So I am the most indecisive person in the world and recently had a really bad BPD episode that almost made me impulsively breakup with my boyfriend of around 2 years. We are doing good as of today, but some things have changed and he is having to move into an apartment by the end of the year. He is asking me to move in with him and if you had asked me a year ago it wouldn’t even be a question, I would have said yes. But, I am so worried now that I may have another episode and it will be worse and not only will we break up, but I will have to co-lease an apartment with an ex. I have expressed some of these concerns with him and he responds by saying “well I don’t plan for us to break up” and I understand that, but I just know how I am and am super worried about this whole thing. I want to move in with him because it has been so hard living between houses for around a year, but I am just not confident in myself at the moment to not hurt him. Any advice? Any experiences that you have had that are for or against moving in with someone before marriage?