I'm going to give an example of something that just happened and I still don't understand why it made me angry. My (trans) brother sent me a tiktok about gatekeeping certain anime characters and I was there laughing but the moment I saw a character I liked, its like I took it as a personal attack so then I was slightly upset. I got kinda moody, so my brother ,taking it in a different way, started getting defensive (understandable if you think someone is being transphobic) but when it happened I got really angry and started having a go at them. Now I'm calm, we communicated and now understand each other. But I'm constantly getting angry over the smallest of things that when I'm calm I'm like what the hell. Maybe it isn't a BPD thing but I don't know what else it could be. So getting to the point why on earth do I get so angry? (Sorry for the waffle LMAO)