So my partner and I were arguing a bit. She likes to pick fights and she’s been so cold the last couple days. An example being: Says she likes me so much, I’m her person and the next it’s ‘i don’t want you in my life romantically but you’d make a good friend.’ Which has me like 🚩immediately. 

Last night, she said I was toxic (which I guess I might be but everyone is surely?) and I ask how I was toxic and I asked how someone can go from feeling something one day and switch up so quickly.

And she goes, ‘I probably have an undiagnosed mental illness. We can’t all have a diagnosis’ and this completely fucked me off. I have suffered with mental health since I was 12 and I wish I didn’t. 

If she wants my diagnosis, she can have it. I don’t fucking want it. 

I think I’m right to be angry. I think that was a low blow and I’m very upset and angry about it. 

We haven’t spoke since. I’m actually at the point of breaking up because I do not want that type of person in my life. 

However, I don’t trust myself and how I feel so I’m wondering if I’m overreacting. 

So, am I overreacting?