26 years old and diagnosed not too long ago after being misdiagnosed for years. 

I'm recently single and I've never dated anyone with BPD. I was thinking it might help to search for someone who also has it as the kinship might help us be more understanding and know what to do to help each other cope. On the other hand, I'm also thinking (maybe out of self loathing) that it could be an unmitigated disaster.

I'm wondering if anyone here has any insight or experiences to share?