Seriously. Nearly every post on there is about how awful people with BPD are, how literally every relationship we ever have will be horrible, we are never worth the effort, etc. Why have a subreddit named "loved ones" where there is never any love?

We are people beyond the disorder, and it horrifies me that there was a subreddit created for support that turned into a circle jerk of bashing those of us with it as though we are one person in thousands of bodies.

When I found it I thought it could be a safe place for my SO to talk and go for advice, but now I don't even want him to find that page for fear he would fall into their way of thinking.