My girlfriend has BPD and in the beginning when we started dating she told me. I thought to myself welp it can't be that bad right? After all she did make it out to seem like she was an angel. Super smart, beautiful, good sense of humor and overall knew how to have a good time.. Fast foward three months I just feel drained to be quite honest. I act passive and agree with her on everything so she doesn't "go crazy" and worst idea ever.. She milks its and takes advantage. On the opposite end I hold frame and set "unreasonable" boundaries and she goes CRAZY! Calling me a peice of shit, a demon, worst person alive, scum, etc.... I don't want to leave her because when everything is "good" its amazing to be honest. But, when its "bad" its horrible. I need help guys I really do..



Forgot to add this but the thing that kills me is ONE wrong thing you say or do and long story short she goes batshit crazy. That's whats really draining me..