Just wondering if anyone has any successful techniques for being more mindful about how I am acting around others and thinking before I speak. 

I mirror anyone I’m around, and will pretty much go along with any conversation, whether it’s positive or negative. Sometimes I’ll say things I don’t really think or say rude things about others. I also overshare/talk too much or make myself seem shallow and ditzy even though that’s not who I really am. 

I don’t really realize I’m doing this until I’m cringing about it later and the damage is done. There has to be ways I can stop myself before I say the stupid things. I wish I had my own personality.