Me and my BF are the same age. working out long distance. We are going through some rough time and i just want to let it out. maybe there is some advice for me. We\`ve been together for 1.2 years. Everything was pretty good, but with time, all the romance and cuteness faded away. And that\`s not even the worst thing. Maybe like a month or so, we are dealing with some serious issues. I mean for the relationship itself. I am the type of person to talk it out and deal with the problem, yes i may be explicit or yell a bit sometimes BUT I\`m always sorry (genuinely). not like him. So this past month. I\`m trying to come and talk to him about some issue and he immediately tells me to forget it or brush it off. because. it\`s only my side of view. Ok, fine. But with each day he goes more and more distant. The reason for that (as he says) because he\`s tired of arguments, and when I say, like, why not to try and solve them someway, instead of walking away, he says nothing. So tonight he said, that he\`ll change his behaviour but on my side, there should be less conflicts. We agreed, and he said, that that\`s just a temporary solution. I\`ll update you. once there will be anything new to say, i gave him 3 days.

P.S. We both come from abusive families. both had previous unhappy relationships, but the point is. he is not jsut tired or something, he just loses interest (at least, it feels so). He doesn\`t do anything to change the state our relatioship in rn. I\`m kinda tired at this point, of doing job for both

P.S. 2 I\`m still madly in love of him and I have s fear of losing him. but I\`m trying to get myself ready in worst-case scenario. Also I\`m so depressed with stuff going on rn in MY life, that I can\`t really manage that kind of relationship in my life. But I also am really happy that i have him, he made me so happy this past year, but now everything is falling apart, and he only blames me. I don\`t know, my friends and family say, that if he doesn\`t change after a couple of month trying, the relationship\`s not worth saving. What would you do in my place?