- Are men better at forgiving than women?
- [Audience] No!
- Hell no!
- Okay, hold on.
Hold on, wait.
In terms of fidelity, that's one thing,
but just in general, are men better at
taking on something and moving on with it?
- [Steve] Yeah.
- I agree.
- I agree.
- Women can take the
smallest kernel of something
and then another woman gets involved
and then all her friends get involved
and then her cats get
involved, and then it's like.
- [Steve] Yeah.
- It's like, what just happened?
You know.
I'm sorry, you know.
(laughing)
- I mean, why do I know?
(applauding)
- It's that show you on,
it's the show you on.
- I work with a lot of
women, and they are catty
and they hold on to things that are
one, two, three, four, 10 years long.
- [Christine] Yes!
- But if you really want to forgive,
you have to start with yourself
and I think that men, they
don't have those long memories.
- They just don't sweat the small stuff.
- And they can just go, oh
really okay, that's okay,
unless it comes to infidelity,
so we don't know where
you got those guys from.
- Yes.
I told my husband, which by
the way never ever do this.
I told him that I had a seven-year itch.
- Ooh.
(audience murmuring)
- Okay, because what?
I did, and so hold on.
- [Kenya] Wow.
- Hold on, that did not
mean I was going anywhere.
I've been faithful and I
continue to be and I would
never cheat, 'cause I wouldn't
be able to lie about it
nor am I gonna do that to my
kids or my husband or anybody.
However, I thought that it was a
wise idea to say to my husband,
I'm feeling a little itchy,
like let's go make our
relationship better.
Let me tell you, worst move
I ever could have made.
He held on to it.
- [Kenya] Yes.
- [Adrianna] It put a major
- Wow.
- Strain on our relationship.
He didn't want to hear that.
It made him feel like a chump,
and it was my mistake.
I know I screwed up, so
if that's something I felt
maybe some men would be able to handle it.
My husband could not.
He was pissed at me, and
he had every right to be.
So my point to you is, even if you feel
something internally,
maybe don't share it.
- Yeah, I mean you.
(applauding)
- Well, if you're telling
your husband you wanna sleep
with someone else or you
felt like it, I wouldn't.
- Well, seven-year itch
to me was more like,
we've kind of been in this for a while.
- [Christine] Let's spice it up.
- Yeah, it's the monotony of monogamy,
which happens to all of us.
- [Steve] Yeah.
- Okay, so that's what I meant.
- [Steve] Yeah.
- I wanted to spice it up, whatever.
- Okay, see you can't, I
understand what she's saying.
This dude in this survey,
this was his girlfriend,
and it took me a while to
realize how amazing she was.
Boy, boy,
(laughing)
see, you ain't got nothing invested here.
- It's an ego thing for you guys too.
It's like,
(clapping)
this is my territory, don't get near it.
Don't you think it has
something to do with that?
- Yes, it's everything!
- [Adrianna] The territory thing?
- That's my gold mine you sittin' on!
I did the drilling for this here!
(applauding)
I bought the ring, I been
in all the arguments.
- [Adrianna] Right.
- I've saved the money
for the house we got.
I dug the hole for that
swimming pool back there.
You fittin' to tap this one right here?
All these women out here today got no man.
Now you over here with mine?
Aw naw, partner, this
your last one right here.
(applauding)
- [Adrianna] Ohh, snap.
(snapping)
- This your last one.
Ladies, I enjoyed y'all,
I'm sorry I took up so much.
- [Adrianna] We enjoyed you.
(applauding)
- [Steve] Kenya Moore, congratulations
- Thank you.
- with the new baby,
and you look fabulous.
- Thank you.
Ms. Lakin, you look absolutely lovely.
- Thank you.
- Ms. Costa, absolutely wonderful.
No more confessions on TV.
(laughing)
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