ive been talking to this girl for about 9.5 months and things have been magical and wonderful. we both have some major things in life to sort out before we can take the next step into officiating things but for the most part, we are loyal to each other sexually and emotionally(more on leaning for emotional support later). we have confessed to each other our love and appreciation for one another again and again. however, for the past few weeks she has been spending more time with an online friend that she devotes time to everyday more than with me. im unsure if im in the wrong for feeling the way i am. im happy she made new friends who bring her happiness and an easier time getting through the day.  but since meeting this one new friend she has been spending way less time with me, talking differently with me(less discriptive and less emotional/serious convos) and texting me back slower and later. im unsure if im just letting my insecurities getting the best of me, idk if i was just conditioned into this lifestyle with her around 24/7 (covid may have been a factor), idk if this is something that can become something else. im just very unsure and confused about where our relationship is at right now. recently a situation arised where she had caught feelings for someone but disconnected with them immediately, she also admitted to being less interested in me and also thought maybe the feelings for the other person arose bc of the new shiny toy/boredom factor. after the conversation where all that was exposed she said she didnt want any of that but wanted me and wanted to fix things but it doesnt seem like shes trying like she should be. she has also been neglecting her priorities since meeting this new friend. but one night when i couldnt get her to talk about what was bothering her, her new friend was able to get it out of her and help her with good advice when i couldnt, all i got from her is idk why im feeling this way. could it have been because shes more willing and comfortable to talk to him and not me? idk. she just told me he somehow was able to get it out of her and help her figure out what was bothering her and how to deal with it.  Am i losing her interest and love? am i just overreacting, if so how do i stop being so insecure about this/cope? please advise &lt;3