I just had an incident where I was really confused by something someone said. I spent 30+ minutes stressing about it and taking it personal (it wasn’t personal), 20 minutes asking people for advice, and wow it’s already late afternoon. 

The only good thing that came out of it was that I did not accuse the person of saying what they said as an attack against me (because it wasn’t). I instead spent a long time, apparently, going over what I would say to them that didn’t sound insane. And it mostly didn’t. And there goes hours of my day that I worried I was going to act a fool, that this person that barely knows me except through a group chat (through a place I volunteer with) was not telling me something because she had it out for me


WELLP if you’re exhausted from reading that, I am 10 times more exhausted from the insane back and forth I’ve put myself through for the past...... two hours.