Currently in the middle of a conflict with my partner where they feel I need emotional validation on parental levels in order to be happy and there is no amount of effort that satisfies me. As I absorb this realization I’m devastated and embarrassed. But I know that I love them and I love being in a romantic relationship. When I started letting my walls down I was so happy. The feelings are out of this world amazing and my partner is amazing to be around. I let my insecurities and fears push us apart. I feel awful and I’m looking forward to never letting this happen again. To get there I would like to know what I’m supposed to want from a healthy romantic relationship so I can align my values and goals with what works for me! I know I want to be happy!!!!! And I want to get healthy enough to be successful if we try again as well as in future partnerships!