New here and I’ve never posted to Reddit before, but I figured this could be a great place to ask this question and get some input. My sister has BPD but I don’t know if she knows it or not - she has admitted to my dad that she has “BPD tendencies” I wish I could openly discuss it with her because I feel like if we were both on the same page with that, then maybe we could have some sort of relationship, but I feel like I could never say that to her. For those who have BPD, who told you and how did you come to accept it?