sometimes when me and my bf get in an argument, if he feels like i’m just not listening he will spam text me with the same thing. random example “that’s not what i meant” followed by that same text sent anywhere from 3- however many times he feels like. it really triggers me and i’m not sure why. it flips a switch in me and i get so angry and it feels like it’s hard to breathe and i want to shut down. just wondering if anyone else has any similar experiences or if i should be looking for reasoning elsewhere, maybe some issues with my childhood, maybe just some anger issues, or maybe i just don’t enjoy being treated like an idiot but I still think my reaction to it is a bit much. figured i’d check in here first though.