How do you guys deal with the past of your partners? Especially with their ex's? I am already in therapy and trying hard to work on it, but I feel like because I haven't been the first in their timeline I will also never be their first/favorite person. The fun thing is - I do have a past too, obviously. And I feel like I can like somebody more/more intense than my one and only ex that I have. Why can't I believe that others can do that as well? Why do I always have to be the first/best? It drains me. And I know it's irrational. But still. Thank you.