So, I met this girl (24) I’m 27yr old Male on Tinder. Really cool girl. 
Went on a couple of dates. She was very keen and very interested in me.

On our third date she wanted to make plans to go on vacation with me in November.

On the 2nd month. She revealed that she has depression, attempted suicide when she was young and was on medication.

Kept an open mind, proceeded to see each other every weekend. For 3 months.

4/5th month decided we needed to spend time with friends so only saw each other 2/3 weekends.

We went on vacation together in two different countries for two weeks.

But, when we got back from said vacation. She expressed that her depression was getting worse (Due to a sudden crisis and fear of her future).

Only seen her once on after vacation, for a date which she almost blew me off.

I tried not to take it personally and I’ve been there for her. Gave her some space whilst checking in.

Texts were cold. Only spoke to me out of convenience. A full 180.

Then had a mini breaking point where I asked to go on a city break next week since it’s been 3 weeks since we spent a weekend. 

I expressed that quality time is important to me and it would be nice to spend some time.

She then goes “I don’t want a relationship or anything tbh. So I don’t think we should talk anymore.”

Even though we were just planning a trip to an island on November and October. Like, last week.

I then said “okay, I understand”. “I want to be here and I don’t want to give up” and “I wish we could talk”.

She then says “I’m stressed so please leave me be.”

In which I replied, “I’m sorry I’m making you feel this way, whenever you wanna talk about things, I’m just here.”

The End. 

I care about this girl a lot and I love her and I’ve been reading around. It’s not like she didn’t love me either. I don’t want it give and I want to fight the best way possible.

Any tips out there guys. I’m backing off for now until she ever reaches out to me. 

Tbh, I have been very financially supportive since our time together and have had amazing experiences. But, I believe that has also been a bad thing.

I don’t want her to feel I’m not there but how can I be present in her life without pressuring her.

She’s beautiful and super confident. But, she is vulnerable and I see through it sometimes.