Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Ko tētahi wahine i kīia kāore pea ia e haere anō i muri i tana whiu, 22 ōna tau, i whakahe i ngā tākuta ki te haere ki raro i te huarahi ki te marena i te aroha o tōna oranga. Nā te tere o te whakaaro o tana tāne, a Iain, i whiwhi ai a Kathryn Grainger i te maimoatanga i hiahiatia e ia kia ora ai i te mate pukupuku i te tau o tana tamarikitanga. I kitea e ia nga tohu kei te tino raru tona hauora i te wa i ara ake ai ia me te mamae o te mahunga i te 4am i te Hurae 2008. Kua tino ora ake a Kathryn ki te haere ki raro i te huarahi i te tau 2012 ki te here i te hononga ki a Iain. E mahara ana a Kathryn, e 29 nei ona tau, no Durham: 'I ara ake ahau i te whakaaro he nui te mamae o toku mahunga, engari ka mea a Iain, "Kei te parekura koe". 'Ki te pono, kāore au i mōhio he aha te parekura tae noa ki te wā i pāngia ai au. I tino pororaru ahau, ā, kāore au i te mōhio he aha te mea e tupu ana.' I kawea te ākonga o te whare wānanga o te kāhua ki te hōhipera, ā, ka whakanohoia ki roto i tētahi kōma, hei whakawātea i tōna matenga, hei whakaiti i te pupuhi i tōna roro. Engari i whakatupatohia e nga taote tana hoa rangatira, i te 24 o ona tau, me ona matua a Leslie raua ko Miriam, kaore e taea e ratou te mohio mena ka pakaru tonu tana roro - a ka whakatupatohia e ratou kaore pea ia e haere, e korero ranei. Ko Kathryn rāua ko Iain, i whakaahuahia i te tau 2010, i Berlin Zoo, kotahi tau i muri i tana whiu i te mate pukupuku i te 22 noa iho o ona tau. I whakaahuahia a Kathryn i a ia e tamariki ana me tana tuakana a Christopher Thompson. I mea a Kathryn mo taua wā uaua: 'I te wa i oho mai ai ahau i taku coma, kaore au i taea te noho, te haere, te korero, te neke ranei. 'Ka taea e au te tuhituhi mā taku ringa matau, ā, kāore e taea e au te kite mā taku kanohi maui. 'Ahakoa i te ohorere ahau i whakaaro tonu ahau ka pai ahau ki te hoki ki te whare wānanga i te marama o Hepetema. 'Kāore au i te mōhio he kino rawa taku mahi. I mōhio a Iain nā te mea i kite ia i ahau me ngā ngongo me ngā waea e puta mai ana i tōku mahunga. E kore e taea e ia te korero mo taua mea no te mea ka pouri ia.' Ko nga matua o Kathryn raua ko Iain, i tutaki a ia ma nga hoa e rua tau i mua o tana whiu, i whakatau kia tautoko ia ia, kia atawhai ia kia ora. I whakatauhia hoki e ia kia whiwhi anō i tōna hauora me tōna mana motuhake, ā, kāore ia i hiahia ki te whakarere i tana tohu. Ko Kathryn rāua ko Iain...
I kitea e Iain, te tāne o Kathryn Grainger, he tohu kei te pāngia ia e te mate pukupuku. I whakanohoia te akonga ahua ki roto i te coma i muri i te 'whakaoho me te mamae o te mahunga' I whakatupatohia kaore pea ia e haere, e korero ranei i muri mai.