I am a 33 year old woman who has worked many jobs since I was young, it’s a struggle to hold them unfortunately, usually two years is my max and then I need a break. I started a new job a little over a week ago in a field I absolutely love, I seriously lucked out getting this job, as though it was meant to be.

Unfortunately the owner of the business spends ten to twelve hours a day there so is always around, and is am extreme control freak/micromanager. This is definitely not me misunderstanding, she does it to all of the staff, there is even a poor young girl she bullies and I find nothing wrong with this girls work ethic or competency. 

Basically I need advice on how to get through the times where she snaps at me. She yelled at me for one sentence today and it was extremely unreasonable and unprofessional. My rage came up so fast I wanted to snap right back, I pushed it back down and did not react but I’m desperate for coping mechanisms, I really need this job. Thanks for your help everyone.