Hey guys. Anyone else out there electing not to have children because of their bipolar disorder/the meds they take because of it? I’m worried I’d pass on my disorder genetically. My husband’s dad had bipolar disorder so there’s a good chance we’d pass it on. 

Also…I don’t think I can realistically come off my meds (Vraylar and Lamictal) and safely carry a child. I’ve never been able to come off my meds and remain stable. It’s been years since I’ve had an episode and I’d like to keep it that way. Even if I could afford to not work for a few years, I would not be able to function and properly care for the child without my meds. So I guess that means no kids for me. Like…idk. Just sucks when I think about it. 30 year old married female. I work at an elementary school, so constantly surrounded by kids. Wondering how people cope.