I am planning on getting breakfast with a co-worker tomorrow morning, and we haven't ironed out the details. We left it at "we'll text".

Do I text them first and allow myself to be super anxious? Do I call them so I can hear their tone of voice and not freak out at a little discrepancy in their texting tone?

Do I not reach out at all and let it eat me alive that they forgot and don't actually want to hang out with me?

The options are super!