Some context, I have autisum (PDD PDA NOS) ADHD dyslexia and a mpd. They have autisum and bpd. They have been good at acknowledging when they have messed up (Like they got pushy of my boundrys, I left the room, then later, when I came back they were like "Yeah that was on me, this is a BPD thing, call me out, I will do everything I can to keep this in cheack, im so so so so sorry, are you ok?") and simmilar things, when they get petty as they call it they know its the BPD, and talk to me about it. Weve bonded, im at a time wher I want some one who I can be fully open with, I want some one who will love me with the passion they do. When I need space I tell them I need space, they are often encoredging me to take care of myself. When I go off I remind them that I will be back, and they cope with it.  


Im just looking for advice on how to handle things like the axiaty about being apart, they handle it like an adult but im sure theres mort advice to give (I make sure to encoredge them and cheer them on when they handle it ok). I have bots set up to msg them to help them rember that I do love them, as I struggle to tell them that as mutch, especialy in the start. Anyone with BPD got any suggestions, what do you find helps you not panic, how do you cope with the fear youll be hurt by your FP, stuff like that. Also if anyones got any advice on my end, whats a big no that seems like a good idea.