My anxiety manifests in my stomach...vomiting, frequent bowel movements...

Today when walking to class my child (5m) vomited.  He was wearing a mask so the mask filled and the vomit dripped all down his clothes and shoes.  Why did he throw up?  He said he was scared to give his speech.  Today is their quarter summative oral presentation assessment (kindergarten has sure changed from when I went).

So now he's home, and so are me and dad, and the kid is just fine, clearly not "sick"...we talked about some strategies for dealing with nerves but my heart is aching. I don't want him to have my problems.

Anyone else find your kids following you?  Any tips or things that worked?  Why can't he just be like his daddy instead...