sorry but i have to vent for a little bit. i wasnt over my ex for like 9 months after we broke up and after almost a year of crying over this person and them sorta leading me on i think im over him. it feels so fucking good to like flirt with other people and to have that attention and not be so constricted and walking on egg shells and trying to be perfect so maybe somebody will take you back. like i am so happy that i am just talking to other people without any strings attached and just not feel bad about it or like im cheating on him. its so good even if nothing comes of the relationships or whatever like i AM SO HAPPY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT HIM. and for everyone out there i think this is hope because just a month ago i thought i would never ever get over him. it takes time!!!