So I started talking to this guy with BPD (long distance) for 2 of the last 3 months. For the 1st 2 months, everything was going great. We would talk, usually for a couple hours, everyday. We got along well, we clicked. After about 2 months, I flew up to see him. Once again, I thought everything was going so well. I like him so much, I have never felt like this for anyone before. He would always talk about being diagnosed with BPD, and how it was only a matter of time before I got tired of dealing with his BPD and left him, but I told him that I would stick with him through the bad times, because I felt that what we had was real, and the good times were worth taking with the bad. However, shortly after I got back from seeing him he started to get distant. Every time I wanted to talk, something came up and he didn't have the time. Eventually he stopped responding to me, except to tell me about an ex who suddenly moved back, and how he did to want to hurt either of us by choosing one over the other. It's been almost a month since I last heard from him, what can I do? I don't care about how this last month has gone, not hearing from him, I just want him back in my life. What can I do?