I pride myself in letting my S/O live their own life and always trust them with whatever friends they have or what they do on sc/Instagram... But when I have darker times it's a lot harder. I end up overthinking and making things a way bigger deal than they need to be. I try not to take it out on them but I begin to resent them (It soon goes away). But I always end up hurting myself sooo much. I'm just curious about other people's experiences.