Hi, 17F here who is undiagnosed but experiences symptoms similar to BPD.
Today my mother scolded me for being 'angry' at her family members and says i have an intense hatred for them (i don't but i dont feel comfortable around them, not HATE TO DEATH hate) and that i don't care about people. She called me an embarrassment and said she's ashamed to even think that I'm her daughter. 

I absolutely feel so down just because I want to fix these issues, but my uncontrollable anger keeps seething out of me and I look like a moody teenager to her. 
I really need advice on how to fix this issue as I really don't want to hear things like this again. 

Thanks for reading my post.