Ive been with my boyfriend for over two months now and tonight while drunk he opened up to me about how he can’t deal with my anxiety all the time and how he feels my self harming is his fault, and that he doesn’t want to leave me on my own so he feels held back. I love him more than anything and my self harming is due to self hatred which is not caused by anything he does. I feel like my anxiety is going to ruin our relationship because I find it really hard to hold in my emotions and cry quite a lot which I know he doesn’t like. Does anyone have advice on how to not be so selfish? I want to help myself but now I just don’t know how to cope :(