My bf (24) broke up with me(25) a week ago because he was too busy with college and too depressed (ldr btw) and a relationship was too much for him and my bpd and his depression clashed with eachother  I stopped messaging him the day he broke up with me and now he messaged me saying he missed me and dont want to lose me and i asked if this was a break and he said yes and I told him I dont want him fooling around with other ppl even if this is a break then and he said he wont cuz i dont like that even tho in the past he had breaks where that thing was allowed and it Didnt bother him if there was consent and feels bad how I reacted and made him feel like a masive degenerated slut can people tell me positive experiences with breaks? Am I begin too judgemental cuz him viewing that different makes me upset?? Would like to hear you guys about it ;; I'm extremely stressed about it