How do I stop a parent from self sabotaging their social relationships due to emotional abuse from their spouse. It pains me so much to see this and it is constantly on the forefront of my mind. I want to help, but my parent is unwilling to talk about the matter. They are clearly hurt but acting extremely immature by cutting ties with people to please their spouse. How do I help them see the decisions they are making are clearly very bad for them? 

I feel so broken. My social life has been very minimal in the last few years and I have barely anyone I can talk to about this. We live under the same roof and I love my parents a lot which is why it's affecting me so much. I hold back so many emotions to act mature but I just want to scream.