I was diagnosed back November. My therapist has had a long time experience in psychology and borderline patients. I told her my experiences and what I felt and what I had done in the past and now. 

She said I had BPD. I asked her how she reached that conclusion and she picked up the DSM and told her that is her roadmap. 

After being diagnosed, more than ever before I started reading up on BPD intensively and agreed with her in my diagnosis with the exception of the severe angry outbursts and impulsivity. I do not experience rage or impulsive actions like reckless driving, unsafe sex, drinking, spending sprees, etc. This ends up making me doubt my diagnosis. Anyone else? What do you all think? 