So I'm not sure if this is where I should post this, so if anyone knows a better sub please direct me.

For about 3 weeks I've been seeing this really sweet guy at least once a week.

Last Friday night we got drunk together in a hotel room and he told me that he had been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. 

He also has anxiety and depression which he was upfront about on his Tinder profile which is how we met. 

He's on a variety of medications and seems to be managing quite well the only problem is that I have a 2yo child from a previous relationship and I am not quite sure about pursuing a relationship with this guy due to my lack of knowledge about BPD and my unwillingness to enter a relationship I don't see a future in. 

I have some questions: 

1: is it possible for people with BPD to make attachments to children who are not biologically theirs? 

2: how manageable is BPD?

3: does marijuana or irregular drinking effect BPD? 

4: what are some possible speed bumps when it comes to BPD's and being constantly surrounded by children? 

I don't mean for my questions to offend anyone I'm just curious and wanting to know as much as possible.

**TL;DR:** considering pursuing a relationship with someone diagnosed with BPD but worried about how the relationship could affect my son.

Edit: a word