I’m struggling to find reasons to talk to people and find conversing incredibly boring. 

I’m a great listener and people quickly open up to me. Also, I do interesting things that I technically could talk about. For example, I rock climbed Half Dome last weekend and just want backpacking with 9 people. 

However, I barely spoke to those 9 people. I felt incredibly better when I was alone in the wilderness vs in the group. Definitely some forms of social anxiety but it feels more like a choice? Or a natural tendency?

On the other hand, I love to dance. There’s no talking in dance and I feel that I can connect deeper through a dance than any conversation. 

I’m not sure if I should force myself to talk to others more. What’s the point?