So, 

A friend of mine just fell in hard depression again. I met her via online Dating and we really had a good time until the depression, which also could be triggered by the dates with me, started again. She told me that she is depressed because of her ex-relationship and thats why i think dating again could trigger fears that lead to here depressive state right now. We did not have to much contact for a month and also dates where shifted/cancelled in the mean time. I started to try inform myself about the topic, but whith this i dont know act. I know that she is not rejetive due to me or something like this, but when i trie to reach out to her (and she rlly needs someone right now) she is not agreeing to me visiting her just to talk or at least to not be alone. So the quetion in the end is, if just going to here place and ringing, at the door,  without her agreement (she does not have any energy for people, is what she says) is a good idea in order to help her ?