I’m so fucking tired of guys being afraid to commit. Like it starts out great, we vibe really well. We get physically affectionate and everything. Then once we have sex comes the “I’m not emotionally ready for a relationship. I don’t want to lead you on or anything, but I’m still open to a physical relationship. Like UUUUGH WHAT HAPPENED TO REAL DATING?!!!! And this isn’t just the guy I’m seeing now, it’s every guy I’ve met with! Like is it me?? Do they sense my bpd?? Am I just a good fuck but not worth being in a relationship with???? I’m just so tired of being disappointed and feeling used!