Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and got a place together last July. I had a work accident and couldn’t walk for 3 months and then my mental health went downhill due to his family making comments about my disorder and making up lies to get him to leave me.

We’ve been struggling for money to pay the bills since and I recently landed a new job which is really supportive and good money too, and he’s doing work for cash in hand daily so I thought things were looking up for us.

Apparently not in his eyes. He’s brought it up in conversation in the past but I told him I don’t feel comfortable living with his mom again due to the fact the doesn’t like me very much and had gaslighted me in the past. She’s also an alcoholic and has picked fights with me when we lived there before even though I was minding my own business.

He keeps telling me we would have more money in our pockets and we can try and save up again to move out but I can’t bring myself to be put in that situation again as it almost put me into a psyche ward.

I feel as if he’s completely disregarding my feelings on this situation and I’ve tried to tell him that if he just waits till we both bring in money that things will get better for us. 

Am I in the wrong for not wanting to move back to his moms? I feel so lost in this situation because it gives me chronic anxiety. 

I love him very much but this situation puts me under so much stress…