Hi, 
Do any of you have a bpd diagnosis without having experienced what would be seen as major trauma (e.g. neglect,...). I was diagnosed a year ago and my therapist seems to be searching for signs of child abuse and neglect in my past. I had a fairly happy childhood and nothing that bad ever really happened to me, I suppose I am just emotionally unstable. I feel weird because of this, like I do not "deserve" to have symptoms (I really do hope you understand what I mean) and I was wondering if there are others out there that feel the same way?