I was wondering whether people with BPD suffer from "false memory" -- not just in misremembering details to paint the situation as very negative and threatening, but as in genuinely believing that someone else's experience is their own. For example, my BPD loved one misremembers things that I told her even a couple of weeks later as her own experience. (If I tell her about a conversation I had with Jane, she later remembers this exact conversation as one she had with Jane herself.) This has happened numerous times, and my BPD loved one is adamant in the accuracy of the experience until she has absolute, undeniable evidence to the contrary. (Which is not often, since it mostly becomes a matter of she-said, he-said.) She feels very intensely, and has a vivid imagination so I can see how this might cause her to claim even my experiences as her own. For those who have experienced such false memory first-hand or through a loved one, how do you approach it with compassion and kindness? Thanks in advance.