So, I’m about to turn 26. I’ve been in a few serious relationships. All of which, with the exception of 1, I was able to get over and back to myself fairly quickly. My most recent ex is also my longest relationship (almost 2 years). I thought he was the one I was going to marry. I now know that we realistically would have never worked long term. However, I can’t stop the obsessive thoughts that he wasted my time to find a good partner. I’m in the south, and it seems like all the good ones are taken. I hate my ex. I hate him like I’ve never hated any ex before. I regret our entire relationship, and feel like it has affected me in a permanent and negative way. I honestly don’t think I can fall in love again. He ruined that for me. I’m just rambling at this point, but has anyone experienced anything like this? Being unable to move on because you can’t stop obsessively thinking about how much your ex screwed you over? I want to be in a healthy, happy relationship, but I think my last relationship has put me off of them completely. Just, help, anyone.