I've been diagnosed with BPD recently and I'm still learning about all that comes with it, and had a couple questions specifically about having an FP.

1.  Is it possible to have a FP you have little to very little contact with, like say once a fortnight or month? I'm assuming online contact would help somewhat in maintaining it.

2.  Is it possible to have multiple FPs? I sort of obsess over my therapist and constantly think about her and envision knowing her more personally, but I also have really similar constant obsessive and unhealthy thoughts about another person.

It'd be a great help if I could get some information clarifying these questions.