Hi! 
I’ve been diagnosed with BPD for about four year but have known it myself for a lot longer. I have this insane identity crisis that has been going on for about 16 years. I’m now 26 and still don’t know who I am. 
This covers every part of my life, and what I want changes from day to day so it’s impossible to get somewhere in life. There may be small things like not behind able to decide which hair color I want to not knowing what I want to work with. I have a really hard time buying clothes since I one day love it and feel like this is totally my style and the next day I hate it and don’t know what I was even thinking. 
I can’t decide on a career path for life since I change my mind every week. 

How do I get past this, is it even possible? I just want to know who I am and how to live.. I want to be able to make decisions that I’ll be happy with three weeks from when I make them. 

TL;DR: I don’t know who I am and can’t seem to make decisions about my life since my dreams and goals change every few days. How do I get past this?