I just want some opinion on the situation. So, I met my ex who is diagnosed and she takes pills for BPD. We meet 1 year ago and we talked for 10 months before starting dating. We are both people who take our time to know the other and make sure that we are compatible before dating. So we dated for 2 months...... When she said yes to be together, I would contact her less ( We usually talked for about 100 messages a day and I reduced to like 20 message a day). She took 2 weeks to tell me that she wanted more attention. In those 2 weeks, she was talking to another guy. I corrected myself and 2 weeks later I asked her is it was ok now. She told me yes. So the relation ended when she put all the reasons on me and that it was too late. That I was going to go back to my old habits, etc. But she left me for this other guy and never told me. I started to argument with her with a logical mind (Bad idea I know with those type of people). So 2 weeks after we broke up, she put that she was in a relationship with another guy on Facebook (We never put our relationship status on Facebook when we were together). It's been 3 weeks of no-contact now. I have good and bad days, but it gets better. I don't know why I hang on the hope that she will come back. Even if I know that she is not the type of women I want to be with. I only did my research on BPD after the breakup. It helped me to understand why the things had unfolded like they did. Anyway, she seems happy now, or maby she is still in the idealization phase with her new toy. I don't really know, but it's hard to maintain No-Contact.

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