I'm in this huge, over 50k members, group on Facebook for people with BPD. I've vented on there quite a bit, with no answers or little response. Most of the popular posts are like, "I've cheated on my boyfriend multiple times I don't know what to do, I hate BPD" or just constant selfie threads. I understand that impulsive behavior is part of BPD, but a lot of the people I see just excuse it, and people in the comments are "supportive" and don't criticize someone's behavior, because apparently that's not what a "support" group is for? Like are you fucking kidding me? If anyone is in this particular Facebook group or have had bad experiences with online support groups can we talk about this and discuss how people post about awful behavior related to their BPD and then expect people to have sympathy for them? Am I being too harsh?