What's everyone's opinion on hoovering? Do you ignore it or respond politely but short? 

I asked for space because he hurt me deeply and I only got an apology for what he did on his last text to me. He never apologizes to me for anything, and I had to ask for space to get one. 🙄 I didnt respond because I'm just so tired of having to justify how I feel to these toxic people I seem to attract. Its only been like 2 weeks, but he randomly "reminds" me to update my shipping address on a subscription because he got a shipment delivered to my old place. Is this harmless or just narc hoovering? I'm trying to not be so black and white in my thinking, but that's hoovering right? I think it is, because now I feel like a bad person for not wanting to answer. 😅