Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  E mōhio ana te katoa o ngā whaea e whakawhiwhia ana ki te whakarite i te whānau rangatahi i te ata, he tino taumaha te mahi. A, he mea tūturu ia rā, ia rā, e mōhiotia pai ana e Lili Kirtin-Grossman - e waru noa nei ōna tau. I mua i a Lili, no Barnet, ki te raki o Rānana, ka haere ia ki te kura i te ata me āwhina ia ki te whakakakahu i te tokotoru o ngā tāngata, me te whakakakahu i te horoi me te whakarite i te parakuihi mō tōna whānau. Panuku ki raro mō te ataata. Ka āwhina a Lili Kirtin-Grossman, 8 tau, ki te tautoko i tōna māmā a Sarah, e mate ana i tētahi mate whakahekenga o te tuara, ā, kua tāutuhia hoki he mate takirua, me te tiaki i ōna teina tokorua. E mōhio ana te kōtiro kura ki te whakamahi i te mīhini horoi a te whānau, ā, he maha ngā wā e horoi ana ia i mua i te haere ki te kura i te ata. Kua tohua a Lili hei tetahi o nga kaitiaki taitamariki o Ingarangi, e tiaki ana i ona teina o Kaya me Tyler me tana whaea, a Sarah. Ko te 37-tau te pakeke, he kaikanikani o mua, kua rehitatia hei hauā, e mate ana i te mate whakaheke - scoliosis - e piko ai te tuara. Ko te mate mamae ehara i te mea he uaua ki a ia te haere, engari ka waiho ia ia i roto i te mamae. I tua atu, kua kitea e Sarah he mate bipolar, e rua nga wa i whakawātea ai ia. Kua wehe atu a Sarah i te papa o Lili, a Graeme, e rua ano ana tamariki iti ake, ko Tyler, e toru tau te pakeke, e mate ana i te ADHD ( Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) me te rua-tau-tawhito a Kaya, ko wai, ko te nuinga o te waa, ko Lili te kawenga ki te tiaki. I kii ia ki te Mirror: 'He maha tonu aku mahi hei awhina i a Mama. Ka whakaarahia ahau e ia i te ata i te 7am - He tino ngenge ahau, engari ka whakakakahu ahau, ka awhina i a Kaya mai i tana moenga, na te mea e noho tahi ana matou i te ruuma. ' E mea ana a Mama Sarah (matau) e hara ana ia i tana tono ki a Lili kia āwhina i te oranga o te whānau. Ka taea e Lili (matau) te whakarite kai mō te whānau, tae atu ki te pai me te puree me te spaghetti bolognese, ā, ka mōhio ki te whakamahi i te maripi i runga i te haumaru. Kei te haere tonu te ra toharite me Kaya e whakarite ana i te 'Coco Pops me te waiu' mo tana tuahine iti me te hanga...
Ka āwhina a Lili, 8 tau, i te whaea hauā a Sarah ki te tiaki i ōna teina tokorua. He maha nga wa ka kai te tamaiti'kaha'i te kai a te whānau i muri i te rā kura. Kua whakarewahia e Charity Carers Trust tētahi paetukutuku hou hei āwhina i ngā kaitiaki rangatahi.