According to the statistics of my country, here in Canada we have something like 80 years of life expectancy... That's about 30,000 days of life filled with experiences. After much reflection, I think that we should be detached from the past and events. Once they have happened, there is nothing you can do about them except how to react from them! And now I choose to learn lessons but not to hang on to the obstacles or the past. I prefer to focus on the fact that tomorrow will be the first day of the rest of my life; a blank page to be filled with the ink drawn from yesterday's wisdom. It's up to me, and you, to write a new chapter every day - especially since - if I'm lucky enough, statistically I only have 15,000 days left. The present moment forges the next moment which builds the future. 

I hope it help!