My girlfriend got diagnosed with BPD a while ago. I'm in a relationship with her for almost three years now. She is the most wonderful person i've ever met, and thats why I really want to help her. I know I can't "cure" her illness, or make it magically "disappear" - but I really want to do my best to make her as happy as I can and be as supportive as I can. And sometimes thats really challanging. 
When we fight she gets very emotional and sometimes the smallest things, like a discussion if we should order burgers or pizza for lunch, is enough to make her feel very bad, to a point where she wont speak for the rest of the day. Because of that I always fear I could hurt her, which leads to that I just agree with everything she says, so we dont get in a fight over something stupid. Sometimes its just taking all of my strength to try to stay positive and brighten up her day, sometimes I feel like I can't help her enough. 
She tried therapy, but after a few appointments she forgot one and was so emberassed that she didn't want to go there ever again.

Do you have any advice/ideas what I can do to help her the most? She deserves to be happy so much.


(I'm posting this to /r/bpd and /r/mentalHealth, because I don't really know where it belongs. Oh and sorry for my english..) 
