Hi, I’m 20 years old and next month I am going to lose my virginity. I have BPD and I’m wondering if I’m gonna be totally fucked (pardon the pun) if I have sex with someone I’m not gonna be dating. I don’t wanna have sex with him and then have him become my savior. I wanna just be able to do it and still be friends. Advice? Your experience? He is my FP. 