I know I'll never know without asking my ex, but I could use some perspective. My ex was diagnosed with bpd and we did not talk much about it, I actually forgot he had that diagnosis until a few weeks after he dumped me. We focused more on his struggles with depression/anxiety during the relationship.

 I'm just left feeling confused on how we went from such love and words of affirmation to him wanting to break up the next day after we had an arguement. After the arguement I was so confused I decided to get a therapist to help me naviagte the relationship better.. Like start of the week was love and affection and future talks about forever and always to a mid week arguement and the next day it's over via a phone call. 

We haven't spoken since and I'm just left wondering if any of it was real. Bc it was real to me and I'm feeling so destroyed. 

This post was sparked from hearing a song he used to say reminded him of me. Its a super happy upbeat song and the lyrics say "I found the one" and all that stuff