has anyone else had the misfortune of their favourite person just being a genuinely really toxic, destructive person towards you?? any advice on how to detach from a toxic fp and not just keep on coming back to them unconditionally? i feel so trapped here because i adore them/feel so infatuated with them despite their horrible treatment to me and i just want it to stop already, i’ve also informed them of bpd which they refuse to get any real understanding of and only mention it when belittling me in arguments.