My wife finally got the courage to leave me. We both have diagnosed bpd but she is very much in denial about hers. She ran away to Vegas with a rich unknown man and hasn’t spoken to her family in a month. She texted me and told me she doesn’t know how she ever loved me or was attracted to someone like me. We both physically and mentally abused each other but always promised to get help and never let it get that bad again. I asked for space and she took that as me not loving her anymore. She isolated me from my family and married me in secret with only allowing her family at the ceremony now I have no support. I’m lost and hurt I don’t want to take my life but my person and soulmate is truly gone.