I've (near 30f) had anxiety since I can remember. Went to therapy as a kid before I knew what anxiety was. Have done tons of work on myself, medication, therapy on and on. I still have lingering anxiety in different situations, but the big one here is in a relationship. I'm fine on my own, feel confident, etc. Then I get in a relationship and my anxiety goes LOCO. I know it is unhealthy. It is so frustrating because I feel that I am doing well with my anxiety management in general, and then after the initial excitement of the relationship is over I start getting anxious. Right now I am with a wonderful understanding guy. I had some anxiety issues last week and he seemed to be so understanding about it and sweet but now I just feel like our conversation is more distant and spaced out and I can't help but think it's because of my issues over a couple days last week. Maybe it is in my head. Maybe it isn't. I just wish I could be confident and trust the relationship process without creating a self fulfilling prophecy of doom. I feel like I push people away slowly. I lose focus of other things and find myself randomly fixating on it throughout the day. Does anyone else have issues with Anxious Attachment in romantic relationships?