People who suffer BPD are often stigmatized as the bad guys. And we all know that to be a hurtful stigma, and untrue. Many of us are really clingy and loyal almost to a fault, and become people pleasers for our FP. 

But something i wish had more awareness is the fact that we’re perfect targets for narcissists and abusive people. Our clingy loyal nature is perfect for abusers to dangle over our heads, and keep us attached, even when they do us wrong. 

I feel like a lot of us are potentially attached to someone who we know is not good for us. Yet we can’t seem to shake them from our hearts.