First, sorry about my english, is not my first language.
 I’m not diagnosed with bpd (i’m with EDs and depression) but my therapist and I’ve been talking about bpd because I fit lots of the criteria but i’ve never had a FP, I do obsess over the things I dont like in the people around me, and a little disagreement completely ruins my relationship with them, but I never obsess over the good things as I read many people talk about in here. I’ve always felt detached from people somehow. 
 I’m not meaning to be disrespectful i just want to know what is going on inside my head. &lt;3