I have some weird thing going on under my tongue right now, sort of like white/gray patches of painful skin? On the underside of my tongue. I gave my girlfriend oral sex and I am worried maybe whatever is going on it my mouth will give her herpes and in return give me herpes. I stopped preforming on her as soon as I remembered what was going on in my mouth. I’m just very worried this is going to be an issue and ruin our relationship. Especially since we are both only teenagers and I simply don’t want herpes. She tried to assure me it was fine and she won’t receive herpes but idk. I’m just really nervous and want some advice and opinions on the situation as a whole.