So I have had long hair my whole life. My parents never wanted me to cut it because it was “so long and beautiful” but now that I’m 26 I have been thinking about cutting my almost waist length hair to a pixie cut style...

But I am having some HUGE anxiety about it. I have never had short hair and now I have all this anxiety and worries about it...

I’m worried I will look stupid, I’m worried my boyfriend won’t like it and will lose interest, I’m scared I won’t be “beautiful” anymore and I’m scared that I will hate myself for it.

I have an issue with people pleasing that it’s literally preventing me from making my own personal decision about my own hair!!!

Any tips to just go and do it without letting the anxiety and crazy BPD thoughts get to me??