I have a friend who, when we get into an argument, always blames himself. He’ll say things like “I know I’m stupid, I always do the wrong things. I don’t blame you for being mad at me” and it bugs me. It makes me feel guilty, and I always assure them that it isn’t true and I apologize even though in the first place, I wasn’t in the wrong. I hate him a little bit when he blames himself which makes me hate myself too cause what if he’s going through something and I’m being unreasonable? Does that make sense?