**TW Not a positive story**  


  
Hallo yall, I'm lost about this situation and would love help because I love and care about this person so much it pains me to see this happening

A relative (mid-50s black man) and someone who's been like a father to me and several of my other family members went off Abilify (c.2016, 2mg/day) late 2019 and started to spiral...

Marriage, job and it's health insurance, the car he owned, tens of thousands of dollars in savings = **gone**  


Now he's homeless in Vegas and my urge is to get him back on the meds as soon as possible, but I dont know how...or if this is somehow selfish of us? I know he would/has gone above and beyond to help us when we've fallen so...I just don't know what's right here

  
 Since both his mother died in a mental institution and his sister died in jail, I'm reluctant to involve authorities but I also cannot go there myself...all I have is his phone number  


Thank you for any suggestions