Does anyone else find it difficult to find someone on the same wavelength?
It has come to the point now that when I initially find someone has alot in common with me, after a moment's thought, I think 'oh no, this one is going to be crazy once they feel relaxed with me.' 

And other folks I feel completely nuts compared to them. They have their shit together even if they think they haven't. They too make me feel uncomfortable.

The ones crazier than me freak me out and those sane make me feel super insecure.