It seems as though I get falsely accused for things I said or attitudes that I have. This is news to me. I generally am light hearted and make jokes. I like making people laugh. But I get accused of saying things that get taken out of context. Like a joke is a joke. Some people will think it's funny and some people not. Why is it that jokes at my expense are so funny but jokes at other people's expense are rude and insensitive? Why do I get blamed for this shit? It seems really unfair. I've gotten used to apologizing for things I've said even though I don't believe them to be hurtful. But the hurt feelings of those I've "wronged" linger on and it's super frustrating. I'm expected to just let shit go when people hurt me but then  they can hold on to that hurt when it's me doing the "hurting"? Man, nothing makes sense.