I know “it takes two to tango” :/ but I’m so sick and tired of feeling so strongly about a situation and validating my feelings just for my brain to go “ woah wait… you know how you get … you know you were the problem 🧐! You got hurt but did you need to actually say how you felt?! Or could you have just kept it to yourself and worked through it like they said? Mmmm yea you were the problem here girly 😏.” I hate making myself the problem always but not being able to have a reason for irregular emotions my brain is going to be the only problem, yennoLike I got BPD so so how much of a problem am I naturally going to be? I hate always looking :/ I wish I just knew.