Hi there! Hope you’re all safe and well.
I wanted to ask how was your experience being in a long term relationship (with a non BPD but someone who has extreme anxiety/depressive episodes)

I’m currently in my longest (2 years and 1 month) but sometimes I struggle and I feel like I’m pushing him away amongst other not-that-great feelings..

How was/is your experience? What did you feel/experience? Is this a ~~BPD “thing”~~ ? How did you cope? Any advice?