I've just started a casual thing with a guy who I spent all of last weekend and then this weekend with.. I made clear right from the beginning that I'm not after anything serious, as did he.. I swear I've kept my cool all week, because guys always seem to get the impression that I'm looking for a relationship for some reason. Haven't messaged him too much or acted overly keen to my knowledge and yet his friend told me at a party last night that I should speak to him because apparently he was getting the vibe that I was more into him than I actually am ?! I've been so so careful to not give off that impression and yet stupid BPD is making me that "too much" girl wtf.