My SO and I always seem to get into petty fights about absolutely nothing. I know I contribute to the unhealthy communication style, that much is clear, but this was completely uncalled for, in my opinion....

We were basically talking about films and shows and he suggested that I watch GOT and I told him, “I will attempt to”, seeing as he’s recommended this show to me before and I’ve told him fantasy doesn’t  appeal to me. But it’s his favorite fucking show so apparently he took great offense that I said “I’ll attempt to.” Then pretty much shut down on me and told me that he’s basically done talking for the night and told me, “enjoy yours”, in what I took to be a very condescending and sarcastic tone. I’ve made it clear time and time again that these short responses aren’t helpful to our conversation and asked him why he’s taking it personally that I haven’t watched this show. And again, nothing. Just more short responses and just a really....cold way of speaking to me. I told him that I’m sorry and that I wasn’t shutting him down, I told I’m I’ll watch the fucking show eventually and he just said he’s annoyed and frustrated and went to sleep. No I love you, no “we will discuss this later on”, he never wants to expand on his feelings and it fucking hurts. It hurts being shut out like this and he apologizes sometimes and says “I’ll change” but he and never seems to change. 

I told him time and time again that it hurts to be spoke to like this but he just doesn’t care. I don’t know what to do anymore. He ended the conversation without an “I love you” or anything to reassure me that we are okay. I can’t even explain the fucking pain. And all of this because of a fucking show.