I’m desperate to move out of my moms house, it’s very toxic here. we live in Vermont but I want a change in scenery and to just get away from everything I know. 

I’m hesitant on having a roommate. on one hand, having a roommate would be good for me as to not be alone constantly, and it would save me money, but I also worry about getting along with them, or them not cleaning up after themselves. 

I know I’ve got some shitty traits myself that I’m learning about and don’t want to put onto a future roommate so I also consider living alone but I think that’s the only reason. 

do people with BPD struggle in roommate settings?