memory blurred forgetfulness fatigued low self exteem exhaustion loss of balance independent overweight paranoid. i have 45 year old daughter who is extremely negative. doesn't care what she looks like. it is so embarrassing. . she doesn't trust anyone and no one is going to tell her what to do! . she always has a cigarette and a can of coke in her hands. says she never eats anything but is extremely overweight huge stomach. i am so worried and we think she has a serious problem. we love our daughter but feel she is slipping away. please give us some advice? we are walking on egg shells with her.
it would not be possible to adequately assess your daughter based on your internet posting. as a concerned parent of an adult child the only thing you can do is try to get her some help with a psychologist or psychiatrist as a first step. you can't make her go but you can be assertive in your suggestion.