She wants distance and isn't texting me much, which I did hurt her in the past so the logical side of me understands that maybe that's all she really wants, space to breathe. But the emotional side of me is assuming that she is just getting ready to break up with me (even though we still hang out once or twice a week) 
Our relationship was very codependent and we both agreed that in order for us to stay together we must gain some independence, but its hurting me a lot. I don't know if it would be better to stay in the relationship and try to build myself up at the same time or just bail and learn to be alone without her. I keep going back and forth based on her responses or mood that day, and its getting exhausting. I'm not sure what to do at all.