My loved one has BPD. Since diagnosis since 6 months ago, things have become very difficult for her and for the family in general.
She communicates only via text. Obviously text can be difficult as there’s no tone, no emotion.
Sometimes she is chatty and non stop messages to the point I find it exhausting.
Other times she will leave my messages on “read” and ignore me.
I have been feeling for quite awhile that I can’t say or even lightly confront her about anything. Even small things, as I’m so worried I may catch her on a bad day and tip her over into another hospital visit.
If you have BPD, can you please explain to me why she might be ignoring me?
If you’re a loved one, how do I deal with this?
I don’t want to hurt her at all. But I don’t want to keep feeling awful every time she doesn’t respond..