idk if it’s a bpd thing but i always want to buy things or make things for my friends or family anytime i see things that remind me of them, even when most of the time i don’t even have the money to spend. it’s not to keep them around &amp; i don’t think it’s my fear of abandonment, maybe it’s my ppl pleasing but i genuinely just want to make them happy. does anyone else do this?