Let me start off by saying I love this woman to death, but sometimes her over-dependance on me can get a little draining, and I'm honestly just kinda shit at bringing it up. Sometimes it can feel like asking me to do something for her (make her coffee, dinner, various chores) is her default choice as opposed to doing it herself. She also seems to have a really hard time being away from me for more than a few hours at a time (we live together so we rarely go days without seeing each other. One time she cancelled going to her parents house for Christmas because she didn't wanna spend that much time away from me around the holidays). There are other examples but these seem to be the most prominent. How can I bring this up to her without her feeling like I'm pushing her away. I'm also worried she's gonna overcompensate and worry that if she asks me for anything I'm gonna get annoyed/angry.

Thanks in advanced for any help