Hi friends, can any of you recommend a good book or resource for someone with BPD (who can’t bring themselves to see it) that is sensitive, affirming and genuinely helpful for them to understand what they’re experiencing and ways of coping/healing. The person I have in mind has a BPD / NPD mother and is in her late 40’s. Her BPD mainly manifests itself as mood volatility, splitting, raging, haughtiness and arrogance in private. Motherhood of our 10 year old daughter is a particular trigger, and she ends up behaving towards our daughter in many ways she was tormented by her mother.  Thank you…. any recommendations are deeply appreciated.