i'm honestly not sure how to word what exactly i'm trying to ask, but i'm going to try my best lol. i've heard it's really common for people with bpd and narcissists to form relationships, and the negative impact it leaves on especially the person with bpd. i guess i'm wanting to know other peoples experiences, and if you were ever able to make it work with a narcissist? or if there was ever any improvement at least. whether it be a romantic relationship (mainly what i'm asking about), friendships, maybe even family; i just want to hear other peoples experiences and how you worked through it (or the lack of).
the person in my life who inspired this post is my favorite person and i like to think he truly cares about me, it makes it hard to give up on him altogether. i hope this makes sense.