First time poster. So the past few guys I’ve seen have all stopped seeing me because I would be too forthright with my emotions. Basically saying things like “I’m scared you’re gonna stop liking me. I’m worried I’m gonna get hurt. I’m getting attached. I’m worried all you want me for is sex. Etc”. My new way to combat this is to be overly mean and lethargic towards guys I’m interested in and the guy I’ve been seeing for the past month picked up on that and said that he didn’t even know if I liked him and that I was hurting his feelings. So I switched it around and went back to being overly caring and affectionate. Which has resulted in over attachment. This guy has talked on the phone with my mom, and I met his dad today. When I asked him what he thought about us and our “relationship” he classified it as two people getting to know each other. This made me flip my lid and I proceeded to overload him with my fears of abandonment and the fact that my main reason for wanting to have sex with him is so that I can be close to him emotionally. His response was “I don’t know how to react to that”. Feeling like the lowest of low right now and pissed at myself for falling into the same pattern.