 I know these kinds of things are dealt with professional help.
But how can I help him when he has bad thoughts about himself, thoughts that hurt him, I think in this group you know what kind of thoughts I mean. I want to help him when his body doesn't calm down, he sweats, his heart is racing, the symptoms of anxiety, I want to help him stop thinking everything that hurts him. 
And the truth yesterday his anxiety level reached another level, he vomited and told me he thought he had a fever, he felt terrible. Really, I want to help him with everything I am, I want to do it, he deserves to smile. 
I want advice also for when I can't be there for him physically.
It really saddens me a lot that he feels this way, it hurts me a lot to see the person I love so much suffer.
Thank you for reading and I look forward to your responses.