I just out my partner has BPD and it must be fairly mild because I didn't spot it. But Now all of a sudden she seems to be having frantic, negative episodes telling me that it is over because we have no future. She is obviously upset about and doesn't seem to want it to be true but she thinks I am lying to or manipulating her with everything I say and I'm worried she is going to shut me out of her life completely as she has done with other people in the past.

I'm new to this but aren't people with BPD supposed to have abandonment issues? Isn't this the polar opposite?