I have bipolar 1 along with BPD and IED so my coping skills are few and far between. However today I got the news I have been dreading and could use a friend or anyone with similar experiences to please share so I might be able to talk my way through it. My husband and I have been struggling with infertility and have done a lot different things to have a child. Today I was informed I was having an emergent hysterectomy next month due to a tumor in my cervix. It’s taking my last shred of hope for a family and I’m not in love with it. I know ideally now we don’t even want children we got three dogs to spoil and love on but in the back of my head I’m still mad. Advice?