I just had a fight with my girlfriend about something so little and so stupid but it was a huge trigger for me. I just don’t know how to handle this. She has no idea what certain words mean to me and what impact they have on me. She acts like she is the sweet, caring and understanding girlfriend and yes she is like that. Sometimes. When she’s in a bad mood she just throws it on me and she starts fighting as soon as I say something stupid. I just want her to understand that life’s not easy for me at the moment but she just doesn’t want to hear it. She never asks me how I really am and never asked me about my triggers. She knows about my BPD and I always tell her that if there’s something she doesn’t understand that she can ask me. I want her to understand me just a little or at least try to. But when we fight she never cares. Sometimes she gets so self absorbed and throws shit at my head and makes me feel even worse. But when I tell her what the words she said made me feel like she acts like I just want to make her look like the bad human being. I just don’t get it. Sometimes I feel like she doesn’t know me anymore and stopped loving me and trying.