So I’m going through a rough time right now anyway, with my partner having BPD as well. A few days ago me and my mum had an argument about how I’m not responsible enough if I can’t even take out the trash and I was trying to explain that with my ADHD, I can’t remember things easily. She just started saying I was trying to convince myself that I have a problem and being really mean about it. 

She literally got so angry and started gaslighting instantly and blaming me for everything going wrong and said I was a terrible daughter and that she was going to kill herself because of me. She also told me to leave and move out already so I packed a bag and ran away. I’m so sick of the emotional abuse but also how she can apologise two minutes later and think things are going to be okay again. She’s been guilt tripping me and texting me to make me feel bad that I’m leaving her alone and I feel so damn confused. 

 I’m going to eventually have to face her and go home again, so how do I cope and deal with her? I’ve asked her to get help but she always says that she doesn’t have time for that. How can I get her to go to therapy?? 