So after 2 almost years I’m finally going on a date this weekend. I kind of just stumbled into it (she asked me out). I’m excited the woman I’m meeting seems super great but I’m feeling incredibly anxious. 

We have a lot in common, we're both introverts, we love animals, and have similar interests. But I can't shake this fear that my anxiety disorder will get in the way because it affects my life in a lot of ways, most notably I don't drive and have severe agoraphobia. I'm independent but I just constantly worry about that being a problem.

I recently found out after chatting with her she might be a bit of an adrenaline junkie, at least compared to me. She loves things like rollercoasters and rock climbing, and wants to go skydiving. I mentioned I'm not into that stuff, and she said basically "don't try to change me and I won't try to change you" which seems fair. But in the back of my head I'm terrified that my anxiety challenges will just be even more of a problem for someone like her.

On the other end though what if we do like each other and the anxiety isn't an issue for her? Then what? Will I be able to handle it in the long run? Will she? 

My mind is just going a mile a minute and I need some advice.