Borderline personality disorder is something I’ve been struggling with for as long as I can remember. And one thing I’ve noticed that’s really effecting me is my inability to set boundaries and to let people treat me badly due to my horrific abandonment issues. I cannot stand the feeling of a break up and the abandonment, and anxiety that comes with it, it feels like constant anxiety 24/7 after a break up and the pain is almost unbearable. I recently found out My s/o has been cheating on me and as badly as I know I need to leave, the feeling of abandonment and being alone is too strong. I’m battling in my head every single day and it’s a living hell and along With being constantly cheated on by someone you are completely and utterly in love with It is a feeling I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Is there any tips and strategies anyone uses to help get rid of the extreme fear of abandonment? Any advice would be helpful. Positive and motivational quotes are welcome as well 😊