Or sometimes they ostrasize right away. I give the benefit of the dou t - maybe they are going through a rough time, insecure, depressed, bad day. But eventually ill occasionally wonder if I'm paranoid about them targeting me. Ill dismiss it, but as time goes on, ill ask if they are ok, or eventually ask if I've done anything to offend them, but they deny a problem.

  After months of uncertainty, and increasing tension, they finally tell me they don't want me around or ask if I can't take a hint, or if I tell them I can no longer be friends, they say " good" or " I was waiting for gou to figure that out".

This occurs even during " good" periods, tines of inner peace and when I'm getting along with others (or so I think) and am not feeling irritable.

