so I’m pretty aware of my bpd symptoms. i have someone I consider loosely as a fp but I try not to use the term or even put any expectations on the situation because I don’t feel like it’s fair.. like by telling them or anything. We’re just close and im fairly content with how we are and all that but I know that’s what’s happening in my head deep down… 

but they told me about someone who has been bothering them recently and i can’t tell if I split on the person who’s been bothering them or not but I was super fucking angry yesterday and I haven’t felt that mad in a while. like this person tries to talk to them and bug them a lot and I just felt really overprotective, but now, today I feel all empty and low key a little hurt for some reason and I’m trying not to feel that way but I found out this person did some of the same things I did with them first . And it just hurts my feelings a bit I guess? I almost feel like a bandaid to fix something. Like I know they don’t like this person, and I want them to stop bugging them, and there’s no threat but do I even make any sense . How do I stop