(Gf of 2 years) I fucking hate the BPD sometimes because I dont know when it is BPD or not liking the relationship in general. She has not been putting a lot of effort in our relationship for the last few weeks and it sucks, she isolates and goes back to using unhealthy coping methods. I don’t want to break up with her but i just want her attention and that everything goes back to normal. 

Just venting i guess don’t know what to do