I discussed my confusion with one of my colleague & he advised me that first decide who you are & then think about getting married, as otherwise it would have far reaching consequences.
Nilipoanza kuyatafakari mambo yaliyonitatiza kichwani na kuanza kutafuta majibu: Nilijadiliana na mwenzangu mmoja juu ya mambo haya naye akanishauri kwamba niamuwe niwe nani kisha ndiyo nifikiriye kuolewa, kwani vinginevyo kutakuwa na tathira mbaya.