Not only does this tradition persist, but reparation has become a source of income for families struggling to survive: in this case, any suggestion that a complaint should be filed or any outside assistance that would involve the courts is perceived not only as interference in the exercise of family or community prerogatives, but also as an obstacle to successful “negotiations”; The arrival of a child, often described as a blessing for the family whoever the father may be, is nowadays increasingly seen by the girl as a source of shame and trouble for her family, leading her to have a dangerous abortion or to abandon the newborn, and by the family as scandalous and an extra burden for the future.
Cette tradition persiste mais, en outre, la réparation devient source de revenu pour la famille en stratégie de survie; en ce cas, toute suggestion de plainte, toute assistance extérieure provoquant l'intervention judiciaire est perçue non seulement comme une ingérence dans l'exercice de prérogatives familiales ou communautaires, mais également comme un obstacle à une «négociation» prometteuse.