Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 3 years. He’s cheated on me. I’ve found a tinder profile and checked his phone and he cheated on me 2/3 times i checked it. In our most recent fight i tried to ask him questions like “What’s wrong”, “Are you cheating” etc, then he makes me out to be the problem and claims I’m not listening to him. He says I’m too difficult and he’s thought about breaking up with me because of that and my mental illnesss. He tried ro hit me then claimed he was just trying to “intimidate” me and he says he won’t do it again as long as i respect his space and boundaries. I don’t know what to do and I’m scared. I’m scared to go to the hospital and I still love him but idk wat to do anymore or how to help him ?