My(F22) girlfriend(F21) and I have been dating for about 3 months but I need to breakup with her because I am too attached. My girlfriend is very emotionally independent and doesn't spend much time at all on her phone so we rarely text. She has become very distant and we haven't had a date or just spend some time together in almost 2 months now. I keep trying to make plans and she either says no or forgets our plans entirely. It is become too draining and I don't even feel like her girlfriend anymore. She doesn't touch me, just stands there when I kiss her and makes no attempt to make plans or see me. 

My main love language is physical touch, it reassures me. she doesn't like being touched which I understand, but I have needs that are not being met. I think we're just too different. I'm exhausted trying to make plans and hoping she will call or text me when I know she won't. 

I don't know how to break up with her though because I would like to do it in person, but if she doesn't take anytime to see me, I'll have to do it over a phone call. I don't know what to do and I've been driving myself crazy overthinking this and not knowing how to go about it. I feel like I can't really communicate with her if she doesn't take the time to listen to me. I don't feel like a part of her life anymore. I don't feel like I'm in a relationship. I miss the girl I was dating in the beginning. The girl that ran from her car to kiss me. The girl that would always be snuggled up with me. The girl that would rub my back and play with my hair after I've had a bad day. 

I would rather be single than have a girlfriend that doesn't give me the time of day.