things are really bad and i need desperate help with how i can assist my boyfriend. 

we have been dating for over a year, i’ve known since the start he has depression but it’s never been as bad as it is now. he very rarely opens up about it but he did more recently about how he feels he has no purpose and wants to commit sui**de. i’m worried he’s opening up because he will go through with it, every time he doesn’t reply to me for a while my mind instantly goes to that. 

he doesn’t want to see me or go out, he’s being distant and confusing, i have my own mental health issues that caused hospitalisation last year so i couldn’t support him over the course of a couple months and i’m worried that is finally catching up on him.

he is my FP i cannot handle anything happening to him. i’ve been trying to help him for weeks to see a doctor and offered many times to find him a psychologist but he won’t do it. i’m so lost on what to do please help.