For starters I (17m) live with my  parents (57m, 57f). My parents have fought and argued with each other as long as I van remember. However, about a year and a half ago my parents had the biggest argued for close to 10 years, im not sure how it started by my dad had the toaster in his ha ds and he ended up throwing it ar the kitchen floor, smashing it into several pieces. My dad has always had anger issues, probably due to the fact that my grandparents got divorced when he was around 10. Anyways it got to the point where my dad almost pushed my mom, who was standing on the kitchen counter (she was cleaning the dust off the tops of the cabinets) and this fight when on and on for 10ish minutes. Thankfully he never did push her, but my mother and I realized that he had that in him. Fast forward to july 5th 2022. Im laying in bed with my bedroom door open. My dad walks in a tells ne to get my medicine, so i walk down the probably 8 foot long hallway into the kitchen and take my pills, im about halfway back to my room when I hear my dad raise his voice at my mom becuse she haf gotten some water or something on the door handles to the refrigerator. And he proclaims that he'll rip the fucking handles off becuse everbody gets their dirty fingerprints on the handles and hes the only one who ever cleans them, now by this time im sitting back on my bed with the door open looking at my phone. Since I was looking at my phone i cant really tell you what happened next, but i do know that my dad ended up pushing my mom and he fell and hit he arm on rhe floor and ended up breaking her arm. So I end up taking her to the ER. While waiting for the x-rays my mom tells me that she is done with my dad. Fast forward to july 22 and my mom and I are driving to my cousins wedding and she tells my all about how she is going to see a lawyer in the next month or so and how beacuse she doesn't want my dad to know that she will be getting a divorce i can't tell any of my friends or anyone for that matter and, goes on to say that from about September to November my life wont be very good, becuse my mom will not be moving out, and from the first major fight 1.5 years ago my dad made it clear he wouldn't leave either, so while the divorce is getting finalized they will still probably be living together and all that stuff and like I said before my dad had some pretty dad anger issues so my mom dosnt really feel the safest. So yeah i just need to get that all of my chest.

* sorry for any typos or anything