I feel like every time someone makes a comment about me, even something as simple as "I thought you might like this", I have this need to ask the other person a lot of questions regarding myself. Like, for example, "why do you think that? ", "would you define me as x? Why?", "what am I really like?", "do I come across as the kind of person who would enjoy x?", etc. I think it has to do with the lack of self-identity that comes with being BPD, but I was wondering if anyone on this sub feels the same.