So this is kind of a rant but I also want others options and thoughts. 

I always feel like im not happy with how I look. I've dyed my hair many times, cut it done every look almost throughout my life. All types of styles, etc. And it's not exaclty an insecure thing, I've dealt with that. But mostly I've just felt like I don't like how I look, it's frustrating. I spend a lot of time and money on my appearance but I still feel unhappy. Like I look in the mirror and I don't know who I'm looking at. I can acknowledge that I'm attractive and I like what I see but for some reason I still feel disconnected? Idk if that makes sense.