I understand that people being raised by parents with BPD, or dating someone with BPD can be extremely difficult if they’re not treated &amp; make no effort to get help. But these groups make me so upset to look through. It doesn’t seem like they’re venting, it seems like they’re making people with BPD out to be evil. People with BPD aren’t all manipulative and abusive. Half the time we don’t even realize what we’re doing is wrong. I’ve been getting help for a while &amp; trying so hard to change, but it seriously bums me out knowing how much these people resent their loved ones with BPD. Will I ever be able to fall inlove and stay inlove? Will I ever be able to be a good mom? Or will I ruin all people’s lives around me? It’s scary to see the negative stigma those groups are creating. We aren’t evil and we can learn to control ourselves. I am a good person despite my illness :(