BPD cannot be treated with regular mental health CARE means (a scientifi research!) (now that I got your attention with a weird mistyped topic, please read on. :D )

So, I'm reading my doctor's thesis (or something, not sure of the word in E) and I read a sentence that gave me VERY much comfort and explanation.

There was a study about BPD people and how they are medically treated. There were two groups. One got DBT kind of BPD therapy and the other normal therapy. After a year those in DBT got better and those not in DBT hadn't gotten any better. 

That's why I've never gotten any help from meds and therapies! That's why I've always felt like a failure as they didn't help me, like I was faulty to my core as nothing helped! It wasn't me, it was the fact that BPD doesn't respond to normal therapy! Ten years of work was all useless, because it was the wrong kind. Now I can truly start over and feel there really is hope. 

The thesis is unfortunately in Finnish and I think the study was too, but I can try to look for more info if people want to. Thus far I just wanted to share this, because it gave me hope. Real hope, after years of thinking I was just uncurable. And yes, you CAN heal BPD. :)