Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  He wahine mataku, e mohio ana kua patua tana tuahine-i-ture e to raua hungawai, e whitu nga tau e noho puku ana mo te hara, no te mea i wehi ia ka pa ki a ia te mate ano. I te mutunga ka kitea e Sarbjit Athwal te maia ki te korero mo te mea e kiia ana ko te'mate honore' me te kawe i tana hungawai moepuku ki te whakawa. Inaianei kua tohaina e ia tana korero ki te whakaaturanga whatunga Crime and Investigation Britain's Darkest Taboos i te mea e tumanako ana ia ka akiakihia e tana wheako etahi atu patunga i mau ki roto i nga marena tutu ki te korero. Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. I noho wehi a Sarbjit Athwal i te taha o tana hungawai wahine mo nga tau engari i te mutunga ka korero ia. Ko Sarbjit, e 45 ona tau inaianei, 19 ona tau i te wa i whakaritea ai tana marenatanga Sikh, a i tukuna ia ki te noho ki tana tahu hou, a Hardave, me tona whanau i Hayes, Middlesex. I kī a ia, kāore i taea e ia te whakatau, ā, he nui ōna whakaaro mō tōna whānau hou. 'I whakaaro ahau kei te pēhihia ahau, ā, me whakaaro hoki au ki ōku mātua. Kāore au i hiahia ki te tuku i a rātau kia hinga, ā, me whakaaro au ki te honore, ki te whakama rānei e kawea mai e au ki te whānau mēnā ka kī au kāore. 'Na, i whakaae ahau ki te mea i whakaekea e ahau, a ka mea ahau ae, a haere tonu ki runga i te reira,' whakamārama ia. I kaha a Sarbjit ki te noho ki tana kaainga hou i te mea ko tana hungawai a Bachan Athwal te rangatira o te whare. 'Te patu i te honore': Sarbjit, maui, i te ra o tana marena me tana tuahine-in-law Surjit i kohurutia e to raua hungawai me tana tane i a ia e ngana ana ki te whakarere. Engari i kitea e ia he hoa i roto i tana taina hou, i a Surjit, 18, i marenatia ki te tuakana o tana tahu, a Sukhdave. I meinga a Surjit rāua ko Sarbjit kia whakaaro he kore utu rāua, ā, kāore i a rāua anō te oranga. I kii a Sarbjit: 'Ko taku mahi i roto i te whanau i muri i taku marenatanga ko te tunu kai me te horoi, te tiaki i te whanau, te tiaki i te whanau whanui mena ka haere mai ratou, te tunu kai me te horoi, ka haere tahi me to maatau hungawai ki etahi atu huihuinga. Ko ia tonu te rangatira, ā, ko ia te rangatira o te whare, ā, ko ia te kaitohutohu i a mātau i ngā mahi hei utu mō te matapaki...
I mohio a Sarbjit Athwal, 45, kua patua tana wahine, a Surjit. I mahia te kohuru i runga i ngā whakahau a tōna hungawai a Bachan Athwal. I kii a Bachan ki a Surjit kua 'whakamaramatia, kua werohia, kua maka ki roto i te awa' I puta te'mate honore' i te mea i hiahia a Surjit ki te whakarere i te tama a Bachan. I mataku a Sarbjit ka whai ake ia ki te pūrongo ia i te kohuru. I te mutunga ka kitea te maia ki te korero i muri i nga tau. I mauheretia a Bachan rāua ko tana tama i te tau 2007 mō te oranga katoa. Inaianei kua whakangungu a Sarbjit hei PCSO. E hiahia ana ki te āwhina i ētahi atu ki te mawhiti i ngā faaipoiporaa tūkino.