This is the thing i struggle with most and it terrifies me when people say it’s almost impossible for us to have our identity defined. i have no clue who i am. i act incredibly different with each group of people i’m with and even when i’m with my parents i feel like i’m just adding onto the conversation rather than starting them. i never speak first, only when spoken to. i just want to “be myself” but i literakly don’t know how. someone says that and i don’t know what to do. what have you all done to help tbis?