Is there some kind of test or something I can do to know how severe is my bpd? I don't even know if even there is such a thing but for example I have a friend who also has bpd but I feel like mine is more "serious" than hers? Like I feel that mine affects my life more and she doesn't fear abandonment as much while for me it's something that brings me pain every day. Also bipolar and depression for example have different types and one is more severe than the other. Don't get me wrong I know that anyone who has this awful illness suffers a lot but anyways sorry if I'm being stupid lol and thanks to anyone who answers.