I'm (24f) currently working to become more independent from my family, especially my parents. In turn, I am not being as open in sharing all of the details of my life with my parents. 

Does anyone ever feel bouts of guilt or shame when establishing the boundaries? I feel as if I'm dirty, I feel guilty and I feel as if I'm lying by not sharing all of my life to my parents. 

How can I feel empowered by boundaries and not feel guilty? I want to succeed in life, and not perpetuate this feeling of codependency or like I'm conditioned to divulge everything.