This sub is great for info so thank you everyone for posting 

I met a girl on Reddit for a casual relationship and we immediately hit it off, hooked up, and continued for about 3 months. Covid happens so we didn’t see each other for 3 weeks, then things ended abruptly when she said she thought she was getting too close. 

I accepted it after a rough couple weeks, but started thinking about every comment she made to me about past relationships and anxiety, so I did some research and believed she had bpd. But then I started reading more, and I exhibit 6 or 7 signs. 

The more I read, the more I realize this is me. And her. 

Anyway, as expected, she reached back out after a month and I knew not to get too connected because I knew it wouldn’t last. We talked for another month, then had the same split. I told her I understood and that I had issues too, but left it at that. 

I do wish I would have told her.. oh well, maybe I’ll hear back in another month. 

I don’t think it would have worked out anyway .. we had an age gap so had that working against us 

Long rant but thanks again.. this sub is great