Im not sure why that lie is spread. People need other people to care for them, genuinely. It is part of having a balanced life. My family treats me as if I have to perform for their love, My "friends" treat me like their better and smarter than me, and I couldnt get a serious date to save my life. Just guys that like attention but not commitment. I honestly dont know how long I can live like this, im not an animal person at all and feel bad getting a pet when i can barely take care of myself but being this lonely and unloved is slowly killing me... I have no one i can call to vent when i have a bad day, hug when im sad or cheer me up and its alot for me to constantly be the only one in my corner.. Every night I hope I dont wake up just do i dont have to feel so alone. Im breaking