Ka taƙaita labarin:  Wata 'yar wasan kwaikwayon burlesque tana kokarin kawar da duk wani mummunan ra'ayi da ke kewaye da kalmar "mai" <unk> ta hanyar rungumar ta a matsayin gaskiya, kwatancin jikinta na jikinta. A wani jawabi da aka yi kwanan nan a TED, Lillian Bustle, daga New Jersey, ta bayyana cewa ta kuma kira kanta 'ƙananan' saboda tsayinta ya kai 5'3', da kuma'mata' saboda ta yi aure, tana mai cewa kowanne daga cikin waɗannan kalmomin kwatanci ne na gaskiya game da ita. Kuma'mai kiba' wani kwatanci ne na kanta, wanda ya nace cewa ba dole ba ne a yi amfani da kalmar a matsayin ma'anar'mara kyau'. 'A matsayinmu na mata an tsara mu don gaya wa juna cewa ba mu da kiba, saboda ga mutane da yawa - maza da mata - kiba shine mafi munin abin da za ku iya zama,' in ji ta a lokacin da take magana, wanda ya faru a farkon wannan watan. Gungura ƙasa don bidiyo. Ba karamar yar rawa ba: Mai wasan kwaikwayon burlesque Lillian Bustle ta bayyana a cikin jawabin ta na TED cewa'mai kiba' wata kalma ce kawai - kuma amfani da shi ba dole ba ne ya zama cin mutunci. Kyakkyawan ya zo a cikin manyan kunshe-kunshe, kuma: A lokacin lacca, Lillian ya bayyana cewa'mai kiba' bai kamata ya zama daidai da mummuna ba. Abin takaici, Lillian ta kara da cewa, ba kowa ne ke da ra'ayinta ba, kuma ta nuna wani kididdiga da ke nuna cewa nuna bambanci a wurin aiki ya tashi da kashi 66 cikin dari a cikin shekaru 30 da suka gabata. Kuma waɗannan ra'ayoyi marasa kyau game da manyan mutane sun fara tun suna ƙanana: Babban 'burin sihiri' ga 'yan mata 11 zuwa 17, bisa ga wani bincike, shi ne su zama masu kauri. Amma akwai bege. Lillian ta bayyana cewa, bisa ga wasu nazarin, 'da zarar mun fuskanci bambancin jiki, za mu fi jurewa, karɓa, har ma mu fi son nau'ikan jiki dabam dabam.' Wannan gaskiyar mai ban sha'awa ita ce wani abu da ke ƙarfafa mai rawa don yin burlesque, wanda ya ba ta damar nuna wa masu sauraronta ga jikin'mai' mai kyau, mai ban sha'awa. Canza tunani: Nazarin ya nuna cewa yawancin mutane suna fuskantar nau'ikan nau'ikan jiki daban-daban, da yawa suna son su; Lillian tana fatan fallasa masu sauraronta zuwa cikakkiyar siffa zai canza tunaninsu. Lillian kuma ta nakalto wani mai wasan kwaikwayo mai suna Beelzebabe, wanda ya yi magana a cikin...
A 240lbs, Lillian Bustle ta ce ba ta da mummunan ra'ayi lokacin da ta kira kanta'mai kiba' - tana kawai kasancewa gaskiya. Ta ce tana son yin wasan burlesque saboda yana taimaka wa mutane su so nau'o'in jiki daban-daban. Mawakin ya ce tana farin ciki da kyakkyawar karɓar da tattaunawar ta ta TED ta samu, ta ƙara da cewa ta yi imanin hakan yana nufin 'kyawawan jiki' yana aiki.