I almost always change my views based on who has my attention at the moment.

One day I'm passionate about an issue, and everyone who disagrees is wrong and bad, the next, someone offers a rebuttal and suddenly I've switched sides.

It's frustrating and exhausting and makes me feel very gullible. I used to chalk it up to being open-minded and empathetic , but now I realize that it's part splitting and part a lack of identity. I do have a few core values, but otherwise I feel like I'm floating in the wind, waiting to be plucked from the sky to take on one identity, before being flung off to stick to another.