I’ve known this guy for 6 years, I always had a small crush on him, nothing major, and also there was always something: one of us was in a relationship, then the other, then I moved cities, etc etc. Last week we met again, I was really attracted to him immediately, talked the whole night, then I went to spend the night at his house. We slept in the same bed, mild kissing and a bit of talking, then the next morning I had to leave. Since then I can’t stop thinking about him, I’m extremely anxious because I don’t know what he’s doing, I’m double-texting him and can barely focus on anything else. I know that he’s single rn. I am single too. However, I don’t know what he wants and it’s driving me insane, even tho nothing really happened. There were periods when we didn’t talk for a year or more, he popped into my mind every now and then and that was it, and now I can’t get him out of my head. I have to force myself to not text him all day, he doesn’t really initiate conversations (although he was the first to text me after that night), but I also know that he barely uses his phone. I can barely eat or sleep, I just don’t want to scare him away, I want this to go well, and basically act like normal people do. How do I do that? I feel like I have a chance to have something good with this guy, but it hasn’t even started yet and I’m messing it up already.