I've recently found myself in situationens where people have compared 𝘽𝙋𝘿 to 𝘼𝘿𝘿. And I didn't really wanna get in to that discussion in the first place, because I in general think its stupid like "who has it worse" 

Like its not a competition, and if it is — I really don't wanna be a part of it. I just wish I could be happy🙃 I don't feel the need to compare. 

I get that those two diagnoses have some in common (I don't think to a great extent, if i'm speaking my truth) but anyways, the thing that actually annoyed me was this sentence: "borderline effect relationships, but ADD has an impact on your whole life" 

My response: wtf! Like I don't have to deal with my bpd every single day?!!

And that's where I realised that a lot of people probably don't know what it means to have bpd or how it affects you. 

But one thing is for sure, don't downgrade how I'm feeling, because you don't understand it. Cause if there's ONE thing I can get out of my borderline its how strong I am to be dealing with it everyday, like so many others with bpd💪🏻 

BPD is clearly misunderstood, just don't speak of it as it's the easiest thing in the world and I will not speak of ADD like I know what you're going though — cause I don't.