I get super intense with difficult people and I tend to obsess over what they do. I also have ADHD and depression and all of it has been turning me into a wreck. I can't stop obsessing over this one customer who yelled at me over 60 cents and my immediate reaction is to think that he hurt me for fun. I've been getting these violent fantasies about him and I just can't shake it off. I start physically shaking to the point of tears, it's been happening on an almost daily basis. Does anyone also have to deal with intense violent thoughts? How do you deal with them?