I’m F22, dudes M36, he was kinda fucking shit up at work, wasn’t listening to me when I gave him directions, all around just being kind of lazy. I got snippy with him tonight at work because he once again wasn’t following protocol. Granted it’s not super on him, but other employees have noticed how he acts towards me vs the male supervisors and basically told me it wasn’t okay and they weren’t happy with it either. 

He’s disrespectful towards women and the job and his coworkers. I just deal with it so my employees don’t have to and cause I need the job. 

After a couple of days I started getting irritated. My brother, M21,(we’re both supervisors at the company on the same shift), decided to sit down after a complaint about the division of labor at work and talk to him about the situation just before we got off today just to nip it in the bud and get it handled.

My brother said ‘F21 thinks you’re not listening or following directions’ he got defensive at first, and said he’s not gonna ‘be up out asses like the other kids at work’ but kinda chilled out and the three of us discussed the situation and it seems like it went well, but idk. I can’t really tell. He’s the type of dude where you tell him something, he gets it, but a week later he’ll go back to the same thing. I tried talking to him at work after the ordeal and he kinda just brushed me off, said he wasn’t trying to be disrespectful, but it didn’t seem like he really heard where my brother and I were coming from. 

I just feel like I’m overthinking shit, but I feel like it’s gonna be awkward as fuck at work now. It’s already awkward because of a whole other can of worms, but no one really wants him on shift and my other employees are irritated with his work ethic And how he acts towards me at work. 

I just really dislike confrontation and I’m new to the supervisory aspect of work; shit gives me anxiety

I talked to my brother and him about how to basically fix shit at work and how to be a better supervisors for the team and him and how to communicate better and get him better training, but idk I feel like it’s just gonna be worse at work. 


Just overthinking I think, but idk