Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  He rārangi pea o ngā āhuatanga e rapu ana ngā tāngata takitahi i roto i tētahi hoa i a rātou e tīmata ana ki te kēmu o te whakaipoipo, mai i taua "pūtake" uaua ki te tinana wera. Inaianei kua whakaaturia mai e tētahi rangahau hou ko te whakatangi te mea tino nui i runga i te rārangi o ngā āhuatanga e hiahiatia ana i roto i tētahi hoa noho roa. E mea ana nga tohunga he nui ake te whakaaro ki te ngahau ki te tokomaha o nga tangata i te mea he tohu tohu te tangata, he whakapono ranei. Play to win hearts: Kua whakaaturia e tētahi rangahau hou ko te whakatangitangi te mea nui i runga i te rārangi o ngā āhuatanga e hiahiatia ana i roto i te hoa (i whakaaturia ki te whakaahua stock) - i muri noa iho i te aroha, te māramatanga me te aronga o te whakakatakata. I kitea e te rangahau a te Whare Wānanga o Zurich he mea nui te whakaari ki ngā tāne e rua <unk> i muri noa iho i te whakahoahoa, te mātauranga me te āhua o te whakaari. I kitea hoki e rātau he nui ake te whakaaro o te hunga whakaari, he āhua whakaari, me te auahatanga i roto i ngā hoa, i o rātau hoa rangatira ake. I whakaahuatia e rātau ko ngā pakeke tākaro hei hunga e aroha ana ki te tākaro kupu, e pai ana ki te whakawai, he tāngata e ahuareka ana, e whakaae ana ki tētahi wero, me te hunga e tākaro ana i te poauau, hei tauira. Ahakoa he maha ngā momo o te whakatangitangi, he iti noa ngā rangahau i mahia ki tēnei āhuatanga, me te hiahia o ētahi atu ki a ia. I kitea e te rangahau ko nga tangata takaro e whakaaro ana ko te whakakatakata, he ahua whakaheke me te auahatanga he mea nui ake i roto i nga hoa noho i o raatau hoa nui ake (whakaahua o te taonga) Ko te rangahau hou e hangai ana ki te rangahau a te kairangahau Garry Chick mai i te Whare Wananga o Pennsylvania State, nana nei i whakawhanake te ariā ko te takaro i roto i nga pakeke he ahuatanga e hiahiatia ana i roto i te whiringa taangata. Ko te mea hoki he tohu ki ngā wāhine, he taumata iti o te riri i roto i ngā tāne, ā, ki ngā tāne, he kaha i roto i te ira tangata. Ko René Proyer rāua ko Lisa Wagner mai i te Tari Hinengaro o te Whare Wānanga o Zurich, kua whakaatu mai he wāhi nui hoki te whakatangi i te kōwhiringa o tētahi hoa i roto i te ahurea Pākehā. I tonoa e rātau ki te 327 ngā taitamariki pakeke mai i Tiamana, Switzerland me Austria kia tirotirohia he rārangi o ngā āhuatanga 16 me te tohu mēnā i kitea e rātau, kāore rānei...
I whakaaturia e te rangahau o te Whare Wānanga o Zurich te hiranga o te whakaari i roto i te hoa. Ko ngā āhuatanga i raro iho i te atawhai, te mātauranga, me te āhua o te whakakatakata. Ko te hunga whakaari e whakaaro ana he tino nui te whakawai me te ahua kore. E hanga ana i runga i te rangahau US e whakaatu ana i te whakaari ki nga wahine he iti te taumata o te riri i roto i nga tane me te kaha i roto i nga wahine, ki nga tane.