(sorry if this isn't the right flair) so i've never been diagnosed with bpd, since seeking help like that is kind of out of my reach right now, but i've been doing research on it for about a year and it seems to be getting more and more likely that i fit the diagnostic criteria.

anyway, i'm a college student (in my senior year now) and i've felt really alone in the nature of my struggles here. i start out the semester strong, but begin missing assignments because i'm overwhelmed with anxiety about them not being perfect, and then i start skipping classes because i think all my peers and professors are mad at me for missing assignments, and i end up failing/dropping/doing poorly in the class. and because i never have any consistent goals in life, it's hard to stay motivated to even fix the problem.

recently, in researching bpd i saw that this isn't an uncommon pattern. but most of the tips i've seen were aimed at teachers working with bpd students, not bpd students trying to cope with it.

so basically, i was wondering if any of you guys who've been through this kind of thing have any tips for graduating and making it through?