When I’m depressed but higher functioning I’m told “oh it can’t be that bad if your grades are still good” or “it must not be that bad if you are not missing classes or still doing the daily activities like exercise and personal hygiene.” Yet when it actually starts impacting my ability to go to class or exercise or take care of myself, I’m told it’s my fault I don’t keep to a routine and if only I did XYZ I would feel better… Regardless I feel unsupported and like it’s my fault. I feel like I can’t win here.