Does anyone have tips for avoiding this? After 1 or 2 dates with some guys I start to think about marriage and children, I get devastated if they ghost or break things off with me. Even if I don't like a guy I always want to be the one to break up with HIM. But when I "like" someone or see potential in a relationship with them it's such a huge blow when it's obvious they don't feel the same, I can go crazy and obsessively text them and just get used for sex. Does anyone feel like this.