I just posted over in am i the assshole over something that happened tonight and several people are saying I might have a phobia of vomit so now I’m curious. Quick version of the story:

My (15F) brother (29M) is visiting home. We threw a party tonight and he ate everything in sight, and drank so much alcohol. This is a guy who is super fit, normally NEVER eats unhealthy, etc. So he eats all this shit that are foods that in general make ppl throw up (hot dogs, hamburgers, chicken, desserts, etc). So I’m obviously spending a lot of time with him throughout the night but as he eats plate after plate I start feeling nervous that he doesn’t realize what he’s doing snd is gonna end up puking. So fast dowsed to the end of the night when only a couple neighbors were left my mom offers my brother something snd he declined snd says he had enough for the night. I took this as he was feeling sick so I got super nervous bc I literally DO NOT want to see or hear him puke. So I ask if he feels nauseous and he says no. And basically I didn’t believe him so I kept asking several times in different ways until he had to take me aside and talk to me privately. He understood why I was nervous snd told me he had a mild mild stomach ache and wasn’t anywhere near throwing up. I appreciated his honesty bc it made me feel less crazy and also felt like now I knew he was telling the truth and won’t puke. But my mom got so mad at me later bc apparently I was embarrassing. I just feel guilty snd anxious about the whole ordeal. I also hear my mom snd brother talking in the kitchen downstairs and I think he’s going to talk to me again so hopefully he helps me a little. I also feel guilty tho for not being concerned with his well being and just being concerned with my own anxiety.