Ka taƙaita labarin:  (CNN) Na girma ina kallon "Ka bar shi zuwa Beaver". Yawancin aukuwa, Ward Cleaver zai dawo gida daga aiki a cikin kwat da wando kuma akwai matarsa Yuni, koyaushe a cikin kicin, farar rigarta tana da fari kamar shinge na waje. Yuni ta yi abincin dare, ba shakka, kuma Ward da Wally da Beav sun zauna a teburin kuma sun ci. Kamar yadda na tuna, yawancin lokaci June ce take tsabtace. Wataƙila sau ɗaya ko sau biyu yaran sun taimaka wajen wanke kwanuka. Wataƙila. Ina kallon wasan kwaikwayon a lokacin cin abincin dare, ina zaune a kan kujera da farantin abinci a kafaɗata wanda mahaifiyata ba ta dafa ba. Mahaifiyata tana cikin rukunin "iyaye mata masu aiki" na farko. Ta yi aiki mai nasara a matsayin zartarwa a AT&T sannan kuma Lucent Technologies. Tana fita aiki da wuri kowace safiya, amma kullum tana gida da ƙarfe biyar ko shida - a kan lokaci don ta kasance tare da ni, ba don ta dafa ba. Mahaifina ma yana da aiki na cikakken lokaci, kuma a dukan rayuwata, ban tuna cewa ya buɗe gwangwanin miya ba. Kwanan nan ya koyi amfani da na'urar microwave. Iyayena duka biyu suna aiki sosai, amma babu shakka lokacin da nake girma, dafa abinci hakkin mahaifiyata ne -- koda kuwa hakan na nufin sayen abinci da aka shirya daga Kasuwar Manoma ta Allentown, a saka a cikin faranti, a danna "Power" sannan a danna "Start". A wasu kalmomi, yayin da nake cin abincin dare a shekarun 1980 yayin da nake kallon wani shirin talabijin da ya danganci rayuwa a shekarun 1950, yana da sauƙi a ga cewa wasu abubuwa sun canza kuma wasu ba su yi ba. Rayuwa a cikin gida - abinci, wanki, tsaftacewa, tsaftacewa, tufafi, tsaftacewa - alhakin mahaifiyata ne, kamar yadda yake na June Cleaver. A waje da gidan - ciyawa, motoci, duk wani abu da aka yi ko aka ajiye a gareji, wasanni, hawan keke - wannan shi ne ikon mahaifina. Kuma a bayyane yake, lokacin da motar ta lalace, babban abu ne, amma wanda ya zo sau da yawa fiye da yadda muke buƙatar abinci da wanki. Hakan ya sa mahaifiyata baƙin ciki sosai. Masanin ilimin zamantakewa Arlie Russell Hochschild ya kirkiro wannan "canji na biyu": yadda duk da cewa mata da yawa sun fara aiki a waje da gida, sun kasance...
Sally Kohn: Shekaru da dama bayan "Ku bar shi zuwa Beaver", mata har yanzu suna ɗaukar mafi yawan ayyukan gida, kula da yara. Ta ce wani sabon yunƙurin sabis na jama'a yana da nufin shigar da maza cikin raba waɗannan ayyukan, yana ƙarfafa samari suyi haka.