I just cant with that mindset, I posted last night about my fp and ALL I asked is how to get over this fp because I realize he will never reach my expectations and I feel deeply hurt by everything, I got a comment saying basically "have you thought about what he is going through? not everything is about you" and I check the person history and of course they are posting in THAT subreddit, 


it's understandable that you were hurt and now you have this bad image about people who have BPD but that doesn't give you the right to come here and comment like that under someone post who is clearly hurting and the post is with the flair [seeking support] and especially when all of the person asked "how to get over my fp"


you dont know the person issues, traumas, situation, mental health, emotions, feelings and how did they communicate everything with the fp. so what you think gives you the right to be rude without trying to be understanding first. 


I communicated with my fp countless of time about what he does that upset me, he would be nice one day and then the next few days be cold and dishonest and all of that only add to me being confused and hurt. nothing hurt more than someone lying to you and making you feel crazy knowing you have BPD and knowing what you are dealing with right now. all I asked was "how to get over the fp when its not romantic" and I got that rude comment which made me feel so hurt and confused, questioning am I crazy about this? 


I know I am probably overreacting but that comment was so hurtful to me, I am 15 and got diagnosed with BPD couple of months ago, I still don't know how to deal with it, I thought this was a safe place to post about things I am dealing without the usual judgmental comments we get "not everything is about you" 


this is such a long post, but I needed to vent to someone about this :(