I was oversharing to this one friend, it was like 3a.m so peak vulnerability. And I told her about how I sometimes feel like I don't deserve being around people that I cherish, and that the more I like someone the more I'll try to sabotage the relation just because of an unknown fear that takes control (and I always regret later but that's another problem.). 
She proceeded to tell me:"not to offend you but what makes you that special. Everyone got things in their mind."
And yeah it stuck with me, not to mention how I immediately shut off after that cause it was awkward and I didn't know how to respond.
It may be true, but in that moment, putting it like that really hurt me, It felt like I was really a worse person for thinking like that, and even after that, I still think of what she said.