My bf (21M) has bpd his split got triggered in late March im (22M) things got bad we had a fight we brokeup but yet we still talk to eachother everyday the thing is i really love him and i want to get back together with him and he says his split has ended so whenever i ask if hes coming back to me again he repeats the same thing over and over again i don't understand and this avoidance of his and uncertainty of our relationship is starting to make me really sad i cry almost everyday he's trying to go to the uk for his degree which im proud of but i think maybe thats the reason hes not deciding? If he goes to the uk he won't be able to date me bcz of the distance 
Recently one of his friends hv advised him to go for more "manly men" bcz theyre more mentally stable and tbh i was mentally stable before he left me and now i feel like im being dumped for smth thats not my fault 
Ive really tried to educate myself about his disorder but the emotional energys running out i really don't know what to do and its so hard to move on when he texts everyday pls help me i don't know who else to ask except those that have this disorder