Over the past few weeks i’ve started seeing this really attractive girl. We’ve seen each other almost everyday for the past 3 weeks, been on some dates, she’s stayed around mine a lot and we’ve been sleeping together.  I’m really enjoying my time with her and don’t want it to end and i hope she feels the same. We’ve spoke about making it official but it isn’t solidified yet.

I have some reasons to be anxious about it ending though:

1. We were somewhat speaking about 3 months back and she went back to her ex who she’d broke up with a year prior. Her ex is a friend of her family and she had recently had a relative pass away so they’d spent some time together because of that, and had rekindled something or were at least sleeping together. She said it was for comfort reasons. For whatever reason, it ended, she wouldn’t tell me why. I had my suspicions at the time but she wouldn’t tell me they were back on. So i have a feeling i’m being used as a rebound in a way. This dishonesty left a sour taste in my mouth but i chose to overlook it because she was grieving.

2. I’m having some academic, personal issues currently and i’m worried she won’t tolerate them any longer. It’s only going to be for the next month or so but I’m unavailable a lot of the day and am only available in the evening, including weekends. She complains about this a lot. She mentioned it yesterday and asked why i never take her on nice dates because we usually go to the same two locations if we go out. This made me realise i’ve been neglecting her slightly. 

3. I’m now away for the next three days and i’m worried that in this time she’ll just realise she doesn’t want me anymore and she could be with someone more readily available.

Like i said she’s a very good looking girl with no shortage of options and i’m getting very anxious