how do you guys stop being the worlds worst flakey friend when in a relationship? i have a tendency to forget my friends exist when i’m in a relationship and focus 110% of my energy on my FP. i’m normally not a flakey person. i’m always super punctual and i stick to my plans and hardly ever cancel. 

in my first relationship in college, i accidentally used my friend pretty badly and they didn’t tell me until after my breakup and i swore i’d never do that again. 

in my second relationship, we were long distance for a few months when i met some friends then when he came back i basically forgot those friends existed and spent 99% of my time with my bf at the time and when we broke up, i realized after how much i neglected my friends.

i’m not in my 3rd relationship and it’s pretty new and i’m catching myself already being super flakey on friends and dropping everything including existing plans and work just to be with my partner. 

how do i stop being like this????