My wife is an extremely sweet individual who puts everyone else's needs above her own wants. However she does have a temper at times and this has been explained to me as an unfortunate part of her condition. I try to be patient with her but the rage episodes have been becoming more frequent as of late. The thing is though I am the only person who is aware of this other side to this otherwise gentle person. Even after being confronted with numerous truly awful people she never so much as said a single mean thing to anyone else. She explains that I am the only person whose witnessed the rage because  she felt comfortable enough to let down her mask and to be herself around me. I'm trying to be understanding but it's hard to reconcile all these emotions when she just laughs and gets along with everyone else regardless of who they are or how she is ATM. 

Talking to all the people here from someone on the outside and needing a little understanding.