Her BPD used to be harder for her to deal with and episodes would be more frequent, but we've gotten through all of the hard time and our communication and problem solving gets better every day. It's not always a quick fix but we are able to talk about our feelings and get to a place where we are both happy and it makes me appreciate her more every day. I've never been more proud of someone! She is such a shining light and I don't know what I would do without her, she always knows how to make me laugh and smile and I just always want to make her feel the same way. :)