Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  E mōhio ana te TangataX he aha i pai ai ia ki te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: He pai ki a Emery a Cherise na te mea he pai tana whakarongo, a he wa tonu tana mo Emery. Kāore ia e tuku i a Emery ki te whakaaro kei te whakararuraru ia i a ia, ahakoa he kōrero noa iho mō tētahi mea iti. Ka maumahara tonu a Cherise ki ngā mea iti mō Emery me tōna oranga, nāna a Emery i whai tikanga ki a ia.