My first serious relationship exacerbated my
BPD symptoms, now I feel like a shell of a person and that was 8 years ago. All of my closest friends have other friends and great success in life while I'm still trying to find my footing.

To make matters worse, I barely know how to socialize anymore. People use to love me and now I'm like a leper. I don't know what happened... 

How do I make myself more likeable, so others will ask me to hang out?