Well, i'm posting this message hoping someone can help me with the current situation going on here.
My friend promised me a few things a few days ago, and also wanted to work on those moments where she agrees somethint woth me and then need to do quickly something else to forget about our plans entirely.
She even asked me a few days ago if it happen again, if i wanted to let her know to help her.
Well, today after a few days where i recognized some old behaviour, i told her things back on a supportive way and with a lot of validation towards her.

Yet she still went very mad, some point we could talk a bit again but nothing usefull can be discussed right now.
However she started yelling and nerly a rage towards me, which she gladly could keep in control when i told her if she continued talking to me like that i am done with it.

Now i decided to take a break, hope she returns to a calmer state aswell.
Though i don't exactly understand why she brcame so mad at me for just letting her know a few things she even asked me for a few days ago.

And is there a better way to cope? Tnx in advance