I was discarded I think for the final time around 30 days ago…at this time I had no idea about BPD…I just thought my ex had severe anger and anxiety issues….but after speaking to my therapist she mentioned BPD so I did some reading. She has cheated on me a few times and made up crazy Lies that no normal healthy person would tell about the situation. I still loved her anyway. I know her upbringing was fucked up. I developed some pretty bad codependent issues during all of the cheating and lying….to this day I just want to reach out and tell her that I haven’t and would never abandon her. I know we can’t be friends or romantic but I want her to know that I’ll always be there for her as a person. But I feel like I’m “all bad” to her at this point….I just miss my friend.