i get agitated INSTANTLY over the smallest things, my days get ruined because i can never get over anything unless i sleep. my boyfriend made a comment to one of his friends about how pissed he was that i forgot to do the dishes. he said “she always does this shit, don’t fucking say you’ll do it if you fucking won’t” and it’s bothering me so much. i was out applying for new jobs when he i initially got upset, and it sucks that he can’t just mention it to me instead of talking behind my back. i’ve had a really tough couple of weeks because of my current job that treats me like dirt. i’ve had 2-3 episodes a week and i can tell he gets annoyed when they happen. i can never decipher whether it’s a me problem that i need to fix, or if i should be upset.