I have been dating a guy for almost a month now after leaving a 10+ year relationship 5 months ago.  Last night, we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend.  He treats me incredibly well!  I've been having a depressive episode and have been at a respite place this week.  I am happy he is my boyfriend, but I don't have the normal excitement of the beginning of a relationship.  Is he likely not right for me or is my depression /BPD not allowing me to feel the good feelings I'm used to?  Any advice is welcome and please ask questions if you need clarification.  I am feeling scattered so I may have left things out. 