I only recently realized my girlfriend of 9 months is emotionally unavailable. Usually I handle her lack of affection okk cuz she gives it to me sometimes and its enough usually, but recently it's been getting to me and sending me into meltdowns and fits. What can I do to keep the relationship going and hopefully make it healthier? She has depression, PTSD, and social anxiety and possible schizophrenia, I have bpd, ednos, dysthymia, and gad.