i and my bf are virgins. do we can get sti and we involve in smooch and breast sucking and fingering. please help. really need help as both are 19
most helpful answer an std (sexually-transmitted disease) is caused by sexual exposure to someone who has an std. since neither one of you have had sex then you are presumed to be std-free (unless someone is not telling the truth). the only std that could be an issue is herpes simplex if one of you has a history of cold sores/fever blisters and engages in an activity that could spread this virus to a genital area. sexual play often escalates over time so a word of caution for both of you to be prepared in case your intimacy leads to riskier sex play (genital contact) or intercourse.