Not Fr but does anyone ever feel like a relationship is almost too much work? 
Like not normal relationship stuff- like it’s too much to constantly swing from emotional polars, and to get anyone to understand or pretend to even try to understand what’s going on. Then the guilt and the over analyzing to make sure you’re justified and ….. I feel like I need to end my relationship of 3 years(engaged for 1) because frankly it’s too hard to stay? 
Please tell me I’m not alone, I feel like I AM too hard to please and I’ll never be satisfied because my s/o won’t try but at the same time feel like I just expect too much maybe ?