the application. The call was great, they seemed so friendly and we all had similar vibes. Right at the end one of them says something along the lines of “well, I don’t see any red flags, doesn’t seem like you’re bipolar or have a personality disorder or something”. The other one chipped in with “yeah like your last roommate”. I had no idea what to say. I ended up not saying anything and finishing the call. I know they didn’t mean anything by it but it really made my skin crawl. The comment was made worse by the fact that they emphasized wanting a “liberal and open minded household” AND that one of them has a PhD in clinical psychology 🙄