I just recently got diagnosed by my psych, not anyone on reddit. With BPD I asked what meds I need to take he wants me on antidepressants I told him I need to think about it first. Everyone originally thought I was bipolar complete miss diagnoses which is common from what the doctor tells me. But I don't have much time I wanna get this under control because I've been doing what's called splitting I love my girlfriend now and I don't want to loose her. I'm on lamictol right now but that was for what I thought was bipolar disorder. Out here I talked to a psychologist and he said most people don't like to work with people who are diagnosed BPD it scares me a lot more knowing this because it's already a bitch just to get mental help and you fear that no one will help you....If anyone can give me some pointers I would be super thankful. 