hi, the service i was referred to at the beginning of the year has finslly got back to me and i have an appointment in december. according to someone i know who used the same service, they don't give out diagnoses for personality disorders for anybody under 25. i'm 21 and i really don't know what to do like if i do have bpd i need them to tell me that i cannot cope with them refusing to do that. my symptoms have been around as long as i can remember and theyre not going away anytime soon and i genuinely think if all they won't give me a diagnosis even if it's applicable i will become actively suicidal because then its all just me and i'm just a shitty person. irdk what to do i'm kind of freaking.