i have been learning more about issues with BPD and issues with maintaining connection over time. 

Realising a lot of my life i have either been in co dependent relationships or moving from friendship group to friendship group every year or so. As often new people feel
More safe as there is no baggage

Do u guys have any advice on how to maintain connection over time??

I have been actively trying to reach out to old friends but i will make a plan they will cancel then not rearrange with me so i kinda give up

Hope ur all
Good xx