Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Kāore a PersonX e hiahia ana ki te whakamutu i te kōrero a PersonY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E hiahia ana a Ty ki te whakarongo ki te tirohanga a Ariell nā te mea e hiahia ana a Ty ki te kōrero a Ariell. E whakaaro ana a Ty he mea nui te whakarongo ki nga korero a etahi atu tangata kia pai ake ai te mohio ki o raatau tirohanga.