Hello fellow borderlines. I need some advice in recognizing if my thoughts are a consequence of my BPD. I was seeing this guy and everything was going great. We were having fun together, good sex, he was/is my FP, blablabla. He then told me that he felt I was being kinda closed up and distant. I said “yeah, that’s how I avoid getting hurt”. And he told me that I could be more open with him and let him more into my life and he would do the same. Ok, did that. Was thinking bout him all the time and wanting to be with him all the time as well. He also said he liked me a lot and considered a serious relationship with me. Then I send some drunk texts to him saying how much I liked him and shit. That I wanted to be with him right now. Then, he changed completely. Said he was not falling in love with me although he liked me. Hell, I wasn’t sure if I was falling for him as well, I was just drunk and I get attached too easily as borderlines do!!! Anyways. He told me he has humor disorders himself and can’t handle a serious relationship now, but that we should keep hanging out. Now it’s been almost 3 days since I last saw him and I just want some answers?????? He’s being so cold. Will we keep what we had before or do you wanna split???? Are you still interested in me??? Just say if you aren’t, I can take it. I just can’t stand this fucking middle ground. Black or white thinking, I guess? Or am I thinking in a “normal” way?