You ever feel like you have someone you can talk to and you think they’ll understand...so you open up, and realize they just don’t know no matter how good their intentions are?

My BF is my FP.  He’s been encouraging me to open up more to friends. He MADE me call her today after some SI.

So I opened up....and she’s super sweet...but just doesn’t get it. Just told me to “get out of my head”. I know she means well, but, yeah. That’s like telling me “just be happy” when I’m in depression mode 

Sigh.

I just feel so alone in this except with other people with BPD. I just want ONE non-BPD person that isn’t my therapist to “get” it.