Does anyone else get with a guy you don’t like cause you like the validation and that he likes you? So you manipulate yourself to thinking that you like him because you love the feeling of being loved and desired. I don’t think i’ve ever loved any of my exes.. I just love the way they loved me and the validation. I only feel safe and happy when i’m in a realtionship, but the moment i loose them I loose myself and all my happiness. I feel like I wanna die because they were everything worth living for even tho I don’t like them. So then I do everything to get them back, even like crazy things. Is that a typical bpd thing?