My husband is in jail. He calls today asking if I have another # he doesnt know about... 

I got angry, because I don't. 

Then he says his youngest sons mother told him I texted her from another number reguarding our visitation schedule. 

This should be something small right!? But no. Ive blown it into this huge argument, because I know for a fact I didnt text from another number. I dont have another number. 

She gives him my other number. He gives it to me.... ITS MY HUSBANDS OLD PHONE NUMBER!!! That phone has been disconnected since before he went to jail over a year ago. I supposedly text her 2 weeks ago from that #. My husband doesn't remember it being his old phone number either. But I still have his contact in my phone because I look at his picture!!! 

So he's worried I'm living a whole second life with a phone he doesnt know about while hes in jail. This pisses me off to the max! My husband has never had to question me! But today because his sons mom pulled some Bullshit from thin air, he has. 

I find it convenient that weve had no communication problems all year. But once I tell her I will not keep my stepson this summer break because I kept him last summer break, our visitation agreement states we switch summers off until my husband is available to parent his son again, this pops up. 

My mind is going wild, assuming shes out to get me looking bad in his eyes... He says it was innocent and she was just saying how she tried calling both of my numbers and I never answered. Which is also false. I never received a reply at all after I informed her I wouldnt be keeping my stepson this summer. 

All of this is stemming from her consistently trying to push her way back into my husbands life throughout our 5 years together. Once she even emailed him asking to hang out one day and get to know each other while I'm at work. (She got pregnant with his child after a one night stand a year before my husband and I met)  And She's been known to reach out to him twice while in jail saying things like maybe when my husband gets out he can see what being a real family will be like with her and their son!!  But for the past year everything has been fine. Until today. ...   

Am I crazy or is homegirl making her way back and trying to drag me in the process!? 

I'm 99.9883736383% sure I'm not being fucking crazy! But maybe I'm making more of it than I should. But I mean come on, who is gonna say someone texted from a random number for no reason!? Anf its my husbands old phone number... It just doesnt add up!