Up to this day I’m kinda confused why my friend was ignored by a wedding he got invited to. He was very close to the bride prior to the wedding (they were colleagues and he was her supervisor of some sort).

This two literally text daily, it made me wonder how her fiancée was taking it because the texts would go from morning like the moment she wakes up and can last up to 8 to 10 so it appears neither one has boundaries when it comes to texts or they don’t feel there needs to be one. So the closeness started September last year and is still ongoing now.

The wedding happened a few days ago and I was stunned that her first reaction to seeing him (while she was standing beside her groom in her dress) was “oh hey I didn’t recognize you with the glasses”. That was about it.. I thought that was strange and my friend looked a little confused too. Bride didn’t introduce him to the groom despite my friend saying he wants to us dinner with them..that kinda thing makes me think they were close but at the wedding the bride seemed like she didn’t want to be associated with my friend. 

My friend didn’t grow up rich and so he brought me there as his plus one saying “you have the upbringing to help me navigate their social class”. It was a very upper crust group (like old money) and even for me it was a hard table to work on. I had to pull every card I had lol.

We had to ambush her during a photo session just so he can introduce me to her. She gave me a hug and told us “sorry guys I have to check with the other guests .” 

At the reception I was already drunk and having fun with my steak. Bride never looked at us anymore after the intro at the photo session.

The entire night he was texting her like how he usually does when he’s at home. I felt kinda sad for him. He was also lost on what topics to talk about and ended up talking about gophers, which is really not something you talk about during these events.

Anyway it seemed like she was literally avoiding us (facing the other way sometimes) I also saw her look at me and she never asked how I was or that she was happy to meet me. Nothing.

The wedding was kinda expensive so it didn’t make sense why she ignored us. We had to go home without saying goodbye. My friend never met the husband.

My friend posted on his Facebook wall pics of the wedding and tagged the bride and groom. She responded like how she usually does, and if I’m not mistaken they are carrying on and texting as usual now she’s married and on her honeymoon (lol).

What gives? I’m confused at this. I go to a lot of weddings (this is my friends second wedding invite, he’s not a popular guy). 

Thoughts? Please don’t be mean thank you :) 🙏 

TLDR my friend was snubbed by a wedding he went to by the person who invited him