I don’t exactly know if the flare I added onto this post is right, but it’s the closest I could find.

I’ve never really been around any healthy relationships as I was growing up? I lived with my mom who was in relationships for like two years before they started fighting too much, and whenever I saw my dad he and his wife would fight a lot. So I don’t think I know how to have healthy relationships and I can tell that sometimes the way I act hurts my boyfriend?

I was wondering if anyone had any ideas to how I could maybe argue with my boyfriend in more mature ways, because as of now he feels like I blame him for everything. I know that the fighting will never stop but I’d like to be able to fight with him in a more mature way, that won’t hurt his feelings.