How do I tell a psychiatrist that I think I might have BPD? 
I’m looking for a psychiatrist to go to and I’m just worried that they’ll either not take me serious or say that people with BPD are unaware they have it so I don’t. I also have severe anxiety and forget everything I wanna say the second I step foot in their office 😭

I hope this makes sense. Just looking for the best way to bring this up to as doctor so I can get the proper treatment and medication I need to feel better. (Also I live in Germany if that helps).