im out of town with my family and they're all out at my younger sister's softball tournament. im at my grandparents house alone, and ive see a huge spider. my entire family knows i am very scared of them. I cannot even put into words how much even the tiniest of them terrify me. i tried texting my mom to ask her if someone could come pick me up earlier than we had planned (im meant to go to dinner with them) but she ignored my text. i called her 5 times with no response even though her phone is on her. i called my dad too and no response. finally i got through to my mom and told her what was happening and asked to be picked up. at this point im crying because i am genuinely terrified. she goes "oh my god" and hangs up. so i call again and then she tells me im overreacting and someone will be here in 3 hours. that's far too long for comfort. i try my dad again and no answer. then he calls me back from my mom's phone and tells me to stop calling his phone as he is livestreaming my sister's softball games and it keeps ending the stream when i call. he tells me someone will be here in 3 hours like we planned and hangs up. i call again and tell him i need someone to come now. we argue a bit. mind you i am sobbing the entire time. I start screaming and eventually say they're the worst parents and i hope they fucking die. i get hung up on. i call again because i need someone to come now. i say if no one comes i am going to kill myself. he says he'll be here in 30 minutes and hangs up. then i get a text saying my grandpa is coming to get me, NOT my dad. i am so ashamed of how i reacted but i feel like i just kept getting pushed further towards my breaking point, especially considering how big of a fear everyone knows i have, and to just say im overreacting and spend 3 more hours on this situation???? and please no criticizing if my reaction, i know it was definitely one of the worst ways i could have dealt with this.