So, I've been dating this chick for a while and I've known she was bipolar the whole time we've been together and I've been with her through the worse of her depression which was pretty ugly and i was with her every step of the way for her getting help. A few months ago I proposed to her dispite all the ups and downs we've faced. But there's been times where she'll have a mood swings and turn the smallest issue into a big fight. Theres been times where even i over react and it never makes things better. I'm just asking for some advice from from anyone who actually understands what it's like to go through these manic episodes and what it's like to live with bipolar. I wonder what would be the best thing for me to do when shes going through one, because shell have times when she makes impulsive decisions and other times when shell intentionally try to make me upset and shell try to hurt me more than the little thing i did. It's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm always wrong about everything and I'm always to blame for anything that makes her upset. I figured this would be the best community to ask for advice and I hope anyone can help me out.