48 yo male here.  My counselor indicated to me today that I harbor oceans of resentment against my wife.  She said my anger and pain are palpable and that i am unable to forgive and or move on.  She had diagnosed me as having some features of bpd, my pain to me is very intense and that i view things probably 10 times worse than what they are. 

By the accounts of others, i have a emotionally unavailable wife who wanted a helpful room mate rather than a husband.  We don't spend any time together.


Any advice or input would be appreciated.

