I just recently turned 21 but I've been battling depression for most of my teenage years, and to cope with it I started drinking a lot, like a lot a lot so much to the point I don't even recognize myself anymore, and it's just made my depression worse to be honest, I just feel helpless and alone, and everything I try to talk to someone about my problem with drinking and depression they never know the right words to say and end up making me feel worse.  For any of you who mightve been in a position like I am now, is there anyway to get better? Or am I just gonna be stuck feeling like I'm a lonely alcoholic who will never be good enough forever...