How do you guys cope with being hyper aware of your favorite persons response time? I’m constantly checking for a text back, checking to see if I’m left on read, can’t put my phone down, calculating how long it’s been and getting worried and overthinking when it seems longer than usual. It’s driving me insane. I literally cannot do anything without feeling like i need to drop everything im doing to check for a response. Simple things that require your hands like dishes is nearly impossible for my at this point because I feel like I need to constantly be ready at my phone. But then when I get a response, I calculate my own time because I feel I respond way too fast. If this even makes any sense. I’ve tried turning off notifications and it doesn’t seem to work for me. Someone else had suggested moving to a platform where I can’t see if my messages were read but that gives me even more anxiety!