Mine just don’t get it. My dad might, because my mom was BPD, but he also didn’t really exhibit any good coping mechanisms when I was growing up, so who knows.

My sister just accused me of ‘this BPD side of you’, over something I am thinking entirely rationally about. 

I feel like it’s just being used to accuse me of being shitty instead of recognizing my bad behavior or mannerisms. 

So... I guess I answered that myself. So far, it does not seem worth it. I hope you all out there have more empathetic and understanding family than I do.