My now ex boyfriend didn’t reciprocate love (he was being very wavering and withholding saying it because of past hurt and needing to “mull it over”). Because of my abandonment issues this really really hurt me. And my family agrees that I was right to end it over this but they also struggle with unhealthy beliefs so idk if this is normal. But online Psychology Today articles and stuff say it’s normal for people to go at their own paces and that someone doesn’t have to say it back right away and that you shouldn’t get reactive. Now I feel crazy.