I’ve been working with my therapist for 3 months. It’s been going great, but she does not specialize in DBT. 

She won’t learn how to pronounce my name, sometimes she is driving during our zoom session, and she is fostering so much dependence between me and her that concerns me. 

I sent her a very direct email yesterday addressing all my concerns. She never replies to any of my emails either. 

The biggest thing that bothers me, is she gets defensive when I talk to her about these issues. 

If anyone wants me to DM them the email I sent her, let me know. I want to hear what people think