My bf (24M) decided he was going to do no nut November which is fine because he has the complete right to deny intimacy and stuff like that. But when I (21F) found out I felt a pit in my stomach because my dumb brain somehow reasoned that it was just because he found me unattractive or that I wasn’t hot enough to turn him on. This is far from the truth because we very often have sex and he always assures me and he even was saying how he still wants to get me off this month that he just wouldn’t have sex. He isn’t doing anything wrong but I can’t keep my emotions in check I get clearly upset and it makes him feel like he’s doing something wrong which he’s not. I just feel so ugly and sad.

I guess what I’m asking is if you guys experience stuff like this and how I can maybe deal with it? I don’t want to explode on him.