My BF and I (29F) have been dating for over 4 years. In the beginning he got along with my friends. The usual cordial you know. My BF and I went through a really bad breakup early in our relationship and my friends were involved. Long story short, it out a damper on his feelings towards them. My friends in the other hand don't hold grudges or care about the event anymore and support me being with him. 





My BF says he doesn't like them. I told my BF this makes me uncomfortable because if we continue our relationship like how we intend it to (getting married) how awkward would it be that my friends are my bridesmaids ? Or if I have a baby shower or some other event where we will have to intermix? 





He says he wouldn't have a problem if I didn't like his friends and how my friends aren't me. I feel however my friends are an extension of me and him saying he doesn't like them is him saying he doesn't like me. 





He says he totally supports me being friends with them and sees how positive they influence my life and is NOT telling me not to be friends .. he is just not wanting to be friends with them. 





I told him I'm having a difficult time understand this concept because it is causing conflict . It's not any other friends I have just those specific close friends that were part of breakup me and him had. 





I don't want to break up with my BF I love him a lot . Is this a problem for our relationship? 



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TL:DR - BF doesn't like my close friends. He supports me being friends with them and going out with them but wants no part in events with them. Is this a problem ? Can I have both of them in my life without intermixing ? 