I'm active in a lot of online communities dedicated to mental health support, and I often find myself helping people with BPD experiencing relationship troubles. A large majority of the times these people are in relationships with people with narcissistic and/or antisocial traits, and it's just really not healthy for them. I try letting them know that I perceive their partner as abusive and they should leave the relationship ASAP. Unfortunately however, they're usually very resistant to even consider the possibility of leaving their partner, because the partner is idealized in their mind. So, I wanted to ask for advice for how I can provide support in these situations. Should I resist pushing them to leave their partner and instead just focus on emotional support? While I don't want them to be stuck in abusive relationships, I also worry that pushing too hard will do more harm than good.