I have BPD, I'm trans and I am bisexual. Somehow, my existence seems to piss off everyone, even in the LGBT+ community. Per BPD and trans-related issues, I hear "go get therapy". Wow! What an idea! I never thought of that before. Thank you, genius, let me just hop on over and fix my personality disorder and un-trans myself. How enlightening. 

Then I get flack from both gay and straight people for being a slut, being "secretly" gay OR straight, that it's for attention, that I'm more prone to cheat, that I'm this and that and the other thing.

I just want to be left alone. I want a break. I wouldn't consider myself a major BPD/trans/LGBT+ activist, but obviously I advocate for my rights and de-stigmatization of BPD. Regardless, I'm minding my own business, but it seems like everyone wants to drag a minority I'm a part of into some shitty discourse.

I could have it worse, I recognize that; I couldn't imagine being all of this, and impoverished, AND/OR a POC, AND/OR how I would be treated in a different country. Still, I can't help but to feel so tired.

There is three separate narratives that people with BPD, trans folk and bisexual folk are predatory. By that logic, I'd be the major predator, right? But I'm not, and therapy has taught me that I'm doing what I need to do, and caring for myself helps me care for others.

But I guess I'm still bothered about this.