I think this person cancelled an appointment the day before due to some narcissistic powerplay as a form of control, to be covertly vindictive. That makes me feel weak and powerless and gives me an emotional flashback to that powerless, scared child I used to be.

But then my perception swaps to another because I'm doubting my perception of reality/judgement so I sometimes think it's my mental issues and maybe it's just because of a disorder or something. I'm not diagnosed with BPD but I might have it.

Have any of you thought this about someone and it turned out they weren't doing a powerplay thing on you, and maybe it was just your issues thinking wrongly?