Have you ever had someone say to you something along the lines of "I thought you'd be happy" or "nothing makes you happy"?

I struggle with depression (obviously, I guess, or I wouldn't be posting here). And I'm in the middle of a bad episode. I've had one of my partners (I have 2) getting frustrated with me because even when they do things to help me, I still have depression symptoms. 

I've been in similar situations many times in the past. I understand that the person saying it likely just wants to feel like they helped and they are frustrated they cant make it better. But it usually just makes me feel guilty for being depressed. Which makes it worse. I feel like I "should" just be happy and theres something wrong with me that I'm not. I feel like a burden on my family because they try to make me happy and I am still struggling. I know it's well intentioned but it makes me feel like my mental health issues should be wiped away because someone got me a cup of coffee or did some dishes for me.

Anyone else have that experience?