I have had a panic disorder (agoraphobia) ever since I was 18 years old, and it’s been worse or better over the last years. When it’s really bad, I don’t even like to leave the house. When it’s good, I travel the world.
I am 36 now, and I guess life with me is not easy. I don‘t like to plan things, I‘m constantly anxious, I am emotional and need to feel there is always a plan B or way out of specific situations (eg Restaurant).

I am generally a giving person and love to make other people happy, but I have now wondered if I might overcompensate my anxiety in relationships.

For example, I spend insane amounts of money on gifts, or I invest a lot of my own time and effort supporting my significant other in their work. 

As much as I can, I let the other person decide on merits of the relationship, and very often I rather consider their need than my own. I have caught myself thinking that if they have to give up so much to be with me, at least I can give them everything I have. Is this a normal approach for people with mental health problems? Does anyone else do this?