Hi guys, I’m 18F and I needed some advice on what to do. 

I have plans to hang out with a guy who was a FWB for a week till he moved states for college. The next few weeks after he moved he would facetime me every night until one day he just stopped and said he “needed space” This is the same guy who said if “I was still at home we would be dating right now” just a couple weeks ago. 

I’m seeing him for a few hours because he is coming back from college. I have no idea if this is a date or just hanging out. My anxiety is through the roof. My ideal activity would be to sit in a coffee shop and do some work and catch-up. He’s going to think that’s “cringe”. I don’t want to get food because I know if I eat in front of him I’ll spiral thinking about what he’s thinking about me eating.

Does anyone have any advice on what to do or know what the intention of us hanging out is?