yesterday my partner told me they didn’t want to move in with me for a while for a few reasons, they want to live with their band, with people who like being alone and in a place that has space for them to do art and make music etc. 
i didn’t take this very well haha 
they kind of said they didn’t want to move out of their parents until they’re older, so they don’t spend too much money on housing while they’re still young. i kind of saw this as them saying they don’t want to live with me and that we have incompatible futures and that the idea of moving in with me was too much of a commitment. 

i think to an extent i still feel this way a little bit, im sort of hurt it feels a bit like they’ve said our living styles don’t match up so we shouldn’t share a space like that yet. i think i’m a bit offended too. i understand what they mean, and have radically accepted that if that’s how they feel then that’s okay i have no desire to change that. its just feels a bit sad? i don’t want to live  alone or with friends long term, they said they’d like to move in with me and now they’ve backtracked and i feel a bit like, oh.

am i overreacting over this? i can’t tell if i’m being irrational. i feel a bit better about it but just a little bit gutted haha
i’m not in a bad state over this i’m just a bit disappointed in the change i guess