Hey there! My (f20) husband (M20) has BPD. I've been doing my best to learn about this disorder, but I feel the books or articles I read can't compare to people who have experience with it.

I guess what I'm asking is, what don't they tell the people learning about it? What have you learned from your experience? Any advice to help him be more comfortable? Anything you think I may need to know?

Absolutely no pressure to answer these questions if they make you uncomfortable or anything negative. Thank you!