It's really hard for me to know if I'm overreacting totally or if I'm right to be upset.

My boyfriend didn't even think about spending new years eve with me. He will go to a party with friends of his as far as I know. Now I feel really hurt, because we already don't see each other often (LDR).

He knows I'll be home alone that night, because I don't have many friends and feel he should have at least asked if I wanna come with.

Am I overreacting? I didn't want to start an argument because I feel really clingy saying that and think he might throw the BPD card in my face.