Hi I was diagnosed with BPD after possibly suffering from it for the majority of my life. I've always been like this, I just genuinely believed I had a shitty personality and got very frustrated easily when people couldn't understand me. 

Because I was only diagnosed about three months ago I've been trying my hardest to unlearn my behaviour patterns or at least acknowledge it's my BPD. This means the majority of the time I have to say to my boyfriend or friends 'oh xyz is just my BPD' and I'm starting to feel like everyone just assumes it's me making an excuse for what they deem as poor behaviour or habits. It's not an excuse, I'm 23 had this condition from the day I was probably born so it takes a lot to say 'oh shit this isn't me it's my disorder'.

I just feel like it's now becoming annoying to everyone around me.  Does anyone else feel like this? Is it just in my head?