Hello I am (21f) and my bf (27m) I’m posting because I need advice he’s been diagnosed with schizoaffective for about 10 years now I believe I met him 5 years ago and we’ve been together almost 5 years in may we have 3 kids under the age of 5 and I need help this past year he’s had more episodes than I’ve every witnessed I had a job as a behavioral technician for kids with Austim I loved that job so much . But he had delusions that I was cheating and would make me feel guilty by spending time at work with other children instead of my own now I rely solely on GrubHub shipt InstaCart etc 
Now he doesn’t believe his illnesses is real or causing him any problems ( he’s been hospitalized twice this year)  his symptoms that’s I’ve noticed when an episode is happening is talking nonsense (Lucifer,demons ,god and something about prince of Persia)
Constantly looking out windows 
Flicking light switch is on even if it’s 2 AM at night and everyone’s sleeping he will turn on the lights and I will ask him to please turn them back off he doesn’t so I turned them off myself and not five minutes later it will turn them back on my biggest issue is he will go into our children’s room look out of their windows and leave without closing the door now they are under five years old I have child safety door knobs on the inside of the doors so they cannot leave the room while I’m sleeping we have a basement with very hard concrete stairs and that’s my main concern so this morning at 2 AM I woke up because he was sitting on the edge of the bed with the lights on and I hear noise in the living room so I jump out of bed and my three year old son is in the living room in the dark by himself
His grandmother understand and has told me to just go in the bathroom and call an ambulance for him the only reason I don’t is they just let him go also he has court soon and I don’t want him to miss his court also her son‘s birthday is next month he is court ordered to take his medication but he doesn’t also I don’t know if you guys know whatwhippets but he has been addicted for about a year I’ve begged and pleaded him to just stop ive hid the car keys turned off my debit cards through away the device he uses to have them and he just got it back out of the trash the only reason I’m bringing whippets up is because ever since he started doing them his illness has gotten worse.
I think I should leave but I have no way of doing so .
I’m broke with a 618 credit scores no credit history and no car like I mentioned I mainly GrubHub and do Instacart and I use his cars to do so I do not have my own car I don’t have any means to buy a car I have no family
And no way of getting an apartment I don’t really know what I’m asking but if anybody has any type of advice feel free to comment or if you have dealt with a family or friend that has been diagnosed with this