My husband was diagnosed borderline years ago. 

Every 2 or 3 months, he goes into sabotage mode. Where he just split on everyone and everybody in a matter of hours. 

We had a fun weekend. We've been talking about upgrading our bedroom furniture.
Sunday afternoon I went to see a friend and he messaged me but the wife failed at my friend's house and I didn't receive his messages. 

In a matter of hours, he went from 'Look at this bed frame, what do you think' to 'Should we get a divorce?'

When I got in my car, I replied and apologized. And the sabotage started. 
He insulted me, called me names, pointed out my disability to me, told me I was too stupid to reply. 

30 minutes later, I was home but he had locked himself in his office and didn't wanna talk. 

An hour later, texts from friends and family. He was texting them the same things. 

- 'Hey is Husband's name ok? He just told me to fuck off when I reminded him about the game Tuesday night' 

- 'Why am I receiving texts from Husband's name that I'm a whore and I need to die? All I did was send him a picture of his niece, wtf is going on'

And he's been like this for 2 days now. 

Every time I wanna talk, I get a fuck off. If I text him if he's hungry, go fuck yourself. I don't want anything to do with you ever again.

When I remind him I love him, he replies with 'lol' or 'okay'

Friends have tried talking to him, his brother too. Same thing. He's using the dumbest excuse not to talk to people. He even said he hates his brother for posting a picture of a kitten on Instagram and he doesn't agree, therefore he's done with his family