i’m 13 and i was recently diagnosed with bpd, i had my suspicions before but i just wanted so badly for it not to be true. My dad has been diagnosed with bpd, depression, and bipolar but has never done anything about it (despite promising us he would, even when meds worked) He’s a really shitty person, very violent, and just all around an asshole.. but ive found myself relating SO MUCH to the things he describes happening to him and the things he thinks that make him act violently or do something crazy. I’m sure some people can relate to not wanting to be like their parents but honestly it feels so easy to just be happy that i finally have someone that understands how i feel and just embrace bpd like my dad has; just let it take over. i really need advice honestly, i feel really lost and me being so young i don’t know anyone irl that could relate or help.. or even take me seriously 
(also sry this is so long lol)