i have a boyfriend. he loves skiing, baseball, playing video games, trying new things, he's super intelligent and loves giving his opinion on current news or politics or just anything in general. me on the other hand, i dabble in art and music and I'm not well educated on current news and i have social anxiety and one of my BIGGEST fears is giving my opinion in fear of being wrong or embarrassing myself. i can never continue the conversation when he brings up such things because i don't want to sound stupid, but i feel bad. he's good at basically everything and he loves trying things and he's really good at them and i just fear that one day he's gonna want a girlfriend who is athletic and can ski and doesn't have a fear of trying new things and failing like i do and i have a hard time believing that he doesn't deserve better. i don't think his family loves me and his siblings haven't really opened up to me yet. i mean he's so much better than i am, but somehow he still loves me, so i wonder is love really enough to keep the relationship going?

and disclaimer, i know some people might say that i should change myself a bit to accommodate to him and I'm trying but I'm just having a hard time right now, and I'm trying to consider what would happen if i kept struggling and he didn't want to deal with it anymore. i try to play videogames with him occasionally and i try to try new things and to stop being so insecure and have such low self esteem but, i still think he deserves better. i don't know what to do or think. males of reddit, what would you think if you were in this situation?