Obviously the bpd hasn't gone away and is just reclining and much better handled but compared to where I was a coupl3 years ago I am so much healthier.

I'm trying to reconnect with the person I abused to make ammends. 
So far it's going good and we've established a over text only relationship and he's not ready for in person and we've set some boundaries between us.

Currently we're nc for this weekend as he's ill and wants some space which I've stuck to.

But I know he's fully not trusting me I've changed and by right too but I want to change that, it's harder over text because most of my problems were my moor changes and anger.

So far I've been taking care to ask about him and listen to him which is something I never did. 

Can anyone help me figure out some other ways?
Thank you : )