Hey guys my girlfriend has bpd. Her mood and emotions are all over the place which is understandable 

We recently an argument because she was winding me up by showing me pictures all from ex boyfriends and like flirting with them and stuff and I told her I didn’t like it as we were meant to be together. 

I would never stop her from seeing her friends and taking to them etc but she has tons and tons of guy friends saved in her phone with love hearts next to them

She’s just told me that she was on FaceTime to a guy  and that they are just “friends”

I feel like she doesn’t respect our relationship at all I feel so unloved and unappreciated. She won’t listen to me if I say anything either she just flips out and tells me to block her 

Am I being a jealous paranoid and way overprotective boyfriend or do I have a point? I don’t even know how to explain this to her without causing an argument