I (25 F) am autistic. I am dating someone (25 F), engaged to actually, with bipolar. We’ve been together for 7 almost 8 years. She isn’t medicated. I have trouble with communication, and she has these freak outs where she overreacts, or says she feels unloved, or just gets angry... She uses marijuana to self treat her bipolar... It’s getting hard for me to handle, and being autistic I don’t respond correctly and often shut down.. I’m wondering if anyone has any experience with these to neurodivergences mixing, or if it’s just bad news.. she won’t get on medication because it makes her a zombie, she says.