I ruined another relationship and my ex told me that I had to start going to therapy. I’ve been looking into it for a while and I finally found a female therapist who specializes in DBT! I was so excited to think that things could get better. I called him to tell him about it and he hung up on me. He obviously doesn’t owe me anything but I am just crushed. I was so dependent on him and I don’t really have family support so I feel like I’m facing this alone and it’s daunting. This is such a miserable existence