Can you explain to me why my bpd partners in the past have always demanded all of my time and attention? To the point where I feel guilty for seeing my friends or family. Or wanting a night alone with my friend to catch up and they just can’t comprehend it. They have other friends and fam to hang with but they always expect me to do every single thing with them. Which is too much to put on a person. It’s unhealthy not to have our own lives and see other people sometimes. What is this about? Therapist thinks it’s about isolation and control but it seems less sinister idk. Still destructive.