I really need some input on this situation, I can’t read if this guy is genuinely not interested in me or if I’m taking everything the wrong way. 

Background info:
Me (21F) and him (29M) started talking over Facebook on the 26th of May this year, he started the conversation, we’ve spoke every single day/night since then and he rapidly became my FP, the only problem is we live 200 miles apart. 

We never spoke on the phone bar one time for about 15/20 mins but he said he doesn’t like taking phone calls so I’m not going to make him do something he doesn’t like doing. 

Despite being incredibly anxious We arranged to meet up last week and he made a 3/4 hour drive to meet me, he stayed the night and then left lunchtime the next day. 

We had a great time together when he was here, we went for food and went to the arcades, everything was perfect and we even fell asleep cuddling.

Up until this I had managed to remain fairly detached because romantic relationships really bring out my abandonment/trust issues and from past experience I split on partners a lot, but after this night I haven’t been able to manage my emotions as well and I cried for 3 days after he left.

To the point:

He went home and has continued to message me, however I feel it’s not as frequently as before, I have tried to ask him what is going on with us and his response was that ‘he thinks I’m cute and stuff but the distance would be hard’ I told him it was just a case of putting effort in and he said that we would see how it goes.

I’ve tried to bring up meeting up again but he seems to be trying to find a way out of it, but I don’t know if it’s just my insecurities playing up because I already don’t think I’m good enough for him but the conversation went like this:

Me: we should plan something soon
Him: oh yeah?
Me: well if you want to 
Him: of course 
Me: we will do it whenever is best for you because I’m always available*
Him: same really, we will have to do it when I’m not seeing my family 

*he works 5 days a week and only gets Saturday and Sunday off but he sees his family every Saturday

I don’t know if I’m pushing him for something he doesn’t want or he is interested and I’m just taking it all wrong!! 
Please help?