Long story short, the guy I was just seeing (who was a friend) has my gun. I asked him to keep it for me for awhile for certain reasons. 

Not only are those reasons no longer existent. But we have broke up, and I’m not sure where we stand as friends as he pulls the fucking silent treatment on me when shit it’s the fan. He just straight up stops responding/ texting me. 

Our last exchange of text was over 2 weeks ago. 

I sent him about 50 texts. I got like 2 responses from him, and nothing after the like last 40 text. One of which was, “ I want my gun back ASAP and you need to pick up your tax papers, so you can be done with me”. He never responded. 

No text on Thanksgiving. Fine. But my birthday is in less than a week and I don’t think I can handle this limbo and not get a text from him on my bday is going to devastate me, as just the thinking about it alone is giving me anxiety. 

So I don’t know what to do. I’ve brushed off the anger and impulse to text him. But I swear it’s intensity is increasing each time it comes back and as my bday nears. 

I’ve considered sending many text: 

Bitch mode: I’ve already ask for my gun so if I don’t have it back by today I’m calling the cops. 

/

Since you’re already ignoring me and my bday is soon and I know I’m already having a hard time with this rejection now, I don’t think I can face it on my bday, so give me my gun back as I’ve asked or I’ll get the cops involved. 

Calm mode: are we able to have conversation in person? 

Or do I call him? 

I’m becoming more and more irate by the moment... 

And for over 2 weeks I have managed this BS of mine... I’m ready to just have an answer to this fucked yo relationship of ours, even if it’s just friends. 

I’m also terrified to reach out for fear of him not responding (rejection) that’s why I’m also making treats about the cops with my gun, to get his attention. I don’t want to have to do it. And I don’t think it will come to that....

Suggestions people, please?!