ive been doing a lot of research and learning about my partner’s illness, im still learning and i want to know what i can do whenever something triggers them. do i tell them that its their illness controlling them? do i ignore them? do i talk to them? do i just listen and nod? do i respond? i want to know what a person with bpd need whenever it occurs. my partner hv a difficult time explaining what they need, and i dont want to pressure them into telling me. i need some opinions so i could suggest it to them, and would they feel comfortable with it.
appreciate u guys :)