I'm queer both in sexual and gender identity. I sometimes feel like my experience w/ that either heightens or is heightened by my lack of a sense of self and fear of abandonment. I have a wonderful partner but I'm sometimes afraid she can't love me if I'm this lost/dissociative/etc sometimes. EMDR has helped me fear this less/feel less uncomfortable with my body and sense of self but I don't know if it has gotten rid of it 100% (yet). Do any other LGBTQ/queer people here feel a connection between living w/ that identity and being borderline? I can't tell