My brother has done some really fucking awful, unforgivable things to me. And I tell my mom I'm feeling invalidated and I do it in a positive way that fosters communication. SHe basically tells me that I am going to meet rude people in like.

Yeah. I fucking know that. But I don't have to watch you love those people.

I want to ruin things. and break things. Or kill myself. 
I want to make her care.