Reading all the traits about quiet bpd they seem to describe very accurately my behaviors and the way I act. But it seems to me that most mental health professionals have a very stereotyped version of bpd and this maybe why bpd is so stigmatized as a disorder.

So I want to ask if anyone have really received a diagnosis as a quiet bpd or you think that you are quiet bpd but therapists and psychiatrists don't acknowledge your worries? In my country I think is generally difficult to get diagnose with a personality disorder but even if it was easy I don't think that I will get diagnosed. My ex therapists always said that she is confused with me because I seem to have anger issues and get things so personally  it from the other side I'm always so careful and conscious around others. Now I believe that she might thought based on the things I was saying that I may have bpd but because I never expressed my emotions with a very uncontrollable and intense way.

Sometimes I really wonder if quiet bpd really exist as a concept because from the things I read here many people feel confused with this. It seems like it's misdiagnosed as severe anxiety or depression or anger issues while the issue msy has to do with how you really are as a person.