 A little backstory: I am a 21-year-old female who has GAD and is scared of confrontation. I live in the Netherlands where we rent rooms from people and you rarely have any say in who your housemates are. I moved into this house in September and the landlord told me that he had a bad record with males living in his home and not keeping it clean. He was hoping I might bring some change into this house.

Now I am cleaner than them (they don't vacuum or wipe down counters or anything) and I have been doing my best to clean the place up. There is one guy who is worse than others. I spend the entire day cleaning the kitchen and after I'm done, he runs in and within 15 minutes it's a whole mess again.

He has been putting his personal dishes in the sink (none of the other 3 people here are doing that and we don't share plates or anything) and it's kinda annoying me because he also keeps them there for days sometimes. What do I text him to get him to change his ways and be more cleaner?