2 BPD in a relationship... is that even possible? My bf (32) seems like a textbook BPD (was diagnosed with ptsd in the past) and I've always believed I had BPD, it's like deep down I just know it. We both have an extreme fear of abandonment and react negatively at the first sign of rejection. Aside from those two things, were also able to have great communication since we understand each other. We're also super emotionally dependent on each other. My emotional outbursts never seem to scare him off, even though my words do hurt him sometimes (like me telling him I'm leaving and that I've been planning to leave for a while). 

What are your opinions on 2 bpd together? Recipe for failure? Mutual understanding? 