Why do you think I do this? When things are "too normal" in a relationship, it feels odd and I feel pretty empty and bored. Sometimes it's as if I deliberately find something to fuss about and then regret it because things often get really bad. After we make up, I'm numb for about a day and then things are perfect again and then it dies down quickly again. Is it normal for relationships to be boring? I'm currently in a LDR and we can not meet for a while. 