Sometimes people in my life, usually 2 of my brothers, say things to me that are genuinely so rude and hurtful that I get so hurt and react either by intense anger or crying my eyes out. 
Then when I recover enough to communicate what they did hurt me, I'm always told that my sensitivity is because of my BPD, which is always referred to as my "condition". 
I know that I react more acutely than maybe the average person sometimes, but I feel that these people are using my BPD as an excuse to not take responsibility for their shitty behaviour. 
For example: I clean the house almost everyday, cook dinner for everyone, do the laundry, but my brothers will lash out and say I do nothing because they wash the floor once a month. They then just attack verbally me in general and say things they know will upset me. Or when I react and tell them what they've done is really hurtful, they act like I'm not even there and then leave the room as if it never happened.
Am I going crazy or is anyone in the same boat, because I feel like I can't even trust my own emotions anymore.
Thanks for reading, I just needed to vent to people who might understand me