Hello to whoever reads this. I need help. I went on a date recently with someone and it went well but tonight now they’re asking for me to come over to their house for another date. I know this means she wants to fuck. I don’t know what to do. I’m a virgin and this is my key opportunity to change that but I don’t feel like I have it in me. I’m scared to grow attached to this person. I’m scared to feel emotions. I have trained myself to be so detached for so long and now here I am debating whether to continue in my ways or step out of my comfort zone. This person wants something long term but I plan on leaving this city in a month from now. So I ESPECIALLY don’t want to become attached just because I’m gonna leave. Idk. I am overthinking probably. But I just have such a hard time fathoming having any sort of connection with anyone after spending so many years traumatized trying to detach myself from everything. Any advice appreciated. I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place in my mind.