If someone got denied sex (dead bedroom )is common theme) That sets up the background 
  
Is this an BPD episode if they proceed to in less than 24 hours, hold in their emotions, act like everything is okay, even shocked at their ability to not give a fuck, act like the king of stoicism, then,
  
proceed to not be able to sleep, wake up and not go to class, contemplate dropping out college, snapping gifted DS in half, breaking reading glasses (dont derserve to see) compare relationships to peers, contemplating taking a bat to their computer have thoughts like: i will never be loved and my life is destined to end in tragedy? I will never be loved like I need to be loved