Have you noticed that when people fear you and see you as crazy, they all of a sudden start becoming more friendly(even when it comes to family) and insist on buying you things even when you want to pay them yourselves? Why is that, is it beacuse they want to gain your trust so that they know you won't hurt them and beacuse you will be useful to them? For example, your mother used to treat you like shit as a teenager and she would never buy you the things that you wanted beacuse she was an adult as she was aware of the fact she was stronger and would dominate you anyways, so even if she used her money to buy things for you, she would always consider what to and not buy for you without you having choice on the matter, but as soon as you grow bigger and stronger both mentally and physically and you start raising your voice against you, she would worship you ass on every single decision like she's changed all of a sudden and would use the excuse: I never took away your decisions from you, don't you see that I always buy anything you want? Heck, I even brought you McDonalds!" as if you wouldn't notice her sudden shaping in mood(this isn't my story, just an example), it's like as if they know they've been treating you like shit so they later on try to show you they are the greatest person on heart, that they've changed and they buy things they know you would get offended by if they didn't so they can "ward off" their wise ass.