TW: Armed robbery
TLDR: Need advice on how to support my girlfriend who was a victim at an armed robbery last night. 

Hi there! So, last night, my girlfriend was going to a dispensary. She was just outside the door when she got pulled in by a robber and thrown on the grown with a gun to her head. There were four robbers there as well as three employees, and everyone was on the ground with guns to their head, being threatened to be killed if they moved. Another robber was walking one of them around and threatening to kill her if she didn't give them everything in the store. After about 20 minutes, the cops came and they ran. Everyone made it out safely. 

That being said, my girlfriend is traumatized and not doing well. I tend to go emotionless in situations like these, so I haven't really felt anything emotionally, other than thankfulness that she is still alive. I also have never been in this type of situation. Do any of you know what it's like, and/or how long it will take for her to start feeling okay? She is going to start therapy this week, which is good and will help. Also, does anyone have any tips on how I can best support her? I want to be there for her but I habe a hard time empathizing so I am a bit at a loss on how to help. Any input is appreciated. Thank you!