I have this with my FP and I assume it’s an emotional black and white response because on a logical level it’s absurd to me that I feel resentful that somebody believes in something or likes something that I don’t. Obviously everyone is different so it’s inevitable that that will be the case. But I think it’s my emotional mind’s incapacity to acknowledge that somebody can be the same (likeable) and different (dislikable) simultaneously. 

It’s like I want them to change for me or I feel like I have to change for them - because I find it hard to accept that I’m just me and they’re them and that’s it.