Just wanted to start with saying i apologize for any repetition.
 
So my girlfriend just moved in with me a couple of weeks ago after a short time of us being together. It was her idea and i thought hey why not?? We want to be around each other all the time and we get lots of stuff done so this could be super fun! It was her idea and i was game from the moment she brought it up. We’ve known each other for 3 years. The way we met was through my best friend. My best friend dated my girlfriend for years and they had a really long history together. My best friend died of a drug overdose 3 years ago and me and my girlfriend became friends and were there for each other because we shared this common tragedy and were the two closest people to my best friend at the time she died. I was in another relationship so me and my current gf were just friends and would talk from time to time and were always there for one another when we were struggling. I ended my relationship with the person i was with for those 3 years back in December. I then started to hangout with my now gf and was going to her shows and we became close in a different way and are now dating obviously. She asked to move in with me after about a week of officially dating. 

So now we’re caught up. She’s living with me and basically i need advice or something? She moved from a city that’s about 25 minutes down the freeway. She’s a super talented  drop dead stunningly beautiful and interesting in every way trans grrl who i would say i’m definitely in love with at this point. She makes music and is a kick ass skateboarder and all of this fun stuff and pretty much the coolest sweetest girl i’ve ever met. She has a lot going on all the time and definitely has a lot more going for her and more friends than i do that’s for sure! So she’s busy a lot. People want to see her often etc etc which is great! She’s so inspiring and makes me want to do more things for myself and work harder in my own art and business. This past week she’s been missing her city a lot. We live in a suburb outside of the city she lived in and i’m not going to lie i know it’s not as great as her city i know that. But i’m out there every week anyway even before we started dating and she’s out there every week too so we still go there super often and theres also a train that goes to that city as well which makes things easy or so i thought. She’s only lived with me for two weeks and i know it takes time getting used to living in a new place but she’s been really depressed this past week and it’s also starting to make me depressed and anxious like i can’t make her happy enough here with me. It was her idea to live with me here though and i kept telling her are you sure? Are you sure you want to leave that city and be here in this apartment with me? It’s a cute little apartment and she’s never had a whole place like this to herself like we have. All her things are here and everything is so cute. She was really super excited to live here with me and only about a week into it she kind of changed how she’s been acting about it and i finally got out of her that she’s having a hard time adjusting. I want her to be happy and i know it’s really hard on her being away from what she knows even though it’s only 20-25 minutes down the road. She doesn’t drive but i do and i’ve been taking her everywhere she needs to/wants to be. But i too have my issues i have bpd and severe anxiety comes with that at times. I’m trying not to stress her out further but it’s hard to be happy and fun to be around when i feel like she already is sick of me and living here with me. It’s only been two weeks though. I’m feeling hopeless and like the longer she stays here with me the more depressed she’s going to get. All of our things are together and i’ve made many changed to accommodate her living here with me. I guess i didn’t expect her to like not like it??? Not sure what to do. Not sure if if she decides to move out if our relationship will still work out. I’m worried and i feel really bad. I don’t know what to do and it’s breaking my heart 