So my boyfriend occasionally vapes (and only has one or two puffs to ‘feel it’ and gives it back) and I’m very worried about his health and what it can do to him. I’ve been worried about it for ages. He knows exactly how I feel and i know there’s nothing I can do cuz I can’t force him and yet I still think about it almost everyday since August (last time we spoke about it) and it’s annoying and has got in the way of a couple of moments together. I’m so tired of thinking about it and I don’t know how to change my perspective or how to cope and it’s draining me. 

Any insight?