I, like many of us, REALLY struggle with being away from my FP for long and not having certainty about exactly when I’ll see them again. This is something that I’m actively working on, as I recognise the impact that my neediness has on my FP. It must feel smothering, and will ultimately push him away from me. 
So I want to be able to enjoy time apart from him, even when there’s no “good” reason we couldn’t be together. What I’m really struggling with is not seeking assurance that he would want to see me. Cos essentially what it must be coming across as is…”let’s go do our own things cos that’s good for us, but tell me you want to see me”. Does this make sense to anyone?!