I'm currently in the aftermath of a failed marriage with a partner that has BPD.

There were many things I was hurt and confused by and it's left me feeling very bitter.

I'm thinking of taking an online course from [Medcircle about BPD](https://www.medcircle.com/series/borderline-personality-disorder-how-to-work-through-the-highs-and-lows-53696) (highly recommend their content) though at this point I have nowhere practical to apply sine the relationship is over.

I'm mostly seeing if understanding her brain a bit better can help me interpret my experiences and heal.

Have others who have been a partner of someone with BPD and it didn't work out take a similar approach to healing? Or maybe you just dropped it all together and were glad to be out?