Let's see if I can explain what I'm getting at. So a lot of the time I find myself upset / depressed about the fact that I'm still depressed and hung up over whatever's bothering me. So like my most recent breakup is the main source of my sadness now, even almost two years later, and I find myself feeling pathetic and hating myself for not having gotten over it all yet. Does anyone else have similar feelings? I feel like just when I thought I was getting better this line of thinking has made me a hell of a lot more depressed. I just think that this happens to so many ppl and they move on quickly, but here I am two years later, life plan shattered, and hating myself.