Not having ready reply erodes their self-confidence;They are in a community, which has never had a sense of its own responsibility to speak up and so has surrendered its responsibility to express its own needs.;They believe that listening is unnecessary, that their life experience is sufficient for deciding on a course of action.;They listen to gain support for a course of action they already have in mind rather than as a way of learning the true needs to which their plan of action should respond.;They feel threatened by diversity and fail to appreciate the value of viewpoints and life experiences different from their own.
Msaada mkubwa ni kutengeneza mifumo ya kijamii inayoruhusu mijadala ya pamoja. Mijadala ambayo kila mtu anaweza kutoa mawazo yake, wasiwasi wake, udhaifu wake na mchango wake katika kuwasaidia wengine. Tunahitaji kutengeneza mifumo ya kuufukuza upweke mioyoni mwa watu, kuufukuza upweke kwenye ndoa, kwenye familia na kwenye jamii nzima. Bila kufanya hivyo tutamezwa na matatizo haya yanayojitokeza. Mwenye masikio na asikie! Na,