We are afraid to expose ourselves. We are worrying that worry itself becomes an all encompassing thing that steals our present moment and delivers monologues of possible future talks, sometimes justified, many times uncalled for, unproductive, senseless and baseless of fundamental truths. We are afraid to become selfish. We are afraid to look stupid and we talk before hand in futile mind exercises with avatar people in our heads. We catch ourselves in this exercise sometimes late in the party and we arise from a slumber of words and worry. We are afraid to expose ourselves to the ridicule. But the ridiculous is fun. Looking stupid is part of being confident. Never any human has been confident with the fear of looking stupid. They act in full knowledge they can fail, and that sets them free. Go, and be free in the world, unabashedly knowing you can or cannot, either way, is fine.