Let me just say I (25f) have bpd been diagnosed for 3 years. My friend L (f27) also has bpd. She was there for me during a bad time and has quite a backstory. She was homeless for the 3rd time bc she lied about getting a house to her bf. She slept with her ex husband (when she was with her bf). Lies constantly to people (but apparently not to me, because that’s true right?) . She blames everything on bpd. Has a whole tik tok dedicated to making bpd content. As a person with bpd it’s great having other bpd people to talk to, but when your friend does horrible things and blames it on people “not understanding bpd” it drives me insane. Lying, cheating, etc isnt bpds fault it’s yours. Take accountability.