I have a new therapist. A psychiaterist, dynamic psychotherapy. I have BPD traits, Avoindancy, OCD, GAD, dystymia. 

I sometimes think he either doesnt listen to me or he has his own set of ideas about what I say or my traits and it makes our talks "fuzzy". 

Like, I told him about a friend from Oslo, who I asked to see if she was her for 2 weeks. Weeks ahead of her coming she said, we could sit in the garden, talk the two of us, with her fam. 

But, she has a lot of folks wanting to see her, so , eventhoiugh our date was set etc, days before she told me, she did not know what all the other folks would be doing and where she might be , terrace, restayuraint, hiking, etc, her fam came up to her house and arranged all sort of things for her and them to do and she said: I cannot tell them I will sit in hte garde nwithyou at a certain time, I cannot make that promise to you. SO I have not seen her. She avoided me and I told my therapist, but he heard it differentlu: I would also hesitate to make a couple of hours empty while my fam is wiht me to go and sit with some one who is not willing to participate in the activities I would have planned for that weekend. BUT IT WAS WEEKS BEFORE AND SHE PROMISED but she could not say no to all the new and fresher ideas and plans of her fam, so she skipped me. but he had to be told by me that he had not heard it correctly. This happened a few times. He says: I hear you say .... blahabla someting. and I think: NO dude, you are not summarizing me but it does sound like summarizing A bpd person or A trait of a person with   BPD or Mental issue... It just feels unconnected. I find that hard., I had a really good bond with a MBT psychologist for 3 y and this is so different. I know fights or disagreements belong in a session, but it just feels like I speak Japanese and he speaks Chinese, .... I dont know how to talk to him about it... maybe some of you have thoughts or ideas?... tia..