it's something that has always bothered me. I'll see TikToks of people who had friends/lovers kill themselves and they go on rants about how they were so selfish and it INFURIATES ME. It's not about you! For someone to actually do that they would have to be in so much pain to choose that option.....I've personally had a friend kill herself and I never once felt anger. If anything it just made me sad for her and somewhat happy? That she was no longer in pain. I miss our conversations but she obviously chose what was best for her. My mom has been on chronic pain for 10 years now and may become paralyzed and it's something we've discussed and yeah it hurts but I don't blame her for wanting that. I think it's more selfish to expect people to live for YOU regardless of the pain they're in. Obviously these people need therapy and need to work through their pain but what if they do that and still want to end their lives? None of us want to lose people but it's an inevitable part of life and we don't get to choose the circumstances of our birth why can't we atleast choose when/how we pass?