I have a lot of male energy and am very aggressive, controlling and a natural leader. On one side I am a narcissist but underlying it all, I'm an empath. So here is the story: I just started interning at a Psychiatrist's office. The project manager works under him, and I work under her with other interns. Out of all the interns, the Psychiatrist gives me the most attention, is having meetings in his office with me to take on other projects and clearly I appear "perfect" due to such unintentional charm. The girl I work under is very close with him, and always jokes around with him and stuff. But now, I come in and kinda take control and steal the spotlight. I dont necessarily like it, because I can tell it is awkward between me and this girl. I can feel, that she feels threatened. But, I want these extra projects. I want a paying job. I want to get myself in there. I am passionate about psychiatry, and to her, its just a "job." I can tell the Psychiatrist thinks its awkward as well. Because before, he would invite her in the office with us to talk about my side projects. But now I go alone. Its all just weird. Does anyone feel this way? That girls are very intimidated and threatened by you? But it is natural, and you, and you cant help but stand out, and why tone down when youre being yourself? 