Tw: obsession, stalking, identity disturbance 


When I was 19 I got with this girl who now is the mother of my 8 year old child. She had an ex at the time that she had talked about in the past and I started to get obsessed w him. Why did she like him so much? What’s so great about him? I stalked him a lot on Instagram I remember. He then got a tattoo so I got tattoos a lot lol he got a bike so I got a bike .. god this is embarrassing. I got my BPD diagnosis recently but man I was out of line and it went unnoticed for so long. Would you share your obsession/stalking story so I don’t feel so alone? Also I don’t do this anymore thank god but it was pretty bad at that time, it lasted like 5-6 years too :(