my gf has bpd and recently got a job, today was her first day. she also has some other issues that made her really exhausted after working today, and she feels like she’s a failure. i rly wanna just explain to her how strong she is for working while dealing with so many things and make her feel like it’s ok, but i know it’s not that simple. is it even possible for me to help? i rly don’t want her to have a breakdown but i feel like i can’t do anything to help her and it’s killing me