Tuhia he whiti kōrero poto i runga i te kaupapa e whai ake nei:  E mōhio ana te TangataX ki te mamae o te TangataY
Ae ra, anei he rarangi poto: E mōhio ana a Brison he pēhea te mamae. E mātau ana ia ki ngā mea e pā ana ki a Yaneli nā te mea kua pā ki a ia anō. Ka taea e ia te whai whakaaro ki a Yaneli, ā, ka tautoko, ka ārahi hoki i a ia.