I need help. I've had severe insomnia and anxiety my entire life and have had severe depression and suicidal thoughts since I was 11 because of it. I'm almost 19 now and I've found ways to manage it. But I still get like depressive episodes that can last anywhere from a couple days to a few months. I'm in one now and I'm in a relationship with someone I've been with for a year. My mental health has always been an issue with us he never really understood it and kind of shuts down when I try to talk about it. It's really frustrating and when I get like this I also get really angry pretty fast and I can't really help it. The last two days I've pretty much locked myself in my room not having the motivation to leave. The first day I tried talking to him but he wouldn't listen and only made me feel worse. The second day he pretty much avoided me. Today he took me out and I started feeling like myself but then he ran off to play his video game with his friend and I'm stuck in my bed again. I try not to make his life harder because of my mental health but I do lean on him some. He's threatening to talk to my parents even though I don't want them to know any of this. I don't know what to do. How do other people with mental health issues handle difficult partners?