Hello lovely people!

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My partner is dealing with BPD, and I've already read "I hate you, don't leave me",  "Stop walking on eggshells", "Borderline Personality Disorder Made Simple for Beginners" and  "I Love You, But I Hate You, But I Need You" to help me navigate the stormy days.

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Now she's going to therapy of course, but on top of that, she's trying to get a better understanding of her own condition in a broader sense.  I find the books I've read useful to get some high-level understanding and ways to deal with it, but at times the wording can be harsh and unfair, so I'm doubtful on how useful those books would be for her.

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So I'm reaching out to this lovely community again searching for recommendations:

As someone with BPD, is there any resource that you've found useful to help you understand the bigger picture of it while not being so harsh you'd stop reading it?

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suggestions are much appreciated,

Thanks!