Hi everyone! I’m a 35F who has anxiety, adhd, and depression. I’m kinda in a jam. I’m currently employed at like the Saks Fifth version of my industry, but I’ve been stagnant and making roughly 60k as a operations specialist. The company has amazing benefits and I’m good at what I do. However, life is getting more and more expensive and when asked if I can be promoted since I’ve been taking on more supervisor-like tasks, I’m told no. I also found out through someone who left that my job will be eventually be moved to another state for cheaper labor. I would most likely lose my job. 

One of my friend (50F) is offering me a quality and training manager title which  would be bump me to 80k. Benefits are meh. The company would be like a JC Penny version and a totally different industry. Not even an industry that I would be necessarily interesting nor would ever associate myself in. I’ve only worked in companies that felt meaningful and to improve the world or help people. 

I honestly don’t know what to do, and my anxiety has been crippling. I have to make a decision ASAP and I can’t decide. My friend says that this can be a launch pad to get me motivated again to look else where while making more money and getting experience and mentorship from her since she coaches her employees as well to improve their lives and positions. 

What should I do 🥺