I came out of an abusive relationship over a year ago. At least that's how I saw it, my ex was definitely manipulative but she did say to me on more that one occasion that she thought I had BPD. At the time I put this down to another way for her to control me. 

Since I've left that relationship, I have started a new one and as far as I can tell I'm exhibiting signs of BPD. I don't know if I can trust my own rational or irrational thoughts anymore. 

Am I BPD? Or do I have PTSD from the trauma that I suffered after an abusive relationship. 

BPD would seem to remove some responsibility for my incapability to express complex emotions.... is this how BPD presents? 

Thanks for your time.