My parents are a mess and always have been. I can’t go into specifics, but today reached a point where i can’t handle it anymore. I keep trying to take care of my mom, i keep trying to help her. She refuses, she’s so self destructive and i can’t do this anymore. She’s toxic for me, she always has been. I don’t need to take care of her anymore. I’m pretty much an adult now. I’m just wondering if anyone else has the same experience with their parents?