I don't have bpd but my girlfriend has it, I recently discovered that she suffers from this because of her abusive father, I love her so much, and even though she has bpd I am willing to accept it too, we've been together for 4 months now and we've been through so many difficult times together, all the mood swings, the splitting, she said something about object permanent because I'm too busy with work and we couldn't have that much time together, I tried to calm her down when she's in her manic state and comfort her when she feels like the world is collapsing around her. I've try my best to make her feel like everything is okay :(

What even more difficult is that we're in a long distance relationship now and recently she keeps saying she needs time off from me, she keeps on worrying that she was acting too much for me and that I deserve better because she brings nothing but sadness in my life, that's not true at all but I couldn't do much to convince her. Today, she decided to cut all connection with me, no texting, no social network, no calling, she specially stated that she will cut me out and need time off. God it hurt so bad everyone, I don't know if she'll be back and I feel so useless with all this distance

What do I do now, the stress is getting to me, I feel so devastated :(, please help me to understand this from your perspective because I'd love to do anything to make her feel better again