i feel so lost and hopeless currently. there’s this guy, i‘ve known him for a few months now and he‘s the type of person i only see on the weekend when the whole group is hanging out, getting drunk and high. it started with us just always talking and laughing and getting along so well, then it turned into holding hands sometimes and getting closer physically, then into making out. There were other moments too where we would just talk and he said things to me like he is happy when he‘s with me, or that i‘m special and have such a good heart and he appreciates that and likes that so much about me. he said he wants to leave the country someday, but when we‘re married next year and have children he will take me with him or if i don‘t want that we will do something else. seriously, who says things like this if you don’t have at least some feelings for them. but now he‘s saying his life currently is not going the way he wants to he has many things he wants to change but can‘t and doesn’t want to change at this moment, that i‘m a really good person and he doesn’t want me to wait for him. how am i supposed to act now.. i cant forget and ignore all the things he said to me. i know that he has feelings for me, but he‘s pushing me away. i still want to be there for him i can’t just give up bc i love him so much, i care for him deeply and am worried when he‘s not good. i‘m choosing to try and be there for him as much as he allows. having a little bit of him is better than not having him at all.. idk if this is the right thing to do.. i‘m following my heart. am i naive and dumb for doing this? i just need some opinions on this and maybe some words to give me strength… i really want to be there for him