My husband is depressed. He’s been depressed for a long time and I’ve tried everything I know how to do to support him but it’s not what he needs. The problem is that he doesn’t want to talk about the depression and he can’t tell me what he needs because he doesn’t know. It’s really affecting our relationship and I think I’m starting to get depressed too and I don’t want to lose my focus, him. Those of you that have/are depressed, can you please share what was helpful for you? What you wish you had? How do I support him? I’m so sorry you deal with depression. It’s a horrible thing to live with. Thank you so much!