First things first, I made a new account because my boyfriend knows of my other.

I (21F) have a beautiful, kind, and supportive boyfriend of almost a year. Our relationship couldn’t be better. With that being said, I’ve had a crush on this girl I met in my class last semester, and the more I see her around the more intense it gets. It’s important to note that I’ve been openly bisexual for like... a while now.

I’m starting to get confused now though, because my boyfriend is so loving and is amazing in bed, but something isn’t clicking. I’ve never really liked having sex with boys, and even though I like having sex with him a lot more than normally, it’s still nothing compared to with a girl.

I love my boyfriend with my whole heart and couldn’t imagine my life without him. The problem is that if I had a long term girlfriend, I would love her... differently. That’s the only way I can describe it. If my boyfriend and I broke up, I know I’d only date girls after. It just doesn’t seem fair to him, because what if I string him along just to end up leaving him for a girl/discovering I AM a lesbian.

Does anyone have any experience with this?

TLDR; my boyfriend is amazing, but I think I might be a lesbian.