So, I reconnected with a guy from high school, he his already pretty caring. I’ve putted boundaries between us because I don’t want to be in a relationship with him. But he is still really adorable with me and I caught myself wanting to message him when he doesn’t for hours. That’s not good. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago and I don’t want to be in this dynamic again, I was glad to be able to be independent again, but now all I think about is him, even if I don’t love him in a romantic way. What do I do ?