My girlfriend wants me to be emotionally there for her but doesn’t know how that feels (as she can’t even do it) so she can’t also explain to me how to fix what I’m doing, she doesn’t want to feel lonely yet doesn’t know how to describe to me how it feels for me to even brainstorm.

She said feels emotionally exhausted because she doesn’t ever feel like people are ever able to emotionally there for her and they don’t know how to react etc. She says when she reaches out that it feels more draining than solving the solutions. She doesn’t believe just generally talking sorts things out or that she’s not alone and that I want to be there for her, She feels as if I don’t have the ability to feel sorry about what I’ve done (when I upset her)