All of my life I have based my self worth off of men. If they give me attention, I am good enough. I recently got out of a 3 year relationship and have just been slutting it up and its wearing on me. *I do not think being promiscuous is bad, nor do I judge anyone who enjoys casual sex*. I enjoy it to, I'm just so tired of feeling used and getting attention for a night, sleeping with them, and then never hearing from them again. I feel used. I had a break down this morning after stumbling home at 6am drunk after a one night stand. I keep saying I'm going to stop, but as soon as I get lonely I head to the bar and find another one.

Has anyone beat this cycle? Please help.