i've been talking to someone for a while now, due to long distance and other factors we aren't officially together but we're exclusive and very close. we seem to be having problems that relate a lot to my bpd, 
or are at least made worse by it. i've tried explaining it to them before but it was in the middle of a fight and it was a long paragraph of text (they have trouble reading long paragraphs) so they didn't seem to take it in or understand it. does anyone have any good resources by someone with bpd that give an overview of it? all i've been able to find is stuff by medical professionals or people interested in psychology who only explain it by basically just reading out the symptoms list