Hey all, first post here, I've been struggling with where to turn for support and when, and really struggling lately with a feeling like I still just don't belong anywhere at all. 
Do I join a group for recovering alcoholics? Suicidal people? (goth bars seem like the only real support there rn, wth?) Bipolar support? Trans support? Autism support is basically just the internet. 
So I decided to start here because aside from the drinking (which is really just a combo of ocd and lack of impulse control so tech I WAS born with it), this is the only one I wasn't born with and I figure it's probably easier to find other people with BPD who are also autistic and bipolar than finding people in those groups with both of the others. 

I think I finally have all my diagnoses squared away. 
My parent DXd me autistic as a child but I didn't get a DX until 29, 
I DXd myself with bpd at fucking 19 and didn't get a DX until this year at 38. 
I realized also, as everyone else DXd me but I denied it because I didn't want to be like my manic depressive mother, I am bipolar since that's the only med that has actually helped me, and I def should have had it and learned to manage it sooner. 

So that's where I am. Almost 40 and finally saddled with the alphabet soup that has impacted my life completely and others obviously, whether it was dxd or not. And finally on the one psychiatric med that does help despite trying what felt like every other anti depressant and anti seizure etc med ever made. 

Anyone else in this particular triple diagnosis boat with me?

DXed or not. I didn't even realize I could be both bipolar AND have BPD, but it's definitely both for me. 
Anyone else get this lucky in the mental lottery?