Any one who is an engineer working in the civil industry ? 
I don’t know how to do this leadership and even to talk to people. I hate attending office parties because I have this deep feeling of keeping work  life separate.
People just say things and it’s not even clear cut talking of things so I don’t respond much and that’s not seen as a good sign.

End of the day I want to be in the manager level but I have no idea how I can when I am not good at the leadership skills.