i started seeing this guy two weeks ago, and we both just got out of relationships about a month and a half ago. he instantly became my FP—he’s a real good person and i feel very safe around him. i feel good enough to get into a  relationship eventually, but he wants to take it slow because he has a lot going on, all of which he has told me about.

i know he means well and his reasoning makes sense, but my bpd brain is telling me that he’s rejecting me. i even asked him about it and he completely reassured me but i can’t help but feel kinda heartbroken even though everything is going amazing. i literally could not ask for better and yet here i am crying about him love-bombing me like i’m used to. 

how can i cope with this? thanks y’all