For many years I’ve struggled with my FP being primarily always men (i lost my father in a traumatic way) and the talking taking place solely online. While I know this is common for people with BPD, have any of you experienced such strong attachment/limerence with people you’ve just begun talking to or whom you’ve never met? As I feel my emotional needs are slowly finally being met, it still feels at times, if I do not cling to someone, i will slip away into oblivion. But, it does not do any good when I will most likely hurt and or lie to them.