My sister tends to get angry at me a lot. She’s annoyed by my habits, and anything I do will upset her. This has been a constant since we were kids. When I was younger, I was going through my own traumas and turmoils to really talk to her, so I’d just quietly take the hits. Now, any time she gets angry at me, I feel myself “shutting down”. Like I don’t argue, or fight back, or say anything, but I feel hurt, but then I think I don’t have the right to feel hurt. And this all feels manipulative because then she asks me why I won’t say anything or why I’m looking dull and depressed, and she thinks I’m invalidating her reaction and she gets even more angry. So then I regret feeling hurt and find my emotions to be useless or stupid. Anyone else?