How many of you have full time employment,  and live on their own.  Just basically independent?  I was wondering because for some reason I can't have one or the other,  or even both at the same time. I know it seems very confusing but I have trouble  keeping  a job. This messes with me having my own place and so on.  At my age I'd love to be where I should be but I tend to regress back to being a child and needed help all the time.