I've been with my fiance for 2½ years now and things have been getting rocky. I have a 3 year old who he absolutely cannot tolerate but claims he loves.. 

I'm just realizing this relationship is basically a dead end and will ultimately be the death of me. He has unrealistic expectations for me and he's not the man I thought he was (thanks to idealizing!) and I'm not happy anymore and haven't been for a while. He's not happy and says I'm the reason for his anger. I don't do what he wants and so he's gonna be a man child about it and have a fit.  He has double standards and gets so aggravated at literally everything.  

I'm a really calm and chill person. I understand shit happens and life is totally unfair. You don't get your way all the time and when you do, be thankful. 

We grew up totally different ways, his mom went into deep debt to make sure he had name brand literally everything. My mom bought me store brand generic shit and I was so happy. Literally nothing is enough for him and even if it is, he will still find a way to bitch. 

I actually left and moved back in with my mom. Since doing so my depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts have basically gone away. I have my days still but it's usually when I have to deal with his tantrums or he says something that triggers me. 

He has absolutely no idea how to deal with mental health. He doesn't even know how to be considerate or anything but selfish and mean. 

I'm slowly moving my things from his place to my mom's.. I have a feeling he knows what I'm doing. I guess Im just waiting on him to no longer by my FP.. I hate this, it's not fair to anyone.