I haven’t dated in 3 years or 4 because I got cheated on last time ( I did see signs but ignored them) but after we broke up I met this girl she was amazing, I’ve been talk to for2-3 years and was always scared to date but I decide to and I just get scared honestly, I’m scared it will happen again and my paranoia takes control and I think they will be the same as the one girl, how do I date normally without being scared that it will happen again, because I don’t wanna blow this. 