I'm having a Thanksgiving with my lovely boyfriend and his lovely family and despite wanting to connect with others here I find myself losing energy and empathy to relate to their cultural differences. (I'm northern, he is southern.) I need to nap multiple times a day and take 'social breaks' to recharge. I have to go as far as to remind myself that everyone here is very kind and there's actually nothing wrong- I should be having a nice time. What's wrong with me?