I've been lurking around, trying to inform myself about relationships with people with BPD and I've seen some frightening stuff.

I've talked with this girl for about a week and a half (and we have never seen each other, Skype calls only).
She says she wants to meet me as soon as the quarantine ends, and that she has "strong feeling for me". I'm really confused, and a little afraid, honestly. I kinda like her, and I was willing to give her a chance before I read all this stuff.

Lurking around in some subreddits dedicated to BDP, I've noticed that 99% of people there advise to run away from them, because they are unstable and can "ruin your life". Like, is that for real? She seems like such a nice person, if she hadn't told me she had it I'd just thought she was just very clingy.

What should I do?