TW: talks of addiction, talks of abuse. basically for a little context, my partners sister is a 39 year old woman with 5 kids that were all taken from her because 2 of them had drugs in their system when they were born and of them are chronically disabled and suffered severe neglect and abuse under her hands and severe health problems that went untreated. 10 years after having all of these children shes still on drugs, hasnt had a job in at least 2 years, lies all of the time, shes always stealing, always asking for money and my boyfriend never stands up to her even if it affects me. for example he lent her a car i had just freshly repaired and it costed 1000 dollars just for repairs. two days after we lend it to her she dumps it at a gas station because she pulled random spark plugs under the hood. i dont trust her at all and think shes a terrible person objectively. that being said, context is over, lets get to the point of the post.

She came over to the house one night to clean when i wasnt awake. partner had driven her here. I had paid her 50 dollars to clean the apartment i live in because i wanted to have a clean space again (ive been in a very deep depression) and i wake up at 11 at night and shes talking about punching my teeth in, calling me disgusting, all kinds of shit as shes cleaning up the home i asked her and paid her to clean.

I get up. I try to tell her to leace my home. she argues with me. i pick up the stick behind my door, i told her you need to leave now because im actually going to hit you if you dont. she screams in my face and gets even closer to me so a fight ensued. 

after finally shoving her out my front door and listening to her scream profanities on my front porch and lawn at 12 at night for a while, i told her to find her own way home. 

heres what hurt me: not only did his sister assault me in my own home and get away with it, she was driven home by him that night. in the car, as my boyfriend was driving her home, she texted me and she blamed me for being S/A'd. it still to this day, a couple weeks later, hurts just as bad that my boyfriend would really condone her actions and let her know its okay by driving her home and continuing to interact with her if she calls or texts. how am i supposed to feel?