Was speaking to my uncle and found out from him that my grandma was as much of a piece of shit to him as my mother was to me. Apparently BPD really does run in the family and there isn't a corner of it that hasn't been affected. It's like rot. I never thought my family was that bad, I just blamed my mother. But now with this new perspective, I realise it was fucked up all along. And that makes me wonder: is it the same with other families? I always felt jealous as a kid when I saw the healthy relationships my friends had with their parents, but maybe that's just all a front as well?