Anyone have any advice for talking to family about this illness. After some things were said my father came to me saying are going to talk about whats going on and now I'm not sure how to do it. I will don't worry about the follow through but I don't know where to start. My father is the reason I have it after my childhood but what he did he doesn't see as abuse, or as abandontment, but as a choice he made that was right. And he's always right.