I‘m 37 year old male and I am single so I want to find a girlfriend but I don’t know where to start. I wasnt always dateless I had girlfriends in the past some girls I dated was way above my league.  Now it has been 10 YEARS the last time I dated because life has been busy working myself to death because I didn’t want to be poor like my parents. I also worked myself to death because I broke with my ex girlfriend who I loved very much but she told me I wasnt financially responsible or career focused so not a guy who she saw being married to. Now I bought my own house, car and have built a business but I sacrificed my health and my social/romantic life i feel depressed I only realised ten years passed when I was cleaning out rubbish and found a old photo.

Sadly I don’t have many friends anymore like i did in high school/university I spend most of my free time with my 3 dogs who I treasure alot but I have been in depression for over a year now this all started since I was for the first time hospitalised in 2020 i also got hit with health issues like diabetes, gout. i find my life meaningless and regret wasting all my years trying to chase money while sacrificing health and friendships.  I want to find someone who I can spend rest of my life with but I sincerely don’t know how to find dates. I lost touch on how to date. I lost touch on how to build friendships. Most of my previous friends are married and I feel left out. I don’t know how I can be happy again. What can I do to rebuild my life?