I don't think I've ever cried so hard over a movie in my life.

Spoiler warning


Not enough people are talking about this. This is the most BPD movie I've ever watched.

First of all, Ralph is seen as a bad guy all around. People just don't like him, and don't give him a chance. He wants to be seen as good, so he goes to great lengths to do good things. The first movie isn't really a BPD thing, I just guess I can relate to it on some levels.

In Ralph Breaks the Internet, however, things get really interesting. Ralph just wants to make Vanellope happy. He will do so many things just for her. This causes her game to break, and they have to go to the internet to save it. He goes to so many lengths in order to save her game, and then Vanellope finds something that makes her happier than Sugar Rush. That really hit where it hurt.

When they went into Slaughter Race for the first time, Ralph could tell that she really liked the place. He could tell that she felt at home there. So naturally, he got angry at it and started hating everything about it because he didn't want her there. He didn't want her to leave.

Vanellope just not showing up to E-Bay to buy the steering wheel really hurt. He told her to be there, and she didn't show up. I know what that's like and man it made me sad.

Well, Ralph finds out that she wants to stay in Slaughter Race. He feels betrayed, and tries to sabotage it for her. He ruins the game, and almost kills Vanellope. The virus he used clones Ralph, turning them into "needy, clingy self-destructive" zombies. The only thing that stops them in the end is Vanellope saying that she'll be his only friend.

That's before Ralph tells his insecurities that he needs to trust her and let her go. And that is what we need to do. We need to trust our FPs. Trust that they won't stop caring because they aren't with us 24/7. Trust that they won't leave us because they've found something that makes them happy. Trust that they'll be there for us, even when we aren't together. That they won't forget about us. That they will still have time for us.

It's easier said than done, but maybe one day we'll get there.

I've seen a post or two about this but it should be talked about more. I've never related so much to a single movie in my entire life.