Today I decided to be a commenter on reddit so started an account . I just wanted to say that in my life with an absolutely mental family, I had become accustom to drama. It took a very long time to live my life without dramatising little problems and big ones too and making drama for myself. Its a learned behaviour. Sometimes in the past I created that drama for myself. 

On the other hand, iv cut people down for  dramatising their dramas, its pathetic I know !

I am learning to live my life in perspective. Something that has taken 40 years to learn. You can undramatise your life, its possible. Iv learned that my bpd is a real thing and that my own personal habits of bpd was to look for drama but iv changed that.