hi, i am new to this sub and reddit as a whole. i came across it while searching for answers about the disorder (BPD), after i was recently formally diagnosed. I have a girlfriend (definitely my FP, even though i do not know too much about the post), who is more than willing to help me in anyway possible. as far as symptoms go, i go through them all, but one huge one for me is the fear of abandonment, we have been best friend for almost 2 years and lovers for 1, she has never veer mentioned leaving me yet i fear it daily. advice? thx.