I really really hate this. When people close to me want to have a discussion, they always start with "dont get mad, but...". Or if they say something and I dont respond (usually via text), they send a follow up asking if I am mad. And that gets me mad! It pisses me off so much. 

Or when people tell me "it's okay. It's not a big deal". Or "calm down". 

People think I am some ticking time bomb. I hate this whole "walking on egg shells" thing.

Ugh...