I am in a number of relationships and at the beginning going into them everything was fun. It was very casual. Now I have to give each of the relationships my full time if anything is to come from them and to be honest in pretty much every relationship I have been in certain things have happened that cause me to resent the person. There are a number of draining relationships I also don't want to be in, and they have continued to exist long after I have brought attention to the fact they cause me to be unhappy. I basically have the option to overlook openly offensive content directed towards me or say nothing, or agree with the content or else the repercussions could be significantly worse. This doesn't happen to everyone either. I feel like an odd case here. Its safe to say most if not all of my relationships are not in the best place right now, perhaps this will change. My outlook may not be the best at this time and I have to be honest with myself about this. I also can't share this with anyone though or they may hold it over me.

Any ideas on what to do here?