I have a crush on my friends brother who is the same age as myself. He just got out of a really toxic and abusive relationship with a girl with bpd. I really like him and care about him a lot. I am not expecting to get together straight away or anything but I would like to in the future. But I’m really scared about being with him bc I’m scared of retraumatisinh him . I don’t want to make him feel the way his ex made him feel . AT ALL. I am really afraid that I’ll say the wrong thing and upset him. I care about him . Yuck I hate favourite person HAHAH. But I guess what do u guys do to make sure you don’t repeat bad patterns in future relationships? I would love to know boundaries you have all set