So I’m fairly certain I have a new FP. We’ve been talking via Instagram for a bit now and we met in person a week ago. We’ve been non-stop texting/calling since then. Last night, we were on our usual discord call, and she randomly out of nowhere said “you know what really pisses me off? I could be reading right now but instead I’m talking to you. You should be thankful to be graced with my amazing presence.” She jokes around a lot like that and she was laughing when she said it, and then immediately after she said that was a joke, so I KNOW it was a joke, but for some reason I took it really personally??? I went really quiet and immediately started having an anxiety attack and I was able to tell her that and she asked if it was something she said and she started trying to calm me down and stuff (she is literally the sweetest person ever I swear to god). Anyways so I didn’t want to tell her what caused it because I really really don’t want her to feel at fault at all. But is that something I should tell her? Like, that I’m really sensitive and can’t take jokes like that very well? Or is that just something I should keep to myself? I haven’t told her about my BPD yet because frankly, I am embarrassed of it. When is it the right time to tell someone you have BPD?