I feel bad accusing him of this, but I just need to know. I met him at university, and I've known him for half a year now. He's flirted with me in the past, and I'm pretty sure he likes me. Even if he doesn't see me in a romantic light, he at the very least finds me attractive. If he does have a fetish, he's not like a stereotypical guy who constantly comments on a girl's ethnic background and dresses in traditional Asian attire. He's a nerdy guy, and likes a lot of anime. He's what you'd consider to be a weeb. I'm a weeb too.

In high school, he was in a relationship with a Korean girl. He and I grew up in the same hometown, where the population is predominantly Hispanic. On Instagram, he follows several Asian pride accounts. He sometimes posts stories of political awareness, but 95% of the time, it's regarding Asian pride/rights, even though he himself is Hispanic. There's a girl at our school who I know for a fact he doesn't like, but finds her really pretty. She's half Filipino half white. He even follows at least one girl that he doesn't know, that lives on the other side of the country, and she's Asian and he likes every single one of her pictures.

The reason why this concerns me is because I'm mostly Hispanic, but my great grandfather was Chinese, so I'm barely even Asian, but I've had several people tell me that I look Asian. Even people that are Asian themselves tell me that I look like I can be half Asian. My friend even told me the other day that the way I do my makeup makes me look even more Asian. It also doesn't help that because of COVID, we don't see each other's full faces. So in all likelihood, my crush probably thinks I look Asian. If he doesn't think that, my Chinese last name will sure do the trick. Do you think he may have a fetish for Asian girls?

I get that we all have preferences. We all do. He just happens to prefer Asian chicks. That's fine. Some people prefer Hispanics, Caucasian, Black people, but I'm having trouble differentiating as to whether he thinks I'm pretty in general, or if he thinks I'm pretty because I'm Asian?