Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Kei te hiahia te tangata X ki te whara i te tangata Y
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: Kei te hiahia a Sophie ki te whara i a Clarity. E hiahia ana ia kia rite tonu te mamae ki a ia te mamae i pa ki a ia. E whakaaro ana ia kia patua ia ki te wahi e tino mamae ai, ā, kāore ia e whakaaro ki te mamae ia i te wā e mahi ana.