I came across this today and I'm wondering if it rings true for anyone else here? 

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The distinctive features of a demand avoidant profile include:

* [resists and avoids](https://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx#resists) the ordinary demands of life
* uses social strategies as part of avoidance, eg [distracting, giving excuses](https://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx#distracting)
* [appears sociable](https://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx#sociable), but lacks understanding
* experiences [excessive mood swings](https://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx#mood) and impulsivity
* appears [comfortable in role play](https://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx#roleplay) and pretence
* displays [obsessive behaviour](https://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx#obsessive) that is often focused on other people.   

People with this profile can appear controlling and dominating, especially when they feel anxious. However, they can also be enigmatic and charming when they feel secure and in control. It’s important to acknowledge that these people have a hidden disability.