Anyone with BPD just feel so unsatisfied after so long in a relationship? My boyfriend was my FP for about a year but it was also super unhealthy to be in it as long as I was. At the beginning he had cheated with many girls, for sexual pleasure more than emotional. Well we worked through it because him being my FP I felt like I couldn’t make it without him. We’ve been together over 2 years now and he’s stopped cheating and kind of stopped lying. However, I’m just unsatisfied with the effort and lack of communication. He just doesn’t talk to me the way he use to, and hardly ever cuddles me unless I ask him to. He’s extremely bad at listening or just doesn’t care to sometimes. I love him to death but I’m just not happy, I’m trying to make it work this isn’t something I want to just let go. We lack sexual times and physical touch. He use to be all over me and now he just isn’t, all I can do is think about every female he’s cheated with, I’m just not his type. He likes blonde preppy girls. I’m the opposite. I can feel myself distancing from our relationship because of it, any advice for this?