Rangarira ndima iri pasi apa uye ipapo pindura mubvunzo gare gare mumutauro mumwe chetewo sechikamu:  Mashoko anobva mubhuku racho: Kutaura kwokuzvisimbisa kunogona kushandiswa kutsanangura kuti nei zvimwe zvitendero zvichiramba zviripo kana uchapupu hwokutanga huripo hwabviswa. Iyi mhedzisiro yokutsungirira kwechitendero yakaratidzwa nenhevedzano yezviongorori zvichishandisa chinonzi "muenzaniso wokubvunzurudza": vatori vechikamu vanorava uchapupu hwenhema hwefungidziro, kuchinja kwavo chimiro kunoyerwa, ipapo kunyengera kunoratidzwa muudzame. Mafungiro avo anobva aongororwazve kuti vaone kana zvavanotenda zvava kudzoka pane zvazvaiva kare. Mune kumwe kuedza, vaibatanidzwa vaifanira kusiyanisa tsamba dzokuzviuraya chaidzo nedzokunyepedzera. Mhinduro dzacho dzaiva dzokusaziva: vamwe vainzi vakaita zvakanaka nepo vamwe vainzi vakaita zvakaipa. Kunyange pashure pokunyatsoongororwa, vatori vechikamu vakanga vachiri kukanganiswa nemhinduro dzavakapiwa. Vakanga vachiri kufunga kuti vakanga vari nani kana kuti vakaipisisa kupfuura avhareji pamhando iyoyo yebasa, zvichienderana nezvavainge vatanga kuudzwa. Mune kumwe kuongorora, vatori vechikamu vakaverenga ratidziro dzokubudirira kwebasa dzevaidzi vemoto vaviri, pamwe chete nemhinduro dzavo kuongororo yokuvenga ngozi. Mashoko aya okufungidzira akarongwa kuti aratidze kubatana kwakashata kana kwakanaka: vamwe vatori vechikamu vakaudzwa kuti mumwe murimi womoto anotora ngozi akaita zviri nani, nepo vamwe vakaudzwa kuti vakaita zvakashata kupfuura mumwe mushandi wokubasa asingadi ngozi. Kunyange kana izvi zvidzidzo zviviri zvacho zvaiva zvechokwadi, zvaizova uchapupu husina kunaka mune zvesayenzi hwokupedzisira pamusoro pevaputi vose zvavo. Zvisinei, vatori vechikamu vakavawana vachinyengetedza. Apo fundo dzenhau dzakaratidzwa kuva dzokufungidzira, kudavira kwevatori vechikamu mukubatana kwakaderera, asi inenge hafu yemigumisiro yapakuvamba yakasara. Kubvunzurudza kwakatevera kwakaratidza kuti vatori vechikamu vakanga vanzwisisa kubvunzurudzwa uye vakazvitora zvakakomba. Vatori vechikamu vaiita sevari kuvimba nekubvunzurudzwa, asi vaiona ruzivo rwakanga rusina kuvimbika serusina basa nezvavanotenda. Kuenderera mberi kwekukanganisa ndiko kuda kutenda ruzivo rwekare rwakadzidziswa zvisirizvo kunyangwe mushure mekugadziriswa. Mashoko asiriwo...  Mubvunzo: Vatori vechikamu vakaona sei mhedziso yacho?
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