Further on the way home, they met an old lady. She commented, “ how can the man ride the donkey but let the wife walk, he is no gentleman.” The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, met a young man. He commented, “poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons, they are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on the shoulders.
Wanasaikolojia wamehitimisha kwamba tangu mtoto anapozaliwa anakuwa na nafasi tupu (empty) kwa ajili ya kujaza Upendo na Upendo unavyozidi kujaa katika hiyo nafasi ndipo katika kukua kwake anakuwa imara kihisia (emotionally) na bila kupendwa ataathirika, Angalia watu ambao walikosa Upendo tangu wadogo kutoka jamii waliyozaliwa then utaona tofauti.