Hello. I'm new here. I'm sorry if this has been posted already (I'm sure it has). But, I need advice and so far this has been an incredibly helpful resource. 

I'm awaiting official diagnosis but all the signs of BPD are a glass slipper for me. There isn't anything associated with BPD that I don't identify with. 
I would like to tell my partner that I feel like this is BPD and offer an explanation for behavior. I don't know how. Telling him I was anorexic was not fun and did not go so well. We live together and because he sees me eat sometimes he believes I eat. He does not understand the correlation between food and punishment. 
I'm thinking that letting him read a breakdown of BPD and asking, "Does this sound like anyone you know" can create a gateway for neutral conversation. Emotions will be out of control either way. 


Any help would be great. xx