I struggle incredibly hard with dating / relationships primarily because I feel like I never get back what I put in from the other person; driving me absolutely CRAZY. I try and convince myself that my brain is just wired differently and I shouldn’t take it so personally/seriously but at the end of the day I just simply don’t/can’t manage to believe that. Kind of leaves me thinking that I’m never going to be able to make a relationship work unless the other person also struggles with BPD…which I’m sure is an incredibly slippery slope in itself…I guess my question is what is your experience dating with BPD and how do you manage constantly feeling let down, insecure, and unappreciated in relationships? Do you think two people with BPD dating can have a better or a worse relationship than just one person struggling with it, and if I wanted to try and find someone who also has BPD is there any dating apps or specific ways you’d suggest to approach finding others with borderline?