Hello, Not sure how something like this usually goes, but here's the gist of it.  One of my sisters is unwell.  Me and my family have recently had the revelation that all her strange behavior that we all brushed off ( for some reason, which the ability to articulate escapes me) was warning signs of something greater.  We didn't pay attention, and now its clear she is in a full blown mental break.  My family and I are not close, none of us except me and a couple of my sisters.  she is not one of the ones Im close with if Im being completely honest.  But she's at the point now where she's posting INSANE videos on her new youtube channel where she just rants nonsensically about.....well its indescribable.  But needless to say we are all caught off guard by how bad its gotten, and how far gone she is now.  Im in my mid 30's, sisters are in their 20's, none of us are rich, and can simply pay to have her get the care she needs.  None of us are in position to help, we all work all the time and are just getting by.  I feel completely helpless, like I failed her, like we all utterly failed her, and now she's off the deep end with no one that can really help, because she's an adult and can make her own choices.  If she doesn't CHOOSE to get help, whether it be therapy, or more likely medication at this point, what can anyone do?  is there anything I can do ? how can you even help?  Could we have done anything anyway, had we paid attention and noticed the signs? or was this always going to happen?  what do people do in theses situations? Im completely lost, would appreciate any help, thanks for your time.