hi fellas, plain and simple   
my partner is going through some rough times, and i don't know how to be there for her and how to support her, what to do and not, what should be said and what not, if i should pick sides.  
overall kinda confused if i should talk much or just listen, if she kinda expects me to say smtg about it or not ?  
so how should I deal with such situations and thank you !