I used to go to this one behavioral psychologist who told me she thought I had BPD. I stopped seeing her right away. Childish I know. Has anyone else struggled with accepting that you might have traits linked to BPD? It feels like now it all makes sense ( extreme anxiety in relationship, leaving people before they leave me, all or nothing). I always thought maybe I didn’t have BPD since apart from struggling in romantic relationships, I never feel these kind of things in my friendships, I don’t bail on people, I don’t get violent mentally or physically with anyone. I’m just scared. So deeply scared to lose my partner it makes me want to leave them. How can I deal with that and accepting that I have a problem? It feels like no one understands.