ive been seeing someone for about 2 months now and obviously its quite intense for me. luckily she feels a similar way to me, the only problem i have is i need constantly reassurancethat she wont leave me and that im good enough. even though when she tells me im enough i still dont believe her. she knows i have and struggle with BPD and is incredibly supportive but i feel like im going to push her away and ruin what we already have. i constantly feel the need ask we're okay and if she thinks we'r working out. im even more scared because my last relationship was a very intense one and ended up getting slightly comfortable and she then broke up with me out of the blue so im even more heightened than.i.usually am. if anyones got any tips to stop the overthjnking please share because my head hurts and it makes me sad. I just want to be normal and to not feel so paranoid about us all the time.