i’ve been dating this wonderful guy for a few months and i love him with my whole heart. during the time we’ve dated, he has noticed that i’m so afraid he’s gonna leave me or like someone else and that i’m very very emotionally unstable. he knows about my other mental health problems, but i kept bpd out of it, because i don’t wanna scare him away. today he was talking to one of his old girl friends (his ex-crush), she calls him babe, tells him she loves him etc. she does that with every boy she knows according to him, but it makes me feel so sad. i told him it makes me feel sad and uncomfortable, but he doesn’t understand me and where my fear is coming from. what do i do?