How do I stop that? There's someone that I'm very obsessed with. I travelled to another country for weeks and I met them there three times. They can't do long distance relationship but I got so intensely attached to him. I'm not sure about what to do about it. They made it clear that they wouldn't want this and I think that I never made them feel that I was obsessed with them. I'd always keep them at arm's length and act distant. But in reality, I think about them 24/7 and they are literally the only reason why I keep going. We haven't been talking for a while now. We eventually drifted apart.