Heyy , I don't want to sound offensive I'm just asking for myself.

I've been diagnosed with bpd (8/8 symptoms) and I'm really worried that I won't be able to be a good parent for my kids because of explosive anger / self harm issues / identity- derealization -panic attacks and all the other \*fun\* stuff I get to deal with every day. It is hard for me to control all these shit . I don't know how to deal with all that when a child is involved . I know I should talk to my doctor and not on strangers on Reddit , but since you all here are familiar with BPD/BPD symptoms , and some of you are parents I need your opinion .

What are your thoughts about BPD and pregnancy , BPD and motherhood.

DISCLAIMER : 1) I don't want to offend anyone , I'm not saying that BPD and family don't go together , I just want to read your opinions

2) I'm not pregnant at the moment , but I have a super supportive partner and kids are in our plans one day