Hello I’m in need of some advice/a second opinion... so my last therapist diagnosed me with bpd. She made me feel super uncomfortable so in a spur of the moment I managed to find a completely new therapist. My knew therapist is much more experienced &amp; super understanding, but there’s only one issue: she’s very skeptical about bpd and diagnosing it. This is p frustrating for me, for the majority of my adolescence/early adulthood I’ve identified with the label of borderline because to me it makes sense and describes my behaviors almost perfectly, so the previous diagnosis made sense. She’s described it as “the diagnosis of the hour.” I understand each therapist has their own views and opinions of their field but for some reason it just bothers me? I feel really lost, like if I’m not bpd then what am I? I definitely fit the description but say that my rapid mood swings are just apart of a mood disorder (depression) feels wrong, or like I’m not being heard? I have a lot of trouble describing how I feel which doesn’t help my situation. I guess overall I feel invalidated. She’s amazing so I feel worse that I have these thoughts about her.