So hi BPD community,

I actually don't know if this is the right sub to post to but i figured i'll try. So i actually think that i have some minor BPD traits in myself, but this is just to give you some background.

So i have this one male friend who is showing like every symptom possible that he has some kind of BPD, everything just fits. Every word he writes, every word he says, everything he does. So for sure i am no Professional but i think i am on to something there. 

I don't think he knows or has ever even heard of this but i certainly think that he should know because he's struggling so much internally and i think knowing would make a lot of things easier for him. So i ask you how to go about this because i really can't just tell him straight up because i don't think he would believe me or take any interest in this topic and our friendship would basically be over.

So what to do ? Because i really kinda want to help him (no offense here, just want him to become a better version of himself) and i have no idea how to do so...