He constantly complains about how much I sleep, how much time I spend on my phone, ect. We don't have TV or computer or anything  to do but look at our phones. He says I do it in front of other people and that's why he's mad but he sits on his phone all evening as well (but that's because I do. So its my fault.) I was trying to get info on my student loan when friends came over. I'm ready to break the damn thing.

I'm to the point where I want to move out. I'm tired of all the bitching. I just want some peace and quiet for a while. I want to quit weed and cigarettes too but we are unbearable to be around sober. I could quit if I was alone.

We are both BPD but I don't self harm or have suicidal thought or self hate. 11 years between us, I'm younger.