If your BPD has been determined to be of the genetic variety (not due to trauma or neglect), and you notice signs and symptoms in other family members such as cousins (same age as me, we are friends/ close enough to talk about stuff and we have good relationships with one another), do you try and help enlighten them/guide them to a realization that they should maybe seek help? 

One one hand I want to mention this because where we live there is a very good therapy program for DBT which is accessible to anyone who needs it and of course i want them to seek help

On the other, I don't really want to out myself as I have only shared my diagnosis with my mom, sister and husband. 

Wwyd