My boyfriend and I usually sleep in the same bed at the same time. Every once in a while, he’ll want to stay up later than I do, and I know he doesn’t have to go to bed with me, but I feel awful when he doesn’t. I know logically that he shouldn’t have to, and it hurts to say that. I want him to go to bed with me, and I cry and cry when he’s gone. It doesn’t help that Im on the autism spectrum and loathe any change in routine. He’s a room away. I don’t wanna just be able to sleep, I want to be able to be comfortable going to bed on my own.