So what I mean is, when it comes to me making a decision i get really indecisive because i guess i dont want to miss out on whatever the option i dont chose is.

For example, i was presented with 2 options regarding going to university in September, i either stay in uni accommodation and have a social life ect and id obviously have to pay for it. Or i cancel my contract and stay home at my mums house and use the spare money to learn to drive. Ive flipped back and forth between the 2 options at least 50 times and i know every gets mad at my indecisive-ness. I guess the reason i couldnt make my mind up between those 2 options was because I didnt want to miss out on what the option i didnt chose could offer me. 

Im not sure if this is an ADHD thing or a BPD thing but the ADHD subreddit doesnt allow DAE posts because "they arent doctors" so i thought id ask here and if none of you experience i know its probably ADHD lol.

Both ADHD and BPD come with chronic indecisive-ness, which means I am literally screwed when it comes to making any kind of decision. Sucks. I obsess over it for weeks and still cant make decisions, I just flip between options. kind of off topic but to show how indecisive i am: Ive done 1 year of university already but come September im having to back into first hear again because i changed my degree... Ive changed it 6 times :/