Ik this’s not about BPD but the other subreddit didn’t interact with me. 

Ive been diagnosed with BPD since 2020 but I think the obv symptoms were there since forever. Anyway, this’s not why I’m writing this, I’m writing this to see if anyone else is suffering of what I’m facing these days. I think my “friends” are being such assholes in a way I cannot describe but I just gaslight myself every time and say that i just feel that way because I’m a borderline. I think I lose common sense of what considered being an asshole and what isn’t the more I become self aware of my BPD and how it can make you over exaggerate your feelings and reactions. BUT I DO REALLY BELIEVE THEY STARTED TO BE ASSHOLES! How do you know when it’s not your BPD and they’re actually being true assholes to you?