"People should open up about their feelings" *→ "I'm depressed" →* "Depressed people are hard to be around" *→ \*stops socializing\* →* "Why aren't YOU doing anything to fix your issues?"

People love acting as if they care about mental health. Still, when it's not as easy as shifting their depressed 'friends' off to therapy, they wanna act like it's a herculean task to be around them, then the depressed person won't wanna put someone out and cut themselves off, then get blamed for just being lazy and not just getting over it.