hello! i’m 17 and i work with women in their 20s and 30s. all of us get along for the most part and are close! my coworker is getting married next week and offhandedly asked if i wanted to go to her wedding a couple of weeks ago. i told her i was working that night but i would see if i could get my shift traded. yesterday she asked me my last name and i told her and she wrote it down. i asked why and she said that her seating charts for her wedding were due last week and she needed my name for the name card. she seemed mad and frustrated. she then asked if i was able to get my shift covered. i said no and that i would still ask. i don’t want to go to the wedding because a couple of reasons. where i live, covid cases are going up and she said most people would not wear a mask. also, my mom doesn’t really want me going. finally, i really need the money rn for school books that i have to buy next week. i feel bad because i’m the reason why her seating chart is late. can anyone give me any advice on how to handle this?