In a weird situation i dated someone with BPD for two weeks we really wanted the same things and much more, it was an amazing spark/connection and then as soon as i asked "do you love me" after an intimate moment she freaked out and abandoned me said we should move on.. It was a real shock/heartache and a total random moment but it's how i got  to know about BPD and question myself if i have it and to learn about it. It's a moment where i  done nothing wrong yet got abandoned it messed me up for a few weeks but hopefully im not the only one to experience this? There could of been a third party involved after the "freak out" she quickly returned to a dating app as i found out &amp; she was online (from a friend &amp; seen the proof) and it really hurt to see that so sudden.