So me and my girlfriend have been in a rls for 7 months which is the longest I’ve been in a relationship and they make me feel so secure in it. But I’m having a problem, at the start of the relationship I was so sexual and wanted to have sex all the time but they couldn’t have sex most of the time because they were feeling dysphoric most of the time and that’s completely understandable. But at this point I stopped initiating sexual acts (not because I don’t find them attractive, I’m extremely attracted and theyre fucking hot af) but I don’t feel like I owe them sex, but also because of the fact that I haven’t been getting horny at all, like it’s been about a month or so since we’ve slept together (and everything is still so romantic and lovey dovey) I’m just concerned if this is normal or if theres  aNother explanation. If anyone knows about this or is going through this can you please explain why  cz I feel bad about it sometimes that I’m not pleasing them sexually.