I got myself the most loving, caring boyfriend ever. He really does put a lot of effort into keeping me happy and I feel really loved. But he’s the worst fucking texter and it’s stressing me out, he can spend the whole day with me but be slightly off the next day and I feel like he hates me. He can not answer me for a couple of hours and I’ll be getting very nervous. I obviously don’t live it out on him, he knows that these irrational thoughts do exist but he doesn’t know to which extent. It’s really hard to live like this and I wish they’d all go away.

I feel like talking to him about this would make him feel like he’s not appreciated enough, as well as he’s think that I am way too clingy (I am). We’ve only been romantically involved for a month but I know him since I was 10, we just started talking again. 

I’ll take absolutely any advice I can get because this might ruin my relationship otherwise, but it’s the first time that it’s actually pretty healthy, especially on his side.