2 months ago my FP left me. He wasn't even my FP for that long - we only knew each other for 2 months, so at a guess he was my FP for amount 1 month. I'm finding it super hard to move on because of some unanswered questions. I am fully prepared to hear answers I don't want to hear, but my FP just won't have this conversation. I've admittedly been sending him way too many messages asking him for this conversation...but then again, if he actually replied like a normal person I wouldn't have to keep asking. Literally just asking for that. Not asking to continue socialising afterwards or anything. And considering everything, my tone (until the last 2 days or so) has actually been extremely nice and polite, just kind of politely telling him that it's affecting me really negatively and I really want to move on as well, so if he could please just have this conversation with me and answer a few things I would be hugely grateful and should find it a lot easier to move on, and will naturally stop bothering him. But nope, nothing.  

  

One thing I'm kind of wondering about - and obviously I know she can't make my FP do anything he doesn't want to - but is there any possibility (in the experience of those that have had them before - this is my first time and I've only met her twice) that my social worker could phone him and ask him on my behalf if there can be some sort of conversation whether it's by letter, email, or even in the presence of my social worker? He did briefly talk to a friend of mine but didn't say much useful other than that he was apparently scared of me (literally no idea why because I was actually sucking up to him so much until 2 days ago when I've finally completely snapped, which, again, wouldn't have happened if he hadn't decided to just ignore all my messages for 2 months) but I am kind of wondering if, considering that he did talk to my friend for quite a while, maybe he would take a call from the social worker more seriously and actually be willing to talk about it if he actually felt it was necessary. This is actually part of how he ended up leaving me, he didn't understand via text the strength of one of my meltdowns and thought I was just being dramatic for attention, which he would have seen wasn't the case if he was there in person (even if it was still an overreaction)   

  

But yeah, generally any advice on dealing with unanswered questions post-breakup and also if social workers are willing to make phone calls to like...friends and people, not just work and family?