I don’t know how to take it when my bf tells me that I can’t just use my bpd as an excuse to what I’m feeling. For an example if he’s short with me through text or not calling me like he usually does I start to get worried not that he’s cheating or anything just that he hates me and is going to leave me. I try so hard not to have those thoughts and he’s always telling me to think about what I’m going to ask him and if I really need to ask it or not. And I’m just like I do I’m sorry that’s how my brain is I can’t just shut it off and his response is “you can’t keep using your bpd as an excuse to act this way” does he really think this is an act? Idk what to do every time I try to explain myself he shuts me down and changes the subject or will say he will talk to me later and then I start overthinking again, it’s just a never ending spiral..