I have recently started talking/seeing an amazing guy.. He seriously is like coming up a breath of air. He is gentle and kind. Tells me that this goes at my speed. Tells me I’m the one making the decisions. How and when do I tell him I have BPD?? I’m terrified that the stigma of our disease is going to make him run. I keep replaying the conversation with my ex as he was moving out. He told me I was broken and would ruin any man and any future relationship. When I’m all reality. He broke me first. I need to find faith and hope again.