If people find certain things to be annoying, I won't do them at all just to stop them from being annoyed if I do them, so I'm very limited to the things I actually do and is a reason why I'm mainly mute in social situations. I don't act out things I want to do in my head (surprise hugs, saying random things out of the blue, etc). I have gotten a bit better though. I'm starting to do just do what I want and if somebody finds what I do annoying then that's their problem and not mine, but I still act like a different person depending on who I'm with. I'm like a chameleon honestly. I adapt and act accordingly depending on the person's behaviour and personality. If they're bubbly, I will act bubbly and cute, and if they're quiet and type formally without emoticons and such, I will do the same.