I am sick and tired of having patronising degrading parents. My Dad and my step-mum particularly. My mum isn't bad because she had it too.

Every week my dad asks me the most uncalled for questions like "what do you dream about achieving" (as if I am incapable and don't 24/7) or "making a strategic plan" for achieving something. They literally compliment a lot on what I achieve, but then that just gets thrown aside and on to the next "problem" they feel they need to have control over. Admittedly they do not control in such away that I can't make my own decisions, but it's the subtle controlling that is really turning me to insanity and I tell them to stop and they never do. They act like they know whats best for me 24/7 and can solve all my problems at once rather than just letting me live and let live and live my own life and enjoy finding my own direction in peace. They ask "what do I want in life" and that is literally what I want. I've held a job down for 5 years, since I was 16 and I am very dedicated to my hobbies and doing everything I can to make myself happy, but it never makes them leave me alone. Does anyone have any advice? I don't want to have to keep driving off every week some bad shit happens at the dinner table because everyone was directing me in my face, or shout at them to stop because I am trying to base my actions logically rather than on emotion.. What should I do?