Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  (CNN) I tipu ake au i te mātakitaki i a "Leave It to Beaver". I te nuinga o ngā wāhanga, ka hoki mai a Ward Cleaver ki te kāinga mai i te mahi i roto i tana kākahu me tana kākahu, ā, kei reira tōna wāhine a June, i te kīhini tonu, ā, he mā tōna kākahu i te taiapa o waho. June hanga te tina, o te akoranga, a ka noho Ward ko Wally me te Beav i te tepu, ka kai. Ki taku mahara, ko June te kaitiaki o te whare. Tērā pea kotahi, e rua rānei ngā wā i āwhina ngā tama ki te horoi rihi. Tērā pea. Ka matakitaki ahau i te whakaaturanga pango me te ma i te wā o te kai, e noho ana i runga i te moenga me te pereti kai i runga i oku turi kāore i taka e toku whaea ake. Ko toku whaea tētahi o ngā "wahine mahi" tuatahi o tōna whakatupuranga. He mahi angitu tana hei kaiwhakahaere i AT&T, kātahi ko Lucent Technologies. I haere wawe ia ki te mahi i ia ata, engari i te rima, i te ono pea i te kāinga - i te wā ki te noho wā ki ahau, kaua ki te tunu kai. I whai mahi tonu hoki taku papa, ā, i roto i te katoa o taku oranga, kāore au i te maumahara ki a ia i te wā i whakatuwheratia ai e ia tētahi ipu hupa. I ako tata ia ki te whakamahi i te ngaruiti. He rite tonu te kaha o ōku mātua ki te mahi, engari kāore he ruarua i a au e tipu ana, ko te tunu kai te kawenga o tōku māmā -- ahakoa ko te tikanga o tērā ko te hoko kai i te mākete ahuwhenua o Allentown, te tā i te kai ki runga i ngā rihi, te pēhi i te "Power" kātahi ki te "Start". Arā, i a au e kai ana i taku kai i te tekau tau atu i 1980 i a au e mātakitaki ana i tētahi whakaaturanga pouaka whakaata e hāngai ana ki te oranga i te tekau tau atu i 1950, he māmā noa iho te kite i ētahi mea kua huri, ā, ko ētahi kāore. Ko te oranga o roto i te whare - te kai, te horoi ipu, te horoi, te whakatikatika, te kākahu, te hauora - ko te kawenga a toku whaea, pērā ki a June Cleaver. I waho o te whare -- te tarutaru, ngā waka, ngā mea katoa i hangaia, i rokiroki rānei i roto i te karati, ngā hākinakina, te eke paihikara -- ko te rohe o tōku pāpā. Hei whakamārama, i te wā e pakaru ana te motokā, he mea nui, engari he mea iti iho i to mātou hiahia mō ngā kai me te horoi horoi. Ko tēnei mahi o ia rā, o ia rā, i nui ake te taumaha ki runga i toku whaea. I tapaina e te kairangahau pāpori a Arlie Russell Hochschild tēnei ko te "huringa tuarua": ahakoa he maha ake ngā wāhine i tīmata ki te mahi i waho o te kāinga, he...
Sally Kohn: He tekau tau i muri i te "Tukua ki a Beaver", kei te mau tonu te nuinga o ngā mahi a te kāinga, te tiaki tamariki i runga i te pokohiwi o ngā wāhine. E ai ki a ia, he kaupapa mahi tūmatanui hōu e whai ana ki te whakauru i ngā tāne ki te mahi i ēnei mahi, e akiaki ana i ngā taitama ki te mahi i te mea kotahi.