(THIS IS A LDR. My girlfriend has BPD.)

It really SEEMS like my girlfriend intentionally does things to irritate me or to get a reaction out of me whenever we aren't getting along. I never acknowledge it because I’m not gonna encourage or argue with her, since it always proves to be totally fruitless and, chances are, she'd deny it anyway. I know this girl like the back of my hand and I doubt my suspicion is wrong, because she’s done shit like this in the past and we've talked about it. If I could add another flair, it’d probably be “DAE” or seeking support/advice because I guess I’m just curious if anyone else has felt this way about their SO. And whether you have BPD or not, I’d still love your input.