I was recently diagnosed with BPD, and i have NO clue how to tell my family. I hide all my symptoms/ traits when possible so they only really know that I'm self conscious, depressed, and that I self harm; they don't know that I have disordered eating, abuse substances whenever possible, I dissociate a lot, I can't hold a stable friendship for more than 6ish months, and that I'm extremely suicidal. If I told them they'd question me and I can't deal with being doubted about this, but i also can't deal with showing them my true self. I know i should though, how have you guys done it?

Tl;Dr: read the title.