Hi everyone

I've been having a lot of issues with my partner lately, mainly stemming from my poorly managed bpd. picking fights, saying things i don't mean, having anxiety attacks and expecting him to comfort me, etc. hes at a point where hes completely emotionally drained and doesn't know how to proceed. he said he feels like i need him too much, that we fight too much, and that its not what he wants from a relationship. i tried to get some reassurance from him today and he couldnt hardly give it. he basically said hes at the end of the road. the best i could get was saying "i just need to know youre not giving up yet" and he said "im not giving up". how can i trust this when hes so obviously done? do i just need to give space and hope for the best? in the meantime im completely paralyzed, i know i should do a skill but i dont even know how to right now or what to do 

any help would be greatly appreciated