I really wanted to hear peoples opinions on this topic. As I’ve seen so many people who are for and against it. Personally myself I am against self diagnosis. Purely for the fact that even therapists can’t diagnose you with it and they have years of training. I think bpd is very complex and a lot of the time the people with this disorder aren’t self aware of their actions. I am diagnosed after a long time fighting to know what is wrong with me. I know bpd through and through I grew up closely with two family members with it. It’s a very difficult disease. I didn’t think I had it 100% until my diagnosis  , however now I have found peace in it. I know I would never self diagnose and I understand the fact that some people don’t have access to services and psychiatry however there is a difference between thinking and suspecting you have something rather than saying you have it indefinitely. For example you could find a lump on your leg and do lots of research and you think it’s cancer. However you could go to the doctors and they could say it is something else. Understand the point I’m getting at? For me the internet isn’t a trustworthy source and doesn’t really cover the true in and outs of the disorder. I just don’t agree with it. Sorry. I’m open to hearing other peoples opinions so feel free to comment below. This isn’t a argument more like a discussion. And this can be eye opening for a lot of people.