25F, my boyfriend (26M) started a new job this week and because of it he’s barely talked to me (~1 text a day where we normally text a couple times an hour). He’s been busy during the day with work and training, and busy at night going out with his team (he’s in an analyst program for a bank so the program has sponsored dinners, happy hours, etc). I know he’s doing nothing wrong and is not purposely ignoring me, but I can’t help feeling so abandoned that I’m having a ton of anxiety and starting to split on him.

I’ve tried to keep busy at my own job, by texting other friends, and binging on TV but nothing’s helping. How do people cope with this? I’m afraid I won’t be able to sleep tonight and that the next time I see him I’ll be angry because I’m splitting on him for having a demanding job right now.