So in the past two weeks my boyfriend had 3 days ( not one after another) where he felt tired with no cause, meaning that he was sleeping as usual, he did not do anything out of the usual to justify the tiredness he has. He is not worried but today I was at work and he was at a MRI for his shoulder ( he has ongoing problems with it for many years because he used to lift heavy luggages when he was in college) and when we were talking while I was at work he seemed fine. I get home and he says he is tired.. I m asking him why and he says he doesn’t know but he was really chill about it. I panicked and I also slept 3 hours yesterday and had a rough today at work and couldn’t control my anxiety so good.. so I ended up telling him I am worried he has cancer because  tiredness without a cause is a symptom of cancer. That caused a full blown fight, him telling me he is fine and “ can’t I be tired????” And telling me that I want to make him a hypochondriac too. He doesn’t want to speak to me. I m so worried I want to cry. I don’t want him to die or have cancer but I am so so worried I can’t control myself. Please tell me something. I am losing my mind. He refuses to tell me
Something to calm down, he s very angry I mentioned cancer out of nowhere and I know I made a mistake but I couldn’t control my fear in that moment. Thoughts? He says he doesn’t feel anything bad and he feels normal and I m the only one who worries.