Hi, My Fiancee struggles with Anxiety and depression. F 21, M 26. A month ago, her mom kinda blackmailed her to stay in college against her wishes (She's always wanted to go to a beauty school as it's her passion, her mom finally gave her a 'choice' with a weeks deadline after she already paid tuitiin) and her mental state has changed. She's a lot more distance in most senses except cuddling. Sex has decreased from almost daily to once a week maybe, kissing same, sparkle in her eyes too. She doesn't come over to my house nearly as much, texting comes and goes( some days a landslide and nothing the next) and wants me to plan everything. I make it clear I am here for her, I even took POT on a couple of her bad days, but she's kinda shut me out which is unlike her. Just wants to watch CSI and cuddle. She also had a one sided emotional affair here for a couple weeks and ended it after coming clean of her own choice.(we've been having a few good talks about things there.) We've been having sweet couples conversations more since then, but she's just not herself. How can I help her here? She's feeling a bit like a stranger and I am not sure what to do as I haven't dealt with a mental illness before from someone I am really close to.