I don't post anywhere very often, so if there is anything inappropriate about this post I will remove it. Or the mods will. Either way, no complaint from me.

Has anyone else contacted an ex? Before the divorce we were both aware of BPD and that I checked off quite a few symptoms. We agreed this had to be it. I stumbled across his profile on social media, and he's an on and off again social media user (deleting for months, making a new one, rinse and repeat). I was really shocked to see I wasn't blocked. It got pretty hairy towards the end. And we may be divorced, but I know him well enough to know that he would DEFFINITELY block me first thing after making it. I want to reach out to him, just to catch up. I've been working on myself at my own pace, and he has been too (lost a ton of weight and I'm so proud of him!).

If I'm being selfish, then please tell me so. I know no one will have THE answer, but I need to bounce this off people who "get it." If you want more details, I can provide. Like I said though, if this is selfish and possibly harmful to the other person, then I want to hear that. Or maybe I just need to hear something. I don't know. Thank you for any and all replies. :)