Hello so I am in a relationship with my FP, we live together and I use all of my time with him. The issue is that my sister and mother are getting mad at me for how much I don’t see them anymore. My FP is enlisting in the military and we plan on getting married so I can go live on base with him. I told my sister about this plan and she blew up on me for never spending time with her anymore (for some context she is bipolar, but I don’t really know if that changes anything) I don’t want my family to feel like I’m abandoning them. They blame my partner and think he may be possessive behind closed doors but he’s really not at all, he wants me to go spend time with my other loved ones but I can’t bring myself to leave his side. Does anyone have any advice of how to deal with this? I love my family a lot and want to be able to spend as much time with them as possible before we leave, but it’s so hard to not spend all of my free time from my 40hr work week with him.