Just to vent, or get advise. Yesterday everything was going alright. Things haven't been great in a while. But going alright. I was talking about my day and what made me upset. Common to come home from work upset. So told her about it. She said if you don't like it change it. Which kinda trigger me. She has a issue where she pick her head constantly. So I said if it's so easy to change than you should stop picking. I mean if I could I would be happy all the time. I also was recently was diagnosed with BPD. So the rest of the night sucked cause she was pissed I said that. I feel like I was in the right. I don't try to be angry 80% of the time. But it just happens. And I am slowly working on it.