I'm back to college, I'm in mid 30s and I'm constantly questioning myself and this happens with the tutors and it's making me worry that I have this constant mindset they don't like and that I'm fucking stupid.

Then, I won't answer a question and what I had in my head was actually the answer they wanted...and I'm like, FUCKING HELL!!!! When I answer it's not what they want, when I don't answer, the answer I have in my head was what they want. It's like there's no winning.

Any thoughts or help?