I was friends with a (m22) for 3 years and I just needed a place to vent. I wasn’t in a relationship with this guy but he would always be flirty with me/compliment me or at least always gave me the impression he liked me, but our relationship was so toxic and touched so much on my insecurities or created ones. I didn’t let this person go because I had gained an attachment to him and all my life all i’ve ever known has been love/hate relationships including my dad. I could expand on the list but these are just a few things. I just don’t understand why he did this to me, I’m sure with another girl he wouldn’t be like this, so why me.
- always gaslighted me
- Name calling (attacking my character)
- Always blaming things on me calling me too sensitive/emotional or unable to take a joke
- Using arguments I’ve had with my family against me
- Always claiming im in the wrong and that his version of the events is correct
- Telling me he loves me but then treating me poorly
- He has also told me he would f*** me in places I don’t want to be f***ed
- Belittling me and making me feel as though I’m stupid