i know that this might be irrelevant and the wrong reddit but i just wanted to get this off my chest. so yesterday  i decided to ask my crush out so i went up to her and it was a bit awkward. she gave me her number and her name so i thought it was going good. today i talked to some of my friends and they saw the pictures of her and the number and they compared them to a girl they knew. it turns out that she had a boyfriend but she gave me a separate number and name. Basically i was like a side piece and now i feel like if she said no it would have been so much better because i feel so dumb now. and I'm questioning every time i ever flirted with girls and they flirted with me if i was wrong about my thoughts and i feel like when i think people are flirting they just might be trying to be nice. anyways thanks for listening to my sorry if you did and if you didn't I'm sorry that its irrelevant i just wanted to vent a little. and if you have any advice for me that would be nice i like to workout but apparently its in my genes that we don't lose weight we just get muscular so it takes a lot more muscles to look fit. so im kind of muscular but chubby at the same time which has always been an issue for me and my confidence. sorry i just felt like adding that thanks again.