so i met this girl online about 8 months ago. i developed feelings for her pretty fast and we ended up confessing to eachother back in like november. we dated for like a week but then she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship and we ended it there. flash forward to now and i cannot get my feelings to go away. it seemed to me like she got over them pretty fast but i just can’t seem to shake mine. anyways we’ve stayed close throughout and tonight she told me i’m her fp. i wasn’t aware she had bpd at all and this kind of confused me. i want to be supportive of her no matter what but it sounds to me like she still views me as nothing more than a platonic friend. this is kind of eating away at me but it’s not like i can distance myself because i don’t want to cause her any pain. i’m just not really sure what to do and i just wish i could make my feelings go away.