Hey guys,

Someone I'm extremely close to stopped taking medication around 2 months ago and it looks to me as she's starting to go through a relapse. Recently, she's had no energy to talk to people let alone even pick up her phone, she has trouble sleeping properly and is almost always fatigued, she's been in a really sad and miserable mood most of the time, and she's been socially withdrawing from people as a whole and has mostly just been staying alone for weeks. This has really been eating me up because she's changed so drastically from the person I knew a month ago, and seeing her like this places a lot of pain in my heart.

I've been trying to make plans with her just to check in on her and spend time with her but 9 out of 10 times she cancels on our plans or straight up doesn't want to meet. I know she should be spending some time alone, but I also believe that socially withdrawing permanently won't make things better for her in the long run.

Do you guys have any advice for me? I know it's not my responsibility to fix her, this is her battle to fight. But I'd like to support her in any way possible because she means so much to me. 

Also, should I still try to make plans with her (even if I don't expect her to show up)? I don't place any burden on her to come and don't make her feel bad when she tells me she isn't meeting me. I just want to help her feel like she isn't alone. Or should I instead wait for her to reach out to me to make plans? Thanks :)