I hope this isn't against the rules, but I thought maybe a group chat (Skype, kik, etc) might offer a safe haven for venting, general conversation, and feel good talks as well. 

As we're all aware, a big part of BPD is how alone you feel in the world. We're all surrounded by people who don't understand us, and maybe a group chat of people who can come and go as they please might share a sense of unity within the community? Or is this a bad idea? 