I’ve recently been going through a really hard time lately and started to split on one of my old FPs. He’s been really upset lately because he feels I’m not putting enough effort into our friendship; f.e. I don’t hang out with him as much, I don’t show him as much love. He says I’m neglecting him and treating him shitty but I’ve told him I wanted space and to figure things out about a million times already. He’s impatient and is constantly complaining about how much I’m hurting him for not paying as much attention to him as I do for other people (which I hang out with very very sparingly). I understand where he’s coming from but the splitting really messes with the way I feel about things. I just get so angry and all I can think is that he’s dramatic and selfish for asking so much of me while I’m going through what I am. I try to be honest about my feelings but I walk on eggshells with what I say to try not hurt his feelings and then he gets pissed saying all I do is lie and break promises. On one hand, I feel like I’m trying so hard and it’s not enough but then on the other I know that he’s hurting and he deserves more attention but that’s literally why I’m asking for space is to WORK on things so that I can BE better. I’m so torn and my anger is what makes me doubt my thoughts and the way I’m handling things. Is he selfish or is my splitting clouding my judgement and I really am just a shitty person?? What do I do? How do I fix it??