I 35F just ended things with the guy 36M I was dating for a few months. For context, I’m BP1 medicated, and according to him he’s also bipolar as diagnosed by either a psychologist or psychiatrist (he can’t recall) but he doesn’t believe it and he doesn’t take meds. I met him through online dating, and when we finally saw each other, he turns out to be morbidly obese as in 300plus pounds, walks really slowly, and sometimes he’d need assistance from some guy he’d hire to help him walk (this guy was also his backup driver). At first I thought I could live with his physical state, because it seemed we could carry a conversation, he’s smart, self employed and driven, and he seemed interested in me at the start. Unfortunately, I noticed that when I would seek small forms of support from him through chat (we couldn’t meet so frequently as he claims he’s busy with work and other stuff), he’d just reply with one word answers or sometimes just have no reaction. This happened even when i said I wasn’t feeling well. He kept saying he’s busy and he replies like that to friends and clients. I said that we don’t see each other so often, so i was hoping we’d make up for it through chat. I wasn’t unreasonable, I didn’t demand for him to reply asap or anything like that. Heck, I didn’t even hound him with missed calls and the like. I was also willing to overlook the lack of physical intimacy due to his obesity, if he would have been a little more caring and supportive. Finally I decided that I wasn’t okay with so little. I did check my mood as well. I also talked to someone I trusted before i decided that it would be better to end things. Maybe he has his own issues that he can’t resolve. I really don’t know. Here’s hoping those of you like me would be able to find peace whether alone or in a relationship. Hugs!