Is it OK for someone to speak about the mistreatment, abuse and manipulation they endured from someone who has untreated BPD? I want to clarify here that no, they don't associate abuse with BPD, not even untreated BPD. They don't think everyone with BPD is inherently evil, a monster or a bad person. They know their ex partner with BPD does not represent all borderlines. 

Is it OK to talk about their experience with them, spreading awareness of BPD and learning about it, identifying abuse, while at the same time not generalizing BPD people into an unhealthy bubble, and not saying they are all horrible? When is it not appropriate?