Eaughhhh... DAE get stupid random fleeting obsessional thoughts and stabbing gut wrenching jealousy’s when your partner mentions an ex? Like in ANY context? Not in any “ oh I still love them “ or “ they are the one who got away “ but the mention of a name in passing or a something they once did or shared!? I try to question my knee jerk reactions and be all DBT about them but it’s exhausting 😅 