I’m doing something so out of my comfort zone and I need help.

My boyfriend’s birthday is next week and I am trying to put together a surprise party for him. I have never planned anything in my life (I did ask a mutual friend of ours to help me though and she gladly accepted). My boyfriend graduated December 2019 and was in a fraternity. He was never really close to any of the fraternity members, and had some drama with him, but he still gets invited to little get together they have and he has a great time. He tells me that they always are happy to see him.


Well, I messaged the current president of the fraternity asking if they all would be on board for the location of the surprise party to be located there. I’ve hung out with my boyfriend on several occasions and went to a couple formals. At first when sending this message, it felt like an amazing idea. Now, I’m freaking out. He messaged me back 30 minutes ago but I’m too scared to open it. I’m scared of rejection and looking stupid. 

I already reached out invited all of my boyfriends important friends and they’re all excited.

These are my concerns:

What if this idea is stupid bc he already graduated? 
What if this idea is stupid bc they’re not even that close to him?
What if I get rejected?? I keep telling myself this is for him, but I’m sooo nervous.
What if the president accepts, but only bc whatever stupid reason and everybody else thinks it’s dumb?
What if the party isn’t that great?? 
What if this whole thing is so stupid like what if the fraternity is not into it bc he already graduated and is wondering why he is still sticking around?? Idk???

I’m too scared to open the message.