I care about him so so much and I don’t want to lose him, but giving him a chance means I have to give up a lot of my future plans, I plan to move abroad and live my life in a way that he wasn’t raised in, not only that I really don’t want extreme family connection and even constant visits and he is so a family guy, he is literally a dream come true in a guy, and I know I will catch feelings for him if I gave it a chance, but the whole question is what if I regret not following my plans later in life and how can I explain to him that, he been having bad experiences in dating I am afraid I will be the last try for him , I want him to be happy but I don’t think it will be with me I am so stressed please help