My husband keeps gaslighting me but doesn't realise. I have been doing intensive therapy and my psych keeps pointing out times my husband manipulates me. I had no idea and now I know I can see it when it happens. Idk  what to do. Tonight he gaslight me when I was cleaning and I ended up in a yelling fight. He didn't even know what gaslighting is. I tried to explain it to him and he apologised. I feel crazy and stupid. I wonder if things would be better if I didn't know about the manipulation.