Pfupisa nyaya yacho:  Kungasaita sokune rudo zvikuru. Asi kubvisa pfungwa yokuti tinofanira kuroorana kwoupenyu hwose kwaigona kubetsera vazhinji vedu kuva noukama hunofadza zvikuru, maererano nomurapi weroorano. Kuroorana kwechigarire, uko vakaroorana vanosaina chibvumirano chinowedzerwa - chinozivikanwa se'chibvumirano chokuroorana' - kwaizoshanda zviri nani nokuda kwevazhinji vakaroorana, anodaro Susan Pease Gadoua. Imwe nyanzvi yeukama hwevakaroorana yakataura kuti chibvumirano chokuroorana chinogona kuvandudzwa chinozivikanwa se'chibvumirano chokuroorana' chaizoshanda zviri nani nokuda kwevaviri vazhinji vomuzuva razvino uno uye chaizodzivisa kuchatanura kunowedzera. Mubhuku rake idzva, The New I Do, iro rakanyorwa pamwe chete naVicki Larson, iye anotaura kuti muenzaniso wechinyakare weroorano mutsika yedu yazvino uno 'unogadza vanhu vakawanda zvikuru nokuda kwokukundikana.' Naizvozvo, panzvimbo pokuvimbisa kuti 'kusvikira rufu rwatiparadzanisa,' vakaroorana vari muChirongwa Chokutanga Chero Chero Chero Vanoroorana vanobvumirana kuva pamwe chete kwe'makore maviri, matatu, mana kana kuti anopfuura <unk> chero chinoshanda kwauri nomukwanyina wako.' Pakupera kwenguva yakataurwa muchibvumirano, vaviri vacho vanosarudza kana vachida kuparadzana, kana kuti kupfuurira nemuchato, panguva iyo vanofanira kunyora chibvumirano chakadzokororwa. "Kuroorana kwepakutanga chibvumirano chenguva pfupi kuti vakaroorana 'vaedze' tsika yacho kuti vaone kana ichienderana <unk> pasina kuunza vana mumusanganiswa <unk> vasati vasvetukira muchibvumirano cheupenyu hwose", Mai Pease Gadoua vakadaro. 'Tine mvumo dzomudzidzi dzokutyaira, tine mabasa okudzidzira basa tisati tatanga mabasa uye tine zvibvumirano zvenguva yokuedzwa kana kuti zvinochinjwa munhaurirano dzakawanda dzebhizimisi, bva chibvumirano chikuru zvikurusa nechinonyatsodzika zvikuru chomutemo icho vazhinji vedu tichambopinda chinodikanwa kuti uzvipire kumunhu mumwe nokusingaperi nemashoko mashomanene anokosha pamusoro peizvo chichabatanidza.' Chipangamazano wezvevakaroorana Susan Pease Gadoua anoti michato yechinyakare inoita kuti vanhu vatadze. Muchato Wokutanga unogona kuva kuvandudzwa kwomuenzaniso womuchato wetsika nokuti'mumwe nomumwe achada kunyatsocherechedza zviito zvake uye kunamatira kune zvavakabvumirana, kuitira kuti mumwe wake asarudze kusavandudza makore mashomanana mumugwagwa,' anodaro ane makore 53 okukura. Uye kana...
Susan Pease Gadoua anoti michato yechinyakare inoita kuti vakaroorana vasabudirire. Anokarakadza roorano yokutanga yenguva yakatarwa yechibvumirano chamakore mana. Pakupedzisira vaviri vacho vanosarudza kana vachizovandudza kondirakiti yavo.