I have this issue where if things don't go exactly how I plan it in my head, I'd rather just abandon the whole event, activity, etc. than adjust the schedule. 
an example is there's an event in my city next week that me and my friends were super excited for, and the only day I could go to this event was my day off.

my friends told me they would book the day off of work, and I reminded them 3 times. but they didn't, and now they all work that day until the evening
I was already put out by this but I still suggested they all join up in the evening with me instead.
one agreed, the others are going on a different day, and another isn't going to come at all now.

so I decided I will also miss the event. if nobody else cares, neither do I anymore. it's not worth going anymore (to me)

idk of this is me being stubborn or if it is a bpd thing.