I’ve (33F) been with my bf almost a year. In the prior 4 years I’ve torched through all of my relationships but I finally grew enough and got enough therapy where I’m feeling good. I also tend to become a lot more stable when I have a good relationship it’s like a magic wand. 

However, I still have a tough time dealing with criticism. I think my boyfriend is too critical but I’m not sure if I’m being too sensitive. 

When he has a criticism, he says I immediately get defensive and he can’t express himself around me. Then he starts yelling because I don’t know ?? Then I start crying. 

I think it’s pretty common for girls to cry when their BF yells at them- no BPD. 

Looking to understand how you all handle differences of opinion with your SO and how you handle criticism in relationship.