Need some advice on how to handle anxiety in a relationship. I’m in my first ever relationship and things are going pretty well. The only thing is I sometimes get very anxious. Thinking:
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What if they aren’t who I think they are?
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What if we aren’t meant for each other?
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Do I have strong enough feelings? 
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What if something goes wrong?
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What if they hurt me?
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What if I hurt them?
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A bunch of what-ifs that I can’t predict but cause me to hyper analyze every little thing. How do I just calm down and take things one step at a time? I really want to enjoy our moments together and not let my anxiety ruin everything 


Need advice and maybe some reassurance/comfort as well :)