I love intimacy cuddling/kissing/being held but when it comes to sex and sex related stuff I go blank. I never used to be like this I used to be able to enjoy sex without worrying but now even sexting I can't do. I get this feeling of guilt, I'm not confident enough to even send a few words to him. I want to be like most people and be able to sext and phone sex. I know it sounds silly but its means a lot to me. I'm not sure how to explain myself I'm sorry for this post. I know this isn't the same for the majority of the people here I wish I was more like you guys, not worrying if you're enough and make your partner happy. My partner reassures me that I don't need to do this stuff to make him happy I think he's just being a gent though, It must bother him. How do you accept love? I don't wanna stay like this.