i just moved 3 hours from home to be with my fiance and my best friend almost immediately hung out with someone they know i don't like and idk kind of makes me feel like she's been fake as fuck with me for a long time and tbh she has but I won't even get into it lol. mostly i came here to rant bc this bitch that i don't like used to be my friend in our freshman dorms bc her bf was my bfs roommate 3 or 4 years ago. she constantly gaslit me to my boyfriend. she would take my concerns about my relationship (shit like oh he hasn't texted me in a long time i feel gross bc u know bpd but i didn't know what bpd was back then lol) to our boyfriends' room and it would make me sound insane to him. he eventually broke up with me because he was being fed all of this stigmatized bullshit from some girl who didn't even try to mind her business. we eventually got back together after we left that school and i told him i felt like i had bpd and he told me what the girl would tell him during the whole school year behind my back and the whole time i thought we were best friends. the school shut down the same year but we were gonna be roommates before it did. this girl still haunts my life. she lives in my hometown now, despite not being from there and she's friends with my (old) friends and nobody fucking realizes how shitty she was to me because if i even tried talking to anyone about what she made me out to be all year then they would shrug me off bc it was a long time ago and i don't have any specific circumstances for "proof" or whatever. idk I'm just tired of everyone thinking she's soooo fucking great when she's a backstabbing bitch but i would also like to stop getting so upset when i see her name or face. i feel like i cant get upset with my friends that hang out with her but like idk if she can do thar shit to me i bet she's doing it to other people