My FP recently suffered a death in her family &amp; is grieving a lot obviously. I know not to expect her to talk to me as often as she did prior to this death, and I feel like a jerk for expecting that even though to her I have been nothing but comforting and giving her space. 

Even though she has a totally valid reason for not talking to me much, I still am feeling so incredibly anxious about her abandoning me. In my mind I have this paranoia that in her grief she is going to realize she doesn’t want me around anymore and tell me she doesn’t want to talk to me or be my best friend anymore but we are best friends outside of her being my FP so there is no actual logical reason for me to worry about this. 

Any comforting words or anything that has helped you cope if you’ve been in a similar situation (to comfort yourself while giving your FP space to deal with their own things) would be  so appreciated.