Any time I start getting anxious or overthinking my mother decides that it's a great idea to just tell me, "you're making it such a big deal", "stop always overthinking". I get it, I'm overthinking, I already know I am but her constantly telling me that makes me even more irritated and angry and makes me feel like I'm crazy. I feel like my mother should understand that this isn't how you should approach someone who's anxious because she's a literal COUNSELOR, literally got her masters in counseling. I don't know how else to explain to her that she's not making me feel any better.