So I’ve known this girl for years (she’s the sister of my freind) and recently due to me telling my freind I’m interested in getting to know her, she was introduced to my friendship group and is now a part of it. I’ve always flirted with her and at the start I hint junk there was maybe some interest on her part. But she constantly rejects my advances and said she just wanted to be freinds, I was initially upset and angry due to the rejection, but I accepted her friendship continued to hang out with her. However one time when we had a few drinks she was increasingly flirty and cuddly with me and I thought after that moment things would progress but they dident. I’m due to meet her tomorrow and part of me is wanting to cut her off for good, I do feel more and more drawn to her and I want to see her all the time. But I feel I should cut off all contact as it’s not going to lead anywhere and I’m not in control of my bpd at all and can’t deal with the heartache. So what I’m asking is do I cut her off completely or try to accept that she will only be a freind?