Hi. I'd really like to hear about the experiences female redditors here have had with being "in love" with an unavailable man just at the time when an available, loving and mature man comes along. Standard advice, both of the "go for the guy who loves you more" and "hold out for your true love" variety doesn't apply in a straightforward way to people who experience emotions as strongly as we do. Therapy and treatment are in the picture, and at the top of the agenda, but I find the situation as it is very challenging. I know what makes sense, but my emotions don't help...