I got diagnosed when I was 21ish, had depression for years before that, grew up in a home where, even though she wasn’t diagnosed, I’m certain my mum also has BPD. I don’t speak to her anymore, we never had a great relationship. I want to have kids someday, I’ve found a partner who sticks with me through thick and thin, we’ve been together years and he’s the best thing that ever happened to me, he wants kids as well. Is it possible to have kids with BPD and for them to grow up in a mentally healthy household? I try so hard but some days it all comes crashing down and I panic about the future, will I be able to cope with children? Give them everything they need? Is it possible? Any good coping skills as well or advice?