I've heard that lack of identity and a feeling of not really having a "real" personality is kind of common, so I was wondering what everyone's experiences have been with addressing that. It's something that really bugs me.

In the past, I'd usually define my sort of self-presentation by whatever hyperfixations or special interests I might have at the time (I'm autistic and ADHD as well), but recently, mostly due to being really busy doing a work program thingy for 10 months, I've been too busy to HAVE interests. 

Now that I'm home, I'm considering just... making something up? Like create-a-me type thing. The only consistent part of me is just basing morality on compassion, and that might be all I need to stay the same?

I'm pretty genuinely considering just choosing a new way to dress and going from there.
I'm trying to keep my coping as effective and healthy as possible, and I think my primary issue is needing something to ground me.

Any tips? How have you dealt with it?