Not only does this tradition persist, but reparation has become a source of income for families struggling to survive: in this case, any suggestion that a complaint should be filed or any outside assistance that would involve the courts is perceived not only as interference in the exercise of family or community prerogatives, but also as an obstacle to successful “negotiations”; The arrival of a child, often described as a blessing for the family whoever the father may be, is nowadays increasingly seen by the girl as a source of shame and trouble for her family, leading her to have a dangerous abortion or to abandon the newborn, and by the family as scandalous and an extra burden for the future.
Esta tradición persiste pero, además, la reparación se convierte en una fuente de ingresos para la familia en estrategia de supervivencia, en cuyo caso toda sugerencia de denuncia, toda asistencia exterior que lleve a la intervención judicial se percibe no sólo como una injerencia en el ejercicio de las prerrogativas familiares o comunitarias, sino también como un obstáculo a una "negociación" prometedora.