I (22F) have been with my partner (21M) for a few months now, with most of the relationship being long distance (his choice, not mine.) and I’ve spiraled a few times because there are occasions where it seems as though my feelings aren’t being reciprocated or he’s just flat out ignoring me. I’ve been begging him for a while to visit, and he’ll say things that make it seem like he wants to come over, but when I ask him directly, he suddenly acts like he’s illiterate and ignores what I said completely in favor of responding to something else I said in our text conversations (he prefers a text heavy relationship which pisses me off to no end). It’s happened a few times and I’ve tried brushing it off, but this time I went full split and basically told him that his dismissal of me makes me not want to see him anymore and that he was hurting me and didn’t seem bothered by that fact. He has yet to respond to my texts, and the longer he goes without responding, the angrier I get. Even typing this right now is making me shake with anger. I’ve been very clear about my BPD and how behavior like this makes me feel like shit, and he’s said he understands and yet his actions don’t seem to reflect it. It feels like I did something wrong and I’m being punished for it. I love my partner and I know that they love me too, but I just wish they’d stop treating me this way without letting me know why. Do you guys think I’m overthinking?