I have been hooked on a dude for almost 6 years and have been completely unable to move on from him, regardless of him barely talking to me for the entire length of time. We had sex the first time we hung out, hung out and had sex again the next day, and from that moment on I was hooked. We’d hook up every few months until he found someone else. He’s always kept me on the hook by saying things like “this one seems like it’s going to be for the long haul.. but you know me, one day at a time.” The last 6 years have consisted of me messaging him almost daily, thinking about him daily, and 99% of the time he does not reply or even look at my messages. Years ago, before I even knew about BPD or the concept of an FP I literally messaged and told him “You’re my favorite person”. Because he is, that sums it up exactly, like despite rarely talking to me he’s just this person that can do no wrong and I have so much care and love for. He’s had 3 girlfriends in the time I’ve known him, has a serious girlfriend now, but I just cannot move on. How did you get past your FP? Or have you?