Do people with BPD normally bounce back after devaluing their partner? We were together for 10 months and she’s never devalued me before. She went from I love you so much the love of my life to I don’t love you romantically anymore please don’t leave me as a friend. She wants my love and attention and support still, but I feel betrayed. She just zones out when I point out all the loving things she said last week, asking her what changed. She just doesn’t know. I want to fix our relationship and do my part to fix it without hurting too much. Is splitting usually permanent? I’ve not given up on her and I still talk to her, but she only talks when she feels like it. Calling her out has not helped, and reasoning isn’t working either. I don’t want to give up. Her only reason for the breakup was that she doesn’t love me as a partner anymore, that commitment was too hard. Which is the opposite of what she said a week ago, and for the last 10 months. I just feel lost