Have any of you ever had an SO tell you "It's hard for you to see how much I love you when you don't love yourself," or that "I wish you could see what I see," since your self-image is poor?

I really feel like my self-criticism and self-hatred take a toll on my perception and strain my relationship.  I think my boyfriend used to think he could fix it, but the problem is really within myself.  Now I don't know if it's ever going to be fixed.

Has anyone heard of something similar to those statements from their SO or know what I'm talking about?  I feel like it's sort of a BPD issue relating back to feelings of worthlessness.