Hello, I have had a conversation with my ex-gf who has BPD. We have a child together and I am having sole custody atm. I want her to get help because it is awful to see her so conflicted. She will often latch onto a word and use it often for several weeks to expess something. Right.now the word "uninformed", she keeps saying she is uninformed,  i.e. doesn't understand why her parents keep cutting her out, why we all conspired to steal her son, etc. 
I for one wish above all else that she could have a healthy relationship with our son, which she does now thanks to a lot of work on my part. Would it be a good idea to make her more "informed " by sending her a brochure or two about BPD or DBT, and assuming it were, where would I find such a piece of reading material? 