Can you guys if u dont mind give me examples of what that means for u? When i tried asking my psychiatrist about it he said mainly its about religion and sexuality- i feel i have a clearly defined religion of choice but my sexuality is less clear but he said since i am open to advances from ‘men’ (im F) then i am heterosexual and i did not explain that i was also open to advances from other genders honestly i like all the attention, but he is v old n religious and i did not want to get into it w him - assuming i am of a fixed sexual and religious identity, and have a career i am interested in, how else would u guys describe the instability of self identity? bc i genuinely dont know who i am or what i like outside of that i kind of adapt to every friendship i am in i dont feel i have any defining characteristics but is that true for everyone or a bpd thing idk? Also i do question my gender if i am being honest but i try not to think about it bc the social outcome would be worse than me shutting up about it