

So me and my husband fought. Really bad fight. 
So I do have a habit of calling into work but his was just ridiculous

I was telling my husband 34m that I wasn't feeling well I've been nauseous and had a headache all day. So he says so you are calling in already? I said bobo don't work tonight. Then I mentioned that I took off of work the next day because I already told my sister I'd babysit her littles. He got so mad that he started screaming at me. You need to work. I said this has been planned like 7months ago. He just went off the rails. He was yelling at telling me that if I don't start work everyday that he'd be done with me. We've been together for 14years married for 5 years. It's not the 1st time he talked to me like that. He use to be like this at the beginning yelling and fighting with me all the time. I was just the babysitter for my step kids. When we had one of our own he didn't help me with our son so I couldn't work. I did everything for all 4 kids. Still freaking do. Anyways he daughter 16 heard us fighting and told him to stop talking to me like that and my you shouldn't be hearing you talk to his mother like that. Her mom was in a bad relationship so she got triggered. Anyways then he started yelling at her and brought her mom up in a bad way. She know her mom has issues but she doesn't need him reminding her of that. But he straight up said she put herself in that situation. So I spoke up and said so am I doing that too. (already know the answer to that) anyways I'm lost on what to do bwe have to get a loan to fix my car so I'll be stuck again. I can't do it on my own. I truly love him the the amount of disrespect he has for me and his daughter   I can't stand him. He told me he didn't want me there anymore but when I tried to leave he just fallowed me. He's a classic narcissist. He gets like this when he does not get his way an if I'm physically ill for work.  I have regular migraines and I get dizzy spells depression and anxiety and blah blah blah but he's never supportive. Just mad when I don't work. I know we need to get out of this rut we are in but damn can't you give a damn about my health. 

Anyways just venting. Please don't be mean I can take criticism just don't be a d&amp;(k thanks.