So another one of my parents friends got fired for sexual harassment and he was literally a priest. My family kept making light of the situation and making excuses for him or just laughing at the situation. It triggered tf out of me because they don't know that another one of their friends used to harrass me and this man was a grown adult and I was like 15/16 years old. He would literally manipulate me which I only realized later in order to please himself which is so gross looking back. He would watch me when my dad was in the hospital (im friends with his daughter so we would just hangout). He would watch me when we would go swimming but I just brushed it off. He would graze really close to me when scooting by, and he even tricked me once into bending over so he could slap my ass when I was without my parents on a trip with his family. 

It was something considered very small and yet it genuinely scared me because I only realized all these little things he used to do AFTER the incident on the trip. After that I started to try and avoid him but he'd literallt grab my arm at parties and be like "you didn't say hello to meee give me a kiss" and would point to his cheek.

For some reason it all really scared and disturbed me and I had issues with my own dad touching me after it for a really long time because I was convinced my dad was probably just like his friends. I don't know but it made me feel small again and just extremely EXTREMELY angry that he most likely would also not take it seriously if I told him what happened to me a few years ago. Seriously pisses me off and I don't even know what to do about it like the anger and frustration is just so much to handle.