When parents donâ t satisfy the natural urges and desires of the child, the child then resorts to wrong ways and means (often linked to sin) to try and give himself the necessary push to build his sense of self and importance. Personality, independence, will, self-trust, and likewise, weakness, baseness and lack of self-trust are all characteristics the foundations of which are in the lap of the father and bosom of the mother.
Kwa kuwa mtoto atachukua mwenendo wa wajomba na shangazi zake, asili ya undani ya baba yake na mama yake, na akajifunza kupitia kwa urathi ambao umepitia kutokana kwa muungano wa baba yake na mama yake, na ndipo Uislamu ukazitengeneza asili hizi kwa njia hiyo ili kumhifadhi mtoto awe ni kiumbe mwenye heshima na nidhamu, na hivyo kuepukana na upungufu wowote.