code: function(props, params){
  			var id = this.id(params || props);
  			var instance = this.instanceStore.get(id);
  			if( !instance ) {
  				instance = this.hydrateInstance(props);
  			}
  			var serialized = this.serializeInstance(instance);
  			this.destroyedInstance(instance, props);
  			// we can pre-register it so everything else finds it
  			destroy.call(this, serialized);
  			return undefined;
  		}
docs: @function can-connect/real-time/real-time.destroyedData destroyedData
  @parent can-connect/real-time/real-time.callbacks
  
  @signature `connection.destroyedData(props, params)`
  
  Gets the instance for this request.  Then tests if the instance
  is in any list in the [can-connect/constructor/store/store.listStore].  If
  it is, removes the instance from the list.
  
  @param {Object} props The properties of the destroyed instance.
  @param {Object} [params] The parameters used to destroy the data.