they were acting off and i confronted them about it and finally they revealed that they were upset about how i was acting “groupist”. i swear i didn’t do it intentionally, it most likely was a response to my social anxiety and how i mostly only talked to my FP to avoid being out of place. i told them having an FP is a common thing that comes along with BPD and to tell me the next time i act like that because i think it was very subconscious because i didn’t even know. 

does anyone else have similar experiences?