My therapist encouraged me to get support from people who actually understand. I am 21 Years old. Diagnosed with BPD 4 years ago, always scared people would leave me. Struggled with self harm for a while in high school, a relapse in college. Was hospitalized. This particular person came to visit me every day. But his parents thought this was "unhealthy."  Now, he just vanished. He is 22 and his parents cut off his wifi, took his phone away, and said I am "unhealthy" and demonized me. They say I am so horrible for him to be in contact with. Just as a friend. They are super christian, but he isn't. 

They are even holding his car keys hostage so he has a curfew and can only go to work and then to therapy and if he is one minute late they will take his computer away to ensure he can't go to a cafe to use the wifi. Just so he can't talk to ME. This hurts like hell. He was the number 1 support. Also my boyfriend just dumped me last night because I was triggered by this whole thing and I was crying and he couldn't handle it so my emotions are just so out of control. I just need to talk to my friend right now and I can't and idk what to do at all. 

 If any of you have any advice on having to deal with this. I would appreciate it. 