Well, the holidays have been a drag so far because husband is depressed. I've tried everything I could to lift his spirits. Dinner, sex, good music, hundreds of dollars on gifts and movies, pep talks, family time. Nothing seems to be working and I'm just soooo over it. He sat on the sofa for 2 hours straight talking about how bad his life is. No matter the energy that went into everything. He's being extremely standoffish. I'm hurt because I feel like all the effort but into it went to nothing.