Why show care an compassion to people so severely traumatised that they develop a personality disorder to cope when you can act like they’re the bad person /s

Like yeah we do shitty things but I’ll say this till I die. The borderline always hurts the most

Like yeah they deal with mean shit we say but that’s fucking nothing when every single emotion feels like the entire fucking world is ending and we just have to pretend it’s fine

Like yeah dealing with a borderline is hard I’m not saying it’s not but I guarantee it’s so much fucking worse for us

And yeah Ik it’s not the technical or morally correct thing for me to say but I’m the fucking victim here. Im the one trapped in this I can’t leave I have to deal with this for the rest of my life


Like when non cluster b’s have outbursts bc of trauma everyone’s understanding and shit bit as soon as we do it we’re the worst people ever

And like the “you’re too much can I just not” like stfu it’s 10000x harder for me than it is for you

Like I’m sorry it’s hard for you I get that you don’t deserve to be put through that but we don’t either. /gen

And yeah it’s not fair for me to say that I’m the victim and yes I need to take responsibility of myself I get that I understand that but life’s not fair bpd isn’t fair I am the fucking victim here no one else has the right to say they’ve suffered the most bc of my bpd I have. It’s me. It’s fucking me who’s still here when everyone’s gone


Anyways ty for listening to my rant