Can i have some tips on how to love &amp; support someone with bpd?
Obviously bending to his every wish and command is a) unachievable b) unhealthy and c) impossible 
But i adore him and i want to help him.
Saw a tiktok that explained it as gentle parenting…
Pls help me to understand what ways i can handle his more tricky moments without encouraging or enabling him to be essentially abusive 
Thank you