I started seeing a therapist recently and he's trying to convince me I was sexually abused. I said my ex sexually "abused" me. And he said "no it would've been before you were 11." He said with bpd and sh almost always extend from sexual abuse. I'm like I know for a fact I wasn't. I don't appreciate him making me question something as serious as that. If he keeps trying to convince me when I see him tomorrow, I will walk out. I'm gonna tell him every detail of my sex life to make him as uncomfortable as he made me!