I only recently came across this term and I’m really terrified that I am. I’m really confused as to what makes an incel. Sometimes I see things like guys being terrorists or rapists, but then other times it’s just a guy who is unlucky with the ladies. Anyway, let me explain my situation. I’ve had two girlfriends, I’m talking to some girls I matched with on Tinder (but I have a feeling I’m doing a terrible job at being flirty or whatever), I’m a Virgin, but I’ve had multiple opportunities to lose my virginity, but chose not too because I didn’t feel ready. Like, I feel like this is normal? But, I took some quizzes online (not the most accurate I know but gimme a break) and every single one said I was an incel. 💀 I don’t know. I don’t know....I feel like there are similar things in me that many incels have, but that’s just because of my depression. Otherwise, I feel like I’m a very desirable guy. I’m reasonably attractive, I’m clever, and I’m interesting. If I had any weaknesses with women, it’s just I’m terrible at flirting and all that stuff. So, big weakness, but I can sometimes be successful. Uhhhhh, anyway, I digress. Am I an incel or what?