My boyfriend finally had enough of my episodes and in a huge fight last night he dumped me. I live with him and we have a life together so I’m completely heartbroken and stressed out. I have no idea where I’m going to live.
I begged and begged him all night not to break up with me. This morning he said we would talk about it when we come home from work. I’m hopeful that this means he has calmed down some. He has broken up with me a few times in the past and taken it back. But I’m scared for this time. He said “I can’t keep going back on what I say” which makes me think he’s actually done. He also has BPD but his is much more controlled. 
Since this breakup came during a huge fight do you think he will cool down and change his mind? I’m so devastated right now.