This is not super important but I’m frustrated and need to vent. I’ve worn short sleeves in public only 3 times in the past 4.5 years because I’m ashamed of my self harm scars.

I’m at the point where I’m so fucking done with shame controlling my life and what I wear so I think I want to get a tattoo to cover my scars. But now the issue is that I don’t have an identity to even choose a tattoo. I’m tired of all the shame and lack of a sense of self.