So today my mother has been diagnosed with BOD (something I suspected for a long time, she is the narcissistic parent that made me this way) and thus we are officially 3 generations of borderline in the family. My grandmother, psychotic subtype. My mother, me and my sister. Generational trauma, environmental triggers, all at once? I’ve been stable for a couple of years but have just entered an episode thank to my mothers undoing of the family and the constant pressure to perform as a parent to both my mother and father. Just needed to vent. What the actual fuck.