Everytime I come over there i have to fake so much and pretend that everything is alright when I've been guilt tripped by her and my brothers and the years I've spent with them growing up and being unable to enjoy spending time with them since they want to plan every detail and make it stressful for all of us when something doesn't go to plan. On top of them being unsupportive of me moving out without an "actual" job or that I'm living in a "bad city".

And i'm gonna be given shit by my family if I don't show up or if I'm scheduled to come into work when I requested off since a lot of other people also requested that day off. 

I really wanna cut them off but I don't know how to approach a situation like that.