how to get rid of codependency?! I’m struggling so bad . It’s so embarrassing. I’m 22 without a license because I’m too scared to drive . I got into a car accident the day of my brother in laws funeral who passed from a tragic car accident. So I know that is what triggered me . I depend on my bf and people so much and I hate it with a passion. I want to be able to drive anywhere I’d like without freaking out. I have health anxiety too so I get scared to be alone cause I constantly think somethings bad is going to happen to me and I get into my head about the “ what ifs “ . I hate it sooooo much . My boyfriends sisters asked me to go drink with them and my anxiety absolutely does not want me to but I would love to . I want to be able to make friends and hangout with them without being scared of something happening. I’m just so tired of depending on others. I want to love being alone like I used to 😭