I HATE being left on read by certain people (e.g my boyfriend or his best friend) 
Everytime somebody doesn't replay i send around 3 messages saying "I hate you", "you are being mean" or "don't ignore me:(" 

It makes me freak out everytime because I think I've made a mistake or I said something mean and I hate being ignored. I know everyone has to get things done and can't be on their phone 24/7 but I can't accept this fact. I don't know how to cope with my abandonment issues in an healthy way. 

Does anyone else has experienced something similar? How do you cope with your abandonment issues?