(tw abuse). my dad does have history of being physically abusive to me and my sister. up till 2 years ago, well no, up till now. he hit me, pushed me off chairs, locked me in his car and screamed at me for 40 min bc i was doing bad in school, (i think the whole block heard, i was petrified and had a panic attack) pulled my healing helix piercing etc etc. anyways. i’m pretty sure he has anger issues because i’ll say one thing, take “but you told me to do my old assignments” (he says he didn’t tell me that, but he did) and he’ll lash out and hit me. the other day he was helping me w math hw and every 5 min he would have random outbursts of “frustration” ?? and start swearing at me. my sis walked in and told me to be quiet cus he was gonna hit me, he went over and hit her repeatedly. i was so scared cus she didn’t even do anything.. idek why he was mad.. i didn’t even do anything that day.. he uses us as a stress relievers i swear. rn he came upstairs and lectured me on school, he hit me because i showed him my assignment that is due, rather than telling him. than he comes back to us to apologize for hitting or screaming at us. i don’t even know at this point. he gets so angry out of nowhere and than calm the next minute. its like walking on eggshells around him. i can go from joking with him, to him taking it personal and screaming and/or hitting me. he acts like he’s so sorry, i don’t know if he is. he’s completely different when he’s angry. he’s terrifying, he swears he gets these crazy eyes, he can’t stop himself. but when he’s normal, he’s so kind. what’s wrong with him, idk if he’s just abusive or if he’s dealing with anger issues