Okay so this post is both a question and a ramble/vent lol.
So my girlfriend has bpd and she’s on her period, yesterday we were talking about sending each others pictures (yes that type of pictures) and other things while we’re not together physically.

She asked me what I liked, told her and she said « well I don’t really do that so if I do I would have to force myself » so I told her that I didn’t want her to do anything she didn’t feel comfortable doing and I didn’t want it if she had to force herself to.
And she got mad from that, she told me something like « even me forcing myself should be good enough for you » then asked me to delete all her pics cause she didn’t want me to have them (which I of course did).

Now she’s been ignoring me for almost a day, just sent her a goodmorning message telling her to have a nice day.
She told me a few days ago that her period were comming, she usually get mad but not that much so I was wondering if period could make things worse.
Something similar happened with one of her best friends a month ago exactly (cutting all contact and stuff).
They are friends again now but yeah I’m still scared I’m gonna lose her.
I’m also debating about sending a goodnight message tonight even if she doesn’t reply.