So I’m 28 with 2 kids and we live with my parents including my boyfriend. We live in CA specifically Los Angeles so it’s pretty expensive. I got pregnant at 24 with my boyfriend after being with him for 3 months. My mom wanted him to move in because he had lived 1 hour away and she said it’d be easier for us to save money. Within these last years I’ve paid off A LOT of my debt. I’m talking about 20k on a credit card and also paid off my car payment because ive been able to save. So I’m very grateful. But now I can just tell they don’t want us there. It’s more my mom. We don’t pay rent, which we offer and she tells us no. We do give her $800 a month for groceries. Other than that me and my boyfriend pay for our own stuff and our own groceries. The food they buy is basically just for them, we hardly eat what they buy. Although our daughter will sometimes. Back in 2020 we had the chance to move out. We were looking at apartments and we sat down with my parents and told them we are planning to move out and my mom said “we don’t want you guys moving out. I don’t want you guys to feel like we don’t want you here and we love seeing the grandkids” so then we decided we weren’t going to move out. We hardly see my parents too. They get home around 6pm and by that time we are putting the kids to bed and we’re asleep around 8. On the weekends they’re gone All day. So it’s not like we are in there way. Growing up I always felt like the odd one compared to my older sister. She’s 30. My sister was the trouble kid who did drugs, talked back to my parents, borrowing money etc. My sister doesn’t live with us anymore but she still ask for money. I’m talking about 4K for her husband to get a lawyer for custody. My parents co sighed for their house. Every car my sister had it was cars my parents given her. Even her brand new car my parents signed off on that too. I’ve only asked to borrow 2 times in my entire life. It was like $20 because I was on maternity leave and my account got over drafted so I asked if I can borrow $20 and I gave it back 2 days later. I bought my own car without the help of my parents. I saved 10k to get that car myself. I never given them problems growing up but the way my mom talks to me compared to my sister makes me so depressed. If I ask her a question she get annoyed as if she’s annoyed to talk to me. Like today I found out my sister is coming over Saturday to bbq. I asked my mom who was coming over and she said “obviously people” and rolled her eyes. Like what was the reason for that? Lol I always felt depressed growing up and the way she acts towards me just makes it worse. We do plan on moving out hopefully the beginning of next year. The way she acts makes me feel like once I move out I’m not going to come to any family events to be around them and I hate that I feel like this