Whakarāpopototia te tuhinga:  Ko tētahi kaimahi tiaki tautoko whai whakaaro kāore i whakaaro ka hinga ia ki tētahi mahi tinihanga mō te marena manene, kua whakakitea mai me pēhea i tinihangatia ai ia e tētahi rata aroha i tūtaki ia ki a ia i te hararei. Ko Julie Dag, e 50 nei, no Bournemouth, i mahue i te ngakau pouri me te £ 20,000 i muri i tana hinga mo te kaiwaiata o te rohe a Lamin Sidibeh i a ia e hararei ana i Gambia i Awherika ki te Hauauru i te tau 2007. I taua wā, he rangatahi ia i te 43 o ona tau, ā, i whakaaro ia kua kitea e ia te aroha pono ki a Lamin, 29. Te whakatau: Kei te waiho a Julie i muri i a ia i mua me te haere tonu ki tona oranga i muri i tana whakarere i te tau 2011. Ko Julie Dag me tana tahu a Lamin Sidibeh i te ra o ta raua marena i Gambia i te tau 2008. E toru ngā wā i hinga ai ōna faaipoiporaa, e mea ana ia ka taea e ia te aro atu ki ana mahi ātaahua. 'He tino ātaahua ia, he hākinakina, he aro nui, engari he tino tupato ahau he aroha hararei tenei,' i kii ia ki te Channel 5 tuhinga Holiday Love Rats. 'I meinga e ia kia ite ahau he mea motuhake ahau. I muri i nga marena pakaru e toru kua pakeke ahau.' Ahakoa i hoki mai a Julie ki Ingarangi, i whakapā tonu te tokorua, a 12 marama i muri mai ka tono ia i tetahi atu haerenga ki Gambia - mo tana marena i te tau 2008. Kāore i roa te roa o te aroha. I pau i a mātau te wā katoa o tō mātau marama kōhungahunga ki te whakakii i ngā tono visa,' ka mea ia. I noho tahi rāua ki Bournemouth, engari e kī ana a Julie he ruarua ōna whakaaro mō ngā kerēme a tana tāne he kaihanga ia, i a ia e whakatū ana i tōna whare. I kii a Julie i hinga ia mo te ahua ataahua o Lamin me te ataahua i a ia e hararei ana i Gambia. Ka mea ia, 'Kua hurihia, kua ki tonu i ngā āputa.' I whiwhi mahi tana tāne i tētahi toa ika me te rīwai, engari e ai ki a Julie kāore ia i noho tahi me ia i tōna wā hararei. 'I haere ia ki waho me ona hoa e inu ana, ā, i whakaaro ahau kei te tinihanga ia. 'Ka tae mai ia i te rua, i te toru rānei o te ata, ā, ka ki mai ia kia mutu taku waea atu ki a ia. 'I mea ahau ki a ia ko ia taku tahu, a he tika taku ki te mohio kei hea koe.' Heoi, ka tīmata te hurihanga o tōna ao i ngā marama e rua i muri i te whakaaetanga a ia ki te noho mutunga kore ki te UK. 'I tētahi rā ka tae mai ia ki te kāinga me tētahi huinga putiputi, ā, ka mea mai ki a au...
E ai ki a Julie Dag he ngoikore ia i muri i nga marenatanga e toru i taka. Kāore tōna tāne hou i hiahia ki te noho wā ki a ia i a ia e hoki ana ki Ingarangi. He maamaa tana whakaaro i te mea i whakaaweawe ia e te ataahua o te kaiwaiata me te ataahua. I muri iho ka kī atu te wahine ki a ia he mea tinihanga te marena nā te mea kua marenatia ia.