I bought a pie from trader joe's over the summer just for myself to enjoy in the winter when they don't sell said pie anymore. He offered to bring it to his ms for Thanksgiving without even saying anything or asking me. I was upset and he just says I'm selfish for buying a pie only for me. Whatever. So I let that one go and we take the pie and soon as I walk in I put it in her freezer and she gets so Curt with me for no reason. She asks if it needs baked and I just say no it's ready. She says in such a condescending tone "Uhhh well it's FROZEN. Soo it's clearly not ready". I just shrug this off as she finds out it indeed doesn't need to be left out and the directions say 2 hours beforehand and I've eaten enough to know my own fucking pie. Ok so past that. The exact next minute she's coming down on me about me dog which had a cough but has been addressed and he's doing fine. I'm guessing my bf failed to mention anything bit clearly it's still my fault and she snaps on me "he has a high temp (he didn't) he needs to see some one NOW!"
I have just been silent this whole time just trying to let it pass. I calmly explain that he's fine and I know what I'm doing. She just keeps going "well he's NOT fine. And he SHOULDNT be here. YOU NEED TO TAKE HIM (TO A VET) NOW!!!" Mind you it's 6pm the eve of Thanksgiving in a town I don't live in. 
To reiterate, he is fine, I know the situation, hes not contagious or a threat in anyway and if she felt this strong I was willing to accommodate and listen but not when I'm being bitched at right away. 
So I just calmly as I can say, ok... Well we can go...
She just won't fucking stop. And I've already had a really rough mental health day and I understand if she's upset she didn't know but my BF should've told her if it was such an issue. Beside the point, I did nothing to this woman and she just won't stop belittling me. 
I just try to get away before I lose it and when my bf comes back I tell him I might as well go bc I'm clearly not welcome here. I tell him his mom was extremely rude to me (it's not what you say it's also HOW you say it)
He just dismisses me and tells her "she's just in a mood"
Like wtf!? I didn't make this up. 
IM SO TIRED. I never do anything right for anyone. At school my professors are rude, I caught one whispering behind my back the other day and it's not just me that thinks he's an ass. I try not to let it get to me but it does. My abusive ex is trying to threaten me with court just bc I won't let him have my son the entire month of December bc I want time with him too. He's been threatening to take him the past few months with no basis. I'm not on drugs, I play with him constantly, I'm a damn good mom. 
Oh and my mom ruined my ONLY good gift idea I had for my bf after I specifically told her not to buy it. I made it clear that I was getting him something and was excited about it. She just acts cute about it and then when that doesn't work she just tries to guilt trip me which I know I didn't do anything to merit. I can't fucking do anything right. I really just wish I could get it over with, I'm clearly just a waste of fucking space to everyone. I'm so tired of people telling me how to do my life. He says I just ruin all his good memories. Fuck it whats the point