If someone doesn’t want to be your friend. Never take it personal. Most of all, respect their wishes. I would spend so much time analyzing why I’m not good enough? Is it really me? What did I do? Begging and pleading for this person to be my friend. Then the cycle repeats. Apart of me couldn’t accept to hear those words “I’m sorry. But we cannot be friends anymore. It’s not you, it’s me”. 

Or being denied of a job. It literally felt as if my heart is being crushed on. Everything felt so personal. In reality, a lot of people get job rejections. I couldn’t stop literally comparing myself to people or their accomplishments. 

Who ever reading this. Just know you’re capable and special! Don’t let the abandonment trigger you. Take rejection as a stepping stone. Walk with your head held high!