Today I broke up with my boyfriend of just over a year. He was my longest relationship ever. We didn’t see eye to eye on chores, and he won’t change his mind, he told me. I knew I would start resenting him if I always did 80% of the housework while he does 20% so I had to break things off. We are still cordial and this is the first healthy breakup I’ve had, post therapy. It just hurts so bad because I hate that I don’t see a future with him. But at least I can say I was able to be civil this time which is something I’ve really had to work on.