So I'm in the middle of a separation and my wife says she's undecided on next steps but everything points towards divorce. On top of that I'm paranoid that she's cheating on me. Three months ago all the "clues" I'm picking up wouldn't have created a second thought or if they did I'd just have asked, but she wants space now--physically, mentally, emotionally--while we do the in-house separation so i can't ask her or bring anything up to her. I have these shaking fits now that I didn't use to get like it makes food fall off the fork and sloshes my drink. Has anyone else had anxiety/nervous energy do this to them?