My boyfriend doesn't give me much time, he spends about 1 hour max throughout a week (only on text) we don't meet or call much. It hurts me that he chooses to not give me time despite it being our vacations.

I've been practicing DBT skills for 14 months now, and despite them I don't feel loved by him. I'm sure he loves me, but I can't believe that he does, cus' he doesn't show them to me. I've dated him for over a year, and it hurts that he chooses to meet his friends way more often than he meets me. 

I've told him this and he said he didn't like staying up late night (the only time we would text) cus' it prevents him from getting his "me time". 

Is me asking him for at least 1 hour or 30mins of texting him everyday too much to ask for? Am I being too possessive or obsessive? Because after our last conversation, I can't help but blame myself. I wish I had friends and more hobbies to keep myself busy enough to forget about him.