So i met this guy thru a dating app back in March and we immediately hit it off. We've opened up pretty much everything to each other, made each other a part of our everyday lives. Even though we still haven't met each other face to face, and we have no bf-gf label yet, I just know that both of us are commited to each other already. Then last July he started texting me less, (went from 1 message each hour into only twice a day). He explained to me that he's busy working on his career and that he's doing this for our future.. he still leaves me 1 or 2 messages but then he stopped talking to me for 4 days saying that he got into a mood where he doesn't want to talk to anyone.. he already explained to me before that he tends to get into those kind of mood (oh and i forgot to say he's an introvert and he seemed like the type who doesn't share his personal struggles to others). I started getting worried because he's usually very talkative, sending me random memes but then he suddenly just stopped talking to me. He left me a voice message which was so hard to understand what he's really feeling but he said that he had to work up his confidence to talk to me (he sounds like he lost his self esteem and he said sorry, in fact he said sorry lots of times to me but still continues to not talk to me. He also left me a long message before saying that i should never think that he is ghosting me, or that  i think he is chatting other girls. He already told me that he couldn't even make lots of time for me like before, why would he look for other wome . He never failed to say that he's not interested in other women, and that im the only one he likes and tbh he is really the loyal type (i can say because we kinda have the same values when it comes to relationships). But still it went on for a week of not contacting me and i felt frustrated i sent him a message to explain his behavior. He opened up that he's struggling and he has lots of things on his mind (feeling like a disappointment to his parents. it was his first time opening this up to me). I was still mad so i asked him if he wants to end what we have because my needs arent being met but he said he never wants to, and that he said he's gonna get over whatever he's going thru and that by the time he is okay, he said he still hopes that i'm still there for him.. It's been a month now that we're not talking to each other. I know it seems silly cos we haven't seen each other yet but i already feel so attached to him, i just wanna know what i should do if you were in my situation, like i was just left hanging because he's depressed.. i genuinely GENUINELY like him. I believe he feels the same way for me. Can you help me how to show my support for him? Im pretty bad with expressing myself and tend to be a bit selfish, putting my feelings first (like in that situation i felt hurt cos i felt like he just "ghosted" me). I figured he needs space so im holding back not texting him. But then i feel like i should send encouraging messages to him but im so bad at putting my thoughts into words and scared that he would just ignore me and i'll feel like a total idiot :( honestly this has gone too long, i hope anyone can help me figure things out :(