till last week, for about a month prior, I was texting this guy. and we both have bpd btw. it was going well, we blocked each other a few times but always started again lol, the usual. but last week, he finally went cold on me and that's when we seem to have stopped it completely. haven't spoken since last thursday. now, i went through all the ups and downs possible since and I'm good, i mean, it was never meant to even last a month so yeah. but now, i do miss talking to him and i wonder if it's possible to be friends? i kind of want to try to reach out and see if we can but im afraid that he's still gonna be cold to me.... and i feel very stupid being the one to reconnect after it were him to go cold, it feels a bit pathetic. but also, maybe i should've been more understanding and just wait out the cold period instead of ending things? and another thing, i don't know if this is healthy or good for either of us? i mean, yeah, id like to try to be friends with him but i know we would eventually try to take things further. i don't think a relationship between us is realistic. and i lowkey got a little obsessive back then, i only wanted to talk to him i neglected everything irl. i know i should just be alone now and see to become healthier on my own. but i really do miss talking to him. and it doesn't help that i can still stalk him online lol he's not fully out of sight so he can't yet be out of mind. what should I do?

tldr: guy split on me and we stopped talking, should I try to reconnect and be friends?