I’d never normally want to brigade another subreddit, so mods if you feel the need to remove this please do. 

But ‘loves ones’ is the most toxic community on reddit I’ve ever witnessed; and I’ve witnessed r/gamersriseup become a huge cesspool of racism. 

Loved ones is horrendous: In every single post they absolutely perpetuate every stereotype ever about people with BPD. I frequently scroll through that sub as a form of self harm. 

Now, I’m not saying they shouldn’t have a community, because yes of course some partners get abused by some people, whether they have BPD or not. 

But, scrolling across a subreddit entitled our ‘loved ones’, only to realise that it is people shitting on our entire existence, hurts almost as much as when someone leaves. 

I’m so so so upset that they’d dare to call us their loved ones, because they are helping further the stereotype that we’re bad people. We are not bad people (in the majority), but they treat us all as abusive and evil. 

Idk tho mods if not appropriate you can remove but I’m gonna start campaigning for the sub to at least have to change it’s name, if not be disbanded all together.