I can never really relate to most people with bpd when it comes to dating. I used to get overly obsessed with my crushes but I think after having my trust broken so many times I’ll get like that at first, but as soon as things get serious I think of every reason to ruin it. I’ve missed out on some great people because I’m afraid I’m not built to last in something long term now but I wanna fix it especially since I really am taking things slow and serious with someone currently. It’s like I crave a relationship but idk how to make it work. Any advice?