I heard this twice last week. I hate this phrase. I wish so badly that I could just “pull myself together.” If you hurl glass at the floor as hard as you can, can you just “pull it together” after it’s in a million pieces? When I hear this phrase my brain immediately supplements suicide because pulling yourself together, implies a quick fix. It’s impossible. I don’t want to live like this either, but I can’t just pull myself together, otherwise I would have already.