Heterosexual Marriage. The advice often given by pastors and teachers is, “Just find a nice girl and get married.” Would you really want your daughter or son to marry someone who is homosexual and cannot genuinely be attracted to or fully appreciate the beauty of someone of the opposite sex? Heterosexual spouses in mixed-orientation marriages usually think something is wrong with them—that they are not attractive or desirable enough, while the homosexual spouses find the stress of pretending to be something they are not eventually becomes unsustainable.
Ndoa na watu wa jinsia ya kawaida ya Ngono: Ile mawaidha wahubiri na waalimu hupeana wakati mwingi ni, “tafuta msichana mzuri wa kuoa.” Kwa ukweli, ungetaka msichana wako au mvulana aolewe au aoe shoga ambaye hawezi kwa hakika vutiwa kwa mtu wa jinsia ya kawaida aidha kuukubali urembo wake? Watu wa jinsia ya kawaida ambao wameoa au kuolewa na shoga au sege hufikiri ya kwamba wao wenyewe wako na kasoro-kuwa wao sio wa kupendeza au kuvutia vya kutosha, ilhali, shoga mwenziwe hupata uzito wa mawazo wa kujifanya kuwa ambacho hawawezi kuwa na mwishowe huwa hawawezi kudumisha hili.