A couple of weeks ago I left my friend circle's group chat because I felt like some people got more attention than I even when it was warranted to give me attention and sometimes unwarranted to give them attention. 

Then two of my friends asked why in separate chats and to one of them I told her that right now I didn't really know how to handle all the constant information going back and forth (which isn't exactly a lie), and that I decided to leave because I just wanted silence for some time, but that I wasn't angry with them or anything. 

The other one is much closer to me so I was more straight forward with my actual feelings about everything. 

She asked me for an explanation for what I meant by 'being fucking tired of them and their bullshit' (and I don't blame her). But since I realized I may have gone over the top by saying that, I decided to wait for a couple of hours to collect my thoughts and when I had calmed down, talk about it in a more sensible way to avoid unnecessary conflict.

Anyways, I waited for some hours and then suddenly *Bing* I got a message from this same friend stating that since I refused to answer her question and explain myself, she had taken the thing in her own hands and spoke with our friends.

Of course this made everything worse and I had to create a temporary group chat with all the girls again and explain what I was going through and that this friend may or may not have put things differently than I would had I been given some more time.

The thing is... *nobody understood*. Only three of the six people involved answered (including the girl who created this mess in the first place). Two of them stated that "No, we just heard what you said, point blank, she hasn't told any lies" and also that this girl's behavior was 'understandable' because I 'didn't answer for so long' (Some hours is apparently a very long time........). 

So basically I then again said sorry that I hade come across as a mean spirited bitch, and then, no answers. I left the group conversation shortly afterwards.

Seriously, what the fuck?! I haven't heard from any of them since, except the one who "told on me", and that was on *my* initiative because she broke up with her boyfriend, *didn't bother to tell me because I wasn't in the group chat any more*, and then when I heard it from a third party I texted her and said sorry because I told her a long time ago that I would always have her back in that relationship (her boyfriend was manipulative and all around nasty). 

What the everliving shit is this.