so I was seeing this girl for the last 3 months, but broke it off yesterday. not feeling great about it as I liked her and enjoyed her company but there were many reasons why I ended it. one thing i've noticed while dating/with people in general is when I am struggling with something in my head, and someone else comes to me with their issues, I get angry? like irratable rage?? I want them to stop talking. I've talked to my therapist about this issue and she believes it's my want and need to control other peoples emotions. so when someone comes to me with something I can't help or change, I shut off. so much so that i start splitting with people. am i just shitty or is this something i can work on? has anyone else experienced this?