I have absolutely no idea the right page to post this to. I'm just wondering. Do people actually say what they feel and say what's on their minds? Is that what I'm doing wrong? Due to a number of different events in my life I have devolved to being a people pleaser- to the point where I bite my tongue and never speak my mind or how I'm really feeling. If something bothers me, I'll never say it. Id rather just deal with the inner conflict than create conflict in my life and relationships. However this has led to me getting walked all over, and just being generally unhappy in my life. I guess I thought to a certain extent everyone bit their tongue to keep the peace but maybe not? How can I start being more honest with myself and those around me and start truly speaking my mind without just seeming like a heartless asshole? I know this sounds stupid, but I've literally spent my whole life prioritizing everyone over myself. But I have a son now and I have got to learn to stand up and be his voice.