So I got back together with ex, trying again. Reason we weren't together was mostly my head or so I thought...feeling disrespected lately, xmas day first one together, we don't really celebrate but his eldest son dropped off xmas dinner for us, I was in town till 5 came back he didn't bother to wait for me..that hurt and I told him so his response ugh I should have just said no to the handout I don't even like turkey dinner..I threw it in the trash yesterday I tried to talk to him about asking a friend for some help replacing a broken bathroom fixture I found a replacement for free on FB he cut me off said no why do have to be like that you're just like youngest son's ex nagging doing the same thing I told you no. We talked today about treating eachother with respect he  apologized only after I said no apology? I don't deserve to be talked to that way ... Said he loves me and doesn't mean to be asshole but I just wouldn't let it go (talking about getting help) day went ok I went to town to do laundry came back he said I made a new dish should try if It already ate...couldn't be bothered to wait for me he seems to want to do things alone,so I fed all the leftovers to the dog.... overboard? Maybe but that's what I did