I've just always wondered since I was diagnosed a while back like 11 years ago without going into a lot of probably unnecessary detail that I have a lot of fetishes, all of them harmless and not ridiculous, and I don't really get why it's like theyre  just there. I mean I know sex is normal but having like a dozen fetishes seemed weird. Any ideas? I don't even think about it a lot but when the time comes around I do.. I hope this isn't against the rule because I read them and it's a legit question. Awful never had an issue with any of my exes but a lot of them didn't really know because I broke up with them before we got that deep.