I’ve seen a lot of people here with the exact same story as me: Started their relationship hypersexual, then their libido completely disappeared and now they feel bad because they miss that connection with their partner but find it difficult to have sex, despite still loving/being attracted to their partner. 

I’m getting really sick of it. It’s not that I don’t want to, it’s just so difficult to make myself. I really want my sex drive back. I would take the hypersexuality over this any day 100%. 
It doesn’t really help that I started sertraline 4 weeks ago and it’s made it impossible for me to have an orgasm. :,)

Has anyone got any tips to get some libido back?