I never really caught on for a while until my brother openly said I’m tired of calling you and it’s always negative and you are depressed. But recently I had this life long friend and she just recently came back into my life asked to be friends again . I was dealing with a lot so every time she called and asked how I felt I would tell the truth and she would give advice. But one day out of no where she cut me off . I wanted answers because it bothered me, after multiple calls and text she finally responded and said “you aren’t a real friend so bye” and I thought about that and said there is no way I’m a good friend always caring for them and going over top to make my friends happy , I finally realized from post she would share about how she didn’t wanna be around people who we’re always negative or complaining or unhappy. I just wish I could have gotten this answer instead of I wasn’t a good friend . I understand some people feel drained to try and talk to people like me but it hurts because I try and try .