anyone have any luck with friend groups? i feel like i keep getting into friend groups that are so intense with on going group chats and hanging out almost everyday and then they fall apart very hard. 

i love being in friend groups but i can’t seem to have one that actually lasts longer than a year and doesn’t end in chaos and hurt. i don’t know if it’s me, or if friend groups are just generally unsustainable for anyone. 

during my senior year of high school, i was in a friend group that fall apart hard when accusations started going around and i got sucked into it but i chalked that up that just being typical teen drama. 

in college, i had a friend group one summer that also fell apart because 2 of the members had issues with each other so i didn’t think much of that one either since that didn’t really involve me. 

this past year i had a friend group that was so intense and it fell apart just as intense as it started. i’m wondering if this pattern of collapsing friend groups has anything to do with me or if it’s just the nature of friend groups?