Cannot post in r/seroquel so I thought I try here.

My official diagnosis is BPD but it actually manifests as quiet BPD. I was diagnosed after 2 written tests and a 50 minute conversation, in 3 appointments over the course of 2 months or so. It was based on my previous diagnosis, also BPD, from when I was 14 (I'm 26 now). I'm not violent, don't self harm, drink alcohol, seek conflict or risky situations, I don't yell or insult, I will only sometimes lose my shit if I'm being relentlessly provoked and it doesn't stop after I ask nicely several times. I do have paranoia about my immediate family (mother, sister, boyfriend), abandonment issues are there since forever, hopelessness, depression, anxiety, doubting my own reality. Half the time I'm fine and the other half I'm dealing with a few of the aforementioned issues at once. All of this is the same with or without seroquel. It's been 4 months now, started on 50mg, now I take 150mg. The only effect I felt from seroquel was drowsiness for a few hours and then falling asleep for the first week or so, then no effect at all. My sleep is the same as it was before I started taking seroquel. My memory also got worse. Other than that there have been no changes in my state. I had severe libido issues for a few years, before and after meeting my boyfriend and I do feel like it's gotten maybe 2-3% better in that area. 

One massive change, a connection I only made the other day, I have occasional bad cramps for 2-3 days before my period and when I get my period, it hurts like a bitch, I can barely leave the bed for days and usually have to take painkillers for the whole week to deal with it. It was never like this for me, sometimes i will have mild pain, sometimes bad pain but it's never this daily crippling pain for the whole week. I very rarely had to take painkillers for cramps until recently.

Does all this mean this is not a useful pill for me or do i need to wait longer to see any changes?

Has anyone had any libido changes, positive or negative?

What's the deal with these increased period cramps?

My psychiatrist doesn't want to reduce my dosages (I also take Wellbutrin 150mg every morning) and she doubles them when I ask for a reduction. It was my bad though, after both my first and second appointment I said I don't want this doctor but i, unfortunately allowed my mother to pressure me into continuing with her, despite the millions of red flags she witnessed herself. I know, I know, I'm working on getting a new psychiatrist (yay 1 year waiting lists)