and these "people" just want drama or to be the victim..... uggh
"If you are in a mental state where you can claim to be the victim, you are not that hurt"
And the more you let them win, the more they think they can win and be in control...WHERE oh where is the boundaries, and its not like you can use children against your own parents....I would never want my children to grow up hating or having a bad attitude....ugghhhh, grrrrrrrrr