Hi all, I (20F) am home from college for spring break. Earlier this week, my mom invited me to come to dinner with some of her friends for one of the friends birthdays (the friend said it was okay) and I said sure. Well, later I found out that the friends daughter, we’ll call her H (19F) is also going to be there. Growing up, me and H were best friends, but kind of grew apart in high school. We still talked here and there but pretty much completely fell off like halfway through. There’s no bad blood between us or anything but I’m feeling rather anxious about the situation. My mom seems like she’s expecting me to talk to her while she talks with H’s mom and others, but I honestly have no idea what we would talk about. We have pretty different interests, which is part of why we fell off, and H is not in college, so I can’t use that as a point of conversation. H’s younger brother is also going to be there, and I honestly have no idea how close they are, so I’m not actually sure if she’s going to talk to me at all if she already has him to talk to, and I can’t decide if I think that would be even more awkward or not. I’m starting to feel a little sick about it, which isn’t ideal since we’re going to be eating. Does anyone have any advice on how to go about this?