hi, ive been really really struggling with jealousy &amp; needing male validation the last few months. i get insanely jealous when any guy friend of mine gives a girl attention in any way. i feel this way even when I have 0 interest in this person intimacy wise. it’s like i need someone obsessed with me who will only give me special attention because it makes me feel wanted. why do i function like this and what are some techniques, DBT exercises, coping skills, etc to get over it?