Has anybody with BPD dated someone who was emotionally unavailable. I always was so confused on why my feelings for everything were so intense and why the same energy never got reciprocated until I found out I have BPD. I go to therapy weekly doing dbt work &amp; I’m on medication. I did group therapy and have noticed the progress I’m making I go weeks without a episode (I’m also bipolar 2) and I convinced myself that all of my fights w my bf was on me once I found out my diagnosis (found out both diagnosis at the same time) however I’m seeing so much change within myself yet these same cycles of my bf being dismissive with my feelings and ignoring me when we fight with out communication of needing space don’t go away he’s so self absorbed and says we shouldn’t be together every time I voice concern about how he acts during fights…is this healthy for my progress I’m so confused it’s the only thing that triggers my depressive episodes these days..