I turn 25 and 3 weeks and I’m really struggling. I’ve been in a relationship and living with this guy who may or may not continue to be my boyfriend since April 2019. We have an extremely close bond but our relationship has been nothing but chaos and destruction and there’s been no peace in ages. Thats what led to this half assed break up yesterday. Part of me wants to be with him and part of me wants to create my own life for me. I have no idea how to do both cause I’ve never really been able to manage to have both. I’m sure a lot of people here can relate.. has anybody been able to find a balance and incorporate the two??