I have an unhealthy attachment to my ex. He was toxic and so was I. I’m trying to move on. I’m in a new country. However I can’t stop replaying everything he said. It’s starting to affect my ability to see new people or men as trust worthy people. Or that they even genuinely like me. I’m convinced I’m everyone’s “attainable” choice; until they get the girl they actually want. 
Anyway I don’t want to feel like this. He is perfectly okay and I’m not. I’m still stuck here crying over the same stupid insecurities I’ve had ever since I’ve been with him.