I have these set in stone milestones that one has to achieve in life before a certain age. For example a lot of these things are like losing your virginity between the ages of 14-21 learning to drive between the ages of 17-21 moving out of your parents before 25. Issue is im now coming up to 25 I've done none of these things and I feel like nothing I ever do in life will matter because I am a failure as a human being for not reaching these life milestones at those certain times.