Bit of a confusing title, but I'll try to explain:

One of my best friends, called Joe, is getting married on the 28th June and his brother will be his best man - they are very close brothers and seem to do a lot together. 

So, last night was a stag-do type event, where we went to this bar and had some drinks. We all sat on one long, connected table, although his family (only the male members of the family) stuck together on one side and the friends sat on the other - which included me and 2 others.

For the majority of the time, I just sat with my 2 other friends and we just talked within ourselves, with Joe coming and going within the groups.

At a certain point, the brother and step-Dad joined us to hear some stories about Joe. This lead to the brother being a bit more engaged i our conversation. 

Side note... About 4 years ago, I had a Friday night out with Joe and one of the friends who came to the drinks last night. On that night, we met up with the brother and his friends and it was quite a nice night out. That is the only time I had every hung out with the brother or had spoken to him (although, he was in the year above at School).

Back to last night...

As the night continued on and more drinks were had, we all got a bit...well, drunk...but were still able to hold a conversation. Anyway, this leads to me being a bit more hyper and random in what I say.

At one point, the brother mentioned "y'know...last time I saw you, you had a paedo tache." This refers to a few years ago, when I was only able to grow a moustache and a pretty uneven one, to be fair. My friends did tease me about, and I did try to laugh it off, but never liked it - Joe may have mentioned that 'running joke' to him. Now, I have a bit more facial hair around my jaw and lower lip, so the moustache isn't pronounced. 

The nights continued and he kept making annoying remarks - "You're weird." being the main on, but...I was a bit tipsy and I do say random things when I'm like that.

We left the bar and went outside, and the brother stood next to me. He said "You've got a really big nose, you know that?" I just laughed it off, but I hated that.

I'm really subconscious about my nose and general appearance. I'm 26 years old and haven't had a girl be interested in me since I was 11 and that really bums me out, while all of my friends are in relationships.

It really bummed me out and I still am. All Im6thinking about. I didn't want to respond and hit back, as I didn't want to create a scene or ruin Joe's day. I didn't want there to be friction for the wedding day.

I'm now quite worried about the idea of the brother talking to me at the Wedding. There will be more of mine/Joe's friends there and they will be with their girlfriends. 

I know I should just move on and chalk it down to him being drunk, but it has really affected me. It's the fact that he doesn't even know me and so what he says is what I think other think about me. Everyonne will walk past me and think about my nose. People will think I'm weird when I talk.

I was walking home with the friend who was out on that night 4 years ago and he told me the brother was being a dick and that my nose isn't big, which did help, but I still can't stop thinking about it.