Quora is so harmful. You can split the answers of people about BPD into thirds. 

1/3 - diagnosed and aware and will tell from our POV while also admitting we’re not angels

1/3 - People who spend hours upon hours on wiki and other sources and answer for us in the most absolute toxic way while pushing harmful stigmas, who have never met someone with BPD

1/3 - someone who knew or dated someone with BPD who loves to clump us all together but also mentions things that relate more to NPD 


I’m so sick of it. There’s this one woman in particular who got the fuck on my nerves because of how harmful she was. She was the second of the 3rd. Why the fuck do people feel the need to speak FOR us? It’s giving “unlicensed therapist”.