Alright so I’ve got BPD and this is something they happened to me when I had to work with a neurotypical:

So basically I’m was hanging out with someone for a school project (with masks) and I was being kinda awkward, I didn’t rlly tell anyone about my bpd, and everyone just kinda assumes I’m just really socially awkward. So basically after me having a bit of an episode my project partner was kinda looking at me funny, and obviously I started freaking out. Then a few minutes later they come up to me and say hey do you have bpd? And I was confused and relieved, I don’t really talk to people often, but I said yes, I was curious to see we’re this was going, but I was still hesitant to answer. My partner(I’ll just call her Lilly because I need something to call her) then proceeds to tell me how bpd and DID seem “so cool” and that she wished she had one....I’m honestly disgusted,... BPD, DID, etc. isn’t a trend, and it’s not quirky or something to absolutely want. Lilly if your out there go educate yourself past the quirky tik toks.... that goes for everyone and any mental disease