Not sure if I'm wording this right. I notice when I argue with my boyfriend I often talk a lot about the pain/hurt I am feeling and forget or have a hard time realizing he too is also feeling pain/hurt/sadness. I am usually a highly empathetic person so I have no idea why this happens to me but it's almost like I feel like I am the /only/ one in the situation suffering which only exacerbates my sadness. Does anyone else also have this experience or know why it happens?