Hey Reddit. 

I sadly dont really know enough about depression to fully understand the current behavior of my now ex Girlfriend or if her actions aren't even related to her depression at all. 

My GF and I have been in a very healthy, happy, and supportive relationship for a bit more than two years and everything seemed great with her writing love letters and us planning to move together. Very quickly, however (span of two months) her character changed and I have to assume that once the pressure from her surroundings and all the horrible things that have and are happening to her (which I sadly and unknowingly added to by not giving her enough time for herself) hit the threshold, she simply bursted and said that she needs a break from most of her closest friends and me her boyfriend breaking up in the process. From that onwards she switched back and forth between giving me hope for the future, blaming the lack of love on her depression, and saying that she will never love me again. Is that something that can or should be attributed to her worsening mental health or is that her real self-speaking so to say? What can I do to help her and how should I fix our relationship?