My boyfriend is a lovely human. He is amazing. He tried to understand my BPD and do the best he can to accommodate certain needs (nothing huge just more communication really). I don’t expect him to accommodate my need ti have him texting me or calling me at all tomes to help with this codependency, that would be ridiculous but I want to stop feeling like if he isn’t around me or talking to me then he must hate me. I literally got off the phone with him after him saying he is in love with me but i still feel like because he hung up and said goodnight that he must hate me or be mad at me. I dont want to cry every time i cant talk to my boyfriend. It is unhealthy and i hate feeling like this.