I hope I'm not coming across as disrespectful, because that is definitely not my purpose with this post.

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I just want to know if, in the middle of your pain and suffer, you (not all, but those who's been causing a lot of severe harm to loved ones) feel guilty and realize how unreasonable a lot of these splits are.

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I also wonder how many of you are willing to fully commit to DBT or other kind of therapy to help yourselves and in the long run, your loved ones as well.

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I wish you the best.