Hello everyone,

I'd really appreciate your input here. My GF has been having problems at her office and she's in an "episode" now (dissociation, depression, wanting to die, not eating, scratching, etc.), probably a new low, and she's being distant to me although I'm pretty sure it's not personal. Now I'm not sure how to act, whether I should give her space, or act like usual as if nothing happens, or be more caring? This past week I've reduced my communication because I think she needs space and she's not being responsive anyway so my attempts at connecting often do not yield any results. But yesterday she wanted to meet me and we hung out for a little while, so I don't know. Any thoughts?

found this for bipolar relationship. I wonder if the same applies for BPD? http://livingmanicdepressive.com/2012/08/21/relationship-falling-apart/