Hello everyone, I could really use some help. I recently started dating this new girl and she smokes weed and whenever I think about her doing it it makes think very irrationally. Long story short, I have a history of people in my family being drug addicts and have been around it my whole life. As a result, my anxiety gets triggered whenever she mentions her smoking. I think about it even when she isn't around constantly. I think it is because I have not been around people who can use drugs in a responsible way. I am unsure of how to feel about it or be more comfortable with the idea. My mind creates problems and gets stuck on thought patterns of speculation such as "what if she never finishes college?" "what if she is high now?" "what if she is smoking now?" I know it is unreasonable and I need some help because it has been very debilitating.