There’s a guy I’ve been talking to for a while and we’ve opened up to each other about some stuff we’ve gone through but I’m scared to tell him about my BPD. I really like him but I’m scared that if I truly open up to him, he’s going to think I’m a monster and will no longer want to be around me. And even if he does accept me, I’m scared that one day he’ll think I’m too intense or too much work. 
I don’t know what to do.