I think abusers have the easy life

Sure they go around hurting people and spreading trauma and stuff

But they don't ever have to recover and face the deep dark aspects of themselves

They don't have to worry about relapsing or anything

They can move through life and just do whatever. They can easily create relationships and never have to do the "hard work" of healing

The fact that they can get whatever they want and be happy with it really makes me wish I was one