If im arguing with a person and they say something in the wrong way that trigger my trauma I get obsessed with that one thing they said and nothing they tell me after that can make it better or change my mind. I immediately jugde them and think they are lying and using me, like I have exposed who they really are. I don’t stop until I have made them say the thing I wanna hear even tho I know they don’t mean it cause I just force them to say it, only then I can get peace. It doesn’t help if they say sorry in their own way, I have to make them say exactly what im telling myself in my brain so I can get the right confirmation. It’s always something delusional, I just pick some words out of a whole history and convince myself of a history I make in my head.