i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost two years now. they are the sweetest person that i have been with. they are so patient with me and understanding of my issues. i have known things havent been right with me since before we have even been together, but i just recently discovered that it is bpd. i am a very avoidant person and one of my main struggles is self worth. i often ask myself how i am deserving of being with someone as great as them, and question if they truly love me or if they just feel sorry for me. i often think about breaking up with them, not because i dont love them and dont want to be with them, but because i feel like i am a burden to them. i had a breakdown while we were in public yesterday and told them that sometimes i feel this way and how i feel the need to detach myself from everyone im close to in general, and they started to cry. they stated that they weren’t upset with me and they understood what i meant but i cant help but feel immense guilt for what happened. what can i do to help these feelings? i want to just be able to be happy with them without worrying about this.