Long ass story incoming. So to start my FP and I met because I was interested in her but she wasnt interested in me so we decided to stay friends and it worked out pretty well. That was two years ago. Fast foward to Monday. I'm not too sure how to conversation started but one of my other friends and I were talking about my FP and she thought she was dating someone because her Instagram bio and a lock emoji but I said she would've told me. That lead to a pretty intense fight. I was upset she was acting like she knew my FP better than me. The next day I was still upset at her and I decided to bring it up to my FP even though I knew I was right. So I'm waiting for her to respond and I'm feeling so many emotions. I realized that I'm worried about my FP dating someone else even though I'm interested in another girl outside this group. I felt hypocritical and selfish but I wanted my FP to be happy so if a boyfriend helped her then that's what's right. She later responded saying she was still single and her bio meant nothing (she had already changed it by the time I asked). I felt relieved. Then I realized that I was just thinking about myself this entire time. I was angry at my other friend but my FP calmed me down a bit. Today I'm still mad at myself but I'm also mad at the other friend because this wouldnt have been an issue if she had just kept to herself and not acted like she knew everything. I want to argue with her again but it's too late. I'm mad that I'm acting possessive but then asking her for advice on this girl I'm trying to get with. I'm so lost now 