since i was a kid, my family’s always moved a ton, my dad never had steady jobs/would never go consistently, he would always tear down the other members of my family, except for me. i guess i was his fp, until i started rebelling against him (at around 14). things got really bad, he scared me a lot and i haven’t spoken to him since 7/29/18. i know it’s not his fault, and he’s been diagnosed w bpd, but he’s never shown any improvement and i don’t know what to do. any help/tips/insight on what may be going thru his mind ?