Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  (CNN) He mea whakamiharo te rongo i te rongo: I whakawakia he wahine taitamariki, a Michelle Carter, 18-tau te pakeke, mo te kohuru kore mo te whakapae i tuku karere kuputuhi e akiaki ana i tana hoa ki te whakamate. Me pēhea e taea ai e tētahi tangata taitamariki - he hoa tata o te tupapaku, o Conrad Roy, 18 - te mahi i tētahi mea whakamataku? He aha hoki ngā pānga ā-ture o ngā kōrero a te taiohi i runga ipurangi, i roto rānei i tētahi karere? Engari ko te take iti ake e kōrerohia ana e tēnei kōrero kino, ko te tere o te taiohi i te oranga o ia rā ki te anga whakamua ki ngā pānga ā-ture kino, huri ora. Koinei te take i whakapono ai a Lisa Green, kaituhi o te pukapuka hou whai korero "On Your Case: A Compassionate (and Only Slightly Bossy) Legal Guide for Every Stage of a Woman's Life", me whai whakaaro nga matua o te taiohi ki te kaitohutohu tiaki hara, kia rite hoki - ina koa. "Ki a au koinei te wāhi kāore i mōhiotia e ngā mātua, otirā ko ngā mātua o ngā taiohi, e ngaro ana i ngā wā katoa", i mea a Green i tētahi uiuinga tata nei i ngā whare wānanga o CNN. "He tokomaha o ā mātou hoa he ope kaiako, he mahi ā-waho, he maha ngā momo koki i taupokina... engari ina tae mai ki te ture, kei reira tēnei poka pango". I mauheretia te whaea mo te waiho i te tamaiti 9-tau-tau anake i te papa. Ko Green, he kairipoata, he roia, he kaitohutohu ture pouaka whakaata hoki, e kii ana he maha nga taangata e whakaaro ana he whakamataku, he whakawehi hoki te ture, me te whakapono kaore e hiahia ana ratou ki te awangawanga na te mea kaore o raatau tamariki e raru ki nga raru ture. Ahakoa he take tino nui, pērā i te whakapae mo te kohuru a Carter, he whakapae noa iho rānei mo te mahi tūkino, me whakarite ngā mātua, e ai ki a Green. "E kore e taea e au te tatau te maha o ngā tamariki e mōhio ana ahau, ngā tamariki pai, e kitea ana i a rātau i te wāhi hē i te wā hē", i mea a Green. "Kua rua aku tamariki i tēnei wā, a, i a rātau e haere ana i roto i ō rātau tau taiohi, he take noa iho o tētahi pōti i hē, he rōpū tamariki i roto i te pāka i te tahuritanga mai o te pirihimana me ētahi pātai, i te kawe mai i tētahi mea ki te kura kāore i tika kia kawea mai e rātau. "A i ia o aua take, he iti noa te mōhiotanga o te ture, he...
Me whai whakaaro ngā mātua o ngā taiohi ki tētahi roia whakawātea hara - mō ngā take anake, e ai ki te kaituhi. Ko tā te kaituhi, a Lisa Green, ko te "rohe kāore i te mōhiotia" e "ngaro tonu" ana ngā mātua o ngā taiohi I roto i nga whenua e 24, ka taea e nga matua te whai kawenga mo te inu inu a te taiohi i roto i to ratau kaainga.