My fiancé suddenly got much more depressed than usual and has been talking to his friends (not male, which I can understand) and not really mentioning it too much to me or talking with me about it at all. The one time he did mention it the reason was because he felt he didn't deserve me as he is disabled and doesn't work or "provide". I earn enough for both of us to live comfortably so it's really not a big deal to me. I found out he was talking to friends about his depression because he straight up told me one day and this morning his Discord messages were up and I admittedly took a peek.

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I personally have Bipolar and before treatment frequently experienced very bad depressive episodes every few months. I realize I am different than my fiancé in that I don't talk to *anyone* about it, which I guess is where my confusion comes from since I feel like we could relate if he just talked to me. I'm not mad at all, just confused at how he can talk to friends (one he met recently) and not me. ): I have been showering him with love ever since he first managed to mention something to me, but I haven't pressed him to talk to me. I was hoping he would come to me eventually. 

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So is this behavior "normal"? What should I do? Should I even do anything or just leave him be? I get scared not knowing what's going on in his mind. What if he's so depressed he convinces himself to leave me thinking I "deserve better", or he has thoughts of harming himself, or something else?