My partner/fp (although I’m doing a good job of not obsessing so much so using the term fp lightly) has been working a lot of late nights and I’ve been feeling super lonely and abandoned. It’s not a thing where I think she’s cheating or doing anything wrong, it just feels like spending time with me isn’t being prioritized and I find myself sobbing every night and just feeling really, inconsolably upset. 

We live together so I know it shouldn’t feel so dramatic, but lately it feels like a lot of nights and I’m having a lot of trouble functioning and being comfortable alone. It’s an odd feeling, because until about a year ago I was spending the vast majority of my time alone; now I’m in a relationship and working a very social job, so to be all by myself feels out of place. I was talking to my therapist about it this morning and I said it feels like a regression to what my life was like before when my partner isn’t home in the evening. I just wish I could think about these things more rationally and not have such a negative reaction to something totally reasonable (working). Ugh.