I’ve noticed this becoming a pattern and wondering if anyone else here can help me understand why. I’m very quick to anger and get defensive against my partner when he says something I deem “stupid”. And I spiral QUICK. 

Eg. Says confidently a building is named &lt;whatever&gt; but I know it’s not. Then I go on a rant berating him that he said that so matter of fact.

I find it’s mostly the “inaccurate but stated as fact” comments that trigger me: “That line up is for a slipknot concert” / “that’s a graveyard over there” / “prenups are thrown out by courts after 5 years anyways”.  

It makes my blood boil and I find myself attacking and telling him how he SHOULD have phrased his comment or to not guess without context if he wasn’t 100% certain.

I certainly don’t think I’m right all the time, and I’m very careful to qualify sentences I say - maybe too much. 

Anyone have an idea what this stems from? Maybe insecurities of mine I project on him?