I want to be wit this guy but my family hates him, he acted out for a few months because his brother, bestfriend and 2 cousins ended up bein killed in a 5 month span, he doesn’t have a family and his friends killed his brother and we didnt spend time during this so he was mad and now my family think he violent idk what to do? Ive known him 6 years and this is the only time he’s ever acted out and that was 3 years ago but my family refuses to admit he was just grieving and keep putting me down for loving him still and im 20 years old about to be 21 but I want them to accept him. He’s never put his hands on me or even called me out my name, he never did nothing illegal. He just didn’t want to be by himself cause he felt like nobody was there to pick him back up he felt alone and now it’s getting to the point where I cannot stop stressing. I feel like what I want in life doesn’t matter to anyone else