I'm in my first relationship and have quiet BPD. It's been a non-issue, I'm happy, he's happy. It's going great, but he brought up the other day as he knows about my diagnosis and the fear of abandonment and whatnot that comes along with it, and how I'll function as the relationship ages and it got me thinking. Right now I'm used to constant wanting to be together, regular affection and while I'm not thinking it's all gonna go away I do know at any sign of slightly lowering or differing of attention starts my anxiety and fear he's getting bored and will find someone better, so as we start to get out of this phase, how do I deal with it? Relationships and anything related to abandonment have put me in very dark places before and I'm so scared it's gonna put me back there or make me sabotage a good thing.