hello everyone. i recently got into a relationship with someone i really like, and i think he likes me as well. there were a lot of misunderstandings in my last relationship mostly because of BPD, i’d be very irrational and distrustful at times and then i’d frantically apologize and he just couldn’t deal with it. i told my current boyfriend about my diagnosis and he said that it’s okay. 3 weeks into the relationship i got insanely mad at him for something silly and just burst out crying in the street for a good 20 minutes, he didn’t understand why i was mad and honestly neither did i. i just thought of the worst case scenarios. my question is..... what can i tell him to make him understand that i’m not really angry and sometimes my thoughts are just ??? irrational and paranoid. in other words, how do i make this work? what sort of conversation do you have with your partners about BPD? 