i talked to her everyday for more than two years, and especially last year. basing on the description, i'm sure overtime i built a FP connection with her, even if many fun moments were genuine.

we shared many things, but since last year i think i was the more problematic one. or at least it seems so, as she also stopped talking about her problems.

two months ago she started drifting away from me so then i decided to talk it out. and turns out she was kinda overwhelmed from trying to help me everytime i had a crisis on something.

she was very willing to help. but too empathetic, i don't understand how people feel bad in the place of others but she did. at the same time she never asked me about my interests. nor my art. my days. small yet genuine talk y'know. she was overall boring. i knew this but still wanted her close to me.  

was this splitting? am i right thinking that she only focused on my bad side, instead of my overall person?

gonna clarify i was always the one initiating (not serious)conversations, jokes etc. i think the dependence was also on her side.

some days ago i told her i was sorry for the last months but she replied growing distant was "inevitable" and that we've become "different". what does this mean? i've become healthier and i've never brought my bad impulses out on other people. i figured not replying was the best way to give her space. but what happened? did i read it right? why do people stop loving others? i don't. i genuinely like everyone.