do you think it’s possible to have a healthy relationship with someone who is your fp? 

relationship dynamic; we hang out weekly but for days at a time (which for me is a lot because i have a busy schedule) and are intimate both emotionally and physically. we haven’t defined what we are doing and i don’t really care to because i’m only worried about the quality of relationship not putting labels, but they say that they aren’t worried about anyone but me. 

i limit my contact with them (no daily conversations; mutual choice) and don’t follow their social media for my own peace of mind. but that doesn’t change the fact that i’ve been thinking about him for most of the day EVERYDAY since the day we met. not in a cute way but in a consuming way. i’ve had fp before (which never turns out well for me) and although this doesn’t feel as extreme as any other time i still feel like my happiness has been dependent on them. im extremely eager to please them no matter what position it will put me in, and i fantasize/ daydream about them daily

i just feel like we have had a good thing going and i don’t want to mess it up, and i also don’t want to mess up how good i’ve been doing mentally. i’ve been doing good at not showing them how i really feel and using every bone in my body to be rational…. but i’m lowkey obsessed.. any tips? comments lol something idk