Hey y’all, I (20) got my BPD diagnosis back in November of last year. To provide some background, I was seeing a therapist at my college up until very recently after hitting a pretty bad rut. I started neglecting my mental health and now my therapist’s internship is over. But anyways, I have started an amazing relationship these last few months. My boyfriend (M19) is my best friend. I love him dearly and I’ve never felt as safe and secure as I have with him. But…I’ve recently been what I think is an extreme episode of splitting. Almost everything he does sometimes, irritates me immensely. It’s difficult because he has high energy and is just a goofball all around, but I can’t handle it lately. I am worried I might be self-sabotaging, and the last thing I want to do is hurt him and mess up this really good thing I have going on. But, that being said, does anyone have any tips on how to manage splitting?