I was diagnosed with anxiety (ocd, gad) and depressive disorders when i got assessed 2 years but for the past 9 months i feel like bpd would be better explained. My psychologist and any mental health consultation  ive had keep telling me it doesnt matter if i have a new diagnosis and i’m too focused on the label. Idk why but I’m obsessed with wanting that label. I feel so seen and comfortable in this community but I almost feel like an imposter if i dont get formally diagnosed. Is self diagnosis that bad? And tbh its hard to get access to services. I feel very invalidated and ridiculed by professionals but I assume focusing on the diagnosis is not helping my situation. I’ve kinda built a bit of my personality around bpd and i watch so many videos on it and they’re really helpful. Any advice? I feel like im no longer allowed in these spaces?