Hi everyone I (M21) have a relationship with my best friend and roommate (M21) that resembles the FP dynamic. I try to spend as much time with him as possible, plan my day around him, and feel entirely dependent on his approval, constantly freaking out if i feel like he doesn’t wanna make time for me or see me. He’s starting a relationship with a guy that I am also friends with, and while I can be happy for them both and want to be there for him, I’m fighting huge amounts of anxiety and insecurity that I’m going to be replaced/he won’t need me anymore. He’s made it clear he values me as a friend, but it’s hard to not get so in my head. Every time they hangout it literally feels like I’m being eaten alive and I’m waiting for my friend to come back home. I don’t wanna be like this. I don’t want my own insecurities and projections to ruin something good for my friend. I’m happy i can at least recognize this, but putting it into practice and letting go of the terror i feel towards our dynamic now is definitely a big struggle. Any insights or personal stories would be great. Thank you :)