I’m talking more long term not just spending too many hours w someone. Like when I talk to some ppl romantically, usually ab after a month I start really getting irritated by everything they do. I don’t know why. Like things that didn’t bother me and stuff or I didn’t rly notice. It’s like they just start annoying me SO much. It’s like minor things that I’d consider flaws are then magnified so much to me. I know I’m gonna come off as a dick saying this, it’s not something I’m happy with at all, it’s actually something I’d love to fix if anyone knows any tips. I’m not even sure if this is a bpd thing but I figured I’d ask.

I’ve kind of tried to avoid dating for a while because of this because the other person doesn’t deserve it and I just don’t get why everything switches. It’s not even like they go from being a FP to not one, it’s just like regular relations w them. 

The last person I talked to I tried to take a break here and there to like refresh and stuff and it worked for a little bit but i went right back to getting annoyed.