I started dating my bf in September after being a solid item if u will for like 9 months. The other day him and his mum got into an argument and he came to stay at mine I’m f17 he is m18 and I’m in out of home care. His mum who’s like 40 also has bpd and was saying all this horrible shit abt how I’m an abuser and she can’t believe he’s choosing me over her and said I’m mentally unstable and not good enough for him and that my social workers know that and she’s getting the cops to call them. I’m under a lot of stress at the moment from that plus I’ve just moved I’m changing psychs and a whole bunch of other things and I just can’t stand my boyfriend?? I keep ignoring him and I just hate him so much. It’s like I’ll have these littles moments where I love him and want him to read me to sleep over the phone or I just get all lovey but then other times I just wanna punch him and tell him to fuck off and never speak to me again. I genuinely can’t tell if my bpd is just going through it at the moment or if this is just another unhealthy relationship that I should probably end? Part of me wants to for the sake of both him and I but part of me is telling me to just stick it out because we love each other and we need each other? Any who sorry abt the long post feels good to rant ig