First time posting here, long time BPD brain 🧠, diagnosed in the past year. 

I had my dream job in a dream environment with kind, generous people and I lost that job on the other day. 
I’ve lost lots of jobs before but I always felt a bit of relief. This time I’m really sad &amp; disappointed &amp; embarrassed with myself. 
I’m realizing what a big part my BPD has played in my inability to hold down jobs in the past. 

My relationships with others is also greatly affected by my BPD &amp; I’m working on working on that.  
I’m actually in a supportive healthy relationship for a few years now. He’s been something I’ve never experienced as far as love, patience &amp; understanding from a man. I want to give him the same trust, love &amp; support he gives me. 
I’m fortunate to have other support. My sisters, a gf who’s BPD and learned DBT. She’s been a great support and had recommended the program. I went to my intake the day before I was let go. My orientation is tomorrow. 

 I did get a new job today. I’m nervous about managing the therapy and a big transition  with work. 
I’ll be working with more people &amp; the move will likely affect my income for the first bit. I also find it really hard to be fake about the reality of the situation but have to learn to separate personal/professional chit chat.  I have a bad case of TMI verbal diarrhoea. Change in general is stressful for me which I know is bound to trigger BPD behaviours or the need for mental health days/breaks
I’ll be meeting with my new boss early next week to finalize things &amp; likely starting beginning of next month. I’m also still at my job I was let go from &amp; still wish to maintain a good relationship with everyone there. I’ll be doing group DBT &amp; prob some one on one counselling during all of this.

One of the owners works in mental health care so I’d hope if I’m honest about my BPD &amp; active treatment they will be understanding 
So...
Do I tell my new job? What if they ask about the time I need off for my treatments or I need a mental health day?  

TLDR
I lost a great job the other day. I got a new job I start in a few weeks. I start DBT tomorrow. Do I tell my new job about my mental health I’m actively treating &amp; will need some scheduled &amp; possibly some unscheduled time off?


