code: public ManyToMany<Attributes<T>> getOrCreateManyToMany()
     {
        List<Node> nodeList = childNode.get("many-to-many");
        if (nodeList != null &&  nodeList.size() > 0)
        {
           return new ManyToManyImpl<Attributes<T>>(this, "many-to-many", childNode, nodeList.get(0));
        }
        return createManyToMany();
     }
docs: If not already created, a new <code>many-to-many</code> element will be created and returned.
  Otherwise, the first existing <code>many-to-many</code> element will be returned.
  @return the instance defined for the element <code>many-to-many</code>