Sorry if this is long you dont have to read it if you dont want to, Im 16, trans ftm, and i recently got diagnosed with adhd after being diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety after age 12. Getting diagnosed with adhd made a lot of things much clearer about my life and my problems within it. ive been without a therapist for about 2 months (after regularly having one for about 4 years) and its been difficult not being able to tell someone about these probles i have. the last session i had with my therapist suggested i get an IEP for school for college so i'll be able to go through college easier. My oldest sister has autism and my dad has adhd, but for some reason, my mom just doesnt believe theres a problem with me. My grades sophmore year were borederline passing, C- in nearly all. Mom didnt see a problem with my learning, even though ive been a straight A student since 2nd grade. today i mentioned the idea of a iep and she FREAKED at me. she said why would you need one of those your fine. she said that i show no signs of learning problems, even after being diagnosed by my therapist, she says i need a real doctors diagnosis. she says all i do is procrastinate my work and im the reason my grades fail. she even brought up the fact that im overweight and trying to do sports that im doing poorly at. she brought up the fact that im trying to play club to get better and she has to pay for it. she brought up how much she does for me and how ungrateful i am about it. she tells me how rude i am and how horrible of a child i am being to her. I'm waiting until i turn 18 so i can move into my friends spare room until i finish senior year and then go to college in my town. How can i deal with the amount of emotional abuse im put with? any response is so much help