My ex started dating someone who looks like me pre-transition 2 months after we broke up

My ex started dating someone that looks exactly like me pre transition

I was in a long relationship with someone I was friends with for a very long time. It took alot of time and effort as he lived in the US while I was in Canada so I spent lots of money travelling and working to keep up with the relationship 

He was everything to me even before we started dating. I was going through alot of personal issues and he was a light in my life. In addition to that I was finally able to sleep with someone (him) again after having bad past sexual experiences.

I came out to him as trans 3 months ago and he broke up with me shortly after, using the excuse that he wasnt ready for a relationship which obviously was a lie, as everything was okay between us before i came out. 

Recently his friends told me he started dating someone 2 months after we broke up (despite saying he wasnt ready to be in a relationship) and we were all flabbergasted because his new girlfriend looks suspiciously alot like me before I came out as ftm and started medical transition 

I respect him and his preferences if he doesnt want to date a male or a trans person but to be lied to …..


Im hurt and i feel betrayed. I gave everything to him and I couldnt even be accepted for who i am and worse i was replaced. Ive always had trust issues that accompanied my mental illness and now this makes me more afraid. More afraid to get close to people and fear of replacement and rejection.