It's just that a lot of symptom lists seem to be ringing very true and I wouldn't put much stock in online "do I have this mental disorder" tests but I consistently score high on every one I take. Those have incentivized me to read up on it and a lot rings true but I also see a lot of people saying autism is easily confusible for BPD. I know seeing a mental health professional would be the cliche response but I'm afraid one might not know how to handle either, so how do I tell autism from BPD