Not this sub, but the advice/relationship subs. I thought I was having a problem with my girlfriend, and I've posted on it on my other account on those subs. Basically all I've gotten " oh move on she's no longer interested, you should have thought first before you did that " Something along those lines. It shot my anxiety up to unnatural levels and I began hating myself, and everything. I really felt deep down that our relationship was over. Gladly I was wrong, she called last week  and our relationship is still as strong as it once was, and she knows of my anxiety and she was upset with me, but she also wanted to give me space to sort myself out, and she told me that I'm not able to get rid of her no matter how much I may anger her at times. 


Those replies that I got on those subs were not the case and I'm probably going to delete both my reddit accounts at some point, and definitely stay away from the relationship subs. Bpd feels like I'm on autopilot when my anxiety gets high, its really crazy how real those bad thoughts can feel. Just thought I'd share. Sometimes your most negative thought about a situation/relationship isn't always true. Its easier said than done and I feel like a hypocrit, but not make rash decisions when you're in an emotional state will only help. Thinking and breathing before going off on your FP or SO, and really calming yourself then talk to them and express that you didn't like what they said/did, or what you perceived that they said or did. I 'm rambling, but this is what I've learnt. Not everything is abandonment, thankfully lol. I'm taking therapy now and hitting the gym more.