Hi, I'm brand new to this subreddit, and honestly to reddit in general. So if something is formatted wrong or whatever please let me know, I'm still learning to use this.

I was misdiagnosed with Bipolar Type II seven years ago, then correctly diagnosed with BPD about one year ago. Although nearly all the BPD symptoms completely align with my experience throughout my life, I am still reeling and lowkey having trouble accepting and coping with this. I managed to break up with a very toxic partner about 5 months ago and that's been a net positive for my life; most of the time I am relatively stable in my moods. But today I am experiencing yet another changed (failed) relationship and this low is **very** low.

I don't know exactly what I'm looking for, here. I've never been a part of a group with others with BPD. I want to learn more about how others cope, and most importantly hear that this **can** be managed and life **can** be better. I am losing hope a little every day.