I was diagnosed with BPD about 16 months ago. For me it kind of felt like...holy shit, finally, this is what's wrong with me! Let's fix this!

Over the last few months I've been reading books and articles about mental illness, and whenever BPD comes up (which isn't all that often) generally it's about how evil people with BPD are, and how they should be avoided at all costs. And these things are almost always written by people who suffer from a mental illness of their own. Not only do I find this to be hugely judgmental, but hurtful. 

Have you run into this before? How do you deal with it? 

Sorry if this is a bit rambly, this is the first time I've though to look for a BPD subreddit. 