One of the security guys working in our flat has just died, like yesterday I think. My mother went to check in witch another security guy. If it was legit and he confirmed. When she came home she started crying. I was so bewildered by it I literally felt time stop, and my head emptying, like what am I supposed to do know. Eventually, I hugged her, but it was more because I got distressed by seeing her crying. Dunno 

This post is a ramble but I feel I need to write that.