We were watching Bob's Burgers, which is a satirical kind of comedy show.  In the episode we were watching, the grandparents are in a 'swingers' community.  My boyfriend turns to me and says "we should be swingers" excitedly.  Sometimes he'll get quick little happy ideas and normally I love his suggestions, but this time I was stunned.  I asked, Like have sex with other people?  "No like have sex with somebody else, like a threesome".  Holy shit, what?  Does he want to have sex with other people???  Pretty much immediately I started crying and questioning him.  He said it was just a joke and gave me plenty of reassurance, giving me kisses and promising that he only wants to date me.  Still though, I'm going to be thinking about what he said for the next few days.  I know that I'm going to be fine and he was just joking.  I really do believe him, it's just so hard wondering if I'm enough.