I’m sure many of you know about attachment styles here, and I’m equally certain that a majority of you fall into the category of anxious/fearful avoidant, just like me. I’m just really upset about how truly emotionally screwed i am. I am so painfully self aware and i have no idea how to fix myself. Sure the self destructive tendencies are a lot better because of DBT, but I’m still an emotional wreck and I don’t know how to have a normal healthy relationship without feeling physically ill. Just upset about it i guess.