I know it goes both ways and takes two to tango...but the past few months my mum has been so hard to be around. And because of this I’ve been hostile too so our relationship is so awful at the moment.

She says it’s me but I’ve spoke to several people about the situation and they can see that it’s not just me acting out of control..I feel like it’s getting to a point where we can’t go back and we’re going to get to a point where we despise eachother. I don’t want that to happen but I’m so bad at showing I care and at the moment I resent her because she’s been so nasty for so long. I need an unbiased outsiders point of view on what to do?

My mum is diagnosed BPD and I have mixed PD, avoidant PD and I’m apparently emotionally unstable so I’m not the full shilling myself but I feel like I’m the only one being half responsible in the situation..