Like whenever someone says "haha" or "lol" while texting it annoys me, but in real life when someone laughs at my jokes it's great. On the other end of the spectrum, if I compliment someone and they just give a "thank you" without much emotion then I take it almost personally, depending on how connected I am with the person. If they say "aww, thanks" then I feel great for the rest of the day, but anything else makes me feel like I did it wrong and fucked everything. 