Try to make a long story short, I graduated HS almost 11 years ago, worked during high school and ever since, only a couple 3 day vacations and with the exception of  a few bad viruses, i've never taken a day off. During that time, my mom got sick, my sister had a miscarriage,  and then 2 kids, we've been doing a never ending addition at my sisters, my brother got married and bought a house..  With the little energy and money my parents have/had it all has went to my siblings... While I've stayed home and taken care of mom.. I've financially supported my parents and my dad with his business. He has paid me very little because hes a financial train wreck. I've also taken care of an elderly couple since i graduated, every year has gotten harder and now they both have dementia. I do everything from doctors visits, snow removal, I talk weekly with their attorney, bring them to funerals..... Which is ok i love them like friends/grandparents but its put a strain on me as well. Aunts and uncles all call me to help them too.

 I'm managed to save a chunk of money over the years though, but never has established credit because I never knew how important it is. Due to everything that has happened, i've always focused on everyone, not myself. Now I need help and don't have anyone. I was always the strong one helping people, my two siblings are high maintenance so even though my sis is 9 years older and my brother is 6 years older, they always received more attention.  

Now i don't know what to do with my life,  I want to leave but i have the old people to worry about. All i've ever done is manual labor so I have no true skills.  I love working with my hands but i'm tired of it. Probably because ive been doing it for 14 years for little to no money... My dad an bro who I work with have huge egos and won't let me do  more. So i'm basically a glorified high schooler to them.  

All i've done is try to be a great son, brother, friend, worker and after looking back on these past 11 years. I wish i left. Now i'm stuck and know what to do. I've tried talking to my family but they are all about themselves.