So I (24f) have this loving boyfriend (31M) who I feel rushed things too soon and fast I tried expressing this so many times, but I also feel like I might be missing out on something genuine if I let it go. Yet I feel like I love him, but I’m not IN love with him I know this isn’t fair, but I also don’t know if my judgement is the best to make that assessment. I expressed this to someone I am sort of interested in (not in a long term sense ) and now I feel guilty should I just stop and be alone ?