I’m sorry but this isn’t the place to ask for a diagnosis for your ‘crazy ex girlfriend’. 
Do you even realize how triggering it is reading over and over again how some fucked up individual must have BPD because they fit maybe 3 of the criteria? Just because you only know of BPD, Bipolar, and schizophrenia doesn’t mean they have it. There are hundreds of disorders, mental and personality. And hell more I’ve never touched on either. 

You are not a psychiatrist, we are not a psychiatrist. 

It’s also in the rules. This is a serious forum and this disorder is very problematic most of the time. Coming to this sub and just looking for support and only finding judgment is just unfair. 
Please have some common sense and stop posting this crap.

