So where to start.. i got in a new relationship recently. Were a few months in. when we first got togethet i suspected he still had feelings for his ex and which he sort of admitted too. So my bpd kicked in and i got really controlling and didn’t want him talking to females anymore. Well he keeps going behind my back to talk to these girls and will delete the messages but promises nothing wrong was said. We had a fight about it and he cut himself in front of me. Now with my bpd i get very jealous and controlling. Should i fix this and try to trust him or leave? Im just so confused. Any advice?