I’m really tired of people acting like they have a free pass to ignore ALL of my feelings just because sometimes my emotions are too extreme. Friends/family can treat me poorly and as soon as I say something about it (politely and in my best attempt to be non-confrontational) they go straight to the argument that they’re not doing anything wrong I just think that because I’m SO CRAZY. Even if I’m expressing myself in a rational, calm manner they can just effectively end the conversation by pointing out that in certain situations I get upset about stuff more than I should so this is just one of those times. I don’t know if I’m explaining this properly but I hope someone understands what I mean. It’s impossible to talk to these people about this, there’s no way to fix it, because nothing I say is valid to them. None of my emotions are justified. So I’m just trapped in these relationships and have no way to solve this problem other than conceding that everything is all my fault and they were right and I was wrong just so I can end the conflict. 