I’m only 21 and not pregnant lol but i have just spent like an hour reading reddit posts of people talking about how crappy their parents are when they have bpd and how difficult they make their life. I have always wanted kids but i don’t want to have kids if i’m going to like curse them and i know it sounds a bit like i’m playing victim rn but also it’s kinda sad. I don’t understand how the people writing the posts can not understand their parent has a pretty serious illness. even though it maybe not physical maybe they could have a bit more compassion ?? I don’t know I just think it’s a bit rude but I also understand it must be draining. Btw was diagnosed w bpd quite early on whenI was 16 . Basically overall after this rant what basically makes no sense i am a bit sad because it seems like BPD parents suck and I don’t wana be a sucky mum