Me and my two other flatmates moved in with a girl we didn't know very well who ended up having BPD. Since moving in with her, our house has been an incredibly toxic environment. It's honestly too long of a story to get into - but basically she attempts to kill herself 3-4 times a week, and brings us all into the drama amongst many other things. I feel for her - and wish things could be different, but my own mental health as well as my two other flat mates has suffered considerably.

We want her to feel supported but also need to ask her to move out... please help.