What I’m doing is definitely impulsive but I can’t tell if it’s actually self harm. I was assaulted a few years ago, but now I’m putting myself out there again. I met a guy I like a lot and we’ve been having sex a lot lately. It’s 100% consensual and I feel safe with him. Is it really self harm if it’s a positive thing in my life? My therapist believes I’m trying to re-traumatize myself, but I also really like the guy I’m seeing so I don’t think that’s true. Can anyone relate?