code: public void send(final String aname, final String node,
              final OtpErlangObject msg) {
          try {
              final String currentNode = home.node();
              if (node.equals(currentNode)) {
                  send(aname, msg);
              } else if (node.indexOf('@', 0) < 0
                      && node.equals(currentNode.substring(0,
                              currentNode.indexOf('@', 0)))) {
                  send(aname, msg);
              } else {
                  // other node
                  final OtpCookedConnection conn = home.getConnection(node);
                  if (conn == null) {
                      return;
                  }
                  conn.send(self, aname, msg);
              }
          } catch (final Exception e) {
          }
      }
docs: Send a message to a named mailbox created from another node.
  
  @param aname
  the registered name of recipient mailbox.
  
  @param node
  the name of the remote node where the recipient mailbox is
  registered.
  
  @param msg
  the body of the message to send.