i think BPD/depression is affecting my memory. my friends will talk about this funny incident that happened within the last year, and i wont remember at all. or when i look at a photo of a fun moment, i hardly even remember what was going on in that moment that made it so fun. i seem to forget important info about my friends like their music tastes or their birthdays. theyve told me this info several times but i keep forgetting and it makes me seem like a bad friend. i love my friends so much and i feel like they think i just smoke too much weed but i really think its my BPD acting up. does anyone have any advice on how to combat memory loss? and how to deal with friends who feel hurt by your lack of memory on them?