Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  Ka aro atu a PersonX ki ngā hiahia o PersonY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: Ka aro atu a Kelley ki ngā hiahia o Anita. E aroha ana a Kelley ki a Anita, ā, e whakarite ana kia atawhaitia ia.