As with many of us, I get good days and bad days. But I seem to be having more bad than good at the moment. I felt like I had just been venting to my husband, but lastnight he openly said to me that I take everything out on him. He said it's like, I'll have a bad day at work or something and it's hell for him. This is the first time he has said this to me. He is usually "we got this". After the talk, I sat and realised that I never even ask him how he is. I'm so selfish. I think about myself all the time. So it shocked me and made me feel so guilty. I'm trying my hardest to change. I will do anything not to ruin my marriage. I want to show my husband u appreciate him. I don't think it's too late right now, but if I carry on it will be. Any tips on how I can control my emotions? Should I see a doctor asap?