 the surgery i need is pharyngeal flap and maybe cleft palate surgery im 30 with autism adhd sensory issues and many other special needs so its going be very scary for me ok , i know on the day of surgery i will wake up and go too the hospital im going wear pajamas that day take my tablet my stuffed animal and a coloring book i will get liquid versed in pre op area too calm me down before going too operating room , in the operating room i will get the mask first hopefully it smells like cherry or grape than after mask i will get iv will wake up be scary i may have oxygen ivs maybe feeding tube maybe soft arm restraints so i dont mess with stuff hooked too me i may have wetproof pads under me too incase i may have too stay in the hospital 3 too 5 days depends on how i do the surgery will be done at a regular hospital i think not sure my surgeon is highly trained plastic surgeon any kindness or advice comment below