For two years I had an obsession with changing my hair. It wasn’t necessarily that I liked to change it. I would just all of a sudden decide that I really liked a certain hairstyle and finally found “my look”. However, looking back I can see that those two years were the most difficult of my life and right before every major mental breakdown I had drastically changed my hair. I wish I noticed the pattern before... I probably could have used a warning. Changing your hair or looks often seems to be a thing in the BPD community, but usually it’s associated with an unstable self image or something like that. Has anyone else experienced something similar?