Im actually about to get rediagnosed because multiple therapists think I am autistic or its my cptsd that looks like bpd coupled with living with a gaslighting abuser. I also want it gone so my ex can't keep shit talking me. If im a borderline im a veteran and have dedicated a lot to learning and improving. I dont even qualify at this point if I was a borderline. 

He frequents the sub on here that shall not be named. Flat out lies and says im the abuser while not mentioning him detaining me in homes, hitting me, intimidating me, calling me a whore, says he wants to kill me, throwing my stuff etc etc (I have video proof of this) so hes a liar. His "friend" is a bpd male and he is not doing well. He quit his job with ny ex and my ex told him "im here for you" when just a few months ago his friend had a crisis and he IGNORED EVERY CALL AND TEXT. I told him to not lie to his friend. Avoid saying hell be there for him because he's proven he won't be. 

Besides that I have screenshots of him participating in calling BPD sufferers abusive and stuff (I dont believe borderlines are abusive. Its not that black and white) so hes not only not there for his friend he actively talks shit behind his back by saying his disorder makes him a shitty person. How ever ex never said this stuff about friend DIRECTLY just about me. Which he won't answer when I ask if his friend is all the shitty things he says I am. 

I dont want to be in any drama im too tired for all that. Is this drama starting that I think his "friend" should be aware of what he thinks of his disorder? I probably won't say anything because I know ny ex lies about me and I don't think his friend would believe me. But I do have those screenshots. I just want to tell him to not invest energy into my ex because I've seen him flat out ignore his calls without a second thought. 

My ex is no ones friend. He only uses people to feel good about himself. I really feel for this friend because he quit because he's in crisis. This is a sad and confusing situation.