I'm sure most of us have been there: chatting with friends about dating obsessions, being told to slow it down. Sure, great. I should be my own individual.

But now I feel like basically all of those friends are now meeting somebody new and spending even more time than I ever did with my dates and when I ask why we haven't been hanging out as much it's a simple, "I have a SO now."

Like what? So I get accused of being crazy for wanting to spend all my time with someone but then as soon as they do it it's just common sense?

Ridiculous. And I want to be clear, I don't want to be in that couple that doesn't ever do anything else but see each other. I like being my own individual nowadays. I'm just pissed that so many of my friends are unavailable now, even via text, because they're so far up their SO's ass.