I don’t want to get into too many details, but I was in a serious car crash about 10 years ago and have had some driving anxiety ever since- especially at night and in new places.

This weekend I have a work dinner party to go to- about 10 or so people will be at this person’s house. I’m new to the area and the drive looks like it would be anxiety inducing for me. Plus, I’m a lightweight and I know two of my coworkers are bringing wine. 

I really would feel more comfortable taking Uber or Lyft. Is this socially acceptable to do when going to a new coworker’s home? Is it weird? It’s a pretty wealthy family and formal event. How do I make it not weird? How do I explain when they ask why I’m taking Uber? How do I not stand around awkwardly while waiting to be picked up? Lol!