So my gf of 8 months dumped me seemingly out of the blue and I really don’t know what to feel

We had talked about the future a lot and always worked through the little fights we had together. I had just met her entire family at a wedding two weeks prior to this and it went great. Sincerely thought things were very serious.

Her mother was diagnosed with cancer early this year and I thought things were getting better. But recently she stopped communicating with me 95% from what was normal. When I showed up asking what was wrong she said she was moving home with her mother, had too much stress going on, and wasn’t ready to be in this relationship right now.

Now I want to absolutely be there for her, but can’t in the best way that is comfortable for me - which is of course a selfish thought. Do I just wait and pray that she becomes more grounded and whole through this new journey, and I can be a larger part of her life down the line?

The main thing that hurts is not having my person to talk to everyday - and feeling that I’m a nuisance. I’m giving her space but life has been so tough. I’m not sleeping or eating. I’m crying in my car. I don’t know how to ground myself and get a sense of reality.

Thanks for reading and any support.