I'm with my crush. When I met him after a while I felt attracted to him and his personality. I remember I wanted to be with him so much.

Then I texted him, after a while we met and then there was a kiss, sex after a few weeks etc...it evolved. We are not together yet, he didn't want to for various reasons, and now I think this is a good thing considering my actual feelings.

The issue is that now my feelings for him are not here like before (we met 6 months ago now). I don't feel love for him anymore. I do like him tho, not only we have sex but we talk, share things...I like our conversations. but there are not strong feelings.

Except when I'm apart and don't see him. Then I feel sad and bad because I miss him and want to see him. I think about him. When I get his texts I feel excited, happy.

Then when we get together all the excitement disappears. I can't even feel sexual arousal when together or I feel it but not very intense (when we are apart I do when thinking about him).

It's like when I'm by myself I miss him, but when we meet and spend time together after a while I want to detach from him and I can't feel a thing for him when together.

I only had 1 ex and it was a few months story so I don't know if this could be because I know this guy for a longer time. But 6 months are not a long time...