So I'm on the other end of the scale when it comes to empathy and putting other people's needs before my own, often sabotaging my own care... anyone else? I've been called out by my therapist to really look at managing how other people's emotions affect me as I pick up on them constantly, and I've been told I need to be more assertive with my own needs... although I'm sure I'm like this because of the abandonment thing. My emotions are all over the place and I'll give you the last cookie I'd ever own if you asked. (My brain is a nice persons with crazy intrusive thoughts, I feel like a bad person all the time despite how I act towards other people) 

Anyone else experience similar? 