I've been seeing this guy in a romantic setting for a while, over a year. He's not officially my boyfriend, mostly because of his dedication to law school. I have my BPD pretty under control most of the time due to years of DBT but i still have things that get to me, but thats another post for another time. That's the backstory for my question. Now here comes the actual question relating to bpd...If I don't see him after a week or so, I become insanely paranoid, insecure and pessimistic about how he feels about me and what we have. When we're together in person or see each other on a regular basis I feel great. I've almost left him a few times after spending a month or so apart because I become so down. Has anyone else experienced this? I'm wondering if this has to do with my BPD or something else...