So I’m casually texting my boyfriend and I told him my hair is a lot longer than I thought. And he all of a sudden starts talking about what if I cut my hair short. And I’ve never had short hair so the idea instantly makes me uncomfortable and I’m like asking him questions like why do you want me to do that, and do you think I would look better? And he just answers with “do it” more ad once and even goes as far to say “please” ??? Like not gonna lie I got super uncomfortable and frustrated and maybe even shed some tears because he was pushing this thing really hard? And I told my friend and he freaked out saying that’s messed up of him to pressure me to change a major part of my appearence. 


We talked about it and he says he just “wants to see what it looks like but doesn’t care what I do with my hair” which is like, okay, but he was pushing it so hard. And he said I could do anything with my hair and he wouldn’t really care which I don’t know whether to take that in a good or bad way. I’m probably way overthinking this whole thing.