A few months ago I was talking to my ex FP (this was after we stopped talking after a huge fight but them started talking again, however we were on really bad terms) and I was talking to him about how I used to be obsessed with a dude online when I was 13 and I said something like "my convos with him were an early sign of my bpd" and my ex FP replied with "Bpd scares me pls" and I ignored it since I didn't wanna argue with him and then he kept on going with "Legit when ppl tell me they have bpd I flee" and I ignored it again and he said "I am scared of this illness" "I do not want to live with anyone who has bpd" and he just wouldn't stfu about it. He knows I have BPD obviously and knew for a long ass time and he knows how hard it is for someone to live with it since he saw me trying to kill myself literally everyday because of it for almost 1 year and yet he said these fucking disgusting things about it. Like ok, I get it, you hate me for how I used to act, but generalising an illness like that it's the lowest thing you could possibly fucking do, mostly when I clearly show signs that I do not want to hear your ass talk like that. And yeah, my idiotic self is still talking to him, but rarely since he became cringy and overall just annoying, I can't stand him anymore which is really good, eventually I'll ghost him completely.