Hey guys, I need some advice. 

I have a friend who’s been in my life for about 5 years, one of those sort of friends that you can talk to about anything, and I’ve leaned on her for a fair bit over the years. Like she’s honestly amazing, one of my favourite people in the world, cannot speak highly enough of her, and obviously love talking to her. 

Only problem is, over the past year, it’s become pretty hard to have a conversation with her, or at least a decent one, she’ll say that she “just forgot”. She’s been bad before, but not like it is now, where I’m sending two or three messages before she forgets to reply, it’s not like she just pops on her phone for one or two minutes, I know for a fact she’s always on it, and it honestly feels like I’m just begging for attention at this point. 

At this stage I’m worried she’s sick of me for obvious reasons, like she’s just making me feel like the biggest loser or that I’m not good enough for her.  Its a) causing me extreme anxiety and tanked my confidence, and b) starting to give me panic attacks

So I don’t really know whether to keep her around and keep trying the same shit, try and confront (for lack of a better word), or just cut her out cold turkey. 

Thanks guys, probs seems super obvious, but just need some advice