Hi! A friend of mine has BPD and I'm told I'm her FP. Recently she's gotten more distant and she's said stuff like "I just don't like long conversations as much" so I've given her some space recently. I don't text her as frequently because I feel like I've constricted her (I'm also uh.. Clingy for lack of a better term) and so she texts when she feels comfortable.

I wanted to ask whether I should text her because it's been 3 days or so since and while that may not seem like a long time I know that the last time I didn't text she got scared I abandoned her (which was totally understandable what with BPD and the main symptom/fear being that). I do know that she has been spending more time with her irl friends (I'm her online friend) and that she seems to be more involved with her female best friend and her best friends bf. I should probably add she's been texting them more too, which (while it sucks because I rarely get time to talk to her as is) is also understandable. 

Is it the case where she's just found a new thing to focus on and I should leave her to it? I could use any advice on this thank you. :)

Edit - Also the last text I sent was "I won't be on tomorrow because I'm with my dad but call me if you need anything". However she wasn't online even before I sent that.