Long story short: recently I have been into close contact with someone with BPD. We got into a fight, and now things are cold and distant unfortunately, and of course I do miss her. It was partly my fault, partly her fault.

Afterwards, she told a friend of mine that I was one of the few persons that ever understood her and knew her well. Now I'm just wondering: what are the best things you can do to support someone with BPD and stay close them?