Hey there, M(26, kinda attractive I guess) here. How do ya'll meet FPs? I've had a few but mostly through very random events in the last year.

Before I've met them through school, work or friends but I don't have any of that now (I'm working freelance, thanks to all the gods).

It's just, I feel ready for another serious relationship but I am not really good at finding people whenever I want.

I feel like I've learned (through solitude and some tries and failures) to internalize all the bad things that BPD means and am ready to have a normal relationship. 

Heck, I don't even care about normal, just tell me where to meet at least semi-desperate people that would potentionally approach me, guys.