(22f) ive been dating my bf (23m) for five months now. He has BPD and I love him a lot and want to stay with him for a long time but from what he’s said and from what I’ve seen in this sub, there’s a strong likelihood that he might break up w me bc he a)gets mad at me for something that is a slight overreaction/a thing that didn’t happen or b)gets bored bc of need for new stimuli. 

What non-bpd partner traits have worked for people on this sub? So far I’ve just tried to be really open and obvious about how much I love him and I’m considering making some sort of change every few months (like dying hair, taking up new hobby) to remain interesting and « new ». Any advice?