I (23) have wondered about this for a while, but I have a lot of friends with BPD it feels like I almost attract them. I myself don’t have BPD, I have AVPD. 

And I’m not sure if there’s a logical reason I may attract people with BPD. And I don’t consider it a bad thing, I think I’ve only had maybe one or two negative experiences and that’s not their fault inherently. But I’m curious and I hope this doesn’t come off as a rude question.