I have recently been diagnosed, i have seen a psychologist for around 8 years all up, i have worked on myself a lot because i was originally diagnosed with just severe anxiety. 
Its a shock i have only just been diagnosed. 

A lot of things written here make so much sense to me, as bad as this is and how negative people can be towards us with BPD. 

We are told to get help and work on ourselves constantly to be more "normal" regardless of what people say, what are the traits of this disorder that you like? 

I like how overly observant i am, for the most part being suspįcious and observant has gotten me through life well. 

I have been told by countless people that they have never felt the love i have given them from anyone before which is nice to hear that you'll be remembered as extremely loving. 

What do you like about how your mind works?