(Sorry for long read) I’m (F22) wondering how to go about getting to know my coworker (M20) who I met during training. We were in the same training class and immediately we seemed to hit it off as just like-minded people. We laughed a lot and have the same humor. After training we worked together only a handful of times before I got crosstrained to a different area at our job, so I don’t see him very much now. I got his number after work one night when me him and another coworker were talking; I asked both of them for their numbers (so I didn’t have to ask just him lol) we texted a few times every few days or so but just about work, and I noticed that at first he texted back relatively fast but after a few messages he’d respond hours later or not at all. I double texted just something that happened at work and he responded to my previous texts and that one. This happened twice where I double texted and he responded. I then saw him randomly in the break room and we talked for like 5 seconds cause he had to go back in, but I noticed he was like nervously playing with his hair &amp; necklace and just looked shy.

The last message he sent, he said he wished I was still in the area he’s at cause it’s so crazy, and I said I wished he was at my area &amp; other stuff, then asked a Q. He didn’t respond and it’s been a week....is he avoiding me or just too nervous to text or??

I gathered the courage to text again asking what days he’s off next week in hopes of asking to hang outside of work...he hasn’t responded yet so we’ll see lol.