Take these new perceptions and Really try to ingrain them into you because this is what got me threw it and I thought I litrally would never get passed it  it was crippling.

1. Everything works exactly as it is suppose to.

If something does not work it has been made to not work.

A light bulb will only work if the circuit has been made correctly.

2. Everybody does exactly what they want.

Everything you do is a choice.
Everyone will make a choice that they feel is best in some way. 

Everybody will do exactly as they want. So make sure you make the most benificial choices for yourself.

3. Cause and effect. Happen to the world, don't let the world happen to you.

There are two kinds of people in this world.

People that are on the effect side, which means they are powerless, they are victims of curcumstance.
Very disempowering!

Or there are the people on the cause side. Which is the truth. Everything reacts to our actions. Our perceptions determine our reality. This view puts you in power. You are the ruler of your reality. Nothing can be truer.

There is no force that is dragging you down, only your perceptions can do that.

So empower yourself. Take these comments and really put it in yourself.

Perceptions determine your reality.
If you honestly believe something then that is very true for you  even if not logical. In your reality that's all there is.

So replace the bad perceptions for new ones that will benifit you.

Don't follow dark perceptions because it can only lead to a dark reality.

Happiness is a perception. When you realise that happiness can be right now!

Please take my advice. I know what you are going through.

Last thing, 

4. Energy flows where focus goes.

So focus on what you want,

Not what you don't want.

Eg, I just want a gf that isent a bitch...
That is something you don't want in a girl.
So there for everytime you meet a girl you will be looking for this thing you don't want. If you look hard enough you will always find it. It's fucked from the beginning.

So what you do want.
Eg I want a gf who is nice and caring.
So you search for nice and caring people.
You don't look for bad signs. 
And eventually you will find nice and caring because that's what your looking for.

I hope this helps you as much as it's helped me