Im 23. I graduated college in 2019, and I'm at the point where I really want a job, an apartment and a new, mature relationship. I want all of these things but they feel so far away. It feels like everyone i like is taken (because obviously everyone who is mature, kind and ready for a relationship is in one.) It feels like ill never have enough money for my own place. It feels like I'm not qualified for any of the jobs that I want. I dont know what to do. I feel like I've spent so much time and energy on mental health and self improvement that I've fallen behind where my peers are. Does anyone have any advice?