Hello people, 29f here. I was playing some rainbow 6 which is my fav online game (hit me up with those uplays!) We were in the character creation screen when somebody suddenly boomed on the mic "Let me pick the fat man looking girl" referring to the transmasc character who is a person of size. 

I didn't know what to do. I know I should have called it out and done something but I just....froze. Completely. Like a deer in headlights. All of my hairs stood up on my body and I felt a horrible feeling of dread and despair. My palms began to sweat profusely and I needed a drink of ice cold water to calm down. The fact that people in 20 fing 20 are still saying things like this makes me so sad and worried for the future. Anways that was just me venting my trauma lol.