


Pls pls help me 

Hi there!

Also someone with BPD here but I am mainly here for my friend/FP.

My friend in a deep depressive episode right now. They used to be very much into some recreational drugs back in their early teens but as we got close they totally stopped and did not touch even weed for 2 years. However they started to get very bad like 4 months ago and now, the last months they started to take legal drugs, emphatamines (meth) and alcohol constantly even in class. 

I have never struggled with this issue so I have no idea how to deal with this. It is also important to know that we used to date and this spirale started a little after they broke up with me. They are also only quite young.

This whole situation is very hard on me as it has hurt very badly my mental health, suicidal thoughts have come back but my friend is so deeply into this whole thing that they do not want to hear me out. 

They tell me that if this whole thing is so bad for me why do I not leave them. Why can't I accept it as it is. 


I know that some people have this type of issue with substance abuse and I do really need your advices rn.