let me just preface this by stating i also have BPD. my SO was being harassed several years ago by a person they were extremely close with- don’t want to post details but they quite literally ruined her entire life. The person coerced my so into apologizing to them via text for something she didn’t do (she was a teenager and was already with an extremely manipulative and disgusting group of people who gaslit her frequently, so she assumed she must have actually been guilty of the claims without realizing) and used it against her as pretty solid evidence for their accusations, but she is traumatized from it. extremely depressed, scared to go public with any of her work that she already has a degree for, frequent nightmares; shes just a REALLY broken person. she kept quiet while this other person built a platform around it. several days ago this person resurfaced and began targeting her publicly on social media and is again garnering more people to speak out against her. the situation is really muddy tbh and beyond reporting the posts i’m at a loss for how to help. this person does have BPD and a lot of the things they’re doing is reflective of things i did when i was running around undiagnosed and untreated. does anyone know what i can do besides saying some fucked up shit like “this is all from your BPD so it’s invalid, next!” literally anything would help