Why do people need to beat around the bush? Like for example, if you want someone to leave your house and they've been stayin a while, people will be like "oh got anything busy to do today?" or similar things. But I could never tell if this is a genuine conveesation or their way of saying "hey bud please head out". It makes reading a lot of social cues so hard because so many things could have a double meaning. Especially when I don't know their motives enough to trust them. Why can't people just be real?