I have been seeing a man for about a year now. Today I learned he has only thought of me as a friend with benefits and not his partner/someone he’s in a relationship with. I don’t know how to respond. I’m so confused and hurt.

When we started seeing each other he was so sweet to me. I love his company. He would always call me pet names and we frequently went out together to movies, dinner, even Disneyland twice. 

We have even been living together since May. Recently I discovered I’m pregnant. After I told him he stopped telling me he loved me and stopped complimenting me and using pet names. Last night he told me that I shouldn’t have expected him to be happy since we aren’t actually in a relationship. I thought we were. I hadn’t be seeing anyone else and told several people he was my partner. But I guess he isn’t. He had apparently still been seeing other people but idk if that counts as cheating since this wasn’t real to him. 

I don’t want to leave him because I enjoy his company and he’s the most stable thing I have right now but idk . I think I still love him but I don’t think he does

He told me he loved me. I loved him too but now I’m not sure.