I was wondering if any of you have a similar feeling. 
I often notice i connect more, and even like people more from the problems they are going through.
Often when I dated, I feel closer to someone who is, or gone through something.

Something about knowing someone who goes through equal or even more pain makes me feel somewhat attached, and whenever I see people who lived almost 'perfect' lives; or had problems that aren't really considered 'real' problems; I end up not really wanting to interact with them as much. 
