In a previous post in another sub I posted that I would like to learn a new language. Well I got set up and signed up for some classes but I have cancelled those classes multiple times. I just get so anxious thinking about trying something difficult again. What if I try and fail? What if I quit knowing full well I will regret it later. Or the last one, what if I do well and succeed and then don't feel satisfaction anyway?

This attitude has been creeping up in new parts of life. I'm scared to leave my cozy job even though I would like to change my career field. I'm nervous to try talking to women again. It is honestly starting to feel crippling and I don't know how to fix it.