My fiance and I live apart for now due to financial issues. So we both live with our parents until we can save up enough to move out. 

Most days, we'll text each other and things go good. He'll ask me what I'm up to, I'll tell him and go "and you?"

But whenever I ask him what's up, he almost always never asks me "and you?"

This is such a stupid thing for me to be upset about. But I have such bad anxiety, and whenever it happens I can't talk myself out of feeling like he just doesn't care? I hate feeling like this and getting upset. It's like if he cared about my day, he'd reciprocate after I ask, and I just hate talking about my day without being asked because I feel like no one wants to hear me, or that if he cared he'd ask.

He has memory problems, and says he doesn't mean to forget, and when I get upset he says it makes him feel terrible. I feel terrible for making him feel that way, too.

Again, I know it's a stupid thing for me to get upset over, but I hate how I feel dread when I ask him and he just doesn't bother to ask me. It's to the point that I literally feel uneasy and nauseous typing it because I know he'll forget, again. So I just say "you didn't ask me what I'm up to", and he'll ask me, but it's like the damage is already done at that point. My whole mood just tanks.

I literally explained to him on Tuesday night how I felt (I've told him this before) and why it was so important to me, and he literally did it again the next day.

I want to stop feeling like this but I can't, and I want him to ask me. 

I know I'm very much not in the right to feel this way, but I don't know what to do.