I've noticed over the years that my closest friends always suffer from adhd and/or bpd. I know I crave authentic friendships and suffering from depression myself, I know I can always be open and honest about these types of struggles with my friends. I find I can relate to their intense feelings of depression and anxiety and before antidepressants, I had intense mood swings too. I think I enjoy listening to my friends and learning about the world from their perspective, but it can get overwhelming as BPD can be. It's just kind of interesting that my friends usually end up having BPD specifically. So I was wondering if there's a specific type of person that people with BPD gravitate towards?