for context my group of friends is extremely close-knit, we’ve all been inseparable for nearly two years and my best friend ( &amp; fp ) is part of the group. 

all is fine, perfectly well, then i am presented w the info my fp and another member are dating! i don’t even like my fp in that way &amp; have turned down their romantic interest, but i’m so upset over this and i know i shouldn’t be. i’m already splitting and i don’t know what to do bc i really don’t wanna lose any of them but i’m terrified my FP deciding they’re occupied enough with their new partner and leaving. 

i think it makes it that much worse that it was incredibly sudden. i practically woke up to the information and there were absolutely zero signs of this happening beforehand and i hate stuff like that. please help lol i feel like i’m gonna Spiral