Long story short... I was hypomanic, planning my wedding, under severe stress from my family and fiancé about everything surrounding the wedding. I was on the phone with my best friend and we were having lots of laughs and a good time and I impulsively invited her to the wedding. Didn't think, just in the moment. Afterwards my fiancé was really upset because I kept making impulsive decisions without talking with him first, so I temporarily uninvited my friend. Got into a huge fight with my fiancé but we worked it out. Now my friend is refusing to come to the wedding and barely speaking to me. I feel so shit because I know I was in the wrong, and I apologised and explained my state of mind in the moment. I know I was a jerk, but am I the bad guy? I really want her here but she's just not engaging with me.