Wellbutrin has been helping me in that I have more energy and episodes usually don't last as long. The only problem is that I struggle with hypersexuality, and Wellbutrin is making me even more hypersexual. I'm a woman, and my hypersexuality has gotten me into unsafe situations in the past.

I've realized that having sex with strangers is like playing psychological Russian roulette since sometimes I feel unbearable negative emotions afterward, or I get obsessively attached to the person. At the same time, it feels unbearable to not have sexual contact with anyone because it's the only way I feel like I can really connect with people. I keep telling myself to wait to have sex when I find someone I like, and yet I can't stop myself. I feel ashamed about this, and I'm afraid that no one will want to have a long-term partner who's had sex with 28 people and counting (most of whom I had sex with just a couple hours after meeting them). 

At the same time, I'm never sexually satisfied by anyone I have sex with. Almost everyone I've been with seems to want just like 2 minutes of foreplay and 10 minutes of sex. I keep putting myself at risk only to be unsatisfied and feel even worse afterward. 

Can anyone relate to this? Are there any skills that have worked for everyone?