So, I told my fp I didn’t want to talk anymore and need some advice. 

I met a guy last year online and we’ve been hanging out a lot this past summer. He would come by to cook for me, we’d watch movies, go out to dinner, etc. Things turned sexual pretty soon. I caught feelings and he told me he wasn’t looking for anything serious. That was rejection… which was a trigger. Weeks later I freaked out on him because he didn’t tell me that from the beginning. He lied and said he did. He didn’t, I would have remembered.

He used to text me everyday, then suddenly stopped. We would still hang out but he just wouldn’t talk to me. I think I pushed him away from the freak out. Then we stopped having sex (mutual agreement). 

Then I saw him post on his sc story that he was on a date, which pissed me off. This all made me go into a depression honestly. I was so excited to not be alone anymore when he never felt the same, just acted like it.

I KNOW I pushed him away, but I still felt abandoned. I made the decision to cut off all contact because I am obsessed with him. I would hope he’d text me or want to hang out and if he didn’t I would be disappointed. I feel like he was a great friend, but I feel like he led me on.

Was I wrong to send him away?