my fp who is also my boyfriend is becoming tik tok famous. i’m very happy for him, especially since he’s an artist and he’s getting more reach and becoming more popular. the only issue is i’ve been getting really jealous with the comments he gets on his account. i know he loves me and wouldn’t cheat on me now, but he’s been unfaithful to me in the past before when we first started dating. him and i have been together for almost four years now, and i want to be supportive of him without being irrationally irritated and jealous with his followers. they literally will flirt and DM him and say things that crosses boundaries. he likes the attention (let’s be real, who wouldn’t want thousands of people calling them hot) i just get scared that he’ll flirt back or abandon me, especially since he’s getting a platform. i don’t want him to forget about me. i swear i want to throw up looking at his comments. please how do i cope w this? i hate myself and feel like a terrible partner.