I dont know what to do  
Me and my FP have been having fights recently because he has constantly been making plans with me and then shrugging them off so he could be with friends instead  


I got upset around a week ago because he blew off our plans and he got extremely upset and hurtful during that  


and tonight he did it again and trying to manage my feelings and using what I've learned super early on in DBT Therapy tried to set boundaries so we don't fight and both calm down and he accused me of being in the wrong for being upset and overreacting and hurting him by getting upset and frustrated at him  


Am I genuinely in the wrong or were my feelings valid?