My ex and I broke up 3 months ago because his mental health was declining and he stopped loving me. He came back 2 weeks ago to say he wanted to try again, but then got busy. Yesterday he told me he changed his mind yet again and just wants to be friends.    

I have whiplash and I said I can’t look beyond my feelings for him to be friends. He made me feel guilty and got mad at me. But.. damn the last 4 months have been exhausting. I just wanna move on and focus on doing my best to never allow him back because I’m so codependent on him.. this whole situation was bad for my mental health.