Hey everyone any input will be much appreciated,

Before I start in no way am I self diagnosing at all I'm just asking questions on how to go forth with what I say below.

I have struggled with alot of things especially in the area of emotions &amp; self image since I can remember. Currently I am diagnosed ASD (Aspergers for specifics) which at the time felt kind of fitting but I never thought the diagnoses criteria fully fit my symptoms. 

Over a few months ago I had gotten myself a girlfriend who is genuinely the best thing I've ever had in my life - she is diagnosed BPD and recently and after alot of talking I have opened up a little, like the shit terrifies me i usually avoid emotional stuff and keep it to myself as I've got a chronic fear of something bad happening from me expressing or talking about my feelings or being belittled or made to feel invalid on this and then said person leaving me, this has caused me to never develop a proper meaningful connection with anybody I feel soulless but with my girlfriend this is different and way more different than its ever been. I have only opened up genuinely only somewhat to her on my past "trauma" and experiences as of recent anyways as I feel finally ready to do so. She is honestly such a great person &amp; I feel as though I can finally let some out safely but this shit was still extremely hard to even somewhat let out.

Anyways because of her telling me of her diagnosis I took the time to do as much research on BPD as possible so I can understand her &amp; know what I need to do for her to be as comfortable as possible in any situation or type of mood she may be in and still feel loved and cared for in the process &amp; along the way I have noticed alot of symptoms and degrees of symptoms I have actually felt and experienced for a very very long time, said symptoms fit me more than an autism diagnosis does. I stumbled across "Quiet BPD" and honestly this really does fit almost everything to an absolute T in what I've experienced all my life.

To add onto this after me finally letting some of my feelings out on topic of these conversations she said to me she thought from the very first few days we met that she suspected I have BPD &amp; the more deeply we talk on things she recognizes it more and more.

I am stumped as to what to do. Do I try to get re-diagnosed? Can you have both ASD &amp; BPD? Or should I just leave it and continue on?

Sorry for the long post I've been really thinking on this for about a week now and I feel this is composed right enough to post.