I found out that what I suspected about my husband was correct. We’ve had a shit show of a relationship but had been getting along for awhile. He slept with an ex 2 years ago and I just found out. The icing on the cake was I’ve been in a bad depression and he got “worried” when I slept for 12hrs straight and didn’t answer. Fed me all this feel good bullshit and then found out right after he called me he texted that girl.   Now my brain is doing cartwheels trying to cope. Because I feel like such a piece of shit. He says that I’ve cheated on him before but we were separated while I was trying to get my shit together to divorce him. But yes I’m a piece of shit.