I’ve had my fp for a little over a year now.  for the first year, our relationship was great, but i was completely obsessed with them.  they ranted to me all the time, which did not bother me, but it impacted me a lot.  i idolized them so much and picked up on all of their bad habits.  they overall destroyed my mental health.  on top of the ranting, they take a lot of time to reply.  this makes me really upset and can ruin my mood.  i want to distance from them and cut them off but i’m way too attached.  please give me any advice on how to slowly take myself away from them, or how to make it hurt less if i completely cut them off.