So I don't know why but ever since being young I've always been pushed out of friend groups. 

By all accounts from the people who I hang around with I'm intelligent, witty, confident and kind hearted but whatever praise I get it never seems to be enough to relegate me to the person who if there isn't enough seats in the car I need to make my own way... Finding group chats exclusively without me in and people using me as a scapegoat (which I get means they're shitty people but its me every time in multiple groups of friends).

At this point I will say whilst I have Borderline personality disorder, but I don't display any of the anger/irrational behaviour associated with it as I've worked hard to get a handle on my mental health. But judging from another friend with BPD and my research a lot of people with the condition experience similar rejection for seemingly no reason.

I recently found myself involved with a new group which is the closest I've ever come to feeling accepted but after a falling out with one member of the group everyone stopped interacting with me (despite the fact that most of them don't know what happened) and that even after amending it with the inital person, everyone chose a side when nobody asked them too.

I'm friendless for the what feels like 100th time in my life. Despite the fact that most people have nothing but good things to say about me from every account I've heard, including the people who've gone out of their way to ignore me.

I'm moving county soon and I don't want this to be a pattern that follows me there, but upon trying to arrange a 1-2-1 with significant people in my life, I've had 1 person attempt to meet up. The other 20 or so have ignored my messages or said they're too busy to potentially see me for the last time. I don't want this pattern to continue. I want advice on anything that can cause someone with all of these positive aspects of him by 3rd hand accounts, always be relegated to the disposable one of the group before I start my new lift and start repeating the same cycles.