I had an FP that was abusive. I only recently realized that he’s abusive, and that he has a history of raping drunk, much younger girls. He’s also spread a bunch of untrue rumors about me, and now I’m being bullied. Everyone seems to just ignore that he’s a rapist, and instead just make fun of me. And now my best friend (who’s 19) is falling under his spell. It’s incredibly frustrating and not doing my BPD any favors.