For a while, I assumed I had Aspergers due to how bad I am socially around others but I've recently realised that I am only socially bad around other people because I'm incredibly fake and don't act myself around others in fear of being rejected. I hate myself and I'm certain I drive my mum nuts although she has a lot of the same traits as me in terms of being incredibly negative and irritable. I like talking about myself a lot and complaining about other people and how they treat me, etc. I know that other people will be turned off by it so I'm mainly super quiet and awkward around other people. Anyway, I've been referred to see somebody that specialises in Aspergers and ADHD next month for a full assessment. What should I tell them? It's taken almost a full year to see them so I'm worried I will have to wait another year to see the right people. I have not been diagnosed with BPD but I'm almost sure I have it. What should I do? Any advice would be much appreciated.