Since my boyfriend started going to therapy recently, he has had the suspicion of having BPD. It wasn’t officially diagnosed and was always a roller coaster between him saying „yes I feel like I have it“ and „no, I don’t identify with it whatsoever“.

Yesterday he went to a very reputable psychiatrist and got the diagnosis. He has borderline. Many things make sense now, the intense love in the beginning, the clinging to each other, the absolute cooling down a few months later. 

Since yesterday he has been very cold with me, avoiding all physical contact. I love him and want to stay with him, but I can’t help but feel less important, less loved, less, less, less… 

I don’t even know why I’m posting. I guess to get some reassurance that he loves me regardless, since I haven’t been getting any from him. If anyone has any kind words or advice, it would be dearly appreciated.