so i went to see a psychologist today and he diagnosed me with borderline personality disorder (and bipolar ii) which was a huge relief to me knowing that i will be able to finally recieve help! however, i am 17 this year and the doctor said that he cant actually diagnose me with bpd because of my age so he told me that he'll call it emotional dysregulation. the referral letter also said that i have borderline personality traits as well. so it got me thinking: would it be okay for me to think that i am diagnosed with bpd even if it is not official?