most of the time I feel like people only see our bad traits: lack of sense of self, splitting, spiralling, hypersensitivity, etc. Other than that we love people more than anything and try and show people how much we care! I just don't get why all people see is our bad moments and then they just think were shitty people from these bad moments :( we try so so hard, I wish they saw our real self not just our disorder were trine manage