I've dated two people with borderline now. And I'll have to just say that was enough. I noticed that both of these men seem to want to tell me all about their previous partners, not necessarily in a bad light. I don't know what the intention was about it, but I know I didn't like it and I was it was making me feel a bit insecure. Interesting lie enough when I opened up about my past partners, the person with borderline started to have retroactive jealousy. Such a double standard. I'm wondering if you could shed light on why you do this to your new partners? Are you trying to make them jealous with telling them all about your old girlfriends and flings and your past sex life? Thanks for your response.