My gf has a pretty rough time with BPD. She is honestly the best thing that's ever happened to me, despite the struggles that come with BPD. Recently, we've been having some conflicts and I'm trying to figure out how to communicate with her on issues. A lot of the things that work for people w/o BPD, make her BPD act up.

Is there anything you all have found really helpful when communicating? This can be in general, when it comes to issues/conflicts, etc