 We are often sold this idea of solid friend cliques being the "norm", (especially as women/ or bro-hoods) but the reality is such close knit and more importantly, GENUINE friend groups are actually hard to come by.

Many people are two faced, and it is hard for a large amount of people to all get along together, always. Not only this, but it can come down to opportunity to accumulate close friend groups and unless you have one from childhood school/ are in fulltime education or employed, you can EASILY slip through the cracks. I find it funny how in SATC, carrie and samantha hate eachother IRL, and do not talk, at all! Just comes to show how idealistic shows like this are

I was in a horrible, abusive more importantly , disingenous friendship with a small bunch of girls, (with one in particular), and put it this way, I am glad to be away from such dread. I was depressed and didn't acknowledge it turth be told. At least i can identify this and never settle for such bs going forward. Never want to be surrounded by bullies, and would much prefer to be in my own company in all honesty.

But Such groups can accumulate at certain times in our lives, but they are often fleeting so dont feel bad if you havent found your tribe yet! i have hope for me x