When something's wrong, people just won't tell you, and I hate that. It feels like I do 90% of the legwork in every relationship and friendship, while the other person gives the bare minimum to communication. I can't tell if it's normal or not; when I take a little bit to get back to someone, I'll usually let them know that I'm busy and can't text back right away, or at least tell them what's up. But others seemingly just don't care, they'll leave me waiting for sometimes days, and just pick up the conversation as if no time had passed. I can't tell if that's just a normal thing, but it's quite literally emotionally devastating. I'll sit around wondering what went wrong, how I must've fucked up somehow, only for them to either come back a day later like nothing happened, or just not say anything. Or just leave you on read for hours and never say anything back at all, leaving me wondering if I should text again or just shut up for days on end. 

I'm really confused and frustrated right now and I feel awful.