So to start im a male in my late 20s and I've been in a group chat with these 4 friends for around 3 years now. I'm not very close to 3 of them, only to 1. And this 1 friend I insulted quite a bit today and as a result he blocked me everywhere. I've left the group chat shortly before that.


Here is what happened. For over a week now I've been having a heated discussion in that group about covid vaccination. Every one in that group chat is vaccinated except that 1 friend I insulted. Basically he doesn't want to vaccinate because he doesn't want to. He claims to not be anti Vax or anything like that but his arguments and the Screenshots and links he postet said otherwise, he postet a lot fake information, and links to antivaxx groups and pdfs.

Well today it got heated, I left the group and he later wrote me in private why I left the group and that he doesn't mean it seriously and that he isn't antivaxx he just doesn't want to get the vaccine and it's his body so I should leave him alone. 

Well I said okay you do you but I don't want to have contact with you then since I often visit my grandma and I don't want to take the risk. That resulted in another discussion and in the end I wrote this:

&gt;What's going on with you these past years? How about you reflect a little bit. You're almost 27, still live with your parents but always complain about It, haven't had a woman in 3 - 4 years that you were allowed to have sex with without paying, you gained a ton of weight even though we've both made a commitment to loose it, work for a company where you only do dirty work and earn far too little even though you have more than enough people trying to help you finding a new job, in the evening you're on twitch and donate money to streamers from your 1200€ a month salary while the streamer has millions in his account any yet you always complain about money problems, and that other people have it better than you. But now when you're asked to vaccinate to protect yourself and the people around you suddenly have to to stand your ground and not do it? That's you big rock to die on? You really have to be aggressive and throw me with mental bullshit because it is "your body," but it's not just about your body! Reflect once what is going on in your life. I have tried to help you here and there but I'm really done now. I hope youre doing good, looking forward and get your shit together. 


So yeah, just one read and I know that I come off as a pretentious prick. I actually don't have issues that he still lives with his parents or donates money to twitch streamers. I think it was that constant complaining about these topics that he always does plus now his anti vaccination stance that made me very angry. 

I don't plan to talk to him again. I'm done. I planned to cut ties with that friend group anyways since it tends to be very toxic and full of badmouthing. I just wish I'd handled it better.