The other night I got really upset about a multitude of thing but the person I’ve been casual with is moving away, I told him to do it because I can’t stop him, but also he seemed unsure with a lot of things. We agree not wanting a relationship and that we can be with other people and that’s fine with me. 

So we got into this huge thing because he mentioned how he’s going to his workplace holiday party with his best friend and I know that they’ve dated and stuff but he never really mentioned that being her and just mentioned bringing a friend to it. I told him that was shady and ignored him as he tried to find out what’s wrong cause I know he hates being ignored. I was also upset that he’s moving and I think things were building up and he said something along the lines of “oh no are you being bipolar” and I snapped a little like how that’s not even funny because people who go through that suffer so much. He said sorry and then we had intercourses but he was really weird we out because I was upset and crying afterwards and he comfort me but also I’m so scared to come to terms with bpd. I also want for future reference in my dating life, when would I tell them about it?