There this girl and like I'm so damn into her but every time I look at her I get a surge of anxiety like I freak out and I think she notices and think it's so damn cringe I know there's no way she would even consider dating me but like what I really hope for is to be friends but my anxiety is making is so hard I don't know I've been thinking about telling her I like her and if she could find it in her heart to be friends with me but I feel like that's a terrible idea what do u think guys should I try say that to her or would it just make things more awkward I really need advice