So for the past week the man (26) I (27) am seeing (6 months) has gone quiet on me, after normal chit chat all day every day. He hasnt been rude or dismissive of the plans for tomorrow, just comes across like making conversation is really hard work for him atm. The last time I saw him, he told me he has a lot on his mind and I had been warned months ago that when he has shit on his plate he pushes people away. I believe he would just tell me if he didn't want to be with me and I believe he would tell me if I was the problem, because he's made it very clear (during my BPD "have I done something??" "Are you ok??" Episodes) that if there was a problem he'd say so.

I've had several serious relationships whereas I believe he has none. I don't know if he understands that there needs to be communication and doubled up with BPD (which he doesn't understand) this situation is destroying me. It doesn't help that I've not seen him since and I'm not great with understanding emotions unless I'm with them in person.

Without turning into a BPD psycho, I'm going to have to explain to him that I wish to support him but at the same time explain that this is hurting me because I can't understand what's going on, and if we could just compromise on saying good morning and catching up in the evening it would bring me comfort and give him the space he needs.

Can anyone please advise me on this and also help me with the anxiety and stress that BPD is giving me during this time.