So essentially the face is like the epicenter
of communication so when you're sitting down
having a conversation with somebody you're
not looking at their arms or leg most of the
time.
Most of the time you're paying direct attention
to the face and for the most part there's
a lot of different signs of attraction in
the face.
One of the most useful things without a doubt
is going to be smiles, so smiles and laughter.
You tend to see that when someone's attracted
to somebody you tend to see a significant
amount of smiles.
Like when you're on a date and no one smiles
once, not a good date.
The more smiles the better and typically you
want genuine smiles.
Genuine smiles are indicated by the crows
feet to the left and right to the eyes and
wrinkles below the eyelids.
Those are the indications of a genuine smile.
Essentially there are five points to a smile.
One is the upward turning of the lips creating
that smile face.
The second is the raising of the cheeks.
The third is the opening of the mouth.
Most people can make that fake kind of smile.
Most people can activate the fourth and fifth
criteria for a genuine smile or an zygotic
smile or a smile which essentially is the
crows feet.
So there's wrinkles to the left and right
of the eyes and there's slight wrinkles below
the eye.
So most people when they can just nail that
and look at you and give you that genuine
smile it's an indication that they really
like you so it's something that you're looking
for.
You're looking for smiles, you're also looking
for laughter.
So laughter is definitely correlated with
date success.
You'll look for blushing, that helps.
What's really cool, is you'll look for the
maintenance or preparation of the face.
One of the things people tend to do is if
they like you they want to look good.
Right?
So you'll tend to see that during the date
for example, they may constantly fix something
or constantly gesture something about their
face or constantly change some sort of aspect
of their face to make themselves essentially
look better.
So one of the things you'll see before people
kiss is that they lick their lips a lot or
apply lip gloss.
So what you can do is sit there across from
somebody and they haven't applied lip gloss
once and then all of a sudden in the last
10 to 15 minutes of the date you tend to see
them apply lip gloss like three times.
Why?
Why are you applying lip gloss?
The reason is because you intend to be kissed.
People check their breath, people will lick
their lips a lot.
I see it all.
I've observed so many people do this.
It makes sense.
We're about to kiss somebody we want our lips
to be prepared.
It's one of those things we tend to do to
attracted somebody.
