My boyfriend was driving us to lunch today and for some reason the way he breaks gives me motion sickness. 

He was on his phone texting and came really close to hitting a car today and for some reason I really felt like gagging. 

So for the first time, I decided to let him know that the way he breaks makes me feel sick. 

I said it in a calm and even keeled tone/loving way and explained what about it makes me feel like throwing up.

He then out of no where while I wasn’t paying attention — does a hard break and because the break was really sudden and hard (he has a sports car) the seatbelt like genuinely hurt my chest area and I looked and him and was like “dude what the hell?”

He goes, is that how you’d rather have me break? I was like “that is not okay for you to do to try and prove a point” 

He goes “I was trying to be funny don’t make things up in your head and start blaming me for how you felt about the situation” 

I WASNT YELLING OR THROWING A TANTRUM 
Sure, I was slightly irritated and annoyed.

But when he told me I was making it up, I completely lost my shit in my head. 

I said “are you seriously going to deny that you weren’t just trying to prove a point?” And I honestly can’t remember what he said but it was something along the lines of “I didn’t do anything wrong” 

So I just looked out the window the rest of the way and when we got to the restaurant I was just quiet the entire time. 

He tried making small talk and then even started giggling at me and when I asked what he was laughing at he said “nothing, do I have to have a reason to laugh?” 

And I was just utterly shocked and said “you’re right you’re perfect and never do anything wring and I’m the one that just always makes things up.” 

Obviously I was being passive aggressive at that point but I genuinely feel like when I am direct about how I feel he acts like he’s not wrong! 

So then we got into the car and he very sternly says “don’t ever disrespect me like that in public ever again” 

WHAT 

AND NOW IM THE ONE WHO IS WRONG 

that just fueled me even more and I went on to pick a completely different fight later that was totally unrelated.

I’m so fucking annoyed 

And I don’t even know if I’m wring for being upset or for saying what I did -.- 

Please help