Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Kei te whakama te tangata X i te mea kua marie ia
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E whakama ana a Connie i te mea kua marie ia. Kāore ia e harikoa i te matenga o tōna māmā, engari kāore e taea e ia te āwhina. Ka whakamatau ia ki te whai hara, engari he kaha ake te whakamarie.