So for Valentine’s Day that is this month, near our 5 year Marriage Anniversary, I spent roughly $350 on 2 gifts for my wife and a piece of really pretty lingerie for me: A star named after her (not really scientific but cool right? ⭐️) 
and a nice sterling silver Cuban Chain that she has been talking about for a year. I think these things are sweet, thoughtful, and sentimental. However she gets worried when I spend money especially around holidays? 
Says she’s worried I’m going into a lower grade manic state. I have BP1 and am on Lamotrigine and Prozac, i workout regularly, try to eat healthy, and the house is pretty clean. That being said, my last episode was over two years ago but was very traumatic for both of us (mostly her). 
She wonders, since lamotrigine helps more with the depressive side and not so much the mania then mayhaps i should get on something like Vraylar? 
She sees a slippery slope to me running off or maxing out our credit card 💳 
I feel like she has those irrational feelings and thoughts and that’s fine for her, I wish she’d not worry about crazy scenarios in her head. I never have done any of those things, mind you…
So am I spending too much? 
Should I get on something else like an antipsychotic as a fail safe? 
Lastly, what should I do about the fears she has?  I can only reassure her so much for real 😧 
Thanks you, thank you for reading!

TL/DR; spent around $350 on thoughtful Valentines Day gifts (2) and one for me, wife is worried I’m going to the manic side and perhaps should get on an antipsychotic. Thoughts?