I don’t mean this as a “DAE” I thought we could maybe get a discussion started on this? 

Looking at my life, I tend to assume a very submissive, meager position. I like make myself small and I make my bfs big and then I place the whole world on their shoulders. I expect them to know everything, handle everything and be madly in love with me while they’re at it.

As I grow older I’m starting to see I need to fill in those shoes for myself, I need to stand strong on my own two feet because the uwu smol baby girl shit is not only unsustainable but probably actively harmful.

I was wondering if this resonated with anyone else on here and how you cognitize it. What aspects of BPD lend themselves to you seeking out this type of dynamic? What aspects do you attribute to your personality instead? 

I hope that makes sense ☺️ and nobody point out how this post is STILL just me seeking reassurance and answers from others