28M So I’ve been on Zoloft for about 2.5 months, I’ve been feeling much less irritable. A lot happier and have loads of energy to the point where I sleep around 4 hours and I feel great, but don’t look it. Anyways, I had recently opened my heart to a longtime crush, mind you this was after asking a friend and also my crush’s sister if she was seeing anybody. Well I messaged her and It turned out she is seeing  somebody . I feel like crap and I don’t know what to do, she’s been on my mind constantly for the last month and sometimes I can’t sleep. I don’t date much and every time I asks girl out it’s a no. It’s not like I’m ugly. People tell me I’m handsome all the time, I’m tall, and I make pretty good money at my part time job. On top of that I’m going to school to be a nurse. I’m feeling so hopeless and unlucky and it makes me feel like s**t. To top it off the meds have taken away any satisfaction from masturbating as well as ED, which for me is extremely frustrating. I want to really find someone to be with but nowadays the online dating scene is like a murder scene from a movie and I want any part of it. Also it doesn’t help that I’m a shy virgin that’s never had a gf. What can I do to not keep feeling like this? It makes feel like I want to be emotionally numb again