The title is self explanatory, but I always found it odd when people show intense interest in you, only to ghost you and leave you the next day if not the next few hours.

It happened to me today - a friend of 6 years met up with me and ghosted me right after. He’s done it frequently before where I’ve tried to communicate with him why it keeps happening, but he had no answer.

Today was my final straw where I was telling my significant other that I’m going to block this friend and no longer want to deal with him - It is horrible to give the same person chances continuously just for them to hurt you the same way.

I wasn’t willing to put myself through that. Regardless, after blocking this friend, I was looking at my significant other and told him I loved him - and as I said it, I wondered if one of the reason I love him is the security behind him.

Meaning, I’m almost certain he would not just leave me and he would always be there for me when needed. I wonder if this sense of security is a confusion with love or if it’s just one of the reasons of love.