I know it sounds toxic and I am kind of toxic but yeah. I see people talking about how their bf/gf goes to the bar or club with their friends all the time and it’s no big deal bc they “trust them”, but uh 😬 I couldn’t. I could definitely not trust them. 

I’m not saying if you date me, you’re not allowed to have friends. I have a few long distance friends but I never see them, we just text. I haven’t felt like being social in a long time. I also don’t even have the energy or desire to go out anymore, people annoy me or give me anxiety. 

So if my partner was the opposite, I couldn’t do it. Don’t know if it’s a personality thing or BPD thing. Having some friends is healthy but if they need to constantly have an entourage and always be out there with ppl who aren’t me I would hate it.