Was looking for support resources for my family members and ventured here OMG probably don’t do it if you haven’t. Are PLWBPD ruining lives at the rate that the sub implies? To me it seems like a bunch of people without self preservation skills who want to blame PLWBPD. 

Idk I really want perspective. I want to know if my husband is OK. I am doing my best to understand and meet his needs and my own, to understand how he feels. I split regularly between trust/love and thinking he wants me to die and he is pushing me to kill myself. struggling every day to live with the uncertainty of an intimate relationship and feeling like I’m never doing good enough