We've been dating for almost two months now, and it's going fairly well with only a few bumps along the way. He keeps telling me that he wants to learn more about BPD from an objective standpoint. I know of many books about the disorder, but I am not sure which one I should recommend he read first to full explain it to him. I was thinking of "Borderline Personality Demystified" or "Sometimes I Act Crazy". Does anyone have any other recommendations instead? If not, which of those two do you think he should read?