it has happened for years with my parents, and then with people i lived with during college.  when  they leave without saying anything i feel like they're purposely not telling me.  i feel more alone when i dont know in advance that theyre going somewhere.   i cant expect them to inform me of everything they do, and yet i cant help but be affected by it.   i think it ties to how my mom always leaves the house if we get in arguments, she just drives off without saying where she's going, like she wants her absence to be noticed.   i wish i could get past the feeling of being alone and left out, its always the same cycle, they apologize, say i didnt miss anything, i feel marginally better, then it happens again.