They're such whiny bitches. All they do is point to any bad or abusive behavior and go "Yup, that's BPD" and anyone doing something good or nice just doesn't have BPD. 

If you can look at a person with an illness and just assign only negative traits to them, and genuinely believe that any good coming from them is some sort of trick or indication they were never sick in the first place, maybe YOU guys are the ones with the disordered, black and white thinking. 

In fairness, some posts there lead me to finally seeing some behaviors I engaged in that were hurting those around me. I have to work on those and be better. But we're not monsters, we're not lost causes.

Also like 80% of that sub is just little bitch dudes who think any inappropriate or abusive behavior by a woman is an indication of BPD. Stinks of casual pop science misogyny.