hello i have BPD obv n im having an issue in my relationship rn
when i ask my bf for reassurance, for some reason his words never feel like enough in that moment. for example i ask him if he still loves n wants to be with me and he will say yes ofc but i’m still not satisfied(?) 
i’ve also noticed that he takes it a tiny bit personal when i ask him for reassurance. like he will start to feel bad because he thinks that he is making me feel unloved and he is doing something wrong but i don’t always feel like that! 
these past two weeks have been rough and i’ve been getting into these moods where i feel rlly anxious and insecure n my brain is trying to convince me that he doesn’t love me, i’m just a mess, he probably is getting tired of me etc 

how can i explain to him that i don’t constantly feel this way, but when i do have those moments, i just want him to be extra sweet to me? i try to tell him that but ig there is too much miscommunication for either of us to understand each other