Question for those with BPD: 

My pwBPD boyfriend has this nasty habit of dumping me and then immediately wanting to reunite. He will list all of my flaws in a hurtful manner, end the relationship, and then beg for me to stay. WTF? 

I have told my boyfriend that any more episodes like that will result in him never seeing me again. He says he is scared of commitment-even though HE initiated exclusivity and bringing up marriage. 

I think he’s splitting. He’s also very sad that I am distant and less affectionate. Why would he expect any different after all of his antics?