I feel invalidated when my therapist says that I can’t find a boyfriend because of my bpd meanwhile look at women like amber heard and countless other women who has untreated bpd. People sure as hell don’t mind dating them. Many girls on this sub have boyfriends too. I recognize that bpd makes relationships harder but at this point in my life I am done of lying to myself and allowing my therapist to lie to me. I am not sure what is wrong with me anymore or why I am single and unlovable so I am done with this whole dating thing and I will resign to a hermit life.