This is a former roommate, a very close friend, and a person who was recently in my bridal party in August. During my bachelorette party, she got extremely intoxicated and kept saying to me "do you know how hard it is for the person you love to love someone else?"
I found out very recently from my login activity that she was signed into my instagram account. I confronted her on it by trying to accept blame and asking if there was any way that I had stayed signed in on her home computer or phone on accident. (There was NO way this was the case).
She said she checked and "didn't think so." Ever since, she has completely given me the silent treatment, went from posting on her own social media account 3+ times per day to not posting a single thing either on her stories or on her personal account since the day I confronted her. (Over 2 weeks ago).
She has tremendous abandonment issues, and comes from an abusive childhood. I have had an extreme amount of empathy and love for her through out our 14 year friendship but this truly took it too far and really frightened me. Does anyone have any insight as to what may have been going through her head or what she may be thinking?