i'm currently doing a long term project with some friends, and one of them has bpd. and we have been in conference call every day due to the tight schedule. i know the struggles he faces and how he cant control his emotions and all that, but i am extremely drained and in need of a way to cope from this. i often find myself at the point of breaking too. what do you guys think i should do to keep him, and all the people around him mentally healthy?