Very few people know I have BPD - two or three close friends, my mom, an ex. It doesn’t seem like anybody’s business. However, I’ve been seeing my current boyfriend for over 3 months and tonight I threw a complete fit (crying, sobbing, giving him the cold shoulder - although I apologized profusely after I calmed down) because he interrupted me twice. TWICE. That’s all it took. I feel horrible. 

I haven’t told him I have BPD because I’m scared. When/how do you guys inform your partners? 

(For context, the person I dated before my current boyfriend was around when I was diagnosed a few years ago, which is why I told him.)