so my fp was someone i dated for 2 months in late 2020 but i was still extremely attached to him afterwards,but he had a gf and we would still talk but then he ghosted me. i was distraught for like a week and i cried to another guy about it and opened up to him and told him everything. 

i messaged him about 40 minutes ago and he still hasn’t replied and i’m now crying. i’ve just realised he’s now become my new favourite person. i was wondering why i got over my old fp so quickly. 

i’m absolutely terrified and i can’t keep putting myself through this it absolutely destroys my mental health.