Hi guys,

So I have been wondering if therapy even works for dependant people or people who get too attached to their therapist.

So I had two therapists so far. Unfortunately, after the last therapy failed miserably, my symptoms got a lot worse and I realized that I do not have any own motivation to get better anymore. It's like I need somebody to "brainwash" me into finding hope, leaving me dependant on that person. I do have thoughts about what could help me sometimes, but it's like "NO, I  need somebody I trust and then that person encouraging me to do it" 

The thing is, I told both of my previous therapists that I might just be doing things in order to please them opposed to really wanting it myself. The results were two completely unstructured therapies, I never got homework, I floated and the therapists floated too. 

Nothing in my life is certain anymore (no job, no friends, no perspective, moved back in with parents). I have been floating for years and crave somebody I can rely on as all the problems I have are too much for me to handle. However, the way to treat somebody who is dependant on others seems to be "don't give them what they want". That approach hasn't worked for me so what do I do?