For a while my bf and I were very mutually codependent. Now he’s taking a few steps back and taking 3 days a week to barely speak to me, and not spending days with me in a row anymore. He has mentioned he doesn’t spend enough time alone. I understand and respect that and agree, more independence would be healthy for us… but I can’t help but feel he is not as interested in me as I am him. That his honeymoon phase towards me expired and mine is the only one left. I fear i’m going to start looking for another FP bc I want to feel wanted. he has a whole thriving life outside of me, that’s great, but I don’t bc my life revolved around him. When we were apart he told me about all the crazy fun things he did and that whole time I didn’t leave my room for 3 days bc I was so depressed. Idek how to maintain relationships outside of my FP. I have hobbies but even then, my thoughts obsess romantically over him. I don’t want to think obsessively like that when I know he’s not thinking of me as much. How do I stop being so codependent?