So my best friend was diagnosed with BPD about 2-3 years ago after around 10 appointments with her psychologist. She also was diagnosed with body dysmorphic disorder, anxiety, and depression. After a recent long and amazing conversation we had, she finally has agreed that she should regularly see someone again.

My question is, what do you think is the best way to find help for her? She works a very demanding job that she loves and is passionate about, but it requires her to be in on 7-5 M-F during the school year. She can't really miss work because her workplace is kinda crazy, so I'm hoping that someone has been able to make it work in a similar situation. If it helps, she has UnitedHealthcare and lives in Manhattan (on the off chance that someone has any recommendations for a flexible healthcare provider in the city!).

I've known her for about 7 years now and we've gone through our extremely dramatic highs and lows, but in spite of it all I recently realized that I've pretty much always been in love with her. She is really the best person I've known in my life so any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you!