My FP wBPD split on me again. Seems to happen every 6-8 weeks. I feel some relief to have a break, but also really sad. The avoidances usually last about a month. It's sad to see someone cycle through the splits and be convinced what they're feeling is based on something real. At least the splitting doesn't happen around a fight anymore, it's now clear to me even when things are going well on the outside, someone can suddenly go downhill. I don't know if they're coming back but probably, I hope. I also feel at peace whatever happens. It's weird to see this behavior in another person, but reinforces how it's not really based in what happens in a predictable way, just the whims of the BPD mind.