i thought i was doing pretty managing my bpd but yesterday was my birthday and not one of my 3 friends remembered it was my birthday. I always do nice things for them and try my best to get them really nice gifts for their birthday, I even got one of them a nintendo switch for their birthday earlier this year so for them to not even remember the day of mine really hurts. they were the people i was closest to and we sat on the phone everyday in group call and talked away for hours but now i just want to block all of them and just move on with my life rather than have to deal with this pain in the future, can anyone offer some advice on what to do?