Sometimes he has even been sniffing the carpets in case they would have some strange smells. He has threatened to lock the doors from outside when he goes to work, if my sister supposedly does not clean up her act. He has also hit my sister in his attempt to weed out the bad habits from her. He talks to my sister in a very bad way and with awful words when he gets worked up about these non-existent things. My sister feels exhausted and the children are also suffering because of the atmosphere at home.
Kwa njia ya kutumia nguvu katika heshimu ya mtu wanajaribu kuzuia nakuumiza vishindo aibu kolicho tokea kwa mwanaume. Kutumia nguvu kuhusu heshimu ya mtu, kulinda mtu kila siku na ku kutisha inadumaza maisha ya wachichnana na wanawake ya wahamiaji hata hapa Finland. Kutumia nguvu kuhusu heshimu ni kawaida familia au wajamaa na wanataka rudi kwa yule ambayo wanafikiri hana heshima.