I have a friend with BPD, We are currently having a rough period. I am understanding and trying to be accommodating but recently it's really hard. I don't want to end the friendship or anything I'm just trying to understand what's going on. The main issue at the moment is that she feels like I'm not making an effort to be friends with her and I'm not "making her feel important".  


 I think the reason behind that is that I am not around due to college work, Working to pay the bills and trying to balance other friendships. I spend probably 80% of my free time talking to her and playing games online with her. I really want to understand what she might be thinking and really want to try to make our friendship work.

 I appreciate anything that can be said, if you feel like I am the issue please say so and try to explain what I can do to maintain our friendship.

 Sorry if I sound a little robotic in this paragraph, I'm trying to just state facts and what has been going on without any negative or positive throughline so that you can judge for yourselves. I know I can never truly or fully relate to everything but I want to try. Thank you so much for reading this and I'm sorry if this is obvious to you guys what is wrong.