hello all— my boyfriend is diagnosed bpd and i want to try to understand more. over the course of our relationship i have read a bunch of psychology today (&amp;what have you) articles about bpd and about dating someone who has been diagnosed but they all seem relatively surface level or regurgitate the same basic info. i also feel like almost every article i’ve read have been about women with bpd which while that is obviously applicable and i know that bpd is more commonly diagnosed in women it still maybe isn’t 100% applicable. i have also deeply scrolled through the information flair and have read a bunch of those articles as well but mostly the same thing. i suppose i’m looking for maybe a book? or really just better information on how to understand *and really* how to support!!!! him. i have been diagnosed bipolar and ptsd and a bunch of other things in the past so i feel like i can mostly understand at least the roots of the diagnosis, but every time i ask him about how to be supportive he is at a loss for how to effectively do so. if you can offer any advice or resources or where to find said resources it would be greatly appreciated.

(tldr; looking to better support partner with bpd)