My fiancée has bi polar disorder and I’ve been the worst support for her over the last two years. We have been together for a little over six years and for the most part things have been wonderful. It’s when she gets set off that I’ve let her down. I let her triggers affect me and I haven’t listened or better yet paid attention or have done enough research until recently to realize how bad that is for her. I ended up making her think so much is her fault when it’s not. On the brink of losing her along with our two sons because she can’t take the bickering anymore. It’s every week at this point. Nothing is worth losing them over. I know I can be better to her with her needs now but I don’t know if it’s too late. I also have ptsd and depression and I’ve been so stupid and naive to her mental health needs. I love her and our family. Now after trying one day she still doesn’t know if things will be better and I don’t feel like I’ll ever get the chance to show her. I wrote this in hopes anybody has any advice, because I’ll take anything to keep her and my family.