I’ve had favourite people before but when I realised I did that’s when I started tryna really work on it so I’m not so dependant on anyone again. Why do a lot of people act like it’s okay to have one and always think they’ll need one? I get that bpd is hard and having a favourite person helps with a lot of validation and feeling seen but by not working on it I feel like is kinda not the best. Just my opinion let me know what you think