I (34/m) really want to meet someone, find my FP, have someone to love me and me love them. Everytime I start talking to someone new they end up flaking on me, ghosting me, or after we meet saying something along the lines of they have been thinking and have decided to take a break from dating. I asked my son's mom, who is currently going thru a divorce, if she ever thought about trying us again. She said no, and that shes found a man who is absolutely amazing. Like wtf? You are still going thru a divorce and have found your next dude, I've been single for like 4 fucking years and I can't even get someone to be my fucking friend? Am I destined to be alone for ever? I just want to cry.