I'm a 2 wing 3. Just wondering what others here are, and how/if you see it as a contributing factor to your BPD. A 2 is the classic "helper/giver" but often gives with strings attached, hoping to be validated and for the love and attention to be returned. A 3 is the "achiever" who is very competitive and tends to take on the favorable personality traits of a person they are currently spending time with. I wish it wasn't true, but I often find myself giving-to-get and straight up mirroring, usually subconsciously. Now that I understand Borderline, I wonder if these personality traits are bc of the Borderline, or just intensified by it.
What's your type, and how do you see your BPD affecting it?

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