i feel bad because my neurotypical friends want to complain about daily things and i'm envious of their more normal problems but it also feels like i'm invalidating their feelings. i don't really tell them about it because and i still try to help but it's really painful to hear for instance someone bitching about their parents wanting to spend more time with them while you feel abandoned by yours. we literally feel things more intensely and it can be frustrating to feel that different from everyone else 