Something that I have always been guilty of and felt ashamed for is changing my persona based on what I think people want. For example, I saw that everyone on facebook was cooing over a friend of mine who has does the whole gothabilly look every day. Once I saw that her photos were getting tons of likes and comments and even had people I speak with in person regularly saying how amazing and adorable she is I felt I needed to compete. This is what people like right? I want people to like me airgo, change myself to match. My husband usually calls me out on it since I don't realize what I'm doing until he says something. He tells me that I'm "trying on different hats" when I already have a hat that looks great on me. I've gone through so many different "hats"/phases just to get people to like me and I hate it. I keep telling myself I can't have everyone like me but my BPD tells me that sure I can I just have to morph myself to fit what they want. 

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Anyone else struggle with this or am I being a weirdo?