I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible.  I've been diagnosed with everything from Bipolar to Major Anxiety disorder to OCD.  I've been on every medication known to man, and none help.  After my last suicide attempt an "Angel" who was a emergency counselor saw me in the hospital and my dad pleaded to him to give his opinion on what is wrong with me.  I'm 28/M and have had incidents all of my life with self harm ect, and this man told my dad it appears to be BPD.  We both researched it and it fits me to a T.  Now why did none of the other 4-5 Psychiatrists or therapists I've seen my entire life NEVER even bring that disorder up, who knows but I finally found out what the hell is wrong with me.  I've been very successful, own a house and have had a stable career for over 4 years however after the latest incident I had to go on STD.  I was hoping this would allow me to get the true help I need and find a inpaitent DBT facility where I could learn how to regulate my emotions and learn who I am.  Well, the Psych I am seeing now apparently is ANTI-BPD and has cut my STD short which means I have to go back to my stressful job and I'm worried about the outcome.  Does anyone have any suggestions on a good inpaitent facility for DBT therapy?  Everything, I've found so far costs 30k or above and isn't covered by any insurance.  I'm so lost and so alone, I just want to get better yet it seems impossible to do so seeing how there isn't even a DBT therapist in my state!

TLDR: Finally found out I'm BPD, yet there is NO HELP.  I need help and guidance finding a good DBT inpatient therapy center to get my life back on track