me and my boyfriend, who is also my favorite person, are going through a period of time of not talking right now due to the fact that he is in a really really low place and basically just has nothing to give and no energy to be in a relationship right now, and is really just pretty much numb to life in general. but we still love each other very much and we aren’t broken up. i know logically we are still together, but not talking to him and knowing he is really just numb to his feelings for me hurts so bad. i can’t eat, i literally feel physically ill im so nauseous and week all the time. i’m so terrified he is never going to get better, and so terrified he is never going to come back to his normal self, because he truly is an entirely different person right now. i’m so scared he is never going to feel like he can be in a relationship again. i want to take this as a period of time to hopefully better my self and try to somewhat work on the really intense unhealthy attachment i have to him. but i am just so lost and in so much pain i can’t even express it. i want to be steady and strong for him while he is at his lowest the same as he was for me but this is so unbearable. has anyone been through anything similar and how did you get through it?