hi! i’ve loved this person for months, she was the first person i trusted enough to have sex with and I miss her. recently, we were supposed to meet after a while of not seeing her and i was very excited. she said she was gonna do something else and cancelled a day before after i asked her what time we’re gonna meet. turns out, she was upset over something her fp did to her and didnt want me to see her like that. now at that time, i didnt know how deeply connected she was to him because she always complains about him and how she hates what he previously did to her etc. I just thought he was an old friend that she hanged out with because he is fun sometimes. i know its not my place to say anything and ive left her alone for a while. then we met again and she acted like she really loved me and cared about me then it all stopped when she was upset about something else that he did. but i miss her sm and my therapist says its mostly because of her when i overreact to something minor in my life. i dont even know what im gonna ask. i guess this is just a rant about how i love someone whose mood is completely dependent on someone else. how can i help or understand her?