So I’ve noticed that any time someone, usually a friend, pays me a little bit more attention or spends more time with me (hanging out, texting etc.) than usual, I would get really attached to them and sometimes even develop a crush on them, despite them not being my type at all, or me just seeing them as a friend…The thing is, I do realize that these “feelings” aren’t “real” because it’s not like I’m falling for their personality, looks etc. but more so for the fact that they are spending time with me… 
And this keeps happening with different people quite often :/
I hope this makes sense lol 
Does anyone else go through something like this? And do y’all think it’s a BPD thing?