What should I expect? How makes someone proficient at helping borderlines heal? I want to get better. I know that's the important part is me willing to do the work. I'm willing I just also don't want to waste time if I'll have to change therapists..any advice and support is appreciated since I've literally got no one to tell this too. I'm honestly ecstatic right now. Theres a chance I can really heal! That I'll be able to have real intimacy and feel real love. No more attracting replays of my shitty childhood! A small step to freedom!