my boyfriend and i have been dating for a while now, and we have a very good open relationship with each other. i know he loves me and cares about me, but i don’t. he’s been different recently. less affectionate, more spacey, more aggravated, it hurts seeing him like this. he doesn’t really even want to do anything sexual anymore. things have been really hard recently on both of us, and i talked to him about this and he explained it’s just because of his intrusive thoughts and i can absolutely respect that. so why does it hurt? why do i feel like he hates me and doesn’t want to be around me anymore? i don’t want to self sabotage again i really love him but i don’t know what to do.