I met a guy 3 weeks ago on a night out. I thought we had a really good connection and he agreed. We met up again two days later and we had a great time, great chemistry and he definitely still agreed with me on that. He had to leave the next day (he lives in a different country, he was just on holiday) and he said we should stay in touch. We did stay in touch but it was mostly me initiating the conversation every time. But when he did write to me he either said the sweetest things and he seems like he genuinely means them, or he would just give me an emoji reaction after a day. I didn't spam him with messages, I would just try to keep the conversation going but I guess I felt like he wasn't interested and so I decided not to text him anymore. After 2 days of not talking he texted me saying he misses me and we started talking again but it was still mostly me trying to make conversation. He then called me at 5 am one day but I was sleeping. The next day he called me during the day and we talked for half an hour and then I called him in the evening and we talked for another hour. Over the phone he was very sort of loving and he made it very clear that he misses me and wants to see me and so on. I had to hang up and he said he doesn't want me to leave so I said we can talk tomorrow maybe and he loved the idea. The next day we had maybe one message back and forth. Then the next day I sent him a song that reminded me of him, he replied to that after a while but we didn't talk after that. Then the same evening I tried to call him but he didn't pick up. About 27 hours have passed since then and he hasn't said anything at all and 24 hours ago I decided not to open the app we talked on anymore. So I called him about 27 hours ago, no response since then, and I haven't opened the app for 24 hours. I feel so in love with him (I know I'm not in love or at least shouldn't be in love, I barely know him, but still... you know what I mean....) and I want him to want me but I can't tell what he wants. Over the phone he kept telling me he loves it when I text him and that I should keep writing to him. But then why doesn't he really respond..? So I guess this isn't doing me much good because I can't even sleep at this point. Just waiting and waiting stresses me out so much. I can't think of anything else just him but I feel so hopeless. What do I do? How do I stop myself from texting him when I want him so bad...
(I moved the app to a separate page on my phone so I don't mindlessly click on it all the time)