i am in what i believe to be my first healthy relationship. i am terrified that i am going to make my partner feel like he needs to walk on eggshells around me (or maybe he already does feel this) due to my insecurities. he has never really done anything to make me doubt his feelings or his loyalty to me yet i find myself paranoid at times. we are together constantly. it makes no sense. i overanalyze everything and get my feelings hurt when there is nothing to ever really be upset about. every time i’ve brought up my uncertainties, he reassures and comforts me in a way no man ever has. but sometimes i just want to keep my feelings quiet and just be the cool girlfriend so that i don’t lose him. how many times can someone bring up their little insecurities until the other is sick and tired of consoling them? in my experience, people can only take so much and with him i don’t want to test it.