Yeah... coming out of a breakup 10 months ago that was really hard on me. I idealised the guy and was fully obsessed. Still think he's perfect and have dreams about him, im not fully over it. 

A new guy came along and we spend a lot of time together and seem like a decent fit. Just... things arent as intense as last time. I dont know if it means that i dont love him and im just fooling myself to replace my ex or if this is just how 'healthy relationships' work. 

love has always been all about obsession to me. 

Anyone similar experiences? 