It’s like whatever I choose I get. The food we get, the movie we watch. It’s prob a reaction to not getting what I want/feeling undervalued in past relationships, but sometimes I just sit back and watch him pay for our dinner and I get this perverse pleasure out of it.  

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If we’re both expressing opinions about a conflict in a show for example, he could say “I think HE’s in the right” and I’d be like “no actually SHE’s right” and he’ll just completely back down. He literally never disagrees with me. I feel like could tell him his favorite movies suck and his artwork is stupid and I think he’d agree and change all of them. I feel like I could kick this guy's mom and he'd excuse it. I don't understand him.  

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If I say I like something, magically he likes it too. If I say I hate something, he hates it. If I want something he gets it for me (within reason.)  

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I’ve always dated people where we felt like we were on equal footing, or maybe I was slightly more of a supplicant, but now I feel like I’m some haughty lord with a sycophant. Or is this just normal relationship stuff? I have no baseline for what’s normal.  

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Like is he just being nice? It’s weird that he mirrors all my opinions.  

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Like if I said it’s dumb to say "like" all the time he’d agree, and if I said it’s cute and not dumb then he’d agree. If I said capital punishment was wrong he’d say I was right and if I said it was wrong…you get the idea.

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I don’t trust myself to have this power over another person, and honestly I don’t trust him either because it's really weird that he's simping this hard... Maybe he’ll end up murdering me.