Within the family, the husband and wife can train themselves, embellish themselves with noble traits. They can not only cultivate good habits themselves, but also motivate other members of the family to follow suit. But in the eyes of sociologists, achieving these two things - training themselves and motivating others, is rather difficult. A person needs some effort for curbing the base traits and planting the sapling of virtue in his mind. Normally people struggle to make a smooth transformation in their natures. فَلَا اقْتَحَمَ الْعَقَبَةَ وَ مَا أَدْرَئكَ مَا الْعَقَبَةُ فَكُّ رَقَبَة But he hath not attempted the ascent— Ah! what will convey unto thee what the Ascent is!— (It is) to free a slave. (Sura al Balad, 90: 11-13) Expelling undesirable habits from one’s nature is a difficult task. But one has to get rid of them before they assume stormy proportions. When one succeeds in this effort, the person plants the sapling of virtue in his nature. To nourish this sapling one has to make strenuous efforts.
JAWABU: Mtazamo wa Uislaam kuhusiana na familia-baada ya kumuangalia mtu mmoja mmoja-ni kuwa familia ndio msingi wa kwanza au tofali la kwanza la msingi katika kujenga jemii njema kwa hivyo Uislaam unakwenda mbio kuhakikisha familia zina kuwa ni familia njema ili jamii iwe njema na nzuri (kwani usafi wa familia ndio sababu ya usafi wa jamii) na kutokana na manti hii tunaona kuwa Uislaam unafaradhisha (kuvaa hijab) kwa mwanamke, Mwenyezi Mungu amesema: