i’m so sorry for this super long post i just had to let it out and tysm in advance :) basically i met this guy on reddit on my other account a few months ago and we really grew to be friends and talked every day even when we both had school and talked about everything it was really nice and i never had anything like this online before but he did move fast at first and said he liked me cause idk i am just flirty ig but i didn’t lead him on any further and said it was a bit too much for me and that i don’t think online relationship is a good idea and that i prefer taking things slow and whilst this was going on he said he was texting a girl from the us and then some time after i guessed and i was right they were “dating” online i was obv hurt and sad cause i grew to have feelings for him finally and i felt betrayed and then like a few weeks later he was rlly sad (yes i managed to be here for him whilst he hurt me when i was feeling depressed already with school and other things in my life) and he actually apologised for being a hypocrite cause he said they broke up and i was so nice about it and told him i was there for him and then we just talked as normal and after a week he was okay again. then we both were all cute like before but then he said he still had feelings for the other girl and i got so mad at him cause a day before i straight up asked him and he said no he loves me. anyway we kinda resolved it idk why i am so nice but i basically just pretended i wasn’t hurt and kepy talking normally. fast forward to the day before yesterday he asked me how i was and i said sad and he didn’t even care to ask or be concerned and said haha and hehe. the next day he wished me happy birthday and said he &lt;3 me and its the least i deserve i said thank u and today we talked but his responses are so slow he said sorry about it but hes so dry all of a sudden and its prob cause the other girl but im just so confused why hes not making an effort and why he doesnt care i’m just so sad because i was here for him when he hurt me. it sounds toxic and i learned that you should never talk to someone who is still healing from a breakup or from their ex. ive made it clear before that i dont deserve to be treated like a second option and that is says enough if he cant choose between her. this is exactly why online relationships are a scam since its ur actual feelings and effort u put into something. i also just really need him here for me and he knows that it just sucks cause now i’m alone again and i dont even know why hes not responding? is it because i got mad before? surely not cause he said we resolved it.. ugh now its just another reason for sadness and idk if i will ever believe in online relationships again. i just want to be loved and just a friend that really cares not someone that says they do and then their actions show different and he made excuses for why he doesn’t want to call when he did call he us girl like wtf theres nothing wrong with me? i am 100% sure that he will come back sooner or later but idk if it wil ever be the same cause he wasn’t there for me when i needed someone. i’m just so sad about this because we had such a nice connection lie what happened? thank you if anyone takes the time to respond to my rant &lt;3