Uh. Pretty straightforward. My FP told me that I’m his FP awhile ago, and another friend (also has BPD) said that wasn’t good. Something about hella unhealthy levels of codependency, which I’ve already noticed. They suggested that I distance myself from him to lessen the severity of the attachment I have to him, but I can’t do that. I feel like if I stop talking to him, I’ll be replaced. I wouldn’t be there for him, and so he’d turn to someone else. It feels like I can’t live without him, and it hurts to see him doing the things we did together with others. (Or, rather, this one specific ‘other’ whom I hate).