So one of my partners has told me they are planning on moving. Currently in NSW Australia and they said they want to live in Tasmania 

At the moment they live about an hour away by driving and this is just going to screw everything up, I am terrified of flying and get sea sick (I know I can get stuff for both I've just never needed to) 

Was planning on building an extra room onto our house so we could possibly have them live with us. Polyamorous family here. But now that they've told us this I guess there's no point in even mentioning it to them 

My heart feels shattered and I am just wondering what's the point of even trying if they want to move that far away from me 

I know I'm probably being dramatic but I am hurting so bad right now