Hi, my friends with BPD. My life has been one arduous struggle to get a medical degree and to have a stable relationship. Every day is a struggle with the illness. But there is so much I have learnt along the way. I’m 28 life has only gotten tougher but it’s easier now that I know how to deal with my demons a little better. I have a relationship but I still don’t know how to define it. I have a career but my heart doesn’t lie in it. Let’s say that I’m living and not thriving. For those of you who are older or have achieved remission what are some takeaways. I don’t want to live another ten years to know better. I DONT want to learn it the hard way. I want to know NOW. Tell me what everything and all your secrets.