my ex/fp and i broke up 3 days ago but decided to stay friends bc we don’t wanna lose each other. we had a small argument yesterday and she listed everything she hates about me, mostly symptoms from my bpd and although she’s right, it still hurts to hear. i just wanna get over her but i don’t know how to do that. i’d like to stay friends but i don’t want her to be my fp anymore it hurts us both too much. has anyone been in this situation before? how did u move on?