I think my BPD manifests differently but my worst BPD symptoms are all related to relationships and attachments. My emotions, identity, and overall emotional state becomes extremely fragile when I’m in a relationship or when I like someone . When I’m not in a relationship, I feel a lot more free and emotionally stable. Being in a relationship just .. makes everything worse. I don’t know if it’s just me but I really don’t understand why other people with BPD (who know they become obsessive/unstable in relationships) keep getting into relationships when it goes wrong most of the time