im in love with someone who has bpd, i know everyone’s experience is different, but can we make this a thread of how to cope with different aspects of it to make sure they feel safe and heard and valid at all times? and yes, i mean it, im IN love with them, head over heels, when they told me about their bpd i knew it was gonna be difficult but it did not change a thing. and no, i will never ever leave them, even when i die, ill watch over them.