I don't know why it keeps happening. For so many hookups or dates I seem to get stood up or flaked on and it ruins my trust whenever I try to get back into dating. I'm not even upset that I'm not having sex, but I'm upset and offended that people act as if they can just be indirect with me and play with my feelings by telling me that something will happen and then when I go to check again a few hours before it happens, they just ghost. I guess it's my fault for searching for dates on Tinder so obsessively, maybe I Just need to take a break from it for a while. I just wish people would be honest and direct with me, it's not too much to ask, because when people aren't it just hurts my feelings.