My boyfriend (46 m) who has NPD has been for the past 72 hours dangling abandonment over my head, actually trying to abandon me, then going back to the not sure which he is at again until tomorrow night when he will talk to me again. I have gone from being stable to triggered because abandonment threats or actions throw me into crisis which throws me into an episode and after I’ve been episodic for 72 hours I’m just torn to pieces and dissociated. I have literally done nothing but pace and smoke cigarettes and lay on the couch and sob for two days. I have so much to do but I can’t seem to get myself out of this place. If someone who has experience with this reads this can you please PM me? I’m struggling so bad right now. 