So I live in some sort of a dorm (female only). I've been living there since last month, and initally i was the only person there as most people are returning back home due to pandemic. But, after two weeks of living there suddenly someone comes and lives in the next room. That turns out to be someone I know too.

My bad actually, I usually invite my friends over and my boyfriend as well. Usually my friends came because there are not much cafes or restaurant to visit for hanging out, discussing on projects, or simply to chill so they come over to my place. Of course we are not quite. And yes it disturbs this new person, so she texted me super long texts stating she doesnt feel comfortable with me bringing my friends, and hoping me to not bring anyone anymore to my room as she feels disturbed. She especially noted on not bringing my boyfriend over as it is a female only dorm, meanwhile the owner/landlord doesn't mind me bringing a guy to my room, as long as he doesn't sleep over. It is like, I have rights to do anything I want in my room but also I don't live all by myself here.

And after receiving all those texts, I feel so anxious and it triggered my anxiety. My mind is so busy of any bad scenarios. I feel so scared to leave my room, afraid I might see her and it is gonna he awkward as hell.

So I decided to just move to the third floor so I won't meet her, nor the noises I made will be heard. Not sure if it is a good idea but, I think it is the best I could do so it won't trigger my anxiety anymore. I wanna move out but  I've already paid the monthly rent.