I'm friends with a guy for over 4 years. He's an orphan since he was 16( he's 23 now). On the first day of chrismtas, he found his brother passed out on the front door (he lives with his grandparents, but his brother is older and he got a place in another city). I asked him if his brother was drunk, but he said that he wasn't. He told me that he wants to kill himself and I stood by him, I do that for 4 years, but I don't know what to tell him, how to help him. I'm a university student in a different city and he was one too ( in a different city than me) and now he had to drop out because he has no money to support himself in his education. he has a girlfriend that cheated on him (we used to be together when he were in high school, but we had a relationship for just a month and remained friends since then) and now they are back together, but he says that he's using her for affection (I told him that you shouldn't have a relationship if that's your goal, be fwb or have a ons) and he started to send me quotes like "can friends still be friends if they have sex" referring to us two. I told him that he has a girlfriend and him and I are just friends