So I technically quit my job. I'm not sure if I still work there. I work or worked at a grocery store. I work in the deli department. My deli manager made a huge deal of me asking for 2 consecutive days off. Pretending I shouldve known about her vacation she never told me about. Gossiped about me in front of my face. I was taking her petty drama because were already short staffed but that was the last straw for me. I feel bad for leaving my team but I've never had such a petty, bitter and unprofessional manager. I never wouldve imagined that asking for 2 consecutive days off and a request to work the morning before, would cause such a reaction. 
The deli manager was having what my coworker would describe as a "temper tantrum" in front of all of us, about how I came in on my day off and her manager granted me my requests off. I don't know, I dont desperately need the job. 

My work is aware of my BPD. I reminded my store manager I cant handle this petty drama like the next person can. Please move me to literally any other department or I quit. I'm supposed to get a call from the store today about whether or not they can transfer me to a new department. 

My deli manager is unpredictable, passive aggressive, and just overall a very toxic person. I dont know, I feel bad because I feel like I should be able to let this roll off my shoulder. But I think because of my BPD I cant. I also feel bad because we were already short staffed. Now everyone has to put in overtime. But at the same time, behave professionally and maybe you wont have such a high turnover rate. Shes definitely not taking that vacation now. 


TLDR: My manager is toxic and I refused to clock in because of it. Waiting on a call from the store manager about my job status.