I've been seeing a lot of posts where an OP talks about feeling inferior to "normal" people in some way, as in all their opinions are not real or inherently wrong, that their real selves are so bad they have to put on a new identity and so on. Despite the clickbaity title of this post I *do* get these feelings, I used to be like this, I know how painful it is and that's why I don't like it that these things are being normalised and defended even. Full offense but where's your dignity? Just because you're you it doesn't mean that you have less right to exist, to be yourself, to have opinions and tastes. If you value other people's judgement so much then know that many people would just love to be less mundane and generic. Would you be happy knowing that you lived your entire life hiding your true self from the world, not accepting it, not allowing it to flourish, not being proud of it, not sharing it with the world? It's *you*, one of a kind, and there will never be another.