Had a sleepover one night, nothing happened then but still, was happy that I did not freak out. Then yesterday there was some frisky touching and it was good! Yay!

Just the day before I was catastrophising that we'd never get that far and that she'd break up with me for never being comfortable enough to do that.

This is also my first long term relationship and if we get further, my first... Ya know. It's nice to know that it is possible and that it will happen.

I'm also a bit older so for you peeps who are worried about your age and experience, I believe in you, it can and will happen.