Hi all. I am currently very depressed and anxious. A main influence on my state is my relationship. Things have been increasingly rocky the last few months and my emotions worsen along with it. Probably because our conflict has to do with his lack of emotional intelligence (things as simple as validation, empathy, and compromise). We’ve been in counseling for a month, and I see my own therapist too. My mental health is impacting our relationship, because I don’t want to do pretty much anything anymore. I used to be the one who wanted to do things, but now, nothing seems worth the effort. I am mentally and physically drained. If laying down in another location was a date, I’d be so down. Everything seems too hard. I don’t even do my own hobbies. I’m anxious to do any date idea that’s generally perceived as very fun, because when it doesn’t *cure my depression and anxiety and help fix all of our relationship problems* by partner gets disappointed and irritated. We already lay at home watching movies all the time, cook meals at home, get takeout. None of it feels like date material because it’s all we do. 

So… if anyone has a date idea that considers my limitations around physical energy and emotional emptiness, please please share