so i posted before about my relationship problems but now i’m just so dumbfounded. i’ve moved back with my parents and i’m trying to work on my goals while they try to help me because if i didn’t leave the living situation with my bf i was going to be hospitalized because my mental health was so bad there. and he knows that. yet last night we were on the phone and he told me about his plans, so after he was done i talked about my goals. i haven’t been a functioning adult so i’m just trying to get myself to where i can be like getting my GED, getting my license, possibly getting a job to save up and get a apartment or something to live on my own and save up to get a car as well. as soon as i was done speaking he said “I think we should break up” i was confused so i asked why and he said  “because you’re basically talking about leaving me behind. getting an apartment that’s just so stupid when i’m saying i’ll be getting my own place”. (he wants to buy a place instead of rent) i was just dumbfounded. these are some goals i’m setting for myself i already told him i won’t be continuing the relationship if we BOTH don’t work to make it healthier. and i can’t really think about living with him again because when i was there it didn’t go good at all. i was constantly triggered, he didn’t do anything to make us better. i just don’t know what to do from here. he’s in a hard place mentally and financially and he thinks i don’t want to be with him but to be honest i’m just trying to focus on myself i so i can be healthier again.