My best friend and I have been close since the 7th grade. We’re now 29 and run a summer camp as co-coordinators during the month of July with a committee of two other friends, who work as teaching staff at the camp. 

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In a casual conversation last Sunday, we started talking about camp and collectively realized- omg, it’s February already...we really should start planning our first committee meeting. 

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I just started a new job last week and now have a bunch more spare time than him, so I asked if he wanted me to send an email to get a feel for everyone’s schedule, to which he said “yeah- sounds great”. 

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Fastforward to Tuesday evening. I send the email and everyone replies on Wednesday saying Saturday is a good day to meet. Nobody says a specific time window except one colleague who says “nothing after 8pm”.

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I send out a followup to the group, suggesting a specific time which reads as follows: 

   “It’s looking like Saturday is our best option. With that in mind, how about a call this Saturday, the 12th at 4pm. Would that work for everyone?”

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My bestie and co-coordinator replies 10 minutes later: 

   “Awesome! Since Saturday works for everyone, let's say we meet at 12:30pm this Saturday (the 12th) in a Facebook Messenger call. Hope that works for everyone, but if not let me know!“

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At this point, logically I know he probably just didn’t read my message, and therefore, didn’t realize I was finalizing things- but I’m fucking livid. Why do I bother taking any initiative when my gestures in leadership are going to be downplayed in the best case, ignored in the medium case, or outright undermined all-together in the worst? 

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I then sent a self-depricating, but ultimately passive-aggressive text, knowing as a feeling type, he’ll realize what he did: “ Hey! How can I retract my 4pm message? Sorry- I should've consulted you about the specific time first before just barfing one out there like that.” 

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He hasn’t responded (it’s after midnight here, so fair enough)...but am I the asshole/emotionally immature for reading this much intent into a petty-ass email exchange?