Hi! I don't have BPD, but I am curious about a few things since my girlfriend has a BPD exam soon and I hope it's ok if I ask a few questions here?

* Are there any symptoms that are 'hidden' or not spoken about often?

* Are people with BPD more violent than people without? (I mean absolutely no offence with this question!)

* Can a celebrity be your FP if you have BPD?

* Do you have long-term feelings of sadness / anger or is it a constant state of switching?

* Do you have a sense of who you are? Your identity?

* How would you support someone with BPD?

Thank you in advance! Her exam isn't until next month but I'd like to do as much research as I can :)