My mom and dad are divorced. Sometimes I want to visit my grandpa and grandma from my dads side, but my mom neclects me, and becomes tense and sad when I/my dad talks about it. She gets hurt by the idea that I will be away from her, even for just 2 days. 

I think she could have separation anxiety, and I just want to help. 

Its been a year or two since I last visited them, because I've been afraid of bringing it up. I miss them a lot, and my dad talks about them getting older, and that we may lose them. 

I used to visit them a bit more frequent because she would go to, when I was younger. Now my mom doesn't go with me , because she feels she is not needed/wanted there. I don't think my grandparents feel that way though. 

(I'm 13) 

Does anyone have advice?