All he does is say he wishes he could be there (he only lives 20 minutes away) or he would do anything to make me feel better, but doesn't actually try and do anything to comfort me. If our roles were switched I would drop everything and be there for him in a second. Maybe he's just sick of constantly having to be there for me in the past that he can't be bothered trying anymore, like me saying I'm down is just the norm so what's the point of him trying...i don't know just ranting. 