The second factor is incompatibility. Marriage partners, more often than not, find themselves that they are not a match for their marriages, “We have nothing in common,” a father of two, with five years in marriage, told The African on Sunday. “My husband and I are about 180 degrees apart on virtually everything,” says one woman who wishes to remain anonymous. “Not a day passes that I don’t bitterly regret my decision to marry him. We are just badly mismatched.” Usually it does not take long for a married couple to discover that they are not as much alike as they seemed to be during courtship.
Ni rahisi zaidi kukanusha kuwa alizaliwa Desemba 25 kuliko ilivyo rahisi kuthibitisha kuwa alizaliwa Desemba 25. Msingi wa dini ya Kikristo, yaani Biblia, hauonyeshi uhusiano wowote wa Desemba 25 na Krismasi, au uhusiano wa tarehe nyingine yoyote na siku aliyozaliwa Yesu Kristo kwa kuwa siku ya kuzaliwa kwake “haiwezi kuthibitishwa na Agano Jipya, au, kwa kweli haiwezi kuthibitishwa na chanzo kingine chochote,” kinasema kitabu Cyclopedia of Biblical, Theological and Ecclesiastical Literature.