I was diagnosed at 14 and my parents never told me. A few years later I found a copy of my doctor's dictation from my sessions with him and he clearly diagnoses me with BPD. I never received treatment.

Now I'm a pretty well-adjusted 21 year old. I do have some BPD tendencies (obsessive about who my boyfriend talks to/internet usage, intermittent suicidal ideation, codependent) but other than that I wouldn't say I'm terribly affected. However, I understand it isn't a common diagnosis and so I'm wondering if anyone else feels like they've "outgrown" BPD?