Okay this is worded weirdly so let me explain. 

There’s times when my friends are way too anxious to ask for help. Either texting someone or asking the teacher a question in class. And so I just have no issues getting up and helping them out and asking that question for them. However, when I’m the one anxious about asking for help, I just can’t do it. Why is this? Why is it so easy to help out another person, but you can’t do the same for yourself?