The nature vs. nurture debate is so obvious to me. With how kids take literally everything in. A lot of people don’t realize that. I think even when people say mental illness is genetic, a lot of it is just family rubbing off on a young impressionable mind. Kids are way smarter than people give them credit for. So do you think your parents gave you mental issues? And if so, do you blame them? Or do you understand that they didn’t know any better?
I’m different with each of my parents- BPD mom I forgive but NPD dad nope. Very manipulative. My mom was trying her best though (I understand it’s not the same with all NPD &amp; BPD people). I have BPD &amp; OCD