So me 20(m) and my bf 19(m) have been together for over a year, i have BPD and i really struggle with abandonment and jealousy and my bf is going through the process of being diagnosed with bipolar he lives in the US while i live in the UK i have booked a plane ticket for march 2023 (spring break) and i literally can’t wait for that to come

the thing is i get jealous really easy; he doesn’t do anything that makes me jealous on purpose but when he talks about his ex’s or his thoughts on polyamory and cheating (doesn’t believe cheating is wrong) i get anxious, he is a good boy and does a lot for me and puts up with my feelings a lot and his thoughts and opinions he has assured me are just that thoughts and opinions, but whenever he hangs out with his roommates or friends i can’t help but feel an overwhelming jealousy and anxiety and i’m scared to tell him because i don’t want him to think i don’t want him to have friends or anything like that.

he is the love of my life and he’s told me he loves me and only me and day one day i’m gonna be one he marries, there is truly no one on this planet i love more.

so i was wondering if there are any coping strategies yall could tell me so i don’t ruin this 

thank you for reading &lt;3