It’s not like they tell you. Like they imply. The truth is some people just get shit luck and that’s that. Sometimes it’s just not about how hard you try or work or oh if you “just do this” you’ll be fine. No. Some people will just have it horrible and there isn’t a single fucking thing they can do about it or some fucking trite phrase they can repeat to themselves to make it better. No one can explain it away or give make it into a lesson. Let us have our pain. That is all.