I keep having arguments with a roommate/close friend of mine. She often tells me she has no emotional energy to be there for me, yet shares her struggles and gets angry when I say something upsetting. I have seen her help others, and I breaks me. She has been a v close friend and after she got romantically involved with a guy she has no room for me.

Tonight we had an argument because I said something that angered her. I went to my room and in hysterics sh . Yet she won't reach out to make sure I'm okay even tho I've told her about it and that I've been su. 

I'm scared she will just say it is my BPD / BP2 and then ignore the issue. Idk what to do, I've been keeping myself at an emotional distance with her and it has helped. BUT when I say one thing she doesn't like she blew up at me in front of my other roommate. 

Idk I'm having a v hard time on what to do and needed to tell people that understand.