I feel very defeated. I live with my BF (who has Bipolar Disorder and Aspergers) and is currently in a depressive episode. He is self sabotaging himself, our relationship, and those around us.  He is fixating on every negative thing that could possibly happen in the world. He is blaming the universe for every little thing that goes wrong in his life and keeps stating that it’s the “universes plan to hold him back every time he tries to help something or someone”. There is no reasoning with him.  He only believes in his opinions and self deprecating beliefs.  He refuses medication or professional help.  In the past few weeks he has cursed out a new vet (for our cat) because he “wasn’t feeling heard”,  screamed at me for my phone’s camera being shitty (yay IPhone), and just told me an hour or so ago that we should break up because I don’t “understand him”. He’s clearly in an episode and trying to self destroy everything that’s good for him. I don’t know how to help him any more.   Part of his mental disorders is his continuous need to feel like he knows everything. I am emotionally exhausted.  He refuses any sort of medical attention because “he’s smarter”. Weed is his only medicine and there is no hope into getting him on medication that will help manage his symptoms.  I am not sure what I can do for him anymore.