The people here are usually great but I just had the unpleasant experience of dealing with a handfull of people who thought they know everything there is to know about me from a single post and then proceeded to harass me telling me I had better live my life as they command. I know that's not everyone but I'm really disappointed by the lack of support shown to me in such a dark time.

For those who will listen, please do not patronize your fellow people on the borderline spectrum. Just as you deserve respect, so does everyone else. Forcing your views down somebody's throat only makes them want nothing to do with you. You're much more effective when you show love.

I will be taking this post down if I am harassed. If you do it right here on this sub, you will be reported to the moderators.

That is all. Keep fighting the good fight and I hope you all beat BPD one day.