Hey guys, 

Could really use some advice right now. Some back story: was dating a girl for a while and really loved her. About a month ago, I had some extreme stress stemming from work and I ended up splitting her absolutely black after an argument one night and broke up with her. I blocked her phone number and social media immediately, but she reached out to me on some texting app.. That made the splitting worse and I told her to stop otherwise I would contact authorities about her harassing me. I would hear from her periodically for about a week and a half after (on the same texting app) with long paragraphs, etc. and I just ignored them. Then it was radio silence for a bit until I ran into her at a restaurant. That night, she sent me more paragraph messages and I did not respond and just blocked that number too. Now it's been about a week and a half and I haven't heard from her, but her Tinder profile just popped up on my feed-meaning she reactivated it. We met on the app so just seeing her profile brought back memories of when I first began talking to her and now I can't stop thinking about how great she was. I feel terrible for splitting her and I want to talk to her but I am not sure if it's too late and I've already done too much damage?  Should I unblock her and reach out? Part of me says yes part of me feels like a monster and it would be better for her to not have me in her life any longer. Idk what to do :( please help sorry for the rant/ramble. 