i (f18) and my boyfriend (m18) have been going out for awhile. he’s been open to me about his depression before. he’s been in the psych ward and he takes antidepressant.he told me that he used to cut and even showed me the scars on his arm. he even explained how the tattoo he got on his forearm was to cover them up and remind him not to cut so he doesn’t ruin it. however this week he has forgotten to take his medicine a few days in a row and i can tell they were rough. however when we were having sex i happened to catch a glimpse of his thigh and there were a lot of deep scars. i stopped immediately and asked him about it. he tried reassuring me that he was okay and it was nothing but i couldn’t ignore it. i don’t think i handled it well though.all i could think to say was “i thought you said you werent going to anymore “ or something along those lines. i held him and told him it was okay and fhat i was always going to be there for him through the bad and the good. we fell asleep soon after that then woke up a few hours later because he had to get home. it’s the very next morning and i don’t want to just sweep this under the rug like it’s nothing. i could tell he was shameful and upset by his actions so i’m not sure how to go about this without upsetting him. what ways can i comfort him or talk to him about this? i don’t want to see anything like that’s again. i’m not sure what i can do to try to prevent this or at least help. i really need advice…