hey everyone! 
i’m reaching out because i noticed that i can’t control myself from oversharing even when no one asks or giving service, helping out people by giving them money if needed. The problem is that at the end of the day, i regret saying too much because i feel like i’m involving everyone in my life when they’re literally not helping me but just listening as if it’s a new gossip. I also feel used all along because I can’t stop myself from saying yes to any person who needs money or help in anything. It’s weird because i never noticed that i was doing that, idk if it’s a bpd behaviour but yeah it’s kinda ruining my life rn.. Do you experience that too? What can i do to overcome it ?