When we fight with my mom or anything like she's upset or something i get anxiety and irritable bowel syndrom.. when i talk to her to make her change the way she is being not correct with me for no reason she tells me " why are you like that can't you be happy? You make us stressed, stop crying " and make me leave the room with yelling i am an adult but i want a good relationship and not let her be toxic to me moving out is not an option i want to stay ..