My in-laws have a cottage and a condo for vacations, but there are so many rules and regulations to follow that I find it impossible to relax.

Because we go routinely, I find that I go from a stressful week of work to a stressful weekend to a stressful vacation and I only get anxiety attacks now when in those areas. Almost location based anxiety.

I am not sure how to deal with it? This is the only thing my wife and I argue about…