I’ve not been supporting my fiancé very well for the last few months and I’ve been expecting a lot from her. I keep going down the push/pull route expecting her to chase me and she gets fed up that I don’t seem to care how much I hurt her. 

She’s 29, I’m 34. She’s going to start a 4 year degree in 2 weeks time, and it’s really affecting me. I’ve basically written us off already. I feel like we’ve completely lost what we had and I can’t see how we’re going to get that back. It just feels easier to start again, on my own.