Hey there! So starting about a month ago my boyfriend started his ADHD Medication and ended up falling out of his chair and got a concussion. 

Every since then he has been very distant from me, stating he is to busy to talk or text and I feel like I’m bombarding him with messages and calls. This past week I tried to talk with him about how I was feeling about it all and he said he has nothing to say because he is just been busy with work. Which work has been very crazy for him. On Wednesday he left for Vegas to go on a trip with him buddies (it was planned for a year and it was only with a couple guys, and due to COVID they just planned on chilling at home and playing video games and stuff) 

I messaged him periodically on Wednesday when he left and never got a reply. I was worried so I ended up texting his friend to ask if he made it okay, to which his friend made him text me to let me know he made it. I got a little frustrated with him because he wouldn’t respond. And when I finally got him to respond he said “I’m busy” 

I believe everyone has 5min out of their day to say they are okay and having a good time. I asked him if he was ignoring me or if I did something. To which he replied with “no I’m just busy” 

I have BPD and this is really messing with my head. I’m in love with my boyfriend and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. But if he doesn’t want to be with me, he needs to call it now because the pain is real. 

So my question. Is he really just busy? Or am I
Being ignored?