This week my ex has not been very responsive (we are still involved). He went days without texting me and it really triggered some abandonment issues. When I asked why he isn’t talking or trying to hang out with me he said he just doesn’t want to talk to anybody right now. I get that because sometimes you just want to take a break from life and so I backed off. But last night, I didn’t respond for a few hours. My last text was “you make me feel like such a burden” and he asked how but I was just not trying to bother him with my feelings anymore since at the end of the day…we aren’t together. I had plans with my cousins and decided to just enjoy time with my family. He starts texting me saying niiiiiiiiice have fun y’all girls like wtf? I asked him why he was bugging and he brought up an old hookups name saying he should’ve listened to her about what she would say about me and called me treesh. I told him I’m with family and not out partying or whatever and he asked for pics but didn’t believe they were from today and then asked to FT. I agreed but he said nvm I already blocked you from my phone. I do not understand what the fuck is going on. Why is it okay for him to go days but I can’t go a few hours not texting him???? Even with proof (I later sent additional proof of a group pic with the time stamp) he just continued to accuse me of being out and doing something sus. He left me on read when I sent the last pic. No apology for acting crazy nothing. Even though he’s bugging I was just crying all night because I felt anxious and like I fucked up. I just need some advice on what to do going forward and also possibly explain why he acted like that. my worst fear is the whole cheater accusing you of being a cheater. my mind is racing from the different possibilities (he’s avoidant attachment if that helps and nobody ever cheated)