Pfupisa nyaya yacho:  (CNN) Svondo rino, pasocial media vakazivisa sa #motheroftheyear Toya Graham, amai vasina murume vokuBaltimore avo vakabvisa mwanakomana wavo, uyo akanga akabata chidhinha, panzvimbo yemhirizhonga. Vhidhiyo yaGraham achibvuta Michael muduku kubva muboka ravaratidziri - uye pashure pacho achimurova nezvibhakera zvake nokumurova zvishoma mumusoro - yakava nehutachiona. Vakawanda vaimuti gamba: amai vakanga vakatsunga kupedza chisimba. Asi, akanga asiri kukurudzirawo masimba masimba here? Mhinduro yake, pashure pezvose, yakanga iri yokudanidzira, kutuka uye kurova. "Nei America iri kupemberera kurohwa kwomwana mutema?" akabvunza kudaro munyori weThe Washington Post. Hachisi chisimba chiri pamusha chinotungamirira kumasimba masimba kunze kwemusha here? Hazvisi izvo zvinoita kuti pave nemhirizhonga here? Handisi kuregerera masimba masimba munzira ipi neipi. Ndinoshuva kuti dai risina kuvapo. Asi Baltimore haisi pamoto nemhaka yavanaamai vakaita saGraham. Kutaura zvazviri, chatinoda, kwete chete munharaunda dzakaita seBaltimore asiwo munharaunda dziri munyika yose, ndivanaamai vakawanda vakaita saiye. Vanaamai vanoita zvose zvavanogona kuti vadzivirire vana vavo uye kuti vavatungamirire mumakore avo okuyaruka anowedzera kuoma. Handioni Graham saamai vane utsinye vanoparadzira evhangeri, kana kuti zvichida kusingadzivisiki, kwoutsinye. Handioniwo somunhu ane simba. Zvandinoona muna Graham mukadzi akafanana nemamiriyoni evamwe vanaamai vechiduku, vanaamai vane dambudziko rezuva nezuva rokutungamirira vana vavo munzira yakanaka uku vachivabatsirawo kukudziridza zvavari nokuzvimiririra. Vanaamai vanoziva kutsamwa uye kuora mwoyo kunogona kuitika pavanobata mwana wavo ari kuyaruka achinyepa. Sezvakataurwa naGraham kuna Anderson Cooper, akanga audza Michael usiku hwapfuura kuti asabatanidzwe mumhirizhonga ipi neipi. Akapika kuti aisazodaro. Asi pfungwa dzamai vake dzakatanga kushanda, uye paakanzwa kuti chikoro chainge chava kuvhara nokukurumidza, haana kutora mukana wokuti aizochengeta chipikirwa chake. Akaenda kunzvimbo yemhirizhonga kuti ave nechokwadi chokuti aigona kumubetsera kuramba ari munzira. Akaenda ikoko kuti amubatsire kuchengeta chipikirwa chake. Uye paakasvika ikoko ndokuona kuti akanga asina, sezvo...
Peggy Drexler: Vhidhiyo yaToya Graham achirova mwanakomana wake sezvaanomukwevera kubva pakuratidzira yakamutsa mibvunzo. Akanga ari gamba here? Anobata vamwe zvisina kunaka here? Haanawo, anodaro; akanga ari amai vaiedza kutungamirira mwana wavo ari kuyaruka mukakavadzano yomuguta, uye vanaamai vakawanda vanoda rudzi urwu rwokuzvipira.