Hi, I live with my best friend who has bpd and she goes into manic episodes atleast once a day. I always try my best to help her including doing the things she says will help, but I always end up being yelled at. I understand that is not her and it is the bpd causing her to act this way, but I just want to help her be happy. Does anyone have an s/o that helps them through episodes, and what do they do to help?