Has anyone ever done an in-patient program for their BPD? 

My partner and I got into a massive fight over the weekend over the dumbest thing ever and in hindsight I completely overreacted (shocking, right?). But he suggested that maybe I need to 'go away' to get help and what he meant was an intensive in-patient program where I go away and try to heal. My problem is I have a full-time job and we have a condo and bills that need to be paid. I'm just curious if anyone has any experience with this type of thing?