Many times when I read about BPD problems I see that everybody have fear to be alone, don't want to let people go, etc etc. We have these abandonment issues as a symptom. But how many of you ever get to this point when there's actually no such problems? I mean, when *there's no one left* to dump you and so on. When everyone have already dumped you, and some of them *you* have left, and now you're *actually all alone*. And you have this painful experience and don't want to get back to this. You just don't want to return to people anymore. And by people I mean whole mankind. You may have small talks with strangers, but making friends, or dating someone?? Nooo. Never ever. 

How do I solve this? How can a person become socialized again?