I feel like because I’m constantly expecting rejection or to be slighted, I bring it about even in situations where it’s very unlikely. For example, I’ve been on and off with my guy for almost 2 years and he’s def got some issues himself, can be very narcissistic and cruel at times and will go silent on me regularly. Well, I for a total ACL reconstruction Thursday and he promised to check in and come see me, and has completely disappeared. I knew he might do this, I was dreading it. But it hurts really bad