for some reason I ‘decided’ to take over all the bad traits and coping mechanisms from my fp. she has an ed, does sh, does drugs, etc. I have started to do all of that again because I assume she likes skinny people and she loves blood and drugs. Today I told my therapist and she said it’s not as serious as it sounds when I have had an insane amount of stress to the point of my head/stomach always hurting, skipping my period and losing a lot of sleep (only get 1-3 hours a night). When I told her I wanted her opinion on my best friend saying I should cut off my fp, the therapist’s response was that I shouldn’t and instead use her to learn how to set rules in ‘relationships’. when I told my friend she got annoyed and said the therapist is enabling me and I should block her. but if a licensed person tells me it’s not that serious, it’s not, right?