Seriously, I hate insurance and all the shit you have to do to figure this stuff out. There are like 2 psychologists listed on my insurance page in my area. I don't want to talk to people on the phone (blech) so I emailed one and am hoping for a response although doubting I'll get one. How do people do this? This has me in tears. I went through this EXACT cycle trying to find a general doctor (for regular checkups) and I ended up giving up. I don't even really want therapy, I just want the diagnosis (I guess to be validated that it's not something I'm making up). Arg.