Can you guys share some good things that have happened that you thought were impossible due to BPD/trauma?Anything from tiny little slivers of hope to great big *life* stuff. 

I’m 25 and all I can think about is how my life is essentially over because of the irreparable damage I’ve done on everything - my finances, my criminal record, relationships, employability, my reputation, my mental/physical health.


I’m slowly making my way through a DBT workbook, trying to work on myself and all that jazz. It all feels a bit hopeless though, like the life I wanted for myself is permanently out of reach and the life I have now is beyond repair. 

What has happened/what did you do to give yourself a small belief that things really can get better?