Long stories short: I have had my (23F) fair share of gals pissed off at me because their partners want to spend time with me. Not necessarily fuck me. 

Examples:

1) My friend in high school professed his love for me, I told him I didn't reciprocate, he kept trying, eventually got a girlfriend, and then again professed his love for me. She was obviously not thrilled. 
2) I played competitive tennis with a man, and his fiance was absolutely PISSED we would go to tournaments together and he didn't ask her to play with him instead. (she doesn't play) You should've seen the look on her face when he offered their couch for me to crash after a late night tournament. 
3) My friend asked me to play chess with him, and his girlfriend turned to him and said, "you never play chess with ME!". We didn't play chess. 
4) My best friend's ex made it clear he enjoyed spending time with me more than he enjoyed spending time with her. Eventually he broke up with her &amp; made it no secret he wanted to have a relationship with me. 

There are many more examples. 

In addition, men seem to always think I want to fuck them. I am admittedly flirty with everyone. 

1) Three friends who were not in relationships told my friends they loved me and want to date me throughout my time at college. 
2) My friend's dad (married) tried to fuck me. Literally. 
3) Two of my high school teachers hit on me constantly. 

Again, there are more examples. 

Questions are: a) does anyone else have this happen to them? and b) does anyone else ENJOY this happening to them?

I would never actually act on their desires, but it makes me feel on top of the fucking world when I destroy other people's relationships because I'm hot. I guess. 

What's wrong with me? And am I sending energy that is making men thing I want to fuck them?