not diagnosed w bpd but i have been suffering most symptoms for a while. i met my psychiatrist today and tried describing them and he's put me on effexor (starting 75 mg). before this i was on cymbalta/duloxetine 40 mg which wasn't very effective and made me nauseous often. however, looking through this sub i have only found that people had major complaints w effexor. has anyone had a good experience w it? is it a person to person thing or is it generally known to be harmful? im scared