I've been telling my boyfriend that I am unhappy/ my self esteem has been crumbling for weeks now because of how he talks to me and doesn't resolve my concerns. Whenever I bring anything up to him his response is "well, you do that too!" or some sort of retaliation. I've told him this makes me feel like he doesn't care and he says I'm trying to shut down his feelings. This isn't true, I just want what I said acknowledged. Am I crazy? Does my boyfriend just suck? I'm tired of being told I'm selfish and that I don't own the stage, etc.