I was depressed last night. I went on tinder so I could find someone to hangout and hook up with. I matched with this guy and we met at a cafe. We hung out there for a little while and then went to his house. We chilled there for a while. We started making out and I got on top of him. He took my shirt off and played with my boobs. We kissed some more and he got on top of me and took his shirt off. He fingered me under my shorts. I wanted to give him head. As soon as I started playing with his jeans he pulled back and said “we don’t have to do this the first time we meet. Slow down a little.” I asked him if he’s ever had sex before. He replied “yes many times but we don’t have to do it the first time meeting each other.” I’m just so confused about what happened and feel so rejected.