My therapist tells me " when you want to change, let me know "

And that really pissed me off. Like why else would I come to therapy if I didn't want to change? 

She is just unable to help me and calls it me not wanting to change. Like wtf. I feel like it's all a scam. 

I told her I want to change but I don't think you can help me. So she doesn't bother. But I want her to try to help me it just doesn't work.