My ex girlfriend w bpd and I have had some pretty rocky weeks recently. I have seen her basically shut people out for periods of time (sometimes days, sometimes so much longer). She has shut me out and will not respond to me at all. I just don’t know if I should keep reaching out so she knows I care and love her or just wait for her to come around. I’m not sure what is worse for her. Since I don’t have bpd I have tried to learn a lot about it but I still don’t know a lot and I wish I could understand her better. I don’t want her to think I’ve abandoned her or that I hate her or anything like that. 

Thank you in advance