Hello, my bf has been going to therapy for 8 month now. His therapist told him that he has symptoms of BDP and that she is not sure that he should go with someone specialized in that field to determend it. He did some tests online and in all them he matched. When i saw that tests, i also knew he would match because many of those things are so him and his behaviors. I would like if some of you could tell me does it recognise this behaviors as BDP and how should I react to them? I would add that as a child he was monited, controlled, his mother would not let him do and learn things by himself because she was always terrified something would happen to him. So....
He had suicidal thoughts. He has mood swings, goes from 0 to 100. One day he would die without me, the next day he acts like i dont exist. He has autority problems, if i say please dont do it  - he has to. Has episode of complete numbness almost to the point of just existing or overworks himself at work. Doesent reply to his friends for days because he doesent deserve them so he doesent want to bother them. Or he would go to the extreme to do anything for friends because he feels like they would leave him if he is not around all the time. He was always unhappy with his body, thinking he is ugly/ fat. Many times he asked me how can i be with him. He is very impulsive, he would come up with a tattoo for a day and book the appointment. When he gets angry, he doesent know what he is saying and to who, he becomes so heartless. In arguments, if he is not right, he will punch himself or hit his head against the wall because he hurted me.