My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We live together. Initially we had plans for me to visit his family for Thanksgiving and mine for Christmas since I haven’t seen mine in years. (Last Christmas he basically ignored me while visiting his fam and he slept in the living room with some dude he was feeling sexual toward but said nothing happened…)

His family hasn’t invited me anywhere. I’ve had them all over multiple times. His sister and gf stayed w us for a week. In the heat of an argument he tells me that his parents hate me, that I’m a loser, etc etc.  And he’s not coming w me for Xmas anyway.

…which somehow led to him bringing up AGAIN, In the heat of a discussion, us having an open relationship….

Any input appreciated. Love him but the confusion is affecting me.