I'm super sorry if this is the wrong flair!! Please tell me if so


So, my boyfriend and I are both going to poland next sunday (not this sunday). The thing his, we don't go together, he goes to visit his family and I'm gonna go visit mine. Which is fine so far.


But the thing is, he's planning to stay for only one week, while I want to stay for at least two.
He has vacation days from work for three weeks starting today, so we're gonna spend the next week together. Then the next week we're both in poland, and he has another week of free days. 


He is always completely wrecked when I'm on vacation in poland. It's already bad if we don't spend enough time during the week together. He gets upset, feels bad, and his depression gets worse. When I'm in Poland, it gets even worse, and our relationship is always at risk whenever I go. Yes, we know it's unhealthy.


I was anticipating this vacation since weeks now. I go there every year, and I always use it to relax from my terrible real life here where I live. But I'm always worried right before that, because I KNOW our relationship is at risk during that time. I know he's suffering from that, badly. I can understand it and I want to accomodate. But I also want to stay in Poland for two weeks, not one. One is just enough. And the past months were hell.


Sadly, he doesn't want to come visit my family in Poland, so him "coming over" there isn't an option either. I 


Is it bad if I insist on going there for two weeks, even if reaction is that strong? Am I a bad person for this? I just want to relax before the new semester of university starts and hell begins anew. But I also don't want my boyfriend to suffer. 