I am not cut out to do grocery shopping, cook, take care of a dog and clean. My Mom has a history of being pretty mean and demanding and when my Mom said she might need surgery she said I would have to help her. She didn't even ask. My SSDI review was due 2 years ago. I haven't had a review yet and have been on SSDI for 9 years. I also get a shot of Invega Sustenna every 28 days. I can't be gone for over a month to take care of her. If my mental health was bad enough to deserve getting 51-50d 8 times in total, my Mom having a huge influence in most of those. Yes, I am doing better. But I have help. I am not sure what to tell my Mom. I think it is really rude for her to say that to me. I still crack mentally under pressure. I really don't want to lose my SSDI.