I love my girlfriend to death and I’ve been wanting to learn how to affectively help her. I don’t want to go to people online because I’m not sure who is a reputable source. 

To set the stage and where she and I are in our lives, so you all can most effectively understand, we are long distance right now because of issues I had with school and my inattentive adhd, and we are both still in college, her parents are constantly a negative force in her life, and I don’t know how to effectively help her. 

I’d love to hear suggestions y’all have on what to do or what resources would be good to dive into. 

Thanks in advance and… I know from experience, you guys aren’t bad people. 

Much love and appreciation!