I've been seeing an awesome woman for about a month. She's displayed empathy (she works for a non-profit in a rough neighborhood), cares about social issues as she is a POC, is intelligent. She appears to be pretty close with her family and stays in touch with her friends around the country. 

However, she has used the term "favorite person" once in regards to her best friend of many years. She also told me she has issues with object permanence and has had issues with anger when she was younger. She seems to love herself and understand herself by her own admission, but says she can use some work. She has said that she "hates 90% of people."

I only ask because I have ADHD and she seems a shit ton like me. She's fidgety, has a wide emotional range and is expressive, has a lot of energy. She's been really honest with me about her unhealthy habits and she seems really self-aware.