When I read Girl Interrupted, it said something about BPD folks changing their perspective around their sexuality. It all had to do with the lack of self image and stuff we struggle with.

Well, that kinda annoys me. I know a lot of queer people struggle to fit inside a box when they begin their internal sexuality discovery journey, and I know there is nothing wrong with not fitting inside a box, but I want that.

So after recognizing myself as bi and ace, I found out I am a lesbian and I don't want to randomly find out later inside my messed up brain that I am not.

Sometimes there are other things that bother me. As a sexual abuse victim I can't help but think that maybe that intervened in my sexual orientation. Can that happen?

Do you also struggle defining your sexual orientation? Did it change?