So I wanted to know if anyone else has been in the position where they've had a favorite person who was really manipulative towards you and gaslighted tf outta you when you were together...and now that you're no lomger together, you're still alone and they've moved on happier than ever, even being in a relationship. Basically wanna know if anyone here has in turn internalized that and blamed themselves for all the bad things that happened, even if you've already realized how your ex-fp didn't treat you well. Like how do you cope with that!