This is my first time posting here

I am in my early 20's and is currently living with my parents. However, the are and have always been abusive towards me. I've experienced public humiliation, physical abuse (belts, bats, scratches, etc), verbal abuse, psychological abuse, etc. I was told to commit suicde, that my depression is a joke, that I'm a whore, and a lot of verbal abuse from my mom. My father is more of an enabler, and while we get along better, he still doesn't believe in mental illness. My extended family, who I once viewed highly, slowly showed me their abusive/narc sides. My aunt recently blamed me for the drama in our family and told me that I should never tell her how I feel. I've also suffered from poor relationships and friendships.

However, I've been making changes. I've been in therapy for 2 years and has not been in a relationship since last year. Im focusing on remaining single till I am content with myself. I see my therapist every week and we have good chemistry. I also have few friends and acquaintances, but I like being around them. I dedicate myself to school so I can one day leave home, and focus on working on myself. I also don't do drugs or anything illegal. And I am aware that people are complex and aren't just good or bad, as I can even note positive sides to my family in spite of how they treat me. 

I do, however struggle with my emotions. Sometimes I snap occasionally, but this doesn't happen often and I always take responsibility and apologize after. I also speak calmly and communicate my feelings, although I'm still not perfect. I sometimes get petty and block people/act passive aggressive. I have moments where everything at home, coupled with my low self esteem/confidence, triggers my suicidal thoughts. I crash and cry. But I still push through and work on doing better the next day

That being said, I've always wondered if I've have BPD. I understand that nobody here is a trained professional and can't make accurate judgements online. However, does it sound as if BPD for me is plausible?

Note: I've only been diagnosed with **major depressive disorder** so far