If you have BPD, what is the most loving and gentle way you'd be receptive to someone ending your relationship? My pwBPD doesn't meet the criteria for what I want in a partner. Some relates to BPD but mostly it's drive, success, mindset, values and finesse that's lacking. I don't have a desire to make my person feel less than in any way. It's just not a good fit for the long term. He has not accepted me leaving in the past and I want to be loving and possibly friends as we make this transition so he doesn't feel abandoned. All advice appreciated.