I have a lot of instability in my life at the moment (health, employment, housing) and it is causing me to drastically shift moods and behaviors negatively and very quickly. Unsure if bipolar 2 related at this moment, but I think I might be switching into a mixed depressive-manic state. 

I find I might need some security and stability in my relationship with my partner. He is so so so supportive and willing to do whatever it takes to help me during this rough period as I try to deal with my inner child and these shifts of moods. A big issue  I have in these shifts is the obsessive fear of leaving me. He won’t but I become irate and uncontrollable at the thought alone. 
However, I am very unsure of what I need to find that security and stability with him.

Any suggestions on what we can do to find that stability/security?