i am a 17 year old girl im exhibiting symptoms of bpd and i have for a very long time.  its started rly happening severely now that i am in a relationship and i can literally see myself acting erratically but it feels like i cant stop and my functioning is affected based on my mood swings and emotions. but anyways naturally if i had symptoms id want to go to a doctor to clarify. but my family is very recalcitrant because theyre too busy working and also have marital problems so theyre not really that concerned about me even when i constantly bring up that i need to see a therapist. they always point out how im emotionally unstable and get really angry and cry and about how i cant get a job but they never listen to me when i tell them i need to see a therapist or be on a sort of medication. but anyways i really rely on my bf like its sad but i just love him so dearly that it's debilitating. hes always been supportive ive always been open with him a big part of our relationship is sincerity and ive been really open with him about my symptoms and we've been trying to reason and find ways of helping me cope. so i think that its only fair i should tell him that i think this might be wrong with me so we maybe could understand better. keep in mind im saying MAYBE. im not self diagnosing, i do not have a diagnosis but a therapist is out of the picture rn but once i get the chance to see one ill tell them my symptoms and so on to clarify. but is it fair that i should tell my bf that??? is that weird?? is that wrong???