Can I restrain a person with bpd when they wanna hurt themselves reacting to me hurting myself reacting to them hurting me reacting to me walking away since you never know when they want space and/or they want you to leave or they want you to stay. How do I know what the right answer is every time because the consequences of not knowing the answer to that question and what to do when my partner is unable to provide answers is so fucking heartbreaking; if I leave when I shouldn’t they very well will cope with drugs with a likelihood of overdose. If I don’t leave when I should, all hell breaks loose and we both get hurt. I don’t wanna lose them. What do you people need to feel the love and stop seeing the other person as a monster holding you down?!