Currently I am home for this week (normally live in an apartment 45 min from home) for Thanksgiving. I was quarantining at my apartment beforehand and got tested multiple times before coming home. At home, Im currently with both my parents and 3 siblings.

Covid cases in my state were very low for a while until about 3 weeks ago when they started skyrocketing again and are now the highest they’ve ever been. My dad and sister have been seeing a couple people and going places still. Over the past week, I have texted our family group chat (the whole family) information and updates about covid a few times (current stats, articles about infection &amp; whats safe etc- nothing crazy, all very direct) and i don’t say much else. 

My dad within the past week went to a big event, drove out of state, and saw 2 different people in different households. I texted him specifically over the week with information and telling him to stop doing these things (since he is high risk and lives with my mom who is as well- and you shouldn’t right now anyways). He hasn’t answered any of my messages. My sister hasn’t been doing too much but she just came home from college, is still seeing one of her friends, and goes somewhere (to the store or restaurant etc) most days. Basically, both of them are still at a good risk for catching covid by doing these things with our cases so high.

So I sent one text to both my dad and sister telling them not to see my grandparents right now since they have not been isolating (they live 10 min away). With that text I sent a post about covid (explaining how you can carry it asymptomatically still)

Anyways, they are both very mad at me for this (and I think for sending info to the family gc) but I really dont know how to make them not mad. Im not sure what I would apologize for because everything I sent was just information or telling them to please not do something unsafe and I still feel that way. Any advice on what to do is appreciated