Hi all, I’m fairly new to the sub, but my best friend of 6 years has BPD. We actually started dating about 8 months ago. I have been doing research on BPD, be understanding of their triggers and not judgmental. They are on a waitlist for therapy and I think it’ll start soon. But lately it has been really bad. The triggers are becoming more and more easy. They said that it’s only around me that they get really angry and abusive to. And though I can withstand it, cause I know through time it will get better, with the DBT workbook and their therapy starting soon. But they said it’s hurting them so badly that they think they’re hurting me. I honestly don’t know what to do. I need some advices to go about this. They’re too important to me and I don’t want to lose them. Is there anything that I can do?