My brother (25) has BPD and I just hate him. I dont want to have any kind of relationship with him, i hope he moves out of the house and never see him again.
He has hurt my mother and the rest of the family so much. He is always talking, yelling, crying non stop for hours, and all he talks is just nonsense, things that could never happen in real life.
I tried to understand him, but i'm just so tired, i given him so many chances and he just always ends up hurting me.
My mother says that we do not choose family and that i have to accept him, but i cant and never will.
He is not in treatment, he says that he does not have a problem and all his previous diagnosis are just shit that the psychiatrist made up. I beg my family to help him get help but he refuses and is violent sometimes. 
I sometimes wish that he just disappear.