hi!
im not 18 yet but with some research ive found it is possible to get a diagnosis before 18, so i really am baby. i asked my therapist about it and she said "we'll talk about it next session" and judging from the amount of dbt shit shes giving me and how ive always felt like i probably had it im hopeful for a diagnosis.
either that or im neurotypical and just batshit fucking crazy.
anyway ive never felt like i had "trauma." ive always felt like my shit is baby shit. all my friends have been abused physically and shit or have awful parents. yet here i am, i just went thru my whole life with every person ive ever known just leaving me or treating me like shit. i havent been sexually or physically abused. my parents are loving. im assuming im just a dumb fuck. i think i was abused emotionally at one point by a friend but i couldnt tell you now because idk what the fuck is wrong w my memory but i literally cant fucking remember anything before like...yesterday other than small details. 
anyway if you have more questions go ahead. im a stupid idiot with no actual trauma i assume. sorry