After two months of an ongoing struggle, my girlfriend broke up with me due to her depression. She told me she felt like a ghost, an empty shell, and didn’t want to be with me when she wasn’t herself. We agreed that being with each other in the near future is a possibility. 

How should I properly support her? I want to support her enough to where she knows I still care deeply for her health and that I’m not upset at her choice. I don’t want to be too supportive though and end up pushing her away, decreasing the chances of being with her again when she’s better.

Unfortunately she’s still under her mom’s insurance, and she won’t let her get professional help. Ironic as her mom is the cause for all of this. She’s planning to move with her aunts to get away from her, but if not, she’ll work as much as she can to spend less time at home. We’re on limited contact as of now, not even because of the separation, but because it’s the space she’s been needing. We plan to call again next week.

I went to relationship_advice for this and everyone seems to tell me to forget about her and move on. Apparently she’s a whore who needed an excuse to break up with me. I understand where they’re coming from, but it feels different when you see someone you care about go down such a dark path. Any help is appreciated.