Basically I wanted to discuss family travel plans and weather that could affect the plans, partner is condescending. I say why are you talking down to me. It escalates from there. I asked for empathy so I know he knows why that hurts me. He gets mad. Says this is pointless. (its not pointless to me) 

Everything was going good for once. He thinks I'm trying to pick a fight. But it's ok to want empathy from someone that's supposed to love you after they talk down to you isn't it?