me and my boyfriend are long distance and i am grounded rn but i have bpd and i have extreme attachment issues and whenever he changes his tone in text I automatically shut down and convince myself he doesnt love me and i feel like he gets annoyed by me constantly thinking he doesnt love me because he used to give me so much attention and now he doesnt and hes often out for awhile which i dont mind at all but im just so scared of him leaving me i dont know how to reassure myself because i always make excuses to why he could be wanting to leave me