So to give context to this story, two years ago I was a huge player, dating and a girs every week, having s3x leaving, one night stands and all, but there was this one girl I got with and after it it turned out she had boyfriend. Even though I was an asshole I couldn’t not tell the dude as I would need to know too, I told the guy about what happened and he confronted his girl. His girl not wanting to seem like a cheater said I r*ped her and forced her into it. This was then taken to the police and I was investigated, I was able to stop the case before it went anywhere because I had messages of her begging to get with me and saying she’d do anything for me…. Fast forward two years I’m a different person, I’m engaged and getting ready to buy a house, and in the last 7 months I started squashing beef (clearing the air) with people I had problems with. These things ranged from people who I had a horrible break up with to just people I didn’t like in middle school and we gave each other dirty looks. I don’t like the thought that someone hates me for something I did and didn’t apologize for. I get people are gonna dislike me but if they’re gonna dislike me I atleast want to say sorry so for myself I can prove I’m not that person anymore , the person they hate. But anyways moving on, I want to clear the air with this girl but because of how delicate the situation is I don’t know if I, what if she accuses me of harassment or stalking…. I have massive anxiety, what should I do?