Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Kāore a PersonX e pai ana ki te noho hei toa
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E kore a Destany e pai ki te noho hei toa nā te mea e hiahia ana ia kia noho hei tangata noa. Kāore ia e hiahia kia nui te kōrero a te tangata mō a ia, kia rerekē rānei te whakaaro ki a ia. E hiahia ana ia ki te haere tonu ki tōna oranga pērā ki ētahi atu katoa.