I have this one friend I am OBSESSED with and I really hate it. I don't want to lose them, but I do want to stop being so obsessed with them. I know that moving on takes time, but I know that if I stop talking to them for so long, I'll entirely lose them. I don't know if that would mean limiting how much I talk to them, forcing myself to think differently about then, etc. I still really value them and I want to continue valuing them, just not in the unhealthy way I've been currently. Is there any way to manage the two?