how do you fucking stop this??? There was this guy I was talking to (online) for about 4 months, we just had this weird connection and now we’ve stopped talking due to the fact that he had a girlfriend the whole time he didnt mention and I didnt feel like being the ”other woman” or whatever, even if we could have remained friends. Also he wanted to speak on phone and I didnt feel comfortable with that, also I think I just sent way too many messages and he didnt have the time to answer etc. But Tbh I kept him at arms distance the whole time because I was going through a breakup, but also because I was scared and didnt want to get too attached (but I feel like that happend anyways). Im still kind of obsessing over him, looking at his instagram, seeing if he’s online etc… how do I stop this?