Hello everyone! First time posting so hopefully this post is okay I'm just kinda lost on what to do. I (16F) have really gotten into houseplants and plants in general. I've always been a worrier over little things and its the main way my anxiety shows ig. I started off just diving headfirst unintentionally and I have 16 plants. I've been lucky and all have done well so far and I have only lost one. My problem is I am very very worried about them or constantly on edge. I love the learning experience and stuff I get but whenever something seems off it always sends me into a tizzy. Some plants of mine are more important than others or have more sentimental value in a way. Like my caladium is the first plant that ever flowered for me. A recent example of this is two plants of mine, both important to me are having a possible issue. And its just sent me. I'm so worried and researching and questioning every decision I do with them and then regret it and just worry worry worry about it. It just causes me a lot of anxiety when they have issues and more than what would be deemed normal. I understand its normal to feel a little worried and just do what you can and wait but I am just constantly obsessing and worrying about them and if I lose them I feel like a failure unless its something I didn't cause or couldn't do anything for. My mom always tells me "they are just plants" and "to relax" but its so hard to get the concept for me. I treat them like I do my rabbits or horse in a way. How do I learn that they are just plants and its not a big deal if something happens and that I can be a little sad but not freak out? I really enjoy them and don't want them to be a stressor.