I have a lovely friend . She struggles with some things too but I’m not sure how to be supportive without smothering or overwhelming her . BPD being what it is, I guess sometimes it’s a bit much . So, how  do you give space without Making someone feel frozen out? Damn  the dichotomy of this disorder. We see things in such extremes, but I know there’s got to be a middle ground. Anyone have any suggestions? I’d like to be a better friend I’m just not sure how