this is NOT a negative post, i just wanted to post about how much i appreciate him (which he might see this so im a little embarrassed)

i love my boyfriend so much, he does have bpd and tells me how much he wishes he didnt, and apologizes frequently for it, i understand the way he feels and i love him dearly, he really is the most amazing man ive met, hes sweet and caring, and notices small details (and remembers them too!!), i love when he talks about his passions to me and his favorite things

when i learned he had bpd, i had looked into it more and seen SO MUCH negative comments and people chanting how “my bpd partner is abusive!” “people with bpd are abusive and have no remorse!” etcetc. and entire communities with people talking negative about their partner, i despise them

i wish people who had partners with bpd would take time to actually understand them, (which i am NOT a saint! i am still entirely learning about the condition, and think i might have it too) and if anyone here who has a partner or would like to give help and tips to help a partner, i would greatly appreciate it ! :)

but to my point and to end this, i absolutely adore my boyfriend, and hate the negative stigma people with bpd get online and in those communities, if tips are put, thank you in advance (and sorry if this message has come off insincere or in-genuine, have a great day