Sometimes I see ppl talking about ppl not responding/ghosting them and how it makes them really upset. As someone with BPD as well, I kinda wanted to try and bring some perspective. I used take is so personally when i felt ignored, ofc, especially if its my favourite person. Over time though, as things have (somehow) gotten **more** difficult and communicating has become something really hard and scary for me. So often, when I really want to respond to somebody, I just can't. I spend hours pacing and worrying about all that I should be saying while not saying anything at all.

... Does anyone else feel like they've somehow become the one ghosting ppl? Or is this just a me problem 😣