So my (f22) bf and I (21) have been together for 3 years now. We’ve lived together for about 6 months and our sex life is getting progressively worse. I know he’s been masturbating more and I am pretty positive that’s the cause. I feel physically inadequate, like he just wants to see other girls instead of having sex with me. Is it normal to go from having sex twice a day to once-twice a week in a long term relationship?

Also I’ve tried talking to him basically saying our sex life has taken a turn and I don’t feel good about it/it makes me feel bad, and he got defensive, so if it just keeps getting worse I don’t know what to do.

He still calls me beautiful and sexy at random times but when I dress up in lingerie or whatnot he says nothing, doesn’t even hardly look at me. He used to be really into it.

Overall I’m just feeling unattractive and physically unwanted. It’s been sending me into a lot of episodes, and I finally got life going alright, now it feels sucky again ):