I've been diagnosed with BPD and I have a habit of feeling very emotional. For me its just that i do take things personally and have a habit of behaving in a rather angry way as i get offended by what people do. I've recently lost a friend as she was being annoying by the fact that she'll make plans but then she will cancel. Also she makes annoying offhand comments which ultimately puts me in the bad and I'm quite sensitive so it hurts a fair amount. How do you let things slide and not let your anger control you?