So me and my bf have been dating for 2+ years. In the beginning we would sleep together up to 4 times a day. Now, once a week? I have a pretty high libido but he just doesn't ever engage when I try to start something and he hardly ever begins or brings it up himself.

Ive asked him many, many times if he still wants me, if his libido is low, if he's seeing someone else, if I do something wrong or if there's ANY reason at all. He said that there's nothing wrong and he's just "old" (jokingly). He is 28 and I'm 22. 

It makes me go insane.  Every time I see him I am anxious about wether or not we will have sex. If I look good enough to touch, if I'm not too pushy or too distant. He just goes about his day and is acting childish all the time(think tickling, jokes, making weird noises). Which makes it pretty hard to make it "sexy" 


He's left my nudes on seen, doesn't engage in dirty talk when I start... He used to be very different when we started dating and I just wish he would tell me what's wrong. I even asked him if he's gay at one point 💀

Would love to hear opinions. I just want to be wanted and loved and touched. It makes me so insecure and I split on him so many times bc of it because it just makes me nervous and irritated with him.