Dated a long time friend with BPD briefly, she lost interest, we both kinda realized it wasn't working out but I told them I'd like to continue staying friends like before and they seemed totally okay with the situation. No major problems or arguments and it seemed mutually amicable. But now it seems she's doing everything they can to push me out of her life, taking very long to reply, short and unenthusiastic, never initiating any contact whereas previously I couldn't get her to stop texting. I kinda asked her about it but got no straight answer. So I've kinda accepted the situation and I know that everyone with BPD is different but has any of you done this before and what are the potential reasons? I know it's not for me to decide but I'd really like the friendship back. She seemed okay with me and never raged/shouted or did any of that 'splitting black' type behavior I've read about throughout the entire time we've known each other, at least not to my face. I thought we had a fairly strong, genuine friendship that lasted not for months but for several years and so while I knew all along that she had BPD, I just didn't think it would be possible for her to go from friends that would share fairly intimate details about our lives to not talking within a matter of days.