Hello everyone. I have been in a relationship with my partner for about a year. It triggers me. I was diagnosed with BPD last year, I barely been open about it with people. My SO, he has narcissistic traits, he has an extreme NMom whom I stay away from. I thought our relationship would’ve been okay. I’m realizing we’re not compatible as much, we only have one thing in common. Being raised by narcissists. He’s been jobless for about ten months now. I have tried everything to encourage or motivate him to get a job, it’s not good enough. I have attempted to open up about my past and speak about hurtful things. So, he can get a better understanding of who I am. He totally overreacts, shows how ignorant he is by his hurtful comments. He has a child, I don’t because I’ve miscarried in the past. He’ll say hurtful comments such as “you are not a parent, you don’t know what’s going on.” “My kid is alive, yours isn’t, so idk how that feels.” “Where’s the baby at?” I have been attempting to leave him. His charm full ways, pull me back. I don’t know what to do! I’m growing bitter and starting to dislike myself. He doesn’t try at all, but has a strong sense of entitlement. It annoys me that he wants everything handed to him. When I speak the truth, he feels utterly attacked and he’ll say hurtful things to me. That’s are totally unforgivable. I think I’m afraid to be alone again. I need some advice... it seems like he’ll never change as a man. I don’t know what to do, these emotions are strong. Thank you 