so i’ve fallen in love with a boy that has borderline personality disorder. and i have bipolar disorder. a big part of me falling for him is that he understands how i think a lot of the time and has similar problems to what i have. He cares about me too but is too worried that he’ll hurt me because many people with bdp can’t stay in relationships for very long without becoming toxic. I want to be with him so badly, and I know the risks. I know there will be people that say I should just move on, but the reason I wanted to post was to see if anyone had similar experiences with this and to see if they had any advice. We decided to wait until we graduate college to reevaluate if we’re healthy enough to date each other, but until then I want to educate myself as much as possible so that I can be there for him as a friend.