whenever me and my fp (also my bf) get into a fight, i always start off extremely mad and vow to stand strong and hold to my argument. He loves to flip it back on me and also give silent treatment and get space until he calms down of whatever. 

I guess my biggest issue is that he can be so blatantly in the wrong and i’ll be so angry at first i have to hold myself back from threatening to break up, blocking him, ext then as soon as I feel like he’s not running after me I flip into desperation and i call and beg and drive to him and become pretty suicidal. 

Obviously I need to talk to my therapist about this but it never results in anything changing, I can never set boundaries, and I end up getting walked all over. No matter if I try to put my phone away, remove myself from the situation, or what I always end up back to calling, texting, or chasing after him desperately. 

does anyone else experience similar behavior/ have any coping skills for dealing with it?