31 yo male virgin with no friends. Don't have the time or energy to do much about it as online dating doesn't work (haven't been on social media ever really). 

I'm judged as if theres plenty of things to do about it and I'm just sulking. I've tried things throughout my life.

There just isn't much to do as far as I can tell. What am I supposed to be doing? 

I tried switching jobs, all the dating apps, therapy, bars, meetup, etc. 

My identity sucks. Its not cus I'm whatever orientation/lbgtq thing or anything its just cus my identity sucks as God wants me to know.