we’ve been on and off for about a year, it’s complicated rn, but the love is very much there. he only really hangs out w one person, his best friend, but whenever he goes to his house he doesnt answer for 3+ hours. i trust him i think. but theres something in the back of my brain telling me something is up. would it be too much to ask him to maybe just let me know or give me a heads up when hes going there? what do you guys think i should do? i dont wanna be suffocating. communication is really important to me, and i believe it’s important in every relationship, but my bpd makes it nearly impossible to communicate clearly and calmly. thanks guys, hope your all doing alright.