Is it true that DBT is used to help people become independent?

I heard a lot of people with BPD discussing it and tbh I don't really want it if that's what it mainly does. I'd rather get treatment to help me learn to control myself better than treatment to make me independent.

I've been trying to accept myself as someone who can be pretty clingy at times. I warn my friends before I get close with them so that they can decide if they're ok with being in that kind of friendship.

Selfcare was so hard before I learned the reason I love people so much is because my brain's shape and I don't really want to feel bad about it again.