My gf has bpd. Do people with bpd feel an overwhelming desire to be taken care of? 
She is usually dominant in bed but when she does let me take over she cries of happiness. 

It seems like she really needs to stop trying to constantly be in control, do people with bpd have big control issues?

Sorry if I offend, I’m confused and curious, I want to know more about my gf’s bpd and how it affects her