My now ex and I have been on and off for 2 years (one 3 month break) we have lived together for a little over a year and a half. We both have mental health issues (him ASPD and other illnesses) and me BPD (and other illnesses). We are now separating again and I feel angry.. not at him particularly anymore. But I’m angry that mental illness divided our love. He truly is my best friend and we have amazing times together but our mental illnesses clash so much and we both take meds and go to therapy and see a psychiatrist. But I can’t help but be mad at the illness and not so much him. Any support would be great I’m in a really low spot.