Sometimes, I feel guilty for loving my boyfriend. We've both been through a lot in the last couple months and I've been doing my best to stand by his side and provide emotional support while maintaining a comfortable distance so he doesn't feel suffocated. However, I feel like I'm being annoying every time I check up on him to see if he's okay. I know I'm not being obsessive but I always have the feeling that I'm about to cross a boundary. 

I know his intention isn't to make me feel guilty but I feel like a nuisance and I'm trying my best to stay calm and rational through all of this. I just want to love and be loved in return.