Full disclosure I am a hetero cis woman, but I mean this for all people who identify with whomever they do - trans women are women obviously. 

So womxn - have you ever felt the ostracized by your own community? I’m not beautiful by any means just curvy and blonde... I feel like if I was beautiful and skinny and didn’t look like a porn star I would be accepted by other humans. It sucks trying to relate and other people are like “not like other women” to you but they don’t understand the level of Hollywood movie bullying you’ve experienced... why don’t most other people seemingly have empathy?