I was pinkslipped in the hospital in july and was there for over a week. i’ve been out for 6 months now but my parter has gotten almost worse. i haven’t self harmed nearly as much as pre hospital and i have been a lot better but this doesn’t seem to matter. (we have been together and living together for almost a year now) i can’t be alone, we can’t do anything a part, they are scared to go to work. i feel like i have to ask permission to anything. we can’t even go grocery store shopping separate and we have to hang out with friends together.  i have brought this up multiple times but i just always feel like i’m being crazy and mean. i have no idea what to do but it’s causing resentment from me towards them. i don’t want to do my traditional “get pissed at partner push them away and then get sad and depressed that i’m alone”  am i actually in the wrong but i can’t see it? or does this seem not normal to you guys too.