So me and my Girlfriend met in the psychiatry 4 Months ago. She has been diagnosed with BPD and i read some stuff about it online and it looks tough, but I'm willing to give everything I have to try it.

We've had some really good weeks, but now suddently she behaves very cold (e.g. hurting my feelings without feeling sorry) and keeps avoiding me. I know that she's depressed and doesen't feel a lot at the moment. She feels uncomfortable around people (including me).

She also started talking about killing herself on Tumblr again. I know that this is just part of the disorder and she won't do it, but still I keep texting her, asking if she's ok. I want her to know that I'm always there for her.

We text each other every day, but for a week now I've been suffering from a depressive episode again (part of my disorder) which makes it extremely hard for me to motivate her and build her up, as her reactions hurt a lot.

My question now is: What can I do to help her?