Recently I've been finding it really hard to get close to anyone like I used to, I went from begging people to stay to the polar opposite of "leave them before they leave me", the typical perceiving abandonment response. Currently having an even harder time keeping people in my life, I seem to be getting left or ignored frequently, or I just cut everyone  off, usual when I feel them being facetious in who they are or them playing games. I don't know where I'm even going with this, I just wanna know how you distinguish the genuine people you let into you life I guess?