

So I have a group of friends. My best friend recently is acting weird I think he believes I’m a psychopath even though I’m not I think if I am anything I am a covert narcissist, but I feel like he’s kind of anxious or paranoid that I might be some kind of psychopath. He always says how I’m a psycho to people, and like even when we hang out with our friends, he always says to my girl how I’m probably a controlling psycho and he wishes her good luck, but he does it in a jokey way even though I feel like he believes the things he says. 

So I have this girl and she seems very obsessed with me and I’m starting to think maybe she’s a psychopath or narcissist. 

I feel like she might be aware that I am some kind of narcissist she knows I am insecure deep down and have anxieties but publicly I act like an egotistical prick but I kind of do it as a joke but I just act with no manners, can be a prick to others, etc.

We’re both obsessed with serial murderer things I maybe like them because I like that they have no empathy and it’s crazy how these people are so evil and bad and I wonder why she’s so interested by these people. 

So I like analysing the people in my life to especially identify if someone is a bad person. 

So like she has had some past trauma potentially, her dad was abusive to her mother, her brother sounds pretty abusive as well. She never mentioned if she was abused in any way by her family. She was in an abusive relationship in the past. 

Now I’m in no way abusive and never would be especially to a girl. But she seems to like me loads, she does everything for me, buys me things, if I want to meet her she’ll stop whatever she’s doing even if she’s out with her friends and see me. She actually doesn’t even see her friends anymore she seems to have abounded them for me which is cool for me but I just question her as a person because of that. Like she ignores all of her friends for me. When I want to buy something for her she doesn’t want me to pay for anything she wants to be paying for everything. 

In public she doesn’t like when we act all cute, she prefers to be more cold and like call each other names. But when we’re alone she loves being affectionate and cute and all that but only if we’re alone. It does seem sometimes like she tests me if I care about her, like if I am with her and give her no attention and I speak to other people like at a party. She gets really upset. And she sometimes says things like that she wants to break up, but that’s because she knows I really don’t want to lose her and that makes me like kind of emotional towards her. Like I do have some kind of fear of abandonment and she may realise this

I’m just confused why she likes me this much, she says because she loves me so much and that I’m fun. But I don’t really do anything for her just meet her occasionally. And I do really care about her and she makes me happy but I’m just confused and I want to know what I’m getting into? I’ve never had anyone in my life that cared so much about me and kind of worried this could be fake as it’s too good to be true kind of thing.