I know this is a common symptom of BPD, but I feel like I put in way more effort into caring about other people than they do me. When it comes to my FP, I try probably too hard to care about and comfort them whenever they aren't feeling well (which is pretty often,) but I don't really get the same treatment back. I'll say something about not feeling well and he'll just be like "Take care of yourself," and that's it. It feels like nothing. I know I shouldn't expect people to comfort me but I would appreciate it once in a while I guess.