anyone else feel like the best advice FOR people with bpd comes from other people with bpd? my S/O does not have bpd and when I asked her for advice on something and tried to share my feelings, she gave me a reality check on the situation. That is not what I wanted or needed. But my friend who also has bpd was able to completely talk me down by using language that makes sense to a person with bpd… I don’t know if that makes sense but it felt very validating.