I have a co-worker/friend who I am almost certain that I am her FP (based on what I’ve read and what I’ve experienced). We began casually seeing each other in the beginning of our relationship and after about three months she started to distance herself to the point where we are just friends. I’m totally ok with just being friends, but when we talked about seeing other people, she would say something like “You should” followed by “just know that that would ensure that nothing would happen between us in the future.” Long story short, a few months of this passed and I didn’t start seeing anyone else, just out of respect only to find out that she’s been dating someone for the past two months and kept it a secret from me.  I was obviously pissed and reacted as such but honestly, I know she can’t help it and I want both of us to be happy, whatever that means. I understand on an intellectual level that things are complicated and would like to remain friends with her and start dating someone else. Has anyone encountered something like this? Any advice would help.