this is something that been on my mind today, I see people talking crap about their ex who have BPD (they are abusive, manipulative..etc) It's like alright those are ur feelings and you are VALID to have them and express it, but your **ex who have BPD** MOVED ON from you, they even blocked you in some situations.

YET you focus on them, you obsess over them, you check on them daily, you make so many posts about them and you complain about them BLOCKING YOU *(example : "I was her fp and she blocked me and I don't know how to deal with it")*

BUT somehow you still come to the conclusion that your ex with BPD is the obsessed one :) how does that work?? cause I'm confused as hell