Kind of seeing this person with this disorder. I was misdiagnosed with it myself as a younger adult, however don’t understand a lot of the functions so I hope my curiosity isn’t a challenge and more so empathetic inquisition 

Kinda dating. Kinda not. They’re really hot and cold and I am able to be objective and understand normality ain’t always everyone’s normal, however I want to go beyond that and just be a safe place overall 

They don’t know how they want to define our relationship. I’m okay with this, as I kinda operate weird. If he gets a lesson that is beneficial out of it, nice. If I do too, also nice.

So, while I have access to my person with BPD, how can I help them feel calmer sooner? How can I reassure them? How can i help them know I’m a safe place? 

Everyone is unique. I know who he is otherwise, this is just new and I want to be a productive experience for him

Thanks y’all. Know I’ve BEEEEEEEEEEEEEN through some shit, nothing wrong with ogress perspectives:)