BP1 (not that it matters).  I (31/f) know this is talked about a lot in here (patients developing feelings for their therapist) but I am insanely attracted to my therapist. I know it’s mostly transference (paired with the fact he’s an attractive younger male - so the attraction isn’t out of place or anything), but it’s very distracting. I know it’s because he listens to me and knows a lot of my secrets, so there’s this sort of intimacy that I crave; I lack this type of intimacy/relationship in my life. I struggle with forming close relationships in my personal life. 

The problem is, I fantasize about him often and it’s incredibly frustrating.  
I don’t want to get a new therapist because I like him in terms of the clinical relationship we have and the thought of starting over with someone new seems awful and will set me back.   I’m not comfortable with talking to him about it, to work through the transference or whatever (I’ve seen this suggested before).  

My question: Will this go away on its own eventually or do I have to get a new therapist?  Thank you.