Newly diagnosed.  My main issue thinking back was identity disturbance.  From there I've always been confused with my sexuality and honestly I stopped dating because I felt I was hurting people I was dating because of it (pretty much only dated guys and I'm female).  Come to think of it now I wonder if it was BPD all along and just made it up in my head.  Does BPD invalidate sexuality or does it matter?  How have you guys stopped being sexuality confused in spite of BPD?  I would love to know...