It’s so difficult to decide because he’s said things to make me think he’s really interested and likes me but what he’s done seems off though it might seem like a small thing that I’m blowing up, idk. Also a couple things he said seem off but I don’t know if I’m overthinking them. With my track record I’m a terrible judge of character and it seems like I’m only interested and get excited around the guys that are no good, treat me poorly and screw me over. I got quite attached and infatuated with this guy, I really wanted to get to know him and date him when I haven’t been open to that in 2 years but I wanted to try for him because I really like him and enjoyed talking to him, it’s been so long since I’ve felt like this for someone but I don’t want to get hurt.

He complimented me a lot and kept making it clear he enjoys talking to me so not sure if he was love bombing and actually meant the stuff.

Called me beautiful. Said I’m more attractive than him. The only other person to call me beautiful was a narcissist with a history of lying and saying things he doesn’t mean. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder or whatever but I’m know I’m not beautiful. 

Asked what I was thinking, the only people that have asked me that was a narcissist and someone with sociopath traits. That question makes me uncomfortable and it’s kind of intrusive, if I want to tell you what I’m thinking I will but don’t ask, my thoughts are my own and not to be shared whenever. 

Didn’t bother texting me to let me know his wifi was off, I had to text him to know. 

His wifi is off at home but he messaged at work and said he didn’t know how often he could message, told me his wifi would be on but then heard nothing off him for 2 weeks so assumed there was some trouble with it but he’s had time to update his tinder instead of messaging me letting me know what’s happening after not talking for 2 weeks. Before that we couldn’t talk for 2 weeks because of his wifi and he ran out of credit. 

He’s updated his tinder but before that told me twice he’s not using it. Also said when he’s interested in someone he doesn’t talk to other people and only interested in them.