I know there is a laundry list of symptoms that people with BPD go through. It’s okay if you don’t relate to every post on this subreddit. If you read a DAE (does anyone else) post and think, oh god, I don’t do that - that is okay! That doesn’t invalidate your BPD or the original poster’s. 

You don’t have to experience manic episodes to have BPD. You don’t have to have impulsive spending habits to have BPD. You don’t have to be super sexual to have BPD. And you can have all these things! The list goes on. We all experience this disorder slightly differently. What’s important is your recovery. Be kind to yourself (and others)!