Like the title says, I just want to give up. My wife(32F) and I(25M) have been struggling recently after my dad passed my mom couldn't afford to live in the state she did by her self so we moved heook r in for a month or two to get on her feet in Columbus where we live. That was two years ago and she's still here and more toxic then I could have ever imagined. We saved up and got the first month rent deposit and start up fees for her so she could move out by the end of this month (June 2022) we've been tight but liveable. Then on the 6th of this month, we woke up to realize our only vehicle had been stolen from our driveway. A day later police found it totaled at Easton mall. We had stuff stored in the car so my mom couldn't spite damage anything, on top of our rent check in the glove box so we could drop it off the next morning. Now we don't have a car, we don't have rent money and she's still just as toxic as ever. I've spiraled so deep into depression but I can't admit it to my wife because I'm currently the only one keeping her grounded thru all of this. I love my wife with all my heart but she's so stubborn and feels like if I post anything on Facebook like a go fund me it will look like we're begging. I made one in secret witch made me feel bad about not telling her only to find out because I don't use reddit or most social media enough, no one will even let me post it. I just want to give up. I'm tired of trying and don't know what else to do at this point. My wife doesn't trust the busses up here (she has her reasons and it's not my place to talk about her past without permission) and from what I've seen with my coworkers the bus the stops by our work is not reliable in the slightest. I don't even really know why I'm posting here, I feel like nothing will help at this point.