My parents are narcissists and possibly sociopaths. Well my mom is and my dad agrees with everything she says.

Basically I think there is a good chance my issues are actually BPD. I’m just not okay with my parents knowing about this if I were to be diagnosed with it. They would use it as a way to blame every thing on me and say that I’m crazy. They refuse therapy but I want to go for myself and future. I just know my mom would use it to get pitty when she is probably the one who gave me the disorder. After being called a r*tard for adhd &amp; made fun of for trichotrillonomia I just don’t really want them knowing this and spreading it.