I see a lot of posts on here about how hard it is to be loved when you have BPD, and I am so lucky to have someone completely accept me and I want everyone to know it’s possible. When he leaves me for a couple of days, he buys me flowers so that it reminds me that I do love him, and that he isn’t evil because he has left me. He leaves me an item of clothing to hug, so I remember that he’s coming back. I doubt his love for me every day and every time I ask him, he always says yes, he’s never frustrated or annoyed when I ask. He told me dating me is like a rollercoaster but he loves the ride. I still think I’m a piece of shit to him but I’m desperately trying, I want everyone to know that this is the kind of support we deserve and just bc we have BPD, doesn’t mean we don’t deserve to be loved. I’m also writing this to remind myself that he does really nice things for me, incase I split when he leaves me for 2 days.