I really wanna help her figure out how to deal with it. Every time her mood shifts mine does as well because my brain doesn’t register the fact that she has it I’m assuming because even after a bit more than 2 years I’m still not used to it. When we start arguing I argue back and things escalate because of it. We’ve both done things we aren’t proud of. A lot of the arguments we have are because I’m too stubborn and feel like I’m in the right even when I’m sometimes not. I’d like to learn how to de-escalate the situation. I want to change to make things easier for her but I’m not sure how. Please give me any advice you can.