Hi all, I’m not sure how to describe this really lol I find it very strange and wish I could just make it go away.

My spouse is an absolute sweetheart, my perfect man, I feel so comfortable with him and am so happy we have decided to be together forever.

However, I have this very weird anxiety about wanting his family to like me, and because of that, every interaction I have with them is NERVE WRACKING. I always want to say the right thing or have them think I am cool (his siblings and parents are insanely chill and cool and I am rather loud, excitable and high strung). 

I cannot shake this feeling. I literally got an Instagram message from his brother and my stomach dropped, like I have butterflies and start trembling almost uncontrollable. OVER AN INSTAGRAM MESSAGE. Am I okay???

I keep telling myself to just “stop” but I don’t know how. 

Does anyone have any tips or recommendations for me?