My husband's depression has taken a toll on our marriage and I feel like I am in mourning. I have started seeing a therapist and he has medical help, but there is one particular thing that I want to get some advice/insight on from this subreddit.

In our three years of marriage, depression and anxiety has robbed us of most of our happy moments and barely allowed us to have a marriage. It's just been survival through a worsening depression. It has now become pretty bad where he barely gets out of bed unless it is to go to work. He is on medication and has a medical support system around him.

There is one thing I am struggling with the most. He can function, not well, but function when it comes to work, his family, friends etc. But when it comes to us, he can't seem to cope at all. He has barely been able to talk to me for 2 months now. Barely has his eyes open long enough to see me. I have reached a breaking point. I have found myself pleading with him to just say a few words to me, sit with me for a few minutes, just..... something. But he just keeps saying sorry.

I know he loves me. I know this is hard for him but it hurts to watch him be able to function with everyone else but not me. Please, has anyone else experienced this? I just want to understand and know if someone else has struggled more with their partner than in other relationships.