there are absolutely *zero* problems between us and our relationship is actually really healthy and we communicate our needs with each other and everything but the last relationship i was in ended HORRIBLY. my BPD was basically villainized (a mutual friend of mine and my ex even described the fact that i have an FP as “terrifying”) and it’s been months nearly a year now but i feel so much guilt and i’m scared that things are going to eventually one day end badly with my current FP, even though i know it won’t happen i just can’t help but feel nervous, like paranoid i don’t know what to do or how to make this paranoia go away i love her so much idk what to do :( i want this worry to go away