Hello, I would like to start off by apologising if I've used the wrong flair or breached any rules with this post, I read them thoroughly but I'm always quite nervous or anxious to have my posts removed if I inadvertently do something wrong. I was diagnosed with BPD via my country's universal healthcare in April after a long, long stretch being misdiagnosed/ignored by my GP, I am about to turn 30 and as I understand it that means I am starting out in the process of trying to improve my scenario later than is typical (just from the information I've been given - please don't think I'm being presumptuous I know people of all ages get diagnosed). I have classic unstable relationships but also have a very unsupportive family even if you exclude my personal bias' towards them, my fiancé is estranged from his family. This means I feel very alone with little to no support and as I'm not receiving any therapy or actual treatment since being diagnosed I'm struggling to do anything by myself.  

I have no access to DBT at present but did buy the manual to work through by myself as a start. I was wondering if anyone has had any success with infographics and educational material (not looking for lite items like music/articles/media but actual approved information as per the rules of this sub i.e Mayo Clinic) that would be suitable to share with my fiancé, he doesn't seem to have much of a grasp as to what BPD is and I cannot articulate it well to him. I am looking for some factual and reputable information to share with him and would like him to be able to read (such as a scholar article). A lecture series my psychiatrist recommended at initial diagnosis was just awful to try and watch and he couldn't get through it. He has autism and prefers to read information than hear or watch it so articles I could print/forward to him for reading would be useful. I need him to understand what I am experiencing and when I try to search I get results littered with clinical trials info etc. that isn't what I am looking for.  Just wondering if anyone has found good educational resources to share with their partners that they wouldn't mind sharing with me.