So, um to give some background. I moved to another state for college so i’ve been away from home for 3 months now. I don’t have any friends or anyone to really talk to about my personal life. One of my friends hasn’t talked to me much and I confronted her yesterday. She said it was because the conversations were dry, because it was all about me, etc. I’m still confused on why she never brought it up to me. But the point is, I didn’t even realize I was making it about myself, so I was shocked to hear that. Looking back at conversations I can see what she means. I was thinking, is this maybe because I don’t have others to talk to? and I let it out on her? or is this related to BPD. Maybe I want some validation? So I speak about myself because I want to be heard. (You know trauma as a child and not being heard) But um yea if anyone could give me advice on how to mend this issue or what I should say to her, and give me feedback.