I’ve noticed that my FP are typically males and are romantic partners. when i have a FP like this, it takes me SO long to get over them UNLESS another guy comes along, and then they become my new FP and i forget about the old one. it confuses me SO much because i get sooo attached to these men and will do literally anything for them, but when someone new comes along i will forget about then in an instant. basically what i’m saying is, in order for me to get over a guy, a new one has to come along. and then that makes me think... “hmm, if a new guy instantly makes me get over an old guy, did i ever even genuinely like him, or did i just idealize him and have an attachment?” i’m all over the place i just want to know if anyone else experiences this