I only feel kind of comfortable sharing this anonymously since this subreddit is about bpd. So basically my boyfriend cheated on me a little over a year ago and I’ve been obsessing with the girl he cheated on me with ever since. I’ve went from straight up hating her and wishing her dead to now obsessing over her and wanting to be her friend. I currently think of scenarios of hanging out with her and the other day I sent her a message trying to be friendly with her. I’m exhausted of thinking about her all the time. Just wanted to get it off my chest. Idk if anyone can relate? please don’t judge me.