Almost 3 weeks agora, I’ve met this super cool woman, that straight away told me she had bpd and took her medication - which I think is a green flag.

As said on my previous post, she has a stable working life but in my opinion, smokes too much weed and drinks a lot. I’m ok with it, her behaviour doesn’t change drastically and doesn’t affect me.

Yesterday I decided to take her with me to a halloween party in my friends home, and introduce her to them. She was loving with me, very nice to my friends, and expressed her warm feelings for me.

After a few more drinks, and maybe a bit of other substances, she started making out with some of my friends. I found it weird but since I am open minded and previously was on a poly relationship, it didn’t bother me much.

We ended up having sex on a room , and in the end she invited 3 other people to join, which I didn’t agree and told her. I left and a few moments later she joined medir a cigarette and come beers.

When everyone was gone, I told her to pick up her things so we could leave and meanwhile I went to pee. For my surprise, when I came out of the toilet, my friend was eating her p*ussy right outside of it on the floor and she smiled . 

I told her I was not ok with it and that we should leave because I was not going to put up with he behaviour. She slap me on the face, kicked me, and slapped me on my ribs which I have 3broken at the moment.

I ended up leaving her there and told her to call an Uber.

Today she woke up angry, told me that I abandoned her regardless of what she has done. When I told Hershey happened, she told me I was guilt tripping her and should never have abandoned her. 

I am so angry with her telling me that she liked me a lot, that she wants me, and then being hyper sexual with some of my friends, even after I told her I was not ok with it. And in the end she even  tells me I’m guilt tripping her because I have no idea of how abandoned she was and that she doesn’t remember anything she has done.

Is this normal bpd behaviour ?