Is it possible to have BPD without a fear of abandonment, but mainly because you never let people in or get close enough for them to abandon you? You never let yourself be vulnerable around anyone. Is it possible for interpersonal issues and and fear of abandonment/efforts to avoid abandonment to present itself in a way in which you’re more sensitive to perceived hatred/criticism/judgement/someone triggering your intense emotions rather than abandonment and will make frantic efforts to avoid those rather than abandonment?