He basically just stuck with his original point of view when I got home and now I’m scared to live with his ocd and potential to yell about things that are already clean. 

I wish I was in the wrong but I should have stayed away until he saw a therapist or someone about it. I had to call my sister and stay with my mom the week because I dont even feel ok talking to him. I know I was right because I’ve learned not to argue back with people and there was no mess to be angry about in the first place.

I dont know what to do now because I didnt want to have to leave the house again or tell him how wrong it was to have the same opinion. He was quiet so I would feel bad restating my original position. I came back on christmas because he sent me a text asking how I was feeling but came home to a less intense version of the same problem. 

I’m terrified I’m going to make the wrong mess and have to walk on eggshells.