So my boyfriend and I have been together for 11 years and we’ve had a lot of ups and downs. Recently he’s been losing weight and going to the gym and I’m super proud of him. He goes with a group of coworkers and one being a girl and her boyfriend but recently less and less of the group has been going and the girl and him have gone together because everyone else couldn’t go but it doesn’t sit well with me. I voiced my concern and because of my past of always accusing him of things he’s gotten tired of it and now with another issue brought up he got mad because he said he wasn’t going with her, he’s going for himself and he can’t help other people couldn’t go. When I brought it up that I would feel more comfortable if that situation comes up again to not go and now he’s mad and I feel my anxiety at full peak and I don’t know what to do. I’ve never posted on her but I’m out of people to talk to about this.