I've been meeting new people regularly, some of which seem to be possible good friends. I've already messed up some of them, even though we met only 5 times. Now I want to start over and prepare the people I meet with the consequeces of being friends or more with me. 

Does anyone have some tips or anything on how I can explain/warn people about what it's like to be friends with a BPD? Without overwhelming them or scaring them away.