My boyfriend (also my fp) has an issue with the clothes I wear and he usually doesn’t say much about it but lately he’s being more controlling of it using excuses and he gets offended if I call him out on his misogyny (he’s been raised to not be a misogynist but he is still from a conservative family) and everytime that happens I feel like I can’t be with him. Because the way I look and dress is such a huge part of my identity atleast whatever part of it I can control. I don’t know how to explain this to him without either of us getting mad.