Long story short I met this guy 2 years ago at my job. He pretended to like me as a joke and also to use me for free therapy. After my job did nothing about the gossiping and bullying I quit. He then moved to my dream city after my friends told me. He messaged me that I was fat, ugly and that I was having a "mental breakdown" over him. Then proceeded to call me racial slurs. I did a idiot thing and looked at his Instagram and got anxious seeing him trying to thrive in the city. I have never met anyone this fake, hateful, and cruel. He's got a lot of people fooled. Not me and my friends though. I just want to get through this and not think about it anymore. It's also hard not to get revenge. I feel like I didn't stand up for myself at all against him. P.s. my friends think he may have NPD or BPD