My girlfriend (pwBPD) and I are going through a really tough time. We broke up a week back and recently started talking again after she was emotionally distraught following the breakup. She's saying she wants to give the relationship a chance but she does not trust me at all as I've broken her trust time and time again (basically I used get very stubborn, refused to understand things from her side and what she felt and the things the wanted me to change about myself, I would say I will and then 5 days later we would fight about the same thing), she doesn't want to wait for me to change and she doesn't wanna put in faith, and tell her something she could do while I put in the effort that does not put her through the same things again. We've had good times and bad, and currently it's a very bad time, but I truly do love her, I really do care about her, and I do want to come up with a way where she won't have to wait for me to change, put faith in me and not trust me either, because it's hard for her to. I REALLY want to make it work but everything that I came up with required her to either wait, trust me or have some faith. Please, help me out. I love her and care about her so, so much.