Hi, 

first of all, i want to clarify that this is not a jealous/insecurity issue, maybe it is, but not the "standard" way of it, we've been together for 9 years now, and we are getting married next year, so there is **absolutely  no trust issues at all**, also, none of us is religious nor care about the "morality" of clothing or drinking or whatever, as long as you are responsible and acting like a proper adult, then there is no issues at all.

However, 

We live in a more or less conservative country (Tunisia) with a super bad overall mentality when it comes to men, i can guarantee that 2/3 men here, will talk badly about a girl just because of her clothes or various activities (drinking, smoking, etc..), and by "badly" i mean the usual backward "oh she's an available easy to get slut". 

This facts makes me feel very worried whenever she's out alone, cause i've seen it happen MANY times in the street, guys just don't stop "cat-calling" in a very rude way, and if the girl stand up to them, it turns into a fight in which its almost always guaranteed for her to lose.

to put things into perspective, [here is a post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tunisia/comments/o4u8d4/today_i_fu_up/) in the Tunisian subreddit where OP tells what happened when he intervened to help a girl being harassed by 2 idiots in public, this shit is basically the norm here. 

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So back to us, 

Am here basically seeking help more than advice, because what happens exactly is this: 

When my gf is out alone or with her girl friends, i am constantly SUPER worried, again, not because of jealousy, i don't give 2 shits about any of the men here, i know exactly what kind of relationship we have and there is nothing that can threaten it, its more like a feeling when you have a younger brother or even a kid and you leave them alone in a random place. yes i know this sound sexists but it is what it is, the threats are there, and they won't go away just by ignoring them. 

It really feels awful that when we travel outside the country, this whole "anxiety" completely ceases to exists, she can wear WHATEVER she likes and we can do anything we want in public (without breaking that country's law ofc) but when we are in our own hometown, we have to pre-think everything, I feel that shitty "chest pressure" whenever she's out alone, and am sure that there are plenty of things that she want to do but won't simply because she know that it would "bothers me". 

Any advice ?

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Thanks!