How do you get around it? Do you have someone order for you? Do they make a big deal about ordering for you?

I’m almost 20 and my mom still has to order for me. Idk I’m sure it’s embarrassing for her to order for me, but she embarrasses me about it every time we go out now and makes me cry and just like berates me. I feel scared to leave the house and eat now sometimes cuz I feel like a loser and I’ll just embarrass myself. I’ve tried to order for myself a lot of times but idk why I can’t, I freeze up and cry then start having like anxiety attack