My fp has a tendency to treat me hot/cold. Ofcourse the hot days are amazing. Lots of attention which means I thrive but the cold days are agony. Left on seen, short replies and one thing that I am noticing is that I am questioning his explanations to why he's having a bad day. Does this sound familiar to any of you ?? In my mind he just doesn't want to talk to me so he's made up excuses to ignore me and he's probably talking to someone else. Dealing with this every single day is exhausting. I don't dare to ask him about it because I'm afraid he's going to abandon me (which I am already convinced he's going to do soon). Does anyone else have any tips on how to deal with this. I am starting therapy in January but I need to be able to maybe just not care about fp until then.