**Success or failure is not a barometer of self-worth.**

To be overjoyed at success and destroyed at failure is to become a **victim of circumstances.**

I used to work so hard to achieve my goals, I would work 6-7 days a week on my startup to get the result as fast as possible.

What did I get in the result?

In a few months, everything starts to crumble. The work becomes a struggle, not an enjoyment. The energy is low and you can't run your business with the same motivation as you started. I lose interest and think that achieving my goals is not possible.

Surprisingly, when we let go of attachment to goals and outcomes, the achievement is often the result.

**Goals in life are simply guidance** that illuminates our path, keeping us on track of inner emotional and spiritual expansion.

*Is it more important to achieve than to find meaning in the experience of achieving?*

Notice how quickly we improve and develop when we focus on the experience itself and the process, the direction in which we are going, rather than on how quickly or “successfully” we arrive.

Such focus **reduces anxiety and tension** over attaining a particular result, and the by-product is a true achievement.

For the long term - only the joy of the process works. When business is a joy, and everyone in the team enjoys the process and found their places.

We will learn how effective we become when we open to the extraordinary power of detachment and desire-less living.

Hey there! I’m a Serial Entrepreneur, Life Coach &amp; Mentor. Currently helping people build their startups and lifestyle for success. **I give away one free call per day!**

I’ve been there. I struggled with anxiety, overthinking, and burning out because of my projects. I used to work every day.

I had no time for family, friends, and myself. This lifestyle started ruining my life and nothing worked.I realized that I waste a lot of time, thinking that I’m being productive by working hard.

Now I spend only a **few hours a day working and getting incredible results for my companies**. The rest of my time I like to spend networking with people, mentoring, investing, working out, and spending quality time with my friends and family.

Looking forward to meeting with people from Reddit!