I have BPD and she will use it against me all the time. Whenever she disagrees with me she would say "your wrong, you're mentally ill, you're a disabled person, medicated, you can't do this/that". DEARMAN/GIVE doesn't work with her. She goes to parents meetings with my therapists but everytime she comes back she only seems to use what she's learnt about BPD to back her arguments against me. Help me please. Does anyone have any similar stories??