This sounds weird and idk if this is a BPD thing or not but I will get these strong compulsions to do nice things for people I don't even really know that well. For example, someone I know from high school and follow on social media posted about going through a breakup and I felt this urge to make her a playlist and encourage her to talk to me about it. And it wasn't like a lighthearted "oh poor her I should do something to cheer her up" like I felt compelled to do it. Like it is actively taking energy to not reach out in a way that wouldn't really be socially appropriate probably since we're not like friends or anything. And this kind of thing happens with everyone but is easy to hide as normal when it's stuff for friends. When it's stuff for strangers or acquaintances, I know it looks weird so I have to try and rein it in. It's like I feel close to and connected to them for no reason because I'm literally not close with these people, and it's really confusing for me as well. I was just wondering if anyone else with BPD has experienced it. Thanks!