Anxiety from my (m29) girlfriends (f28) mom about pushing us to buy a house

So some background. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just about two years (two years in feb). We hit some serious rough patches earlier this year and broke up for about 2 months. Once we were able to agree on defining our relationship and removing toxic behaviors and people from our lives we decided to get back together and to be honest, it has been absolutely amazing. I love being able to quarantine with her and I truly love her. 

This summer her dad went through some serious health issues and was put on a very restrictive activity regiment and as such, me and my girlfriend have been staying extensively at her parents house. I have my own place in the city and she stays with me but with everything going on we have had to literally do everything for her dad and mom. They own a couple properties and the territory comes with heavy lifting, cooking, and maintaining the properties. 

He is starting to feel better and its clear to us that while we have been staying there for quite sometime due to covid, the health crisis from her dad, and helping her mom with everything as to not do it herself its become clear that we would like a place that we pick out, of our own. Every time we start searching or even talking about going and finding a place to rent in a city we have been seriously considering and both of us love, her mom and dad turn into these helicopter parents talking about, managing our money, getting married, but most of all saving up to buy a house. It’s not that I don’t ever want a house but I feel like where me and my girls relationship is, is perfect. We just don’t want to have a 30 year commitment to a single place, and with WFH orders I can literally work anywhere. 

It’s not that it’s not a good idea, but I’m not trying add more shit on my plate to worry about. I don’t really believe there’s blueprint way to go about life and I don’t think that just because I’m not married, don’t have kids, and am not looking to buy a house, doesn’t mean I’m behind the curve. I’m working on my masters degree and to be honest I don’t have the money to just go out and buy a house.

I should also mention that my girl has a brother and sister super close in age and the brother just got married, and he bought a house and they use him as the standard. His girl is also a lot more materialistic and gets a little crazy about “living life’s normal blueprint”. I’m usually very self aware and very sure of my decisions before I do them but this pressure and constant badgering and insinuation that me and my girl are behind and we outta yadda yadda yadda is giving me crazy anxiety and it’s in truth, starting to piss me off.

Ok now I’m just ranting, any input, advice, perspectives are appreciated.

TL;DR: My girls parents are pushing and pushing for us to follow the “white picketed life blueprint” and its starting to piss me off and give a lot of anxiety. They insinuate we are “behind” in life.