I am simply not stable enough right now to be trying to date people.  In the past 2 years my life has been reduced to rubble. Lost the wife/kids/house and now moved in with dad and brother.  Really just starting over and work on eventually being a part of my kids lives. But I still end up on fb dating even tho i know its not helpful to rebuilding my life.  I am trying to fill the emptiness that will be there either way.  Just wanted to hear any input with others experiences and advice.