I'm dating a guy now and I'm hoping it could be a serious lasting thing. 

I feel like I have my symptoms relatively in check, I continually focus on mindfulness of my emotions and I deal with the most extreme ones on my own, not pulling people in etc. but I'd like to stay as aware as possible, I want to strive to be respectful and not lose myself into unhealthy patterns.

Any advice on how not to fall into unhealthy patterns?
My current tactic is to be extremely aware of unhelpful ways of thinking, choose trust and don't project my insecurities. I also make sure to have enough alone time and focus on being independent, cultivating self love. I feel like I should be able to have a healthy relationship now , but I want to be aware of possible pitfalls. Thank you! &lt;3