I know someone who, because of shitty treatment from her for many years, now just makes me feel extremely stressed, anxious, paranoid, angry, etc etc. She doesn't even have to be doing anything, but I feel so on edge and annoyed with her because of the things in the past that I can't get over. I feel like contact with her triggers my symptoms significantly - does anyone else get this? How do you handle it, if so? (I intend to stop speaking to said person, too)