I grew up making cookies for neighbors at Christmas and new neighbors to welcome them to the neighborhood. And I love it, I started doing it once I owned a house and had a consistent set of neighbors. My husband is not a social butterfly and everytime I do, he makes fun of me. It might be something small like saying its a waist of money or time, but sometimes he says its stupid or when I'm at the door and waiting for the person to answer, he calls me dumb for knocking or ringing the bell a second time (I don't do it a third, because obviously they don't want to come to the door or aren't home) but I have a two time rule and each time he says something like, "there you go dumb dumb, you did it" or "okay dummy, they aren't home". 

Just as a disclaimer I'm a very anxious person, I physically and mentally prepare myself to do this, converse with basic strangers without going into a complete panic attack.

So then after I do this, I'm pretty clearly upset and I tell him we shouldn't do it anymore, when he clearly doesn't get anything from it and think that it and myself are dumb. And he comes back saying the its great and he loves it.

I don't know what I'm doing wrong, why I'm so stupid for doing shit like this.