Title kind of explains it. I’m also bp2 and I know hypersexuality/insatiability are part of both bp2 and bpd. My boyfriend and I used to have crazy sex like 2 times a day when we first met. Now we have it pretty straightforward every other day. But for some reason, to me it feels like it’s not enough? How to stop this feeling? I keep thinking he doesn’t care about me/isn’t attracted to me. I’m in DBT rn so I “check the facts”- we *do* still do it almost every day, and he says he feels bad because he’s been tired cause of work, so it’s not like it’s a crazy dry spell or he’s avoiding me or anything. But for some reason I tie that up with validation. To be honest I don’t even like the physical act that much. I mean, I’m only human, so I like it obviously, but not any more than the average person I’d say. 

Does anyone else struggle with this? Tying it up with validation maybe? Not really sure how to put it in perspective, because of course I can’t help but compare although I know it shouldn’t have anything to do with my self esteem because nothings *really* happened.