My boyfriend's mom has BPD and after looking it up I am 99.9% sure I have it. The only symptom I don't have is thinking I'm not real... I do always think people are trying to be passive aggressively rude to me all the time which I am later told is completely untrue.  
Ive been diagnosed with ADHD, bipolar, anxiety, ocd, depression, body dysmorphia, bulimia ECT ECT ECT and at this point I just don't know what to think.  Can I have ADHD, Bipolar and BPD at the same time ?? I am starting to think that I only have BPD and not Bipolar but I just don't know and I don't think my doctor's do either.  How can I sperate them and mentally break down what is causing what?
Any advice or similar situations are much appreciated