My family had asked for some documents from me and I only had access to PDF version of the documents, I also couldn’t come to their house because I had to wait for a maintenance guy to come to my house. I told them I can email them the PDF and they would have to print it. That’s all I said. They are refusing to talk to me now they won’t even reply to me to let me know if the PDF is ok or not. 

I can’t understand what I did wrong. I’m get really bad anxiety. I said sorry if I was rude over text but no reply back. In the past if they were angry at me they would refuse to speak to me and asking what’s wrong only makes them angrier at me and they give me the cold shoulder longer. 

They will usually ignore me for days to weeks when I say something they don’t like to something they perceive as rude. Once they forgive me they will bring up what I did that they didn’t like every few days. Saying sorry or trying to communicate only makes things worse.

I’m usually ok for the first few days but then I start crying and soon that turns into mental breakdowns. I don’t know what I did that was wrong though I keep rereading the texts I even showed my boyfriend and he says I’m just being straightforward with them and he doesn’t know what I did wrong.