I would just like to know if any diagnosed bpd sufferers have issues with needing space. Do you get smothered in relationships/ friendships? Do you then need time to go away and be by yourself?

And if a friend is too aloof and the exact opposite of the previous description, do you pull away to appear as equally aloof so you do not get emotionally invested and have them abandon you? 

If you like you could explain what most of your friendships/ relationships are like, this would help me. 

Thanks! 