Ay, just me again, forever trying to figure out whether I've got BPD or ASD or what. This was something I read about somewhere else, and is one thing that makes me think I could have ASD. But I'm curious whether it could be a BPD thing, too 


I feel like whenever someone's too emotional around me, or they need comfort, I feel incredibly uncomfortable and panic. It's nothing against them at all, it's just for a couple of reasons. One is that I take on others' emotions sometimes, and I can very quickly go from feeling ok to truly feeling like shit by absorbing others' emotions. But the bigger thing is, I just know that I'm probably not very good at comforting them, and I want so badly to say something that'll help but I don't feel like I know the right things.


I'm wondering if there's a chance this could be because of invalidating parents, not having enough examples of this, emotional issues, stuff like that