What are your experiences with being cheated on? How did you cope? How are you doing now? I’m still in the relationship. He broke my trust in a myriad of ways, but I want to believe it was about his insecurities and not because he’s a shitty person. He chose to take the actions to betray me and fantasize about other women. I told him about my previous experience with being cheated on, and about my BPD and he still chose to cheat. I had a feeling something was up and was right. Is there a chance for forgiveness and redemption or am I just codependent?