I am 27, single mom, and have this new boyfriend that totally knows I have issues and still wants me, but im sure has no idea about my bpd,splitting, or how it manifests. I dont want to lose him.. but im going through a phase of not wanting his attention, I want to be left alone. Knowing me this wont last long. I know its confusing him. Any advice for what to do without making it a big conversation and weird cause I dont know how to talk about something that I feel like I have little control over without sounding crazy af