I am considering breaking up or putting a lot of distance between me and my friend, Nancy.


Nancy and I are still very close over text, but lately when we have hung out with other people I feel very ignored. I have tried to talk to her about, but she just explains why she does that and says how it's hard for her to have to think about how I feel all the time. Like it doesn't really matter to me why she does it, to me it is really hurtful.


I don't feel like there is any point in talking about it anymore with her.


Me and Nancy were supposed to take a trip together in a few weeks. And l realized today I don't want to go because I don't think she will spend time with me if there are other people there.


I know she cares about me a lot. But the way she treats me when other people are around is unacceptable to me. And I can't handle someone asking like she is my best friend sometimes but then not like it when we are with others, because it just crushes me.


I just don't know if I am being ridiculous. But it feels like I am just in another relationship where the other person doesn't feel the same about me.