Soo yeah I have bpd. Ive had it diagnosed by a very, very capable psychologist in Panama (was just visiting, I live in the US).

And theres this girl I like (we've known and been friends for a while), I recently spoke to her (took all my courage) and told her that I felt like she was distancing herself from me and that if I was doing anything wrong. She said "no its just that you can be... overbearing sometimes." I then proceeded to say (calmly mind you, hopefully) "I think that youre an amazing person and I just dont want to lose you as a friend" she then kinda shrugged her shoulders and was like "oh, naaah. I just dont want to hurt your feelings." Then I was like "you cant hurt my feelings by talking to me, you can only hurt them by not talking me." then she did her shoulder shrugging thing again and said "yeah, thats true." I then danced with her (we were hanging out at like a just-for-fun sort of dance class for people class for people in our congregation. She seemed into the dance after that talk)

Now, see, I dont know how I am clingy (people tell me i am but i feel like i give enough space). I talk her her in person twice a week at church and text her like maybe once a week. she is still distancing herself from me. I think she needs more space but im deathly afraid that she will stop being my friend. I feel that if i talk to her again like that she may distance herself further. All i really want at this time is to build rapport. i just want her to initiate conversation with me. I'm afraid to to anything right now because I seriously have no idea what to do. Beleieve it or not, this is the short version. Sorry if this is long-winded, I can provide more info as needed. Please help.
edit: grammar.