I’ve started this new thing where I constantly accuse people of not liking me so that I can hear them say they do like me. I’ll try to do it in a jokingly way so that I can just say I was joking if they get mad. I’ve caught myself doing it to family members a lot lately. Or I’ll text my boyfriend and ask him why he doesn’t love me when in reality, he’s done nothing to make me think that it’s just all in my head. Then, when he gets mad because he hasn’t done anything wrong, it basically confirms to me that he doesn’t love me. Am I being manipulative? 