Every one has always said my brother is an asshole. I’ve always gotten along with him really well. I’m the older brother. I’ve helped him in every way that I could. His personal success is definitely not because of me or anything, he’s extremely driven. I’ve just always tried to be as helpful as I could. I am very successful as well but I’ve tried to join him with some things and he has just rebuffed me and straight up said no. 

His wife is really mean to my wife and has been for the last decade. My wife has constantly tried to be friends with her and she has consistently blown off any attempt at friendship from my wife. 

They clearly don’t actually like us at all anymore and don’t want to be around us. It just hurts me so bad. I want to talk to him about it but I can’t see him giving a shit.