Is it possible to be in a happy and loving lasting relationship when you have BPD? I feel like I have so many problems that I can’t get ahold of and I’m self aware of all of them but not sure how to fix them. I’m going to call about therapy tomorrow. My boyfriend of a year (my longest relationship) whom is the father of our daughter left me today because I took things too far like I tend to do and then realized right after. He wants a break and to return to things when I get help but will I ever be able to be in a functioning relationship without all these issues? I feel really abusive and toxic and don’t want to be this way anymore I want help