I (f25) have BPD diagnosed 3 years ago and am DBT therapy. I have had my fair share of friend break ups bc of my lack of abandonment but now I’m comfortable with space and not worrying about losing my friends. All of my friends understand my issues and will communicate with me if there is an issue. However my friend C (m30) constantly finds issues with my behavior and or actions. Let me reiterate that I see C once or twice a week if that. I’m an overall chill person to get along with. None of my friends have an issues with me like C has. Yesterday me and C hung out. Everything was great. Today he messaged me about how moody I was yesterday and it was about a tik tok. Yes a tik tok. I commented I like a sound by lil YATCHY that went viral and said it’s catchy. He said “it’s not a song it’s a sound bit” I got kind of annoyed because this stuff happens all the time with him. He finds things to pick on me for, things I like for no reason. So I just stayed to myself for 10 minutes until I got over it so I wouldn’t emotionally overreact. Today out of the blue, mind you we have texted a lot since yesterday, brings it up out of NOWHERE. Says that I’m too emotional and I’m too sensitive for that. I told him that it’s out of the blue to bring up such a small incident. Now he’s mad at me. This happens constantly.