Idk Ik some people would just confront it. But I hate confrontation and I doubt people would be honest. I’d rather just fall back and basically ghost, which is something I hate when is done to me but explaining why is so pointless. People usually lie and bs their way out of it lol. 

Bruh why is consistency and reassurance so hard to find in people. That’s all i want and I know it’s a lot but I don’t think it’s one sided. I try my fucking best whilst getting the absolute bare minimum in return. I’m kinda over it.