 I think I can make a good partner,i'll give you your space,we don't have to talk everyday,I try to intentionally not put myself in the center of everything.  
but If there's one thing that can flip my "crazy bitch" switch is when i'm sending a serious message and I KNOW they see it but instead of replying, they let it fester because that's how they like to deal with it or whatever, knowing damn well how shitty that will make me feel.  
and when i try to bring it up,and explain this behavior puts me in distress,99% of the time i get gas lighted into thinking i wasn't ignored and i just "make it about me".  
And the funniest thing is,i'm the least clingy person that can be,I'm a loner and an introvert by default.  
Going on 25,I now realize this isn't part of my personality,this is strictly my BPD acting up whenever i'm being put into these situations. it's seriously exhausting.  
I know i'm worthy and i know i'm a damn good partner even with my emotional struggles but I still end up feeling like what's the point of trying.