I have a fp who I got really attached to because we used to help each other a lot and he calmed me down whenever I was going through an episode although they don’t know about my bpd. He really liked me and wanted to be with me but I’m in a long distance relationship with my bf and he knew this but he still was there for me. At the time he started talking to me he recently got out of a relationship and I helped him take his mind of it. We used to FaceTime day and night because I knew he wanted me to be there for him and I made sure he was happy but randomly he started claiming he is a bad person and he wants to save me from himself and just blocked me off everything and unblocked. We met once and it was so nice to just talk to them but he never ended up calling again. He claimed that he’s depressed, he says he wants me but only talks to me when he wants to. He left me broken and mentally in the worst place I’ve been in forever. It feels like he only wanted me to get over his ex and don’t know how to cope with this. That friendship meant a lot, I’ve sh myself because it’s my fault and it just doesn’t feel right in my soul that they did that to me. They make promises they keep breaking and i end up always forgiving them.