i’m not sure if this is a bpd thing or not but i always catch myself wanting to baby/fix people? like ive always played scenarios in my head where my s/o is going through it and they are crying on the bathroom floor and i’m comforting them and just hugging them super tightly. i always fantasise about helping my s/o with super serious issues such as addiction etc and i don’t know why. when i am in relationships i don’t do this at all, and i’m almost always bad at comforting them and people in general.