Hi folks, 
I am relatively new to my diagnosis and I suck at doing DBT homework. I'm trying to get into a group therapy at my local psych center so I can stay motivated to better myself. I'm having this revelation right now that I really feel like I ruin all my relationships and I didn't know why until I was diagnosed. I don't like the idea of "splitting" which I didn't know was even a thing until the internet told me it was along with the relationship cycle- I feel like a total monster and a manipulator even though I'm not. I'm so happy to see there is a community of people that I can relate to, so thank you all for being open enough to strangers.