I was diagnosed about three years ago with bipolar. Today I had an intake with a psych np for a new place, after almost two hours he diagnosed me with bpd as well. My mom had it and severe ptsd... I  completely drained and destroyed from this. The last thing I want is to be like my mom. Idk what to do now or how to respond to this new information. I don’t doubt it, I have suspected it for a while but it never came up in therapy. I feel like all my potential just went down the drain. And I am seriously worried about messing up my kids and passing down the mental illness I struggle with. I am starting dbt immediately which will be new for me. Anything else I can do other than read up on the topics at hand?