Hey! So im trying to get better. All of my relationships (friends and romantic) have been so on and off and the reason is because I let my insecurities and fear drive my process. And I'm tired of it. I've been researching articles on how to overcome abandonment issues, and how to stop fixating on negatives and be in the present but nothing is really helpful? I just keep getting articles telling me that people with BPD are horrible people and abandonment issues are unfixable which hurts like a motherfucker. Does anyone have any tips?