Pretty explanatory, a while ago my FP/boyfriend asked about my “triggers” in bpd, essentially things that lead to an episode or splitting. I wasn’t sure how to respond at the moment so i just told him i didn’t know, and i’d tell him later. I hope he still cares about me enough to try and fix things like that, i don’t know if he still cares about that matter but if he does what are things i should tell him?? I have no idea, i don’t want to seem a burden or as though i’m asking too much. I told him to tell me when he doesn’t want to talk or when he’s busy and reassure me he still loves me and cares about me and everything is the same, but there’s still tons of other things i’m sure that need to be mentioned. I know i’m wlot to handle, i feel so guilty. What i want most from him is honesty and reassurance,i guess i don’t know how to ask for this properly.