I just learned of their diagnosis and want to do everything I can to make them feel safe and supported. I know I can google this question, but I would like to hear others’ experiences and opinions as well. Whenever it’s been brought up, they’ve been vague about it and have never used the term BPD (just their disorder) but they slipped up and named it, i’m not sure if they know I noticed. They’ve been bullied for it throughout high school (we met in college) so I’m not sure if it’s something they feel comfortable talking about.