My bf and I got into a bit of a argument. I was upset yesterday because I’m on vacation right now visiting family and we were supposed to play a game together online, he even suggested it the day before he wanted to play this video game again after playing on Tuesday. Instead he went out with friends (which normally is fine and is not my issue) and I ended up playing cards with my family. I was upset about the unexpected change of plans and feeling like out plans weren’t important. He was mad at me and saying he did my laundry today and he shouldn’t have to feel bad for going out. Now he’s mad today saying he’s going to just stay home all day and not go to a family dinner his sister invited him too. I told him he should go and don’t be stubborn but he just said no. He said he’s just tired of these kind of fights, and I felt guilty and said I’m sorry if you’re tired of me and this. He said he didn’t know what to say and said he needed to hang up because he was irritated about me being down about myself and thus bringing him down with me. I feel like I’m the future I shouldn’t express my petty problems or emotions because otherwise it seems like to him I’m just trying to bring him down. I don’t know what to do.