Especially as someone with BPD? Trying to navigate this and unsure if I should just come to terms with the fact that not being as close to this person as I’d like to be is just the natural consequence of having been intimate with them. Ideally I’d love to work on coping and communicating to a point where we can be close and where I’m not feeling hurt and jealous and anxious all the time. Not sure if that’s a realistic goal to even work towards.