For context, my husband's a truck driver so I get to see him very little. He spent the night here, and I had a panic attack after a nightmare. I became very irritated that he just brushed it off and turned to the other side. From there it escalated and we both said some pretty hurtful things. 

What can I realistically ask from him? I just want support while I'm going trough this... but he says he won't because I'm having an attitude... I swear I'm just going trough an anxiety attack, I need help and I understand that the stuff I say is upsetting, but can't he just let go and understand that I'm going trough something out of my control? 

What can I realistically ask from him? Should I just learn that I'm gonna have to deal with them on my own? I usually do, but I thought with him it would be easier...