I don’t want to make it sound like it’s a good behavior but I also don’t want it to sound like some crazy Joe from “YOU” shit. I don’t follow people around or show up at random places. I will however try to gather as much information from as many sources as I can. I want to know if I can trust you.(I’ll ask questions I already found the answers to) I want to know if you’re a criminal, if you’ve had healthy relationships, what you like and don’t like, who you’re friends with etc. the more “red flags” the more I look to validate/invalidate them. 

Annnnd being that no one is perfect I find a red flag anyway and use it to devalue you once you’ve pissed me off. Because I can negatively twist anything.