When me and my bf argue, I obviously get extremely heated, but I've learned that I have a while until I blow up. Well that's the issue, I end up blowing up. He will blatantly be in the wrong and we try to discuss the issue, but I end up blowing up and threatening him and myself and wanting to break up, the whole thing. Then it seems like the issue that started it doesn't matter because I had crossed a line, even if the issue was tiny. He almost gets away with it. I just can't take it. I want to be able to just have a normal human healthy argument and get things done without fucking everything up in the end.