hi I F(18) and my new boyfriend M(18) have been talking for about a month now and just became official like two weeks ago. after being diagnosed as bipolar, I noticed that I am a super protective person over people I love. I’m not a super needy person and usually when I feel jealously (which happens a lot) I usually keep it to myself. I don’t know if I would consider my boyfriend a “favorite person” in regards to bpd and bipolar but he is my most recent obsession.

Before dating me he broke up with his ex three months prior ( they were in a year and four month long relationship ) he’s mentioned her a couple times as we hang out and my stomach instantly feels sick thinking about her. Being a dumbass I stalked her accounts and I noticed that he was still following her on Instagram. (For me everytime I broke up with an ex I usually immediately unfollow them. He always reassures me that he’s over her but why is he still following her? Please let me know if I’m being overly jealous or overbearing and if I should ask him to unfollow her. Thanks.