I am a male in my 30s.  I wish she knew how much she was hurting me, my brother and my dad.  I'm trying to read more about BPD.  I'm trying to be more understanding.

The questions:  

1) How do you perceive the relationship with your son/daughter(s)?  

2) Is there any awareness of the effect that the mood swings / tantrums have on their lives?

3) Are there any 'acceptable' boundaries that your adult children can set?

4) What is going on in your mind if they don't call you back right away?

5) Is there an 'acceptable' way for your adult children to recommend treatment?


I'm really grateful for any help anyone can provide in helping me gain a better understand.