It’s no secret that impulsive sex is a hallmark of the borderline. I guess I differ from some in that this is not necessarily bad or harmful to me, especially when it’s up against drugs, alcohol, or other forms of self-abuse. 

In fact, I’ve noticed that it’s easier for me to connect with new people when I can flirt, feel sexual, and have the option of sleeping with them. I feel more like myself than trying to meet people platonically. As such, my fp have adopted a nonmonogamous relationship and after over a year it’s still working well so far.

How’s your sexy life, bipeds?