Because I'm new to the community I've been reading a lot online and I've seen it repeated several times that because of the shattered sense of identity bpd people have we are likely to dye our hair and change our names sporadically. I don't do this and it made me immediately think "oh my diagnosis must be wrong." The only thing I do is change how I dress and do have the urge to change my appearance or even personality but I can't bring myself to do it in case I become less attractive to certain people or people will think I'm crazy. Don't know if I'm articulating this the best, hope someone can clear this up!