So, I am almost always anxious in the car, however the level of my anxiety depends on who is driving. If my boyfriend drives and my music is playing, I'm mostly fine. If my stepdad is driving and music is playing, I'm a little anxious, but not as calm as I am with my boyfriend. When my mom is driving, I'm just anxious the whole time. Constantly checking my heart rate, needing the ac on my face (which she will turn back down the minute she gets cold), shifting in my seat, the works. 

Like, just today, I was on my way home from school and she was driving. I asked if she could turn the ac up or if she was just gonna turn it off because she was cold. She said she was already cold and asked if it was because of my "anxiety nonsense". 

I think this is probably the reason I get so anxious with her, but not with many other people. With my boyfriend and stepdad, they are willing to accommodate for my anxiety. My mom is almost apprehensive about accommodating for me. She has actually said that she thinks my anxiety is just me acting for attention. 

Luckily, I'm moving out soon with my boyfriend and I won't have to be in the car with her as often. Maybe once every two weeks, if that. 

Does anyone have any tips in the mean time? If not, no worries. I also just kind of wanted to get this off my chest, because not many people around me understand. Thanks for reading. &lt;3