Hello, fist time poster long time viewer of the sub. 
I recently moved in with my bf and have had heightened anxiety due to being in a new town, going to a new school, and just overall a more complicated schedule and life. 
My bf has been more passively supportive of me for our relationship and it is fine. Recently, my anxiety has bothered him or annoyed him more than I’ve ever noticed before. 
I am struggling with heightened anxiety and get even more anxious when he’s expressing his annoyances with me. 
I no doubt understand how it can be difficult to be with someone that has extreme anxiety, and I do see a therapist regularly. I am working on it, certain situations make it more difficult to apply skills newly learned. 

I guess I’m wondering if anyone else has had to set boundaries with themselves so that their relationships don’t completely suffer or get worse? Or how to not expose their partner to their anxiety as best they can?