I have a friend who I have been letting couch surf until she gets back on feet from some serious personal situations. It is the first time in a long time I’ve had someone around 24/7 and I really enjoy having her around as she is BPD as well on top of being very close to one another. There is this feeling I have where I feel incredibly protective or maybe territorial over her? I can’t explain it I know I don’t romantically love her however she has been going out on dates and making new friends and it has been made me not angry but scared. I think it is the abandonment issues for sure but I was wondering if there was anything I could do to perhaps combat this feeling and turn it into healthy energy instead of whatever this?