Idk if it’s a common thing or just a toxic trait of mine, but when my mother or any of my friends are upset and in their feelings I can’t help but be pissed at my mother and just annoyed at my friends. This is more specifically directed at my mother who I get extremely annoyed or mad at when she’s sad or depressed (I don’t know if that has to do anything with how she acted in my childhood or the things I had to deal with her). I feel bad but that feeling is always in the back of my mind when they feel like that and I just wanna know is this a common thing or not. (Id Never voice that im mad to any of them for them being sad ofc)