Hello all, fellow anxiety buff here. My boyfriend (31) has offered to take me (29f) on a trip for work to Germany (we’re from the USA) at the end of February. It would be for a week. And we’d only have a day, possibly two, when he wouldn’t be working. I have always suffered with anxiety (holy nausea 😞), particularly when it comes to airplanes, trips, and social situations. We would be going with his boss and his wife. Between this being our first international trip, going with his boss (who I’ve never met) and only a day or two of actual “vacation” I’m really struggling to find the desire to go. I feel like this is not okay though - as it’s potentially a “once in a lifetime” opportunity and the company would cover the travel costs.

Help. He needs an answer by tomorrow evening. My anxiety is on full alert.

Tl;dr: not sure if id enjoy a trip due to my anxiety, but don’t want to miss out on an opportunity.