I’ve been in this messy situationship for a few months and I think she’s starting to pull away. Ugh. It was so intense and we said I love you so soon (too soon) and lately she’s been so so distant. Just a few texts a day, fake smiles, little to no physical reciprocation when I try to hold her hand or hug her. Brushing off my romance and cute texts by making what I say into a silly little joke. I’m sure you’re all familiar. 

This might be toxic as hell but I’m just gonna keep acting like everything is normal until SHE has the balls to tell me she doesn’t want this anymore. I won’t super intense but I’m not bringing anything up either. It always goes like this and I always pick up on it very quickly and confront them about it and get my feelings hurt when they’re like “yeah actually I have been wanting to end things”. You’re not gonna get me to drag it out of you girl. Not this time.

How do you guys usually deal with the crippling loneliness that comes along with this? She was the one person I talked to all day and now I’m just alone.