He has no friends and refuses to talk to anyone. He doesn't want to take antidepressants nor talk to a therapist. It's been going on for three years and neither me nor my parents knew about it. My dad brought him to a psychiatrist today and he refused to open up, the psychiatrist said that he was depressed. Please help. He doesn't want to get better, he's hurting everyday because hatsune miku is his favourite person in the world and he'll never get to meet her. He's created some sort of utopia where he's married to her and his room is full of her figurines, posters, pillows, etc. Im scared. he cried really badly when he got an email "inviting" him to join the military( it's compulsory for men where i live). ive never heard anyone in that much pain before. my parents went in to talk to him and he let is slip that he'd been obsessed with her for three years and crying a lot in his room without anyone knowing. he wasnt aftaid of going to the army, he just couldnt bear to "leave" hatsune miku. he was just dead set on not going, like he'd rather die than leave her. he wants to flee the country, which is illegal. im really scared because he refuses help and im afraid that he'll comit suicide. for those past few years we havent said anything to each other either, im not quite sure how it started but he didnt reply me one day after an argument and we just started ignoring each other's presence. my dad is really stressed out. his options are to speak to the psychiatrist for advice; but first of all the psychiatrist doesn't want to talk to parents one on one(standard protocol in my country or something) and second he doesnt want him to find out and feel like he betrayed him. he could also send him to a mental hospital but hes afraid that thatll only make it worse and that hell comit suicide before we even get there. He leaves his room for probably two minutes at most a day. im really worried and scared. im going to delete this soon in case he somehow finds it. sorry for the long post, someone please help and give some advice im really young idk what to do i dont want to lose him and all this stress is really really bad for my dads liver and he might not make it for another year. side note my brother's able to get excused from the army for mental health issues