After therapy today, I was dead set on breaking up with my partner and now I want to spend the rest of my life with them. This has been going on for weeks and I change my mind basically every hour. I don't know what to do. We do have problems, like I feel like we are both codependent. And I've lost my attraction towards them. We don't have sex anymore. But, they're so good and thoughtful and kind. I don't want to lose them but I also feel like I am suffocating. I can't help but feel like this wouldn't be happening if I was normal. 

I should be happy in this relationship, but I'm not.