
I feel like I’m the opposite. I’m always obsessed with someone though. I don’t open up to get to know a ton of people. But I basically will get really attached to someone when I first meet them and it’s like a huge crush I have on them- most of the times I haven’t even gotten to know these guys that well although I want to. I’m very nervous and shy. I become obsessed with them for years. I wish I fell in love with someone and fell in love with someone knew. That’s why I’m wondering if it’s not BPD. I’m diagnosed w adhd. But I do have a fearful attachment style.. I basically will become attached and obsessed and this obsession will last years even w no contact even tho I wish we could talk. I can’t move on and so I never obsess over someone knew. I do always like guys who aren’t available but I also fall more for guys who say nice things to me

I do have RSD and get pissed and will split on the person if I see they’re with someone else but no one else stays attached as long as me.

Like I become obsessed w a guy every few years and than i overthink every memory to be happy &amp; try to figure out if they cared &amp; day dream abt being w rhen