Hey everyone, 
I'd appreciate some perspective. I'm 26 and I've found a stable job with a pretty good income. Been working there for six months now. Well, I live in a small city near a big metropolis (Northern Italy) and I've always dreamt of moving to said metropolis. Well, recently my parents have started encouraging me to find my own home. And it has rubbed me the wrong way. 
I'm feeling like they hate me and want to get rid of me. I feel like they never loved me in the first place. 
I tried to vent to my SO (who is 31 and already lives on his own not so far away from me) and he said "Look, once you live on your own everything is going to get better". 
But I don't feel like it. If I move in the city, all the burden of the houseworks will be on my shoulders with no one to help me. Nobody will give a sh"t about my wellbeing. 
I have no friends in my town (lost them due to my depressive episodes) and I don't think I'll make new ones in the big city. 
My dream is turning into a nightmare. And even my SO doesn't care because instead of protecting me, he wants me to move in the big city. 
I am so tempted to move out, find a place in the big city and then cut all contacts with parents and boyfriend. Since they are so happily discarding and abandoning me, then I should abandon them first. 
Do you think I'm overreacting? Why are they so happy about getting rid of me?