There’s this guy at my gym who started talking to me a while back. He’s asked me if I want to go get coffee a few times now and I finally said sure, so we’re going this Sunday. 

I switch between having zero desire to get to know him, and then feeling happy about the attention and thinking about him a lot. I think it’s best for me not to get into a relationship, even a casual one. I don’t even really want to be close friends with him. I just want to get this coffee thing over with and move on. I’m worried he wants more than that and I’m also worried I’ll get attached to the attention and that won’t be good for my mental health. 

Idk what advice I even want, I’m just confused by my own feelings and I’ve never been good at socializing or making friends in the first place. I probably need to decide what I want and then figure out how to set a boundary in case he asks to go out again. Tbh this whole thing makes me just want to switch gyms 😅