Is this a synptom of borderline personality disorder ? ? Like pushing them away by  Telling my s/o deep secrets or things like wanting them tonknown my past and thing i hate that I did . Or saying how if we r not allowed to hang out for sowm time than what the point of talking and wanting to break up bc it's almost been a 1yeat and usually it expecting for ppl to break up when it roll around for dating someone that long also I definitely struggle with obsession and favorites peeople and even if I gwtbthe satisfactory and love from my current bf I still seek validation and love from.other's. Im getting better at realizing it after the fact . Is that deperaonazation??? I was diagnosed once bc I thought I hate it but I no longer have the therapist etc.