Someone I work with pulled me aside and we had a meeting at their house. She said she has bpd and thinks I have it. After a long conversation and some video evidence of me during a night out (explaining how I molded to peoples personalities and that’s why everyone in the workplace liked me, bc they all knew me differently, true.) (and an accidental sexual encounter with said person.) I know she’s right, but nobody can make me see a doc. This isn’t the first time in life I’ve been informed about this issue. It’s never been negative but people can tell I’m very unhappy and I refuse to admit it bc outwardly I’m outgoing and friendly to most.