I posted about this the other day under my normal user but my other Reddit is followed by my wife so to save myself argument I created a new Reddit . I talked about my wife’s attachment to her friend and me feeling kind of alienated because of this . To add to the story today her friend has got to be one of the laziest people I’ve seen I’m not starting arguments tonight over this but I work today was a twelve hour day I gotta walk to and from work it’s a little over a mile no biggy but coming home after twelve hours starving hoping for a meal when I get home yeah didn’t happen . Them sitting watching tv already ate and my wife’s friend flopped on my couch after sleeping most of the day my aggravation level was high I got attitude when I’d asked about food just sitting there acting all arrogant . How do I deal with this ? My wife has BPD and I understand her attachment to her friend but I’d been at work all day no food and no one cared . This isn’t just about today I’m just afraid it foreshadows up coming situations how do I deal with this ? I already had a blow out over this when this woman had a guy in my house at two am . I don’t want anymore garbage I can’t handle much more.