hi i’m 18 i’m new to this reddit as well as being new to my bpd diagnosis. i met this lovely guy a couple weeks ago and we really hit it off but he doesn’t really communicate how he feels towards me. usually i’m fine but literally 10 minutes ago i got so upset because he was active on instagram but didn’t reply to my message and i got this sudden wave of fear that he wants to ghost me and leave me? now i’m really upset and scared and i’m not sure how to remind myself it’s fine :/ i feel like i need daily affirmations that he likes me and he wont leave but idk i’m scared.. we aren’t even dating! i feel like i’m being crazy but genuinely i feel so blah.