It’s no secret that things get volatile for persons with BPD in relationships. But I’m so sick of my husband, who has sat in front of my therapist who confirmed my diagnosis, saying that I’m using BPD as a crutch. Now with this label I can’t ever just bitch bc I feel disrespected by HIS actions or narcissistic behaviors. And taboot he refuses to spend time with our three year old son as a form of punishment to me bc he thinks I need to work more when all I do is take care of the family. Despite my son requesting his dads presence and love allllllll day long. So frustrated. I just needed to vent bc BPD is hard. And sending me photos of Jodi arias and how I’m like her repeatedly does not help me calm down.