So, recently, my best friends and I moved in together and it's been fun, other than the fact he kinda cries every time I ask something of him? We've all three been diagnosed with depression, ADHD, Autism, and anxiety. We both take medicine. He will let dishes pile up, not change the litter box, etc, but when I ask him to do it, he cries and says he's "trying to change." I'm really not sure how to help motivate him or help him with his chores? Our entire house is a mess and he doesn't seem like he wants to help at all and it's making my depression worse.