I've had this FP for close to 3 years now and he's not my significant other so things can get a little complicated. I've been trying to look for a way to detach but have struggled to do that for so long. It literally felt impossible. He's never commented on my weight before... Until yesterday. He asked what I had for dinner and I told him I had a pork chop. Then he said that only people like him should eat pork because its so fattening. (Because he's skinny) I felt so heartbroken. But it deleted every desire I ever had of talking to him spending time with him etc. Yesterday I was mad but today I'm not even mad. I'm calm settled indifferent and at peace. Its what I've needed for so long and I'm so happy I have it now.