Hi all, my partner has BPD. However social media causes a lot of issues. I have had trust issues with him and my phone so I excluded him from social media until that trust is re-built. If I post a selfie and receive compliments, he gets mad. He wants me to remove any possible guy that is "flirting" with me/delete my social media. I find it a bit extreme as I do not want to isolate myself and do my best to reassure him that I am not cheating. But he is concerned about the possibility, as I talk to others for advice on my relationship. Our relationship has a lot of rocky spots since he has hurt me before emotionally. He goes in between wanting to end things or work things out frequently. He blames me for abandoning him at the hospital when he was threatening his own life. I do care for him but I am worried that we are co-dependent. I really love him and I can be less active on social media to make it work. What other ways would you guys recommend?