My girlfriend said I didn't seem as interested in Sex lately. It told her " it's not you, I'm just feeling really down and bad lately, but I didn't want to upset you so I held it back. She didn't bother to ask what was bothering me. I mention this and she says she didn't know if i wanted to talk about it, so she didnt ask.

I then tell her what has been bothering me and I get silence. No response, no comments, no questions, nothing. After the silence, she begans to berate me for not telling her sooner and letting her think she was the problem.

I feel like she couldn't care less about my pain or what I'm going through. Just zero concern, empathy, attempt to help. Nothing.. like talking to a wall. I feel low..