I see so many ppl ask if they have BPD bc of their attachment style. You can have many other diagnosis and still get extra clingy w your loved one(s). Or maybe that’s just who you are! You love hard.

It’s frustrating that this diagnosis is sometimes romanticized. Really mental health in general gets fetishized almost.. but like who tf wants to be diagnosed w this? Seriously. 

Don’t get me wrong, b4 my diagnosis, i knew it was something more wrong w me, but i didn’t self diagnosis and really didn’t like looking much into it bc it gave me anxiety bc this diagnosis is severe. 

Its debilitating. 

Please please please, if you feel like your therapist doesn’t listen, seek another! Don’t put all that stress of diagnosing yourself onto your plate. If you have it, eventually a therapist will notice and u go from there. 

I was diagnosed and all my therapist did was send me a online DBT book to read 🫠🙃she’s obviously not my therapist anymore bc wtf. Lol

Sorry if this comes off bitchy it’s just one of them mornings