I’m in one and it’s beginning to feel fucking exhausting even though we’re super in love with each other.... no end date in sight but it’s not the right timing now to move closer (finances, jobs, therapy etc). You can imagine the fears that come with this. I trust my partner as much as I’m able to trust anyone. And my partner is fucking amazing and so kind. But i feel drained because it’s hard to feel connected all the time cos we have to talk and sometimes you just don’t feel like talking... we only see each other once a month or so....... any pointers to not get super black and white and super insane about this? My heart hurts for some reason even though I’m with someone amazing... and I begin to feel a little numb almost. I’m confused as to whether our relationship is just not working or if I’m overthinking and over complicating  everything.... fuckkkk