I have these huge pie in the sky dreams and crushes on people I could never get. It’s all aspects of life - career, family, hobbies. I want things that are clearly not realistic.

But in real life, I never take chances on anything. I think being stupid and aiming for that pie in the sky would be better than what I’m doing now. Which is nothing.

How do I get to a neutral / normal balance of having realistic goals and not being afraid to take action?

Why do I dream of things that are almost Disney movie like in nature? Does anyone else do this?