So, 3 months ago me (F28) and mx ex bf broke up. We dated for four months but were really close friends for over a year before that. The break up hurt like hell and i cried for a week straight. 

Since then i started dating again and met some cool guys. One guy, i felt a connection with even though my first impression was i am not that attracted to him. We had so much fun and our personalities just clicked and we ended up at my place. I started picturing us as bf and gf, which is insane after just one date. 

But then the anxiety started. I have this sudden feeling telling me "no! I dont want this! Stay away from me!". I've had that feeling with all of me previous relationships, but not my casual flings. I tried to feel my feelings and basically i am scared of being trapped in a relationship i dont want and i am not happy in and i'll have to end things which will cause heartbreak. 

DAE experience this? I tried addressing this in therapy but my therapist insists that i dont need therapy anymore. Or at least for now. I am just terrified of choosing the wrong guy or getting hurt or ending up alone.