Does anyone have advice on the best way to express frustration with my roommate/best friend who has severe depression and anxiety? My main frustrations are that she has made mistakes that have hurt me a lot, and i feel like i cant say anything even close to being upset with her for fear shes going to be suicidal. Without fail everytime she has fucked up shes locked herself in her room and has had panic attacks, which is valid and i know she cant control it but it also makes it extremely difficult for me to express any frustration with her. Another thing im majorly frustrated about is that when shes having issues, ill ask her over and over if shes okay/if she wants to talk, which she only ever says im fine, but then complains to her boyfriend that me and our other roommate hate her and dont like her. Its just so bleh and i dont know how to address it with her