I’m in college, and my FP is my roommate.  She’s my girlfriend as well, meaning that we spend all of our time together and do love each other.  She’s the best, and tries to understand BPD, but I still feel awful for crying so hard every day of breaks from school over missing her.  It feels like I’m over exaggerating, but I know that it’s just another BPD thing and she would understand.  Hell, she tells me every day that it’s okay and that she gets it.  I just want to know how to get through these month-3 month long breaks without crying all the time, because this isn’t going to be good for her or me.