My father is BPD as fuck and guess what, I ended up with it too...I’ve read if your parent has it you are 10x more likely to get it. BPD is an absolute fucking curse that I wouldn’t wish upon my worst enemy, let alone my own child. It has been eating me alive, kids are one of the only things I want but I feel that is irresponsible of me to bring someone into this world with a high chance of them being fucked in the head like me and my own father....I don’t know what to do or think, maybe I’m just being dumb but I think I need a second opinion