When I was younger I had problems adjusting to things and new places and always felt insecure.  Now I am in college, and have a large group of friends to party and hang with.  Thing is, despite this, I always feel like I can’t really connect with people.  I don’t know how to open up to anyone, and I am bad at reading others.  This makes me feel distant from others at times, and I feel like I’m isolated in my own mind from people, especially in big groups.  I can be social if I try, but inside I’m very insecure about people liking me and accepting me.  Anybody else deal with this?  It really bothers me at times and I don’t think I’ll ever change...