When my partner and I first got together the entire first year was filled with LOTS of sex. After that first year I had gotten comfortable with him and we now lived together instead of two hours apart. He then saw my undiagnosed mental illnesses and what I used to call my swings or phases (undiagnosed bipolar). I think the first year was part of my bipolar, I wasn’t aware until my therapist has mentioned it. But since I’ve gotten comfortable and I’ve been having some of the lowest mood swings of my life I’ve lost my sex drive. Initially a year ago I thought I had lost it from how depressed and suicidal I was, which I truly believe is why I did. But now that I’m finally diagnosed and on the track to being healthy I still have no sex drive at all, I think now it’s from all my pills for adhd, anxiety/antidepressant, and mood stabilizer for my bipolar. I need help because it’s seriously affecting my relationship, my partner admitted he doesn’t like having sex with me because he can tell I’m not enjoying it like I used to. I don’t make sounds anymore and I never finish. It is totally valid but I feel like such a useless partner for not being able to have sex like I used to. I guess I’m just wondering if anyone has gone through or is going through something similar. I just feel like shit and on top of that the meds aren’t even working…