I've been lurking for years but today marks the 4th year that I signed up. It's great to have a community where people are facing the same challenges and helping one another. 

Along with therapy for anxiety/nervousness/blushing this sub has been a tremendous amount of help. It made me realize that I wasn't the only person struggling to live to the fullest due to something that was totally out of my control.

Some people might think that we are cold and aloof but we are just stuck in our heads so much we aren't even fully aware of our surroundings.

It also made me realize that there were other people being held back from living to their fullest potential either physically or psychologically ..(blind, quadriplegic, burn victims, abused people, depression ) 

It really puts things into perspective and to be more mindful of what other things people could be suffering from.

For some people it might be the need to be taller, gain more muscle, loose more weight, get the six packs, be less anxious in social situations, getting rid of acne, getting rid of scars, getting rid of wrinkles, surgery for disfigurement..people have invisible strings pulling them back and sometimes other people don't even see it. 

I just want to wish everyone happy holidays and enjoy the moment for because as we all know in 100 years we will only be but a memory.

Cheers.