I’m (F30) having some big issues right now. I need to perform well at work because I have agreed to finish projects and I can’t just drop them. 

I’ve also have been having issues with my relationship. If I don’t start earning more money or do better in terms of my career, I think my partner is going to leave me. He has already compared me to his friends girlfriends and how they’re more successful and do better than me. And how I haven’t been working hard enough lately (my mental health has been in a bad place, I’ve been seeking therapy but it’s going to take time). 


I think for me to feel that if I don’t perform better professionally, my partner is going to leave me is making me feel worse mentally. How can I suck it up and get my shit together? I feel a bit paralysed and feeling paralysed is making me feel worse. 


Tdlr; mental health is interfering with my work and it’s stressing me out more because my partner will probably leave me over it. How can I get my shit together?