Pfupisa nyaya yacho:  Pakarepo, pazera ramakore 34 uye pashure pamakore 15 okutarisira zvakapesana chaizvo, ndakada zvikuru kuva napamuviri. Murume wangu Russell akanga akagadzirira kuva baba, takanga takachengeteka mune zvemari uye pashure pokunyora magazini yevhiki nevhiki muNew York kwamakore mana anoshungurudza, ndakanga ndagadzirira kurega uye kunangidzira ngwariro pakuvaka mhuri. Mwedzi gumi neimwe gare gare, apo muviri wangu wakanga uchiri kusaita zvandaida, ndakaodzwa mwoyo, ndakasimbiswa uye ndakatya. Amai vanodada Sarah Ivens nevana vavo vaviri, William (kuruboshwe) naMatilda ane gore rimwe chete (pakati) 'Ndakarega kuva nomwana here?<unk> Ndaichema nokushingaira kuna Russell sezvo mwedzi nomwedzi ndaibatisisa dumbu rangu ndichirwadziwa sezvo nguva yangu yakatanga, izere norutyo runokura rwokuti muviri wangu wakanga uchitisiya. Nguva dzose ndaiisa basa rangu pakutanga, uye kufamba nokuva nomuchato wedu wezviroto. Iye zvino ndava kunetseka kuti ndachembera. Ndaitya kuti zvandakanga ndasarudza muupenyu zvakanga zvaita kuti ndisazombofa ndakwanisa kuva nomwana wandaida. Mukati mamakore angu okutanga ndisati ndabereka ndakanga ndamboputirwa nemifananidzo yavanhu vakakurumbira vane makore 40 neanopfuura, vachidada pamusoro pokuti zvakanga zviri nyore sei kuti ivo vave nepamuviri nenzira yomuzvarirwo uye nokukurumidza. Chokwadi, nyaya dzinotyisa dzomupepanhau dzakaedza kundinyengetedza kuti ndakanga ndine mukana wakaenzana wokubereka nokubudirira pashure pezera ramakore 30 sezvandaiita wokupinda mumakwikwi okupedzisira eThe X Factor, asi ndakanga ndasarudza kutevera nyeredzi ndokupfeka magirazi. Chokwadi, ndakanga ndichitsvaka nokukurumidza, chakanga chiri pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pemwoyo wakaputsika, mhosva uye mashoko asiri iwo vakadzi vanozviwana vamene vachinyura mukati sezvavanofunga kuva mai. Mhuri inofara: Pashure pemakore okusuruvara, Sarah naRussell vane vana vaviri, William (ari pakati) naMatilda. Nyanzvi yezvokurapa pamuviri Zita West yakati: "Ndinofunga kuti upenyu hwemazuva ano hwave husina kunaka kuvakadzi. Tinoudzwa kuti tinogona kuva nazvo zvose, saka vakadzi vanotora mapiritsi uku vachivaka mabasa avo kwemakore akawanda, izvo zvinovhara chero zvinetso zvavangava nazvo zvakadai sepolycystic ovary syndrome kana kuti endometriosis. 'Ipapo pavanosarudza kuva nomwana mumakore avo 30, vanoshamiswa kana zvikasaitika sezvavaironga. 'Tinoziva kuti kubereka...
Mutori wenhau Sarah Ivens, ane makore 39, anotaura nezvokurwisana kwake kuti abate pamuviri ava nemakore 34. Amai vane vana vaviri vakaedza kwemakore vasati vava nomwana. Anotenda kuti vakadzi vanofanira kuziva zvakawanda pamusoro pokuoma kwokubata pamuviri.