okay guys so it’s been one appointment. i asked her licensing n how she felt about bpd. she made a few comments such as “people with bpd have the tendency to put everything on their therapist..” then continued to finish the sentence (i forgot what the rest was)
she alsostereotyped ppl woth bpd by saying we have problems taking accountability. i corrected her letting her know that’s more so a person to person thing rather than a bpd thing. 
i’m also young yet i am diagnosed with bpd, i exhibited signs for over a year n that is my diagnosis from my first therapist. this woman was questioning if i had bpd at all saying i’m probably much more normal than i thought, it’s been 30 minutes on the phone u have absolutely n o idea i am batshit. of course i will appear to be calm, cool collected, the way i want to appear in a moment like this where it is vital i remain cool calm collected to give information. 
i really want a therapist but also don’t know if this could be possibly damaging in the long run.