Hello, my name is Jazmine I'm currently 29 years old. It seems I have anxiety and fear of several things. So I don't know where to start? So I'll start with my high school years.. 

When I was in high school I was over weight (trying to lose weight at this moment so far lost over 60 pounds) out of 9 kids I was my mom's heaviest and she kept me in the house all the time didn't want for me to be seen with her. She would take my other sisters every where and buy them all types of things but for me she bought me food back home. I watched all the younger siblings and became their mom. One of my brothers would sleep in my bed every day that's how much bond we had cause I was his parent. Anyways, I grew up without my dad because my mom married someone else and at that time my real dad was in the sheltars trying to get his life together. So I grew up thinking people did like fat people and that no one loved fat people. So I stayed away from people. And grew anxiety around people. 


So that's one thing, and another thing I have a fear of the dark. At night I have to sleep with the TV on. If I don't hear noise I get super anxiety. .

So now that I live with my dad I don't have a lot of friends and I don't really go out only to walk some times. So I recently got a 4 month old kitten and I loved him but became afraid of being scratched and bitten. 

I wish some one can help me what is my problem. Can these things be fixed???