Life changes are not good for me. I go into a full panic meltdown, and try to run from whatever that change is. My fiance is 8 months pregnant. We chose it. We wanted it. But it suddenly started feeling real and the panic of "there is no escape" has begun. I love my partner so so much and would never leave. She also has anxiety about this and we have spent half the day in bed crying about how we had it so good and how this might be a mistake. Are our lives over? will our relationship stay as nice and comfortable as it was. I am so afraid that the anxiety will make my partner and myself not be able to bond with my baby, and never feel like there isn't some stranger in the house. Parents who had terrible anxiety, how did you cope, was it easier than you panicked about?