But then you realize it might work, so they you send them 8 texts to try and get them to talk, but since they're not answering you put your phone away and go do something else because if they're not gonna talk then damnit I'm not gonna try, but then 5 minutes later you realize if you don't force them to talk they'll just leave and you'll never hear from them again so you call them on a different app in case the one you called on was muted or not working, but then you see them active on Instagram and then you just cry haha