my SO and I recently had a fight and I had to sleep at my moms house for 5 days and we didn’t talk. those days were awful, I was vulnerable as hell and told her details about our relationship and the gist of it is that I’m the abusive one in our relationship. we got back together a few days ago and it’s been great again, and we are moving forward with our plans we had previous of the fight, and we are moving to a different city 4 hours from our town. I told her this and she said: 

her: wow eh you’re staying? after he calls you abusive? I don’t get it 

this made me pretty mad, considering she only recently broke up with her on again off again abusive bf of 5 years who’s a twat and physically and verbally assaulted me. I wanted to scream at her soooo bad but our relationship is finally good again and I didn’t want to ruin that by saying something that would piss her off/hurt her feelings so I just said that I love her and I hope she can support me eventually. 

she hasn’t responded yet, lmao I think she might be surprised bc last year I would probably responded by yelling and other unsavoury things. I’m not usually super level headed with this kinda stuff but I’m just glad I guess I didn’t react in i way I would regret because I love being on speaking terms with my mom lol