My mother in law is very passive-aggressive, my wife, my son and I live with her. I can’t take it anymore. I just completed five months of residential treatment and came home with the fantasy that I would be able to tolerate her. My wife is telling me I just have to live with it. I can’t take it anymore. I keep having manic anger outbursts.This morning I blew up on her and told her face to face that she was being passive-aggressive. She was cleaning up the breakfast dishes, so I put my plate in the sink and without saying anything, she finished all the other dishes, then walked over to my wife and said tell your husband he needs to do his dishes. I don’t want to leave my son. I feel like I’m stuck and that there is no way to solve this. A bipolar person in a very toxic environment can be very dangerous I believe.