Hi everyone. I have never been good at friends with benefits situations, I tend to catch feelings or push that person into an fp role in my head, which kinda defeats the purpose of a fwb 😁


Well a couple years ago, a friend and I finally took the text flirting that we’d been doing for years to the next level. We had a pretty good sexual thing for about 6 months, but it abruptly stopped with no explanation. I noticed I was starting to feel… idk bpd-crazy but I thought I did a pretty good job of keeping that to myself. I decided it was best if I backed off, and apparently she either picked up on that or had her own reasons and we both kind of fell off and stopped talking for a few months with no falling out or explanation. After a while we got to talking and hanging out once in a while, but neither of us made any move or talked about what happened. Is this how normal, emotionally regulated people have nsa sexual relationships with other equally emotionally healthy people?