I have a nasty little habit of cruising tinder.  I match with people, have weird conversations,  sometimes arrange to meet; and then disappear off the face of the Earth.   
It passes the time.  

As a side note I'm currently a ball of feelings for someone else in my life and the shit storm that's created has left me unwilling to look that reflection on the mirror.  The tinder thing is a good distraction.  



Then I matched with this person and the conversation is nothing thrilling but they are a lot of things that I like.  

There's danger here.  I don't know how to proceed.