what's happening guys today we are
covering ten secret signs that she wants
you ten signs verbally body language
wise and the situations that you get
into when you just meet a girl that you
can just know whether or not you can
skip certain phases of it and jump right
to the bedroom
get sexual sexually escalate and have an
awesome sex life
that's what we're covering today here on
the TSL podcast and as always I am Steve
Mayeda the founder of the sexual life as
well as Austin men's development guys if
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always going to be pleasing women and
they're gonna be begging for you to come
back for more so let's get started the
first thing that we're gonna get to is
body language body language is the
biggest towel and somebody's desire
sexually especially for women so if
you're talking to it for just 10 seconds
20 seconds even 30 a minute she does any
of these things you can know that you
can skip the small talk if the chatter
the rapport and start moving towards
logistics to move to that bedroom
alright so the first thing that we're
gonna look at is that she gets closer to
you this is super important and not
enough guys think about this or take
this into consideration you can be
talking to a girl and let's say you do a
simple technique like move a little bit
closer and take a step back and she
steps closer to you or likes being close
to you or holds that space close to you
now it's different depending on the
environment but what just feels a little
bit more than comfortable so it starts
to build that tension this is one of the
sure signs that I'll just be like
alright skip it forget rapport forget
the small talk just good enough whatever
the situation allows for me to get to go
to get her to either go on a date with
me or to go home with her that night the
second thing that we're looking at
that's super super important and it
happens all the time without you knowing
it is looking
at your lips is she looking at your lips
when you talk this guy's if this ever
happens you're talking to a girl you're
having whatever conversation and she
just gives you that smiling look and
watches your lips as you're talking most
of the time she'll lose track of what
you say man I would just cut everything
just say I you wouldn't even need to
state intent you wouldn't even need to
do anything I would figure out a way
logistically to get her to my place or
set up a date and you can definitely if
you go to the free stuff link down below
you can find on the date guide how to do
that so tip number two is if she watches
your lips move
the third thing when it comes down to
reading a woman's body language to see
if she is going to sleep with you that
night or very shortly afterwards is if
she steps in between your legs so a lot
of times when I'm talking to somebody
I'll just be talking like so if they're
shoulder-width apart and if she comes in
between that with her legs that's
another one of those telltale cues where
I will just cut the conversation I'll do
enough just to maintain the situation so
that we can leave or we can set up a
date where we're going to get sexual as
quick as possible this is one of those
things that is just so emphatically a
green light to me that I don't even
worry about anything afterwards now the
fourth body language cue is our bellies
touching so this happens all the time
maybe you're dancing and a foot goes in
between your legs you can't read it
right or whatever but there's something
going on if you can hold belly-to-belly
now a lot of guys don't think this
because they think when it comes to sex
it matters about the crotch which it
does or it matters about her breasts or
her shoulders or her face or whatever
man there's something about getting a
belly to belly touch now it's even
better if it's a bare belly but when
we're in public usually you don't walk
around with a shirt off and unless she's
wearing a top that exposes her belly you
can't get that but that is HUGE what
you're gonna see when you hold a belly
to belly touch with a woman for just
like one-and-a-half seconds that's one
1,000 just that much you'll see her
state begin to change if a girl allows
you to hold that space once again cut
everything to the bedroom how do we get
there how do we set up a date so this
can all happen it's as easy as that the
fifth body language cue to know whether
or not a woman wants you sexually is
that she is watching
you talk without interacting so she may
be watching you talk almost like
watching your your lips move but she is
not processing the conversation she
didn't hear something go by when you
were talking to her she got lost in
looking at you or admiring your face or
thinking about you in different ways or
whatever it is that women go into when
they get into that desire that sexual
desire part of her brain that means you
triggered it and for all of these five
body language cues that's what that
means that you have triggered a part of
her body her mind her physiology that is
saying wow I could sleep with this guy
let me think about this let me feel this
through and if she gets there man you
can definitely do it if you take the
right steps the body language cues are
literally the fastest or the quickest
and they're gonna happen very early on
in a conversation as early as one to two
seconds but more likely within the first
two minutes you are absolutely going to
see one of these or you're not so let's
get into the verbals so for the verbal
cues to know whether or not a woman
wants to sleep with you they're very
very simple and they might be so simple
that you might not notice them but once
you notice these once again guys your
game plan is how do I set up the date
how do I set up logistics how do I leave
other tonight or whatever it is but how
do we sleep together or get in a
situation where that can happen the
fastest so the first one is is that she
starts asking questions about your
personal life especially if you haven't
brought this up now this is one of those
things that sounds so simple so you know
common that it it just can't mean that
she won't sleep with you but really what
we're talking about here and this all
comes from guys who slept with a lot of
women is that when we're talking to a
girl we could just be talking about
small talk the weather the hike we went
on today with our dogs and she starts
going like so wait a minute what so what
do you do for a living and she starts to
ask in those ways so there's a little
bit of a tonality read or so did you
just move here or why did you just move
here and the more deep and personal
those things are the that means that
that is coming from that part of her
brain that is actually saying hey you
know what I kind of like this guy man I
wonder how he is maybe he could be a guy
that I date I don't know went to her
brain goes there man if we do the right
things we will end up in bed with her
and especially if we take part in our
downloads that we have for you man
you're gonna have some amazing
sex with it the second verbal tell that
shows a woman wants to sleep with you is
that she is going to be suggesting to
hang out if she brings up the date if
she brings up hey well do you want to
hang out sometime now I get it it's so
common you guys might think this can't
be possible what she just wants to have
fun and so on look guys if she's
thinking that that's coming from a part
of her brain that is going maybe I could
date this guy and that part of her brain
that's saying maybe I could date this
guy is the green light for you to start
taking action taking initiative to lead
her into the choice of seduction there's
plenty of videos on that if you're
interested watch our sexual escalation
playlist and that will tell you
everything you need to do when it comes
down to that now the third verbal tell
to know whether or not a woman wants to
sleep with you is going to be some that
seems kind of counter to what you might
think it's when she starts defining
sexual boundaries if a girl starts
bringing up in a conversation without
you saying anything that oh I'm not a
slut or I don't do this I don't sleep
with guys on the first date I'm not that
kind of a girl or I date these guys in
these ways or I've had certain types of
relationships and I'm really careful
about them man this is one of those
things that shows me that her mind has
switched into that mode of saying hey
you know what maybe I could sleep with
this guy maybe yeah maybe I can date
this guy's a good guy let me figure it
out and this is your cue to trigger you
into those motions and and mindsets and
moves and actions that we have all laid
out to you and our PDFs on sexual
escalation so definitely definitely
check those out now let's get into our
third phase of what we're gonna look at
our situations so one of the easiest
ways to tell if a girl wants to sleep
with you or not is what situation she's
allows herself to get in with you or she
initiates so either of these two man
green green light for me to start moving
into those actions and mindsets to
escalate get sexual and all the
different things we do to ensure that we
have a great sexual experience with her
so the first one is going to be that she
isolates you so if you meet her let's
say at a coffee shop at a bar you she
meets you at work or whatever it is but
she initiates something like a mode of
isolation we'll wanted to come back to
me with the AH to the office why don't
you come back to me or with me I'm sorry
to the the cafe I'm going to get
something to eat if you're at a bar and
she says we'll come over here where it's
quiet this would again tell
me that I need to start engaging in my
path of escalation that I need to start
taking actions to get sexual to build to
the right set of steps to get to the
bedroom so we could have a great sexual
experience the second thing which is
absolute that will absolutely 100% mean
that she wants to sleep with you is if
she agrees to go back to your place or
take you to her place on a date guys I
can't tell you how many times this
happens and even when it engages that
part of the verbal tell which is
bringing up sexual boundaries because
usually she's like let's go back to my
place but I don't sleep with anybody on
the first date or I don't sleep with
guys that or don't get the idea that
you're gonna sleep with me I don't do
that and blah blah blah blah blah if
those things happen man take the path of
escalation that we map out for you watch
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I'm Steve Meyer signing off thank you
guys so much for watching
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