I (24F) clicked with a guy on bumble recently. We never ended up meeting cause he was pretty ill, but we went from staying up till 4am (this connection happened one other time in my dating life) then faded out until he just ghosted me entirely. 

I knew he’s a complete dick for it especially since I reached out to ask if he’s still interested, and it’s not an issue if not. 

But I find myself often thinking about him, it’s kinda upsetting because I wanna let it go. I talk with my friends a lot and play video games in the evening but I don’t find myself feeling better after. I guess I’m severely bummed out by the connection and comparability only for it to not work out. Which is life, but sometimes logic doesn’t help the emotion. 

I’m currently without a therapist and stuck in country where they’re limited, I’d talk to them about it if I could. 

How do you deal with this, if you do?