Hey everyone, so things have just been broken off with my SO (who I'll refer to as "Z"). Z and I met earlier this year and I can honestly say that we were seemingly the perfect match. We got along really well for the most part. We had similar interests, ideas, future plans, and I let him move in with me, well more like he kind of just never left after that first day, but hey I really liked him. Fast forward a few months and we got to know each other more. He introduces me to a friend of his nd well long story short, I ended up in a situation that was both humiliating and heartbreaking. His friends basically ended up ganging up on me and they pretty much mocked me that night. I find out later that one of the girls he was introducing me to that night had prior history together. I was very hurt by this especially when he tried to brush it under the rug. When I asked about why they would attack me, he said maybe it is because she forced herself on him. I wanted to believe him, but that situation was    just so odd. I kind of wanted him to maybe say something because that night made me feel real uneasy, but he just would get mad at me for questioning his story, He always tells me that I just need to believe him....That was just one example, his stories never added up to me and I'll admit that it started to make me more and more insecure. Especially when he began to talk about his past with other people in detail. I'm fine with past flings and stuff, but he stated to mention stuff that was really, well extreme? At least for our age an that just kind of got to me. I started to have bad moments where I could not control my insecurity's and I said some really mean things. I wanted to get better so I thought maybe I should get therapy, he said it sounds like I have BPD. Long story short and because I am tired of typing, we broke up because I felt like the relationship was going nowhere, he would just blame me for all the problems when I haven't even been diagnosed yet, He did this thing where he act really caring and stuff, but then he would say that it was my fault. I'm pretty sure he just wanted somebody to push his past problems onto and well, I let him. He was really messing with my head, not to mention he owes me money which I probably will never see.  Now during that time period I did have moments where I grew pretty nasty and out of character over the little things. I want to stop that, I've always had my insecurities, but I don't see the MD til a little while so maybe you guys can tell me lol.