It was the most intense relationship...then it got weird..he'd get angry.  He's in his 40s and isn't seeking treatment.  He'd not only get angry but I went down a rabbit hole explaining why I have friends and talk to specific coworkers.  He thought it was crazy that I have normal conversations with people and would heavily criticize.  The last straw was he didn't want me to hangout with my family.

It was very exhausting..even in that month.  I wish he didn't have bpd cause he would have made a great bf.  

The pro we had amazing sex too.  I do miss him and I blocked him cause of incessant texts/phone calls/voicemails.  One day I got 400 texts.  It was too much.

Question..can a relationship like this be salvaged?  Or does it all come down to him getting professional help?