Anyone ever get overwhelmed with family? I still live at home with my parents, my fiancé is in another country - we hope to be getting married next year. My parents are my trigger. My mum and my relationship is pretty toxic. I find her extremely overwhelming and can’t have proper conversation with her. Although I still love her as she’s my mum but honestly it hurts me to say that if she wasn’t my mum I wouldn’t put up with her in my life because she makes it so miserable. 

My dad is fine, but again his attitude towards things and lack of organisation - which I’m aware is down to his own ADD problems stresses me out. I’m also convinced he had an affair which I can’t ever get out of my hear especially if he’s working late or out for the evening. To make matters worst my own therapist said that if you think he’s had an affair it’s probably true. Great to hear.. 

Long story short I’m struggling living with them but I’m saving for a house and wedding and renting will take a huge chunk of the savings I’m currently able to make each month. 

Just struggling to prioritise health over financial independence.