I feel like, those with BPD can confuse others as they can come off as both at times. I guess that is our black/white tendencies. We are either on one extreme of the spectrum or the other. 

I am confused because I have the gift of being an empath but on the outside come off so intimidating. My BF thinks I am a sociopath, yet is amazed at my giftedness and ability to care, so much. 

Does anyone else relate to this? 

I'm not going into specifics of why I associate with these terms but if you'd like me to elaborate just ask. 