Unless someone can show otherwise… I’m 35 and single, and frankly not well enough to date and I live alone in the woods like a hermit. 

I feel the notion it improves is tied to experiencing those typical life moments that take your focus away from depression about your emotions… sure it might move it to depression about money or depression about raising kids… but like, you will have built safety and stability. 

Anyway, worst part is - I’m totally hot and talented so what a waste lol… ugh… I love myself and hate myself and think I’m funny but really ugh… making adult friends is hard and being 35 and seeing everyone I’ve known gone from my life… it’s just… impossibly sad and isolating. If I’m alone and a hermit will I just get worse?