I have a bad habit of setting my sights on being someone’s friend and then becoming a little too much. A new soul has wandered into my eye line and I was immediately determined to be his friend. Whenever this happens, I get so locked in on wanting to be their best friend that I feel like I’m coming across as clingy, flirty, obsessive, possessive. It’s not a romantic or sexual attraction. It’s purely platonic. And I don’t know how to calm it down. Do I just avoid being friends with anyone that caused this kind of pull?