Hi everyone. I’m a new lurker here. My therapist and I have recently made the discovery together that I show a lot of signs of quiet BPD and might actually meet the diagnostic criteria for it. However, a major concern for me is that most of my attachments tend to follow a dismissive-avoidant model instead of the typical push-pull/insecure/giant fear of abandonment that is typically associated with BPD. Generally, I tend to think of people as useless, stupid, and not giving me the emotional support I want or need. The only person I consider to be a “good person” in my life is my fiancée, and I’ve stopped trying to make other friends because I feel like people constantly disappoint me. I was wondering if any people here that suffer from BPD have been through experiences similar to mine as opposed to the “typical” attachment style of BPD, especially those with quiet BPD. Thanks.