Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  E aro ana te TangataX ki ngā kōrero a te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E whai whakaaro ana a Trisha. Ka piko tonu ia i tona matenga hei whakaatu kei te whakarongo ia, ā, ka whai kia titiro kanohi ki te tangata e korero ana. Ka mahara hoki ia ki te pātai atu anō ki te tangata e pā ana ki ngā mea e tino pai ana ki a ia.