So a little backstory: this person used to make me feel incredibly inferior to them (not on purpose) and I was always super bitter about them being happier than me, smarter than me, etc. To the point I would say I used to bully them. (I know, not a good look &amp; I *am* very ashamed of my past actions. Also, while it doesn’t excuse it I was in middle school and around 12/13. I’d like to think I’ve grown). We have remained friends, but the relationship has always been very unstable on my end. Recently, after a suicide attempt they were the only one there for me and I feel them becoming an FP. Has anything similar happened to anyone else? Also I have a hard time distinguishing FP’s from wanting to be romantically involved with someone, does anyone have tips on how to know if I actually want to be with this person or if I’m just unhealthily attached? *ANOTHER THING* this person also has BPD, if we were to get into a relationship would it be doomed from the start? Thanks for reading :] I appreciate any responses!