Maybe instead of any idea of ‘what it is’ to be a man (or a woman, for that matter), what many need is confirmation that it is okay to be whoever you are… fat, thin, male, female, straight, gay, other, happy, sad, strong, weak, confident, scared shitless, or whatever you are right now. Who…
Labda badala ya wazo lolote la ‘ni nini’ kuwa mtu (au mwanamke, kwa kuwa jambo), kile wengi haja ni uthibitisho kwamba ni sawa na kuwa mtu wewe ni … mafuta, hafifu, wanaume, wanawake, sawa, mashoga, mengine, furaha, huzuni, imara, dhaifu, ujasiri, hofu shitless, au chochote wewe ni haki sasa.