im talking about things not necessarily related to abandonment for example: people cancelling plans, not showing up, making fun of you for something small, people not agreeing with you, people talking to you (sometimes)...... that kind of things.

for example i really wanted to spend some alone time and my dad came and sat with me and i started crying and had a full on anger episode (away from him). getting the urge to break, scream, yell, hurt... just because he sat beside me and ruined my alone time

i texted my close friend telling her how angry i was and stuff like that

is that a bpd thing or..?