My ex partner has BPD and we were doing really well. She kept fighting to keep us together but she ended up losing the battle. I am highly devastated since her and I have an amazing bond. 

It seems like shes not over the breakup because talking to me makes her have intense emotions because it makes her feel like we are in a relationship.  She wants to wait and perceive me as a friend.

It seems like she replaced me with another friend relatively quick like a rebound relationship. Its not a relationship its just a close friend? The dude lives 5 states away and is doing everything her and i used to do together except online with this guy.

Can someone give me some insight?