I’m very clingy and lately my boyfriend will be busy after he comes home from work without telling me. This upsets me a lot, like to the point of self harm. I wish he would tell me when he would be busy, but I don’t know if telling him that would be abusive/too controlling. I’m fine with him doing stuff and having time to do other things besides talk but when he doesn’t tell me…I just feel so rejected? And it causes me to spiral so much. Anyway yeah idk what to do about it :(