Recently over the last few days ny close friend has called me a narcissist. But the only reason he called me a narcissist is because I am in love with myself. Meaning that im "overly confident". I know that being confident and loving yourself is great. But I dont want people around me to think im a narcissist. I think self obsession is only trait besides having lack of empathy (really hard for me to comfort people when they feel sad or anything) makes me seem like a narcissist. I dont put other people down or manipulate anyone or never downgrade a person in my life. So idk if im one or not