I keep going through this with my wife. Splitting then all ok, then splitting again. In the moment, I wonder what’s best? I want to reassure her, say ok I’ll leave you alone but I love you and I’m here for you. Or is it better to not contact at all, and give her complete space? I’m sure it’s individual of course. But I guess I just wanted some advice if you were splitting on your SO what’s the best reaction that comforts you/ eases it? Thanks in advance.