

Hi all. So I was seeing a lady who has BPD, we were in a relationship without actually being in a relationship. We were intimate, I spent time at her place and mine. We even did things with her kids.

I pushed for us to be in a relationship because I fell in love with her and wanted to be there for her.

We had a real connection but she just didn't want a relationship. She started calling me her BFF and then admitting I was her first person then eventually said she did love me as more than a BFF.

Because I pushed she cut me off and started seeing other guys. But she wants to still be friends on Facebook and other socials.

Do you think she may be just keeping me around if she changes her mind or not? She's kept all the stuff I bought her as a reminder, does this mean she still cares about me?