me and my ex recently started talking again. for context i am turning 19 and we were together since we were both 16. we broke up about two months ago, because she thought i cheated. we then after tried talking again, but i made myself emotionally unavailable so i told her to forget me. we recently started talking again, and she told me she has a small crush on this dude she’s seeing (has not done anything but go on a few dates). what do i do, do i try and fix things between us or do i give up although we both are still in love with each other, just she isn’t as much anymore. we talked and she is going to think about what she is going to do regarding us because she also agrees that i shouldn’t be competing for her attention and things along those lines. do i leave her alone for good or give her time to think?