I’m in college and I’m home for this semester because all my classes are online this semester. My mom has always been overbearing, and over caring. I really appreciate her and love her, but sometimes she crosses the line. She constantly focused on me and spends hours of her time planning my life out for me in a way. I don’t ask her to do this. She’s always giving me unsolicited advice about what job I should do or what career I should take. When I bring up what I want to do, she never ever listens. She slightly puts down my ideas, or she enhances my idea with her ideas. She never leaves me alone. She built trips me all the time about my past failures or says things like “u don’t want to mess up like u did before” and she repeats these phrases like often sometimes multiple times throughout the day or right before I’m going to bed. She has no self awareness. She has no memory of saying things that she has said to me. I’ll be like “mom you have repeatedly told me that like 10 times this morning all ready”, and she’ll be like “what are u talking about”, and then she’ll move on and give me more overbearing advice about what I should be doing. She never listens to me without acting like she knows way more than me about subjects that I know more than her about. My heat rate goes up like 20 paces everytime she walks up the stairs to my room. I know I may sound like a spoiled brat, but it’s worse than it looks, it would take too long to go into all the details of my relationship with her. I just feel like I can never live up to her perfectly.