Mostly in romantic relationships. Makes me miserable to know that I want to marry the guy one minute and then not want to see him ever again the next one. The extremity of emotions and the lack of grey area makes me feel as if I can’t trust any of my feelings and thus leaves me wondering if any of my relationship and feelings toward anyone are even real. I don’t want to devalue any of them, just can’t help myself because deep down I know that if it was the other way around, I wouldn’t trust the other person actually loves me. But maybe that’s just BPD again and the inability to trust anyone.. anyhow.. does anyone have a good mindset or advice to deal with this kind of devaluation?