My boyfriend and I live with his mother. I am extremely unhappy living here for a plethora of reasons. Honestly could type a novel. Anyway I’ve split on her so her existence just makes me angry and uncomfortable. 

Laundry is one of my triggers because I have to go upstairs with her. I try to only do it when she goes out, but she literally hasn’t left the house in 2 weeks. The dryer has been messed up for months (she never fixes anything until it’s absolutely destroyed), so I was just going to hang up my clothes to dry. Last time, it took me 3 hours to dry the laundry (normally takes about an hour). 

I go up to get them and she’s already taken it upon herself to put them in the dryer. “She’s figured out how to get it to work.” And I’m fuming because I had my plans and now she’s touched my underwear. I don’t really feel comfortable with that and I don’t want her messing with my stuff at all. She even said she didn’t like to dry her bra but ... she put mine in there anyway. I chose particular clothes to wash so I could be on top of it. It just makes me so mad. She didn’t even give me 10 minutes from the time the washer stopped. Now if I say anything to my boyfriend, he will say she was doing me a favor. I don’t want a favor from her!!!!!!! I can do my own laundry. MY mother didn’t do my laundry! I already am stuck living here and feeling like I owe her. I don’t want her acting like she has to do my laundry now too. 

Once we went out of town and she changed my sheets. Does she think I can’t change my own sheets???? But...I’m ungrateful if I don’t love it. 

It’s how I was raised. These people don’t understand...do any of you?