So I'm in the hospital and I just got diagnosed with BPD.  I have every single symptom pretty much. And what hurts the most, is HOW my sister in law and my boyfriends family look at BPD. My boyfriends ex girlfriend has/ had (she in the hospital again to see what is up)  it and the way they talked about her and how she is such a horrible person cause of BPD. It makes me scared to let them know. I am nothing like her but I don't want them to judge. Also I got reading material on it from my doctor and there is no way she had it. But even still I feel like I'm more alone now then ever before. And for that I'm so scared. Scared to be alone, scared to tell them. They clearly need to educate themselves instead of just passing judgment. How do you guys deal when you first found out? 