
So I met this girl and I’ve been in a relationship with her for around 4 months now and she loves me loads and she literally does everything for me and I give her nothing. She buys me everything, if I want to meet her she will leave everything and meet me, she was supposed to go on a holiday with her friends which she now has decided not to go so that she can go on a holiday with me. She wants to meet me everyday and I just meet her when it’s convenient I usually make up lies to why I can’t meet her and instead I just have fun with my friends like we will go to nightclubs, smoke weed and do random crazy stuff. 

I am aware that I am probably a covert narcissist and that makes me have trust issues with her because I’m worried she could be a narcissist or a borderline and this love that she gives me is fake as it seems too much. 

She treats me like a narcissist would want to be treated like she always says how happy she is to meet me and how she can’t wait. She says I’m the most amazing guy ever, she wants to keep my clothes because they smell of me and says how I’m a unique character and there’s no one else like me. We both drive but I never drive her, she always picks me up and drops me off and when we go out somewhere she won’t let me pay she always pays on dates and everything. 

Is she crazy or something? I’m not sure if she’s not a borderline, she can sometimes get angry and become sort of impulsive in some situations. Like for example her deciding to not go to that holiday was impulsive imo. Also I feel like sometimes she tests me if I have emotions as she knows I hide my emotions to avoid getting hurt because I opened up to her. She knows about my insecurities and stuff. She knows how I work. In social situations I like to act like I have a massive ego like a narcissist would but when I’m with her I’m a lot more chill and emotional and maybe yes I probably fake that as well but I guess everything is an act for me. My question is if she’s real or does she fake her personality just like I do?