I think I have to breakup with my girlfriend tomorrow. We haven’t had any quality time together. We just get fucked up all the time. We’re both in our early thirties, and I feel like it’s time to start taking it easy. I tried addressing the issue with her about drinking and substance abuse, but she sees no problem with it. I can’t be in a relationship where I don’t grow with someone. She also made a new friend that I’m sensing she has feelings for. The guy can party too. She didn’t come to bed last night. Just stayed up talking with him, and when I woke up, they were asleep on the couch together. She had mentioned that she just has a “friend crush”, but it’s becoming something more. We don’t have conversations anymore. She’s just on her phone texting him all day. I don’t want to do this anymore. She hasn’t talked to me at all today. I want to grow and feel healthy. She doesn’t. This isn’t working out. I can’t do this anymore…