So I know that it’s common for pwBPD to worry about others abandoning them or not loving them but I constantly worry that my family doesn’t realize I love them or how much I love them. It’s definitely a common trigger for me. Sometimes it can be caused by something someone says, something they do, or it can just be random. For example, I recently came home from college for the Summer and my mom asked me if I wanted to go to the beach this weekend and I told her no because I just got home and I will also be going to Florida in a week with my friends so I didn’t want to come home, unpack, pack again for the beach, and then do it all again to go to Florida. She just left and I can’t stop worrying about her thinking I don’t love her. It makes me feel terrible and has led to a depressive episode before. Is this something anyone else struggles with?