If I'm not obsessing over someone I like and I try to just be normal like not overthink what they say or if they don't reply right away or not force them to tell me exactly how they feel 24/7. Just be the average everyday gal. I feel guilty like they are gonna be upset or think I don't like them if I don't give myself to them 100%. Which is a problem I tend to do I've completely lost myself before and now that I'm aware of it and try to not hurt myself like that again, it's hard. How do I know when I'm being normal and when I'm being too distant? I refuse to lose myself again but it's hard to figure out where the lines are. It's like since ive become aware of it, trying to solve it is a foreign language or like my brain can't process the idea that I don't have to give my life away for someone to like me back.