my girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 years and she was recently diagnosed with bpd 2 months ago. i love her more than anything but she is a very sensitive person and i messed up recently with telling something about an ex and my cousin that she wanted to know it had to do with some weird shit that my cousin and ex did in the past, i haven’t talked to my ex in 5 years when we broke up after i told her on the phone she laughed but mainly i could tell she was uncomfortable so i try to move on with the conversation but before i can she says she wants to hang up for the night. i wake up the next morning early because she has a flight to new york that i know she was nervous about so i text her but she doesn’t respond for a few hours and then i asked if she’s there but she says the flight was canceled and that she doesn’t wanna talk to talk and that she needs a break from me for a bit. i tell her i understand and that i’m sorry the entire night i had terrible anxiety i couldn’t sleep i was just thinking if she was gonna break up with because of this but i refrained from texting her. unfortunately i couldn’t take it any more and i told her just a minute ago that this hurts and she responded with “i don’t want to talk to you😣😣😣” i lover her so much and i don’t know why it’s hurting me like this i wanna to communicate with her but i think it’ll make things worse.