Been told today I [won't be getting DBT after all](https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/5q5u0a/not_getting_dbt/), which I was banking on for a normal life.  Only reason I let myself date the guy I'm dating is because there was going to be a safety net in case I got too bad.

Keep writing out a text to the guy I'm dating, saying I can't in good conscience date him without a professional safety net because I can become such an abusive psycho cunt at the drop of a hat, crying my eyes out because I really fucking like him.  I'm considering finding an adequate counsellor before I do this.

**[tl;dr] Are there any private counsellor/therapists/psychologists in the UK (North West) that you know of, aren't HUGELY expensive, and specialise in BPD-like symptoms and/or CSA?**