I don't want to appear self diagnosing with them but the symptoms I appear to have are interferring with my life and relationships very heavily and I would like to learn healthy coping mechanisms for them. I also have diagnosed social and generalized anxiety and depression.

Every single mental health professional I've seen (4 or 5 maybe?) have just listed off symptoms of anxiety, depression and schizophrenia and nothing else. So I'm not sure how to bring up the possibility of having bpd with a mental health professional. I'm inbetween therapists right now so I figured this would be the best time to ask one.

Any help would be very much appreciated, thank you in advance.