i have nice things. i like nice things. i will purchase one expensive product rather than four mid range products if i can see a clear quality difference[.](https://difference.in) in the last year though i have realised i give a lot of things away. at 20 i had a lot of expensive jewelry and by 24 i hade just about none of it left. yesterday i was doing my cousins makeup for her and she really liked the lipstick i used on her and i was like "keep it". there are soe things i wont part with. im super curious if this is a bpd thing and why i do it. am i just a generous person or am i looking for approval? can i be both?