My mom has a habit of bottling up her feelings of anxiousness and then spilling them all out on me. For example, I told her I wanted to get an internship anywhere but California (my home state) and it hurt her feelings. She got really worked up and upset about it and told me how she felt and I feel terrible. I feel selfish and I feel like the worst daughter on the planet. I have anxiety too and I feel like it was unfair of her to project her emotions to that degree, I feel like she should know me better than to know I would never intend to cut off my family. But she says she wanted to make me aware that the way I say things can be hurtful. The whole situation has me crying and very sad and upset I don't know what to do.