my boyfriend and i are breaking up soon because we have different ideas about the future and what we want out of our lives. considering we’ve been together for 5 years and he’s the only person in my life who knows about my bpd, what can i do to ensure this breakup goes ok? i know it’s coming and i know it’s going to hurt more than anything ever has, but i want to prepare as best i can so i regret as little as possible. has anyone been through something similar and can shed some light on things they wish they didn’t do/did do? i’m mostly worried about being alone and not having anyone to turn to. he’s been my rock and the only person i really open up to emotionally and i’m not sure what to do about that when he’s no longer an option