I've noticed as a person with BPD it is hard to find and keep a love interest. I've also noticed a lot of people on here have that issue. I just wanted to come on here and say that it is possible to find love even with having BPD. I just wanted to give some of you guys hope because I know the feeling of feeling completely lonely and thinking you will never find someone. To think that you're so messed up someone will never love you, or to think no one will ever understand you, or you will mess everything up because that's what you always do (my thoughts still today). It's possible to find love but will take time and patience. I don't know all the answers but I just wanted to help someone because I know this was all I thought about and drove me into depression and ideations. I just wanted someone to tell me it's possible so thats what I'm doing now. I've been married for 9 years this month and together for 11 years. I'm pretty sure I've done everything in a relationship to fuck it up because that's what I feel like I do. He is still right here with me. He's pretty level headed, intelligent, and understanding.  Anyways, I just wanted to give hope to people that need it, that's all. Have a good day/night!