My 19yr old daughter finally graduated hs in May of this yr. She has done zero with her life since then. It was always concerning i.e. her behavior, attitude, and mental health. But even more so now. She got kicked out of her moms apartment a few days ago bc she had an explosive outburst to where she damaged her moms things. During that time she called me and said she has upset, I told her to go outside, walk it off to calm down.. but nope...she proceeds to tear up things in the apartment.  And That wasn't the 1st time something like that happened. They live in a fairly small town in SC. 

I live in another state. Me &amp; her moms are divorced.  But ik at this point, having her stay with me with no drive, no motivation or plans for herself in a metropolitan city would be disastrous. I've given her advice on the things she should be doing, and she does absolutely nothing. She tells me today that she has no drive for anything but yet doesn't seek out or want help for herself. I don't know what to atp. 

She doesn't want to live with anyone on her moms side of the family bc of petty things. She has no job, no car, no source of income and is currently staying with a friend. Her idea of making it out of the small town she's currently in, is too move in on campus dorm with another friend of hers and her bf. I shut that down as soon as I heard it. Bc Ik my daughter will ruin things. And thats a disaster all in itself with no plan on how things will work. 

I don't wanna be that dad that just completely shuts off there kid once they graduate hs. (I've seen parents who have done this.) But at the same time she's done nothing for herself and all the advice I've given her has fallen on deaf ears. She does like whatever little money I send her from time to time, and weed. (Yea go figure). I'm at a lost.