ok so i went to online dating reddit page and I was asking for advise from people who have more experience in online dating. I explained how offering my phone number gives me anxiety. then i got comments, the first was legitimately understanding telling me to take my time. but then not long after I get told, basically that because i have phone anxiety he thought id 'flake out' on every date.... I'm sorry dude just because my phone anxiety is fairly bad with new people doesn't mean I'm a coward! I set deals I keep them. I just dont understand why people assume that anxiety makes you scared of EVERYTHING and the words "flake out" pisses me off!