So I was diagnosed and told that I'd be referred for DBT. I'm under Kaiser (notoriously bad with mental healthcare), which I had to switch to because my old therapist was $150 an hour. I had my first session with my new independent therapist on March 27th, they told me they'd get into contact with me shortly after to schedule my next appointment. They never did, it's May 6th now. So I called them today; I talked to a guy on the phone and scheduled my next appointment with my individual therapist. For June 3rd. June 3rd. He also said I hadn't been officially referred for a DBT group, so I have to wait until after June for that happen too. 

I just wonder, like, why is it this hard to get help? People don't want to work with borderlines so bad because of the stigma, but the disorder gets so much worse when you can't get help. I feel hopeless.