I don’t know what to do. I’ve ended three important relationships (2 very close friends, 1 romantic) in the past couple months and I think they were justified but I don’t know?? How do you know if someone’s actually being a piece of shit and someone without BPD would see it as that? This romantic relationship is still salvageable but I don’t know if he’s actually an asshole or if I’m just being me. Sorry if this is confusing I’ve been drinking lol