Currently my partner and I are taking time away. They made it clear they could not handle our relationship at the moment and I said no problem take your time.

Now we both met on an app (Grindr) And talked for several months before hanging out and getting close. At the time, I really just thought of it as a fun thing and enjoyed talking to them. We exchanged phone numbers eventually and inched towards something more then that and eventually met up and had a great time snuggling and laughing. 

That was years ago when we met, now we are taking time away and I decided it would be okay to log into my account on the app. Here is what bothers me- I don't want any of these people, but I'm trying to do what I should (talk to other people see how it feels) And okay, I can do that, but they(partner) keep viewing my profile constantly and logging off. 

They asked to be apart, so I'm uncomfortably trying to do that. The app shows who viewed you, and when, and the last person to view me is always my ex?(partner) When I try and reach out they ignore me and log off. 

What is the purpose of viewing me constantly yet never talking to me. I miss them :(

I know BPD is hard, my person helped me through so much and I'm willing to work on things, I just don't know what to do when they do this sort of stuff. I know how they struggle and I've always been supportive and I love them idk