I grew up in a very invalidating home and was basically told to never show or have any negative feelings and was punished for expressing them.

Then, at 19, I was violently stranger raped.

It set off a chain reaction of me completely losing my sanity and sent me into self harm and eating disorders and a decade of treatment.

I know 19 doesn’t count as childhood trauma, though the brain hasn’t fully developed yet, but has anyone else experienced an emotionally invalidating upbringing followed by sexual trauma in their teens and then developed BPD?