As a person new to this BPD life ( undiagnosed, but 100% sure) how does change affect us? Because with myself currently, i’m going crazy. My grandmother is moving out after she’s lived with us my whole life, my mom is getting rid of dog because she doesn’t want to take care of him while i’m in college. My moms moving in September after i leave for college. And, i’m going to college next month. While with others they of course will feel overwhelmed, sad and angry with some of the stuff. I’m actually going crazy, i’m feeling everything and i don’t know what to do, i’m biting my nails and cuticles till they bleed and hurt, but i don’t know what to do, the regular emotions others would feel is like 10x greater right now. How does change effect people with BPD, and how did you learn to deal with it?