Hey reddit, my name is Brock. I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for about a year, and she just told me about how she "daydreams", she said she did this all the time before she met me, but when she met me, it stopped, well she said she started doing it again. She's got a severe case of (Paracosm). Which basically means she has a whole other world in her head that she goes to. She said she only does it when I'm not on the phone with her. What makes me a little uncomfortable, Is that she has a guy in her head that she "cuddles" with when she daydreams. When i asked her to stop doing it, she went completely silent and fell asleep. I feel bad because she's had a really rough childhood, a guy a couple years older than her, groped her for 7 years, her dad was an alcoholic, and her parents split up, i looked it up and it's how kids cope with trauma, but it can follow you into your teen, and possibly adult years too. She said she used to have a sexual relationship with him before she had a boyfriend, all of it sounds so odd to say, but it's how she coped with it. I've changed a lot myself to make her happier, I'm not the  best mentally either, but she knows it makes me uncomfortable, but continues to do it anyway. I need advice, im so in love with her, i really doubt i could leave Her, she's been with me through a lot, but she won't change a thing to make me comfortable. What do you think? Am I crazy for being jealous? Or do my thoughts make sense at all? I'm sorry there's so much to read, any advice helps, thank you.