He’s definitely a huge step up from my ex, not only physically but most importantly mentally, he’s so dreamy and he’s the image of perfection to me. I told myself I wouldn’t be the person I was with my ex, I wouldn’t be overprotective and jealous.. I wouldn’t cry, and I wouldn’t let my trauma get in my way. But even after just meeting him I can’t help but feel so overwhelmed with jealousy. 

He has a friend, who’s a girl, they’ve dated before but she broke up with him. I can tell when he talks about her, there’s still a lot of feeling there. She works with him, and they talk all the time, even when they’re not at work. He was showing me pictures in his camera roll and he scrolled fast past pictures he had of her, full body pictures, clothed ofc.. and A LOT of selfies from her that were very very recent.. it makes me so uncomfortable but I don’t want to admit it because even his family are cautious of me being crazy and jealous because of other girlfriends he’s had. I’m hesitant to even express my feelings toward him about it because so far I’ve been very nice about her and have acted completely unbothered by them being friends. And honestly, I wouldn’t mind if they talked, because I want to have that trust with him, but the pictures he keeps of her make me so worried. Why not just delete your ex’s mildly sexy full body pictures even if you’re still friends? I can’t help but think he’s still in love with her and I’ll just be led on when he inevitably cheats on me with her. 

Am I in the right to eventually ask him to delete the pictures? Or will that just show that I’m insecure about their friendship? Should I tell him how I feel or will that just show that I don’t trust him? 