This may ramble on and I’m sorry...  

My parents think my diagnosis is getting in the way of parenting my two children. 

I have never been physically abusive to my children, but I will admit to raising my voice a tab more than any regular parent. I have had some outbursts lately that have been in front of my parents but not my children (like the kids weren’t even home). My parents found out I’ve been self-harming again as well. They think I am unstable. 

They want to take my children away, and they feel my partner is the reason for my ‘downward spiral’ as they’re putting it. He recently lost his job and hasn’t had any success finding new employment, they feel he doesn’t help out with his children while I am at work. Basically use is ethnicity to call him lazy and a drunk(he does not drink). 

Since my husband lost his job, my parents said he can no longer live in our (their) home. We have started making plans to find our own place a few towns over. However, my parents are now saying I cannot move out of their home, they just want my partner to leave, and if I try they will take guardianship of my kids. Claiming grandparents rights. 

I don’t know what to do. I love my partner and I don’t want to leave him, everyone has a point in life where unfortunately they lose a job. That isn’t any reason to leave that person. 