Pfupisa nyaya yacho:  Kubva pakushaya hope kusvika pakuyamwisa, kuva amai kokutanga hakusi nyore. Vamwe amai vatsva vakasarudza kutanga blog inonzi Upfront Mama ichitsanangura miedzo nematambudziko ekurera mwanasikana wavo muduku Poppy, ane mwedzi 14, uyo, anodaro, ndicho chinhu chakanakisisa uye chinoshandura upenyu zvikuru chakamboitika kwaari. Kufanana navanaamai vakawanda vatsva, Nicola Bonn, ane makore 34, anobva kuLondon akanga achidzidza ari pabasa uye akawana chiitiko chacho chose 'chinonakidza asi chinotyisa zvikuru.' Dzorera pasi kuti uone vhidhiyo. Nicola Bonn, 34, anobva kuLondon, akatanga bhurogu yakajeka inonzi Upfront Mama achitsanangura miedzo nematambudziko ekurera mwanasikana wake muduku Poppy, ane mwedzi gumi nemana, uye zvakawanda zvezvinyorwa zvake zvave kupararira. Aida kugoverana zvinhu zvose zvaakanga adzidza kuitira kuti vamwe vanaamai vasazonzwa se'vasingazivi' sezvaaiita. Imwe yenyaya dzaakanyora pabhulogi, Why We Need to Stop Justifying Ourselves, yakakurumbira chaizvo - pasina mubvunzo nemhaka yokurondedzera kwake kwakajeka kurera mwana kekutanga muupenyu hwake. Pano, anoigoverana neFEMAIL... 'Kubva pandakava amai ndakapedza nguva yakawanda ndichitsanangura uye ndichikumbira ruregerero nokuda kwezvisarudzo zvangu uye ndakasarudza kuti zvinofanira kumira. 'Dambudziko nderokuti kana wava nomwana, munhu wose ane zvaanofunga uye kazhinji havatyi kutaura zvavanofunga, izvo zvingava zvakaoma zvikuru kuna amai vatsva vasina ruzivo rwakawanda kupfuura'mupi wezano' uye zvichida vane kusava nechokwadi. Nicola, ane makore 34, aida kugoverana zvinhu zvose zvaakanga adzidza kuitira kuti vamwe vanaamai vasanzwa se'vasina ruzivo' sezvaaiita, uye anobvuma kuti kubvira paakava amai, akapedza nguva yakawanda achitsanangura uye achitokumbira ruregerero nokuda kwezvisarudzo zvake - uye asarudza kuti zvinofanira kumira. Anotenda kuti chimwe chezvinetso zvikuru ndechokuti munhu wose ane zvaanofunga uye kazhinji havatyi kuzvitaura, izvo, anodaro, zvinogona kuva zvinorema zvikuru nokuda kwamai vatsva vasina ruzivo rwakawanda. 'Mugore rapfuura, vanhu vasingaverengeki vakabvunza zvisarudzo zvandakaita. Vanogara vachizviita nenzira iyi inoratidzika kuva isina mhaka asi zvikuru...
Nicola Bonn, mutori wenhau uye mugadziri wenhepfenyuro, anogoverana nhoroondo yake yakajeka. Anoti akawana kuva amai vatsva 'kunofadza asi kuchityisa chose chose' Aneta nokuona vamwe vanaamai vachimutonga uye vachimupa mazano.