This is super long and I've tried to write this without explaining everything but tl;dr

Have a friend I've known for 5 years starting to go down the redpill road and it's been causing a lot of splitting for me. But he's also so deathly dependent on me so I feel the urge to stop this from getting worse and I need coping tips so we can stop getting into so many arguments it's a 2 way street. we talk daily and it's not like i'm clinging to him or really that attached I just see someone needing help that I know and I want him to get it. I've been urging talking to a family friend, a teacher, etc(he's in college so I'm listing those resources). But I am REALLY arse when I see someone even in private making fun of someone and I've turned to just ignoring him, which is causing more problems. It's absolutely a 2 way street and there was way more but it was so long I deleted i. t 

I just want some coping tips I don't want to burn this bridge so I stop splitting all the time on him(in my head not actually yelling at him) it goes for literally hours and he is picking up on it and keeps pointing out that I'm always angry at him and need to stop