Sorry if the title upsets. But I'm very curious to see how often BPD correlates with shit parents. My parents are super conservative and homophobic so from as early as age 5 I got repeatedly told that they hated people like me and people like me were going to burn in hell. 

They didn't know I was gay but the effects were very much felt and since my earliest moments of sentience I have been desperately trying to find people to provide unconditionally love where they didn't.