Anyone else here not able to enjoy sex because the whole time all you can think about is how you look and sound? sometimes ill get done and not even really process that i was supposed to be enjoying it. but also, if i dont have sex with someone i  am seeing like once a day i feel like they hate me and arent attracted to me and i want to have sex. but when the time comes i just cant enjoy it. Its like the pressure to enjoy it is too much in my head and im just forcing myself to try and enjoy but i cant let go. any advice or similar experiences?