Hello, 

I am a 25-year-old woman, and struggle with BPD. I find that I get attached to people quickly and end up falling hard for them. When things end, it feels like the most intense pain, even though it was not right or not meant to be. 

I also realize I attract a lot of emotionally unavailable men, and try to make things work with them, even though it is not right. 

I really wish I could be happy on my own and learn to love myself. I am taking the steps to do this, but it is going to take time. 

Does anyone else struggle with this as well?