By the title does anyone relate? How do you deal with these issues? I want to change I need to change. 

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Hey, i know this is a relationship post but I decided to post to this sub reddit because I was relating to a lot of posts on here. 

I haven’t been diagnosed with anything but I go to therapy and I know I have “issues” if you will. 

So I go from having great amazing fun times with my boyfriend to instant panic that he doesn’t actually love me. 

This instant panic happens with ridiculous things. for examples: say he has to go because he wants to go home and have alone time, he doesn’t text enough, doesn’t say I love you and things like that. 

When I this happens I either feel terrible about myself and latch out or I get upset with him that he doesn’t compliment me enough and give me enough reassurance.
I’m confused if I do this because I have issues ....or because he really doesn’t treat me the way he should even tho I know he’s an amazing guy. 

I love him so much. I’m at wits end. This behaviour of mine hurts myself and him.