I’ve only recently found out I have BPD, and I’m coming to understand some things about the disorder. I guess one thing that has struck me is that fps are common for people with BPD. Are there really people who don’t focus their entire being on one person. What is that like?? My whole life I thought these obsessive attachments I would form to single persons at a time was just what everyone did. I never really thought it was normal the degree I could be affected by my fp, but at the very least I thought having a “favorite person” in general was normal. Maybe I should’ve known something was up when I always had to tell people in the past that I was a “one person kinda person.” And i’m now realizing why everyone always thought that was weird. Because it’s not “normal.” That’s crazy. I wish I didn’t have a fp. Somehow I feel like so much would be better if I didn’t.