Hey folks. 

My dog has been my most long term relationship. Nine wonderful years and so many miles together. 

We've reached the point where it's time to say goodbye, and I'm doing my best to cope ahead. But being this sensitive makes it all a minefield, emotionally speaking. 

He's got a bucket list and a grocery list, I have 3 weeks to prepare, and we're having a big camping trip (his favorite thing) the weekend before. 

I'm working with my therapist to find tools and strategies to cope, but I would really love to hear how y'all managed your feelings, expectations, logistics, etc. 

Eg, the pup and I hike several times a week, so after he passes, I'm going to join a gym and leave the trails behind until I feel more stable. I'm making a list of reasons I'm not a terrible dog mom. I'm making a list of things I can do in the future (he's a VERY high needs little dude). I'm trying to cultivate a forward-looking mindset while also validating my own grief.