Yesterday not only was I introduced as his property to a new friend/neighbour, but he also stood over me screaming “f you !” And “you definitely have bpd” and “this is the line that you do not cross so you either break up with me or take accountability for your actions and acknowledge that you’re misbehaving” . All I did was respond to a Facebook message from someone I had a very brief thing with like 5 years ago about how I managed in hurricane Fiona (I live in Eastern Canada). I thought I should answer as this guy has children and because it’s an obvious thing to not ignore. I was told by my bf that it was flirting and it always leads to more. I keep replaying it all in my head and I don’t know what to think… he also says our future kids can never meet my family and that he dislikes my friends. I feel alienated. Also, he said that I have to discuss this incident with my doctor (psychiatrist) as I need to work on myself. He threw something when he got angry also and it’s not the first time he has done that during an argument. Please help.