Im a single gay man and turning 35 soon and this milestone is scaring me. I recently went through a bad heartbreak also which a shaken my life a bit. I feel very anxious as a result. I fear that I won't be healthy and attractive enough soon to attract a potential partner.

I exercise alot, started a new intensive combat sport this year. I honestly feel that my energy levels are very comparable to when I was 25 and superior to my late 20s when I let myself go and gained alot of weight.

 But then I face the reality of my age and that ill be 40 in 5 short years. And I'm still single dealing with heartbreak in my mid thirties. It confuses me. 

I'd like to get perspective and advice from other men my age and older. I'd like to sort out this confusion and feel more at peace