Someone in the group who i thought was a friend attacked me out of the blue insulting me and telling me to "get control" of my bpd. I was shocked but even though another friend who was dating him tried to convince me to keep my cool i messaged him back defending myself. 

I left my online group completely for a few days to let everything cool down and i came back to a ban from our discord. The same friend who tried to get me to not fight back also was the one who banned me and they refused to have a full conversation with me about it. Every time i asked whether their bf got removed too they sidestepped the question. 

After leaving sitting on the whole thing for two more weeks and wanting to get revenge or stir up huge drama i decided to remove the whole group as friends. No one bothered to contact me since i was banned and i feel upset that it feels like none of them even care enough to get my side of the story.

Maybe i went overboard... It's not like there wasnt other things  i had to be upset about. At least i didn't let my anger get out of control at the end so... Small victory i guess...