Hi everybody, 

Iv recently realised my girlfriend is suffering from depression brought on by childhood traumas and a fear of abandonment. Due to this she has distanced herself from me and is pushing me away because she says she is no good for me and ultimately she make everyone around her unhappy.

This couldn't be any further from the truth for me as I love her to pieces and nothing makes me happier than seeing her smile.

We are still texting periodically and were supposed to meet up this weekend for a no pressure day out at the park which she loves. We ended up not going as she "wasn't feeling like it today" which is fine! 

What I'm stuck with now is what are some things I can say to her to reassure her that I still love her and that I'm here if she wants to talk? I don't want to keep badgering her to meet up as I don't want to pressure her at all but am just struggling on things i can say to reassure her that I haven't left 

Any advice is appreciated 

Leeroy