How do I become less toxic? I have a boyfriend who is also my FP and I can tell I drive him to the pointkf hating me. I don't know how to stop myself from reacting to triggers. My emotions are so strong sometimes the only thing my body/mind knows what to do is to act on them. When I talk to my bf about this I end up obsessing over it and that ends up being the only thing I talk about. I have extreme jealousy and self image issues that also play a part. To people who are in recovery, how did you find peace in a relationship? What steps did you take to be comfortable in love without ruining it?