So on Sunday I said to my parents I want to go to the museum on Wednesday with my fiancé. I said to them he is off Monday (I’m busy) and Wednesday. They want him to sign some legal documents for my grandad and they have to do it in front of another person. I said on Sunday call the person to make the appointment. I started planning the day but didn’t book anything. I told my parents the plan I would like to do with times but made it clear I need them to book the appointment for this person so we can change the plans as needed I said the earlier the better (to be precise I said realistically I would like to be at the first museum at 10/10:30) I asked them 3 or 4 times to book the appointment that day after the 4th time they said we are gonna call them tomorrow. Okay fine that’s okay

So Monday comes around 12 i go in to them to see if they have booked the appointment. They said they booked it for 2pm I asked what didn’t they have anything earlier my dad instantly gets defensive and says well I’m not doing earlier their time matters shit like that he’s raising his voice I’m saying well our time matters aswell especiallywhen it a favor we are doing for you guys. He was like well you never gave me a time I said I gave you a plan of what I want to do that day and said I wouldn’t book anything until you made the appointment I said multiple times to book an early appointment. He is shouting at me how I never told him that I then went through the whole conversation we had yesterday (cause I legit write down conversations I have with them sometimes) he was like yeh that conversation happened but I didn’t put 2 and 2 together (like okay but how it that my fault when I was talking about both in the same conversation?) they aren’t letting my Finnish a sentence mum asks what time I said we can still do our plans if you book an appointment before 12 my dad continues to shout about how this lady’s time matters and she works. So I just ask what does our time not matter he basically says the lady’s time matters more my mum screams at me to shut up all of a sudden I just shout nope I’m done keep the stupid appointment I’ll have to put the museum another day and I slam their bedroom door. 


Today my fiancé went upstairs and was sitting with them and asked about tomorrow they was like oh don’t worry we found someone else. I’m so pissed cause my fiancé shouldn’t have had to ask they should have automatically told us and the tickets for the museum are almost completely sold out. I want to go tell them how disrespectful that is how rude etc my fiancé won’t let me. 

Like am I over reacting by being so pissed at this. (Other stuff has happened but it more of a side thing cause of this more just talking about my parents)