Every little thing triggers me when I am in relationship, every little insecurity tells me the person doesnt like me, doesnt want to talk to me, hates me, doesnt want to spend time with me and dont have fun with me. I also find myself when Im with my loved one we have a lot to talj about but when there are more people a become silent and noone talks to me, neither the loved one. You know, this probably isnt true, but I dont know how to help myself, how to make this better. I talked with them they say its not true and I feel that way next time. It gets to the point when I become very anxious, stressed, irritated and mean, sometimes cry and say bad things. Please help, this is ruining my life.