Hey long time lurker here posting for the first time! Anyway, I was on the phone with my boyfriend last night and he told me that his grandma has overheard me and him talking about my BPD diagnosis and therapy. She then told him that she thinks I’m mentally retarded and that I remind her of a aunt in the family with ASPD. We also wear promise rings and she stares at them everytime we eat dinner with her.

My BPD is managed pretty well and I act normally around most people. I don’t really know how to feel about it other than just crying because I wanted his family to like me and she doesn’t. Any advice? 
(Sorry for the long post)