 I am 19f, I am openly gay and dating another girl 19F as well. she deals with a lot of her own problems that she doesn't really like to disclose with me. I feel like a part of me can't heal properly because she's JUST starting to heal herself as well its all really conflicting and hard to get around but I love her and I wanna be with her but I know she's going through alot too, im honestly just stuck.