Logically. I know he's tired or doesn't feel well, or really even if he just doesn't want to.. okay. I get it. I can't and don't want to make someone have sex with me, even if its my fiance. I don't want sex for the sake of it or him to do it "just to make me happy" like he has suggested doing everytime I talk to him about it.

Another great faucet to the issue is that me talking about it, revealing my neediness on the subject, therefore makes me less attractive to him.. so expressing this thing I want more of, makes me get it less for a few days after talking about it.

I can't ask him to do anything about it because it wouldn't be done out of genuine desire, but rather some form of obligation.

Does anyone have any suggestions? The past week I have just been keeping quiet, rather than saying something and I've been having to stifle my tears and focus on my breathing a ton to silently calm down as we are laying down to sleep.

It also doesn't help that I know for a fact when he masturbates in the other room regularly.

I don't need another sexual outlet. I want him. I want to feel wanted. I want the passion.

The quality of our sex together is amazing. I struggle with the quantity and I feel so bad about it.