Sorry for any typos and grammar as Im kind of shaking right now.

I've been together with my bf for a few years now. He has some mayor mental health problems which has taken a toll on my state of mind aswell but I dont want to get to detailed because I fear being recognized. Fact is I love him to death and Im quite sure I will not be happy in life without him.

But the problem is hes still living with his abusive parents.

Over the last year or so he has made some bing steps into the right direction up until the point a few months ago, when he asked me to move in with me and my parents which is an offer I made to him a long time ago to get some distance to his parents.

His parents have been switching sides wether to let him leave or not ever since the Idea first came up a long time ago (they dont actually have a say as were both of age) but seem to have settled now: One is okay with it, the other one is trying their best to manipulate him into staying. He has always been really receptive to what his parenty had to say, but eversince he was doing better he also got better at seeing what his parents were doing to him, so I was - at least a bit - sanguine that he was actually following through with his plan. And for a few weeks it seemed possible that everything would just work out after all that time of directionlessness.

The date we picked for the move-out is in about a month from now.

However yesterday he started voicing doubt again following an argument with his parents.

Just for a short moment, but my mind has been racing the whole night.

I am so afraid that he will opt out at the last minute.

The worst thing is, I know exactly that my fear is justified.

I feel so incredibly lost and helpless. 

I am afraid Im loosing him for good when he doesnt have the strength to stand up to his parents for this last time. Please fucking do the right thing...