No matter what others say, no matter what your diagnosis is, keep on going. Even if BPD is a small part of you, it does not define who you are, work hard, dig deep, sacrifice and always strive to become better. Learn new skills and coping methods and over time be able to control your emotions and impulses. We are all here as a community to share our experiences, and support one another. Please reach out and ask for help if and when you need it. Much love everyone.