
 my boyfriend has BPD, I’m not sure sometimes how to approach conversations with him when he gets in moods  ( never leaving my side always wanting to be around me , doesn’t know personal space, extreme insecurities, highs and lows ) my boyfriend is not a bad boyfriend he’s very caring and very nice but sometimes when he gets in his moods he’s extremely insecure and he becomes controlling ( only wanting my time , not wanting me to hang out with my friends) he’s not always like this but only gets this way when he becomes insecure I’m not really sure how to approach the topic without coming off as mean. I love the affection but sometimes it gets suffocating, I don’t want to break up with him we get along I love him very much . I just really need some advice on how to start off the conversation without pushing him over the edge. 

I’m still learning about BPD and any advice would be greatly appreciated.