code: public void sendToMe(SIBUuid8 targetME, int priority, AbstractMessage aMessage)
    {
      if (TraceComponent.isAnyTracingEnabled() && tc.isEntryEnabled())
        SibTr.entry(tc, "sendToMe", new Object[] { aMessage, Integer.valueOf(priority), targetME });
    
      // find an appropriate MPConnection
      MPConnection firstChoice = findMPConnection(targetME);
    
      if (TraceComponent.isAnyTracingEnabled() && tc.isDebugEnabled())
        SibTr.debug(tc, "sendToMe", firstChoice);
  
      // Minimal comms trace of the message we're trying to send
      if (TraceComponent.isAnyTracingEnabled()) {
        MECommsTrc.traceMessage(tc, 
            _messageProcessor, 
            aMessage.getGuaranteedTargetMessagingEngineUUID(), 
            MECommsTrc.OP_SEND, 
            firstChoice, 
            aMessage);
      }
      
      if(firstChoice != null)
      {
        //send the message
        firstChoice.send(aMessage, priority);
      }
  
      if (TraceComponent.isAnyTracingEnabled() && tc.isEntryEnabled())
        SibTr.exit(tc, "sendToMe");
    }
docs: Send a ControlMessage to one specific ME
  
  @param aMessage The ControlMessage to be sent
  @param priority The priority at which to send the message
  @param targetME The ME to send the message to