I have this co worker who has always been super sweet. So nice,kind and bubbly. She always seems happy and is super into makeup and stuff and always looks so pretty. She’s extroverted but has always been private about her personal life. Recently she’s started coming in looking pretty rough, and kinda smelling like alcohol, but she’s good at her job and I thought maybe she’s just going through something she’ll get better. But it hasn’t. The other day she came in looking like shit, I asked her if she was hungover and she said “No, just depressed”, but like in a lighthearted way. Another day I found her in the break room bawling her eyes out I asked her what was wrong and she said “Don’t worry I’m not going to k*ll myself”, but again in a lighthearted manner. I didn’t know what to say to that. She keeps asking to leave early and when I ask her where she’s going she always says “to bed”. I have a feeling she might lose her job if she keeps leaving. Is she suicidal? I want to help but I don’t know what’s going on or what to do.