Hi,

 I am living with a beuatiful person who carries BPD, me myself just experience the ups and downs I am no expert and have hard time sometimes to understand it, but I try to learn. We have been for 5 years together. Recently we got into an argument and she became hateful towards me and we broke up, not to put my self on a throne but I tried my best to be the sweetest to her and never raised my voice or said mean stuff to her so she may get triggered. She now requested to have space but she still in the same house as me.  
   
I don't know what to do. Is she putting me in a gray area just to dip her waters somewhere else and want to keep me as her backup? I am confused and I don't want to trigger her in anyway. I love her and wish to make it up with her. I would be grateful for some advice.