So I (24F) am in a relationship with my boyfriend (24M) for for a year and 1/4. I have been in therapy for half our relationship, and have recently gotten him to go as well. I have CPTSD, and am currently working through that with my therapist. He just came home yesterday from his appointment and said he was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder. 

I wanted to get any advice from other couples with a partner who has BPD. Or if you have BPD, how do you manage it together?

He's very against medicine... and doctors... so I've been trying to look up more holistic ways of caring for BPD. I'd like to know from people who have BPD how you personally go about it.

Honestly any advice is appreciated. When my boyfriend hits his low points... he absolutely destroys me mentally. Berating me and verbally attacking me. Now that we have a diagnosis I am hoping we can tackle this together.

This is my first post so please be kind!