I am seeking some advice or direction from anyone diagnosed with BPD who also has a basic understanding of psychology.

I was diagnosed with ADHD and at the age of 29, and really screwed up my life with indirection and chasing excitement. As I am slowly replacing bad life lessons fit for neurotypicals with life lessons fit for ADHD people and reading up on different parts of psychology, I came into contact with BPD.

It fits me as a glove. I exibited the exact same symptoms at certain parts of my life and became obsessed especially with 3 people in my life. In between obsessions, it was always like I was on the lookout for anyone to complete or repair me.

I am not sure though whether my symptoms are strong enough to be classified as BPD. ADHD also has some major overlap in many of the symptoms. Since starting on ADHD meds (Concerta), my symptoms have decreased by probably 90% (as an estimated guess) so that now I don't get obsessed with anyone for longer than 20 minutes and my fear of being abandoned by my favourite people is just a small irritation and not a full blown panic attack anymore.

Does anyone have any insight for me? If you require more infornation, however personal, just ask.