I have a terrible habit of making my current crush my FP. It’s horrible, and it always ends in disaster, but I keep doing it. 
I’ve known this guy for about three years. Years ago, he admitted that he had romantic feelings for me, but things were always complicated between us, so we never tried anything. Not too long ago, we started talking in a more romantic way, but he explicitly told me that he couldn’t handle a relationship right now. I acknowledged it and agreed, but as we continue to talk I can feel myself becoming hopelessly infatuated with him. I hooked up with him for the first time recently, and it just made everything worse. I don’t know what to do because I know he doesn’t want a relationship, but fuck, I really do. It just hurts, because I think I’m falling for him (which isn’t hard for me to do) and I know he hasn’t given it a second thought. 