My lovely best friend recently found out she has BPD and we've learned that I'm her FP. I'd like to get her something really thoughtful for her birthday later this year, that reminds her of how awesome she is, whilst also validating her as she navigates her discovery journey with BPD. 

So I'm curious to know what great presents you have received from loved ones over the years that have made you feel seen and heard? Or what things do your loved ones do for you that make you feel validated? Thank you in advance for anything you share :)