Occasionally my bf will choose to spend 4 or 5 days with me (he will work most of them and just see me after work and stay here) so it's not like we're spending all time together. He just spent most a week at home and then came to see me. I thought we had a nice time. I try to look after him when he's here getting food and drink for him ect.

Then he finally goes home and he will call me and tell me how he wants more time at home when these things are his suggestion. He usually spends his days off work at home gaming so I don't steal his free time away. But just hearing him tell me how he wishes he could have more time at home and how he's with me so much when I always leave the visits as his choice. I will occasionally ask him to spend time with me and do something but I mostly leave it up to him. I then feel guilty for the time he chose to spend with me like I've unintentionally made him spend time with me when he didn't actually want to. It just hurts me. I always enjoy our time together and it just being followed up with him telling me he wants more time at home upsets me.

I try to give him the space he seems to want in his free time so he can get a break from me and do the things he wants but then he will get annoyed at me for being quiet and distant. Like he wants to be in constant contact all day and if I don't respond he starts to think I'm mad. And when I'm upset with things like i am by him telling me he wants more time at home I just want to be left alone but I can't because he will take it as me being pissy with him.