It's been months since I broke up with my girlfriend and I still can't get over her. I see her on Facebook and I have a little shot of pain. I wish I could just stop missing her, we were really close. She led me on, that's why I had to leave, but I think I was closest to her than anyone I've been with before or since.

I can go into why I was led on in the comments if you want.

I just want to stop feeling for her, but I don't want to let go. We still have each other on Facebook. We haven't messaged each other is a few weeks so that's good. My goal, I guess, was to be friendly for a while and let her just fade into the background. This is what normally happens with me an my partners, but this time it's different. Every time I see her I feel such loss.

It's so difficult to date even, because no one really measures up to what she and I had. I just don't know what to do because I don't want to think about her all the time but I don't want to block her or whatever. I feel like its healthy to stay friendly with exes, right?

I just need advice on how to get over people without just disappearing them from my life.