Instead of telling him,“Never mind, I’ll just do it myself” when probably he didn’t hear you ask him for a favor the first time does put them off. When you have asked him to do something, let him do it. Men hate this habit when you make faces and say “never mind, I’ll do it myself”.
Kuna tabia uwa ni za kipekee toka kwa mwenzi wako, hivyo unaweza ukaomba ushauri ukihisi kuwa ushauri wa rafiki zako uanweza kutatua tatizo ilo kumbe mawazo unayoyabeba na kutaka kuyafanyia kazi hayaendani kabisa na tabia za mwenzi wako au tatito mlilonalo na mtu wako, hii inaweza kukuumiza zaidi au hata kuaribu mahusiano kwa kuiga kitu kisichoendana na mahusiano yenu.Jifunze kufanikisha mahusiano yenu kwa kutumia njia zako mwenyewe.