My girlfriend has severe bpd and has been off her meds for 5-6 months (she switched doctors and is getting a new prescription soon) But she has had horrible mood swings and gets so angry so easily, It makes me feel hated and like i can do absolutely nothing to help her and i am useless. I love her and want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with her especially since even when things aren’t the best she is the person i click with the most and can talk to about anything. Just lately she has seemed so distant and almost like she doesn’t realize she’s alive. She said today she is always miserable and has been her whole life. I know i can’t change that but i guess i wish me being there and cracking my jokes and making her laugh, would make life feel a little bit more worth living for and maybe distract her from the problems she is dealing with in her head. I’m somewhat educated with Bpd but i don’t know enough to know how to handle everything. I just need help and advice one what i should do. Or if there is anything i can do.