My partner and i have been dating since early July so it’s still a fairly new relationship. He knows about my BPD and does his best to reassure me when i need it and things of the sort. Ive been having these crazy compulsive thoughts that i haven’t told him about because they just make me feel so damn crazy but it’s been eating me up inside so i know i have to talk to him about it soon :,) Basically- he’s in a band. Pretty popular in the local scene. He’s the one in charge of his bands social media and does the promoting and all that jazz. He does most of it on instagram. A couple weeks ago i told him i would prefer if he wasn’t on his phone so much when we hung out. He was very respectful, apologized and has definitely gotten better at that. But now my bpd brain is going crazy with how much he talks to people on IG. I don’t ask who he talks to because i know it’s just my insecurities popping out but man it’s driving me crazy. He’s always getting notifications and i don’t know if it’s his bands notifications or his personal IG. He’s just always talking to someone and it takes everything in me to not ask who the hell he’s talking to. i know i need to trust him. he hasn’t done anything to tell/show me otherwise. should i approach him about this? how do i not come off crazy? i haven’t been in a serious relationship in over a year because i really needed to get my bpd in check. i feel as though i have done my best to not be too much. but bpd brain really wants to find some reason to not trust him 🥺 any advice would be greatly appreciated ❤️