Some context.

My ex boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago after a 2 year relationship. We fought a lot about him lying about his past and present. He would visibly check out other women in front of me, and when I asked about it, he would tell me I'm crazy. I didn't mind him looking at other people. We're all human and can recognise attractive people, obviously. It was the dishonesty that really got to me over time and made me more paranoid. He was very open about the fact that he wasn't really attracted to my body type (petite) and yet still denied oggling everyone else.

I had made a post (and deleted it after) because he admitted he looked at his friends on social media, fully clothed, not suggestive, and get literally horny over their pictures. You guys all had the same concencus, break up with him. He was also following girls that he used to know that did onlyfans promotions. I said that was inappropriate while we're together, seeing as he had personal connections with these people. He said over and over that he wasn't that person anymore. 

I'm leaving out a lot of shady behaviour on his end, it would be way too long to go into individual scenarios. I need to state again that I really don't care if he looks at other women, I just wanted that open communication so it didnt feel like he was hiding something.

A week after we broke up, he got back on Tinder. He started trying to hook up with these friends and aquaintances that he apparently didn't want anymore. He started making his instagram fit the horny 12 year old boy algorithm.

A week later, I couldn't even THINK about getting with someone else. How could he try moving on so quickly???? With all the people he told me not to worry about? He turned out to be exactly the person I thought he was.