Hello everyone! Long time lurker.. Decided to finally ask about something that's been bothering me.

I'm a 24 year old female with depression, BPD, and anxiety. I have an amazing SO that is very patient and understanding. That being said, he obviously needs time to see his family and friends outside of our relationship. I find myself absolutely obsessed with him when he's gone for a few hours and sometimes feeling absent when he's around. Does anyone else struggle with these feelings? I want to him to enjoy his life and me, mine.