I met this girl eighteen months ago, here on reddit. At that time, I couldn't care less about her. She acted crushy, asked me incovenient questions, discussed with me and so on. But after a while, I got really fond of her, for no evident reason (although she  has got many qualities and is special, we got closer and then she decided to get away twice because of my mental health. I kept checking out her social media regularly and recently, considering I have been better mentally, I contacted her. She at first asked me why I was doing this when she was stupid and I was so smart and could talk to anyone I wanted, which sounded ridiculous but then I convinced her that I really wanted to talk to her. She'll still voice her concerns that she's afraid I'll abandon her and therefore is afraid to hold onto to me, that she knows I have "more interesting people" to talk to; I also have the same fear of being abandoned by her. I guess she has got a point: I have plenty of people to talk to, so why am I obsessing over her?