Background, diagnosed with BPD when I was 34.  To many I seem "normal", able to hold a career and function most days.  Inside I struggle heavily requiring therapy, DPT classes and medications.  Everyday seems like a new challenge to an old problem.  You are not alone and today seems hard but there are those that care for you even if we have never meet.  If you wish to ask a question I will try to answer to my best ability.  Note I am not a licensed therapist so I will refrain from anything requiring knowledge beyond my skill set.