Every since I was little I have always had very healthy relationships with my female friends, I’d feel doubt and irritableness but I had good ways of coping. But every single relationship I have had with a man has ended up being extremely toxic and unhealthy. I don’t understand why I can’t take the same coping mechanisms that work for my female friends into my friendships with males. Especially in relationships when I am dating a man it becomes evident that I have no coping mechanisms to try and rationalize with myself. Does this happen to anyone else? And does anyone have any advice on how to better this situation, because at this point I am thinking of giving up all chances of having male friends/significant others.