My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and recently moved I. Together. Of course since we moved in, I knew he would eventually be around to see me in a depressive episode (right now). I want to be in bed all the time, I sometimes message him for validation, I sometimes keep details to myself and my therapist that I feel aren’t necessary for him to know- but I also don’t want him to feel like he has to take care of me- even though he says he just wants to make sure I’m okay. I just want to try my best to communicate effectively and be transparent while also keeping boundaries. Sometimes I can tell he’s not sure how to respond to certain situations or that he fully understands what’s going on in my head, like my thought processes. Does anyone know of any subreddits my boyfriend could join that can help and support loved ones of ppl with BPD?