Long story short my boyfriend lended me money ($1000) when I was having trouble paying rent at one point. Was low on money, food, utilities.  ( He gave me no choice but to take it, "I am not taking that back, use it wisely") Fast forward 4 months and I am getting a second job, will be getting some good money, he mentions that money and he wants me to pay him back. I sorta and irritated at the fact he gave me no choice but to take it, and now he wants me to give it back to him, just cause I'm going to be in a better place, financially. Am I the asshole or is he?