I currently am not seeing a therapist, so I can’t get a diagnosis, but I think I might have BPD and I’d really like some help. How can I actually tell if I have BPD? I was looking up some problems that I‘ve been having for awhile, because I’ve been a bit concerned that I might have something wrong (it’s really affecting my relationships with my family). I found BPD, and after doing some research, the symptoms listed match mine really well. I don’t want to jump to conclusions, though. How would I know for sure that I’m having BPD symptoms?