When someone says "Go to a safe place in your mind", they sometimes give some ideas like the beach, the forest, etc.

I find the "standard" mental places don't actually feel safe to me, so I'm trying to find out which places feel safe to me.

I noticed that the exhibitor hall at FanX (Salt Lake City's Comic-Con) feels safe, because I'm surrounded by people in cosplay, which means I don't have to imagine specific faces. Their cosplay means they're showing love for their thing, so I'm surrounded by love. The exhibitor floor means I don't have any specific obligations -- I can just roam, and enjoy myself, and pause for something I like for as long as I want.

I'm trying to think of other examples, so I figured I should ask people who have already gone through the journey of finding safe places for themselves. What was the process like for you of figuring out which spaces feel safe for you specifically?

Thanks for your help!