Me(F18) and BF(M26) says that I don't "own him" and I know this and it made me shut down for like an hour or so but that's irrelevant, I know I'm possessive, I see it and I now this is a relationship but I do things like accuse, paranoid thinking and delusions to avoid abandonment. I know I need to stop but when he says that, I'm speechless.. shut down again