Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  (CNN) I te ao katoa, kei te whakatere ngā mātua i ngā wai hōhonu, kāore i kitea i muri i te whakatau a tētahi taitama ki te wehe i tētahi rōpū. Ae, kua wehe a Zayn Malik i te One Direction. Mo nga mātua e pōhēhē ana i te putanga ohorere o te mamae, anei ētahi kōrero hei punga i roto i te moana o te pouri. I wehe a Malik i te rōpū. Kāore ia i mate. Kāore ia i maka ki waho. I whakarerea e ia, nā te mea he taitamariki ia, ā, kāore e hiahia ana ki te mahi anō. "Kei te haere ahau na te mea e hiahia ana ahau ki te noho hei 22-tau-tawhito noa e taea ana te okioki me te whai waahi takitahi mai i te maaramatanga", i kii ia i roto i tetahi korero i whakairihia ki te whaarangi Facebook o te roopu. He tika te reo? I roto i te ao o ngā kaiwhaiwhai One Direction, KAUPAPA! He torutoru atu kōrero mō te māramatanga ā-hinengaro: Kei te noho tahi te rōpū. Ka haere tonu te tokowhā atu ki te haereere, ki te tuhi tuhi, ki te mahi hoki i to ratou pukaemi tuarima i tenei tau, e ai ki te korero. Na, i te mea kua kitea nga meka, me pehea e taea ai e nga matua te aro atu ki te mea e kiia nei he urupare tino nui ki te whakarereketanga iti i roto i te rarangi? Kaua rawa, kaua rawa e whakahawea ki te hohonu o te whakaaro o te taiohi. "Ko nga taiohi he mea hanga ki te whai whakaaro, ki te whai whakaaro nui ki nga mea, ki te ngakau nui, ki te hohonu. No reira he mea tika ki te koiora kia pumau tonu ratou i roto i te 1D, "e kii ana a Dannielle Miller, he kaituhi me te kaiwhakaako kotiro taiohi. Whai muri i te matenga o Malik, e ai ki a Miller, he maha nga taiohi kei te aro atu ki te ngaronga o te ngaronga kaore ano kia pa ki a ratou i mua. Ki a rātau, he mea tūturu, he tino mamae. "Ko te mea whakamutunga e hiahia ana koe hei matua ko te whakaaro noa he maamaa, me te kata ki to tamaiti mena he tino pouri ia mo tenei na te mea he tino pono nga kare a ia ki a ia", e kii ana a Miller. (Kāore rānei i a ia, e ai ki te take). "Ki te whiriwhiri koe ki te kata ki a ia, ki te whakahi ki a ia mo taua mea, katahi ka kore ia e korero ki a koe i a ia e pouri ana mo etahi atu mea i roto i tona oranga e tino uaua ana ia". Kia mau ki etahi paparanga, ka hoki whakamuri, e tohutohu ana te tohunga hinengaro tamariki, a Dr. Louise Porter. "Ko te mahi a te mātua, ko te māramatanga e pouri ana rātau, ahakoa kāore e mārama ana mātou ki te take....
Kei te wehe a Zayn Malik i te One Direction hei "tau 22 noa" Ko nga kaiwhaiwhai pouri e whakaatu ana i to ratou pouri i runga ipurangi. Kaitohutohu: He whai wāhitanga pai mō ngā mātua ki te whakaako i a rātau tamariki ki te tūpato.