For the past few days my FP (and boyfriend I should mention) has been a little absent in my life.  Nothing too bad, but our mutual friends have come back from college and he is spending a lot of time with them- and on top of that he has quit his job and is now taking work at  random times throughout the day.  I am still in school at the time being so our schedules just aren’t working out. 
The past few months,after he was off work, every or every other day we would hang out and go over to each others houses for hours and it has been really wonderful.
Recently though (the past week) , he has been making less time for me and making plans with his friends that don’t include me and on top of that we haven’t really even been texting much either (because he is out with other people).  On top of this I am struggling with a lot of other problems and it is really hard to not have his support with the lack of seeing each other or talking.
I know this is fine and healthy and that he is doing nothing wrong, but because of my BPD I have fallen into a depressive state and cannot get anything done (school work, house work, personal care, etc.)  I feel worthless and alone.  
He knows about my BPD and while we have had a few conversations about it I’m not sure he understands the extent of which it effects my life.  
I do not know how to bring this up to him without it coming off as guilt-tripy, and I know that he is not in the wrong and it is BPD effecting how I’m thinking, but it is still really hard to get past.
If anyone has any suggestions, or ways to be productive/get basic things done in his absence I could really use your help.