I can’t stop fucking things up between my Bf and I. Things I do that drains energy in the relationship:

1) Spy on my partner’s phone in search of evidence he is cheating when he is not.

2) Demand too much attention.

3) A slight change in my partner’s mood makes me think he is seeing someone else or texting someone else.

4) can’t stand looking at him on his phone, browsing social media, it gives me anxiety.

5) I can get very paranoid. I can go from happy and lovely to serial killer in seconds. 

I’m in love with him but we fight a lot thanks to my mood swings and my mental shit that doesn’t let me act like a normal partner. Help! Advice me.