Hi I’m Justin,
So to start things off I’m almost certain I have BPD coming from both everything I read about it and being a registered nurse having a bit of medical field experience. 
A bit of background I’m 27 and married to a really amazing girl who I love with all my heart; but not without it’s issues.
Impulse control has been something I’ve had a lot of issues with, particularly in relationships. I’ve cheated in past relationships and this one too. Recently, my wife discovered I’d be talking to and flirting with some other girls and understandably is very upset. Tonight we discussed it and while I make absolutely no excuses for myself; my behaviour is wrong and unacceptable, I keep finding myself compelled to seek the attention and gratification of other women.. I’m hoping for some genuine judgement free advice on if anyone else struggles with infidelity with their BPD and what tips they have for managing these impulses.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Thank you all in advance.