I find it so frustrating people say diagnosis doesn’t matter. Yes it fucking matters. It helps in terms of treatment plan. You treat ADHD, MDD, Bipolar differently than a BPD one. Labels matter. You’d want to know if something was water or poison. I’ve told people that I’ve been working with a psych and we finally reached a BPD diagnosis. I’ve been actually somewhat happy about it because I felt validated. Still made me feel like a horrible person though too, but some relief came with it. And everyone has been like “why does it matter? Who cares?“