I only feel good about my relationship with someone if our last interaction ended well. For instance, we could be the best of friends over the last 20 years, but if in your last text to me I got a hint that you may be annoyed, I am now worried that you hate me. Even though that may not even be close to the case. I know this is irrational thinking but the worry still creeps in. so every social interaction is high stakes for me.