I’d just like to post my achievement that I no longer have a FP nor do I obsess over people. My FP from 5 years ago is my current boyfriend, but it took me being completely cr*zy &amp; him realising this, for my BPD to start to heal. I could *not* be acting like that or thinking like that if I wanted my FP’s love &amp; respect, cuz ultimately in the throws of BPD, having a Favourite Person is very emotionally dangerous for your mental health, &amp; can even be for the person. 

Has anyone “grown out” of their Favourite Person ways? I feel maturing &amp; a constant dedication to acting on my impulses less is what has made my brain stop latching onto people.