Hello- My friend is shutting my out completely and is blaming me for the smallest irrational things. I know that much of her behaviour is due to her BPD but at this point I’m exhausted from constantly being pushed away, only to hold on tighter. I struggle with BPD myself and I don’t think my friend realizes this. I am pretty far in my own recovery. This being said, I don’t know how to help her but I’m also tired of being made to feel like a bad person for caring. She won’t except any advice and or help and yet continues to send me worrying messages and snaps. If you have any ideas on how to handle this situation, let me know. I’m exhausted. (Hopefully this makes sense.) Thanks.