I have been with my husband for 15 years. His mom side of the family have always been terrible: gossiping about others, making comments that they are better than others, belittling my husband for anything he does, manipulating, lying, treating others like garbage. My husband has great relationship with his dad and his family. But, his dad passed away November 2021 and it’s been hard. His mom and dad always had issues because she was always spying on dad and tracking his phone. He knew about it and always left his phone because he hated feeling like he had no life. All she did was fight with him and talk crap about him to his own family. Painting herself as a good wife and making it seem like he treats her wrong. His family tell him treat your wife well you know she’s good to you. My father in law had a very strong character but he was sweetest kindest man you ever met. He was abused as child which is why he had strong character. Before his last few weeks, his dad was in the hospital for a whole month and his mom would go see and go through his things while he asleep. One day he noticed she was going through his things and told her she is not allowed to come back. So she called my husband complaining about his dad saying he’s treating me terrible and I can’t believe it. That she can’t keep doing this. His dad passed away and the first week everyone was calling each other making sure they are okay. But it’s been a month now since his passing and my husband is having panic attacks. No one calls to see how he is doing and he’s feeling so alone. I remind him that I am here for him and that he shouldn’t be hard on himself. Honestly before his dad passed his family never called him to see how he doing they belittle him. It hurts because he says he is losing the will to live. I want to help him