My ex “cancelled” and “packed” me. Called me a groomer and a pedophile. Yet it doesn’t make any sense to me still considering that we both are only apart by 1 year and 6 months. We did stuff back when we were both minors and continued it a bit after I turned a adult. It disgusts me knowing that they think I only went for them just for sex, yet I did everything I humanely could for them when they were having huge mental breakdowns, or they just needed someone to talk to. I helped them with their apparent alcoholism they had and tried to keep them off the bottles. I was their friend for 9+ months, dated them a bit here and there. I feel so fucking ashamed of myself seeing them tell others how I “took advantage” of them, never bringing up the age difference but only saying they are 16 and how I was supposedly the only sexual person in the relationship when they were extremely sexual. No matter how many times I show these people that I talked them like normal human beings 99% of the time and we both would just have fun with each other sfw style. They doxxed me as well and wanted to tell my family, which hurts inside because I’ve wanted to keep a majority of my online life outside of my family. If anything hurts really at the moment, it’s seeing them never bringing up how much effort I put into trying to make them happy when they went through a lot.