I’m so broken down, for years now my daughter will lose it over the smallest things. She takes it out on me whenever she’s upset. I was abuse growing up and because of this I didn’t discipline her as much as I should have. 

Sometimes I can’t handle it. I can’t fix everything for her. I’m afraid I’m going to go broke giving in to what she wants. Today, I woke up and this time her cat scratched the new 60 dollar mouse pad and knocked over a glass of water on it. I understand she is upset but I can’t take being yelled at for it. She begged for a cat I gave into her and let her get one. Nothing I say is right, she keeps coming to me yelling about it. 

This is not new every week it something. I’m exhausted. My son moved out because he couldn’t handle it. I feel like I’m living in a bubble of not setting her off. My husband can’t take it. My health and mental health are not good and hasn’t been for years now. My anxiety has taken over my life. I tried to get her help for her anxiety and depression. She won’t do it but she thinks she has ADHA. I found out a couple of years ago that she smokes pot and it has now become daily. 

I’m lost. I can’t help myself or her. My husband just ignores everything. No family support. I can’t continue to live this way. I’m afraid she not going to be able to handle adult responsibilities. I love her so much. My anxiety can’t handle her behavior. I unable to help myself at this point. 

Please kind in responding I struggle daily with anxiety.