I’m getting really worried about my boyfriend. He’s been on Zoloft for a few months now and I worry that they’re making him worse, along with him constantly smoking weed and drinking to deal with bad emotions. He’s irritable, he doesn’t want to do anything anymore, his emotions can switch rapidly. I’ve never seen him like this. I’m trying so hard to support him but I’m starting to grow concerned he doesn’t want me anymore. I know it’s probably a selfish thought and really he’s struggling and pushing everyone away but it’s really effecting me because I love him so much I’m starting to think I’m part of the problem. 

The other day he got very angry, kicked me out and threw my stuff out. He won’t apologise anymore because he says he can’t, that he’s processing his behaviour and he doesn’t think he’s right for anyone. He’s becoming hard to talk to without him flying off the handle. I just don’t know what to do. This isn’t him he’s the most loving and caring person usually.