i (F,22) got cheated on 2 years ago. my ex was at a party, got too drunk, and hooked up with 2 girls. it took me a while to get over it. i’m now dating this new guy, been with him for 4 months and it’s long distance. now, whenever my current boyfriend goes for a party, i get major anxiety and my brain tries to trick me that i’m gonna get cheated on again. i’ve spoken to him about it and he’s been very kind and reassuring, but this feeling just doesn’t go away. i feel anxious, small, breathless, sweaty- everything till the time he comes back from the party and calls me. what do i do? i obviously don’t want to stop him from having fun, but i hate how anxious i feel when he goes for a party.