I just read something about don't "perform" for the other party and try to entertain them where you constantly try to fill out the silence with this and that like there's a rush to make them like you where you might feel like a circus monkey in the long run. It's disingenuous.  

Maybe write #MentalHealthAwareness in your dating profile bio to get people who support the cause to match with you.

Have **goals** in life that you can share on your dating profile and on dates because dates will find you more attractive if you have that.

If you do your best on a date (treat the other party like you want to be treated) and get rejected and they don't make you feel good about yourself like "I respect the grind" then they're not good people and you shouldn't feel bad about it. 

If you don't have an education and only can work "dead end jobs" (damn I hate that term) a large chunk of people are not going to pick you. Don't get mad at that. That's how it goes. It can have something to do with being a stable person in life generally speaking that can afford a house down the line and provide for a family in a certain way... most want to live the high life away from economic worries. It can also have something to do with having similar interests... the higher educated the more likely there are similar interests. 

Please join the discussion.

[Look On The Bright Side Of Life](https://youtu.be/r0kvTBbBbbY)