My wife has been hospitalized for a week after a violent mental breakdown, and her doctors have diagnosed her with and started her on treatment for BPD. Reading about it it definitely seems to fit her, especially the parts about extreme violent outbursts, losing touch with reality on occasion, and being suspicious of strangers and their true intentions. That's her, and that's always been her.

So, as her husband, how do I make sure she gets the proper care necessary to be happy?