Recently me and a friend got into an argument after he said some things that made me really uncomfortable. I told him how I was feeling and how his words affected me, and he told me "I'm not talking about this anymore." I haven't heard from him since, and it's been days. I've told him how bad my abandonment issues are, so in my head right now he's either intentionally trying to hurt me, or pays so little attention to my feelings that he doesn't understand how bad it's hurting me. I honestly just want to message him and say the relationship is through, but I'm worried I'm being irrational and it's just my BPD, so I have no idea what to do.