please remove if not allowed. BPD is a rough, challenging, painful illness. Recently, I found great joy in giving people validation and positivity. I've squished on all the people I know personally and so I thought, "who needs squish and positivity in this trying time?" and immediately thought of this sub. I'm very anti toxic positivity and think its important for us to acknowledge our negative coping skills and behavior, but also learn to properly appreciate and be proud of our good qualities and accomplishments. I think one of the widest spread issues in people with BPD is refusing to acknowledge our accomplishments and skills and positive qualities. So yes basically I am feeling squishy, so anyone who needs to be sqwuished on by responsible support please do comment, I shall try to respond to all :)