hey everyone! i am a person who has bpd and has a healthy relationship. this is not saying my partner hasn’t had to deal with episodes and behavior im not too fond of. but it is possible! my partner has ocd so it’s easier for him to understand my anxiety more than a mentally healthy person. however, i promise if someone loves you it’s possible to work on yourself and get to a place where you’re in a healthy relationship 💛 there’s a lot of forgiveness but it comes with such a great outcome. if it weren’t for my partner accepting every form of me i don’t think i would’ve believed this was possible. but it is! hope this gives you hope. we are happy and in love and seeing twenty one pilots in concert tomorrow ☺️