So, me and my gf are together since almost 3 years.
Since 2 year i know She Is depressed, and since 1,5 year She often has some sorta of "Crisis".
Sometimes She Just Wakes up and feels nothing. She will lay in bed doing nothing for a couples of weeks and everytime i just can't help her. It happens always the same way, idk how to help her, i try different things, she says i'm useless and thay is better if i just go away, after sometimes i will go away, cause i have my problems to think about too (can't sleep, really strugglign with uni, i know her problem is worse for sure but i can't leave my things too...). Then she will just feel better and everything will be good again. But i don't want her to see me as the guy who runs away everytime she needs something, and i really don't know how to help her also cause i never had a problem like this (i surely dont feel good but i'm not depressed)
So i was hoping someone who has/had those kind of problem could give me some advices... She has no money for a paychologue and won't me to pay for it..
I hope i did not do too many grammar mistakes, sorry for my english