I have noticed so many people hate who they are because they haven’t acquired STUFF. We are lost in a society that tells us we aren’t good enough and we are "losers" because we don’t have STUFF. 
Don’t hate who you are because you don’t have nice things or aren’t as “successful” as the next person. Be a good person, treat others with kindness, help your neighbor, love your children, be the person who listens without judgement and you are already winning more than most. Stuff and things are nice but they don’t measure your worth. They mean nothing in the end.