My bf and I are arguing lots lately. Lots of issues are coming to light and I can slowly feel myself dissociating and become emotionally disconnect. Not sure if it’s the same for others, but when I completely disconnect I can never fully get it back. 

Winter is coming up and if I decide to leave, I’ll have to do it this week or the next. If I decide to stay, I want to make sure it’s something worth fighting for. 

I care about him a lot. However, these issues we have are becoming exhausting. I am jealous and overbearing, questioning and distrusting. He has anger issues and poor communication skills, in my opinion. I can’t stand the anger issues anymore, though they only come out when I question him. He broke my trust and it’s been really hard to try and build that back and I feel like he doesn’t understand what it’s like to be on this side of what happened.

Is there hope for those with BPD or should I just buy a house and live with 5 cats? Honestly that doesn’t sound bad at all. I want to know if it’s worth working through this. I emotionally disconnected in my last relationship as well as I got fed up with him too. My current bf invested a lot into our relationship so I want to give it a fighting chance.

Anywho, I want to know if there’s anyone with BPD that is in a happy, healthy relationship? Is it possible for those with BPD to have good relationships?

TLDR: is it possible for those with BPD to have good s/o relationships?