As we all know, some disorders get added to BPD as a bonus prize. Mine is PTSD but didnt develop until a 2 year abusive relationship. I think he targets mentally unstable women. Anyway, he targeted a girl with mild depression and she called me in the middle of the night. She knows she is being abused. He uses me as leverage, talks about how horrible I was, being a Borderline and all, and has tried to manipulate her into thinking she's Borderline too. He's a sociopath so maybe the whole BPD reaction to his abuse gave him some PTSD too haha. (I hope bitch.) The last contact I could make with her, she had nowhere to live but with him. She's in the cycle I was stuck in. He hasn't physically abused her yet, and I hope he won't. He appears to stick to emotional and psychological abuse as his specialty. You can make them rot from the inside out instead of covering them with bruises. I'm so sad for her but I've done everything I can. But I shake when I think about her.

I guess I just wanted to vent and say... Please read up on the signs of abuse guys. I know having BPD, or even other depression or mood disorders, we often feel we are the bad guys. And sometimes we are. But sometimes people can abuse us too. And you NEVER deserve to be abused, no matter how "crazy" you are. Please remember that you're a human being, and do not deserve to be hurt.