A part of me felt resentful because I don't think my boyfriend knows what I'm dealing with and how BPD has affected our relationship. I told him about my diagnosis shortly before we started dating and I expected him to either ask me about it or to do some research. While I have no proof that he hasn't, I also have no inclination to believe he has. 

I don't want to blame every problem I have on BPD and I don't want it to be my scapegoat, even when it is the problem. But I would like him to be more understanding when my symptoms arise do he knows he's not at fault and that I have a difficult time controlling my behavior. 

Is it a bad sign if he hasn't taken the time to look into this or am I overreacting?