Giving the dreaded Best Man speech in two days, I’ve been dreading it basically since the day I was asked to be the Best Man.  Now all sorts of thoughts are creeping in (how close do I hold the microphone to my mouth, how can I prevent my voice from shaking, how much to look at my sheet of paper vs looking at the audience).  I know that nobody at the wedding will remember my best man speech, and I know nobody is there for me.  But it doesn’t matter to my brain, because several times per day I feel my stomach drop when I’m reminded of it by something on TV or elsewhere.  Anything anyone can say to try to ease my mind?  I’m sure 2 drinks or so beforehand will help a bit, but that’s the only thing I’m optimistic about at the moment.  Wish I didn’t obsess over something nobody cares about because I’m not going to enjoy anything until my speech is done with.