I (25/m)know that I have BPD, and it took me along time to understand why I wasn’t the most easiest person, but the person I was dating (26/m) didn’t help. We’re currently broken up, but he spent a long time blaming me for things that I know I didn’t do. Insecurities and issues that I didn’t cause he blames on my BPD. He even spent months comparing me to Joe from the Netflix series, You.

It hurts because he’s still my fp, and I know my BPD causes me to try and show affection in annoying ways but I am not some crazy stalker. I wish I could give him the chance to state his part here as well, and create an unbiased narrative, but it’s far from possible right now.