So I told my boyfriend about my diagnosis.  We’ve been together over a year and it just never came up because I felt like I was “cured”. But we have been working on our relationship lately and being honest and open, so I told him. He accused me of hiding other things from him. And once he read up on BPD, said “it all made sense why I was a psycho” and that I’m delusional. He just kept throwing it in my face. What should I do? I don’t want to lose him but I can’t handle being treated like this.