I sat down with my spouse while he was cool and receptive and used a few online tools to do a basic screen to see if he should check with a doctor about BPD, and they all indicated that he should. He agreed that he should. What are our first steps here? What type of doctor should we seek out? 

We’ve known he needed some kind of help for a while now, but he vacillates between wanting to seek help and downright refusing it. He’s prescribed an anti anxiety med from his primary care doctor, but it just seems to make him more impulsive. Also looking for experiences and what we should expect and look out for during this process.