You are NOT in the right for thinking or saying that everyone in the world is selfish and terrible, and telling yourself that you are a piece of shit or that you sound like a narcissist is NOT and excuse for you going out of your line just to say this in a group already for traumatized/mentally hurt people meant for SUPPORT. 

I'm seeing "vent" posts which are commented by people who only are agreeing and are not in any shape or form questioning OPs thoughts. We as a support group need to remind EACHOTHER to try and stop this constant "Black and white" view of the world and on ourselves. We as BPD people need to remind eachother NOT to view everything in black and white and instead remind eachother of the different shades of gray our world is coated in. 

We can not let our emotional pain drown our minds and stop us from truly experiance the life that we want! Seeing these posts who only seem to validate these horrible thoughts...I think it hurts more than makes us feel supported. Our diagnosis is already stigmatized enough, we can not let one of the few "safe zones" for us be used as a source of "validation". We need to SUPPORT eachother! The least we can do is to once in a while remind eachother that the world is in gray rather in black and white. Because that is all this condition does to us. Makes us in a constant switch between black and white.