Basically she has created a new reality and distorted everything that happened between us to blaming me. She's even trying to say I abused her when I didn't. I actually dumped her for the verbal abuse(gaslighting, manipulating, lying) Anyways I tried to be friends with her this resulted in her acting like we were back together then pulling away. Over the down if the last two months. She ignored me for over a week after lying to me to get money and I called her out. Mind you borrowed alot of money she promised to pay back. So we didn't talk for like 2 weeks. She texted me earlier this week asking for her stuff back. I was kinda upset so I ignored her first two attempts. She got really mad and finally I answered basically trying to hold her accountable for the money in exchange for the stuff. As well as bringing up the lying again and the fact that she blew me off first. Well she then just lost it creating a false narrative stringing alot of events together to blame me for things that we had already talked about in our relationship and had taken responsibility for and straight gaslighting the whole relationship to be my fault when at first before she took the blame for her behavior. She even went as far as to call me crazy and say I needed mental help. When we both know she openly admitted her mental health struggles. Its to the point that she's saying I never said she had to pay back the money. When in reality she promised me multiple times that she would. So naturally I'm evil awful disgusting etc. as she projecting all of her shame and painting me black. Saying Im controlling and selfish and only stayed friends to my benefit. The hoodie she wants back was a gift to me that she got from her mom originally who has passed. But when she gave it to me said she wanted me to have it. Also have a purple shirt that was one of her friends that passed. I had already apologized because I borrowed it when pressuring her but she had brought this back up but claimed I was holding her stuff hostage and that she never gave the me the hoodie. Then told me to keep the stuff because I'm pathetic. So she told she was gonna block me after telling me she was talking to someone and that she was clean. Alot of the money issues were from her addiction. Well she unblocked me. I had messaged her I hope he takes care of her and congratulations on the sobriety. Also that I'd get her things back to her. Idk what else to say or do at this point I'm just looking for advice. Should I tryn explain my side or be patient