Hello I’m sorry I’m not sure if this is the right place to go. I’m just really struggling right now. My fiancé has a history of bipolar, anxiety, depression, and anger issues. We, including her, all also believe she may have bpd because of her symptoms. Over the last few months our relationship has become rockier because of my transition to medical school. I have not been able to handle her as best as I used to in the past because of how stressed I have been. It hasn’t been until recently that I have finally been able to get a solid footing. So more recently I have been giving her more time but it seems the damage has been done. A few days ago she told me she no longer loved me romantically in a very calm manner. And that she no longer wanted to try anymore and that it just wasn’t worth it. She says she needs to find herself and be her own person. I frantically begged her to reconsider because of how sudden this seemed to me. A month ago we were talking about marriage again and finally being able to schedule it. I feel destroyed. I managed to tell her that she’s making a rash decision and that we should take a break for two weeks so she can really think about it. Now I just feel so stressed and lonely without her. I keep thinking about what might happen two weeks from now. I know I should leave her alone for now but I don’t know how to approach the date we set to meet up. Should I bring flowers? Should I surprise her with a gift on that day? Or should I just approach her with he attitude that it’s already over. I don’t know what to do and I’m so scared I’m about to lose my best friend