Hey folks, I'd like to start out by saying that I'm the boyfriend of a girl with BPD and have been so the last two years.  We have had our ups and downs, but the last few weeks have been particularly rough.  

To start off I love my gf very much, and I do as much as I can for her.  The last few days have been very rough.  She has been in my face trying to provke me into a fight.  She has been verbally abusive more so than normal.  Today she broke down into a rage when I asked her for a potato chip.  She then proceeded to tear me down saying that I'm trying to ruin her day by not letting her eat yet bag of chips...this got worst and worst to the point where I'm in tears from what's she said.  All this on top of everything else over the past few weeks and I'm starting to feel the heavy stress from all of this.  It got so bad today that she is saying that she should just end it all because its simpler.  I cannot talk to her in this state because she says I'm the enemy now.  

To go from having a good evening to her tearing me apart for asking for a potato chip is pretty bad and I don't know how to approach this.  This is also only the tip of a very large iceberg.  Help...