Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  E mātau ana te TangataX ki te hiahia o te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E mātau ana a Syrus ki te hiahia o Cameren ki te hoa. E mōhio ana hoki a Syrus, i ētahi wā, e hiahia ana te tangata ki tētahi hei kōrero. Koia ia i whakarite ai kia noho tonu ia mō ōna hoa, ahakoa e hiahia ana rātau ki tētahi pokohiwi hei tangi, ki tētahi rānei hei whakarongo noa iho.