Pfupisa nyaya yacho:  Kazhinji kazhinji pane kushorwa kwakashata kunobatanidzwa nokuva mukadzi anosarudza kugara oga, zvikurukuru munharaunda dzakapfuma dzeSydney dzokuMabvazuva. Julie Sweet ane makore 39 okukura ave achigara oga muClovelly kwemakore mashanu uye haasati ambova anofara zvikuru. Asi nepo vakadzi vanogara vari voga vari kunzi vakasuruvara, vari voga uye vakaparadzaniswa munzanga, fundo itsva yakaratidza kuti pakati pavakadzi ava, vazhinjisa vane madhigirii eyunivhesiti, mabasa ane mukurumbira uye upenyu hwomunzanga hune utano. Nzvero yakaitwa neAustralia Institute of Family Studies inoratidza kuti chikamu chimwe muzvina chevaAustralia vakasarudza kugara vari voga uye 70 muzana yevakadzi vane bviro huru yokuva nedhigirii reyunivhesiti kupfuura varume. Maererano neDaily Life, nharaunda dzakapfuma dzePotts Point, Rushcutters Bay neElizabeth Bay dzinoumba inenge 60 muzana yemhuri dzine murume mumwe chete. Ikoku kunoreva kuti vakadzi vanogara vari voga mumaruwa okumabvazuva vari kukurumidza kuva vanobudirira zvikuru kupfuura varume vavo. Zvisinei, vakawanda vanonzwa sokunge kuti vachiri kutongwa nokuda kwenzvimbo yavo yokugara yavakasarudza. Julie Sweet ane makore 39 anonzwa kuti anowanzoshorwa neshamwari nemhuri. 'Ndinofunga kuti vanhu vanowanzotonga paunenge usingawirirani neboka rakati,' Mai Sweet vakaudza Daily Mail Australia. 'Ndinogara ndichibvunzwa nemhuri yangu neshamwari dzeshamwari dzangu kuti nei ndichiramba ndichigara ndoga.' Mai Sweet vakanga vagara neshamwari dzepedyo kwoupenyu hwavo hwose, uye kunyange zvazvo vachinzwa kuti vakakanganiswa navo, iye zvino vanogara muClovelly muSydney East vari voga uye havasati vambova vanofara zvikuru. Iye zvino ari Psychotherapist wevakuru vakapona mukushungurudzwa pabonde kwevana vane dhigirii muPsychotherapy uye vakatodzokera kuyunivhesiti kuzopedzisa Graduate Diploma yeForensic Mental Health. Iye zvino ari kurapa vanhu vakura vakashungurudzwa pabonde vachiri vaduku aine dhigirii rePsychotherapy uye adzokera kuyunivhesiti kunopedza dhigirii reGraduate Diploma of Forensic Mental Health. 'Ndinofarikanya zvirokwazvo kuva pamwe chete neni ndimene,' iye akadaro. 'Kudai ndakanga ndisingafari nezvandakanga ndichiita, ndaizochinja chose chose.... Asi ndinofunga kurarama...
Imwe ongororo yakaratidza kuti chikamu chimwe muzvina chevaAustralia vakasarudza kugara vari voga. Pavakadzi vanogara vari voga, vakawanda vane madhigirii eyunivhesiti, mabasa ane mukurumbira uye upenyu hune utano hwomunzanga - kusiyana nevarume vavo. Vakadzi vazhinji vanonzwa kuti vanorondedzerwa sevakaparadzaniswa munzanga nokuda kwokugara vari voga. Julie Sweet anobva kuClovelly akati anogara achibvunzwa pamusoro pechisarudzo chake.