A friend (she also goes to my college) and someone who I've grown close to noticed I'd been in a bit of a foul mood recently. So she asked me why and I told her this guy I met at a college nearby had been blanking me. She said she could pry and see what was going on with him on my behalf, and I agreed to it. I'm not proud of it but I found it easier to get someone who wasn't too involved in the situation to interact with him. She did just that and he told her he's not talking to anyone, isn't interested in anyone either. She even showed me the messages. I can't believe it I feel dead inside.