My 11 month relationship ended when my bf (who said a few months back he had BPD) decided we argue too much and he couldn't handle the relationship anymore bc tried and couldnt fix the arguments. 

Only a few days prior he said we were strong as a rock and wanted to be forever always lovers. 

I said I wanted to work on it he suggested we stay friends and I told him I couldn't given my feelings for him. I told him if he decides he wants to try again I would be open to it. Most of our arguments started from him being distant bc he perceived a slight and me asking for reassurance which he would personalize and distance more. 

After the break up I looked into BPD and realized a lot of our issues were typical of the cycles for BPD. 

I'm wondering if I should reach out to him or just leave him be. I recognize his hurt and behavior now from BPD and I feel guilty. I deleted my status the morning after the break up bc I was upset, he then changed his to single and texted me saying he dropped off my things. We broke up over the phone and I haven't seen him since. But damn I really love him. It's been 2 weeks