I’ve been in a relationship now for about 3 months, young relationship. Around the 2 and a half mark I started to feel that I’m not necessarily in love with this person, but I know I’m getting there. Falling in love slowly. 

I expressed that to her through text, I told her I hope that doesn’t ruin anything. She said it doesn’t, however it got swept under the rug. 

I don’t want to leave them, however given I feel like they don’t feel the same. I feel like distancing myself some is best course of action. But if anyone else has advice lmk