I have talk therapy once a week. I'm going through a particularly hard time atm and it's my only outlet. My therapist will sometimes forget our appointments and then ask if I want to reschedule, and I will take time to respond because tbh yes I feel hurt and stressed when that happens, and she just sent me an email saying I was punishing her by not scheduling another appointment. She knows I am having a hard time, always talks about abandonment fears and whatever but then acts like this (when if she knows what I'm going through, why wouldn't she just be supportive instead of complain about punishing? She's the one who's supposed to be helping me?), and idk I can't have this kind of relationship with a therapist. 

Is this a normal thing? I feel really uncomfortable, I hate confrontations and am in a serious cycle of anxiety and idk what to do.