So basically after nearly a year of extreme turbulence i have realised i am a (potentially former) fp of my pwBPD
My basis for this is 
• haven’t lived together for nearly 5 months still makes fake accounts to stalk me on &amp; adds and removes me on socials
• genuinely jealous and upset over things like using my phone, cuddling a teddy and not him etc
• wants to spend 24/7 w me including acts like running away from work 3 hours early to see me
• threatening to harm himself due to rejection 
• threatening any man who comes into my proximity with physical violence 
• attempts to buy me back with money &amp; gifts 
• sabotaged a college course out of jealousy 
• steals items like perfume and decorations as some kind of memorabilia i suppose
List goes on
Will i ever leave this zone? Not happened too successfully so far. I love him dearly so it makes it super hard for me but really probably for the best for us to leave it. 
Any advice explanations or input are appreciated whether from a pwbpd or someone w a bpd loved one