So I've been in therapy for over two years now and finally am at the point where I no longer classify as BPD. Unfortunately there was still so much internal strife and struggle and apparently it is ADHD. My therapist believes that my untreated ADHD manifested as increasingly worse BPD and awful anxiety as I aged. Guess this is what happens when ADHD runs in the family and a parent has BPD.

So I guess I've fought and won one battle and now onto the next.