I am 17 and I go to a community therapist and have been through a lot of hospitals and none of them suggest that I have BPD. Once my therapist asked if I thought I had a list of mental disorders like depression, anxiety and others. He asked if I thought I had a personality disorder and I said idk. He then chuckled a bit and said it was a trick question and that I didn't have a personality disorder. I have done research and I know I have at least 8/9 of the DSM symptoms. The diagnosis makes sense to me, but no one else sees it? Do community pediatric therapists not diagnosis BPD? Am I in the wrong, what can I do to get better? How do I tell my therapist he is wrong?