For example, going to church is not negotiable because God commands us to gather together with other believers (Hebrews 10:25), but children can have a say (within reason) in what they wear, where the family sits, etc. Give them projects in which they can give input like planning the family vacation.
Kwa mfano, kwenda kanisani sio jambo la kuhojiana sababu Mungu ametuamuru kukusanya pamoja na waumini wengine (Waebrania 10:25), lakini watoto wanaweza kuwa na usemi (ndani ya sababu) juu ya kile watavaa, mahali ambapo familia itakaa, nk Wape miradi ambayo wanaweza kutoa mchango kama vile mipango ya likizo ya familia.