I used to get sad before my birthday every year. I go into this self pity mode, feeling like nobody cares about me. Well as I got older into my late 20s and early 30s, I sorta got over it. This year is my first year as a mother. People wished me Happy Mother’s Day and all but my husband was standoffish all day. I asked him if something is wrong, he said no. I told him I’m feeling sad because we haven’t talked much today. (I was feeling lonely and back in the self pity mode again) He snapped at me saying “don’t you get it? I’m tired I don’t want to talk “. It just made me feel so much worse. He hasn’t even acknowledged that it’s Mother’s Day to me whatsoever.