hi. i noticed something recently that i use sex for emotional validation, i don't know if anyone else does this but in my last relationship when my partner was being distant/cold with me i would have sex with him or do sexually things for him to fulfill that void. i use to do this a lot in my other relationships as well i feel like i use sex as way to be accepted, feel closer to them and connect with them .. i feel super ashamed of it looking back at it and i don't know what to not think.