My son and are so alike, he has difficulty make and maintaining friends and his main friends are kids that are in charge. Whether that be older (mentor) the same again age (protective).

We also think alike, he get anxious with new situations and we are both good at maths, words are confusing to us. He has difficulty with emotion regulation as I did, and still do. He has severe separation anxiety, again like myself. He thinks others will make his life meaningful. He has an electric car that he uses to attract attention. He said to me "if I don't have my car I won't have anything cool that people want" and I replied, thinking fuck I think like that, "you are cool mate, people will want to hang out with you".

There is so much more that this will go on for days.

I am worried I have passed on my BPD to him, he has been diagnosed with ASD, ADD and co-morbid anxiety (not sure if it is GAD or just SA, suffer from MDD, GAD, BPD, C-PTSD)?