This is kinda a kinda dumb thing to get mad over but I still am. My family cat has been sick for a few days and he generally likes to come to smell our food before we eat it. I normally don't have any problem with this but I've been hesitant to let him smell this week because he's so sick and I don't want him grabbing something off the plate and eating it. My sister forces me to let him smell the dish and lo and behold he sneezes on my food. A little back story is that I've recently had some bouts of health anxiety that my sister knows about but that is mostly health anxiety concerning myself, not about things being spread to me by others. So back to the story, I didn't want to eat the salad, not at all from "health anxiety" pov but more from an "I'm a normal human and I don't wanna eat something a sick animal has sneezed all over because it's unappetizing" pov. She insisted its fine and was basically forcing me to eat it. I mentioned that if she really wanted me to eat it and was sure it's fine then why doesn't she switch with me. We had identical salads and both were uneaten, the only difference was mine was sneezed on. She refused and called me crazy and said my anxiety was making me crazy and was too hard to deal with. It just irked me for 2 reasons. 1. She's only known of my anxiety for a week and it's already "too much" for her and 2. This was in no way a health anxiety thing, I can confidently say I would've made the same call a year or two ago before I developed anxiety. It's just super super shitty that she assumed that all my thoughts link back to anxiety in some way. I could clearly tell that she thinks that a majority of my thoughts link back to anxiety instead of grasping that I'm not always anxious, it's actually a minority of the time and comes in waves instead of being always present. 1 week into opening up and I already have family members questioning my judgment, not a good feeling. What can I do to show loved ones that I'm still me, I'm not a different person because of my anxiety. I'm not suddenly irrational 24/7 concerning every single thing because of anxiety.