hello...as someone who has never been diagnosed as bpd (or bipolar disorder for that matter although there has been talks of mania, depression and so on with my psychiatrist) i have been wanting to figure out the logistics of bpd. i suffer from impulse control issues and tend to switch between highs and lows (which are common in both bpd and bp) i have always refused the bipolar diagnosis and thought i was leaning more towards the bpd side, but i dont have a fp nor do my impulsivity and irritability come from my fear of losing someone. is not having a fp a dealbreaker for bpd?