Im in a relationship with a guy with BPD since June last year. He was diagnosted at the end of 2017, and he's been in therapy and Meds. Obviously, he has improve in some aspects, but some of them are still there, and they re-appear every so often: Depression, Intrusive thoughts, Self-harm, very low self-esteem, etc.
I love him, more than anyone in my life, but sometimes I don't know what to do, how to help him, or simply I feel too tired of the problems. I just want to be happy with the man I love, without this awful moments. I want him to be fine and happy.
Do you have any advice for us?