Well i know is is normal in woman that have BPD (not everyone) but i don't know what to do, personally i love it I'm not gonna lie, I'm very dominant and controlling in bed and outside of bed, i love doing the slapping, spanking, spitting, hair pulling, you get the point and i have never let those actions leave the bedroom, i have never been an abuse boyfriend, I'm a very sweet and kind 21 year old.

Always been attached to her you know, like that type of boyfriend that just kisses her every time and spoils her, i don't let her breath hahahaha, so i really wish that my bed actions don't change me. Yes I'll probably become more dominant but i should never cross the line.

Is important to know that she has never been violated or forced to have sex with anyone in her past so she doesn't have that trauma which is good, if she did have it it would be wrong for me to dominate her like that, it would probably fuel her trauma (if she had it)

My question is what should i do, because we both want it but we don't know if is going to affect her BPD in any negative way.

HELP PLIS