Hello everyone, I need help. I am diagnosed with BPD (also anxiety, depression..) and I got one huge problem. I have fear when my girlfriend wants to go out with her friends and everytime she wants to, I tend to get uncontrollable anger and everytime it ends up with her crying and me making more angry. I don’t say rude things or words to her, I’m just letting her know how much it troubles me (she is also suffering with depression, anxiety and most possibly undiagnosed BPD). I don’t know why I feel these emotions. Am I jealous? Maybe. I know it all may sound funny but this is very huge problem for both of us. I don’t need to go out, hang with friends, but she does and as I’m writing this, I’m so angry that she needs to be with someone else than me (AND I KNOW THIS IS TOTALLY NOT NORMAL AND SELFISH! She has the right to do whatever she wants to, but I can’t handle these emotions even if I take 4mg’s of Xanax at once). I am paranoid of what might happen when she’s out, someone telling her things that could manipulate her, I don’t know.. I am in fear that I could lost her, and I know I can lose her because of this behaviour, even that she loves me. I am working on my emotions, but I need more help. Any ideas? Thank you so much. I really need help.