I recently had a falling out with this guy who seemed to really like me when he first met me. I'm not going to go into the details, but even though he's right about a lot of things he said to me, he basically has a Kanye West complex (lmao I even had a debate with him about how kanye's attitude is problematic and he doesn't seem to think it is) and think that his words about me are fact. On one hand I'm letting his opinion completely define me, thinking that yes, maybe he is right in saying that I'm an attention seeking baby who's disorder isn't real and hasn't had to experience any real life problems. But on the other hand, I want to call him out, tell him he sounds exactly like his favorite problematic rapper (funny enough he's a rapper himself) and that he doesn't fucking know anything and he needs to look at himself before passing judgement on others. I know for a fact that this guy has been through some incredibly gruesome shit that probably plays a huge factor in why he's being so cold, but my best friend has been through some gruesome shit too and has never talked to me THIS insensitively before. 

My urge to text him/tell him that he is wrong is SO FUCKING STRONG. I feel like if I don't, I'm basically saying he is right. But I feel like if I do, I'm also saying he's right. I believe deep down in my heart he has just been so hurt to the point where he lacks compassion for others. 

Anyone know how I can stop letting his opinion get the better of me? I know that deep down, he is wrong about some things but I can't help but allow myself to be consumed with the fact that he is completely right.