So basically I was diagnosed with bpd and then my brother (younger by three years) was diagnosed when he turned 18. (He’s still 18)
I love him but when he acts borderline I genuinely hate him, he is manipulative and always tries to play the victim and I’m ashamed because I used to act like that before I started getting better. I still have issues it’s mainly internal. 
He uses his mental health issues as an excuse and tries to one up me by listing his diagnoses 
saying he’s more mentally ill than me and then tries to say my 14 year old sister who is a typical moody teenager has bipolar. Like he basically tries to diagnose other people just because he’s studying psychology in uni. 
Sometimes he wants to be hospitalised because I was also hospitalised. (I think he wants the sympathy I received)
He has very destructive coping mechanisms and can be very vitriol during arguments. 
Oh and he called the police because my dad slapped him after he found out he let my little sister try some alcohol. (We’re not allowed to drink in the house and my parents are very clear about this rule)
This was on Christmas Day and my dad had to go in to custody until 3 in the afternoon. My dad forgave him because he was playing the victim again by crying and shit.
He basically ruined Christmas
I really don’t like him sometimes, actually I detest him at times and I feel like such a hypocrite 
