So just starting off, I myself don't have bpd, but my best friend does, its been an interesting friendship so far, shes taught me so much about bpd when I wasn't aware of what it was before I knew her, and in turn it lead me to keep on learning more and more on my own as I kept on trying to learn more about the condition to better understand her and the why of things and what she and all of you go through, I know I'll never truly understand it without having it, but I wanna try my best to come as close as possible to try and understand, recently I've noticed with how close we've been the more she's been splitting on me, and just like every other time its happened I've reassured her that I'd always be there for her and that she will have my full 100% support like always no matter what, I do it constantly and still I'll receive the occasional "do you hate me" messages, im never ever gonna give up on her, and since learning about bpd, it makes me just wanna give every single one of you who have it the biggest hug in the world and to say im sorry for what you go through, I really do hope the best for every single one of you who read this, i have no idea what the purpose of my post is, but i just felt like making it, bpd is a rough thing to witness but I hope all of you have the support of those around you who won't abandon you after a bad episode, after having a breakdown, after just feeling overwhelmed, I think everyone deserves that kinda support, and I just wanna say thank you for always moving forward, for staying strong, and for just taking it day by day learning and showing the world that you wont give up no matter how life tried to stack the deck against you.