I'm 23F my partner is 22M I have a huge problem with feelings of inadequacy when it comes to my partner using porn, I worry that it means that I'm boring or losing his attraction toward me or fantasizing about these actresses. I want to be a better girlfriend and lessen his stress by finding ways to cope. I'm not here to be bullied about this insecurity, I'm completely aware of how irrational it is. I just want some honest insight on how I can manage these thoughts in a progressive way. My goal is to become unbothered by this issue but I have some trauma involving an ex using porn against me.