Hey all, my SO has depression and it hurts my heart so bad - in one sense I want to help and on the other hand I want to let him be. He is indecisive, fearful, apathetic and it definitely blocks our relationship from moving forward. He’s seeing a therapist and has talked about medication but he’s afraid it will make him suicidal. I am so eager to do big things in life and he simply can’t give me the security I’m looking for because he’s so unsure of himself. Is there a way I can help him be more confident?