Hey :) first off all; I'm very happy I'm on this subreddit, I can relate with a lot of your stories and that makes me feel less lonely :) however, I feel like some of the symptoms I've been reading about I can not relate with. I feel like there is a more of an acting out borderline type which includes getting into fights/troubel and selfharming. And then there's more of an introverted/emotional unstable on the inside type of borderline.my therapist said that I am feeling like a borderliner on the inside but are not really acting out as one. What are your views on this? Do you think there's a distinct difference or is it just all a big mess? 