I used to be very depended on people and it was so hard to cut people off for me. 

Now i can understand when someone is trying to gaslight me and guess what, I DONT TAKE THE BAIT!! I no longer feel bad like how they want me to feel like, i no longer feel guilty for doing a simple thing. I don’t even miss the people whom i realized are bad influence on me and my emotional stability. 

It took so much time, tears and mental breakdowns but now i feel so much better!