I’m sorry if this is the wrong subReddit. 

But a guy I have been seeing for about 2 months is depressed. He used to go to therapy but stopped. 

Had a girlfriend, broke up. Then met me, we started dating. There is such phenomenal chemistry between us. He’s told me he feels light with me. Shared a lot of intimate details about himself with me. 

But we broke up because 
- he feels guilty for wasting my time because he feels like he’s not ready for a relationship 
- is (he claims to be) emotionally unavailable. “If I can’t be there for my own self how can I be there for you”. 

And that’s okay. I need him to have his space and heal. But he’s refusing to talk to me and has unfollowed me on social media because he doesn’t want to even see my profile. 

He drinks and smokes a lot. He says he can’t feel anything. And he only feels happy or anything at all when he’s drinking. 

I don’t know how and what to do. I want to do anything I can to help him. Whether or not he wants to be with me. 

Please help.