I'm having a really horrible go at things right now, to quote the Rembrandt's- When it hasn't been your day, your week, your month
Or even your year.

I come to this sub because I have no where else to go. I fucked up the last of my relationships last night and even with those friends they can't and don't fully understand.

Does anyone else find that this sub is extremely helpful but can be toxic when reading through some of the replies? I read things and my instinct reads them as though it sounds like someone crazy but I understand why whomever has written it may be feeling or acting that way. 

My gut is telling me that although this should be a safe place to help one another its all too often us validating what may be an irrational reaction to something, which is toxic, to all of us. Where's the line though? Where does it become helpful venting and toxic excuses?