I’m curious about how people with BPD “reject” others. 

Most of the literature I can find centers on the emotions and actions of people with BPD in relation to abandonment from others but I’m curious to know how someone with BPD would treat someone they didn’t like for example if this person liked them. Would you still do things like trying to gauge their reactions or flirting with others in front of them etc? Even if you had no desire to be with them