
Is a good example of BPD Clare crawled from the bachelor?

She says she just wants someone who is there for her and seems to have never had that. She was infatuated with dale right away without even meeting him really. She believed they had a special connection that didn’t exist. She wasn’t willing to even talk to the other guys and had no effort to act nice of friendly to them. She seems easily manipulated and like she sees things the way she wants to see them. People she talks to seem to think she’s a little bit crazy and kinda make facial expressions about how she chose dale after 6 days and she just seems completely confident and overly bubbly/childish- it’s almost like she doesn’t care at all what others think and about their concern 

She calls herself an empath. She’s been in therapy and still doesn’t seem to be better. Usually you would think someone in therapy would be a good person bc they are making an effort to change and grow.. but maybe she’s so focused on how others hurt her that she doesn’t consider how she treats others?

She seems to have emotional outbursts about things she finds really important. It seems that she’s almost too focused on finding others flaws. She seems to have some emotional intelligence but also lack it completely  at the same time. 

It seems like she prides her self in her emotional growth. She had one guy do an emotional exercise where he had to let go of emotional pain. I think it’s a good exercise but it’s a dating show and I guess it’s good to show people what your passionate about but it kind of comes off as if she sees herself as better than others. It’s like she wants to “change” the guy to be more emotionally intelligent and better suited for her while also showing off how she thinks she is an empath. It kind of seems like she has no personality traits besides seeing her self as emotionally intelligent.

Many people call her crazy but there’s always a reason why people act certain ways! I guess I’m just curious? Does she have a personality disorder or was it the way she was raised? I have narcissistic parents, adhd, and a fearful attachement style- I sometimes see a bit of myself in her which I think kinda points out parts of myself to work on but I will say I’m much younger than her.