So important context here is that I am a trans man who has had depression and anxiety since I was a teenager.
 It always comes and goes and sometimes I think I'm happy only for feelings of depression to come back suddenly.

I've only recently figured out who I am as I lacked a stable identity until this year.

 A big issue I have is making reckless and stupid decisions on the fly.
Spending a lot on clothes/plushies until I have very little left to spend, in the past I've slept with people I met on Tinder only after a few days and got STDs(luckily they only needed antibiotics), and I've quit my last two jobs in less than a week, and pretty much all of my jobs without going for a two week notice or just leaving early without finishing the two week notice.

I do have my reasons for quitting (too far and I don't have a car and some of the jobs were awful and in fast food which was too stressful for me or my most recent job being in a liquor store with no scanner so I had to remember the prices and some didn't have price tags so they expected me to remember things and they left me alone in that store without help.)

Still I know that I won't get anywhere like this.
I'm scared and I know I have issues, but I don't think depression makes people this irresponsible. Not to mention the fact that I'm also a really irritable person.

Often people in my family will talk,breathe too close to me, or look at me the wrong way and some days I'll shout at them or tell them to shut up and leave me alone.

 This doesn't help the fact that I'm also irritated by my family deadnaming and mis-gendering me. My parents and one of my bros do that on purpose and I can't help but get mad. Hearing my old name makes me so angry. I hate it so much and since I live at home due to being irresponsible and quitting jobs, I have to learn to not be angry about it until I can stop quitting jobs early on and eventually find a place to move out to and a roommate because California is expensive.

Part of me thinks I have bipolar but idk. 

I have an appointment with the lady who prescribes my meds on the 11th so Idk how I should ask to be reevaluated to see if I have some other issue.