The love of my life has a severe case of BPD. No matter how many times he runs into trouble he won’t admit he needs help. He most recently painted me black and blocked me on all sources. I respect his decision that he doesn’t want to speak to me anymore and I acknowledge his pain though I can’t help but feel sorry for him for isolating himself from people who genuinely love him. I’m reading as much as I can on BPD and learning ways to effectively communicate without triggering when he decides to unblock me. Im wondering from a BPD perspective if there’s a way to tell him that I’ll always be there for him and that I’m not out to get him?