Hi i’ve been going out with this wonderful guy for a while now. Many problems have risen from childhood trauma and he was diagnosed with BPD. Everything i’ve been researching tells me that it’s hard having relationships. Both him and I are trying to work through these problems. He pushes me away but i know he loves me, when he’s not overwhelmed he brings me back in. Do you guys have any advice? We are both working very hard to make this work a bit easier for him and I.