I’m 35, but don’t feel it. My parents are moving house and a friend asked me if I was dealing with the solicitors for my ageing parents. Umm..no, I would not have the slightest clue how to do that. 

I moved out when I was 18, I have a job (but not a career) I’m a mom, but still I feel like there are loads of “life” type stuff I have no idea how to do. It’s totally overwhelming. 

I know people my age who talk about dealing with their parents finances and helping them with general life stuff as they get older. I don’t do any of that, I don’t know how? I talk to them regularly, but I either chat casually, or it’s me asking them for advice. I feel like the dynamic is supposed to shift into me looking after my parents at some point but I still feel like it’s always them having to support me. I just feel like such a failure. Anyone else feel like this?