So my girlfriend that has BPD went from texting me every second of the day, wanting to hang out every night to barely texting me and acting like she barely cares about me anymore, is this a red flag? Something just seems off, went from one extreme to the opposite and not sure how I should feel about it.. Honestly, I miss her being so clingy, as weird as that sounds.. Now I don't know what she is thinking half the time.