I know that those of us with bpd tend to struggle with our sense of self, but I found this really great suggestion to sort of help with that. Basically just keep a journal and fill it with everything. Quotes you likes, cool art work, diary entries, reviews of books, tv shows, places to travel, things to buy, to-do lists, playlists, moodboards, pictures, stickers, tickets, dried flowers and/or leaves, letters, etc. And the idea is that while filling the journal out, you’ll begin to discover a sense of yourself and the things you like. I don’t know 100% that it helps, but I thought it sounded like a cool idea, and wanted to share it with everyone.