For me, it is unfortunate that such incidents would have to create the framework for a conversation, however the truth is that if painful matters do not create the grounds for finding solutions and mutual consultation, then the damage caused will be multiplied.
Kwa kweli ninasikitika kuona kuwa matukio kama haya yanakuwa msingi wa mazungumzo yangu lakini ukweli wa mambo ni kuwa, iwapo masuala machungu hayatachukuliwa kuwa msingi wa kufikiriwa njia za utatuzi na kuwa chombo cha fikra za pamoja, bila ya shaka hasara ya masuala hayo itakuwa maradufu.