How should I go about being diagnosed and bringing up my concerns about borderline. I don't want to seem like someone who just examined a wiki page and is now certain they have a disorder thus be dismissed as such. It is extremely vital to me and my family that I be acknowledged. I don't think I have the patience to say something wrong and then have to find another doctor. I've just found that I'm a little much for people and they don't typically understand how I feel. 
I was diagnosed with bipolar as a teenager, like everyone else apparently from what it seemed like at the time. I don't have bipolar and after being medicated for it and doing tons of research to understand it, I'm certain I don't have bipolar. I am fairly certain that I have bpd. I mean, when reading about it I feel that it was written about me. Upon really digging I've found myself in a very odd place and so I really, absolutely need to get this right on this first go.

Thanks