 

I  noticed I have this pattern in my relationship where things will be  going smooth, as smooth as they can be at least, and then at some point I  won't be receiving the attention I want and instead of communicating  this problem, I find someone else to fill the void. This person could be  anyone of the opposite sex. I develop strong bonds with people of the  opposite sex and then it takes away from my relationship and I end up  being the one who withdraws in the relationship. It is so backwards  because I am the one who is always paranoid of him cheating on me, I  guess this is me projecting. I need help breaking this cycle. I love my  boyfriend so much and we want to spend the rest of our lives together.  Does anyone else deal with this issue and if so, how do you deal with  it?

Thank you in advance to anyone who reads/replies to my post!