I shared some really, really powerful and useful posts on this forum...

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Actionable, provable, science-supported ideas and tools for improving quality of life and dealing with BPD symptoms.

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... And I've since taken them all down because the lack of support is on this subreddit is depressing. After several days, my most comprehensive post had 30 upvotes - that's it.

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**1) Do you guys just crave drama? ... The posts with the most upvotes are cuss-filled rants - why?**

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**2) Am I the only one who is fervently testing, researching, and experimenting with ways to deal with my BPD?**

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**3) How do I find people with BPD that want to actually CHANGE their life instead of just mope around and cuss and whine? ... Not that rants aren't effective for emotional release, but that they should be the least upvoted item - a very temporary transition to something better. The highest voted items should be posts that actually have life-changing consequences, unless we're all here on this forum to just share a mutual complacency with being miserable. In which case, please share: what's the sureddit or flair or whatever it is for people who have an interest in moving all of us to a better place?**