I need to know. The NHS has decided I do not meet their criteria, I was blamed for wasting NHS resources by my GP because I sought out private help while on the NHS black hole (the waiting list), and the private psychiatrist I was seeing couldn't find any DBT services or therapists who were seeing patients and hasn't been able to help since. As DBT is apparently related to CBT I figured I would try emailing CBT therapists and services in my area using the BACP (or whatever the abbreviation is) directories but almost all of them have said they cannot help, the ones who didn't say no simply didn't respond. I've found the Counseling directory to be full of so called therapists who greatly over estimate their skills or qualifications, so that is out of the question.