There was a woman who wanted my life and it triggered me so hard I wanted to make her suffer. We have the same FP but I’m the one he chose to date. She kept asking for his time and energy (and mine too) but there was never enough.

When I’m on an even keel, I’m an introvert, so her asking for too much time was the threat of enmeshment, but to top it off, her requests of my fiancé’s time were too much. 

I’ve learned too much patience to beat her like we’re going to be on Worldstar, but I essentially told my fiancé that if she stayed in our lives that I was going to leave because I have too much self respect. 

Anyone else had to deal with something similar?