Today I told my manager I had bpd. It was kind of scary, but it just kind of came up. He knows I'm dating one of my coworkers and actively living with him, and so far hasn't been an issue in the shop or in our personal lives.

My boyfriend is also my fp, which is how this came up. We were talking about future stuff, about me potentially going to college, and potentially starting an onlyfans for said college to pay for it. He asked how my boyfriend felt about it and asked if I see myself marrying him. My automatic response was yes, and then I explained what a fp meant to me, and he understood. It was relieving and scary all at the same time, but I'm glad I told him about it.