While dining and having more arguments lately I finally told my girlfriend that I sorta have BPD related issues. My mom and brother suffers from it and I feel I’ve not fully blown BPD but definitely bits of it in a relationship. 

I was scared to say it and somehow regret telling her. Because I dont want to show her weakness. I want to be perfect sometimes.. but in reality im not. 

She told me she respected that I told her and that it was brave to do it and know she understands the outbursts sometimes. But im scared when I tell people, scared they will use it against me. Even though I know she wouldn’t. 

I dont know if i did the right thing. But after some outbursts I somehow felt she deserved to know.