Major judgments ahead  


How do I not do this, and if we don't frame it like this, is it possible to stop doing it? I think I do this a bit myself, and I think it's unhealthy, I also think attaching a label to it makes it a lot worse. I see people running about talking about "My FP" and I always think "Yo, can we stop validating this as a thing and instead work against it?" -- I also notice that I kind of do it myself regardless. I just want to totally smash it as a concept entirely.