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  Relationship	- Divorce	Divorce is a devastating and often heart wrenching ordeal. Many people find recovering from divorce one of the most difficult experiences that they have ever encountered. There are ways in which to make your divorce recovery a healing experience that will allow you to recreate your life and give you the motivation and the emotional ability to move on. First, in order to completely recover from divorce and get on with your life you must grieve the part of your life that is ending. You should never be afraid to allow yourself to experience sadness, anger and even depression over the loss of your marriage. No matter what reason the marriage ended there are bound to be dark feelings that you need to deal with. Allow yourself the luxury of crying when necessary or feeling completely overwhelmed at the change in your life. After all, at one time you had high hopes for your marriage and its future. You must grieve for the marriage that no longer has a future. These feelings may seem strong but they will pass. You should also know that your feelings, although they can seem very intense, will not control or destroy your life completely. When and only when you allow yourself to feel every emotion that comes with your divorce will you begin the healing process. Spend time with people in your life who will empathize and listen to your feelings. It is very important for you to be around people who care about you and will allow you to speak your mind. This may be a family member or friend. This is not the time to seek advice on dealing with your emotional issues. What you need at this point is simply someone who will listen to how you feel, whatever course that may take. It is also vitally important that you understand why the marriage ended. Before you can deal with divorce and move on you need to know why your marriage has no future. Whether this is related to cheating, abuse or simply irreconcilable differences, you will need to be brutally honest with yourself and understand all the events that ultimately led you to the place where you now are.Now it is time to forgive. You should forgive your spouse for whatever part they played in your divorce but you should also forgive yourself. This is a vitally important step in recovering from this period in your life. You need to understand that if you hold on to hurt feelings or resentment it will eventually eat you up inside. Forgiving yourself and your spouse is the only way to truly recover from a divorce and learn to live again. You need to learn about yourself. At some point in the future you will love again. Understand that and believe it and you will get through this much easier. But, if you are going to have another relationship in the future then you need to fully understand yourself and your relationship aspects. If not then you run the risk of repeating the same mistakes that you may have made in your failed marriage. You need to fully understand what you truly want from a relationship and what you want in a partner. Above all you should take care of yourself while you are grieving the loss of your marriage. This is a painful and stressful time. Taking time off work if feasible and allowing yourself to rest is important. Also strive to eat healthy, get plenty of exercise and indulge in a luxury such as a massage or even a weekend away. Treat yourself to things that you normally would not. Make sure that you understand that this is only a bump in the road to your ultimate happiness. You will find love again. Your hopes and dreams are not dead they are simply hibernating. They will spring to life again once you have recovered and you will again be happy. Bookmark Comments (0)
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