So it's my SO birthday next week and I wanted to take him for a meal which he said no to because he didn't want to do anything 

Today I find out his family is planning on taking him for a meal which I haven't been invited to 

I said to him well what about me and he's like it's implied you'll be there

But his mum didn't mention me she mentioned everyone else including his brothers gf's and their kids everyone but me 

The thing that hurts is he didn't want to do anything wth me when I suggested it but he's ok going out with family 

I've been sat crying for ages because I feel like I'm unwanted by his family ( I have met them) 

And the fact he refuses to let me take him out for a meal too 

I know realistically it's not a huge deal but I just want to be accepted it's important for me to feel like I'm wanted by the only person I have in my life 