We should also be clear on the biblical characteristics of a godly husband or wife, and we should seek someone who qualifies on a spiritual level. It is important to understand these qualities first and then seek someone who possesses those qualities.
Ni muhimu kuwa na uelewa wa wazi wa sifa hizi kwanza na kisha kutafuta mtu ambaye ako nazo. "Kuingia katika mapenzi" na mtu na kisha kugundua yeye hana sifa za kiroho kumwezesha kuwa mchumba wetu ni kukaribisha maumivu ya moyo na kujiweka katika nafasi ngumu sana.