he has never mistreated me in any way or done anything wrong to me. but i'm still sitting here crying because i feel like he doesn't love me. even though he tells me he loves me every day. he just doesn't reassure me *enough* for me to feel completely secure so he must hate me and want nothing to do with me. 

i want to talk to him about how i feel but bringing it up just pushes him away more and exacerbates the issue, when there really is no issue at all to begin with.

what the fuck am i supposed to do. how do you guys deal with this