But change becomes more painful when we ignore it. Change will happen, like it or hate it. At one point or another, we are all going to experience different turning points in our life ñ and we are all going to eventually unlock our self improvement power not because the world says so, not because our friends are nagging us, but because we realized its for our own good. Happy people donít just accept change, they embrace it. Now, you donít have to feel a tremendous heat before realizing the need for self improvement. Unlocking your self improvement power means unlocking yourself up in the cage of thought that ìits just the way I amî. It is such a poor excuse for people who fear and resist change. Most of us program our minds like computers. Jen repeatedly tells everyone that she doesnít have the guts to be around groups of people. She heard her mom, her dad, her sister, her teacher tell the same things about her to other people. Over the years, that is what Jen believes. She believes its her story.
យើងបានឈានដល់ចំណុចមួយនៅក្នុងជីវិតរបស់យើងពេលដែលយើងត្រៀមខ្លួនជាស្រេចសម្រាប់ការផ្លាស់ប្តូរនិងជាក្រុមទាំងមូលនៃពដែលនឹងជួយយើងដោះសោរដោយខ្លួនឯងរបស់យើងមានភាពប្រសើរឡើងអំណាច. រហូតមកដល់ពេល, អ្វីមួយដែលអាចត្រូវបានសម្លឹងមើលនៅក្រោមច្រមុះរបស់យើងប៉ុន្តែយើងdonítរបស់យើងមើលឃើញវា. នេះជាគ្រាតែមួយគត់ដែលយើងគិតថាការធ្វើឱ្យប្រសើរឡើងដោយខ្លួនឯងដោះសោអំណាចរបស់យើងគឺនៅពេលដែលអ្វីគ្រប់យ៉ាងបានទទួលអាក្រក់បំផុត. យកគោលការណ៍ឧទាហរណ៍កង្កែប