Because I was mad at her. She told me shes not sure if I love her, she tells me that every single day for two years now. Ive done everything I can think of, from a to z, from black to white, I have nothing more to give.

I told her that I was done with this argument because she tells me that every single day of my life, I got mad. It makes me doubt myself in every way

She then told me i’m a narcs, that I have no empathy and that I dont listen even though I listen to this same story every single day!

She says she dont feel the connection but I do! thats why I keep telling her that if she believe that I loved her she would be opened to it, and that im starting to think shes doing projection, maybe she says I dont love her because she doesn’t love me  

I dont know why I ask this here instead of relationship subreddit, Its just... I assumed you guys would understand

Am i acting right? Is it ok to get mad after you’ve depleted everything? Am I heartless for not listening to her tonight and setting bondaries?

I am starting to lose my mind it seems I dont know if I am a good person anymore, or if this is my fault or not or if I should or should not do something

I am a bit lost tbh

Do you guys relate to her?