Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  E ai ki ngā pūtaiao, ko ngā mātua e 'whakapā nui' ana ki a rātau tamariki ka tūpono ki te whakaputa i ngā pakeke whakapehapeha, whaiaro. Ka taea pea e koe te whakapehapeha me te koa <unk> engari ko te korero ki to tamaiti he mea motuhake ratou ka whakanui i a raatau ano. A ko nga matua e 'whakahirahira' ana ki a ratou tamariki ka raru ki te whakatipu i nga pakeke whakapehapeha, whaiaro, e ai ki nga kaiputaiao. I kitea e tētahi rangahau hinengaro, kaua e kī atu ki ngā tamariki he pai ake rātau i ētahi atu, me kī atu e ngā mātua he rite tonu rātau ki ētahi atu. Ko te rangahau, i whai i nga kaiuru mo nga marama 18, e whakaatu ana he raina iti kei waenga i te whakaute me te narcissism. Ko ngā tamariki e kīa tonutia ana he mea motuhake rātau, ka nui ake te whakaaro o rātau ki a rātau anō, engari ko te hunga e kī noa ana e arohaina ana rātau, ka kaha ake rātau ki te whai whakaaro, ki te mōhio ki ngā mea katoa. Ko te rerekētanga he tamaiti e whakaaro ana he rite tonu tana pai ki ētahi atu <unk> me tētahi e whakaaro ana he pai ake ia i ētahi atu, ā, e tika ana kia whakaarohia ia. Heoi anō, he iti ake te whakaaro ki a rātau anō i ō rātau hoa tākaro. I mahia te rangahau i ngā tamariki 565 o Aotearoa e whitu ki te 11 tau te pakeke i roto i tētahi kaupapa tahi a te Whare Wānanga o Amsterdam me te Whare Wānanga o Ohio. E wha nga uiuinga i uiuia ai nga matua mo to raua whanaungatanga me nga korerorero ki a raua tamariki, a ka uiuia te tamaiti me pehea ta raua whakaaro ki a raua ano me etahi atu. Ko te kaiārahi rangahau a Tākuta Eddie Brummelman, nō te Whare Wānanga o Amsterdam, i mea: <unk>Kāore i te whakanui i te mana'o-whaiaro, ko ngā mahi whakahirahira ka taea te whakanui i ngā taumata o te narcissism.<unk> I tapiritia e te Ahorangi Brad Bushman o te Whare Wānanga o Ohio State: <unk>E whakapono ana ngā tamariki ina korerotia e ō rātou mātua he hira ake rātau i ētahi atu. Kaore pea i te pai tena ki a rātou, ki te hapori rānei. Ko te hunga whai whakaaro nui ki a rātou anō, e whakaaro ana rātau he rite tonu rātau ki ētahi atu, i te mea e whakaaro ana te hunga taikaha, he pai ake rātau i ētahi atu.<unk> I kitea e te rangahau, i whakaputaina i roto i te niupepa Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, ko nga tamariki i korerotia ano e ratou he motuhake ratou i whakaaro iti iho ki etahi atu <unk> engari kaore i tino whai...
Ko ngā mātua e 'whakatau nui ana' ki ngā tamariki ka tūpono ki te whakatipu i ngā pakeke whakapehapeha, whaiwhai. I aroturukihia e ngā kairangahau ngā tamariki 565 o Aotearoa e whitu ki te 11 tau te pakeke mō te 18 marama. I kitea hoki he iti ake te whakaaro ki a rātau anō i te hunga tākaro iti ake.