
A little back story we’ve been married 10 years together for almost 15.  We have two beautiful children. She is the love of my life and I will never let go of her.  My wife has been self harming in since before we met and only recently diagnosed with BPD in the last couple years.  She has been working tirelessly with a great therapist since then but still has a long way to go before she can uncover the trauma that she endured during her childhood. 

I’m struggling with a traumatic self harm event that happened recently while she was in an extreme state of disconnect.  I cannot bring myself to talk about right now.  I am desperate for some support from others who have loved and supported significant others with BPD.  My family and friends don’t understand BPD enough to see past the self harm.  I am getting back in to therapy I just wanted to hear from other who have been on this road.