Hello. 

As you can see from the title i just got diagnosed with BPD at the age of 27. Although i've always new this could be the reason of my relationships failing. But the fact that i always attract the most weird girls in my life (meh, always blame the other) made me think it was just the chemistry between us and not the BPD issue that i have. Deep inside i always hoped it was nothing and just a case of anxiety or trust issues based on the weird relationships with my parents and other things that happened in my life. And when reading about people with BPD i always felt so related to the issues. But at that point i was to scared to go to a psychiatrist. 

After 4 months of doing tests and having bi-weekly appoints with my psychiatrist. She just flatout told me. You have BPD and  all the symptoms of depression. But i'm glad i did this, know i can start schema therapy within a few weeks and hopefully learn to deal with most of the drama.

Do you have any tips? And how did you handle it? 

Although deep inside i've always knew. It's really weird to deal with it, nothing really changes, but yet again it feels like my whole world is falling apart. And i feel bad for al the relationships that are lost. With the diagnose it feels like most things where my mistake because i was the guy with BPD.

