In my last period, I had one of my classmates -not that close enough to be my friend- in the same class as me. I am unfortunately absent most often because of my health reasons (mostly mental health). This is nothing big to even over-think about, but here I am,venting here.

Something she said really did bug me a lot. And I mean A LOT. The teacher asked her to sit next to me, because she had no place to sit, but she declined saying: “I wanna sit with someone who’s smart” I obviously was offended and my teacher really did notice that it bothered me, and then the same girl
Commented again with “No I mean she’s a smart person but she’s careless, I wanna sit with someone who knows what’s going on in this class and not always absent” this girl is known for being honest or sometimes overly honest to the people that she’s comfortable with and I guess we both know each other for 3 years now, and she sometimes talks to me. I couldn’t stop thinking about this idk why i don’t think that this level of “sensitivity” is really that common in people without BPD. And what mostly bothered me is, I wanted the teacher to do something about it, instead of me taking back to defend myself. I feel like a baby.


Support or/and advice is needed, if you have anything to say.