Hello,

I have an amazing fiance who makes me very happy to be with nearly always since I met her.

Recently, I had a horrible week where many things went wrong for me. In my frustrations, and a few other circumstances, I looked to her for support. Unfortunately, she had a few reasons to be mad with me, which compounded with stress at her work that I knew about but didn't fully understand.

Long story short, she's basically shut me out without ever expressing support of the things I had happen, several of which she still doesn't even know about. 

And is mad at me, and I have not even felt like a priority in her life, and that 7 years that I thought we were both bananas about each other (buying a house, helping with her kids,  a classic car, several trips, etc...) aren't even a consideration in if she wants to see me as a partner.

I am absolutely bonkers about her, and just stumbled into this topic. Self-sabotaging the relationship seems like exactly what's happening and any conversation I try to have is refused adamantly. Every attempt leaves me in a circular catch-22 situation. But I would love to work through this and be the man she's said makes her feel as good as she makes me feel. 

Can anyone or everyone give me all the advice possible? 

She has asked me to leave her alone and give her time to think. But it's been really cold feeling for me. It's been over over a month now, and I am trying to just be present &amp; supportive. But I feel like I'm waiting for a person that isn't coming back (we still live and sleep together in the same bed, but she's not interested in hugs or anything) and waiting for a conversation about us that isn't going to happen.

Appreciate anything &amp; everything!

Thank you.