A good friend of mine has BPD, and she's recently begun to devalue me. I'm not sure exactly when it began or for what reason, but we "stopped being friends" about two weeks ago. I don't view it as being my fault, and I don't resent her for it. I'm prepared for the possibility of us never reconnecting, but I don't believe that the situation warrants completely severing our ties and never talking with each other again. I do my best to be a loyal friend regardless of circumstance, and I think this is something that her illness is making her do, not a reflection of how she feels when her thought process is more sober and rational. 


In the beginning, I was hurt by her sudden dislike for me, but after I've had some time to remove myself from the situation and think about it, I don't blame myself. At the moment, she has no power over how I view myself or if I'm happy or depressed, I just view her as a friend with an illness who I want to help. How should I go about trying to reconnect with her?