My family has a bad habit of making themselves the victim even if they are the manipulative instigator. I want to talk to two of my sisters who don’t seem to realize that I am super lonely being in the house alone all day and want to come visit them. Most of the time when I ask they say no. And they never ask me to come over.

One of them pretty much asked why I have to always go over to their place. I’ve told them before that I’m lonely and just want to hang out but they don’t seem to care. I haven’t asked to go over in three weeks because I felt completely abandoned and a safe place (I thought) was taken away with me when it sounded like I was no longer welcome. If my sisters need mental help and people with them, they ask all siblings to come over. It just doesn’t seem fair that they always get the help they need but deny me.

I want to talk about this with them quietly and calmly but they will make it all about them and maybe gaslight me until they make me a bad guy. Should I even talk to them or just let it go? By letting go I mean not asking to go over ever because they almost always say no and it really chips at me with so many denials. It hurts.