My boyfriend (FP) has virtually no empathy or compassion. He doesn’t care to put himself in my shoes are anything.

He has the view of “work harder if you want to be better” while not understanding how difficult it is to work harder.

He says it’s because i’m sad every other day so he doesn’t care anymore, but I feel like that’s not true.

Am I asking too much to just talk about my feelings and why i’m upset with me.

For example, I lost my blanket (which is very important to me and calms me down) and is like, “it’s just cloth, get over it”. He doesn’t care at all about my feelings and just tries to ignore it.

When I am upset he will get distant because i’m “too hard to be around”. He says that my feelings are not his responsibility.

I just feel like since we’re in a relationship he should want to help me, but he doesn’t. What do I do? I understand he isn’t obligated to help, but I want support so badly.

Am I asking too much of him? Who is correct here? Advice and support appreciated :)