What the title says. I noticed in myself there's a very rigid sense of fairness , what's fair and responsibile to do. 
For example this got triggered heavily in me with the whole China virus thing and the government not taking responsibility in time, and now the unfairness that it got to Italy and Chinese government did not yet offer any type of apology for it's dumb way of handling the whole thing in the first place.
It just triggers me so much and as I get into this type of mentality I feel myself becoming very cold blooded and not accepting any type of justification or understanding towards whatever/whoever is the center of my focus.
This happens with big things, and many small things in day to day life. For example how veggies have to be washed, and if my partner doesn't do it I feel he is being irresponsible with our health. I mean all of these arguments to me make perfect sense and I don't understand why others are being so "irresponsible".

Can you relate to this as something pertaining to BPD? I had an inkling that my "control freak" thingies all come from a sense of justice/fairness/what's right. 

Apparently when I was a kid I was a very responsible kid. My parents never had to wake me up in the morning, or shout at me to do homework. I was basically an exemplary model of "good girl" and to this day, this sense of responsibility and having *respect* is important to me, the lack of those things triggers me strongly. And it's hard to "hold back" because "I know I am right". 🤔