I've been depressed for 6 years at this point and have been seeing therapists on and off. I've probably seen about 20 at this point, and all of them pull the same shit. They ask me about my condition, my family, history, all that, then they suggest that I'm thinking wrong. When I explain that the evidence says otherwise they immediately get defensive and start blaming me and eventually giving up and saying they can't do anything.

It's happened way too often to be a coincidence at this point. I feel like I need therapy records for my disability case so I should just keep going but honestly all of this just makes me feel worse. Is there anything I should look for in a therapist or are they all like this? I feel like they just try the same approach for everyone, and then it must be the client's fault when it doesn't work.