Hello everyone! My (27m) wife (27f) was recently officially diagnosed with BPD, but it's something we've known for awhile. She grew up in a bad situation and always had some issues that we've dealt with. Our first few years of marriage were pretty typical: lots of love, some fights, but we always reconciled. However we had a little girl 18 months ago. She's the light of our lives, but my wife has gotten worse and worse since then.

A few months ago she tried to kill herself by overdosing on her antidepressants. Luckily, the kind she was on were the kind that are "safe" to do that with, so she was released from the ER with no lasting effects. But since then she swings rapidly from calm to angry. She picks fights over nothing and on a near weekly basis. She's been going to therapy regularly, but it doesn't seem to be helping.

I'm just at my wit's end with our relationship. We've been together almost 5 years and our marriage has become a toxic mess. If it was just me I would have left already, but I have my daughter to think about. I am a college student, and my part-time job isn't enough to support myself and my kid. I just don't know what to do.