code: public BUILDER setRestartAllServices() {
          removeFlag(AttributeAccess.Flag.RESTART_NONE);
          removeFlag(AttributeAccess.Flag.RESTART_RESOURCE_SERVICES);
          removeFlag(AttributeAccess.Flag.RESTART_JVM);
          return addFlag(AttributeAccess.Flag.RESTART_ALL_SERVICES);
      }
docs: Adds the {@link AttributeAccess.Flag#RESTART_ALL_SERVICES} flag and removes any conflicting flag.
  
  @return a builder that can be used to continue building the attribute definition