Myself (25f) and my partner (nearly 29M) both have bpd. We also both have sole custody of our respective daughters. We've only been together a month. We basically fell in love on the phone. We met on a Facebook group, I DMd him, asked to talk on the phone, talked for 6.5hs until 5:30am, then met that night and he greeted me with a long hug and I immediately kissed him and we've been inseparable ever since. We are both very aware that BPD is often characterised by intense romantic relationships. My psychologist says it doesnt matter, if we both feel the same then go ahead. I guess my question is, how hard should we try this move at a "normal" pace or should we not bother because who cares, we're both happy?  The kids also love each other.