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  Print Email Font ResizeWhy singles annoy couplesBy Jessica Yadegaranjyadegaran@bayareanewsgroup.comPosted:
  08/21/2013 03:00:00 PM PDTWondering why your smug coupled friends act like they pity you? Consult this list, courtesy of readers as well as Kristin Laurin, a Stanford University assistant professor of organizational behavior, and Bonnie L. Faber, a San Jose marriage and family therapist. These are among the most common complaints couples have about singles.1. Complaint: They are selfish and are not contributing to society by starting a family. Response: Really? So the only way to contribute to society is to procreate? Not. Fair.2. Complaint: They party and sleep in late. Response: You, coupled friend, probably have children and are sleep-deprived. Otherwise, the single friend has shown up late for brunch one too many times. 3. Complaint: They don't like to spend time with my spouse or kids. Response: Make an effort to get to know your friend's spouse or child. They are an integral part of your friend's life, and it is hurtful that you're not connecting with them.4. Complaint: They complain about being single all the time.Response: You were probably there at one point, too. Be a good friend, and listen to the complaining. Then, gently remind them that they will find a partner someday.5. Complaint: They don't appreciate their freedom and independence. Response: The grass is always greener. Advertisement