I hope this isn’t a rule breaker but I’m asking for some advice. I’m 22 years old, and have been attending therapy regularly as well as medication. I’m also looking into finding a DBT therapist as well. However I’m worried because I have two small children. I’m so worried I’m going to ruin them, ruin my relationship with them, or just generally mess things up. My BPD has gotten a lot better since having them and getting married to their dad, however I still have moments once or twice a year with in-laws and what not. I love my kids so incredibly much and all I want them to know is love and happiness. What can I do to make sure they grow up secure and stable?