I feel like the worst part of having a FP isn’t the obsession with that person, but the complete apathy when it comes to every other relationship in your life. 

When it comes to anyone who isn’t my FP, I’m just so eh about it and have to really be in a specific mood to want to socialize (even with people that i like and am friends with). However if my FP wants to do something, it’s like a shot of energy and there’s no way i would say no. Or if i’m in a mood, 10 people could offer me comfort but i’m almost like turned off by the though of comfort from anyone else.

It just sucks because it makes it so hard to really grow other friendships and relationships even when you want to. Currently i don’t even really feel like i have a FP, but i’ve always been this way in that i can be averse to putting the time and energy into building relationships with anyone who i don’t just latch on to. 

Can anyone else relate to this feeling and have you found any ways to motivate yourself to build stronger relationships outside of your FP?