I've been handling my jealousy so great lately, I was proud of myself. My bf's a chef and I get jealous of the pretty servers he works with, he's a nice guy and good looking, I used to think he was flirting. I hope he's not.

  Tonight he told me there's a staff party this coming Monday. We were suppressed to have Monday and Sunday off together. Now he works Sunday and Monday he has to cook for the staff party and he's staying.. No plus one, I'm not allowed to go.

  It feels like a red flag to me. I feel myself spiraling someone please help... Advice?