I have BPD, my sister has BPD. We both clash horribly. Both of our angers were so explosive that we used to beat each other up all the time. Our social habits are the same, we both split a lot, we’re both black sheep of the family, etc. we just butt heads bc we’re similar but just have different views on life. 

I got help for my BPD more or less (until insurance cut off haha), and she never wanted to accept her BPD. 

I blocked her at some point just for some crap she really pissed me off for and I wasn’t having that negativity. Well, it was well over a year ago, and I was surprised to see she texted me today! I guess she got a new phone. She sent a very nice message and was wanting to be updated about everything in my life, etc. I hope she started taking her self care seriously. 

Oh well, I’m not going to get into her business personal wise because of our previous conflicts, I’m just glad to be on good/civil terms. I realized more after learning about BPD from this subreddit is that some of it she really can’t control and I can’t really judge since I have the same issue. Mines more tamed since I went through meds and therapy but I realize that she might not get to that point.