Hey all. I ended the relationship that pretty much all of you predicted wouldn’t end well (should’ve listened.) First, she confessed feelings for another guy - I was still in that intense idealization stage and blamed him. One day she said she would break up with me if I continued to smoke. I split black at this point and thought that if she really loved me then she wouldn’t care, and she must have stronger feelings for this guy and was just stringing me along. So I ended things. Now, however, she’s texting me and being passively suicidal and telling me about her self harm. I feel incredibly guilty and I would actually go back to her just so she would be ok, but she wouldn’t. What should I do guys? I feel like such a piece of shit for putting her through this. 