

Having bpd and sharing your space with a narcissist is so fucking hard. I never feel heard or loved or appreciated. The person who is supposed to love me the most has me begging for scraps. 

I deserve to hear that my partner loves me without asking them to say it. 

My partner shattered my heart a few days ago, they told me they will never love me as much as they love themselves. And that it’s not healthy or right for me to love them more than I love myself. Maybe he’s right idfk but after marrying somebody and bearing their child I’d think he’d value me more than he does.