Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  E aro ana te TangataX ki ngā kōrero a te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E aro nui ana a Maxfield ki ngā kōrero a Teasia. He maha nga whakaaro pai a ia, a ka whakatenatena ia ina rongo ia i a ia e korero ana. He pai ki a ia te whakaaro o tana tane, ā, ka kitea e ia i te nuinga o te wā e whakaae ana ia ki tana whakaaro.