I have severe problems when it comes to  feeling rejection. Usually by a person that I love or have feelings for. Even if they have genuine and legitimate reasons for not seeing or talking to me, like being busy or working or needing to go to bed early, I still see and feel it as rejection. And I can't stop thinking about it and obsess about it. And feel embarrassed and ashamed like they don't want to be with me even though 99% of the time that's not the case. Obviously fear of abandonment is a huge symptom of BPD, but my boyfriend needed to go to bed early tonight and I feel so rejected even though it had nothing to do with him not wanting to see me. Every day he tells me how much he loves me and he has never given me a reason to feel uneasy like this. For those who can relate, any advice on how to cope with it? 