I’m not saying their experiences aren’t true, but it’s annoying me because this is what my ex said to me when I ended our relationship. He told everyone I just ended it out of the blue, but that’s not true at all. I had talked to him about issues multiple times and we had been working on it for a whole year. I tried to be open with communication, and everyone else could see how unhappy we were and our constant arguments. I told him I wasn’t happy anymore and that we wanted different things in life. Nothing out of the blue, I mean I didn’t say “hey I’m breaking up with you next week” so if just bringing it up was out of the blue then damn. That’s on them.