HI guys, ive been with my girlfriend since around may 2020, we recently got back together after breaking up for around 3 months. I really try my best for us but ive been struggling so bad with my own mental health and our relationship. Ive tried to help get her to start therapy for so long but she really doesnt believe in it and theres only so much i can do since we are long distance. She says shes tried before and it doesn't help and believes DBT is just to help the people around her and not her. Its just having such a big effect on me, like today i was hurt by her, then she called me crying over something that had happened and i have to be there to support her while i still feel like shit myself, now shes happier again and im here writing like this and i feel like i just have to be okay to not ruin things.