I'm simply a person who has been through many percpectives. Ask me anything as I'm here to help and to guide.

You're weird because you're at a point in your life where you're independent in at least some quantity.

That being said, you're learning how the world operates. As a result, you have A LOT of questions without really anyone to trust or to explain to you anything. 

Being weird isn't a simple stop or go. It's a phase, just like everything else. All I can do is help guide you to overcome this part of your story.

Ok so how do I overcome it? Simple, learn. From your past, in the present, and from everything out of your control.

People want to forget their past, and usually they are successful after 20. But the trick here....is while everyone else is trying to forget and cringes in rememberance, you need to focus on your past, no matter how excruciatingly embarrassing it was. Why? So you can learn not to do that sh*t again! Think about it like this, you remember an embarrassing moment. Are you going to do that again? No? Cool, you just learned something. Now you can be content with yourself as you are a different and more mature person now. I'm proud of you. It ain't easy, trust me...I know.

The present. Ok this is a little tougher but yields better results for your future if you try to actively learn from it. Let's say you're socially anxious. You are trying to learn how to look people in their eyes and how to keep your head up. The trick is to stop caring what people think. You are doing your best to become a better person, so what gives people the right to judge you for that? Well because were human, we can judge if we want. So the real question is why do you care about people's judgement for something you're improving on? Sounds like a hater to me.

Out of control events. Ok, so a family member died or you "broke up" with your bff of 10-15 years. Pretty hard stuff, but you can learn that not everything is in your control and that you are going to have these moments in some fasion. That being said, when you overcome these f*cked up moments...you'll come out as a stronger person. Possibly opening new avenues for your story to go.