It hasn't happened yet, but I have extremely high anxiety about my future in-law living with us full-time sometime in the future. I even pray that he gets married to ANYONE before then so he won't have to live with us. I feel selfish but I just don't want him to live with us every day and do everything with us. I talked to my fiance about needing to have time for just us when that happens and he didn't seem to be on board and just said that he would have to go everywhere with us (vacation, seeing my family, etc.). I just feel like I'll see my family on weekends when my fiance is off work so that I can just go by myself. This in-law has some memory issues but can work and should be able to live on his own but he chooses not to and chooses to act incompetent so that people do everything for him. He has no desire to be independent even though he could be. I know this is everywhere but I have to get it out. I just took some anxiety meds (organic from Amazon) and I just need to vent a little. I love my fiance enough to deal with all this (this in-law has been here about 6 months out of the last year - 2 weeks a month) but I know it's going to be frustrating sometimes.