I’m not sure if I’m ready right now, but I would like to be in a relationship someday. I’d even like to get married.

But I’m afraid that no matter how well managed my BPD is, it’ll never be good enough for someone to spend a lot of time with me for years and years and years. 

Are there any BPD folks here who are happily married? Also, are there any non-BPD folks who’d like to chime in on how they feel about being married to someone with BPD?

I overall feel like I don’t deserve a long-term relationship because of my problems.