My FP is another woman that I’ve been in an FWB relationship with for three years. We both have BPD (although it manifests very differently, except sexually) and it was a constant cycle of receiving their affection, then having them split and ignore me for months. 

2 months ago, she sent me texts calling me pathetic, crazy, threatened a restraining order, and telling me to get help to deal with my emotions for her. This was in response to a message telling her how much her actions affect me and that I don’t understand why she keeps coming back if she hates me.

Last night she texted me that I keep showing up in her dreams and apologized for how she’s treated me. At first I was ecstatic that she’s thinking about me, now I just feel so sad. I want to respond but I know that in a week, she’ll be treating me the way she did before.