A little about me, I am a non and I've been married for a few years. Last year, my wife was diagnosed with BPD and the last couple of years have been a roller coaster for sure. Anyway, we've been living apart but near and we would still spend time together like normal couples. She seemed on board for DBT and I wqs definitely on board to do some communication counseling and stuff because we do also have just typical marital issues. Now, a page has turned and she says she does not need DBT and she refuses to do it. I had made it clear before that I felt it was necessary for our marriage to continue, but now I don't know if I'm strong enough to walk away instead of waiting for her mind to change back. I don't want to walk away. Along with the no-DBT position, my wife now thinks divorce is the only way forward and is pretty much cutting me out of her life. I mean, I freely admit that I contributed to our issues but my wife now feels that everything is actually my fault... I have tried a lot, even if it wasn't always exactly what my wife wanted to try. 

I feel like I have weathered so much to stay with my wife, and it's all for nothing because she seems to so easily be splitting on me. I know this whole post is a sort of rambling, and I'm not really sure what response I want. I guess I just want to know if this is really where it ends. 