My boyfriend has been distant the last two days and I’m really scared he’s going to break up with me. He’s had troubles with his mental health that have kind of been a priority the last few months (rightly so!) and I’m having a lot of trouble discerning what is him just wanting to be alone versus what is him pulling away because he’s no longer interested. 

We’ve talked about my need for reassurance a lot and I’m trying to be more independent but I’m having a lot of trouble not spiralling to the conclusion he’s breaking up with me.

I think it’s really hard to tell what is my BPD paranoia and what are actually signs of a relationship ending. I’ve been broken up with before and so I know that decreased communication is kind of a sign something might be on their mind... but I know that it also could just mean that they are busy or something.

Sorry I just needed to get that off my chest.