I’ve noticed that i’ve gotten really comfortable around my bf and becoming more comfortable showing my more aggressive behaviour towards him. i guess i stopped masking so much. he has expressed him wanting me to tone down the aggression and i kind of didn’t take it seriously because i wasn’t saying mean things or physically hurting her. yesterday, i did something that physically hurt him in public (didn’t actually hurt him but it was the fact that i did it). it was humiliating on her end and the worst part of it was that i had no control of my emotions and i saw nothing wrong with it until she called me out. i don’t want to be abusive i don’t want to be physically aggressive and i just keep seeing my behaviour get worse as i get more comfy. maybe i’m just not meant to be in a relationship. i don’t know what to do.