I don't get it. Once again he withdraws into video games and being alone. He is such a great guy, so fun and silly. It's been a year since I posted here but y'all also fun and silly. I am not BPD and I struggle with loving him but he is very worthy of it. I don't care if sometimes he wants to be alone. I don't care if sometimes he needs time to process everything. I care about him. I'm not perfect either, and I'm so sorry about what he went through. 

How long before I reach out or just wait?