I was in a realtionship with someone for two years, I’m given myself ample time to get over them. But now someone new has entered my life, I’m trying to figure out…? How do I not mess this up? I think they’re my FP but it’ll change (my FP tend to change a ton at times). But I know my feelings will still be there.

She’s very nice, and I really really like her, we have a good friendship and I can open up to her about my BPD. I’m just terrified of the attachment with it. How do I not duck this up? How do I be mindful and give her space? How do I turn off the thoughts? Or how can I at least make them easier