Hello! I just wanted to take a moment to say thank you and that I appreciate all the help I have received through the years from multiple people in this community. I am saying goodbye to this community as my partner and I have officially split. 

Our journey started a few years ago and she found out she had bpd a little after a year of dating. She told me that I was her FP and that’s when I came to this community. Honestly, the amount of help I received through the multiple throwaway accounts that I had were tremendous. This community really allowed me to understand the complexity and struggles of the diseases. Even coming to a point where I had a notebook filled with information on how to tackle any future problems or issues.

The stereotype that it is really hard to date someone with bpd is pretty stupid. I have mental illnesses of my own so I know it was difficult with me. But I wholeheartedly believe that she was probably the best thing that ever happened to my life. It is a little bit more of a challenge with any mental illnesses in a relationship. I really hate how people with bpd are demonized sometimes. 

I don’t know if I’ll be back here one day, but I want to say thank you again. I really did try my hardest and in the end, we both had some flaws to work on(I also sucked at the end). So goodbye for 𝘕𝘰𝘸!

To the random numerous accounts that took the time to describe their stories, HUGE THANKS! I got to learn so much from those long stories and experiences. 

Honestly it was such a blessing to be someone’s fp. I’ll never forget the experience. Bpd is no joke and I wish only the best for those who struggle with it. 

Sorry for format, mobile lol.