Or if you’ve been in a longer non-married relationship

Did they know how much you struggled before married?

Did you ever go to therapy together?

I ask, because I was talking to my therapist about someone I kinda like a lot and I don’t know, I’d probably chicken out before anything happened anyway. But when my therapist asked if I wanted to take him into my therapy session I started to have an anxiety attack. I don’t know. I’ve told him in passing that I go to therapy because I wanted him to know but I said it really casually so it may not have seemed as serious as it was. 