Like, I found out my ex is cheating on me, I'm surprised at how I've taken the whole situation, no suicide attempts or lying in bed for days, what I have noticed however, is that I've bought a lot of new clothes, now want a tattoo and want to clear all my stuff out. I don't like spending money and never in my life have I considered a tattoo. Could this possibly be my BPD acting out in other, less self destructive ways?