My partner threatened to commit suicide if I left while we were arguing. It de-escalated when I started crying and then she cried too and stopped. A couple weeks later I told my therapist about this and we both agree she needs professional help. The problem is my partner doesn't like therapists because she always had bad ones. If she's not going to get professional help, or at least practice some form of therapy on her own time, I don't think I can stay in this relationship. How do I persuade her to try therapy without emotionally blackmailing her?