Okay so my girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now but we're still quite cautious around each other. I really want it to all be good and for us to be close and intimate but every time we're together my brain just fires off and I can barely even hold her hand because I might scare her off and she'll leave me because I've somehow made her uncomfortable. She's told me time and time again that I'm not but I just can't get the fear or abandonment out of my head. Does anyone have any advice?