Me and my ex had a good/normal sex life. She did have BPD, and suffered from depression after a year of being together (2 years together), so in the second year we had less sex because she wasn't always in the mood, which i respected. But on 2 occasions, we were just having a good night and I was getting tired after sometime, and said something like 'okay that's good, I'm getting really tired' etc, so I said I would like to stop because I was very tired. But she told me to keep going and didn't really allow me to stop. 1 of the 2 times i said to her i didn't want to continue because I already told her I was tired, but she insisted and after some talking she realized what she was doing was wrong and said sorry. I was honestly a lil scared at that point since I wasn't allowed to stop, but it ended fairly quickly. But especially the second time this happened, me and her were sleeping over at my friends house during summer break and, you know, we were alone and my parents friends were gone so we slept together in his parents bed while he was just sleeping normally in his own bed upstairs. So we were getting to it, did some stuff, and had a good time for like an hour, but when I started fingering her again, she was getting pretty loud and noisy, so I told her to be a lil more quiet because my friend was upstairs or otherwise I'd stop. But she crapped my arm/hand and told me in a commanding voice to keep going and had a angry undertone in her voice. I again told her to be quiet but kept going because I was starting to get scared because I didn't know what to do. So I kept going but she kept being loud and eventually she was done and all and I went to sleep, but was that sexual assault or what was it because I don't think that's supposed to be normal...?