I sometimes think that I'd like to date someone who also has BPD because they'd be more relatable. I don't have an aggressive personality, I'm more emotionally detached so I'm able to handle other people's issues calmly, so I imagine that we wouldn't clash too much as I'm mostly pretty supportive with other people in distress, without getting my own emotions caught up in it.

I just think that they're more likely to share my worldview and accept me, and I'll be able to feel understood and relate to them as well. Normally when I talk to people, I feel cynical and most people at least are openly optimistic, which just feels unrelatable to me. They also don't understand when I have defensive opinions, like not letting people too close or not trusting people.

I also have issues trusting people, and I've always been 100% loyal to everyone I've valued, I've always put people I value before myself (which I'm happy to do, because i genuinely care about them and helping them makes me happy) only to realise that normal people don't have this type of 100% loyalty. Idk, I know that some people with BPD cheat when they feel abandoned and stuff as well so idk.

Idk, I just thought if anyones had relationships, what were they like with neurotypicals or other BPD's???