Hi, here’s a rant. My brother has not been diagnosed but I believe he has BPD. He refused to go to therapy yet told me he felt something was off with him for a decade. He shows all the symptoms and matches the DSM for BPD to the tea. He has been this way his whole life, I really noticed it when he was 15+ and he is almost 30 now. We live in different countries now so I hardly see him! When I talk to him on the phone it breaks my heart because he sounds so erratic &amp; then depressed &amp; then defensive. I love him &amp; I just want to see him love himself &amp; feel comfortable in his own skin. He said he finally started therapy this week for the 1st time ever but he disagrees with everything the therapist says. I’m just not sure how to show my support to him anymore. It’s hard because I just want to see him feel better &amp; happy &amp; be able to manage his symptoms but I’d never want to make him feel like something is wrong with him because that’s not true &amp; I can imagine how scary it must be. Any suggestions on how to approach it or what to say that is encouraging &amp; helpful? Thanks so much. -A worried and optimistic little sister.