I have a few questions for anyone who has BPD and was the dumper. Why did you dump them? Did they not understand your condition? Did they make you feel like the villain? Did you do it on impulse without fully thinking it through? If so, do you regret your decision? Do you think about going back? I’ve read quite a bit about the stages of relationships with BPD and the continuous cycle. Do any of y’all experience this? I’m really interested to hear some of y’all’s experiences and thought process behind it