dae feel like they can’t make decisions or speak up bc they don’t know if they’re genuinely in the right or if it’s their bpd?? 

i just feel like when i’m upset about something i stop myself from saying anything bc i don’t know if i’m overreacting. i don’t want to make any decisions bc what if i change my mind the next day?? my brain constantly wants different things and it’s absolutely terrifying and i don’t know how to tell when it’s what i truly want or if i am genuinely in the right :(