Hey guys. 27/f here if that helps anything.
I moved about a year ago to be with my now husband, which brought me to a small town about 1 1/2 hours from my friends. It's not so far that I'd never be willing to make the drive and in fact I've driven up there dozens of times since my move. I've had exactly ONE visit from any of them.
This town is small and transient; most people are only here for a few months doing training on a military post, and the ones who aren't are usually retired and old, so it's been really hard to make friends.

I think I hit my last straw this morning and I'm conflicted about how to handle it. Over the last few months my husband and I have been invited to fewer and fewer things. I've brought it up to my best friend to try to see if I've done something and she always insists it's lack of planning or forgetfulness that leaves us out. This morning I woke up to see my entire inner circle (including three people from my wedding party) in pictures at a 4th party last night. My husband and I weren't invited or even told about it. In a fit of like...not even rage, more confused anger, I deactivated my facebook to keep from doing/saying something totally bitchy/passive/stupid. 

I guess I'm really just looking for advice on how to handle this. I'm in my self defense mode right now as an ISTJ where I've completely shut down any feelings about it so I'm in a pretty level place right now but it doesn't usually last more than a few days to a week so I need to know how to handle this when the emotional fallout happens. Move on? Lose myself in video games//online friendships? 

Any advice, kind words, anything, is appreciated right now. Thanks in advance.