Even though your significant other shows you their love and constantly tells you how much they love you? Like I'm in a temporary somewhat long distance relationship at the moment and I just cried happy tears after receiving a bunch of love letters and reading them but I'm still scared, and it's like there's another person in my head telling me not to fall for this and showing me his flaws and my flaws. And that I have to still find ways to keep him. It's pathetic. I'm not sure if this is a symptom of bpd or insecurity. But bpd stems from insecurity. Sometimes there's two me's. Not literally, like I don't hear voices, but it's just the other me making me insecure and being mean basically. It's messed up... I'm still scared he's going to leave me but I love him with all my heart and I know how I really feel about him. Can anyone relate?