They should know each other's views on marriage, finances, in-laws, child-rearing, discipline, duties of a husband and wife, whether only one of them or both will be working outside the home, and the level of the other person’s spiritual maturity.
Wanapaswa kujua maoni ya kila mmoja kuhusu ndoa, fedha, mashemeji, ulezi wa watoto, nidhamu, majukumu ya mume na mke, kama ni mmoja tu au ni wote wawili watafanya kazi nje ya boma, na kiwango cha ukomavu kiroho cha mwingine.