Lesbians w/ BPD, how do you differentiate the symptoms of compulsory heterosexuality with BPD symptoms? For context, here’s the lesbian comp-het masterdoc: https://sourceful.us/doc/308/copy-of-am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc

They seem to overlap a lot, just with different reasoning. Both have self-sabotaging in relationships with men. For comp-het it’s because there’s an unrealized repulsion by men. You find some stupid reason to break it off and explain to yourself why you aren’t attracted to this man in particular. For BPD, it’s for a bunch of other reasons. Both can use sex as a form of self-harm, but with comp-het it’s the fact that it’s with a man that makes it harmful. Etc, etc,.

What do you guys think? Where does comp-het end and BPD begin?