So i work at a dinner, I’m the prep person. There’s this particular coworker i have that i go from liking them to absolutely hating them. Over the past two years of knowing her I’ve notice she would always vent to me about her problems and when i try to vent to her she doesn’t even listen completely ignores it and Continue venting about her problems. She’ll constantly says things that would bring a person down then say “I’m just kidding” when i dont laugh constantly asking me to do things that she can easily do herself at this point her whole existence angers me. She’s just an overall bitch Now sometimes she can be a sweetheart and caring but when i get anger all i see is all the bad things and not the good and due to my bpd anger goes to the extreme I’m a quiet bpd so i direct everything in wards i shutdown i don’t talk i try to ignore her as much as possible because i really don’t want drama if i end up saying something i feel like i might explode on her but it’s like a annoying fly that keep flying around you we can have a good morning talking then boom just straight anger toward her everytime she opens her mouth I’m annoyed as fuck 
Does anyone else experience this type of anger towards coworkers ?