We all know this. Every piece of media says the same thing, "you have to find happiness in this life and you are not doing something right if you haven't found it". Anyone know this is not quite right, but I haven't seen anyone with another perspective that makes sense (and that doesn't try to sell you their "I am your next life coach" book).

It sounds just like a rant haha, but do you guys have any other perspective? Sometimes I don't know if the broken one is my mind and not the concept of happiness itself