the title is really self explanatory but i’ve (19f) struggled with the symptom of hypersexualizing myself literally since i lost my virginity 6 years ago. my current fp is my boyfriend (20m) who has recently told me that he just doesn’t like to have sex (not that it’s sex with ME specifically but it’s just not something he desires in a relationship). we’ve been together too long and i love him too much to just decide “welp, i guess we’re incompatible” and leave but i’m really struggling with the idea of being in a relationship with little to no sexual contact. i guess it’s just really hard for me to accept the idea that someone would love me for, well… ME rather than what i can give them in the bedroom (which is all i’ve ever known). does anyone have any advice on how to break the habit of thinking stuff like “well since he doesn’t want to have sex he must not be attracted to me, he must not love me, etc”? any and all advice is welcome