I (M) have been in a loving relationship with somebody who also struggles with BPD (F) and I must admit it is a rollercoaster some of the time but it is the best thing that has ever happened to me. We have been together for 2 years and we are also pregnant (due in July). The disorder defiantly affects the way we interact with each other if you compare to the “normal relationship. Our highs are very high and met with  endless amounts of love and support while the lows can be very low and met with distantness and lots of other negative feelings. We are never toxic towards each other but things can become pretty rough pretty quick on the wrong days. I feel the important part is knowing what your partner needs and when they need it. Know when space is the answer and when love is the answer. I don’t really know where I’m going with this but a post on this sub got me thinking. Anybody else have any experiences similar?