I am undiagnosed, and I keep going back and forth on whether to talk to my counselor about BPD. (I never lied to her, I just never mentioned that I'm convinced I have BPD) Forgive me for my naivete, but I have no idea how getting diagnosed even works or the implications of it. I'm not sure how true this is, but I read somewhere that getting diagnosed with BPD can affect future employment? What would you say the pros and cons of getting diagnosed are?