I am having the toughest time trying to explain I have obscure and difficult triggers to my partner. They want to talk every little thing out and push me to even though I cannot talk about some things or else I'll have an episode. Lately it feels like I'm being treated like a monster because I don't want to talk about something that will upset me. They never understand what I try to say or understand that I need boundaries. It feels like a cycle of us trying to talk to each other, getting a sort of idea of what we want, and then crashing and burning again. I have quiet bpd which makes things harder because I don't think they understand me. Are there little things you guys tell your partners about your BPD? I don't want to information load them all at once. Or is that condescending?