Hi there. I have a therapy appointment and I really need to talk to her and confess some feelings I’ve been dealing with that I haven’t talked about but I should talking about it. I’m afraid of being invalidated because she doesn’t believe i have bpd when I’ve had three different psychiatrist tell me I have it.  I mainly afraid because the topic is about sexual related issues involving myself and a friend of mine. Does anyone know how I can do this without backing out last minute and pretending everything is okay?