my boyfriend's premature ejaculation problem. i'm starting to get a little bit concerned now because my other half ejaculates before we even do anything. . . . i mean literally anything. we'll be lying in bed cuddling/spooning like every other couple does but he will just ejaculate out of nowhere. . . . we havent had sex in well over a month now which is quite annoying considering we havent been together that long! we used to have sex which would last 10 mins max (if i was lucky) but we dont even get to that stage now. he's only 31! help? !
there can be many reasons for premature ejaculation but unfortunately i would not be able to sort them out for your boyfriend over the internet. his problem could simply be over-excitation. there are several techniques that you can find on the internet to help delay ejaculation but i have one simple suggestion. who said that a man can only have one ejaculation? continue to be intimate after this early ejaculation allowing time for a refractory period. soon he will be ready and able to try again. this second time will most likely take longer. he can also spend more time pleasing you. first.