20 years old &amp; just finished 12 weeks of DBT, finally employed. it takes so much mental strength everyday to upkeep a relationship when you have bpd, let alone a long distance one. after taking a 15min shower at my bf’s house (during one of our monthly 3 day visits) his mother screamed at us both, kicked us out and threatened to call the police when we didnt come back fast enough. triggered both of us completely &amp; brought up  so many unforeseen issues we had to break up due to countless miscommunications. resisting both the urge to completely cut him out to and fantasize about being w/ him constantly to make the dread go away. im exhausted