I've been with my partner for almost two years and he is incredibly supportive and caring, gives me enough attention, takes care of me and loves me to bits. He's the only one I truly trust and know that he will never hurt me. But the problem is that I don't know what love is, and if I only want to be with him cause he takes care of my bpd problems and 'fixes' me. I guess it's part of the whole lack of identity and emptiness thing, you just don't know what is what and can never be sure of anything..