I started dating a guy about 4 months ago and we really hit it off, but lately I've had a lot of anxiety and just negative feelings about our relationship (like it's going to fail, it's doomed, etc). Please help give me some perspective, I don't want to mess this one up. 


1.) he stopped snap chatting me last week, he used to snap chat me all the time and it feels like he's slowly becoming less infatuated with me. I want to ask him to snapchat me more but I'm afraid it's just my BPD.


2.) feel like he couldn't care less if he saw me. He texts me and calls me almost everyday, but I still feel like he's not dying to see me. We are semi long distance (an hour drive apart) and this weekend he didn't feel like driving so I'm going down tomorrow, but he didn't miss me enough to drive up tonight! That causes me a lot of anxiety. 


3.) feel like everything he says me has an undertone of sarcasm, is putting me down... When he's probably not but he just has a dry sense of humor 


4.) feel like I'm way more into him than he is into me... If he really liked me he'd snapchat me more. Sometimes he won't respond to my texts for hours. He didn't respond for like 5 hrs today.



5.) just feel like the relationship is doomed and I should end it already. It's so ducking frustrating because it's a self fulfilling prophecy. I didn't go to see him tonight because I wanted to make him miss me... But I don't think it worked. We're supposed to go for a hike tomorrow and I was hoping he'd plan something nice since I'm driving down, but he hasn't told me if he has. He didn't even ask what time I'm coming. 


6.) feeling like I really want to distance myself from him to test our relationship 