I have a tendency to obsess when I meet someone new and get feelings. I’m completely enamored with a guy that I’ve been talking to.

We initially started out talking romantically, but now it’s just as friends. He said he still liked me weeks ago, he just needed a break because of some personal reasons. I don’t know if I’m an idiot for believing him or not. 

But, now that we’re talking again I’m having a hard time separating my feelings from our friendship. All this over a guy I haven’t met in person yet, which is just wild to me. I just like him so much, which scares me. 

He hasn’t really been responding much and when he does, he’s not really into the conversation. It’s totally activating my BPD and I hate that. 

So, should I distance myself for my own good and probably his own good?