I've been casually seeing this guy for the past month and he is really sweet and was cool when I finally told him about having BPD. He is really great about randomly validating me by saying things like "I really like spending time with you" or "You're a really cool person." But despite all this reassurance, I can't silence all those thoughts thinking what if he doesn't like me or being worried he will find out something that will make him want to stop seeing me. How do yall cope with fear of abandonment?