I have a friend that’s moving a few states away from me and I’m having a hard time with it. They’re someone who means a lot to me and I worry that the distance and inability to hang out as often as we usually do once they move will cause us to drift apart. I know they have good reason for the move (not that they need it for me to accept it) but my brain translates it as “they’re moving, they don’t care about you, your friendship with them wasn’t enough for them to stay” and so on. They only have a few days before they’re gone and I haven’t seen them in a few months. I was hoping to hang one last time before the move and they kept telling me different times we could and then cancelling on me and now we’re down to the last few days and they’ve cancelled on me yet again. I don’t know, I have mixed feelings. On one hand I’m angry but I know it’s really me being sad and feeling unimportant to them. I’ve been working on not splitting on people and usually the best way to avoid it is talking to them about what I’m feeling directly but I worry I’ll make them feel bad/guilty. Ughhhhhhhh