In my attempt to fill the gap left by identity diffusion, I often choose a few people I find interesting (acquaintances, people from social media or even celebrities) and start copying their principles, thinking and behaviour. 

I try so hard to align my personality with theirs that I feel terrible when I sometimes realize that I’ve managed somehow to form my own opinion on a topic, but it’s different from what they believe. I feel stupid and I automatically think that they’re completely right. 

It’s so sad when you think about it. How do get rid of this habit, if possible?