Why does my Ex have to keep lying and lying to me about the same stuff over and over he thinks I am dumb or don't have common sense. Why won't he just tell me the truth? I will never be able to trust him again and I still have those strong attachment feelings but knowing he is lying to me. It is really depressing and I don't really want to go back with him but I keep promising I will. And then I am hit with that rush of knowing he is lying to me and that I'm just an idiot and tell him I don't want to be together. It would be easier to forgive him if he would just admit the truth about the things he has done but he just! Keeps!! Lying!!! I feel like such an idiot. I love him and I have never lied to him! Why do some people think that pressing lies this hard and this long is okay?