I always thought open communication was the best. Well now my bf says I changed (just because I got comfortable voicing my feelings), he can't deal with me anymore and he's afraid to have sex with me. Touch is my love language. I feel like I'm dying. If I had just kept everything to myself and was the perfect gf from the beginning of the relationship he'd still want me now. Now all he wants is to go out with his friends and turn me down for any kind of sex and validation and tell me how awful I am.