Follow up to[ here](http://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/2s2pvd/has_anyone_here_been_to_an_opposite_sex/), I guess. I had my first session today and it turns out the psychologist is an attractive young guy. I feel attracted to him on a superficial level.  Logically, I know he's my therapist and married and nothing could happen - it's just a base attraction, nothing serious. 

 Part of the reason I'm seeing him is because I have a habit of being attracted to unavailable people and putting myself in a rejected position. I think subconsciously it's part of the reason I sought out a male therapist - to put myself in this safe familiar position again so I could distract myself from my worries about real life romances without having to risk getting hurt, since nothing can happen.

He's asked me to write a list of stuff that's worrying me and email it to him before the next session. I'm wondering whether I should mention this specifically or just describe my pattern of falling for unavailable people and assume he can probably connect the dots. We had a great rapport and I already trust and respect him, so I'd like to continue with sessions. (Edit: Actually, having thought about it more, maybe I should nip it in the bud and find someone new, preemptively avoiding any drama...)

Any thoughts on this? This is actually another of my problems - instead of figuring out stuff for myself, I excessively seek reassurance and advice from others.