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  July 13, 2018 June 23, 2020 by
  The thought of moving in with your significant other might put you on cloud nine, but floating off before you have some important and necessary discussions can be dangerous for you and your relationship.
  Your cousin started dating her boyfriend 3 months before her big move to Nashville for her music career. So what happens when 2 months before your big move to an internship across the country, you meet the guy of your dreams? You hold onto that guy for dear life and hope you can make it through the next 4 months without him. You swear everyone was wrong about long distance, and that you and your new boy are different! But what is it about big moves to new study abroad countries or internship cities that make us clutch onto our new relationships with everything we have?
  One of the hardest things in the world to do is to watch someone walk away. It's not only an emotional blow, it's a blow to the ego. No one wants to be rejected.
  Originally Posted by Lior Arel So, you just started feeling romantic towards each other when he is suddenly planning on moving long distance? Is it possible that: He's always felt that way towards you, but now that you are showing him feelings with ultimately the goal only being to get outta dodge he's reciprocating I'm not saying that either of those scenarios apply, but it's worth investigating in yourself.
  I love it here and would be hesitant to move unless it was for the right reasons. But I think you nailed it with option a. But now I find myself having feelings that I wouldn't necessarily want to just give up on in a few months, which is why I'm asking what everyone thinks. The way I see it I have two real options- end it now and be bummed, knowing I could be missing out on something good but protecting myself from that potential heart ache if he ups and moves and it ends then.
  Why make it worse in a few months if I we can just have a clean break now before it really gets serious. Or two- let it progress and become more serious knowing that I will probably have to move there eventually if we were to continue this. I know the safe thing is to just not let myself get deeply involved, but I don't want to always look back and wonder either.
  We men, we hate being dumped. If he still created a profile online, then he is probably just looking to occupy his mind.
  Have you spent a full week together yet? Vacations have a way of bringing out the best and worst in a want to go see one thing, he wants to do something else, and you spend the rest of the vacation apart or arguing.
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