I'm really happy I found this group, I finally got properly diagnosed with bpd a month ago after thinking I was just this fucked up person. I relate with many things you guys say on here and I'm glad there's a community where we can openly talk about our disorder and get support. 
However, some posts about how we are stuck with this disorder forever, that we are better off single, and things relating to suicide/self harm throw me into a spiral of despair and triggers me so god damn bad. I immediately resonant with what's being said and want to hurt myself. I guess that's just a risk you take on these types of subs