Hello,im 19 (M)
I am working as a real estate agent in my country,recently got big cash a lot of times in last months due to ukrainian war,because of 150000 foreigners started living in our country.So i used this chance with before working as an agent.
Now, looking to last 2 months,i got 6K dollars as my salary in total,but at this very moment,i have empty pockets.i dont know where this money is headed,i cant manage spending money and also saving it.i use to spend it on useless things,such as like products and things which last for seconds or days and they are notbuseful for long term,especially food or some fun things.now,i have a girlfriend which i love and she does understand me when i say that i cant but something for her but i usually do make gifts often.but this is when im not low on cash.so the problem is in me.i cannot control my spending addiction when i need to save it for education,house and car buying plans.
Also,when i make an agreement and,lets say,i get 1000 dollars from it as a salary,i start to lower my dedication and motivation to continue working in the same flow and its like im freezing my work,like those thousand dollars are not getting more on top of it with other contract agreements and etc.like i stop working and just rest or do useless things ,wasting my time.and im stressing out because of that.
I do really am a hardworker i just seem to be off when i reach a low goal when actually i have plans waiting for me to be executed by money and etc.
I dont have no solutions and i need helo from yall and i need help.im seeking for help like im really begging for it.please help me people.