I (24f) know what it sounds like but it’s not like what it is . My gf (25f) likes to keep her hands in her pants randomly , playing with her public hair or with it kinda . i’m honestly not sure . it’s random and whenever we’re just laying down . there’s no sexual vibe from it or context around it whenever she does it . i’m not sure why she does and i know i should ask and figure out what she’s doing but this is why it makes me so fucking uncomfortable. i was in a previous relationship where they would masturbate beside me without my knowledge or begrudgingly whenever i didn’t want to have sex . i hated it . it made me so uncomfortable and and so much anxiety , i would cry bc i didn’t feel enough  . i know i shouldnt apply that to this different relationship but i just don’t know how to approach her about this in  a way that’s not weird to mention . i have a lot of sexual trauma and sexual behavior in a non sexual context makes me extremely uncomfortable.