This is a major issue for me , I literally can't be around anyone without feeling like I'm going crazy , i feel like  I don't know who I am or feel like I have an identity at all and so then I can't feel OK around anyone else , this has led to me having no friends and literally can't figure it out for years and years so I've had to just be alone most of the time , has anyone else gone through this or improved it? Can anyone elaborate because I get so lonely which is one of the biggest reasons I lose hope. It has helped a little today finding this online community but I just want to feel I can have real life people around me without feeling even worse than when I'm on my own.. 
I even get confused about my voice, feelings , opinions and very worried about not having much to say , but it's mainly feeling like who I am got lost a long time ago and feeling crazy