So, background. I haven’t been single for an extended period of time in a few years. Relationship hopping etc. recently my ex dumped me, he dumped me 11 days ago. I met a guy 3 days after he dumped me. Me and that guy have been flirting since then and are basically dating, I told him I wanted to wait. It’s been a week since me and that guy hit it off.... I really want to make it official but I don’t know if it’s bpd. 