Anyone else have trouble being in one relationship? Ive been with my bf for 2 years, and i love him very much. But ive hurt him before. I dont want to keep hurting him, so i suggested an open relationship. He told me no. But i cant stop myself from talking to other people. I don't know if this is a mind trick, or what. But i hate being this way. But i still want to be in more than one relationship.