I may get downvoted for this and it's fine because my thoughts are honestly appalling, but I'm questioning my FP at the moment. I may just be extremely paranoid (because I naturally am), but she does not reveal to anybody what her real name is unless it's for social security or for government things (her words). What logical reason would there be not to reveal your real name? I'm getting suspicious and starting to think it's criminal related? She was also abused by her ex boyfriend and sexually assaulted, but didn't report it. Am I just being stupid for worrying about this? I really like this girl and she really likes me as well. She has several mental health issues like me (I see a lot of myself in her and I have BPD). I feel horrible for even questioning things. When I asked why nobody uses her real name she just said because it was too girly and didn't fit her gender neutral self. Should I just stop worrying? I've just not come across anybody before that hasn't told me their real name.