text: Friendships between opposite sexes can only work when BOTH people are strictly platonic and have zero attraction to each other. The moment one person develops deeper feelings/attraction, it's over. So, your boyfriend staying friends with this girl and entertaining her advances makes him completely disrespectful to you and your relationship with him. He tells you that he loves you, but his actions speak otherwise. IF he loved you like he claims, the other girl would be long gone out of your life.