so, I'm 14, and recently I have noticed that i show many signs of bpd, and the person who I think is my fp, just broke up with ne after 7 months of being together and calling everyday (long distance) its been a month and they are dating someone else now, they don't pay attention to me anymore and I've tried to explain to them that I know we aren't getting back together right now but I still need some stuff but they always turn it to "that's not fair to me" or "that's too restrictive" and they also suspect themself of having bpd and im just not sure what to do here 

Sorry if I rambled but if anyone knows what I should do it would be greatly appreciated