I recently met a guy and we get along well, but i'm scared that if i tell him i have bpd he'll run off, and i struggle with emotional intimacy and we haven't really reached a point of sharing deep personal things so telling him will be hard enough. At the same time I feel like i'm lying to him if I don't say anything, like i'm not the person he thinks I am. When is the best time to tell someone? And how do you tell them?