I find it so hard to date. I’m a 24 year old girl and I’ve had one serious relationship with a women. After we split up it took me 2 years of obsessing about her every day until I met someone else to obsess over. This new girl was put off by how intense I was - I know this because we recently “tried again” and she ended it after a month and told me the reason why. In between then, I met someone else and the same thing happened - I was too intense too quickly and they were put off. I get so upset with myself as I find it so hard to find girls I fancy and when I do, I fuck it up. I don’t know what to do to change this about myself.