Myself and my partner have been through a lot in our relationship due to my BPD. I am currently trying to deal with it without any support from GP’s etc, however I currently feel as though my partner thinks every emotion is an episode? I feel like I can’t openly be upset about something my partner has done which I feel is completely rational, without him concluding that it is down to an episode. I truly adore everything about him, but I’m now struggling to separate validated emotional responses with invalidated ones? I can’t tell whether I’m completely in the wrong now consistently or not. I am subconsciously trying to make more of an effort to think before I let my emotions go (bc they come super quickly) but I feel as though I can’t be upset about something genuine without it being put down to an episode. Has anyone else experienced this?