I’m sorry for the post and it might hurt some people. What I mean is why are my parents so adamant about their decision where I have no opinion and whenever I try to say something or argue about it, it always ends with them especially my father acting as if he is doing some kind of favor raising me and I should be grateful and never question him back. Recently, our family is deciding on either moving out to some other place to live in or buy the one we are currently renting. My father has been constantly reprimanding everyone that our monthly expenses are high and we cannot afford to buy it ( everyone agreed) but then he went on saying that I am the one who uses money a lot and that “my” expenses are higher than everyone else. I told him that I’m still studying and I cant earn for now and the only money I ask from him is travel expenses and money for the food for the pet we have ( I am the only one who takes care of her). All my purchases including my clothes, shoes, and somethings that i recently bought were all from my money which i earned using freelancing. I told him this and he got mad and started shouting at me saying I don’t have the manners to behave in-front of elders and then he started questioning me to tell him how much my money is used. He even taunted me saying that “yes! You are taking care of yourself since birth!”. I cant take this anymore and ive bipolar which intensified my overthinking nature. My family thinks my mental issues are insignificant and im just wasting money to buy my meds.