Recently my ex broke up with me, she has BPD (Untreated) and I think it was a major reason why she decided to end things. It just doesn't make sense to me like, the reasons she told me seem like things we could've just worked on together, but it feels like it got difficult so her abandonment issues and trust issues just kicked in too hard so she felt like she had to run away. I just can't understand what happened no matter how much I think about it. She always blamed herself though in the end, she's not a monster I know she wasn't just using me. No matter what happens I know she's still a good person, just one who's been hurt so incredibly badly and doesn't know how to cope. I still love her so much, I just don't know what to do anymore..