She said it was obnoxious. She clarified that she was referring to my behavior and not what I actually am...but instead it now feels like that's all I am, because she thinks that. I can be quite impish, unruly, and yes, unpleasant. Lately I have been under a lot of stress on all fronts and I get into a lot of confrontations with strangers. I feel like I always have to " right" things, as if to compensate so many wrongs. I'm especially reactive right now as I feel like I am just going through the motions of my life as I am sorting things out.

I'm not sure that actually being obnoxious is the issue I have, but that she thinks I am. I'm confused.