how is love not always dialectical for other people? a pendulum between affection and hate, adoration and disgust, devotion and neglect. opposites do exist in synthesis with one another, being dependent on each other to blossom. does not hatred lead to a exalted love to follow? and the greater the love, the greater the hate will be; only to keep fueling one another. so, the capacity of love must be fueled by the capacity to hate, and the other way around. therefore, ordinary people know nothing of love but it’s lukewarm and most restricted form. 