Hello i am in love with my girlfriend of four months and i need some guidance of how to treat her right especially when her BPD is kicking in sometimes it feels whatever i do she will end up turning it and using it at her self so she could hate herself more. What angers me the most is how amazing and wonderful she is but she is blinded by self hate. I love her so much and im afraid of hurting her. im afraid of our relationship turning toxic. She is amazing and knows when her bpd is kicking in i just don’t want us ending up badly i just don’t want to break her...