Subject essentially says it all, but I’ve been chronically late for a long time - especially for social events. Now I’m seeing an amazing girl, but being late and - more importantly - not communicating my ETA effectively are major problems for her. 

I’ve done it twice now and feel like one more strike would end what has otherwise been a wonderful, budding relationship. I’m getting energized by telling myself “just f***ing do it, it’s easy enough and she’s so worth it,” but I’d appreciate any tips (or even more tough love lol). 

Tl;dr: anxiety and fear cause me to be late for social meetups regularly. Please send tips to help me avoid ruining things with a spectacular girl.