I’m not officially diagnosed with BPD because I’m currently 17, but my therapist, and her supervisor told me that I’m “very likely borderline” based on many of my behaviors. I recently was tested for ASD (waiting for results) and told the psychologist that I was told that I could have BPD. He told me that people with ASD cannot generally have BPD because they don’t understand peoples emotions enough to manipulate them, or care. I do understand peoples emotions but I just can’t always feel them myself. 

My therapist told me that if I’m ASD then that might explain why I have BPD traits, but I disagree with her. I don’t feel like my BPD traits would justify only having an ASD diagnosis; I feel like I need a lot more help than just that? I do have a huge struggle socializing and understanding social cues sometimes (and many other Aspie traits), but I also have about the same amount of BPD traits as well, if not more. 

All in all, I was just wondering if anybody on this sub is both? How did you get your diagnoses?