If, on the other hand, he should be willing to find out the miseries of his fall, his understanding might furnish him with reasons for constant mourning, for despising and denying himself; might point out the sad effects of turning away from God and losing his Spirit, in the shame and anguish of a nature at variance with itself; thirsting after immortality, and yet subject to death; approving righteousness, and yet taking pleasure in things inconsistent with it; feeling an immense want of something to perfect and satisfy all it faculties, and yet neither able to know what that mighty thing is, otherwise than from its present defects, nor how to attain it, otherwise than by going contrary to its present inclinations.
Usipomfundisha akajua mitazamo na shabaha zako itakuwa ni rahisi na yeye kuendelea na utawala wa mfumo wa maisha yake na akajikuta anawaambukiza mpaka watoto wako tabia yake. Na ndio maana unaweza kukuta wanao walikuwa wanaenda vizuri sana ila tu alipokuja mfanyakazi tabia zao zimeanza kubadilika, hii ni kwa sababu watoto wanapenda kuiga sana na wakati mwingi wanaathririwa na wale waliokaribu nao. Usidhanie kuwa yupo pale kwa ajili ya kukusaidia kazi tu, kumbuka na upande wa pili kwa ataishi na wanao kwa ukaribu na kwa muda wote ambao wewe haupo, kama hajui wewe ni nani, unaamini nini, na unashabaha gani lazima atajikuta anaingiza tabia yake kwa watoto wako.