Im not even sure if its possible. I just want to obsess about my own damn self! I want to cherish myself and do things for myself to make my life happier. Easier. I want to feel like I love myself as much as I love my ex. This showed me that I wasnt ready to be in my relationship (as sad as that makes me) I just want to be my own Favorite Person! How in the hell do I do that? 