I am currently seeing a counselor for anxiety, (that has not been diagnosed, but is obvious I guess) and about a year ago I thought I had BPD, but shrugged it off and thought I was just me making it up. Today, however, I wanted to try and found out why I feel like I do, and realized that I may have multiple symptoms of the disorder (I can give more detail of them if you want). My mom also thinks that it is more than just anxiety, but I am scared to tell her even though she is a nurse, and I know she will support and try to help me. Should I tell my Mom or counselor? Thanks a lot.