Of course I have a slew of issues of my own to resolve, but my s/o wants to all the sudden take a break and is "leaving it up to me."  Also saying we both need to take care of "ourselves."

My s/o is getting help via DBT and I know understand exactly why this is happening and is messing with my head.  We've been "in contact" but I feel like I'm pushing things to get back together and she wants space.  

I'm confused because I know given her BPD she is likely to act this way, but maybe really wants attention, that was the main problem... so I don't know what to do at this point.   Obviously I want closure and I'll never get that.  But I do want to work things out.  Thanks for any input.