I’m 22(M) &amp; my friend that has BPD is 34(F). We’ve been talking for almost 4 months now &amp; so far it hasn’t been that bad. I’m just now questioning what she does. I’m not sure why I didn’t question it in the beginning but in like the first month of us talking, she would flirt a lot with me &amp; call me “babe”, “bby” &amp; say things like she’ll miss me. She considers me one of her best friends at the moment but thing is that I’m not the only one that she says those things to so I’m wondering if it’s like a thing people with BPD do? 

On top of BPD, she has blood pressure problems, anxiety, depression &amp; she does take meds for all of em &amp; goes to therapy as well. Just listing that out there in case BPD isn’t the only reason she could be acting this way with me