It's too complicated. I think I got convinced to delete negative stuff. The weird thing is that he's not trying for custody. I'm a good mom or at least really try very hard to be. He's saying some weird things tonight. Wants a better life insurance policy on me even if I don't consent he said. He made it clear that he's not fighting for even joint custody which seemed so strange to me. He just wants our other joint funds from up to 20 yrs together. 401K, retirement, the house, so many of those kind of things. I thought I was entitled to 50%, but he's trying to leave the kids and take 100%. I'm feeling so overwhelmed. 