It’s kind of complicated to explain everything but basically me and this guy met hung out once or twice and then hooked up. I noticed he was acting a bit different after we hooked up and confronted him. Long story short I stopped talking to him. Well now two weeks later he’s been messaging me again, we talked on the phone finally for two hours he told me he was sorry he was just scared and all these different things. I still have my guard up cause I don’t want to get hurt but I’m all honesty he’s never really done anything wrong (that I know of, I just don’t fully trust him). Anyways I thought we were going to hang out tonight but he said I told him I wasn’t sure cause I’m sick (which now that I think about it probably is true) so he’s saying tonight he has plans to watch a movie with his dad. I told him I didn’t believe him( and idk why I don’t I just don’t). And I asked him if he would snap me tonight. He says he shouldn’t have to prove he isn’t lying. Which he is right… he shouldn’t have too. But then my mind tells me he’s just saying that cause he’s lying. He also was just with his dad all last night. Idk what to think. Am I just being crazy or do I not believe him cause my intuition is picking up on something? This type of shit always ruins things for me and idk if it’s my bpd or what.