Hey guys, so I have a roommate who’s been going through a rough patch recently. She was let go from her job and it’s made her depression pretty bad. However it’s been nearly 6 months and she has yet to start looking for another job. She’s living off of her savings but I know she’s going to be out of money soon. She also has stopped doing her part in terms of house keeping. Most of the time there is food and trash all over our living room and kitchen and a pile of days worth of dishes in the sink. When this first started I just decided to help her out and do the dishes/clean up the kitchen etc. but it’s come to a point where I’m getting resentful and only doing my dishes etc but if I don’t do anything about it, our apartment will stay completely trashed. 
I work and go to school full time, so knowing that she’s home all day and coming home to a disgusting apartment is starting to make me lose it. I guess my question is how do I approach this with her without making her feel worse about herself? I have depression so I understand the struggle, but I can’t continue to live in filth or do all of the house work. It’s making me extremely stressed and I feel like I can’t relax because there’s always a mess to be looked at, or smelled. Any advice would be nice. I really love her and feel for her but I’m at the end of my rope