I’m 27 and I’ve never had a high libido.  I always just took care of myself once a day.  It’s only until now that so wanted to get into bed with someone who found me attractive realized that despite being really attracted to the guy, that I really couldn’t get it up thinking about him.  I also just kept on checking if I had feelings towards him and stuff.  Idk.  I drink way too much caffeine so that may be it.  I’m also a bit of a control freak with my emotions as of recently.