To explain, I’ve been like head over heels for this girl for a while and we are good friends and there’s definitely some spark there. But I haven’t tried to get with this girl because of the bf. This is the second time she’s said something to/around me in front of her bf that one shouldn’t say in front of your bf. Now, part of me hears this and thinks that she’s using me to make him jealous. Another part of me thinks she’s trying to sabotage the relationship. And I have to admit it gets me excited at the prospect. I’ve been so madly in love with the chick, the idea of there being an opening for me is tantalizing. But now I’m starting to worry if I’ve missed obvious warning signs about this girls behavior . Can someone confirm that what she said is a pretty out of bounds thing to say to your boyfriend? And why would she say this? She said it will she was helping me with my homework.