My brother 15. As kids we had a close sibling bond. Though things changed when I became a teenager. It was at that time that I became aware that how my mother has always been treating me was abusive and my dad wasn't enabler. Where I kept my emotions internal, my brother was external. He would take out his anger on me and my dad while he was afraid of any mom

My mother died of cancer 2 years ago. After this my brother's behavior became significantly worse. He took to beating up my dad and verbally abusing and hurting me as well. Cops were called once before and my brother is just so uncontrollable. He lashes out at everyone and triggers my BPD. Overall he brings a lot of stress to me and my dad

My father has dabbled back and forth with the idea with therapy. He tried reaching out for a referral but got nothing. Since then he's gotten fed up with my brother. For him he just wants the cops to take him away. Any idea of getting him help is covered in pure anger. 

its obvious my brother is hurting. I wish there was more I could do...