I feel like disclosing I have bpd to anybody is a fatal mistake bc then they just start grouping me in with all the stereotypes and say shit like “people with bpd never think they are in the wrong.” But the problem is I ALWAYS think I am in the wrong. I literally take all the worlds shit on my shoulder. I find anyway to blame myself before I blame somebody else. I’m so tired of being told I’ll be abusive and manipulative JUST because I told someone I have bpd. I don’t understand why everyone thinks this disorder just means I am a bad person.. if someone is a bad person they just are a bad person, a disorder doesn’t make someone bad just because they have it.. if someone truly thinks I am bad and abusive I’d rather them see past my disorder and have an actual reason I am bad instead of just saying because I have bpd. It seriously makes me feel so useless and incurable when I’m treated different because of a diagnosis.