I'm with my current partner. We've been together for 3 years. She's a pretty girl, funny and gets my humour I get hers . I was crazy attracted to her when we first me, but after a couple of months of dating I noticed a few things that confused me. 

She told me she had BPD after a HUUUUGE  blow up we had a few months ago. I'm not sure what to do with our relationship.

 Constant fighting and then instant affection. Walking on eggshells, always watching what I say, she mostly demands me to do things she wants me to do.She refused to go seek help, therapy, meds anything but I pushed her the other day. She's still really adamant in that she doesn't wanna go. She Says it does nothing for her.

There's a million other things. Anyone else in the same boat and wanna chat? Idk. I'm just confused and if someone wants to have a chat I'm open...