i was diagnosed a year ago with borderline personality disorder AKA(emotionally unstable personality disorder) and after my diagnosis my household was happy to learn how to “deal with me” as it was put and be there for me when i’m having an episode but lately they’ve just been ignoring me, for example i could be pacing the house sobbing and having a complete meltdown and they would have stopped me to talk but now they will try for a second to be nice and calm but then it turns into them ignoring my state and acting like nothing is happening and asking me to do things. what do i do? any advice on how to communicate to them how this is affecting me 
i’m sorry if this makes no sense