my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months. sometimes i get bored and start picking fights with him to spice it up. i feel uncomfortable when he gives me affection although i need it alot. i feel horrible when i do it because he is a very understanding man that would give his life to me. i need help to stop letting these feelings of boredom ruin my relationship with him. i have no idea what to do when i get bored of him. he suggests small breaks so that i could relax but i cant stand not talking to him a whole day. he is also my FP. can someone suggest ways to fight those feelings of boredom when i am talking to him? this is my first healthy relationship and i do not want to ruin it at all.