I just recently was diagnosed with BPD, and I've slowly realized how my mind works and coping with BPD. So it was a big move when I confessed to my FP that I had feelings for her. I have never, ever been good with that kind of stuff and the fear of abandonment was scary as shit last night. I don't even know what's going to happen today, I just know for me it was the right/healthy thing to do.