One of my coworkers armchair diagnosed a client of ours, whom everyone despises due to her being over the line and downright abusive at times. In my opinion, she might exhibit BPD traits, but that does not give me the right to 'diagnose' her and to badmouth a particular person as well as all those suffering from the disorder. My coworker actually goes around, shows videos of this client to my other colleagues as entertainment, saying, look how crazy/borderline she is! One of these incidents was on a board meeting. Sadly, everyone goes along with 'the joke'. No one knows or even suspects that the person who actually holds an official BPD diagnosis on this project's team is me. My first reaction was to immediately demand an apology on behalf of my peoples (that would be typical of me btw, always the crusader) but I think I really have to be careful about this. What do you think I should do? It makes me so sad, to see how people think about and behave towards the BPD diagnosis. :'( (no flair, sorry, on mobile)