Got myself into a bad pickle. I saw the warning signs that he has an ed like me when we started dating, but now that my mental illness is spiraling its pulling is both down hard. We've both lost 10 pounds in the past 2 weeks. Following my mom's hospitalization and death ive lost all motivation to make sure we eat food. He tries from time to time to cook a meal or bring something home from works but it's usually just a snack (like a bowl of cereal or 4 chicken strips). We also both constantly weigh ourselvs and compliment our weight loss. The weight loss isnt intentional nor is the starving (but i do have a long history of starving on purpose) but it isn't unwelcomed.  And he's actually encouraging me to get us a gym membership. 

Im just feeling so weak and tired and all I've been eating is bacardi and taqitos. 

Hes 5' 11" and 131 pounds im 5' 3" 109 pounds