So we’ve known each other for a while now me and her, and I honestly have such a good time talking with her and she’s made me more vulnerable and emotional than I would’ve ever imagined. However, she’s lately been suddenly disappearing for like 10+ hours and when I try to get her to talk about it, all she does is tell me she either forgot what happened, or changes the subject and asks me how i’m doing. 

So all of this puts me in a really tough spot, I can’t figure out exactly what to do, i think in my head like should I spam text her or call her? or would I be too pushy and would not really be giving her any space.

This all just makes me really worried and I just don’t know how to make it better. I always encourage her to talk about stuff, but whenever she disappears like that she never talks about anything. So i’m just asking for advice or any help would be really appreciated. 

Thank you.