I used to be able to talk to her about what was making her anxious, but now she'll tell me she's anxious, and much of what I say just makes her upset. She will go for long drives and come back, seemingly no better adjusted than she was before she left. Today she told me that she just won't talk to me about her anxiety any more. When I asked if it was because I made her feel worse, she didn't respond. When I apologized to her about the way I react, she told me not to apologize. She spends a lot of time at her parent's house. I feel like I'm losing her. 

A little background, she spent some time in the hospital last year, and much of her anxiety revolves around the idea of going back. When she tells me she's anxious, I remind her that all of her doctors have tried to tell her that she has fully recovered, and that she has nothing to worry about moving forward. Should I try to meet her at her level and sympathize with her feelings, instead of reminding her of all the good news she's received in the last year? 

Thanks ahead of time for any responses.