Ka taƙaita labarin:  Shawarwarin jima'i sun fi sauƙi a cikin shekarun 1980, in ji mai ilimin psychotherapist Philippa Perry a cikin shirin BBC4 Sex, Lies & Love Bites. A yau, matasa sun fi rikicewa game da jima'i domin batsa, in ji wani mai ba da shawara game da lafiyar ƙwaƙwalwa. Philippa Perry, 'yar shekara 57, ta yi iƙirarin cewa sauƙin samun bidiyo da hotuna masu lalata ya sa matasa da yawa ba sa iya samun dangantaka mai kyau. Mahaifiyar ɗayan ta ƙara da cewa matsalar matasa ba su fahimci gaskiyar jima'i ba aƙalla yanzu ya yi muni kamar yadda ya taɓa kasancewa. Uwar mahaifiyar jaridar Red da The Guardian, ta ce ta ci karo da matsalolin da batsa ke haifarwa lokaci-lokaci kuma maza suna ƙara juyawa zuwa irin waɗannan ginshiƙai don shawara. Matar mai zane mai lambar yabo ta Turner, Grayson Perry, mai shekaru 54, ta ce: <unk>A zamanin yau mutane suna ilimantar da kansu game da jima'i yawanci ta hanyar kallon batsa kyauta. Suna da ra'ayin da ba daidai ba game da jima'i, suna tunanin mata dole ne su kasance hanya ɗaya kuma duk game da biyayya da mamayewa ne lokacin da ba haka ba ne. <unk>Mutane suna da ra'ayin da bai dace ba game da jima'i kuma sun rasa hanyarsu saboda hotunan batsa. Ba na adawa da batsa amma ba shine mafi amfani da kayan aikin ilimin jima'i ba. Hadarin a zamanin yau yana tattare da mutane da aka fallasa su da ƙuruciya ga wani nau'in jima'i sannan kuma suna tunanin cewa wannan shine jima'i.<unk> Wannan rashin fahimta game da gaskiyar jima'i ya bambanta da na matasa na tsararraki na baya waɗanda suka juya ga gwaggona mata don shawara. Ko da yake a dā rashin sani game da jima'i ne ke sa mutane su kalli hotunan batsa, yanzu matsalar ita ce mutane suna kallon hotunan batsa, sau da yawa suna nuna lalata da kuma nuna ƙarfi, tun suna ƙanana. Ta ce "ya fi muni yanzu, amma ni tsohuwa ce don haka zan faɗi hakan". Ta yi nuni ga wani labari da ta samu na wani saurayi da ya kamu da kallon hotunan batsa har ba ya son mace a zahiri. Ta ce wannan ba shine karo na farko da ta ci karo da wannan matsalar ba kuma cewa <unk>babbar matsala ce a cikin al'umma.<unk> Mrs. Perry, wacce ce...
Likita mai kwantar da hankali Philippa Perry ta yi wani shirin fim game da shawarwarin jima 'i. Jima'i, Lies da Love Bites: Labarin Agony Aunt yana hira da masu ba da shawara daga Graham Norton zuwa ga matan da ke bayan mujallar Jackie. Yawan maza da yawa suna neman taimakon Agony Aunts. Dubi Jima'i, Ƙarya da Ƙaunar Ƙaunar: Labarin Aunt A Agony a BBC4 a yau da dare a karfe 9 na yamma.