I know the title is a little odd but I didn't know how else to word it so please allow me to elaborate. 

I would say that I am quite a bit of a tomboy, I am super nerdy and creative which places me in a lot of gaming communities and creative spaces. Lately over the last few years I have noticed my mental health slipping a lot from a very peculiar social aspect and that is the aspect of not fitting in with the norm of others. It feels like in order to be accepted in this day and age you have to be something special to be noticed by others but what happens if you are just happy being a cis/biological woman? Any person I have ever met has a wide array of sexualities, sexual orientations or other identifying factors that for me personally is difficult to memorize and I just want to have friends that are female but they dont seem to exist anymore as every person with female anatomy that I met in these communities goes by multiple pronouns and it makes me feel extremely alienated as a woman when it comes to communicating and fitting in/trying to find your space in the world when you arent a they/them or demon/demonself, etc. I don't know if anyone else has ever felt this way but I feel like I am walking on egg shells whenever I bring up this topic as if I dont have the rights to speak about my feelings without being cancelled or labelled with a wide array of negative "phobic" titles. I am not discriminatory or hateful, im just lonely and I dont know what to do about it. Thanks.