I have been with my partner for some time. I really like getting to spend time together. He is one of my best friends. We haven't figured out exactly our plans in the relationship, though I know there are things he can help me with and has chosen not to until this point in time. I really think we could have a good relationship, though honestly without him explaining a couple of things I have no idea the next steps in our relationship. I am probably going to need his help, though I know he isn't one for being interested in helping people often. I'm getting really stressed by the idea and want to be able to resolve some of these conversational subjects, to move on with my life. I just don't know if he is up for the challenge, and it really bugs me. I'm getting intense anxiety over it.