So I started seeing this girl for a little less then a month and I really like her and enjoy her company. I work great together and get along. Today she told me she has BPD and it didn’t frighten me or anything like that but she said before we go any further she’d like it if I did some real research on it and made sure it’s something I am prepared for/something I am ok with my partner having type of thing.

So I thought what better place then to come here and get some real opinions, thoughts, experiences or advice on what to expect if we choose to go forward and so on.

I also have a somewhat understanding of BPD and mental illness in general I’m not trying to be in over my head or anything I would just like to broaden my understanding