And this self-centeredness is the rut that marriages commonly fall into once the “honeymoon is over.” Instead of each spouse dwelling upon how his or her own needs are not being met, he or she is to remain focused on meeting the needs of the spouse.
Badala ya kila mwanandoa kushinda kulalama jinsi mahitaji yake mwenyewe hayafikiwi, yeye anapaswa kundelea kulenga katika kukidhi mahitaji ya mwenziwe.