Does anyone else with BPD dye their hair a lot but also get kinda uncomfortable or insecure if someone else dyes their hair the same colour? 

Like I dye my hair a lot of different colours and have done for a long time but if someone I know has the same colour as me I have to change mine.

Part of me feels like it's to do with not having a clear identity and I feel like my hair colouring makes up a lot of who I am and when someone else has the same colour it makes me feel inadequate or like I'm back to not having my own ID because I'm no longer "different" or "stand out"...