Anyone else experienced something like this before? 


My boyfriend is my FP, and i love him so much and he is the best person in the world, but lately his dog has been making me so jealous. i know it's very irational but i just can't stop my emotional reaction, no matter how stupid i think it is. his dog is ruining the mood because he doesn't want to lead it out of the room...it HAS to be 24/7 in the same room as him(dog doesn't mind it) and it sleeps in the bed with us which i find ridiculous. he keeps calling the dog "her" which clicks something in my brain and i immediately get really jealous. this is so stupid but i've started calling the dog "him" or "it" in an attempt to not feel that way, and he corrects me and it really gets on my nerves. i'm just imagining myself kicking that dog out of the room and it feels like such a relief but obviously i don't do it. 



is this the BPD peeking out or am i extremely narcissistic, or both? how do i deal with this? how do i make my emotions understand that it's very stupid? i can't believe i'm jealous on a dog