i had been talking to this guy for a while and i really thought it was going somewhere and it was so good and different from the shitty guys i’ve had before. but today he told me he feels like he isn’t ready for a relationship yet and that he feels like it won’t be fair to me because he doesn’t feel like he could be the best boyfriend right now. i’m crushed and i can’t stop wondering about how i messed this up. i have been working sm in therapy and i tried to not get overly attached or upset over small things. i just hate myself and i feel like i will never be loved. he was so nice about it and he didn’t say he wanted to end it but he just said he wanted a break but in my head i’m taking that as my chance is gone and i want to spiral. idk if anyone has some advice or helpful words i’d really appreciate it.