I’m really struggling with my relationship and I’d like any advice I can get.

I love my girlfriend (who has BPD) with all my heart and I only want her to be happy. It doesn’t help that her parents spoiled her, and because I’m a guy who doesn’t want to live in a Disney Princess’s wet-dream castle (she loves pink and gold and everything that has to do with princesses) she gets mad and set off. I told her finally “give me my office and I’ll put a bed in there”, and that set her off because “now I don’t want to sleep with her or be around her.”

No, it isn’t because I hate her, it’s because these are the pictures she sent me for how she wants our house to look.

I’m going to go mental. If I have to live like this… I can’t. I won’t. And I’m scared for myself and my anxiety and depression. I don’t want her to go, she’s my entire life—but I can’t live like this or I’m going to die.