Hypocrites make me so, so goddamn angry. And BPD anger is all-encompassing, tunnel-vision rage.  Maybe it has something to do with being invalidated as a child. If someone can't handle what they dish out or doesn't play by their own rules, I explode. How am I supposed to make someone happy while being held to ridiculous standards that the other person doesn't even follow?
Is this a me thing or a BPD thing?