I have BPD also. She just found out, and she’s not handling it well. I took the news differently, and I’m trying to figure out how I can support her. I used to always joke about it, and send memes about it, but now I don’t feel like that would help her. I use humor as a way of coping, and I don’t want to upset her.

She’s upset because she’s noticed there are many people that think people with BPD are bad. She’s scared she’s a bad person but didn’t know it. I’m trying to support her the best way possible.

Any words of advice?