This is a long story so I apologize in advance.
 I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like no matter what I do, I can't make anyone happy. Me and my partner have been together almost 7 years. At the beginning it was amazing and we always laughed and had a great time. They started living with me and my parents about 5 years ago now, because of their abusive mother. In the past 3 years things I feel have really taken a turn. My dad is really not great to me or my family but he's away a lot because he drives a truck. He is however unavoidable sometimes, because we live with them. My partner however shuts down  and doesnt want to talk to me every time they even have to be in a room with him which is hard. I do my best to keep them apart but it's just difficult  and sometimes unavoidable when he's home. I try my absolute hardest to do whatever I can for them. I drive them to work, I spend tons of money on them for holidays and frequent vacations, I try my best to really show interest in whatever they like even if it's not really my thing. I wake up every day wondering what I can do to please them and I feel like it's never enough. Recently I'll tell them "I love you" and I'll not even get a response. I don't get gifts from them on my birthdays or holidays and I generally feel like I'm spending all my time balancing trying to keep everyone important to me happy while spending no time for myself at all. I'm exhausted and more depressed than I've ever been in my life. I want to work things out because I literally love them more than anything but I don't even know how to start the conversation because if I upset them they post about me on Instagram instead of just talking to me. Idk what to do and would appreciate some advice. Thanks so much..