my bf has been depressed lately which i completely understand and am not upset or blaming him an anyway about it (i also have depression). however with bpd i seriously need constant attention and reassurance, even a declined call or gesture makes me cry, but i haven’t been getting it recently. i feel extremely guilty because im pretty sure he wants to and he says he wants to and feels bad he cant but sometimes i still cant help feeling angry? sometimes i think why cant he just try for me, when i also feel terrible and abandoned. i don’t want to bring it up though because im extremely scared of losing him. i love him and we have a really good relationship and ive never had a connection like this with anyone. im also scared if i bring it up he’ll start feeling extremely guilty, which (im not trying to sound manipulative or selfish) would make me feel really bad and regret bringing it up. is there any advice about how i can go about this?