My s/o and I don’t live together and theyre in school &amp; working . While I on the other hand do neither.  So we haven’t been seeing each other as often as we’d like. They started talking about getting a car. Mind you, they DO NOT have a license. But are in the process of getting it (maybe in a month or two). A few days ago they finally found a car they wanted and bought it. I was extremely happy for them &amp; excited too! We would be able to see each other a little bit more once he got his license. 

Today they drove to my house. 

Again, they do NOT have a license. I completely freaked out. I know they know how to drive well, but I just can’t believe they would drive without a license! Maybe it’s not a big deal to the majority of people but I lost one of my closet childhood friends when I was younger due to a horrible car accident that killed his entire family. I have intense fears of the highway and get bad anxiety in cars. I just feel like????? I don’t know. Why would you do that?????? Like ?? I just can’t wrap my head around it. 

Based on what I said, any opinions would help): agree or disagree with me, I would love to have input. It helps me a lot. Hope all is well &lt;3