My ex has BPD and always has. AFAIK she has no idea and it’s undiagnosed and unacknowledged. It’s always someone else’s problem. Is there any way to help her see it, acknowledge it, and get therapy? With the added stressors of now being divorced her behavior is getting more erratic and she is pulling the kids in. I’m ultimately most concerned for them but I really want her to be well and successful with them and her life. Thanks.