I went on a second date with someone I met on Tinder today. I was telling him about my friend, and how she dates a lot of people and breaks up with them because she gets bored easily. And he told me “she sounds borderline.”

This is why I don’t tell people that I have BPD. Because they attribute behaviors like this to the disorder, and honestly of everyone I’ve talked to on here and irl with BPD none of them would engage in something like this. We attach to people, we don’t move on fast like the friend I described.

Not sure how I want to proceed with him. I logically know that I could never have a serious relationship with him because I would walk on eggshells about my disorder, but he has been nice to me and I’ve been good about not attaching myself. He wants to see me again. I don’t know what would be healthiest. Ugh why did I have to have this stupid disorder