So in the summer I had an acrimonious breakup with my partner of a year due to a bad BPD episode. I was devastated and to some extent still am, however I’ve just got engaged to the most beautiful, wonderful, kind and generous woman I’ve ever had the privilege to get to know. She is supportive of my issues and always asks me to lay my BPD feelings out so she can be of even more support to me. Hang in there. It’s possible. 