Hey, everyone! 

I lived in the Bay Area prior to the pandemic for my career. I came back to my hometown in rural New England during the pandemic to help deal with my depersonalization/derealization caused by anxiety. It was a long 2-year road that consisted of a breakup with my long-term partner, doing trauma therapy, and doing a LOT of work, but I finally feel like I can function well enough to move back and dive back into my career in person. 

While I was living with my parents, they decided to separate. I was in the middle of constant fights, name-calling, crying, you name it, for months on end. It was very "I Hate you," then I would walk out to them making out on the couch and crying about how they love each other. 

I planned to leave to move back to San Fran the third/fourth week of January with their help. I was going to fly out the very beginning of January and look at apartments with them and sign a lease (this will be my first apartment by myself, so I want their "experienced" opinion on whether its a good spot or not), then do the cross-country drive with them which will take around a week.

But, the week between Christmas and New Years, they announced that they were getting back together and moving to Florida to start a new life together. Now they're flying to go look at houses in Florida next week, so my trip to look at apartments has gotten pushed back.

  
Am I crazy for being upset about this? All they want to talk about now is their move. It feels like their sudden decision is taking priority over a move that I've been working really hard to be ready for. Everyone I've talked to has said it's annoying they've done that, but there's nothing "wrong" that they've done. I guess I'm just hurt and I feel like I'm being dramatic being upset about this.