text: Talking With Your Doctor - NIH News in Health, June 2015
  Patients and health care providers share a very personal relationship. Doctors need to know a lot about you, your family, and your lifestyle to give you the best medical care. And you need to speak up and share your concerns and questions. Clear and honest communication between you and your physician can help you both make smart choices about your health. Begin with some preparation. Before your health exam, make a list of any concerns and questions you have. Bring this list to your appointment, so you won't forget anything. Do you have a new symptom? Have you noticed side effects from your medicines? Do you want to know the meaning of a certain word? Don't wait for the doctor to bring up a certain topic, because he or she may not know what's important to you. Speak up with your concerns.
  Many people search online for health information. They use Web-based tools to research symptoms and learn about different illnesses. But you can't diagnose your own condition or someone else's based on a Web search. "As a physician, I personally have no problem with people looking on the Web for information, but they should use that information not as a way to self-diagnose or make decisions, but as a way to plan their visit with the doctor," says Memoli. Ask your doctor to recommend specific websites or resources, so you know you're getting your facts from a trusted source. Federal agencies are among the most reliable sources of online health information.
  Tips for Your Doctor Visit Write down a list of questions and concerns before your exam. Consider bringing a close friend or family member with you.
  Speak your mind. Tell your doctor how you feel, including things that may seem unimportant or embarrassing. If you don't understand something, ask questions until you do. Take notes about what the doctor says, or ask a friend or family member to take notes for you. Ask about the best way to contact the doctor (by phone, email, etc.). Remember that other members of your health care team, such as nurses and pharmacists, can be good sources of information. Talking to Your Doctor: Resources from NIH Talking with Your Doctor: A Guide for Older People