Maybe somebody who already dealt with it can help me. Soon I will lose my virginity and I really want to. I'm not scared of it hurting because my boyfriend is very gentle, understanding and patient. Even though my boyfriend reassured me plenty of times that this won't happen, I'm scared that I will mess up somehow. Not know what to do and be bad at what I'm doing. Did anybody had the same thoughts? How did you deal with it or eventually overcame it?