So this guy who I matched with online (on Tinder) is President of this condo management company, really good looking guy, seems confident... just has the look of being a typical player to me. He's in his mid-30s I believe... he doesn't really seem too engaged w/me, I am typically the one msging him, following up... I ask to add him on Facebook as I found him on there (he was a suggested friend for some reason, must be a Tinder glitch or something) and he said he can't, he only has family on there (BS as I see a lot of friends liked his stuff on his page, etc. but whatev)... I say 'yeah right lol' and then he asks why I am accusing him of lying.. I say whatever, let's drop it.. (didn't want to admit I was really creeping his profile or anything). Then he says if he added a bunch of girls everyday he wouldn't want his mother seeing... so I'm like 'oh you have a lot of girls then?' and he replies something like 'yeah, so I'm the only guy you're talking with then??' which offended me a bit.. obviously I matched w/a lot of guys but I typically don't go telling ppl that (sometimes I do if I really don't give a sh*t about the guy but usually I don't mention how I have 100s of other guys chatting w/me...) Anyway I told him straight up, I get the impression he's a player so that's prob why I asked.. he concluded with "you are annoying. Bye."

Doesn't seem he was that much into me to begin with but do you think my BPD passive-aggressive traits or being too upfront got in the way? :/ Should I tone it down in the future or do u think he was being an ass too... honestly, I am often like this... tell it like it is, sometimes it turns off guys, sometimes it doesn't... this guy looks a bit like a typical rich player dude, posing with his red convertible, at a yacht club, etc... I do imagine he'd have lots of girls but I still like being treated like a lady &amp; pursued even for F*ck buddies... I'm wondering if I'm being a bit too picky tho. :/ Lately I am rejecting guys like flies myself.... :/ :( 