I made this account recently. Might not be able to reply to comments. Me and my ex broke up about 6 weeks ago. Together for 6 years. Married for 4. And we have a child together. She's broken up with me numerous times over the years. And there was almost always another man involved during the course of our break ups that pretty much never lasted more then 3 or 4 weeks. This times a little different and I'm a little worried. 

She moved on immediately after the break up. Which honestly I'm used to. But it's ramped up quite a bit. She's been with him just over a month, planning on moving in together, and she's actively trying to get pregnant. Since I've met her she seems to have a small episode every 4 to 6 weeks. And every 6 to 12 months it's a much larger, world turning upsidedown event. 

Her and I (moreso me) really started digging into what bpd is during our last breakup about 4 months ago. She was going to start working on herself but didn't follow through. Shes throughly convinced what she's doing is in no way bpd related, she won't regret it and knows what she's doing. But she's always said that. I've been trying to be as supportive in what she's up to as much as I can but I'm afraid she's spiralling out of control and I'm just letting it happen. 

I mean she does seem happy. And I know there's nothing I can actually do. I don't even know what I'm looking to get out of this post because I'm pretty powerless in making her see things from the outside looking in. But at the same time it seems like enough time has come and gone and if it was another episode she would have snapped out of it by now. She's been pretty consistent the last 6 weeks minus a couple unexpected behaviors. I just want her to be ok and not ruin her life.