Hi guys, I have been with my partner who is borderline for just over a year. We've had a couple of rocky spells but nothing like recently. He gets frustrated over things which then leaks into other things and I get blamed for everything and then gaslit when I try to logically show to them what has happened. I love them, but I don't know how much longer I can make it work, it's been more or less every night for the past 2 weeks that things have been fine and then out of the blue I'm blamed for everything that's not right and dismissed when I give my side and I want to be able to appeal to them and talk through these things to stop these meltdowns from happening. I'm really struggling and on the fence of leaving but I'd like some help or suggestions to try to save my relationship