So identity issues are super common with BPD and a lot of us don't have a solid grasp on who we are as people away from others and our FPs. When we do get a sense of self, no matter how small, it's reassuring and encouraging. So I'm wondering if you figured something out about yourself, would you cut someone off that threatens that part of yourself? 

For a quick and lighthearted example. Say you realized you love pepperoni pizza and you meet someone who prefers supreme pizza. You start doubting your love of pepperoni. If they like Supreme that much after having pepperoni, it must be better. Would you cut the supreme pizza person off bc they make you doubt what you finally know - you love pepperoni? Or would you just carry on with the doubt until you ultimately realized you do like supreme more or you ultimately start craving pepperoni? 