I’ve been told my whole life I’m too sensitive. My mood can change dramatically if someone uses a certain tone or says something triggering. For example, my boyfriend and I just bought a house. I’ve decorating the entire place in a modern-ish farmhouse style. Well he loves everything so far but I bought some candle holders for the hallway and he absolutely hated them. He ranted about it, was very sarcastic, and obviously insulting them. In situations where I get offended, I immediately say something I regret or I shut down completely. It sucks because you never know how real your feelings are or people don’t take your feelings seriously based off BPD. He’s usually pretty good about everything and he immediately apologized when I walked away and shut down, but it still gets to me sometimes.