I asked her if she would watch a video of Dr. Daniel fox where he explains boundaries and how to help the BPD person in your life feel secure. She opened it. Didn’t reply. 30 minutes went by. I said “ lol ok I guess not”. Opened then left on read then another 20 minutes passed I explained that he’s a physiatrist and since I lost my job and could afford health insurance this money. I’m watching his videos to get tools. And what ya know. Left on read again. I watched 3 more of his videos and felt like I should write her a letter. So 4 pages later of finally being able to fight for my self, I’m going to read it to her in a few days. 

It pretty much boiled down to. I get you can can’t always reply. But if you can open and read it and you see it’s important just acknowledge you’ll read it later and reply when you have time. Am I wrong for asking for that?