Ever since I have been diagnosed my SO blames every argument on the bpd. Today we had a meeting at our children's school. We walked out and within 30 seconds I was verbally attacked by them (the attack was later admitted to be because they had a scenario for a conversion we were supposed to have that I didn't have the ability to mind read) everytime I tried to defend myself I was attacked again and again each time blaming my mental health. Not fair!!!
This is the way it's been.