So this might be too personal for some people and I just made this account to get some opinions, but I just need some reassurance and advice. 

I’m 17f with no experience in relationships and anything of that sort. I’ve just never had a boyfriend, never explored that realm yet just cause for me, I’m still too young, not ready for any of that. Since I’m still a teen and hormones are rushing through my body, I get sexual thoughts just like everyone else. Intrusive thoughts fill my brain once in a while and that butterfly feeling in your stomach happens. I JUST HATE THAT FEELING. Feeling turned on or having sexual feelings just gives me anxiety. I know its normal and I know sex is a part of life but it just makes me uncomfortable. A lot of people probably counteract feeling horny by masturbating but i tried that a long time ago and it just doesn’t do much at all. Like some people have sex dreams, I had one the other night and woke up with that tingly feelings in my stomach, and I just have to sit with those butterflies in my stomach until it goes away. It just makes me anxious and I try to fight it cuz I feel like it’s wrong and like I’m not normal for feeling sexual. 

I guess I’m just not experienced and so these new feelings scare me. Does anyone know how to fix this or not get anxious when sexual feelings come about??? Any advice will help. Thanks in advance.