I am 24 and my partner is 27 I have been with him for 2 years, the past year and a half have been really hard, I know I need to be doing things to help myself but i have been struggling and in a rut I can’t get myself out of and now my partner is now being impacted because I can’t do things for myself I use my anxiety as a cop out not to do things and I struggle so hard to just do the things I need to do. I am so lost and confused I feel so weak as human I see people out there who are so strong and can push through anything and I can barely do self care