When am I going to get it through my head that my husband is a good man and isn't a cheat? He has never cheated, he's never even looked at another woman in that way. I'm his everything... I'm the only woman he wants. My past marriage made me think I deserve to be mistreated. Made me think I'll always be cheated on and the second choice. I'm tired of not having confidence that my husband is a good man and would never hurt me. Why can't I just accept the fact I finally got a great man...and I'm not destined for heartbreak. I feel so stupid!