I’m friends with this girl I know from high school and we stayed in touch. She knows I’m depressed and often says I can talk to her about it and stuff. Yet today she says all I do is talk about it and says she’s depressed too and gives the impression I just need to be “more positive” and realise people have it worse than me. She claims I’m just talking  to her for sympathy but that’s not even true? I don’t want that has anyone else experienced it