So I used to be a part of a community, I quit that community 2 years ago, ever since then I have been cyber stalker by a girl there, she found out almost every single social media accounts I’ve got that was never disclosed, photos of me, and is trying to track me down on a daily basis on reddit, forum sites, etc. She confessed her love, but it’s so utterly random and insane so I freaked out and rage at her, this exacerbated the situation, now I’m trying my hardest to delete everything about me online. I’m just wondering if this person really is a BPD with mega abandonment issues, not to mention she sabotaged my online shits before, and tried breaking me and my girlfriend apart. It seems so severe, I thought pwBPD are usually self aware, calm, and have self esteem issues, passive, and got at least some form of empathy, but it seems she has none of those.