I've been living with my FP for work for about a month now and I haven’t felt this stable in years. 

For background my FP is married so obviously we don't have a relationship but I've been living with them for about a month and rarely have any serious episodes except for when I split on them over dumb things like jealousy. I feel weirdly invalidated by this experience because it makes me feel like I just need to be in a happy relationship to be stable. I know in the rational part of my mind that’s not true but anyone who has BPD knows it's hard to listen to the rational side of things.

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I've never been in a relationship where my partner was my FP or lived with them for that matter and  I'm wondering if this is something other people experience as well.