This will sound kind of stupid but does anybody else feel like BPD sufferers (or people with other kinds of anxiety issues) have something like a sixth sense? Like you feel intuitively what some people are like, and sometimes this is what results in irrational splitting and rage?

For instance, I've started going back to work for 10 hours/week after being at home for four months because of BPD, depression, lethargy etc. Since I still feel kind of weird about going back to work I usually spend my time next to my boyfriend (who works there as well) in his part of the office. Today we were also joined by one of his female colleagues and I intuitively hated her from the start -- she was so confident, so relaxed, and "I'm not like other girls!"-like (which I personally find boring but guys are obviously dumb and buy into that even when it's faked for attention). I am usually a confident and loud person too but I just shrunk next to this woman. And then I started hating her for being so laid-back and chill and cool. And then I split on both her and my boyfriend when they had a fun conversation and laughed together because I thought about how we don't have those happy times 24/7 because of my BPD.

This isn't the only time I've instinctively disliked someone though; but it's the first time it's accompanied by severe splitting (but I've splitted separately of course). I also really felt weird around one of my boyfriend's guy friends and guess what -- I was correct about him being an asshole, even if we've only spent like ten minutes together. I've heard bad things about him via my boyfriend.

Same thing the first time I met my friend's now-ex who ended up mentally abusing her for about two years. 

Thoughts?