Hello again. So I'm still learning about this. For barely over a week. So bare with me if I get some terms wrong

So in terms of episodes. What could be the potential ways that a partner could withdrawal? And is withdrawals separate from aggression? Or how much types of "withdrawals" are there. 

I haven't encountered aggression yet. But to what extent would a BPD partner hurt their partner? 

I'm assuming the opposite is also true. Where the BPD person Overly-does something to counteract their feeling of being abandoned??? 

Cause at this moment, its been 2 weeks now that my partner has been withdrawn and I miss them 😬 but at the same time I don't wanna look needy so I'm giving them space, yet I wanna learn more about the condition that they have so I could help them. Is 2 weeks common though? Is that too long? Or what's the longest you guys have been withdrawn