My sister (17F) was diagnosed with bipolar depression about a year and a half ago. I’m (16F) usually the one who helps or watches her through manic episodes with my mother. I have two brothers(18M) and (25M) that live with us but they do little to help if anything at all (in fact the younger one yelled at her). My mom goes to work most of the time and I have a busy schedule with school since i’m involved in a very time consuming extracurricular. When I get home I’m automatically taken with looking out for her as best as I can since we share a room and Ive been the one helping since she first got diagnosed. She does really damaging things while she’s manic that break her when she’s lucid again. But when I try to stop her from doing the damaging things she gets mad at me and has breakdowns. We’ve tried letting her stick to her schedule like she says but that just ends up with her doing the same things,, but unattended. I don’t know how to find the medium between overbearing and non confrontational. I’ve tried to just be supportive while giving little inputs that will stray her away from all the things she talks about (sneaky linking with different random people and obsessing over people who have done her wrong) but it all does nothing to help. She’s been talking about the same guy since the beginning of her episodes until now despite everyone telling her he’s a shitbag and I literally don’t know what to do. My mom used to be a steady figure in the beginning but as things progress she has a tough time limiting her reactions from being angry and Ive told her we just need to be patient because she isn’t in control of what she’s doing and yelling at her will only make it worse but it seems like she literally just gave up. It feels like Im the only one who can help her or the only one trying to keep an eye out for her and I literally don’t know what to do. I feel myself starting to go into a depressive state and I know i won’t be any help then. please help me.