About a year ago, I broke up with my now ex-boyfriend because I was bored of the relationship. Now, he has a new girlfriend, and for some reason, I want him back. I almost feel like I’m obsessed over him now that I know I can’t have him. I “moved on” fairly quick, but now I’ve reverted back into being literally obsessed with him a YEAR later.
I’ve read posts on this sub about other people with BPD struggling with loving the “chase” that comes with relationships. I’m just wondering, DAE w/ BOD experience this inability to move on from a past romantic relationship?