I am in probably the most stable relationship i’ve ever been in, we have had some very toxic times but they always pass and overall is not a toxic relationship. We both have our fair share of mental health issues she has been misdiagnosed and diagnosed with many things so don’t really know her exact conditions, but i am diagnosed with BPD, OCD, GAD, and MDD. We have been together almost a year and now most of the time I just feel like i want time to myself but never get it. i am codependent but my girlfriend is so codependent to the point that even when i’m not with her we have to be texting or on the phone. this is making me feel smothered and bored and sick of her. I often feel like i’m bored of her and don’t wanna be with her and want to have sex with other girls and be single and alone. When i actually think about it deeply though, i realize how painful it would be to lose her and that we are very compatible and good for each other. But a lot of the time now, it just doesn’t feel like it used to and i’m bored a lot. When i feel like she is abandoning me in anyway however, the tables turn and i am obsessive. Do i still love her? is this splitting? should i leave even if this is a healthy relationship and she’s probably the love of my life?