Hello. I would like your guys opinions of being able to hold/ commit to relationships because I'm uncertain if it is because of my (quiet) BPD or something else. Basically i find it very hard to commit to a relationship/ friendship because I find myself doubting that i can be a good person in their life. Like I rather bother them instead of making them happy. I also think that I'm too big of a burden to everyone that gets close to me, even if they tell me I'm not. It is a big problem for me and I dont commit into any relationships, i also distance myself from my family because of this which is both hurting them and me.I feel like it would be best to vanish and never speak to them again so I can't cause more trouble. I would like to know if others feel this way and if it is possible to have relationships/friendships as someone with bpd.