for me, i really feel like my bpd mainly affects my romantic relationship. i rarely split on anyone else besides my partner and almost all of my anger outbursts are directed towards them. i don't know if this has to do with the fact that my partner has been with me for four years and definitely was the closest person to me when my bpd started developing? they are also the only person i really let in for a long time because of issues with feelings of abandonment and neglect that stemmed from my parents. i feel so guilty that they seem to receive the brunt of everything and i'm really trying to work on it but does this happen to anyone else?