so i recently moved into a new flat with flats mates i get on really well with. we went out last night and had a great time. ended up going to a party where i made a decent few friends, pulled a girl and actually just had a good time. ive struggled with all types of anxieties and mental health problems all my life and i’m finally starting to actually enjoy parts of life. so it feels like i’m failing by not going out tonight. my mate messaged me about going to a club tonight and i responded saying yea but he hasn’t replied. so basically i’m worried that i’m not going out and i’m gonna fail if i don’t. i’m also really worried about being alone in this flat and idk why. i keep thinking i’m gonna get murdered or something. (i had problems like that as a child - pretty much 24/7, especially at night, that someone was gonna come and get me. i couldn’t sleep properly for years. 

anyway, any advice on how to deal with this shit