so there’s this guy i’ve been talking to for some months now. we’ve grown pretty close and we talk everyday. 


he has a really tough home life. really bad. and a week ago or so he told me he was getting kicked out. i offered him a place to stay if he needed it. i really care about him. but what i didn’t think through was telling my roommate. i told her what was happening, his living situation and everything and she agreed that he could stay with us for a while. however, i think i told her more than what she needed to know. 


today i was joking to him, telling him my roommate can come beat up his dad and he was really confused. he was very angry that i told my roommate about his situation. i felt so bad. i tried to apologize but he just hung up on me. 


he’s now messaging me saying that i need fo leave him alone (which i’m fine with doing, i know what i did was wrong and i feel awful for it) and that if i didn’t he was going to cut me out of his life for good. and now he’s saying he might reach back out to me in a week.  


it might be selfish of me but i hate being dragged on like that. if he wants to cut me out, okay do it. but i don’t know why he has to threaten to not talk to me for so long. i know myself well enough to where im going to lose sleep over this. 


i just don’t know what to do, i don’t want him to leave me but i feel like i did too much damage. i feel so awful. any advice is welcome.