I’ve posted before about how bad things with my wife have been. I’ve been trying to support her seeking treatment and getting better. She mad checked herself into a facility and says she wasn’t getting the treatment she wanted and checked herself out. Now it’s been a couple weeks and she’s extremely suicidal but refuses to check herself in for help. 

My grandmother passed away last week and the funeral is tomorrow in another state. I asked her if she could try to get the day off of work and go with me and she didn’t even bother asking. She proceeded to pick a fight with me about me not going and  compromised I go and come back the same day (about 900 miles driving there and back). Now it’s the day before the funeral and she’s demanding I stay because she’ll feel resentment I abandoned her and left her for my family. I’m trying to grieve my grandmother and support my father as he goes through burying her and I have a wife at home threatening to kill herself if I go or she’ll never come home. Either one is a good option in her mind. 

I’m trying to support my wife but I need some support as well. Sorry, I needed to vent and just curious of others opinions on the situation.