Hi guess I have bpd my bf doesn’t … he’s so good to me. He just lost a friend to an overdose (we don’t do drugs like that) and he is non stop crying …… usually I am good at this but feel like I’m some how making it about me and my friend who committed suicide last year cause that’s the only way I relate. 

Please someone give good advice on like steps on steps of what you would like someone to do to help you / how you would help someone / a significant other through this?! 

Thanks!