Hello, as said in the title. I have BPD and so does my partner. We have been together a month now. We work so well together, when things are good. It's not that it's bad when it's bad, its just, a lot to handle. We are in a long distance relationship and see each other on weekends. I am on medication, while he is not. My boyfriend gets triggered easily. He does from being fine, to being a complete mess in a matter of seconds. I'm always there for him, and want and do help  and  comfort him, it's just difficult to handle on my head, and sometimes we can trigger each other, with being sad. Does anyone have any tips on how to make this a little easier on my head ? We do lo e each other. It's just..a lot.