I started dating someone and we saw each other once a week for a month. I just met his friends before I left to go home for break. Everything felt really good, and it was the best I have felt with someone in years. Now, he hasn’t been responding to my texts as much and is being inconsistent. I want to ask him if I did something wrong but ultimately I am not sure what to do here. Would it be best to let it fade out, or is it fair for me to ask what happened? 

I have diagnosed BPD so now I feel like I am in a low point and really down on myself since I feel like he is leaving.