I feel like I’m splitting on my partner for no reason.

I spent a solid 5 hours cleaning tonight while they were at work. I’m talking like 6 loads of washing done and folded/away. Cleaned all animal cages thoroughly. Vacuumed and steam mopped the entire house. Disinfected and scrubbed all the tiled areas/bathrooms before steaming them. Cleaned all the shelves and neatened all the figurines etc. Made the beds. Organised kids bag and lunchbox stuff ready for school. And much more that I can’t remember.

They got home, barely even hugged me, and started getting the stuff for dinner out. I showed them the massive list of stuff I did (I had told someone in Discord what I did) and they were basically just like “Ok, cool… That’s a lot.” 

No “thank you”, “I’m proud of you”, or “I know how hard it is for you to even get out of bed at the moment, let alone go a week’s worth of cleaning in one night”

Then we get upstairs to the room, and they just take their socks off and throw them on the floor, not put them in the washing bag on the wall. They take their pants off and just leave them on the floor. We have dinner, then go for a shower. 

They basically ignore me the whole time, then asked me to get out so they can wash off (which they never ask. They always wash off after washing hair etc. while I’m still in there). I was a bit taken back, but still did it. They said they’d be right out. I got out, dried myself, got dressed, did my hair, got a drink from downstairs, then went back in because they were still in there. I went back to the room and waited for another 10 minutes until they came in.

They just sat on the bed ignoring me, watching TikTok, and used Q-Tips, and then just left them dirty on the table without putting them in the bin.

I both feel so under appreciated, and frustrated that it’s like they don’t even care that I cleaned the house by myself, and they’re just going straight back to messing it again instantly.