Good afternoon all,

So I (32/m) met a woman (36/f) and it seems we both have BPD. We met and immediately hit it off. I found she has BPD through social media.  Well coincidentally so am I(well all but officially diagnosed as my psych has said my illness is hardwired and I fit in the spectrum pretty well.)

She doesn't know about any of my health issues, but we have talked about our emotional outlooks and things of the sort, and well, we're pretty damn well aligned.  I could tell she was taken aback by the similarities.

To be clear we have only had one incredible, spontaneous and memorable together. She lives in another city and I'm going to see her this weekend. I can assure I'm not making this anymore than what it is as I completely underatand we're just getting to know eachother. However; our common interests, and goals are completely in alignment.

My question. What are your opinions and or experiences with two people with bpd in a relationship when they are both concious of their condition, establish healthy communication  and are both working to improve themselvs? Like I said the foundation's footer is just now being dug, and we have yet to have the conversation. I will definitely update though. Thanks in advance.