Hi everyone. Hope you are all doing as well as possible. I had an epiphany recently. My beautiful, vibrant and wonderful daughter has been partially diagnosed as having ADD. We are still going through the process of getting a full diagnosis but I am almost sure after doing my own digging, that yes she does present with most of the prerequisites for such a diagnosis. Interestingly enough, it seems that a lot of what she is experiencing was what I went through as a kid and I feel like I might have been living with ADD my whole freaking life without knowing. 
Obviously, my intention is for my daughter to get all the help she needs. She is super intelligent and I am so tired of hearing that if she were to stop being a dreamer and just focus... Blah blah. She isn't slow or stupid or unfocused or unmotivated, she is quiet (too quiet), shw has liw self esteem and is always down on herself for not being clever enough or extroverted or good enough ( all of which I know to be untrue) and it kills me that she feels alm this negativity toward herself. 
I feel like maybe, presenting with the same 'symptoms' as her as her, there would be some info regarding BPD and ADD co morbidity. There is a lot of info out there regarding co morbid symptoms but not a heck of a lot re adult females with BPD and ADD. If anyone could point me in the right direction or share their own experiences, I would be very grateful. 
Thanks in advance xx