Anyone else feel like their whole day is ruined when they're fighting with their S/O?? We fight A LOT (Probably mostly because I overanalyze everything). And I always want to work things out but it seems like he can go hours and hell probably days if I didn't say anything without talking after. He'll finally say what's wrong? ......What's wrong?? Really dude? We haven't talked all day and I've just been sitting here waiting for you and giving you space, meanwhile going over and over in my head what I did wrong and then hating myself for it....so, seriously?

The problem isn't distracting myself. The problem is I'm too damn emotional and wrapped up in this relationship. I WISH I had his IDGAF attitude, but I don't. I literally hate hate HATE this feeling. This inner turmoil until things are worked out. Sometimes I feel like every fight takes another piece out of me and he doesn't even notice. I'm depressed and just down a lot because of the fighting. 

I just wish I got some credit from him. Wish he cared more when things were rocky. And wish I didn't care so damn much.

Anyone else go through this or similar???