Mine does. I would just get triggered by partners (self harm) who do not share or communicate their emotions when a problem arises (my ex used to hide his depressed feelings then I’ll think I did something wrong, then it’ll be a shit show with no warning) or I find evidence that they could be talking to someone else etc. because it reminds me when my ex abandoned me after I got depression. I’ve had abandonment issues since, but in my new relationships this fear would arise only when I feel like he doesn’t understand my depression or is suspiciously withdrawn. The worst symptom present in those situations is wanting to commit because the anxiety and fear is so strong. 

I find with partners who are open and communicate does not provoke bpd, even if I imagined them leaving me I don’t feel sad because they gained my trust and I know things happen and I’d be loved in the end.