Husband has had severe depression for years and I have done every possible thing I can think of to support him. It is such a huge fucking stressor in my life and all he wants to do is talk about how every little thing is ruining his life and how he doesn't want to be alive anymore. I am at my breaking point. What the hell do I need to do to get him to understand he is not just hurting himself at this point????? Can someone please help me out here. Every little inconvenience is life ruining for him. I also struggle with depression but I seek help when it gets out of hand. I just don't know what to do. I love him so fucking much but I can't stand listening to the way he talks about himself constantly anymore.