I know we have attachment issues and find it hard to remove ourselves from what we perceived to be close relationships, and have an fear of abandonment, but what if its not just a fear its really happened.

How do you move on from being rejected and hurt knowing 100% that they will never apologise or give you closure.
(and in my case they seem to enjoy how much pain they've caused because its a sign of their superiority)

Has anyone found a way to get closure and stop obsessing over wanting answers from someone who enjoyed harming you?

Does getting "closure" or an apology from them even help or just make it worse?