My mom has uBPD, I have had two therapists, who have told me she most definitely has it, but she has never went to a therapist herself. After years of the emotional toll its caused on my family and myself, I reached out to other people, (her sisters and some of my cousins) who are more than willing to help me to convince her to get therapy and build a support system from all of us. Over the years she's shut herself out from a lot of my family so it's been pretty much just me and her.

Since I have them on board for an "intervention" are there any kind of tips/advice you can give me, or resources on how to handle a group, and maintain a loving atmosphere? Some of my family are kind of strong personality types who won't take well to my mom's insults and just general unpleasantness and are very inclined to tough love. Do you guy's think this is ok? Or should I definitely keep it on track for a peaceful loving kind of talk. Any kind of help is greatly appreciated!

(sorry if this isnt the right place to post, I just didn't know where else i could, thank you for reading anyway! Also, sorry if this made anyone upset because it isnt the right place to post)