my gf recently got upset with me after i split over something stupid, i was going to text her apologizing to make up for it and offer to hang out and she ended up getting mad at me and cursing a lot and just generally being aggressive (we both have bpd). I sorted it out and we both apologized to each other and stuff but I have a long history of being domestically abused and panicking when people are mad at me, it makes me spiral. I feel like she had a right to be upset but I also don’t know if this is a red flag or something to worry about. Any thoughts?