Asked my best friend if he’d like to go on a road trip to Chicago with me in July to see the marvel exhibit. We’ve been binging the movies because he’s a big fan and I liked the first few movies and wanted to really get into the MCU. It really bonded us so I thought it would be really fun. I sent him the link to it a few weeks ago and he said “looks pretty cool” and nothing else so today I said, “we should go to Chicago in July!”
And he asked “just for the marvel thing or?”
And I said “yeah” 
He said “It’s just that I don’t have PTO to burn and traveling doesn’t sound that appealing to me for just one stop. Down to go at some point but not in a rush.”
And it shouldn’t hurt my feelings but now I’m really bummed. He always does fun things with his guy friends (I’m a girl), and he actually just went to FL with them. We never do anything like this and it’s soemthing we bonded over and both love. I thought he’d really like to go but it’s okay. I’m just sad now and wanted to vent