I (F15) only got over my last fixated person a few weeks ago. She repeatedly made fun of me for my insecurities, overlooked my trauma, and ghosted me out of no where. When I first started a relationship with her it was fun, exciting, and amazing; however, it left me utterly delusional and heartbroken in the end.

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Now, I've moved on; I'm in a theatre class and I can slowly feel the same thing happening again. I really like this girl (F16), but I don't want to get obsessed over her and have her control my life like all my other fixated persons. I'm terrified of the same cycle happening over and over again. I only want friends, but this cycle keeps driving them away. 

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My last fp had to threaten police when she was abusing me. The girl before that had to have a bunch of her senior friends bully me. I don't want something like this to happen with her.  Also, I've actually known her since I was little and she's always been so sweet to me. I just recently went to a musical that she was in and she gave me a hug which made me feel really happy.

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How do I develop a normal friendship with someone? Is this even possible?