So the subreddit BPDlovedo------ has completely convinced me that should stop dating my girlfriend with BPD. The concensus over there is, no matter how much therapy she's had, she will have an episode one day and greatly hurt me feeling... there's also a high chance some years from now she will flip a 180 and be a person I don't recognize... a person that will destroy my inner peace.

I love her, and she has had a few small(imo) episodes, but 90% of the time she's absolutely amazing.

She's been in therapy for some years using DBT.

I'm not sure what to do. I'm close to breaking up with her because I'm scared. Yea its a bit cowardice I think, to break up because you're scared, but thats where I'm at.

What do ya'll think?