Husband and I had plans yesterday to go on a short trip we've talked about for a while.          

But I learned Thursday that my mother is sick and I've been very worried about her. I've been spending a lot of time on the phone with my older sisters. Stressed out and depressed about the whole thing. To make him happy, I told him we would go on that trip either Saturday (yesterday) or Sunday. Today. Unfortunately, yesterday I spent time with my own family to discuss and my mind wasn't right to enjoy a trip.          

Husband got angry. Every time I asked him what he was doing, he kept saying things like; I'm waiting. We could be on the road right now. Which made me feel like shit. I explained very clearly that I needed his love. Not his anger. Only his love. To understand my time had to be spent with family to discuss important matter.           

He didn't care. He kept telling me how he wanted to leave asap. How angry he was getting to not know what was happening with the trip. Never asked once about my mother. He made everything about him.         

Of course, I explained again very clearly; sometimes you need to put aside your anger and be there for the woman you love. You need to cut down the drama because all it does it hurt the person you love. He started splitting. I don't fucking care anymore!           

Imagine having the worst day of your life. And you go to your person. And instead of helping you feel better. They just make you feel like shit and don't show one tiny bit of love when you need it the most.            

Last night, I was in bed texting my sisters. He sat on the bed and said. I hope were going on that trip tomorrow but we probably won't. He left and played video games all night.            

It's not about splitting. I can deal with that. It's his cold heart when I need it the most just because he's angry and his feelings has to be made better right away or everyone has to go down with him.         

I've explained over and over every clearly. I need you to stop talking about how angry you are and I need you to stop causing drama between us by escalating it. I need your love and support. Nope. His feelings and how he felt about not leaving was more important than anything. Ever his wife possibly losing his mother.         

How am I supposed to enjoy a trip today when I hate the way he treated me yesterday? 