Where my divorced people at?

Any of you feel like YEAH you have big emotions but the divorce wasn't your fault? My marriage is on the rocks and I genuinely don't think this is my doing. I work so hard to overcome the emotional rollercoaster in my head and that translates to me being SO patient and being SO loyal that I think I get taken advantage of and I let things slide when I shouldn't allow that sort of behavior from someone who is supposed to love me.

Can anyone relate? Any advice? I feel so lonely.