so in my individual therapy my therapist and i are working on my crippling fear of abandonment bc somehow it’ll get better. so anyways my assignment is this: i am extremely attracted to my fp (i’m 21m) and she once liked me back but i didn’t know back then. long story short i liked her when she started dating someone else and now 1.5 yrs later she’s single again, still my fp, still sleeping w her ex (they’re still broken up) and i feel like maybe i wanna confess my true feelings for her. my hw is to make a list of pros and cons of confessing how i feel. i can only think of cons (what a surprise lol) so what do u guys think can be pros and cons of talking to my fp about my true feelings? thanks