so i have been doing extensive research on BPD, BP, autism and other mental illnesses because i have concerns that i might have 1 or more of these things and the doctor that i went to for an assessment for BPD told me that i haven’t experienced like yet because i’m only 20 and there’s no way i have BPD becuase of that and i have a boyfriend, a stable job and i can take care of my dog so it’s not possible. am i missing something here? like, he keeps telling me all this crap about how the key to life is the find what makes you happy blah blah blah but i just want to know what the hell is wrong with my brain???????

if anyone needs more info i can give it, im actually on the phone with him right now and i’m utterly confused and need the perspective of someone who’s actually been diagnosed becuase this sounds like bullshit to me.