My wife is amazing but she is under a lot of stress from nursing school and family issues.  She’s doing awesome in school, but the family problems are just out of her control.  Of course I am always an ear for her to talk to but she really goes deep and tries really hard to explain to me why she is the way she is.  I’m a steadfast reassurer, but I really try hard not to analyze her.   I feel the things she tells me would be better understood by a professional and that a neutral person to talk things out with would help prevent her from feeling like she is being judged by me (which she isn’t, I just don’t want her to perceive that she is).  She’s seen therapists sporadically in the past but has never actually stuck to one.  She says she “just can’t find a good one” but she hasn’t tried in over a year.   I’m just worried that she is getting close to a breaking point and I don’t want this to cause any problems for her nursing studies.   Any advice or experiences to share?