I (21m) don’t feel like my relationship with (22f) is working anymore. The other day at work, I was just a tad sick coming off a cold I caught. Still groggy and fog brained, rambled some words that I thought was something romantic or whatever. As she constantly asked me what?. I repeated “idk” and at her last what with just enough of energy on a sore throat, exclaimed “idk, damn, fuck”. She naturally took it as “yelling” because of childhood trauma. I was frustrated as I was sick, and had no legitimate clue to where I was going in my sentence. Yet, she’s making me look like the bad guy. She gets to be mad as she says because I fucked up. It makes me question if she actually cares and loves me. There’s more I’m just reflecting, I’m not sure how I feel, she basically ignores me. Should I leave?