I don't have BPD, I have a number of loved ones who do and I browse this sub because it's empathetic and gives me some insight into what people who live with BPD go through. But I have always wondered this. The people in my life who experience BPD often just disappear, sometimes for days. From events, their homes, etc. One time a family member disappeared for an ENTIRE DAY and when they came home they said they had been running errands but only brought home 1 jug of milk. I know this is an odd question but, where do they go?