I decided to make a post to a few personals subreddits to see if anyone was interested, because I’m a border extrovert with BPD. Even though part of me didn’t expect it, I’ve gotten TONS of messages, and I’ve at least entertained quite a few, which makes sense in line with my quest to be “the most fuckable person in the supermarket.” You all understand. Anyway, my problem is this: I’m very appealing, apparently. But, like, to the least common denominator of men. Mostly just people messaging me like “hi I’m 37 and i didn’t actually read your post wanna date?” And because I’m trans, sites like Reddit are really basically my only option to meet guy who are willing to be with me and into the same stuff I am. I got fat in a conversation with one guy, and things were going great (he literally told me so), then he just straight up blocked me. Like, I know for a fact I didn’t say anything offensive. How do I, I dunno, hide my borderline vibes and be appealing to men who aren’t pathetic scumbags?