I've been in a relationship with my bf for 2 1/2 years, we have an appartment and a cat together. I love him with all my heart. But I have a serious problem with flirting with my coworkers. I've been flirting with the new guy and I guess he actually developed real feelings for me and I told him how serious my relationship is and now he feels hella sad cause he thought he might have a chance with me. I havent told my bf because I'm so ashamed of myself, why can't I just control these stupid impulses. I'm such a piece of shit.