I don't understand how he can comfort me and tell me I'm not just my diagnosis and then turn around and compare me to his brother who is also bipolar, not be understanding, this shit gets brought up almost daily. I'm in the middle of a med change so I've been a little more to deal with than usual and I asked him to be mindful and understanding but now, if I get irritated, the questions are like "Is this what I have to look forward to when we have our own kids together?" "You need to control your emotions better" "OH it must just be the meds change" (last one is when I'm legitimately upset by something) like guys, I'm on meds, I don't cheat, I don't lie, I don't go rage mode EVER, I'm very considerate and understanding of his issues and feelings, I think I control my bullshit pretty fucking well compared to some of the shit posted in bipolarso subreddit. And to top it off when I told him my psychiatrist added BPD and PTSD to my list, he told me he knows all about BPD because his shit ass ex has it. So now not only will he compare me to his brother but probably his ex. Idk I guess this was more of a rant than anything. But wtf am I supposed to do when I'm trying so hard but he says there is no trying just doing.