Hey 👋🏻 New member! So my GF of 5 years has BPD and I try my hardest to try and relate and be patient and compromise with her on a lot of things. I understand jealousy is a big issue with BPD. I have done 100+ hours of research, but I can’t seem to shake this one situation off of me. Maybe someone can help me go about this in a calm effective way. I can’t do the firing back anymore, the black and white everyday on me. How do I communicate without her feeling I’m attacking her.

My GF said her therapist said it is  acceptable and healthy for me to delete all single female friends on my Facebook because my GF has insecurities with them. So she proposed I have to delete them all if they are single, even if I have know them all my life since childhood. Is this acceptable? Do I do it? I love her but I feel this is crossing major boundaries but I don’t want her to feel insecure. Helpppppp🤔