I was just wondering, has anyone been able to establish a comparatively stable relationship with someone who wasn't an FP? I've always felt that a relationship would just be impossible for me because my relationship traumas have come from people who were my FP's which really exacerbated my BPD symptoms and made the relationship difficult for both me and them. But I was wondering, maybe a relationship would be more manageable if I dated someone who wasn't an FP. Because I have pretty good and stable friendships, and that is with friends who I don't have an FP type relationship with, and I was wondering - maybe a relationship is actually possible for me if I could manage to keep them in a non-FP range.  

So my questions are:

\- Have you had a romantic relationship with someone who wasn't an FP?

\- What was the relationship like? What were the benefits? What were the cons?

\- Did they eventually become an FP? Or did someone start out as an FP and then fade out into not being one?

Hopefully, this makes to someone.