As we all know relationships can be hard and can often be toxic and end on really shitty terms. I at the time (17-18f)dated this guy (18-19m)for like 5 months, to date it’s the longest relationship I’ve ever had. I have a hard time forming lasting relationships. Anyways, we were both probably toxic to each other while we were together, but our breakup was ROUGH to say the least. Afterwards he started posting really mean things about me on social media and would constantly call/text me and occasionally showed up at my house. He showed up once with the police in tow trying to get back some clothes that were at my house-like 4 months after the fact. He never got the clothes back because I cut off all forms of contact with him after he was causing arguments and trying to blow up my phone all the time before he got them back. It was my senior year of highschool so the social media shit really affected me. He knew all the ins and outs of what upsets me and what I’m insecure about. He preyed on that and a lot of people started to hate me because of the picture he painted of me. It’s literally been one of the hardest things for me to deal with even today. I see him commenting on stuff because we have mutual friends and it just upsets me so much because how could someone do something like that to me. Just completely was evil to me. So I shouldn’t have I know, but I was looking at his account because he lets my sister follow him. There was a man holding a sign that said “will kidnap and torture your ex for $1”. The caption was unrelated but someone I consider a close friend commented “I bet you happily gave that man a dollar” and they’re like best friends all of a sudden even though they never were before and literally SO MANY of my friends are becoming better and better friends with him and it just bothers me because they saw me crying everyday at school and being upset and how much every post he made about me literally just cut me down inch by inch. Idk but I just really feel awful now and I apologize if it doesn’t make much sense I’m ranting and upset