To anyone out there who has BPD and is struggling to keep their partners/friends 

I can only imagine how hard it must be to go through everything you guys go through...and i feel sorry for your struggles but also very proud because you all bravely (in your own way) are fighting your own everyday battle...i trully wish things get better for you all

I just wanna say something to you all:

NO !! OUR LIVES WOUD NOT BE BETTER WITHOUT YOU IN IT !! 

YOU’RE NOT A BURDEN IN US !!

WE DO NOT WANT SOMEONE “LESS COMPLICATED” !!! WE WANT YOU, WE ARE HAPPY WITH YOU !!!

YOU’RE NOT HARD TO LOVE !! 

It’s also a previledge to share life with you, we learn, we become more resilient and we learn each day more and more about how beautiful love can be, how much it can power us

WE ARE STAYING, even though we know it’s never going to be easy, even though we know somedays might be harder than others we are choosing this, everyday and constantly because WE CARE, WE TRULLY DO 

BEING TIRED SOMETIMES DOESNT MEAN OUR LOVE IS STARTING TO FADE AWAY, it means we need a second to catch up our breaths 

I know it’s hard to believe this, i know your minds makes it hard to believe it...but don’t take that choice from us, let us stay ...