I’ve been anxious and splitting a lot and whenever I get upset he gets defensive and just ignores me. He never offers reassurance and I just feel like I’m begging for him to try to understand me. He says he doesn’t know what to do when I’m like this but we’ve been together 3 years… I’ve asked him to read stuff related to bpd and I told him I had really severe mental health and anxiety issues when we got together (I wasn’t diagnosed yet) and he said it would be fine and he’d always work with me and try to understand. Well now it’s like he doesn’t even want to understand. It feels like he’s given up and he’s content to just sit there and ignore me while I’m dying inside. Should I leave? I don’t know what to do.