Some days I am irrefutably and intensely in love with my partner, most days I’m normal but some days I’m not even sure why we’re dating. Obviously this is really hard for someone to hear and she’s aware that some days I struggle with devaluation but I really don’t want it to affect our relationship. She has an anxious attachment style due to relationship trauma so I really want to be there for her however I can, but I also don’t really want to lie to her when I feel negatively.  I’m just looking for any advice because I do struggle on those days (which aren’t often) and feel myself tempted to fall into old negative patterns of destruction. Any advice on how to deal with those days or talk about it with my partner would be helpful. Thanks.