Hey lovelies!

As BPD survivors (BC we are truly surviving &amp; not just living), we have all the right conditions to make today an unfortunate storm. 

I woke up today, lonely.

I have abandonment wounds.

I am emotionally unstable. 

That’s a lot to deal with on a normal day, but even harder when everyone’s feeling the need to share the love they feel &amp; we sometimes don’t. 

Don’t fall into the trap!! LOVE yourself right now. Whether you’re doing good or doing bad. Whether you just had an episode or if you’re healing. One of the biggest mistakes I subconsciously make is only loving the “good” sides to myself &amp; shaming the bad sides. That’s not fair. 

I hope to bring some positivity today because today is really just a made-up holiday for companies to make more money. It’s is ALSO a GREAT reminder we don’t need anything to love ourselves, but our minds. 

So today, LOVE yourself a little extra  - and I’m not talking SPA nights or chocolates and movies. 

LOVE your flaws. 
LOVE your patience (or impatience). 
LOVE your loyalty. 
LOVE your biggest mistake. 

Let’s not let anyone or anything break that I believe you can feel with yourself! 💜💜💜

Happy Valentine’s Day!