Theres a little more background information I made in a post a few months ago, but I deleted it when someone on Reddit was making attacks against me and I was afraid they would use personal attacks against me.  Basically health maladies Ive had all my life and 1st girlfriend died in drunien car wreck and the downhill slide from there.

But as far as this particulat situation that is pretty much the gist of it.  I also helped my niece stay out of jail by helping her not miss her court date after she moved in with us and she seems to have grown a little contemptuous of me, ai imagine partly from her mother.