 Me (25m) and my girlfriend (22f) have been together for over 2 years. Before we got together I knew she suffered with anxiety and depression. When we first got together she was actively trying to get help by getting put on antidepressants, waiting lists for therapy etc.

She has always had anxiety around work and has been fired from multiple jobs for too many sick days. For a while things were going well with her but the current job she has she says is making her anxiety worse. She can't pinpoint exactly what is causing it but says it is definitely the job. She refuses to accept the possibility that it could be something other than work. She is refusing to go back to the doctors to look at altering her medication or put herself back on the waiting list for free therapy. It is not causing her mood to get lower. 

She hasn't been to work in over a month but is still low every day. She admitted this week that her low mood doesn't seem to just be down to work so I encouraged her to talk to her doctor then since it is only likely to get worse without any help and she just asked me not to force her to go. I pointed out I couldn't force her to do anything but it's also hurting me seeing her like this every day then she as silent for a bit so I thought I had gotten through to her then just just said again that she won't talk to the doctor.

. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions because I can't think of anything else to do?