mention of verbal abuse.

My bf just broke up with me a month ago.

Things that happened with us:
He has avoidant attachment and I have anxious attachment. I was one of his few friends and we talked every day from morning to night. He love bombed at the beginning and saw me as perfect for 2 months. Then he saw me as flawed after the idealization went away. 

The worst things he did was pointed out all my flaws casually. He saw my low self esteem and tried to make me stronger by “bullying me” with unkind words so that I will have stronger skin, because that’s what others did to him. Then he said I know I’m an a$$hole. That’s just who I am. I hurt people. When I told him it’s bad to do this, he felt remorseful and asked me if I think he verbally abuses me. Other times, he was vulnerable and said how he feels, etc. Said he also has insecurities and low self esteem and thinks he’s worthless, depressed. He told me about his abandonment issues.

A whole month before breaking up, he was discarding me, asking to breakup and pushing me away but also saying he doesn’t wanna hurt me. When I told him he hurt me before break up, he acted like he accepted this. He said he’s a monster. Apologized and took the blame. 

I pleaded for him (with panic attack) not to leave and he said we’re not compatible. Told me to let him go and forget about him. For a few weeks after breakup he checked up on me because I took it hard. Super friendly. Then he told me that it’s hard for him to see my social media because I’m always on his mind and blocked me everywhere. He cut me off everywhere. 

Will he be back??