Idk if this belongs here sorry if it's the wrong sub. So I have a habit that when I get close to someone new I have this need to constantly expect replies from them not every minute but atleast once a day and sometimes it affects me soo much that my mood or the way my day goes depends on their reply. If they take more than a day to reply I also tend to reread messages I've sent to make sure I haven't said anything wrong or pissed them off. I don't expect this of old friends who I'm secure with but when I get close to someone new I'm usually insecure or afraid that they would ghost and weirdly I get that feeling more with men and I often end up having feelings too quick too. I've had this happen soo many times through dating apps etc its a really anxious process for me in the sense that I overthink and obsess a lot.