So over Thanksgiving break I added this random girl on snap on Friday asked for her age she said she was turning 16 in February i then flirted with her But she didn't like it so I stopped texting her that night On Saturday I told her I had liqour So her and her 20 year old brother came and picked me up So me and her brother were the only ones who drank And it was about 3 o clock in the morning and me and her have already made out but her brother asks us if we wanted to go stay in his car while he goes and hooks up with a random girl And so we did but then we had sex So on Sunday late at night She confessed she was 14 turning 15 so I was like ok But her dad found her messages And he called the police Thinking I was 19 or twenty And so the cops had to verify my age And they told me she was 13 So I'm 17 and I had sex with a 13 year old But the cops found the message that she lied about her age. How do I forgive myself? My grandma keeps telling me too think about it as a senior and a freshman having sex