Today at work two of my coworkers were talking about how awful borderline women are and how they have dated borderlines and they were the worst and they hate that borderlines “latch on to them”. It was so frustrating knowing that I have done SO MUCH work on myself to be someone that would be a good partner and the whole conversation just made me feel like no matter what I do I’ll always just be seen as a borderline that isn’t worthy of love. I’ve always been honest and tried to break the stigma against us but for the first time I felt so much shame for being borderline. I hate that we are so disrespected and dismissed.