I’ve tried the past 3 sessions I’ve had with mine and feel like she’s trying to avoid it.. should this be a red flag? Or do I need to be more assertive? I don’t want to come off as self diagnosing but Im 90% and feel like I know in my gut that I’m borderline n am having trouble finding someone willing to explore that option with me :/ 

Has anyone else gone through something like this? What did you do?