Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Ko te kaiwhakawa o mua o te Kooti Nui a Sir Paul Coleridge (i whakaahuatia) i kii ko te rangahau i whakaatu ko te nekehanga hapori i whakawhirinaki ki te kaha o te iwi ki te pupuri i nga hononga pumau. E ai ki ngā rangahau hou, ka taea e ngā tokorua e noho tahi ana tae noa ki te wā ka rere atu a rātau tamariki i te moenga, te whakapiki i ō rātau moni whiwhi ki te toru ōrau. I kitea i roto i te rangahau ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whiwhi i ngā mano pauna tāpiri - tata tonu ki te whakanui i te whai tohu - mā te piri noa ki tō rātau hoa. Ko te kaiwhakawa o mua o te Kooti Nui a Sir Paul Coleridge, te kaiwhakarewa o te Marriage Foundation nana i tono te rangahau, i kii i whakaatuhia e te nekehanga hapori i te nuinga o te wa i runga i te kaha o te iwi ki te pupuri i nga hononga pumau. I kitea e te rangahau he wahine whai tohu i waenganui i te wha tekau, i marenatia i mua i te whanautanga o ana tamariki, a kua noho ki tana hoa tae noa ki te 14 ki te 15 tau te pakeke ka whiwhi i te £ 31,000. Engari ki te wehe taua whaea i te papa o tana tamaiti, ka tino heke tana moni whiwhi ki te £23,000 ia tau. I korero a Sir Coleridge ki The Sunday Times: 'Ko te hunga pai ake i te katoa e noho tahi ana, a ka tiaki me te whakanui i to ratou taonga mo te whakatupuranga e whai ake nei. 'I tetahi atu taha, ko te hunga rawakore, he iti ake te marena, he iti ake te noho tahi, a ka kite i te noho tonu o to ratou rawakore ki nga whakatupuranga o muri mai.' Kei te whakarewahia e Coleridge he pānui mō ngā rōpū tōrangapū ki te whakawātea i te wehenga o te whānau, e tata ana ki te utu ki ngā kaituku takoha £47 piriona ia tau. E ai ki a Harry Benson, kaiwhakahaere rangahau o te Marriage Foundation, he nui ake te moni whiwhi o te hunga e noho tahi ana, ā, koia i nui ake ai te pūmautanga. I hangaia te rangahau i te taha o Stephen McKay, he kaiwhakaako i te rangahau pāpori i te Whare Wānanga o Lincoln, nāna i tātari ngā raraunga mai i Understanding Society, he rangahau UK e whai ana i ngā whare 40,000. Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. E ai ki ngā rangahau hou, ka taea e ngā tokorua e noho tahi ana tae noa ki te wā ka rere atu a rātau tamariki i te moenga te whakapiki i ō rātau moni whiwhi ki te toru ōrau. E whakaatu ana ngā tatauranga mai i te Tari Tatauranga ā-Motu, e 90 ōrau...
Ko te noho tahi o ngā hoa tāne tae noa ki te wā ka rere ngā tamariki i te kōhanga ka piki ake te moni whiwhi ki te tuatoru. I kitea e te rangahau a te Marriage Foundation he rite tonu te pikinga o te tohu. E whakaatu ana ngā tatauranga e 90% o ngā mātua hou i roto i te rārangi tāke runga rawa e marena ana. Ka whakaritea ki te 50% noa iho o ngā whaea me ngā pāpā hou e whiwhi ana i te utu iti rawa. I kii a Paul Coleridge ko te nekehanga pāpori i whakawhirinaki ki te hononga pumau.