So I'll have been with my girlfriend for one month as of tomorrow, and we've been friends even longer. I always knew she was struggling but I didn't learn about BPD until recently. She's been going to therapy for years and she may be being diagnosed with BPD.

So I googled BPD and tried to learn as much about it as possible, and she fits almost every description perfectly. She's a very black-and-white thinker and she has frequent mood swings, and at her worst she sometimes resorts to self-harm, but I still love her no matter what. Like I would with anyone, I've just tried to listen to her and be there for her when she needs anything. It can be stressful and I deal with some anxiety issues myself, although not nearly as bad as her, but I've managed to push through this far and she's still the love of my life.

Anyways I just thought I'd let you guys hear about my relationship, and if you have any advice for me going forward that would be greatly appreciated. Stay strong y'all.