Almost everyone has been abusive in some form. Everyone has treated someone poorly . 
It doesn’t make you a monster. 
It doesn’t mean you don’t care about someone, it means you’re human, you have emotions , you’re dealing with internal conflict and you ended up lashing out in a hurtful way toward someone. Sometimes you feel emotions so intensely that you don’t even know what you’re doing until it’s too late .no ones perfect. We all make mistakes. We all do shitty things but change is possible. We are capable of growth . You can genuinely regret your actions and words and work toward a better future. It’s hard to break cycles but you can do it. Apologize. Make amends. Take everyday as a new opportunity to show the people you’ve hurt that you’re progressing .That you’re capable of controlling your actions ,and being a better ,more loving,and gentle human .


I’m not justifying abuse in anyway clearly it’s a terrible thing in any form and it is very sad that there are consistently abusive and evil people in this world who don’t change and don’t even care to . This is not to them this is to the person who truly regret their actions and words they’ve said and want nothing more than to do better and learn to control themselves and show love properly .