So here's the thing I'm a 20 year old male I had a not so great childhood (mom and dad hating each other and trying to kill each other 24/7 until they divorced when I was 13) and I started seeing a psychiatrist about 9 months ago for anxiety and depression. I have taken Lexapro, abilify, prozac, effexor, and am currently taking gabapentin. Gabapentin is working pretty good so far and has been the only one to work okay ish while not giving me panic attacks, serotonin syndrome, or making me literally question reality itself (never taking Prozac again). I was told to get tested for adhd by my sister (who is a nurse and whose children have ADHD) the tests said that I have social anxiety, depression, and ADHD. The doctor who did the test said that I didn't appear to have ADHD but the tests I took said I did. He didn't recommend medicine for my adhd but maybe medicine for anxiety/depression. A while back maybe 4 months ago I was prescribed effexor and took it for a couple weeks and just started to feel terrible. I weened myself off it afterwards and decided to just wait the next couple weeks out until my next follow up to tell her about it and I could monitor how I felt not being on any medication. Within those few weeks I was offered an Adderall from a friend who got some and oh my gosh it was lifechanging everything was so clear to me, I could just get up and accomplish a task no problem instead of doing literally anything to avoid it until I just had to do it, I had no anxiety, my constant fidgeting was gone, and I could just like organize my thoughts and think clearly. I wanted to get prescribed Adderall when I went back since I knew this could work for me. My sister told me not to just tell her that I've tried Adderall but to just tell her how I'd been feeling and that my problem may not be that I don't need to treat anxiety and depression (symptoms) but instead treat adhd (the problem). Instead she gives me gabapentin for anxiety because when I was tested for adhd the consultantation place I went to didn't recommend pharmacotherapy and that my symptoms sound mostly like anxiety depression not adhd. Even though anxiety, depression, the racing thoughts, the no sleep I get, the constant being tired all the time, the over analyzing of literally every situation I'm in, restlessness, and agitation are adhd symptoms as well and I've tried treatment for anxiety and depression all none of which work and wind up making me feel awful. I don't have any history of drug abuse nor does my family I mean I smoke a little weed but I see no reason why she can't try treatment for adhd since my assessment said I had it and treatment for anxiety and depression specifically hasn't worked. So my question is how do I go about just kind of telling her that I'd like to get treated for adhd instead?