Splitting has never generally been a big problem for me when it comes to interpersonal relationships. However, I'm wondering whether I'm currently splitting someone black or whether I'm just average-person annoyed.. 

What does it feel like to split someone black and *be completely aware of it*. Are you constantly annoyed with them if you have to be in their presence or do you 'mellow' every so often? 

I've been through treatment (18 months in a TC) so I'm aware of my symptoms and how they affect others. I'd just like to hear other people's experiences if you wouldn't mind sharing. 

Thank you 