from the comments on completely unrelated threads abt borderlines and our ~evil~ ways to entire subreddits dedicated to calling us inherently narcissistic abusers, it honestly feels like there’s no escape from the reality people hate us.


for me, it’s gotten to the point i’ve self harmed over these kinds of sentiments and have isolated myself because even though i know myself and how my borderline traits manifest, i’m convinced i’m just like what people say. 


i guess i’m wondering if i’m alone in this, and if it’s even possible to find an environment where there isn’t at least SOME anti-BPD sentiment. how do you navigate even general mental health spaces when everyone seemingly hates you?