hey y’all! 

i really want to be honest and transparent with my friends because i have put them under distress. 

is this a bad idea? 
i am trying to make a pros and cons list here is what i have so far 

pros: 
- them getting a better understanding 

-getting it off my chest

-speaking from a wise mind rather super emotional (in person it is easy for me to let my emotions get the best of me) 

cons:
- they don’t listen 

-they gaslight 

-they use my dx against me 

-they think of me diff/ treat me diff

if i do make the letter or talk to them i was thinking about mentioning 
-how i feel getting my dx 

-how i am working on myself to get better

-explaining splitting/ other bpd symptoms 

what are y’all thoughts? i am unsure if this is the right thing to do...