Have not been getting any messages from my fp and I am in full denial mode that anything has changed. I spent a full day breaking things and hurting myself after they told me about their new bf and I thought I would never be over it. I don't know if this is a form of splitting or what but I am just not believing any of this is happening. Some of you reached out and that was very nice and for what it's worth the distractions may have helped even more than I thought. But right now I'm looking forward to a day of empty emotions and I honestly don't care