Hi, I'm new to this subreddit but I thought it would be good to ask for advice here. My partner of over a year has depression and is on meds for it and in therapy. He struggles getting out of bed and going to sleep. My awake hours of the day usually include being awake from 4am to 9pm, and those are usually his asleep or resting hours. When he gets days off it's impossible to do anything together except stay home and sleep. I try and go out on my own when I don't see him to not feel dependent on him for activities, but he feels bad that he can't get up and do anything when we have days together. I want to be supportive and I told him I'm not angry and I love him and we can figure it out. He supports me living life independently of him on our days together, but I would love for him to feel like he could join me instead of sleep all day. It's at the point where I get up and do stuff without him and I don't see how he doesn't feel excluded. Is this normal for depression? Is something else going on? What can I do for him?