I don’t know if this makes sense but I get really attached to specific people in any setting or relationships I have. For example out of my whole friend group there’s one friend I can’t live without and depend everything on her and I’ll even get super protective and jealous if my cat were to sleep in my sisters room every night. I work at a school and get really attached to a couple specific kids and then i get upset when I’m not their favorite teacher or they don’t want to spend time with me and tend to not focus as much on other kids or desire to be around them as much. I guess I’m kind of ranting and wanting to see if anyone else experiences this in every type of relationships they have. I’m sad because I thought bpd wouldn’t travel into any of my jobs and I dont want to get too attached to certain kids bc it’s not fair to put these feelings on them and act cold or harsh. Idk it sucks having this extreme attachment in work, friends, co workers, relationships etc.