I figured this is the best place to ask such a question lol. I know a lot of bpd folks probably take a longer time than others to heal/get over someone. It's been over a year and i'm still not 100% over my ex. But i do want to go out there and find someone yk? At the same time, i feel like it'd be somewhat unfair to the other person if i'm not 100% over someone else. 

So what should i do? I understand that 'waiting it out' and 'take some time to heal' are valid options but damn, i dont know how long that shit is gonna take. I figured i should go out there and try to date and if we catch feelings or something, ill be honest and tell them about my bpd ass struggling to get over people and things lol. What do yall think?