I have been dating a guy for the past 2.5 years and although we have a nice relationship there are times I don't feel loved enough. I know that a part of it stems from what all I have been through in life so I am someone who needs a bit more assurance and everything but apart from that as well there are many times it feels like he just doesn't bother much. Like if we will ever have an argument he would never try to understand my point and just stop talking to me. Even when I tell him that there are times I feel you don't make me feel important or wanted he just stops talking to me saying that if you cannot see then find someone who makes you feel wanted. I mean wtf is this response. He works in a different city but his hometown is around 100kms away from mine and everytime he comes home he never gets time to meet me or come even once while I literally book tickets to meet him at his work place which is 6-7 hours away. I don't usually mind bcz i know he gets busy at home,everyone does when they come after a long time. In the last year he has come so many times and everytime I would ask will you be able to manage coming this time and he would always say I can't and I just stopped asking. He came home for Diwali and today he told me that he will come and meet me . I was all happy and excited and then he told me that he has to attend a friend's sister's engagement also. So it kind if hurt me that he has taken out time for his friend but could never do so for me. So I just said to him that you are coming for your friend's function then why are you saying like you are coming to meet me specially. I don't know if I should have said this but honestly I said that because it had hurt me and I felt that I am not important enough. He is acting all hurt now and just said that he won't come at all now and disconnected the phone.

Was I wrong? Should I have not said that?