Boyfriend and I are wonderful most days, but when I get exceptionally needy and require more attention than he can give.. we argue. 

This was his latest gut punch of a comment said mid argument. I’ve been called much worse by plenty of other people and I would even agree it probably isn’t attractive when I get needy, but it’s who I am right? Not sure why I let this line get to be so badly. Reaching out to my BPD community to help learn to let it go.