My FP and partner (who also has mental health issues but likely not bpd) is really the love of my life. However recently she has been struggling a bit and will on a seemingly random schedule get struck by a mood and say she has to leave and hang up on the call and then won’t reply for hours. (We can only talk by txt or video call)

I get that she is going through her own stuff that’s causing it (she says it’s social exhaustion and she started a new job recently etc. ) but every time it happens I feel so hurt and I can’t think and end up crying for hours and making stuff worse by trying to txt. I don’t know how to be better at coping with this it hurts so bad.

Thanks for reading and for any advice