I made a post earlier about trying to respect my friends space after they split on me. While they are furious at me I know what caused it isn’t something that should end our friendship but I also understand it doesn’t matter as in their mind I’m scum.

How do I know when they are ready to talk.  Apart of me wants to call them and reach out but the other part of me wants to give them space (it’s all so confusing) I just feel/see me being replaced. 

Idk I have so many questions… 
But the one I really need help with is how tf do I help her see that she needs help.

I know people will say she will probably have to hit rock bottom but that terrifies me knowing she have thought about ending it all. I wish there was something I could do.

Btw is there a place for non bpd people to vent about bpd. Like I need to vent but my friends don’t understand what bpd is or what it’s like being on the other end of these kind of relationships