sorry if this is the wrong sub to post this on, I will delete this if needed

I just started taking citalopram due to anxiety effecting me too much in life (hard to fall asleep sometimes can't eat etc), I've been dealing with anxiety my whole life but due to some overwhelming stuff going on in my life right now, after talking with my psychologist I decided to go to a psychiatrist and got citalopram pills

I had some small side effect the first day  but it went away, but ever since then (it's been a week) almost everyday I tried having sec with my gf but even when I felt aroused (it takes me awhile) I wan't able to orgasm even after an hour of stimulation.

Just to make it clear we are both girls, I generally have a lower libido then her and I am very sensitive so it is hard for me to have sex in general, and the thought that it will be hard for me to have sex even more honestly depresses me.

I'm only on citalopram a week so maybe it will be better with time but honestly I just want to stop the treatment because some part of me feels like "I've managed this my whole life I can keep going like this"

I am thankful I'm not experiencing the worst side effects but it really effected me after trying with her for like 3 times this week for so long, to the point it hurt me too much to keep going.

I'll be happy to hear other people experience and also your thoughts on the situation...