 It's hard for me to believe that it's been 2years. It feels like it just happened yet as if he's been gone for 10years.. I've recently been looking a post on the internet with so many people posting about the chapter 2 and how react to them dating again. Some have moved forward within a few months to happiness and people judge them.  People have moved forward within a couple years to happiness and people judge them. While other people never moved forward again and people judge them for that.  There truly is just not a right or wrong and those of you looking from the outside side in- you have no right to judge a widow/widower about how fast or slowly they decide to find happiness. It's lonely and sucks being alone. It's so so so lonely and none of this means we will ever forget our spouse. how could we?