Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Kāore te TangataX e riri ki te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: Kāore a Cal i te riri ki a Maryann nā te mea e mōhio ana a Cal e whai ana a Maryann ki te āwhina. E hiahia ana a Cal kia mau tonu te whakawhirinaki a Maryann, no reira ka noho humarie ia, ka whakawhetai ki a Maryann mo tana whakaaro.