DAE have old FPs that try and come back to get the same treatment and admiration from you and are *shocked* you couldn’t care less about them anymore?

It’s just like, we’re supposed to just swallow everyone’s mistreatment with unending forgiveness and undying love because we “deserve” their abusive actions (at least my BPD brain rationalizes it as such). I wouldn’t bother thinking about it but it’s becoming a pattern, and I’m tired of the out of the blue “Hey, I’m really sorry...” texts.


Any advice to also keep them away and resist the idealization part again?