i got really upset and broke up with my girlfriend and since then she won't stop acting like i'm totally nuts and my BPD is the only reason i broke up with her, which isn't true at all. she said that she hopes i come out of this "splitting period" and realize what i did wrong.....but it isnt splitting and i didnt do anything wrong. it is so hard to not flip out at her and tell her off for using BPD against me, tweeting things about it, telling my friends i'm crazy, etc. i know it wouldn't do anything good to confront her so i haven't even defended myself at all, but it is sooo hard to stop myself every day from thinking about this. i feel like this is ableist bullying. but i guess all we can do is let people talk and try to move on and remember that the horrible things people say aren't always true or relevant. sigh